10 Style Mistakes That Make You Look Like You Have Given Up

[@sparklie962]

I emerged from a year and a half of working from home with a 100% given-up wardrobe. I was horrified by the prospect of returning to the office in my old, worn, way too big, sloppy clothes. That's why started searching youtube for style advice and found Marie-Anne! With her help, I figured out my body shape and bought some tailored trousers, dark wash jeans and a few flattering tops. I've been slowly building my wardrobe since. My ultimate goal is to wind up with a wardrobe I love as much as Marie-Anne loves hers!

[@assiyakaiyrgali668]

I started watching your channel when I was pregnant, since then I started rebuilding my wardrobe and became much happier person

[@assiyakaiyrgali668]

Thank you very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤for your influence on my life

[@annem7806]

I have a lifetime supply of pajamas, thanks to the pandemic.

[@catherinenewman6516]

I never wear ripped or distressed clothes and own nothing with cartoon characters or brand advertising

[@bellathereader1328]

“Comfort does not have to be ugly.” I love this video. Some strong words but so true!!

[@michelleclark8099]

Yes. She won with that!

[@evarene07]

Comfort can be American stylish and doesn’t have to be compared to what others see as “given up.” Respectfully, it’s rather pretentious to assume every woman who wears a certain aesthetic doesn’t care about how she looks.

[@ClaudiaArnold]

@@evarene07 I think in many cases the difference is quite evident. For example, there is an older lady in the recorder ensemble I play in and she wears only very loose clothing. However, they are all linens or even handspun wool, and the pieces are put together with some thought. Though she has that superorganic cottagecore style, decides not to tolerate anything binding and shows nothing of her shape - at 75 and with two knee replacement joints I can understand this - she does not look as if she has given up. Then there are people who really do not care or do not like to spend money on clothing - witness somebody with a superexpensive ultrabook on their lap and shoes from the Dollar Tree practically falling off their feet - and that is their business. However, at a job interview or in a position with customer contact or even when entering a shop or a restaurant, a person dressed from the clearance bin of an athletic wear shop *will* be judged, be that unjust or not. Dressing just one notch better than my surroundings - and it is really easy nowadays, when wearing good jeans and a real sweater instead of sweatpants earns you the question "Oh, going somewhere special today?" - has brought me a lot of advantages in my (self-employed) life.

[@michellethaler1832]

I am glad you used the term "lazy", because this is exactly what it is - being lazy. Here in the US, everything goes which is just euphemism for being lazy and not caring.

[@didreams969]

please, it is not always laziness … I am old now yet still fight with myself about caring for my appearance against the ingrained belief from birth [from my mother] that it is wrong, in fact a sin to look at oneself in the mirror,, that’s it’s selfish to think about yourself etc etc and even though I now ‘ know ‘ this is not so , doesn’t negate the damage that has been caused.

[@audreyheart2180]

@@didreams969 i'm so sorry .. 🥲🤕 🎇To learn to say this: "I understand how you feel ♥" .. our purpose in life is. 🎇

[@bellathereader1328]

I completely agree!!

[@carmelasantana3091]

I agree, and I also think it's kind of a panic response: People don't know how to put together a decent outfit anymore, or think that, if they do, someone will point it out ("Ooh, so fancy, are you interviewing, blah blah...") so they lean into the "comfortable" narrative.

[@didreams969]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur thank you, I had never thought of it that way , even though I have a deep faith .

[@odala8245]

This is the first time I watched your channel and its exactly what I needed to hear. I'm currently home on maternity leave with my 9 month old boy and pregnant with the second baby. Yesterday I had epiphany and realised that I've given up on myself: no makeup for days, living in my pyjamas and joggers, just frumpy as heck. Today your video randomly popped up in my recommendations. You're godsend and although I'm 40 I agree with your advice. I feel too old for following fashion trends. I'm off to clear out all my tatty clothes and book an appointment with a hairdresser for a start, then shopping for some stylish maternity clothes.

[@lisamcallister6534]

You must have had at least two moments when you looked good....after all, you got pregnant twice. Right?! Do something nice for yourself!!

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I agree with you completely. After Covid lockdown I got rid of all my workout gear. I wear nice casual, because I’m retired but when I go out I dress up. I always like to look like I am stylish. I’m 67 this year!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I’m 62 and retired and also dress up to leave the house, always. I miss looking nice for work everyday, I always felt great in my put-together and polished outfits. It raises my mood to dress up a bit, for sure🙂

[@verapurrio5462]

Good morning Marie-Anne, let me say: Because of you I started to wear tailored trousers, red lipstick, Because of you I wear brighter colours like my first red pullover that I recently bought. I started to buy a little bit of new jewellery. Thank you so much for your supporting and helpful videos🤩

[@celiathirlwall3329]

Excellent video, Marianne! I always get up and get dressed for the day even if I'm not going out! My husband will ask me where I'm going and my reply...nowhere!! It just makes me feel so much better! Worth the effort!!

[@bellathereader1328]

I feel exactly the same!

[@nikkisue1715]

I do the same thing. I am retired, but I want to wear my clothes, so I dress for my day even if I don't leave the house.

[@joyceshields9156]

I totally agree with every one of your observations. Even when I was overweight, I abhorred looking sloppy and floppy, but had no idea how to look better. Losing the weight and finding you has been a huge boost to my self esteem. The trends of torn clothes, baggy everything, and going out of the house in pajamas have never been my thing, but I was stuck in a rut of flowy tops and jeans. I feel so much better about myself wearing tucked in shirts and sweaters that fit. Belts are my friends now. Thank you,Marie-Anne!

[@adeeperlook5866]

By watching this very video, I just transformed my thoughts from a giving-up wardrobe to thoughts of a new wardrobe that inspires me and propels me with greater confidence of who I am. Just BRILLIANT you are, MarieAnne? Lecoeur! I simply adore you and your advice!

[@carmelasantana3091]

Excellent insight! I moved to another country and started to overhaul my style and overall look. My public wardrobe is almost where I want it, so I've started concentrating on my at-home clothes- yikes! I've started asking myself, "Would I be happy to open the door looking as I do right now?" If the answer is "No", then I think about the elements that give me pause. I feel I have a better understanding of what I need to purchase/maintain to be comfortable at home without looking like I've just woken up from a bad sleep.

[@CoffeesChypresBooks]

Anne-Marie, I have gone beyond giving up - I’ve gone feral. Thank you for this timely reminder to dress for each day.

[@TarynsTime]

I'm 53 and have recently become guilty of much of this due to being sick. I could never wear ripped jeans though. I don't understand why it's still "trendy" and even feeling my worst it, as you said, distressses me also.

[@repentbeforeitstoolate..8239]

Ripped jeans l wore those 36y's ago!. 🙄the eye roll is for me ,not you miss Marie - Anne♥️

[@maryokeefe5351]

I hope you will be feeling better soon.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Yes, they should be called “distressing jeans”, not “distressed jeans”. I hate seeing them on people, it just encourages that “I don’t care what I look like” lie that everyone in my community buys into. I notice that women who dress like that spend many hours a day on elaborate makeup, hairstyling and nails, just to wear crappy old gym clothes - they care plenty!🙂

[@jenniferharvey431]

A very timely video for me Marie-Anne. Today I have been in the grip of January blues and ashamed to say have not bothered with anything. I will pull myself together and imagine you are watching! Thank you for these reminders xx🥰

[@donnamurphy1871]

I as well!

[@sparklie962]

Awww, Jennifer, I've felt like that in the past too! You are not alone. I hope you find something lovely that inspires you and puts a smile on your face.

[@martasampaio3043]

Thanks Marie-Anne for your gentle style reminders ! Things in the UK aren’t looking good style wise and so quite a few french brands have closed down their stores ( i was actually mourning when comptoir des cotonnier shut down its last store in London) so I now take advantage of any trip back home to replenish mine and my daughter’s wardrobe with true quality basics. I’ll admit to it, the only time I embrace some degree of frumpiness is to walk my puppy at the park ( old coat, wellies and leggings) because I don’t want to ruin my nicer clothes with mud and I get changed immediately after.

[@maddieq7894]

Marie-Anne, you are so right! I went on vacation and I made it a point to dress nicely (well-cut and properly tailored) and to put on some make-up every day, and I felt fabulous!

[@elainebines6803]

When I was in France I was mistaken for being French! As I'm from UK I thought it was a lovely compliment

[@SueRosalie]

Goals!

[@FS-rb2bh]

I confess that when I started teleworking (I'm a computer engineer and I always telework) I made some mistakes (leggings, tracksuits, sweatshirts, wide garments, knitwear...), it was faster and very comfortable to be at the computer for many hours. But I realized that it really made me too lazy, we got used to it and we already do it as a rule, we don't look good so we left or abandoned each other in a more general way and we feel bad or depressed. So I took the rule of dressing well every day (or decent as we say in my country) even if it's for teleworking, telestudying, or just going to the bakery. And the truth: I feel much better and I'm prettier in general

[@suzieq2493]

Your hair looks very pretty today! Great video. Thank you for reminding us to be our best every day

[@epriedane]

Recently in the library I was looking at Vogue magazine from autumn of last year. And most of the information in the magazine contradicted what you are talking about. There were even brides in sneakers or boots with very thick soles and sizes 45 +…😱 It's good that there are people like you! I am sure that this is not only your work, but in fact you are a supporter of femininity and harmony. Thank you. 🌏🕊

[@epriedane]

I agree with you, what is shown is not always people put on themselves, it makes sense to show a fashion trend at fashion shows, the elements will be picked up by clothing and footwear companies. Therefore, both on sale and in public, we see what you do not recommend wearing.

[@teresabarrett3266]

Dear ​Elena, What you said is true enough. I completely enjoy finding treasures of higher quality than I can afford retail. Having a keen eye at resale shops, has worked for me. Although, undergarments must be invested in. I love what Ms. Marie-Anne said: “Style is Art”. Enjoy ❤

[@lilymaniquis8460]

@@teresabarrett3266 we set by

[@karlabritfeld7104]

Brides in sneakers. Only an American would do that

[@shawnjamehdor7311]

Despite being retired, and just recently finding you (a little over two years ago), I was already there with you on some of 10 things you mention , and since then I have implemented the rest. I like to express myself through what I wear, but also be comfortable, and you have been so informative and helpful. One thing I am working on is skin care and wearing at least lipstick and mascara more often.

[@YvonneAbner-fg2oy]

Thank you!! I needed this

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

You're very welcome Yvonne x

[@jmw1683]

I love listening to you. You could read from a cook book and I would still enjoy it. Thx for all your great advice. Even adaptable on a budget

[@YaelDavid-n9j]

Well, I never use any makeup at all, but I looooove it that way. I only ise moisturizer. But I do understand that it works for me and no for everyone

[@mairianncullen8753]

Me, too

[@carolalvarez3925]

I love your videos and wonder why anyone who isn't into fashion would be here and critique the message and tips you have to help us always look our very best. I have witnessed the slobification of America over the years. I cringe at some of the clothes women wear to go shopping. What happened to us? The overweight women who wear skin tight leggings and short tops? The sloppy tops over sloppy pants with flip flops in the middle of winter? I could go on and on. Just look at those old black and white movies where women dressed up ..even wore hats and gloves. Thank you for your videos and wonderful advice to keep us classy and well dressed.

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

This is a great video! I work from home, and for days I don’t want to wear makeup, I wear the following for my no-makeup look: Erno Laszlo Shake-It Tinted Serum, a long-lasting mauve lipstick, and either mascara or oil on my lashes. I still dress as if I’m in the office because I do have a lot of video meetings with clients.

[@MaureenEdden]

Marie-Anne do you have a video for petite ladies? I love your blogs.

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

I have a whole playlist for my lovely Petites on my channel page 😃

[@lorrieorr3753]

Bonjour Marie-Anne, A timely video for the sometimes dull days in January. I find that putting on a bit of makeup and dressing first thing in the morning prepares me for the day. Unless I'm very very ill, I always get dressed in the morning, even if I plan on staying home all day. Love your advice, and you look chic and comfortable in your sweater! Thank you for reminding me to always make an effort.

[@katyagutierrez4583]

Bonjour Marie-Anne! I saw your video on giving up. I'm one of those people who gave up in the past 3 yrs. My husband was battling cancer in the middle of the pandemic which meant that we went into near total isolation whilst he was receiving cancer treatment. Thankfully, he is a lot better now. Hopefully winning this war. After 3 yrs of isolation I got really depressed & nearly gave up until recently. I was the pajamas, yoga pants, no wearing lipstick, lady. No one would believe I used to be a diva. Recently, i started coming out of my shell. Your video has given me a "shot in the ass" to dress better and hopefully find that elegant diva i once was. Thank you so much!!!

[@katyagutierrez4583]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur 😘

[@annieoakley3516]

I have to admit to a weakness of mine: sometimes I like to dress in loose clothes, even though my figure is quite good for mid-60. I love the cosy feeling that underneath the XL clothes, I have a nice body only I know about. Doesn't really make sense, I know! But I often dress in fitted clothes too, and I take a lot of your excellent advice. Merci Marie-Anne!

[@baydreamer01]

Your comment on the ugly sandals made me laugh. Agree!! I have a gray sweater like the one you are wearing. I don't wear leggings or the other mistakes, and I love my BB cream.

[@patmuscarella8279]

There are no homely women only lazy ones. I loved your video. What I hear from my lazy friends when it comes to putting a little effort into their look is "to much trouble " who cares what I look like" ect. Thank you for "caring".

[@teresabarrett3266]

Excellent video Ms. Marie-Anne❤ “Style is Art.” I was noticing your environment around you. I took great pleasure in the color pallets I saw. I enjoyed looking at your footwear. Your use of color & texture is just lovely. Everything thing about you Ms. Marie-Anne demonstrates the “I care” attitude. Thank You for encouraging us to “not give up”. I appreciate your artistry. ❤ Take Care, teresa 🙋‍♀️🇺🇸❤️🇫🇷

[@kateveneroso5754]

dear marie-ann, as a plus size woman I discovered belts! I am dedicated customer of Torrid. lately I have found that as they have changed their designer, she has a special catagory of work clothes, which I find follows,I you rules, and cause of this I see older women shopping there! For example, this fall there were four different sorts of blazers, a long one, a middle one, a short at the waist one. They came in the colors of the season, matched pants. Discovering my waist has been a joy. Becausse of this new design/buyer at this complany, it has changed everything! She keeps it simple. Thank you thank you.

[@kateveneroso5754]

Yes this is quite true! I find that even ladies who are plus size seem to not understand "fit". I am not talking tightly fitted clothes but comfortable fitted clothes. Since I have been watching and carefully observing your advice, I no longer purchase clothing that do not have a good fit, (even if I love the piece!). If I love the garment: I take a photo of this garment and take it to a tailor! I get a price cost for fitting for me personally! If it is too costly, I wait until the garment is totally on sale. Then I can have it tailored but still within my cost! Sigh! I never thought I would own a moto leather coat! But I purchased one and of course it was too large! So, instead of settling with the larger size, I sent it back for a size smaller! It worked! Now it is may fav coat! It is all cause of your advice and consideration.

[@marilyncoburn4936]

Bonjour, I would love not to ever wear sneakers but age and knee problems have dictated what I wear. I can’t walk in any heels and flats don’t have the support. I’d love suggestions on any shoe other than sneakers and outfits that are elevated with. I firmly believe an outfit starts with the shoes. You are right, lipstick is essential. Thanks

[@karlabritfeld7104]

Aerosoles shoes. Comfortable and fashionable.

[@janicecoulson5388]

I to have arthritis, I always feel frumpy in flat shoes. Although I have found sketchers Mary Jane's are comfy and a bit more stylish

[@mirandapillsbury7885]

I 100% needed this video. I have been wearing very lazy and sloppy clothing because I gained 10 pounds recently and I feel very ugly. I am working out again to lose the 10 pounds and hopefully will build back my confidence.

[@mirandapillsbury7885]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur I will for sure! Thank you so much Marie-Anne

[@rebeccalee5320]

Thank you. This affirms me and my style. Last fall I chose to upgrade my clothes. My every day activities call for very casual clothing. But I've decided I seriously needed a change. It's still casual, but not dumpy. I never went to leggings. I've always put on my makeup no matter how I needed to dress. Thank you again.🤓

[@karlabritfeld7104]

One day all your new clothes will look dumpy and you'll have lots of dumpy clothes.

[@tinajoneswilliams4253]

In a phrase, "make an effort." Xoxo

[@gardeneroflight]

Almost all makeup makes my skin itch like crazy! Every once in a blue moon I try again with a product that promises to be an itch less wonder.... so far I'm still bare faced.

[@mairianncullen8753]

Me, too. For me, no make-up is not about giving up, but what is best for my sensitive skin.

[@madgemcgowan9180]

Same here ​@@mairianncullen8753

[@TheDailyConnoisseur]

I love this title, Marie-Anne. You are always so spot on! Love you, Jennifer

[@MC14772]

Thank you, dear Marie -Anne, for your uplifting words and encouragement. I have been feeling under the weather lately because of pains and am scheduled for hip replacement surgery February 8th. I need to remind myself that things will be fine and that I will build myself up again. Have a great Sunday. ❤

[@angelaandrei2181]

Thank you Marie-Anne for this so,so real video! Everything you said is so true. Today women pay less attention to their clothes, style, or follow the fashion totally wrong. I know a bunch of them I would like to send this video, but I am not sure they will follow your advices!

[@JesusistheLambofGod]

You are like a fashion angel I always needed. I am so trying to change.

[@ulrikawidnersson4148]

I’ve always said “life is too short for boring shoes”. The same goes for clothes. I however think it is easy to loose style after 50. “Can I wear this without being pathetic?” I felt I needed to re-invent my style to fit me in my current life situation (and shape…). Thank you Marieanne for your inspiration!

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

💯👍

[@ashiklal260]

Great advice! I am a European who moved to New Zealand years ago and I was stunned by how "let-go" people dress! Shopping in payama bottoms or barefoot are a normal thing in many places. Fast and cheap fashion rules. Initially I (who used to dress up to buy bread) found these sloppy trends quite liberating but very soon I was back to my roots!

[@b.comeau2597]

I despise ripped up jeans! I do wear leggings and flannel shirts at home but never ever when I step,put into the public eye. Even going to the doctor, I wear nice clothes.

[@trixi1608]

That would sure be a culture shock to me.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

My dad was German. He used to change our if his laying around the house clothes to go buy groceries. He'd change into nicer clothes. I'm the same way

[@LifeLessonsFromBooks]

You are so right about sneakers. Thanks for calling it out. I thought it was just me. People are wearing them with everything now and when I don’t wear them, I feel “overdressed” compared to others. In Australia, we are so casual in our style that it’s so easy to feel out of place if you’re not in casual clothes and sneakers.

[@pamhuckle3029]

Have to, can't buy any other shoes that fit.

[@hazydreamer7965]

Chère Marie-Anne, how right you are. Too many women do not pay attention to their looks, which is truly unfortunate. I occasionally wonder, what to answer, when someone says: If I do not look acceptable to you in these clothes and no make-up on, I am natural. Take it or leave it, I do not care." Thank you for this video, I can hardly wait for the next one. ❤

[@tanyahouston5635]

100% agree! You have confirmed that I haven’t given up! I can’t leave the house without wearing lipstick. I own one sweatshirt for wearing at the beach. Can’t stand sweatpants, ripped clothes, cropped pants, too tight clothing and messy buns.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

I wear makeup to mow the lawn!

[@monikaraible4498]

Shapeless dresses we call potatoe bags in Germany, and who wants to appear in public as a potatoe? 😂 The issue with the elastic waistbands on trousers, a thing I won‘t be seen dead in, is also that they are cheaper to produce that is why the industry is so eager to adopt them and tries to sell them to us all. Thank you so much, Marie-Anne for this video, it‘s spot-on!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I just can’t fit any trousers that don’t have some elastic at the back, at least. Trousers are made for a waist 12” smaller than the hips, I’m more like 6-7” smaller because of my very short waist and skinny hips. I have to size up at least two sizes to fasten the waist in non-stretch-waistband trousers, which look ridiculous on me. They give me Dumbo Ears, big empty flaps of fabric sticking out from my hips and the thighs will be double the circumference of what I need. This is why I prefer skirts and dresses, but sometimes I have to wear trousers, which are a nightmare to find.

[@naomicaldwell1445]

Thank you, kindly. Yesterday, I thought about how I watched you teach about style from your loveseat during the lockdown. And I wished you would again. This video is right on time. The information is helpful. I refuse to give up. Lol 😆

[@annem3354]

Thank you Marie Anne! You are spot on with the style mistakes. I don’t understand the love for leggings here in the U.S. I was recently looking at an elegant tuxedo jacket and a stylist actually suggested it would look great with a pair of black leggings. Oh my!

[@cassburlington5678]

Loved this video Marieanne, thank you. Was feeling like giving up as I have had health problems, but you have encouraged me so much as usual. 💜

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

I’m sorry that you’re dealing with that; I hope things improve for you! I’ve had chronic health issues for 30+ years, serious enough to keep me out of the workforce and semi-homebound much of the time. It can be devastating to one’s self-esteem. Rather than ignoring wardrobe and makeup, though, I’ve taken the opposite approach. When I do feel well enough to go out -even if it’s only to run errands or go to a medical appointment- I treat the day as a mini-vacation from my often difficult and too-restricted everyday life. I plan my outfit days ahead of time, choosing something that makes me feel my best and is fun to wear. I lay everything out the day before, down to ‘preloading’ my makeup brushes, to make it easier to get out the door the next day. A stop at my favorite coffee shop, bookstore, or lunch at my favorite restaurant adds to the mini-vacation experience and I go home tired but mentally refreshed. You deserve to still feel like *you,* despite your health challenges. Hang in there! ❤️

[@cassburlington5678]

@@altitudeiseverything3163 thank you so much for your ideas. I have hoped that you health will improve over the next few months as I am having a new treatment now. I am making sure that I dress well and wear make-up whenever I go out at all, and, thanks to Marieanne I now dress better at home. Thanks for the lift your comments gave me. 💌

[@vernakg]

Most makeup has chemicals I am allergic to, and most mascara make my eyes swell....

[@mairianncullen8753]

Same for me! I never wear make-up but I do moisturise and feel happy with that..

[@sherryobar5750]

"Style is art" so true! Thanks for the video :)

[@Silvia-gz4rp]

Marie-Anne you look fab! Love your hair cut and lipstick! And love all you gift us!

[@joanannewallace]

You are exactly right, and I agree. I always make an effort and last week a man and his wife came up to me and complimented me on how I looked. He said you can tell you have made an effort. It was nice for a stranger to take notice and say so.

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

Hoe lovely Joan 😃

[@trixi1608]

🤗🤗🤗

[@gailwilliams5278]

Your hair looks amazing in this presentation. You look so relaxed and bright.

[@bernadetteobrien9296]

Marie-Anne I appreciate your pearls of wisdom. Merci!

[@tm0855]

Thank you for this! Clear, to the point, and solutions to fix the problems.

[@threepurrs]

This video is excellent…. Thanks Marie-Anne 💕

[@daphnepearce9411]

I guess I'm guilty of falling into a shoe rut. I bought a pair of really cute ankle boots and wear them often. They have a little bit of a heel and I love how it affects my walk. I feel more confident in them....and yes, they're comfortable. :-) Thank you!

[@judymooney2993]

I recently visited France, Bourdeaux area, and fell in love with women and girls wearing tights under dresses. So stylish and looked so put together.

[@cindyboughen9933]

Love this, Marie-Anne! Every point is SO true!😍

[@barbarakidd1198]

Thank you yes I realise I’d stopped bothering with myself, I organised a capsule wardrobe, sorted my makeup like you to a simple no makeup makeup look then didn’t do , so this morning my hairstyles , makeup on and dressed to go shopping, needed the kick , thank you x

[@painteddaisy6889]

So good to see you...and you look fabulous! Thanks for the wonderful tips!

[@kauffrau6764]

I love putting together a nice outfit, and I am learning now how to do eyeliner. I put powder on my face. But, I don't wear lipstick...my lips are uneven from a childhood accident, and I don't want to draw attention to them. My eyes are my best feature, so I am focusing on them. I enjoy your channel and always learn something helpful and inspiring!

[@christinahopflinger7101]

Thank you so much! You are so right ✅️ 👏 !

[@angelabayern]

Agree with you 100%, the very first piece of advice in my opinion would be “be aware of your posture no matter what clothes are you wearing”, of course as we age we need to cope with some problems and gravity seems to be heavier on us, oh dear!. Thanks for your content Marie-Anne.

[@soskika419]

Madame Lecoeur, you are fantastic!!!! Best wishes from Brazil!!!!!!

[@ruthberanek13]

I work flex, sometimes at home and sometimes at the office. Love this video it helped.

[@Dianne-j4l]

Thank you, Marie-Anne. I admire your straight to the point honesty. Yes, as women some of us have become lazy. Anything will do :( I enjoy thinking about my clothes choice each day and plan my week in advance. I have worked from home since 2020 and still dress each day including makeup and hair. It makes me feel professional and that I care. PS I’m 65 :)

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

Merci Dianne - I will always say it as I see it 🙏 but my intention is always critique never criticism, help not hinder 😘

[@patmuscarella8279]

Marrianne. It's me again. One important piece of advice if I had to give any would be a good stylish HAIRCUT. If your cut is frumpy and out dated your clothes can't save you. Your hair cut marrianne is flattering for the shape of your face an has some zing to it giving you a modern edge. I am 80but no one would guess. My hair is well taken care of trimmed an colored every 5 weeks. A good precision cut is essential .

[@suebladon3593]

Hi, I love your softer hairstyle in this video, I think it makes you look younger and very approachable. The soft fringe is very flattering on you and draws attention to your beautiful eyes.

[@elisabethkraxner107]

A very good video! I am a very great fan of you. Thank you very much for these words. Elisabeth 🇦🇹

[@jacqueline8559]

I was a midwife, a job i loved. Every day I'd dress with care, just to travel to work! I've had to take early retirement ,due to ill health. Recently I had another stroke. Depression led me to not even leave my house, or even my bed! Tomorrow I'm going outside, and out for lunch, for the first time of leaving home in 2 months.! I wear nightwear every day, because its just too much , healthwise, to make up and dress well. All this just increases my low self worth and depression. Tomorrow i shall wear a pretty dress, shoes and handbag. Ive freshly washed my hair, which ill restyle. Im going to wear makeup and red lipstick ( my favourite) Time to invest in improving my own health ! Thank you

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

Bonjour Jacqueline - style works on us from the outside in - by dressing better we feel better and from the inside out - as we feel better we increase our confidence and make bolder style decisions 😃 it is a positive reinforcement cycle that works wonders 😃 I hope you have a lovely time in your pretty dress - and if you feel up to it why not send me a selfie in your outfit 🤗 [e-mail]

[@mikelobrien]

Marie-Anne, your new hairstyle is very flattering to you! I do my best to look presentable when I go out and always dress in clean, well-fitting comfortable clothes even when I stay home. I don't judge others' clothing choices because I realize that there are myriad reasons for it. "Lazy" may mean depressed, wearing oversized may have something to do with trauma. I try to find one thing to compliment a woman on, so she knows she's not invisible. I think we've all felt invisible at least once in our life. I've been watching your videos for years now and love your professional French chic tips (and the new merch!). Keep the inspiration coming! ❤️

[@audreyheart2180]

🎇To learn to say this: "I understand how you feel ♥" .. our purpose in life is. 🎇

[@audreyheart2180]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur 🥰💋

[@mikelobrien]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur I absolutely understand that your profession requires critiques of style. I wished to share a couple of possible underlying reasons for a woman's unstylish clothing choices besides "laziness." Some ladies are doing the best they can given their circumstances and it costs nothing to pay a compliment. 😊🙏❤️

[@mikelobrien]

@@MarieAnneLecoeur 🥰😘

[@mishti06]

Although I do totally agree Marie Anne I do want to point out something in regards to loose clothing (no disrespect at all). It doesn't always mean we have given up...but when you live in a climate where every day of summer is over 35°c, hot and humid, the last thing you feel like is wearing anything that hugs your body. And open sandal shoes are the same. I do agree it can look frumpy but it's so hard to look chic with sweat rolling off your body and make up peeling off your face. Can you give us hot climate girls some useful tips of how to dress to stay cool AND look chic????

[@francehoude5898]

Bonjour Marie-Anne, je viens juste de voir tous vos vidéos sur KZbin!!! Ils sont fantastiques! Je sais que vous êtes de la France, quand à moi je suis québécoise! J'espère que c'est ok que je vous parle en français? C'est plus facile pour moi! J'ai regardé environ 4 de vos vidéos et je suis accroc! :) J'ai 68 ans et je travaille de chez moi, je fais de la couture pour d'autres personnes. Avec vos vidéos, je me suis rendue compte que je ne portais que de vieux vêtements, avec des souliers de course, et sans maquillage! J'aime beaucoup le style dont vous nous parlez et je pense que c'est une excellente idée de s'habiller ainsi. Je suis certaine que changer ce que je porte fera en sorte que j'aurai plus de clientèle! Je vous remercie encore! Encore Merci!!! Merci! France Houde

[@Francesca_Dante_Brando]

Thank you, Marie Anne!! ❤

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

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[@reina3729]

Totally agree with you. Let's be the best version of ourselves every day - even at home!

[@mariastathopoulos744]

There are 2 style 'mistakes' that l wholeheartedly disagree with. I am 53 years old. In terms of cosmetics for everyday, l only use moisturiser and lip balm. On special occasions l will use a BB, lipstick and mascara. My face has natural pink colour in the cheeks, my skin is blemish free and can breathe. My self confidence is strong. I like how l look just as l am. I have gray hair. I consider myself attractive. I have NOT given up on myself. In Australia our summer can be very hot, from 36' to 42' degrees Celsius. Loose clothing in cotton and linen keeps us cool and fresh. It would look ridiculous to wear close fitted clothing on such days, not to mention the perspiration.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

If you have so much self confidence then why do you bother listening to someone else's advice?

[@mariastathopoulos744]

@@karlabritfeld7104 l can hear another point of view and either agree or disagree. On this topic, l disagree.

[@anniebellis273]

Bon Jour, Marie-Anne, I have felt all these things and am currently in a transitional period in my life. I am trying new things, and trying to make an effort. I have a few items I want to incorporate into my wardrobe.

[@janeorson5452]

I heartily agree with everything you've said, Marie-Anne. I think Covid made women (and men!) very lazy here in the UK, and it was too easy to spend a work day in casual clothes, pyjamas or jeans. I'm glad I've been fortunate to have stayed at work during this time. I find it helps to plan ahead, too, and I know what I'm going to wear for the week ahead and any special events I may have coming up. This way I can make sure everything is washed and ironed, that I don't go to wear something and find a button is hanging off or something and I can plan what accessories to wear with it. Unfortunately in the UK we've become very American, instead of French, so all the young people want to dress like Kim Kardashian. I live in a city with a big sporting university, so it's very common to see women walking around in leggings, and they look dreadful. Even worse, in the past summer (which was very hot!) there were girls walking around in what looked basically like a bra and leggings, it was appalling! What on earth is going on?!

[@SueRosalie]

ikr here in Australia I've seen young girls wearing a bra as a fashion top. Last week I was grocery shopping and there was a girl wearing pyjamas in the grocery store, and it was lunch time.

[@maryokeefe5351]

So true. These days it is difficult to find any fitness top, suitable for an exercise class, that is not just a bra. Yuck!

[@Lisa59]

@@maryokeefe5351 I like to wear what I call fitted t shirts - those that are tighter and not loose and baggy - when I exercise

[@martasampaio3043]

I concur with you Jane. Here in the UK a lot of people do look like they have given up on themselves. When it’s not athleisure for every single occasion it’s people looking like a pale imitation of a Kardashian and there is not much else in between. This is also reflected in my view on the offer of clothes available on the high street, usually rather poor quality at quite high prices 😢

[@derbywinner6316]

Tackiness is going to be fashionably now 🙄

[@ceciliabustos9979]

I just want to let you know how much I appreciate your videos You are an elegant and sophisticated lady. I like your advice. I am 77 years young and I love to dress well. Thank you. Thank you. Cecilia B. Yonkers, NY❤

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

You are very welcome Cecilia 🤗

[@charlottegalletbroussard4305]

“Style is art.”❤

[@claudia5446]

Fabulous advises! In make up I would add mascara. I totally agree with the sneakers obsession. There are shoes brands that are orthopaedic and extremely comfortable even in heels: Geox, tamaris, Clarks, wonders. And if you add a special Scholl shoe beding all shoes become comfortable.

[@marymaddy7450]

Thank you for sharing these beautiful tips.❤❤

[@alp7928]

You describe perfectly how people dress in the city I live, San Francisco CA. Everybody walks around wearing workout clothes and trainers, even to the nice restaurants, is awful and yes, lazy.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

And disrespectful to the restaurants

[@saanetahaafe3863]

You’re absolutely right. I usually don’t wear any now I am and I feel great just as you say thank you Marie-Anne ❤

[@sandrarobinson7481]

Your hair and makeup are especially nice in this video and you really suit the jumper. You are definitely leading by example! 🌺Good video with great tips.

[@margaritavalcheva]

That lipstick and that sweater looked so beautiful on you! Thank you for the lovely video! ❤

[@marticooper4468]

💯 All sooo true! People even go out to the market in their pjs. When did it become acceptable to wear pjs to the airport?! Honestly so embarrassing because I know it’s mostly people from the US that do that. Our laissez faire attitude has gone way too far.

[@susanyakus7364]

What a great video! Thank you, thank you, thank you, for telling women to get rid of those ripped jeans. They are horrid. I cannot even imagine paying good money, for no fabric. I agree that leggings are out of style and probably only flatter young girls. Thankfully, I never fell into the pajama trap. Only when the day is done! Even during the pandemic I got up every day, put on makeup, did my hair and dressed, If you don't look good, you won't feel good. Good job Marie-Anne!

[@denisadellinger4543]

You got me. Marie Anne. I have by no means quit caring what I look like and I have not given up by any means, but my life has gotten smaller since I moved to my mountain. I stay at home much of the time but I do go out to the little town. I try to dress up and look decent when I go to a larger town and when I go to church. I love dressing up for church. Most of the time I do wear big T shirts and knit pants. And God bless Lycra. When I worked, I never went out without my makeup on. But I enjoy letting my face breath. When I worked at a Childrens Day care facility, mothers used to bring their children in, wearing pajama bottoms and bedroom shoes or flip flop shoes. I used to say to myself, Girl, you've given up! Don't give up!

[@meredith18352]

I agree with you Denisa, I will dress up to go in to town, I never wear pyjamas unless in bed but I need to be careless and comfortable in my own home. I haven't given up on myself, I exercise daily and look after my health inside and out but I need to relax at home.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I have become so lazy and haven’t worn makeup since the lockdowns began, just my daily sunscreen. I know that even just blush and lipstick make a big difference on too-pale me. A little under-eye concealer helps a lot, too, I have those bad, genetic dark circles. I’m going to make an effort to resume wearing at least this much everyday (eye makeup is a big problem for me, it’s hard for me to tolerate, so I only wear mascara and shadow/liner for special occasions.

[@pamhuckle3029]

With you on the makeup, especialy near my eyes, due to allergies, use moisturizer and lip balm only.

[@janeostin9841]

I absolutely agree wirh you. That is just what I think. Thanks a lot!

[@emilyevans6989]

I’d just like to say your hair looks FABULOUS!

[@mariannetandon1518]

Hello, are you planning the "10 Badass looks for women over 50" video????

[@acgallan]

Bonjour Marie-Anne. This is such a great video with many excellent points on fashion and how people choose comfort over fashion. In North America, many people will buy clothes directly off the rack without getting them tailored, and so they end up with clothing that does not fit their body properly. Then they end up just wearing gym clothes instead because their non-tailored clothing does not fit them properly. Been there, done that. Lol If only they took the time to properly tailor their clothing, or buy fewer items but of higher quality, or even take the time to slip on a pair of leather loafers they would feel so much better. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos and give us great ideas and inspiration.

[@MarieAnneLecoeur]

Proper fit is key AC a good seamstress is worth her weight in gold 🤗

[@Sabrina.LC17]

Thank you for the great message!

[@chelsacytherea4284]

I never commented on KZbin until now as I would like to thank you for making this vid. I used to be very stylish until pandemic hit and that's when I went into lazy mode and wear only lounge wear even after everything is back to normal where I live. I no longer care to dress properly when I'm merely running errands and only dress up when I need to go to the city. And your vid literally gave me a much needed tight slap to wake me up from my nonsensical behaviour. I'll start to pay attentions on what I wear from today onwards. Once again, thanks alot! And you've just gain a new fan. 😊