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Real Talk with Sandhya

Real Talk with Sandhya

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@DevRaj-uk1il
@DevRaj-uk1il 12 сағат бұрын
काश आप जैसा सोच सभी महिलाओं/लड़कियों को रहता........................................................
@ayushjain4226
@ayushjain4226 Ай бұрын
मैं आपकी बात से तो सहमत हूं किंतु पर आज के माहौल को देखते हुए शादी का विशेष महत्व रह ही नहीं गया। एकतरफा महिलावादी कानून और महिलाओं द्वारा कानून के दुरुपयोग को देखते हुए शादी करना अपने आप में अपराध जैसा हो गया है। ऊपर से इतने सारे तलाक हो रहे है। इसलिए अब तो शादी सिवा बोझ के कुछ भी नहीं है। क्योंकि उसमे से प्रेम, अपनत्व और ईमानदारी खत्म हो चुकी है। सिर्फ पैसे का महत्व है बस।
@tom_tom272
@tom_tom272 Ай бұрын
लेकिन हम हमारे इर्द-गिर्द नकारात्मक चीज़ को देखकर डिसीजन ना ले। करते तो बहुत कुछ लोग हैं हम वैसे नहीं है ना आप खुद पर भरोसा करिए और इर्द-गिर्द का माहौल मत देखिए दुनिया कैसे भी चले हमको क्या
@ayushjain4226
@ayushjain4226 Ай бұрын
@tom_tom272 जब कानून ही भरोसे योग्य ना हो तो बात ही खत्म है। जब न्याय व्यवस्था ही भरोसे योग्य न हो तो कुछ भी गलत हो सकता है।
@prrashantmehta583
@prrashantmehta583 Ай бұрын
Sach to ye hai ki ek tarfa kanun ki wajah se ladkiyaan apni man maani pe utar aayi hai. Aur divorce ke baad jo alimony ke naam pe jo paisa dena padta hai uska EMI bharte bharte 10-15 saal nikal jaate hai. Pura judiciary sirf paisa banane me laga hai. Aise me shaadi karna murkhta lagti hai.
@ayushjain4226
@ayushjain4226 Ай бұрын
@prrashantmehta583 आज के समय एक पुरुष का शादी करना साफ साफ मूर्खता है। इसमें तो सोचने की भी बात नहीं।
@nishantvyas3059
@nishantvyas3059 Ай бұрын
You are 💯 right 👍
@TheRainbowgary
@TheRainbowgary Ай бұрын
Marriage is a choice now .Not a compulsion .
@PrabhuDas-r1p
@PrabhuDas-r1p Ай бұрын
it's a choice
@vivekanandsagar672
@vivekanandsagar672 7 күн бұрын
💯👍
@ArunKumar-nl7zu
@ArunKumar-nl7zu Ай бұрын
जिन लोगो के बच्चे नौकरी के लिए दूसरे देश मे जाकर बस गये हे उनके माता पिता फिर भी अकेले ही रह गये,,,,,, पुरी जिंदगी मेहनत की फिर भी आखिरी मे अकेलापन ही मिला ,,,,,,, इसलिए शादी मत करना बुढ़ापे मे कोई जवान लड़का गोद ले लेना और अपनी सेवा करवाकर सम्पति उस लड़के के नाम कर जाना , जब तक शरीर मे ताकत हे खूब घूमो मजे लो भरपुर जीवन जिओ बंधनों मे फ़स कर जीवन दुखो मे मत डालो रुपया कमाओ खर्च भी करो और बूढ़ापे की परेशानियों से बचने के लिए रुपया जोड़ कर भी रखो। और मेडम अपने जमाने के सिद्धांत बता रही हे जबकि आज का समय पुरानी मान्यताओं से बिल्कुल अलग विपरीत बन चुका हे।
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
Same to same my thoughts
@1information312
@1information312 Ай бұрын
Same😊
@AnkitGupta-o9c
@AnkitGupta-o9c Ай бұрын
Same bhai 👌....
@dharmendramilan2497
@dharmendramilan2497 Ай бұрын
Aur kya proof hai ki jisko god liye ho wo tumhare sampatti se jyada tumhara care krega😂😂😂😂
@ArunKumar-nl7zu
@ArunKumar-nl7zu Ай бұрын
@dharmendramilan2497 भाई स्वार्थ तो पर्यतेक जगह होता हे कम या ज्यादा, कोई भी फ्री मे किसी की सेवा नही करता, सेवा के साथ उसको अपना समझ कर उस लड़के को अच्छा खर्चा भी दिया जाए, बुढ़ापे मे मरने के बाद सम्पति दे दी जाए ताकि जिससे वह लड़का अपनी जिंदगी बेहतर कर सके - आज कल शादी बहुत ज्यादा परेशानिया खड़ी कर रही हे गलत लड़की गले पड़ गयी तो आदमी की जवानी से बूढ़ापा तक खराब हो जाता हे। जीवन नर्क बन जाता हे - आज के माहौल मे निस्वार्थ पत्नी मिलना बहुत ही मुश्किल हे। बहुत से लड़को ने 15 लाख् रुपये देकर बहुत सी परेशानिया बदनामी झेलकर लड़की से तलाक लिया हे और साथ मे झूठे केस मे जेल भी गये हे।
@Dhffhyfcbj12
@Dhffhyfcbj12 Ай бұрын
I am 49 still unmarried 😊😊 and i am happy
@dr.samirtawshikar9232
@dr.samirtawshikar9232 Ай бұрын
I m 49 but unhappy n unmarried
@mohitraut3580
@mohitraut3580 Ай бұрын
देखो दोस्त आप spirituality में जाओ... You will be happy.. try to free from known and unknown things ​@@dr.samirtawshikar9232
@lolmanjskdhsijsbwhwjw
@lolmanjskdhsijsbwhwjw Ай бұрын
And crying inside,ye to likhna vul Gaya bhi
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
​@@dr.samirtawshikar9232listen Acharya Prashant
@ashitmukherjee5934
@ashitmukherjee5934 Ай бұрын
How long?
@diversitytechnic5056
@diversitytechnic5056 Ай бұрын
अकेलापन जिन्दाबाद ! "अप्प दीपो भव"🪔"असतो मा सदगमय💥
@vidhushekhar17
@vidhushekhar17 23 күн бұрын
आओ मिलकर बनाएं -- "विवाह मुक्त स्वर्णिम भारत" ! और 50 साल में बन जाएँ इस्लामी भारत। क्योंकि भाईजान तो दे दनादन निकाह करेंगे ...और हर बीवी के जिस्म से आतंक को जन्म पर जन्म देते जाएँगे।
@CompleteTop5
@CompleteTop5 Ай бұрын
लडकियो और उनके घर वालो का नाटक आज कल बहुत बढ गया हे सब पेसे वालो के तरफ भागती हे जो इनको आच्छे से धोखा देता हे हमने तो सोच लिया हे शादी नही करके रँड़वे रहेगे और इनको भी जिन्दगी भर रँड़वी रखेगे। 😎
@SandeepTudu-p2t
@SandeepTudu-p2t Ай бұрын
Great idea bro😂😂😂 Same thinking
@santoshnirmalkar7689
@santoshnirmalkar7689 Ай бұрын
Sahi hai khud Garib rahte h aur damand sarkaari noukari wala chahiye bhikmango ko Sir ladki Sundar h to usko ghamnd rahata h aur sadi k baad bhains ki tarah moti ho jati h
@nishantvyas3059
@nishantvyas3059 Ай бұрын
You are 💯 right brother
@Anandsingh-gs2nh
@Anandsingh-gs2nh Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@bhardwajsaurav
@bhardwajsaurav 29 күн бұрын
​@@santoshnirmalkar7689😂😂
@shaileshmehta772
@shaileshmehta772 Ай бұрын
Koi v ye soch kar sadi mat karna ki koi umra var sath dega . Akele aye ho akele hi jaoge
@BivashwanRai
@BivashwanRai Ай бұрын
I am 45 years old man, unfortunately poor and unmarried but I am very happy and satisfied.
@RinkooGupta-s6z
@RinkooGupta-s6z 21 күн бұрын
Same
@mymissqueengirl81
@mymissqueengirl81 16 күн бұрын
Abhi puri tarha budda nahi hua hai tu bachu. 5-10 saal or nikalne de tab pataa chalega. Chaadde budho ke paas toh kala kuta bhi aana pasand nahi karta. Tab maatha peet te rehna..
@jitendranathnayak271
@jitendranathnayak271 5 күн бұрын
बहुत सही डिसिजन।
@anujkerketta2947
@anujkerketta2947 26 күн бұрын
I'm 40 unmarried still very good.
@इजरायलजिंदाबाद7
@इजरायलजिंदाबाद7 Ай бұрын
धन ही जीवन है 😂
@fulabhaipatel2809
@fulabhaipatel2809 15 күн бұрын
लुच्ची,लफंगी,रंडी,जैसी रंगीन 😮पत्नीके लिए धन ही जीवन है,,,!!!!we want justice,,!! Justice is Due,,,!!
@pankajrai1842
@pankajrai1842 Ай бұрын
It depends on meeting right person at right time. Otherwise you will end up with unwanted abusive relationship. And most importantly the luck factor plays a major role in this context.
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Agree
@monika-cc7fn
@monika-cc7fn Ай бұрын
Agree
@mansipandey5671
@mansipandey5671 Ай бұрын
Thnx .
@studysharma9312
@studysharma9312 Ай бұрын
Very rightly said
@PragatiVyas-p5u
@PragatiVyas-p5u 4 күн бұрын
Absolutely right 👍
@AnkitGupta-o9c
@AnkitGupta-o9c 29 күн бұрын
आओ मिलकर बनाएं -- "विवाह मुक्त स्वर्णिम भारत" 🙏.......
@rubiparveen3768
@rubiparveen3768 28 күн бұрын
😂😂
@ComptetiveApproach
@ComptetiveApproach 27 күн бұрын
​@@rubiparveen3768 bakabas he Maine bahut loga dekhe he. Meri mammi ki moushi ab Dosa dete he
@AmitJain-dd6sk
@AmitJain-dd6sk 24 күн бұрын
😂😂
@robinieor
@robinieor 24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂barbaad kerdo desh ko aap😅😅
@vidhushekhar17
@vidhushekhar17 23 күн бұрын
और 50 साल में बन जाएँ इस्लामी भारत। क्योंकि भाईजान तो दे दनादन निकाह करेंगे और जन्म पर जन्म देते जाएँगे।
@neerajchauhan3837
@neerajchauhan3837 23 күн бұрын
मै 33 का हूं। और जनवरी में एक शादी है और मैं मानता हूं कि अकेला रहना सबसे अच्छा है । मै समाज और फैमिली प्रेसर me shadi kar raha hu।
@fatehchand7000
@fatehchand7000 Ай бұрын
I am 45 years old but unmarried kisi ko shadi nhi karni chahiye
@ashitmukherjee5934
@ashitmukherjee5934 Ай бұрын
Ladki nahi mili hogi?
@SandeepTudu-p2t
@SandeepTudu-p2t Ай бұрын
​@@ashitmukherjee5934uski maan nahi hoga shadi ka
@nishantvyas3059
@nishantvyas3059 Ай бұрын
Aaj bhaarat ke andhe mahilaavaadi kaanuno ko dekhate hue to bhi aapane Jo nirnya liya h vo sahi h.
@nishantvyas3059
@nishantvyas3059 Ай бұрын
Purusho ke kuvaare rahane ke piche to jimmedaar bhaarat ka mahilaavaadi maanasikata feminist vichaardhara ka samaaj and kaanun hai.
@nishantvyas3059
@nishantvyas3059 Ай бұрын
Jab tak purush aayog nahi banega. Purush mantraalay nahi banega. Gender neutral laws and policies nahi hogi. Mahila aarakshan band nahi hoga. Tab tak bhaarat me purusho ki and purusho ki family ki durgati hoti rahegi. Sabhi party mahilaavaadi maanasikata feminist vichaardhara ki hai. Vote for Nota purush and purusho ki family. Save men, save country, save bhaarat.
@Climate-e3z
@Climate-e3z Ай бұрын
Kamjor insan ko sahare ki jarurat hoti hai takawr ko nahi jo atmik roop se shaktishali hai use swarthi duniya na mile to bhi humesha hi rahega
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Bilkul shi baat
@rohitpal5203
@rohitpal5203 Ай бұрын
Poori video me do kaudi ka gyaan diya
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
@@rohitpal5203 haan bhai shi kaha ... Aajkal sab gyaani samjh rhe hai apne aap ko 😂 Asli baat to ye hai hum log is swarthi Or banawati duniya se nikalna hi nhi chahte Kyunki darr lagta hai jhund se kahi alag na ho jaye
@BabluSingh-fj6nm
@BabluSingh-fj6nm Ай бұрын
​@@rohitpal5203aap kaha se
@bhardwajsaurav
@bhardwajsaurav 29 күн бұрын
​@@Unnati04060😂 you are right saying👌
@IndiaNow16
@IndiaNow16 Ай бұрын
Aaj shadi kal talak, aaj Patch up kal Breakup, yaha sab khatam hone ke liye hi hai, better we focus on other things like hobbies, solo travel, being with yourself so that u can spent and live strong throughout life till last breath.
@viratupadhyay5385
@viratupadhyay5385 2 күн бұрын
Jaise jaise duniya age bad rahi he wese wese humanity khtm hote ja rhi he sb apne mtlb ka sochte he to ase me succha pyar hona to dur ki bat aur shadi to bahut dur ki bat he ase me khud ki life jilo wahi bahut badi bat he baki sbki apni thinking he jisko jo thik lage kre but dark truth reality yahi he duniya ki👍🏻
@Jayant126kum
@Jayant126kum Ай бұрын
मैडम आप की कहना सही है आज के समय में सक्सेस और पैसा देखकर जीवनसाथी बनती हैं लकड़ियों।।। ये बात आप नहीं कहीं लास्ट में।
@pratapsinghurfamit6358
@pratapsinghurfamit6358 Ай бұрын
i agree absolutely absolutely 1000000000000000% आपकी सारी बातों से Ma'am जी 🙏🙏🙏☺️☺️☺️👐👐🙌🙌🙌👌👌👌👍👍👍🤔🤔🧠🧠🧠🕴️🕵️🗿🙁😕😶
@RinkooGupta-s6z
@RinkooGupta-s6z 21 күн бұрын
Jb paise nhi the to ichha thi lekin ichha nhi hain to paise Hain Lekin may akele khush hu ,, akele aaye the akele hi Jana sub yehi rh Jana Gole kewal itna maa baap ki sewa our kosis swast raho our mast raho
@religionofpeace782
@religionofpeace782 16 күн бұрын
Atul subhash ne bhi shaadi kiya tha Syed maqsood ne bhi shaadi kiya tha
@dszaiwalla
@dszaiwalla 9 күн бұрын
Shaadi karo aur alimony maintenance looto culture
@priyankudas2852
@priyankudas2852 16 күн бұрын
I am 42 and still unmarried. Nobody interfares when problem comes to the couple.
@Climate-e3z
@Climate-e3z Ай бұрын
Adhyatm insan ke akelepan ko khatm kr sakta humesha ke liye kyonki hum sab kewal sarir nahi atma hai joki Asang hai sare bandhano se mukt hai
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Shi kaha aapne
@bhardwajsaurav
@bhardwajsaurav 29 күн бұрын
Right🎉
@preetibehera2999
@preetibehera2999 7 күн бұрын
Kya baat kaha apne 👍
@massengarg961
@massengarg961 Ай бұрын
अपने जीवन की एक side बोली.. Aur दूसरी side अपने बोली नहि..😂
@hemangshrivastava9561
@hemangshrivastava9561 Ай бұрын
I am 38 nhi...... still unmarried.
@ashitmukherjee5934
@ashitmukherjee5934 Ай бұрын
Still time to get married provided you are a responsible person earning enough to sustain a marriage.
@ShubhiJain-x9y
@ShubhiJain-x9y 4 күн бұрын
Thanku so mich mam for your guidence
@harishchandragupta7206
@harishchandragupta7206 12 күн бұрын
आपने बहुत ही सुन्दर सरल भाषा में विवाह को स्पष्ट कर दिया । हमारे नवयुवक अपने यौवन में यह समझ नहीं पाते । उनकी उदासीनता या अनिच्छा उन्हों अंधकार में धकेल देती है । विवाह के बाद बच्चों को जन्म देने का दायित्व निभाना होता है । बच्चों के जन्म के बाद पति पत्नी में एक बदलाव आकर मानसिक संतुष्टि जागती है । विवाह को उद्देश्यपूर्ण और परिवार को स्वर्ग की तरह सुन्दर बनाना पत्नी यानि लड़की के ऊपर होता है । इसलिए लड़कियों को अपने दायित्व भली भांति जानना और सुख पूर्वक जीवन जीना सीखे एवं अपने मायके से दूरी बनाएं ।
@kushdubey3406
@kushdubey3406 Ай бұрын
Mujhe esa lagta he ye problem 10 15 saal or chalegi, iske bad waqt badal jayga or sabhi log shadi ke liye positive ho jayege
@aayushvijay9463
@aayushvijay9463 Ай бұрын
वहां बेटे तूने तो ज़सबात ही बदल दिए 🤣
@abhi3710
@abhi3710 Ай бұрын
Ghanta😂😂😂😊
@ArunKumar-nl7zu
@ArunKumar-nl7zu Ай бұрын
10 _15 वर्ष बाद 80 प्रतिशत शादी होना ही बंद हो जाएंगी - एग्रीमेंट मैरिज शुरु हो जाएंगी। लड़के लड़किया अपने कैरियर को प्राथमिकता देंगे बचे पैदा करना बहुत कम हो जाएंगा
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Apna purpose dhunde life me...baki cheeje to hoti rehngi.... Shaadi karo chahe na personal choice hai...compulsory nhi hai...ek insaan hamara sukh chain sab kha jaye chahe par shaadi jaruri hai....... Thoda spiritual hona jaruri hai bas
@kailashsharma9074
@kailashsharma9074 Ай бұрын
@kushdubey3406 15 saal baad 😂🤣
@TITAN-fl3jh
@TITAN-fl3jh 5 күн бұрын
I am 41 now, living life confidently without a woman. I have no faith in women in these days.. Sometimes it feels single life is boring but still peaceful...
@PathanNasru-gt2gy
@PathanNasru-gt2gy Ай бұрын
मेडम लड़किया ढलती उम्र में भी तलाक लेती है मोटा पैसा भी लेती है और बच्चों को भी ले जाती है
@rameshkapkoti850
@rameshkapkoti850 9 күн бұрын
Bahut khoob 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍🌺🌺🌺
@navinsaraf1979
@navinsaraf1979 Ай бұрын
Ye sab gyan reel mein achi lagti hai madamji Maine bhi shadi ki thi aur jis ladki se ki thi. Wo apne boyfriend se pyar karti thi aur shadi ke kuch month baad mujhse alimony li aur divorce de di aur mujhe poor kar di ab shadi kabhi nahi karunga ye sab reel se kuch nahi hoga
@johndcruz8744
@johndcruz8744 Ай бұрын
It is better to be single for men rather than getting trapped. 99.9 % women are evil. This lady is just speaking for women. A woman can make a home , a woman can break a home. Men are always the lossers. People make U tube videos for their own personal benefits.
@sanjeevkushwaha4043
@sanjeevkushwaha4043 Ай бұрын
Bhai social media par sirf acchi batein hi boli ja sakti hai, practical batein nahi 😂😂😂😂
@AnilSharma-lr6mo
@AnilSharma-lr6mo Ай бұрын
This is truth. Mere saath bhi marriage ka bahut bura experience hua. Her tarah se hamari family ko barbaad kr gyi. Jo dukh sehta hai us ko he pata hota hai. Mera toh shadi se vishwas he utthh gya hai.. Me fir se shadi nahi karunga.
@ashitmukherjee5934
@ashitmukherjee5934 Ай бұрын
Tumhara kismat kharaab hai.
@HasanFaraz93
@HasanFaraz93 28 күн бұрын
this is called less knowledge is very dangerous
@AsaturnSani-jr2om
@AsaturnSani-jr2om Ай бұрын
If you find right partner and ready to take responsibility find purpose and goal in common then u should go for marriage. At the end everyone will be alone. Everyone journey starts alone and will end alone in transition some passenger will come and go.
@jyotimapankaj2408
@jyotimapankaj2408 Ай бұрын
Shi hai shadi se pahele akele ghr ka aur bahr dono kam akele kr lete hai bt shadi k bad...?mayeke b jana ho to sabki ijajat leni pdti hai..sare niym kanoon hum ladkiyo k lie hi hai ldke shadi k pahele b aur shadi k bad b apni family ka financially mentally physically support bina wife k puchhe krte rhte hai bt agr wife krna chahe to use btaya jata hai ki ab tumhari jimmedari yha k logo ki seva krna hai...akhir q riti rivaj k nam pr hamesha se sirf mahilao ko preshan hi kia jata hai...jinki b shadi nhi hui meri unse yhi request hai agr family pressure n ho to shadi kbi mt krna
@babitadiwan9471
@babitadiwan9471 27 күн бұрын
100 % agree with you
@chitrakootrajapur0273
@chitrakootrajapur0273 11 күн бұрын
kisi 40,50 sal ke randve(kumare) purush va mahila se puchhna malum pad jayega koun khush jyada rahta hai aur kiski jyada seva hoti hai.bhram me mat rahna.
@suresharora3398
@suresharora3398 Ай бұрын
Sister aapne perfect ki achi paribhasha di hai mere hisab se aap perfect hai. Doosra is Janam mein mene punarjanam dekh liya hai. Paanch job Kari paanch sathan badle or mujhe pata hi nahi chala sab kese ho gaya. Bahut ajib lagta hai ki aasa kese ho jata hai. Thanks for the kind information. Jai Bharat.
@rishabhjaiswal2496
@rishabhjaiswal2496 2 күн бұрын
Akela insan hi acha hai bahut jada aajkal ke kalyug duniya main majhe se reho bahut jada khushi se reho bahut jada akele akele is duniya main 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀aajkal bherose layek nahin hai koi koi insan is duniya main acche jivansathi ke laluch main koi koi dusre insan ki life main bahut jada dhokebaaz gira hua insan aajata hai is duniya main yeh seb hai atul sety baat bahut jada jo such baat hai tho such baat hai bahut jada bas itni hi bate seb jaruri batani thi sehi sehi such such bate
@anilagarwal1811
@anilagarwal1811 Ай бұрын
शादी करो लेकिन महिला और लडकियों को आत्मसम्मान से जीने का हक है, इसलिए लडकिया और महिला शादी के बाद दूसरे के घर में क्यूँ रहे? दूसरे के घर मे तो गुलामी ही हो सकती है प्यार नहीं!!
@PRAVEENSHARMA-m5v
@PRAVEENSHARMA-m5v Ай бұрын
Atamasamman sabhi ka hota h , ladkiya koi special tag lgwa kr nhi aayi
@anindian6557
@anindian6557 Ай бұрын
Tu kisi ladke k le aa apne Ghar Fir sare kharche uthana
@dk3639-r5i
@dk3639-r5i Ай бұрын
सही जबाब😂
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
Vidai ek krur pratha he.Stop vidai
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
​@@anindian6557vo ladka mere ghar par nokar wala kam karega tab
@realpandit874
@realpandit874 Ай бұрын
An important issue analysed quite objectively. Nice video.
Ай бұрын
saadi karna bilkul bhi jaruri nahi hai agar aapko akele rehne me maja aata hai to or haan jis sukh ko paane k liye saadi ki jaati hai wo sukh bhi paisa poora kar deta hai. ab aate hain akelepan par to saadi karke bhi kai log samaaj or public ki najron me saath me to hote hain lekin maansi roop se wo saadisuda hokar bhi poori tarah se akele hote hain or riste ko chhodkar kahi bhag bhi nahi sakte. or sabse jaruri baat aap kabhi bhi akele nahi hote aap bas upyogi hote hain is baat se koi fark nahi padta ki aapne saadi ki ya nahi agar aap 70 ya 80 saal k hain or logon k kaam aa rahe hain to aapko kabhi akelapan mehsoos hi nahi hoga. or akelapan ek maansik awastha hoti hai. saadi karna bohot jaruri mudda nahi hai bas choti baat hai. par logon ko isi baat ki chinta sataati rehti hai ki saadi nahi hui to hamara DNA aage kaise badega vans kaise badega marne k baad hamari chita ko aag kon dega budaape 2 wakt ki roti kon dega akelepan ko kaise jhelenge. or haan purush saadi ke bina to reh sakta hai lekin mahila saadi k bina nahi reh sakti.
@NMeena-j7e
@NMeena-j7e Ай бұрын
महिला ku nhi rh skti
@Moni.1990
@Moni.1990 Ай бұрын
Mam mere husband k sath ek unmarried ladki rahti h jo bolti h mai kbi shadi ni krungi dono living relationship me rhte h ladki ki umar 33 sal ho chuki h mane bahut smjaliya usko nhi man rhi in dono k chakr me meri life khrab ho gyi mai 34 sal ki hu 20 ki umar me shadi ho gyi thi 2 bche h pura din roti rahti hu kya kru mai kuch b samj nhi aa rha😢
@Ukr-h7d1b
@Ukr-h7d1b Ай бұрын
Behan rona nahe rulana sikho bhaad mai jaye husband aur uske gf self depand bano jhukna nahe jhukana sikho jis say aapko lagay aapke family ya relatives help kar saktay hai help mango ya fir police
@Moni.1990
@Moni.1990 Ай бұрын
@Ukr-h7d1b mam husband khud police me hai Sasur mere hai ni or sas ki manta ni ek hi bhai h Mai bcho k liye sochti hu bacho pr galt asr na pd jaye isliye chup chap sahn kr rhi hu
@bhardwajsaurav
@bhardwajsaurav 29 күн бұрын
​@@Moni.1990यही सच्चा धर्म है माँ होने का बच्चों की फिक्र करती है🙏 भगवान् सब कुछ देख रहा है, सारी चिंता ईश्वर पर छोड़कर अपने धर्म को मत त्यागना भगवान् आपकी रक्षा कदम कदम पर करेंगे ।
@Moni.1990
@Moni.1990 29 күн бұрын
@@bhardwajsaurav thanks mere bhai mai Bhagavan k siva kisi k samne ni roi Aaj un dono k bich bahut jyada ladai ho rkhi hai bs wo ladki mere pti ki jindgi se chli jaye mere liye Prarthana kro yhi dukh h muje or to mata rani ne sb chijo k thath lga rkhe h Hum b sharma h bhai Or wo ladki valmiki
@bhardwajsaurav
@bhardwajsaurav 29 күн бұрын
@@Moni.1990 welcome didi, माता रानी से पति के लिए सद्बुद्धि खुद के लिए सहन शक्ति की प्रार्थना करे जो आपको विपरीत परिस्थिति में भी बड़ा सहारा बनेगी, जय माता दी 🙏
@jitendranathnayak271
@jitendranathnayak271 5 күн бұрын
मैडम जी, आजके समय को देखते हुए अकेले रहना ही बेहतर है। मेरे दो बेटे और दोनों बेटे आजके हालत देखते हुए शादी करना नहीं चाहते और ना मैं मजबूर करुंगा।
@Raima230
@Raima230 Ай бұрын
Aunty, there is no guarantee that when we get older our spouse will take care of us. Nobody knows what our future holds and what’s the point of living in marriage because it is an overrated backwards institution. That’s why in today’s world most marriages are not successful and they end up in divorce. I think nobody knows what happens after marriage, your spouse may cheat on you with someone, may be an alcoholic. an abusive. It’s better to live alone rather than living in a miserable marriage. I would say that from a spiritual perspective, we come to this world alone and leave this world alone. Marriage is just an institution created and forced by our society. You are entitled to have your opinion on marriage as I am but please do not encourage our young people to get married. Marriages in general doesn’t work for many reasons and it’s very complex.
@infotainmentIndiaWorld
@infotainmentIndiaWorld Ай бұрын
According to your thinking if all or maximum youths live without marriage, what will be results in the our society and whole world??? After some years/centuries humans generation will be distinct from the world/globe/Earth.
@niru3849
@niru3849 Ай бұрын
No problm, Waise bhi Kalyug chal rha hai...every second u wl get news of Murder, Suicide, Accident
@him727
@him727 Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@lolmanjskdhsijsbwhwjw
@lolmanjskdhsijsbwhwjw Ай бұрын
​@@infotainmentIndiaWorldfaminist
@pradipchavan7465
@pradipchavan7465 Ай бұрын
​@@infotainmentIndiaWorld humans iss earth se extinct ho jaye... Ye toh bahot achhi baat ho jayegi... Do you think humans k bina ye duniya nahi chalegi?
@kusumsingh615
@kusumsingh615 Ай бұрын
Iam agree with you. Thanks
@incredibleveersingh4307
@incredibleveersingh4307 Ай бұрын
Ladkiya shadi ke layak nhi hai Siraf gf banane layak hai😂
@tom_tom272
@tom_tom272 Ай бұрын
True ajkal shadi nahi gf bf hi rhte hai aisa lagata hai
@Pankajpandey3125
@Pankajpandey3125 Ай бұрын
Pelam pel
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Ladke bhi sirf bodyguard or atm machine banaane ke layak hai...... Waise uski jarurat bhi nhi ek kutta pal lenge or kamate to hum khud hi hai🎉
@abhishek8195
@abhishek8195 Ай бұрын
Kutte se hi kaam chalaa lena waise kutta bhi sab kuchh kar sakta hain
@PRAVEENSHARMA-m5v
@PRAVEENSHARMA-m5v Ай бұрын
Or uss kutte se hi raat ke saare kaam krwa lena 😅​@@Unnati04060
@sk4you95
@sk4you95 4 күн бұрын
मेरा शादीशुदा जीवन 37 का हो गया लेकिन जीवन में खुशियां नहीं है, आर्थिक परेशानी कभी नहीं कम होती है, पति पत्नी में रोजाना कहा सुनी या विवाद होता ही है कारण कि दोनों ही सहनशील बहुत देर से होते हैं,जब बात बहुत अधिक बढ़ जाती है, फिर भी ज़िन्दगी चल रही है , तीन बेटियां हैं,दो कुंवारी है एक ने मनपसंद शादी कर ली है
@ShaashvatBharat
@ShaashvatBharat Ай бұрын
सहमत,आपकी सोच और समझ को प्रणाम
@shaileshjore8880
@shaileshjore8880 7 күн бұрын
Today money is everything.. मोक्ष प्राप्ती मे शादी बडी अडचण है.. मोक्ष प्राप्त मे स्त्री अडचण नाहि.but शादी अडचण है.. भगवान को पा लेना is real life achivement...
@shaikfazil5838
@shaikfazil5838 Ай бұрын
Kiya baat bole medem jo bole theek bole 🙏🌹❤️❤️❤️🥰
@RealTalkwithSandhya
@RealTalkwithSandhya Ай бұрын
@@shaikfazil5838 Thank you so much ...God Bless you..
@vickysharma3752
@vickysharma3752 Ай бұрын
Aunty aap manoge nhi meri nose badi moti thi ..ladkiyan muje pasand nhi karti thi ...ab maine nose job karayee aur mera rishta fix ho gya ..duniya sirf paisa aur apki looks dekhti hai 😂
@Harish_sumit
@Harish_sumit Ай бұрын
​@@RealTalkwithSandhyasabko pta ha eak din marna ha jbi bhi shaddi karta ha pta ha dono me se koye eak marega meri wife mera husband mere bache mera ghar mere pasie mera mera me pagal ha sab kuch chutega eak din insaan yeh chis samasta nehe ha islye rota ha
@santoshsahoo7827
@santoshsahoo7827 Ай бұрын
Madam , app very realistic bat bole
@anuragtanwar6450
@anuragtanwar6450 11 күн бұрын
I am 32 years old and not willing to get married in my whole life but my parents force me to get married and told me if i am not getting married then they abandon me from property and adopt another child. What will i do now? I decide never marry in my whole life.
@rajnidevi6238
@rajnidevi6238 11 сағат бұрын
पूर्ण सत्य जी
@rohitpal5203
@rohitpal5203 Ай бұрын
Bilkul baccho jaisi baat kar rahi hai aunty ji 50 plus hoker bhi
@mansipandey5671
@mansipandey5671 Ай бұрын
Jb 50 k hoge apki bhi soch yhi hogi.
@rohitpal5203
@rohitpal5203 Ай бұрын
@mansipandey5671 duniya ka attechment jyada karoge to yahi haal hoga kya 30 me ya 50 ki umar me kisi ki chinta mat Karo sab apne AAP jee lete hain ab to daur ye hai akele jeene ki aadat daal lo kisi ki koi guarantee nhi kisi ke sath rahne se akelapan door ho jayega
@mansipandey5671
@mansipandey5671 Ай бұрын
@@rohitpal5203 abhi apki age kya h
@kumarparimal9091
@kumarparimal9091 29 күн бұрын
Idhar or kuch kaam nhi h kya ki shaadi krne ke liye bola ja raha h ? Jivan me dance, music, drawing or v bhaut kuch sikh saktey h. Fir shaadi me time kyu waste Krna bhai ? Ye madam kya bol rahi h, bilkul baklol type.
@dannyshett
@dannyshett 23 күн бұрын
Marriage is not feasible in this era. For me happiness is more important. I would rather choose happiness than a horrible marriage. Marriage is not a match made in heaven but business transaction
@chandrakalav-eu6pz
@chandrakalav-eu6pz Ай бұрын
Na hame kisike sath adjust karna hye ,naextra boza uthana hye ,agar ham 💯 nokrime de rahe hye ,our khush hye , to shadi ki kya jarurat hye ,apne maa baap ko chhodo ,our dusreke maa baap ko dekho ye unjastis hye , ayesa kuchh ladkiya manti hye , jinhone 10 sal pahele shadi un sab ka divorce huwa hye , payssackamao , achhe care center me raho , achha sathi ka definetion to batao , agar achha sathi hota ,to itne divorce hote kya ,????????😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@purshottampawar479
@purshottampawar479 Ай бұрын
आपकी बात सही है शादी करना चाहिए लेकिन आजकल के बच्चे पहले से नकारात्मक सोचने लगते है
@ravindrasingh897
@ravindrasingh897 Ай бұрын
Shaadi ke bina jyada kush raha sakte hai,
@sachidanandpanjara
@sachidanandpanjara 5 күн бұрын
Ma'am Saadi ek choice hai na ki compliance, saadi ek manmade pratha hai nature ne nahi banaya, agar do log willfully sath rehna chahe toh reh sakte hai aur agar na samajh aaya to alag bhi ho sakte hai, shaadi ek kuprata hai, iska vastavik jeevan me koi pravav nahi hota hai, aur ek baat bolna chahunga ki avi ke samay me kuch bhi karna jaruri nahi hai, apne marji se jio kyuki kisi ko phark nahi parta ap shaadi suda ho ya bachelor bas apke pas paise hone chahiye, this is the reality 😊
@Charcha2charcha
@Charcha2charcha Ай бұрын
Great man for your opinion about new generation 🙏💚
@madangopal-yn7cz
@madangopal-yn7cz 4 күн бұрын
Definitely you are right about the marriage life. But God ruled that one goes to God and one live lonely. So wife husband lives together always is concept fail. Secondly at present wife always demanding. Husband always feels tired of shopping habits of wife. Many wife and husband take place the divorce very soon. So your predictions failed to they distribute his happiness and sorrow. Some times your predictions is right other wise almost cases now different from your theory. But I think marriage is essential in the life once. If successful then ok if failed then ok. Thank you very much for the video.
@neetavyas5038
@neetavyas5038 Ай бұрын
Very respected and very dear didi I like your video No words for explanation Only for Namaste
@simanchaldash-nj8iy
@simanchaldash-nj8iy 25 күн бұрын
Thanks 👍👍👍👍
@khaspriyasain7811
@khaspriyasain7811 6 күн бұрын
Ye baat shi h ki marriage bhot takleef deti h so shadi na hi kre to better h.....but ek or chij mind m aati h ki agr sab aesa hi sochenge to ek din ye duniya finish hogi??
@kumarparimal9091
@kumarparimal9091 29 күн бұрын
Shaadi krna bilkul v zaruri nhi. Jab kisi ko akele rehna accha lagta h, toh fir usey society shaadi ke liye pareshan kyu karti h ?
@chitrakootrajapur0273
@chitrakootrajapur0273 11 күн бұрын
I, am 45 years old and I'm very happy.aur aage bhi khush rahenge.roj Bhagwat Geeta pade.aurat yah na soche ki hm unke bina nahi rah sakte.😂😂
@fatehchand7000
@fatehchand7000 Ай бұрын
Shadi nhi karni chahiye
@chandrakishorepant3348
@chandrakishorepant3348 Ай бұрын
जब तक मां बाप जिंदा हैं तब तक तो ठीक है कुछ भी सोचो पर उनके जाने के बाद आपकी यह सोच आपको भारी पड़ेगा अभी समय है पॉजिटिव सोचें
@niru3849
@niru3849 Ай бұрын
Ur opinion for Widows?? Fir kya jeewansathi ka...
@MadanLalAshra
@MadanLalAshra Ай бұрын
Great Words Speechless 🙏
@shivanidongre810
@shivanidongre810 Ай бұрын
Par ma'am shadi kya ek Bandhan nhi hai......????? Shadi hue to responsibility sab kuch.....esi yhi life to hum janmo se jeee rhi.....janam hua vhi jeevan shafi bache phir mar jana humare jeevan ka koi udesh sab kya same life jeeene hsi ???? Yhi sab me insaan pda jaega to spiritual growth kb krega ????? Jeevan me aane ka udesh apni aatma ko janaana yha sab kb hoga ???? Please ma'am reply 🙏
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
Very nice question
@vivekanandsagar672
@vivekanandsagar672 7 күн бұрын
Mam Apki baat toh thik hai par system ki toh Aisi taisi hogyi hai 😂😂😂😂
@SandeepTudu-p2t
@SandeepTudu-p2t Ай бұрын
Most awaited topic😢
@maheshnathgupta9312
@maheshnathgupta9312 6 күн бұрын
Vivaah jeevan ka poorna vinash hai. Mahila vivah se adhikar paati hai aur purush ke vyaktitva evam rishton ko chhinna bhinna kar dalati hai. Naari achchhi hai lekin patni sanstha swikarya nahi.
@newmeme1815
@newmeme1815 23 күн бұрын
ये सब थियरी है प्रैक्टिकल नहीं है 😂😂😂😂
@jayathange1196
@jayathange1196 Ай бұрын
❤❤ मगर मेरे पतीने धोका दिया ..ठीक है मैं ने जादा ध्यान नहीं .दिया..जीवन साथी है. मगर unko mai नहीं चीये.ना बेटे के बारेमे अच्छा sochte hai.apne maa . बाहेन ka sunte hai ओ..आज मैं मेरा बेटा अलग रहते हैं . बेटा आज २४.का है .अभी जॉब पे लगा है..अपने बहोत अच्छा सला दिया.....thanks.
@TufmanSG
@TufmanSG Ай бұрын
Didi apka yeah dil ko chhu Lia sukria
@dharmindernarolia8984
@dharmindernarolia8984 Ай бұрын
Shaadi me discipline hai,dedication, consistency hai,patience hai , sacrifice hai, ye jiske andar nahi hai wo shaadi na kare. Sirf attraction,love and sex shaadi nahi hai .
@Rajora14
@Rajora14 Ай бұрын
Ma'am Ye bhi to btao...kitna costly decision he shadi... Kya hr vyakti afford kr sakta h shadi ke bad ke kharcho ko...jis shadi ko aap compulsory bta rhe he... Its my opinion. ...😊
@AmitRamanlalMutha
@AmitRamanlalMutha 14 күн бұрын
बडे लोग खुद के दुःख जैसा हमे दुःख देना चाहते है पर हम है की जिंदगी भर सूनेंगे नहीं. अग्ले जन्म का नहीं पता.😂😂
@ChotuShaw-zw4sp
@ChotuShaw-zw4sp Ай бұрын
Namaste mam excellent video mam 💯😄
@Aditya-qo1yy
@Aditya-qo1yy Ай бұрын
Shadi ek contract hai jisme ghusna easy nikalna impossible, aur agar nikle to barbaad ho kar nikalte hai
@c.g.explore2144
@c.g.explore2144 Ай бұрын
Subki jindage ek jaise nahi hoti... Sub honey par bhi akele hotey hai log... Bhara pura pariwar honey par bhi akeyle pad jatey hai.. jaruri hai shadi karnaa ... Kismat kub dhokha dey pata nahi
@prashantmishra8611
@prashantmishra8611 29 күн бұрын
Thank you
@MR.K.P.-mi4uh
@MR.K.P.-mi4uh 24 күн бұрын
Atul Subhash sir ke saath hue incident ke baad aaya hai ye video recommendation
@robinieor
@robinieor 24 күн бұрын
Agar shadi honi hai to hokar rahegi....ye shareer milne se pehle ishwar tay kerdete hai....isme aapkinahi chalegi....
@durgeshsahaj
@durgeshsahaj 13 күн бұрын
Only this is the right way.
@ShobhanaPMehta
@ShobhanaPMehta 4 күн бұрын
Ladaka or ladaki dono javan hai tab tak to akele rahenge jisdin sahare ki jarurt hogi tab aapke shath koi nahi hoga tab akele baithi rote rahna
@PoojaTiwari-n9n
@PoojaTiwari-n9n 7 күн бұрын
Jivan sathi b sahi honna chyie
@tom_tom272
@tom_tom272 Ай бұрын
Aapki baat se sahmat hu shadi jaruri hai khaskar ajkal ke matalabi jamane me jaha koi apka saga nahi hai ese me life partner hi apke sath khada ho skta hai sukh dukh me. Baki koi rishta apke sath khada nahi he kadwa hai magar satya hai
@geetgunj7773
@geetgunj7773 Ай бұрын
मैम आपके विचार अच्छे लगे। धन्यवाद लेकिन मेरी पटती नहीं। कुछ सलाह दीजिए ❤
@jacksonripper-mp8dr
@jacksonripper-mp8dr 19 күн бұрын
And what will happen if the wife demands for alimony or the husband treats wife in a crude manner, then would you take the pledge to become a so called "Messiah" for them..... See, it's very easy to sit in one corner of your room, in the comfort of your home and judge whoever you like, anybody can do that, but people are suffering in today's world because of marriages and the reality is as clear as the day...... Being single and lonely although is difficult but much better than being in a stressful relationship......
@vickysharma3752
@vickysharma3752 Ай бұрын
Aunty aap manoge nhi meri nose badi moti thi ..ladkiyan muje pasand nhi karti thi ...ab maine nose job karayee aur mera rishta fix ho gya ..duniya sirf paisa aur apki looks dekhti hai 😂
@ramandeep-lf8db
@ramandeep-lf8db Ай бұрын
😂
@ayushjain4226
@ayushjain4226 Ай бұрын
Right
@Unnati04060
@Unnati04060 Ай бұрын
Agar aap kisi handicapped se shaadi karte to aapko nose job nhi karwani padti...... Duniya ki chodiye Waise aap kya dekh ke shaadi ki ladki, paisa ya looks?
@satendrasharma359
@satendrasharma359 28 күн бұрын
Bilkul sahi 👍
@dharmindernarolia8984
@dharmindernarolia8984 Ай бұрын
Shaadi discipline hai, ye har kisi k bass ki baat nahi .
@roshnimonu572
@roshnimonu572 Ай бұрын
Mera ek frnd hai bo hamesha iss baat pr bahas karta hai ki shadi karne se behtar aise hi ghumo, or jab uski umra badhegi to kya use regret nhi hoga uski age 33 ho gyi, btaiye? Uski bato se to yhi lagta use kabhi akelepan se problem nhi hogi..
@ritushekhawat1945
@ritushekhawat1945 Ай бұрын
Ab kr le
@nikitafernandes461
@nikitafernandes461 18 күн бұрын
Hello madam i don't know if a girl is unmarried and 25+ age everyone around her family relatives and friends pressure her for marriage as if only having a husband, marriage and having kids are only the life goals of a woman
@RealTalkwithSandhya
@RealTalkwithSandhya 17 күн бұрын
Marriage is Not only life goals actually...but being elders we think after our death one person should be there for you ..that is life partner...but nowadays definition of life partner is changing for many but still this institution is for us...sirf jeevan sathi jeevan bhar ka sathi hota hai ek doosre ke liye dukh sukh ka saathi ....warna log opportunity ke saath motive ke saath judte hain aur motive poora hote hi hatt jaate hain ....this is the reason we insist...but still it is up to you how you think...Khush rahen ...God Bless..
@kushalmohta5116
@kushalmohta5116 7 күн бұрын
ये सब ज्ञान कौनसे ग्रन्थ से लती है ये... कोई श्लोक तो बताये
@vikashkiit5357
@vikashkiit5357 13 күн бұрын
Ye theory puraney samay ka hai. Uss samay ki kaanoon vyavastha alag thi aor abhi ke haalat alag hai. Aor parivartan hi sansaar ka niyam hai. Agar abhi kaanoon vyavastha sabhi ke liye samaan hoti to baat hi alag hoti. Lakin abhi to sudo feminist jurisdiction system, sabhi barbaad ker chuki hai. Esee liye apne desh ki aarthik halaat bhi kharab hai, kyon ki finance minister bhi koi aor nahi ek ..... Hai.
@mogambo-ry5qe
@mogambo-ry5qe 19 күн бұрын
I am 42 divorced men feeling lonely.
@ramkrishnapawar9992
@ramkrishnapawar9992 15 күн бұрын
Hamare hindu me hi bagiar shadi ke rah rahe hai. Muslim bhaiyo me to 4-4 shadiya kar rahe hai aur population badh rahe hai
@onlinework8558
@onlinework8558 Ай бұрын
Mahila kisis dusri mahila ko kabhi unmarried rehne ki sikh nahi degi
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