Marriage: Communication

[@TaylorJames188]

1. Listen to the heart (quick to listen, slow to speak) 2. Trust your partners intent (believing they wouldn’t hurt you intentionally) 3. Give each other space (respect each other’s personal space/time) Great video for married couples, you guys are authentic people. 💯

[@brandon2893]

This video brought me to tears, had I followed these tips I would not have lost my marriage and my family, head this message brothers. Don't lose what God gave you.

[@DojoPastor]

My wife and I loved the video! Thank you & your wife for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you and for being so transparent. May God continue bless you both.

[@VaughnEdmeade]

That part where Nicole said "I decided to know" was life-giving!

[@sevengreen6664]

I love the transparency. So glad y’all didn’t edit the wife being real 😂😂😂😂 cause I would have likely said the same thing.

[@annettehalter2182]

THIS WAS SUCH A BLESSING!!! THANK YOU GOD!!! THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING GOD TO USE YOU MR. AND MRS. WILSON❤…. BLESSINGS

[@closely-stitched4088]

I was honored that my husband was trusting me...with his vulnerability...#powerful 💛

[@yoelbenyisrael9866]

Awesome upload! May Yah & Yahshua bless you both perennially! Numbers 6:24-26.

[@mattmayers3012]

Great stuff rule # LISTEN!!

[@mayabedoinstuff]

🙌🏾💙 thank you so much for posting this. This has done more for me than you will ever know.

[@ssnovaboyboy3429]

Brother Jason peace king me and few other younger gentleman like myself shared this video in a group chat of a few engaged couples. This video has helped us tremendously. We’re all 27-29 years of age. Please continue to make videos with your wive from time to time. We need to bare witness to this rawness more. I hope this reaches you in wellness king

[@williamjohnson5838]

Mr. Wilson that was good stuff right there. You and your wife are a beautiful match and it comes across that you are practicing what you preach.

[@pleasurepartytennine8677]

I LOVE THAT YOUR WIFE SAID THAT,STRONG MEN DO CRY IN THE DARK

[@Worshipyoutubetv]

Thank you so much for being transparent..

[@jajack9537]

Black family needs this truth Handsome powerful king Beautiful Queen

[@zabarisquest9508]

I've been using the word crucible for this intense trial me and my wife are going through. You used it in the first minute here and I felt the confirmation. Blessings to you and your wife.

[@ohcysp21178]

Mrs Wilson had a little of the hood come out of her at 9:18

[@jamestheradioman]

It was hilarious 😂

[@evagrace6847]

WOW! He certainly have a beautiful wife. She compliments him. The chemistry is amazing. Her feminine energy matches his masculine energy.

[@evagrace6847]

Her feminine energy matches his masculine energy.

[@jamestheradioman]

That Proverbs 10:19 hit heavy. Thanks Jason & Nicole. 09:07 Was hilarious 😂 😆

[@Rita_Johanna]

That's so real and connected! Beautiful! Thank you for not editing out the real moments!!!

[@Kingofprinciples]

I’m not gonna lie… I’ve been reluctant to commit because of my own way communication style. I’ve been working on being a better listener. Ive shut down a lot and wanna be more understanding. I come from a family that speaks very bluntly so it’s been hard to shift but I am committed to changing. I want to be a husband that is honoring his wife be4 the most high God.

[@williammcpherson1968]

That was so rich. Thank you.

[@1DivineE]

You all are such a blessing! Thank you for sharing this beautiful and important conversation.

[@blueskies773]

I love the way you speak to each other. Gently, carefully,in a way that reflects this is an authentic thing for you. Without pretense. I’m sure you have moments too. But this is the way I want to speak with a partner. Gives me hope to keep seeking

[@edifrost4637]

What an awesome message. True love, true transparency. I pray your marriage is Blessed beyond measure!

[@2Kelly4ful]

This is great. I adore the way you both interact. I am praying for my husband and I to communicate in such a way.

[@DonIzNice1804]

I appreciate how real and relatable you two are. Thank you ii

[@pilgrimpassingthru]

It all starts with respect. You must be open and honest to yourself about yourself. Understand she loves YOU for YOU, flaws and all.. and becoming of one mind, of one soul is one of the greatest gifts of God.

[@Mr.conserv]

when she slipped up at min 9 that was funny not gonna lie. Thanks for yalls video this is rare to see nowadays. God bless you both!!

[@yassirmohamed5887]

We have to fight to keep marriage sacred and holy. I'm muslim and I believe in virtue and vice, and what you're doing here is a virtue mr wilson. In Quran Allah says (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect)

[@waynebo248]

That was GOOD. Much needed in this time. I'm saddened to hear that so many couples have been pushed to the brink by this crisis. It makes me even more thankful for what God has done in my marriage.

[@sektonwandikbo7408]

lovely couple, thank you for being great role models!

[@sumernoel1553]

Well, it’s 8 months into this pandemic now as I’m seeing this. I would love to hear you speak on this more. For us, I feel the issue is reversed. I’ve been home the whole time, have put my work & art on the back burner, & am homeschooling our children. (Traditional homeschooling so our young children wouldn’t be sitting in front of screens all day). It’s been a huge undertaking. All of my stress outlets are gone & im struggling emotionally. I feel trapped, lonely for adult interaction, tired, & miss my gym, my space, my art. Now, we are blessed that my husband can work & we can afford for me to stay home with the kids and I’m grateful. However, I feel a weird resentment from him when I’m tired/beat down/uninspired. I wish I could always show my gratitude or always be positive. I think that might be what he expects from me & I guess I expect it of myself too. But truthfully, sometimes, I’m completely depleted and defeated (Covid + homeschooling + crazy election = emotional for me). I just want him to understand with a reassuring embrace but he is just emotionally shutdown. Always has been. Can’t handle hardly any depth of emotion. I just want him to see me & appreciate what I’m doing & tell me so. Instead, I feel judged as lazy, at home all day, seemingly doing nothing which couldn’t be further from the truth. Maybe that’s not how he feels but I wouldn’t know because his silence is deafening.

[@steelheart9582]

You should start by detaching yourself from things that neither you or your husband benefit from such as politics and career, your life and identity is suposed to be your family, secondly embrace the adversity that comes with motherhood and it will become your catharsis, its not a part a time job and thirdly stop being selfish, you speak about missing your outlets and your free time but neglect the fact that your husband is working to support all of you, perhaps he's not communicating because you only want to talk about yourself and how you feel, you want affirmation from your husband but when was the last time you praised and encouraged him or showed gratitude for the life he's given you and the sacrifices he's made, you're supposed to be each others vessels, pour into each other, stop expecting everything without offering nothing

[@sumernoel1553]

@@bdog98765 like I said, I'm grateful that I can stay home. (Actually, now I'm back to work) You are right about that. I hear you & know that all parents are struggling with whatever choices we have to do to get through this challenging time. There are no easy choices. I wish for you & all parents & the children a better road ahead.

[@sumernoel1553]

@@steelheart9582 you have some fair points....detaching from politics for example. Although, I'm finding that hard as I watch our communities ripped apart by division & hatred. I refuse to pretend these things aren't happening. That's just me. And my career? Just give it up like it's no big? Spoken like a man if you ask me. I worked my ass off for nearly 10 years to put myself through my bachelor's & masters against all odds to become what I'd always dreamed of being. My career is my mission as well as my family. I achieved that goal w no family support only to find the workforce doesn't work for mothers. So, yes, I find that hard & I don't feel shame about it. And selfish? Perhaps at times, but I also try to only speak of my experience. That may come across as selfish but I can only speak on my experience & I can only change myself truly. Finally, the judgy tone about my husband & I is reading into my comment what wasn't there.. I do praise my husband constantly. He is a wonderful person. What I said was in response to this video. Do I need to clarify every aspect of my situation to leave a comment? Perhaps people like you could allow for the fact that you are only getting a small slice of a multifaceted situation. There's always more to a story & that we shouldn't jump to conclusions about people we really don't know. My .02$.

[@sumernoel1553]

@@bdog98765 I hear you. But everyone is entitled to their own experience. Is raising kids also homeschooling through a pandemic? There are logistical maneuvers to homeschooling that are more than just taking care of kids & the house. And I was still trying to maintain part time side hustle so that I have a job to return to. I've never not worked since I was 14. It's who I am & a decision I only made to do the best I possibly could for my family. Do we have to invalidate another's situation to validate our own? What I learned from this pandemic is that every family has completely different circumstances to navigate. Family support/no support, flexible jobs/no flexible jobs, some kids have special needs while other families may have elderly parents to care for, on & on & on. So many varied situations & they all are valid.

[@sumernoel1553]

@@bdog98765 ok, I think I validated your experience but you are hell bent on disvalidating mine. Im glad all those things you listed would work for you & I hope that you can do that one day if you choose. My original comment was to the video touching on this topic to the content creator because I value his wisdom. Did you listen to the video? Perhaps you are missing the point. Attacking people I don't know on SM isn't my thing & frankly something we all need to do better on. Respectful discourse. Please note: I haven't spread any hateraid at you. I'd appreciate you not projecting yours on me.

[@michaelhodges8005]

Thank you both for sharing... We need to see more of this.. Keep it going ..love , trust with good intentions, communication, listening and hearing to each others, be patient with each others , and growing spiritual as each person is taking personal responsibility... This is Awesome..... I am a student for life..

[@valorgirl]

9:13!Too real! Lol love it.

[@ReigningGlory9083]

Your impromptu is marvelous! You both are genuinely sincere and really connected to one another. Sir, and Dear Lady you both epitomize what many strive to preserve and or desire in a marriage. I appreciate this 🙏

[@malcolm24568]

Please Father protect me and my wife. AMEN 🙌🙌✝✝🎇🎇

[@superflyohsofly]

Such a great approach and build up to how to stick together when indifferent. Truly helped me discuss some topics with my wife on how to be a better listener and trusting our intentions for one another. Thank you kindly, Aaron

[@CMarie_B]

Love seeing this! Thank you

[@yahushuaschosen4129]

Wow! I just stumbled on your page. Love you guys already and subscribed immediately. Looking forward to your content. We really need couples and channels like this. I am about to share with a friend. Thank you!

[@tkat191]

Y'all are a beautiful couple🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@candidwithglee2670]

Thank you 🙏🏾 both for your transparency. Beautiful couple inside and out. I pray that God continues to bless and keep you guys always ❤️

[@Kingofprinciples]

Thanks for sharing this video

[@t.kuykendall517]

Just wow. A praying man. Please don't ever break up. And please make more videos together.

[@DH-yr2tw]

Me and my wife just watched this. it was a blessing. thank you. does your wife have a channel? If not me and my wife agreed it would be a great idea. be well bretheren

[@kareemdavis5084]

Your number one should include delivery both ways.

[@BecomingBossC]

I love this! :) Best wishes on your many years ahead together.

[@lazarusfowsta]

Beautiful thank you 🙏🏽

[@germainesanders768]

Beautiful..... SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL!!

[@valormode735]

Wow brother, this is a powerful video. Well needed during this chaotic time. I thank God that you showed "real work and progress" instead of looking cute.

[@piscesnationearthangel]

Beautiful! Simply beautiful!

[@piscesnationearthangel]

I love her “realness” .

[@onewaycrook5880]

She’s authentic

[@OfficialKepa]

this was so helpful for me! thank you team! God bless

[@byronsmith1096]

"I decided to know" 🤯👌🏿💪🏿

[@TheBlessingReport]

Great video

[@absolodot6618]

I love you 2 so much thank you teachers

[@sgtbrownty]

Sir, please provide the beard care routine!🎅🏾 Great video by the way.

[@zohcold]

This was great. 👍🏾

[@atcarter75]

Beautiful!

[@LaWandaT]

Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Thoroughly enjoyed 🤎

[@analyticalmindset]

This was great

[@DoomedScholar]

This was really inspiring and helpful but one important question. Where do all the pillows go when y'all sleep in that bed? lol

[@Cave313]

✊🏾❤️

[@IMHIMZEL]

I admire your energy ⚡️

[@baronmoss1587]

Good meat. Keep feeding the world✌

[@williamrfearn]

Going to get your book this weekend, is there any other book you would recommend for a black man finding himself?

[@abcd-ss9rh]

The Bible.

[@WarriorSpiritPath]

🙏

[@donaldbesong8853]

I saw a video of someone teaching martial arts to kids. Was that you?

[@dougfinn7551]

So how does a man explain with to a woman they love them whom has been damaged by loss of trust?

[@nikkifranklin2737]

You can’t. If you have told her and shown her, it may be that you aren’t speaking her love language. It could also be an issue she has: She has to believe that she is worthy of love, She has to know what love actually means and what it looks like. Most importantly, she may need healing in some areas of her life that are hindering her from seeing/experiencing your love so PRAY for her. Pray to remove the strongholds and for deliverance. Fast and intercede for her.

[@steelheart9582]

You're not supposed to be with damaged women especially if they are not seeking therapy or any form of counselling, furthermore if a woman cannot trust you she cannot love you, attraction and lust has nothing to do with loyalty, you need to preserve your mental health and spiritual well-being, couples are supposed to pour into each others spirits it makes no sense pouring into a broken vessel because all the spiritual wine will be wasted and you will get nothing back when you're thirsty

[@abcd-ss9rh]

@@steelheart9582 God can heal everything, if He wishes to. Leaving people with issues behind is not the way of Jesus. Have more Faith that everyone can change if that is God's wish.

[@steelheart9582]

@@abcd-ss9rh really because I recall Jesus saying "follow me and let the dead Bury the dead" as well as "If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet."

[@abcd-ss9rh]

@@steelheart9582 There is a sugestion that the first verse means: "Let the spiritually dead bury (in a grave) the physically dead." I would not use it as proof, that if you love someone with issues of some degree higher than some threshold, you should just resign and find someone else. That's a weird love. As to the second, I believe it concerns evangelization, not finding a life partner. Doug Finn doesn't seem to say, she doesn't welcome Him or doesn't listen to His words. Just that She has trust issues. Sometimes patience is required. And this patience at the same time might be proof of trustworthiness to the other person. If you are not patient enough for someone's issues, then perhaps you should wonder about the quality of the love for that person.

[@johnnymayes6262]

Yall have a beautiful relationship your wife is A1

[@abcd-ss9rh]

Babel might be one of the issues. God mixed the languages, even among those who use the same National language. If you synchronize your word definitions (from the most simple words, sometimes especially those) and axioms, the communication might singnificantly improve. This might require some time and effort with a dictionary. Some of the words that can make issues are: "impossible", "obvious" and others that are different but by uncoding mean the same thing. Often what holds progress is these two words "impossible" and "certain". God decides what is possible. Not man. So ask the question: Why God thought this will be better to allow Such a situation?

[@pr5pr]

you are a beautiful coupe

[@mr.reallove7929]

U look so good sir!!!😜😜😜