Marriage & the Meaning of Life | Part 1/2 | Salman Asif Siddiqui

What is the purpose of marriage? What are some of the most important factors that spouses should be careful about? In this detailed talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about the importance of marriage, the order of relationships, and some advice for couples to strengthen their relationship.
00:00:00 Preview
00:00:32 Introduction
00:01:18 Our Preparations for Marriage vs Ideal Preparations for Marriage
00:04:56 The Purpose of Marriage
00:24:50 Marriage - The Need of Individuals
00:35:35 Marriage - The Need of a Human Society
00:50:33 Husband's Responsibilities in Marriage
00:57:23 Wife's Responsibilities in Marriage
01:12:50 Joint Families & Ties With In-Laws
01:24:35 Benchmark of Excellence for the Wife
01:31:09 Benchmark of Excellence for the Husband
01:33:59 The Secret of Happy Marriages
01:34:49 Importance of Order of Relationships
01:41:10 Advice for Mothers
01:42:53 The Principle for Excellence in Relationships
01:51:08 Failing Relationships: Role of Gratitude and Prayers
02:00:28 Failing Relationships: Your Spouse vs your Imaginative Spouse
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[@hajira7222]

This man has sorted everything out in this life. His videos make me wanna cry for how shallow my lofe has been. Be it at individual/ societal or economoc level. Kudos sir to you. Things are hard to change but these talks will work as the required seed hope so.

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Assalamu alaikum aap shadi karogi muje se

[@AnweR-AmmaR]

@@sikandarrinwala3121 Aapko yhi Jagah mila haii reeshta maangne ka...Thora lihaaj krein apna 🙄🙄🙂🙂

[@2cents859]

@@AnweR-AmmaR lol

[@truestar4408]

I am so amazed about his well respectful way of speaking. He uses muhazzub urdu and clean example.

[@kishwarparveen2245]

Amazing ideas and in depth practical experiences Mashaa'Allah

[@MMirajKhalid]

لگتا یہ ڈسلائک روبوٹ نے کیا ہوگا کیوں کہ ایک انسان کی کیا حیوان بھی ایسی حرکت نہیں کرے گا ! سر اللہ آپ کو طویل عمر دے !

[@UH_Madni]

A million dollar worth topic. No training at all for couples at the time of marriage or even after. It is clearly an example of "Those who fail to plan are planning to fail". These sessions need to be held in hundreds...

[@saharatif8170]

Exactly 👍 We need A thorough understanding regarding this topic to clear the misconceptions , developed by our elders under the influence of culture of Sub-continent which is totally the opposite of teachings of Islam & other Holy Religions as well, given to other prophets before Muhammad pbuh by Allah SWT.

[@MK-gs8jz]

Sir agar sas susar aur phir husband b ap k maa baap k bare me kuch aur phir jhota b bolen tu phir husband se hi nafrat hone lgti hy....us waqt kya karen

[@alikhansahab8356]

@@MK-gs8jz sabr aur darguzar Karen muaf krden spouse ko iss ka bhtt ajr hay agar nahi kr sakte tou alehda ho jayn

[@sunlozara625]

Exactly, a million dollar worth. ♥️

[@sunlozara625]

@Muhammad Tayyab are you a professional writer? 🧐

[@muftinaeemrashid]

الحمدللہ چند جوڑوں میں صلح کرانے کی اللہ نے توفیق دی ہے اور آپ کی ویڈیو بھی ان کے آگے پیش کریں گے تو مزید بہتری آئے گی انشاءاللہ

[@aqibchaudharymotivation]

love from india i am going to be a parenting trainer inshallah every sentence is a treasure.

[@truestar4408]

Simple and well educated person. Who dedicated so much time to understand Islam and human psychology and the relation between them. I wish I can attend his class personally. Thank you for loading these sessions. We need more counselors like him in every part of the muslim world. May Allah grant him more knowledge, health and blessed life.

[@haamidmir9801]

Masha'Allah ! I'm very amazed to know the real and depth meaning of the marriage in first lecture . Jazak'Allah ! Salman Asif Saddiqui Sir May Almighty Allah give us good health, wealth and give me a good life partner ! Ameen!

[@kishwersadaqat2054]

Behtareen sentence hai" jis ko samjh ziyada aya hai us ki zemadari bhi ziyada hai maaf krne ki bhi maafi mangny ki bhi "meri koshish yehi ho gi k main apni tamam life is principle k teht guzaron insha'Allah & Ameen

[@lurcativereads]

THANKX FOR THE ANECDOTE.

[@beauty9839]

Bhagwaan apko salamat rakhe glad to watch before marriage love from India 🇮🇳

[@dawoodalam8659]

😊

[@kishwersadaqat2054]

Acha topic hai buhaat kuch seekhney ko mile ga Insha'Allah Thank you ERDC❤

[@muhsinkamal9988]

A Crystal clear person.. Very authentic and absolutely beneficial❤

[@umma.abdullah.nadeem]

جزاک اللہ خیرا۔ اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے دل میں یہ باتیں اتار دیں

[@kishwersadaqat2054]

Ameen

[@haseeburrehman3655]

ماشاء اللّٰہ بہت خوب تعلیم دی مضمون کا انتخاب بہت اعلیٰ

[@sz4653]

Wish we would listened it 20 yrs back....Truly depicts the women nature ....wish our sons now grow in your way.

[@salmannasir7059]

Ameen

[@sumaiyakhan1136]

ap soch b ni sakte k how much its helpfull to listen to you.. beautifull SIR ❤

[@salmannasir7059]

Ap soch bhi nahin sakte???

[@ummeali3282]

Alhumdulilah Apki qeemti batain hein❤️❤️ bht meaning full talk..

[@UH_Madni]

May Allah SWT reward you @Salman sb n @ERDC for bringing up this much needed topic.

[@flfl-qg8mn]

چھوٹی چوٹی باتوں پہ جن کا دل دکھتا ہے۔وہ زندگی میں بڑےکام کےقابل نہی ہوسکے۔1:23:50

[@sanji546]

True

[@alikhansahab8356]

Bilkul sahih

[@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594]

Theak

[@aqsazainab6652]

Thanks for your guidelines for all of us.I am eagerly awaiting for part 2.May Allah bless you

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Aap muje se shaadi karlo

[@muftinaeemrashid]

اس موضوع پر مولانا وحید الدین خان نے بھی بہت خوب لکھا ہے

[@wasimcharity4all]

So loving comments from his Wife! May your family stay blessed.

[@Mahdbloxfruits]

Was anxiously waiting for this this is the sad reality of our society that both men and women don't know how to treat each other after marriage also third party plays a very crucial role in this relationship if they are too much involved may ALLAH make our spouses a source of happiness ameen

[@salmannasir7059]

Deep thinking...

[@sz4653]

It looks so nice to hold your daughter,MashaAllah Allah always keep your family happy.Ameen.

[@wajinapster1156]

itni detail shayad hi kisi ne bayan ki ho or wo bhi itni khubsurti se... Sir Allah apko kamyab kary

[@mawbeg]

بہت عمدہ ما شاء اللہ۔۔۔ جزاکم اللہ خیرا

[@mightypen11]

May Allah swt preserve our teacher... Almighty has given him more understanding of our religion Islam than any modern day scholar of Islam... Alhamdulillah for his knowledge...

[@NaveeraMAnwar]

ماشاء اللہ میرے استاد محترم نے بہت ہی بہترین انداز میں بات سمجھائی ہے

[@nidasiddiqui746]

Amazing information and knowledge I received!! Alhamdulliah:)

[@aqsazainab6652]

This is really informative and argumentative sir. ALLAH bless you.

[@learnquranslow433]

Just so soothing to hear ke farz ni ha khana bana kr dena phir bi 80 to 90 percent us ne bnaya! How can people not know this..

[@fehmidaasif4437]

Thank you sir your way of speaking is very impressive and no one tell this topic as such polite manners.

[@NotTakeBG]

Sir I saw your video today and I want to share my personal views that marriage is a basic necessity of life, I think the luckiest persons in this world are who got married and especially who have love marriage life. Who don't I understand them unfortunately they don't deserve it and I will also include married life is a best life ever

[@IrfanAhmed-kp5db]

Superb and very useful talk! May Allah bless you!

[@thecoloursheaven]

zabardast... JazakAllah

[@yasir3918]

True hero of our society..

[@ummabdul5412]

Masha Allah Cover the topic beautifully💞

[@mariaahmad4584]

"Badkar Aurtein" "Badkar Mardon" k Liye Hain...... "Badkar Mard" "Badkar Aurton" k Liye Hain...... "Pak Aurtein" "Pak Mardon" k Liye Hain....... "Pak Mard" "Pak Aurton" k Liye Hain...... (Surah-e-Noor, Aayat#26)

[@MuneerSpeaks2.0]

I love to listen to you sir. Love from kashmir #MuneerSpeaks

[@user-pe5zp8xv6z]

MashaAllah sheer khwar bachay bhi sun rahe hain Salman asif saab ko JzakAllah

[@iqbalbangalore5814]

شادی کا مقصد ، صاف اور بہتر معاشرہ کی تشکیل اور بے حیائی سے محفوظ رہنے کے لئے۔

[@sabafatima6767]

This lecture is exceptional and very intellectual... experience and wisdom both are so evident Masha Allah

[@muhammadsalmanwarsi4301]

That's a wonderful tpix

[@FaisalNaeemuae]

Jazak Allah kahir Salman Sahib

[@QQ-yv8yl]

Order of relation is the key parameter. It deservs full lecture with many practical examples where spouses forget to remember order of relation.

[@khalidsohailhakim8141]

Our societies fail because we dont teach them what is needed before they start their Life long Journey of relationships. In yesteryears a family would be blessed if our nanni granny grandpa or uncle would teach day to day with such examples. That is where a family bond is created and Legacy of a Happy relationship is passed on. Thank you for such a wonderful presentation.

[@farheenqaisar2476]

Words of Wisdom. Ma shaa ALLAH

[@uzmajelani2984]

Excellent lecture thanks

[@SochnayKiBaat]

شادی وہ واحد رشتہ جس سے تمام رشتوں کی ابتدا ہوتی ہے۔ اور شادی ہی وہ واحد رشتہ جسے چننے کے لیے اللہ نے انسان کو بہت حد تک اختیار دیا ہے۔ رشتہِ ازدواج میں منسلک ہونے کے بعد مرد و عورت کو جو اولاد عطا ہوتی ہے۔ وہ خالصتاً اللہ کی مرضی سے ہوتی ہے۔ اسی طرح اولاد بھی اپنے والدین کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہے۔ اور اسی طرح اولاد کو ملنے والے بہن بھائی بھی ایک دوسرے کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہیں۔ الغرض شادی کے علاوہ تمام رشتے اللہ تعالی اپنی مرضی سے بناتے ہیں۔ بس صرف شریک حیات کے انتخاب کے لئے اللہ تعالی نے انسان کو کچھ بہترین اصولوں کے ساتھ اختیار دیا ہے۔

[@salmannasir7059]

Well said

[@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594]

Exactly

[@hadiqaraza4011]

Wah ZABARDAAST SACH BYAAAN KIA HAI APP NE ,LIKE SO MUCH

[@sherbanomhussain3371]

Jazakallahu khairan kaseera brother 🤲💐👍

[@asdfghjkl-pm3jo]

This is one of the best lectures I have ever listened...so logical. So funny, cus it's tooo relatable 😂❤ May Allah bless Sir Salman Asif and his family..aameen. JazakAllahu khair

[@ravindersudesh8340]

Thank you brother ji for your teaching God Bless you

[@faisalazad1127]

SubhanAllah MashaAllah,bht si chezain jo lailmi main ghalat hogaen Allah mujhey muaf krday,temprament pr kaam krna hoga,jo hay wo wohi behtreen hay accept krna hoga.p

[@nusratrehman3854]

It’s very amazing topic

[@muhammadshafiquedaiwliqadr3208]

MA SHA ALLAH SALMAN Sahib,,salamat Rahiey

[@ijazrashid6237]

God bless you with reward for your contribution 🤲🏻

[@tasneemrasool8222]

Jazak Allah for all these tips.

[@hello_guys554]

Bht din se is topic per aap ke khyalat janna chahti thi...kai baar search bhi kiya....jazak allah

[@Firewer9]

Masha'Allah sir You are my murabbi..May Allah paak bless you with Afiyat prosperity Jannat goodness Peace

[@suchmuch4025]

May Allah reward you for your work

[@ummeali3282]

Bht bht shukria Sir❤️❤️❤️📿🎈🎈

[@KhanIsmaily]

Sir, Giving us a deep discussion for married and unmarried(those who nearer to perform Nikah)-- these points absolutely helpful--💐 Jazak'Allah Khair😊

[@talatansari6317]

MashaAllah.subhanAllah v beautiful conversation

[@sanarabbi7006]

U are doing great service to this Ummah by telling them what is expected of them...the heart bleeds to think what we have become...we dont know what we are...May Allah guide

[@NotTakeBG]

Sir jis ne shadi ki phir apny bivi aur bachon ki iss tarah se zindagi ko khoobsurt aur aasan banaya tu uss ne bila shak iss zindagi aur next life mein success hasil kerny mein koi b rukawat nhi as sakti wo bila shak kamyab ho ga

[@gadikamran3485]

کمال کا بیان ہے اور بہت واضح وضاحت کے ساتھ ۔۔۔

[@AbdulBasit-or9ub]

An excellent presentation. A very long time is required to absorb the main points of this talk.

[@ahsanasad1080]

Well elaborated n explained too....

[@fareensaifi7917]

Masha allah bht accha...

[@fashionforrevolution6002]

Great teacher sir Salman

[@lightupwithshua]

Very nice, there are many assumptions at the end of your conversation but mostly very informative and useful. Thank you for your efforts.

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Assalamu alaikum muje se shaadi karlo

[@TALIBGOSHANI]

Nice guidance Sir...

[@malihaehtram4628]

Salam Sir. If you do read comments please answer this for me. Is respecting and taking care of Saas Susar (who are like our parents and I totally agree with that) only for females? Are husbands never accountable or even told that his saas susar are like his parents too? Why do we only expect females to treat her saas susar like her parents and this is not expected of or even repeatedly told to the husbands?

[@haseeburrehman3655]

محترمہ میں اپ سے متفق نہیں۔ بہت سے شوہر سمجھدار اور خدا خوفی کے تحت بالکل اسی طرح اس کے بھی چار ماں باپ ہیں جیسے بیوی کے چار ماں باپ بیوی کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم شوہر کرے گا شوہر کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم بیوی کرے گی

[@saminamalik9745]

Maliha our society is dominated by Hindu culture. These traditions have no value in our religion. It’s hard to feel love for a person who doesn’t treat your parents with at least respect ( if not love). It goes both ways

[@zakirhusaindema2244]

Saas, sasur are responsibilities of saala. Respect and love are always there but in the name of love and respect responsibilities are thrusts on.

[@misbahhabib8866]

@@zakirhusaindema2244 and if there is no sala, what then? Shouldn’t son in law at least visit his sas susr now and then? And encourage his wife to look after them

[@zakirhusaindema2244]

@@misbahhabib8866 of course son in law should take place of the son in fact it’s a very good opportunity for son in law to gain sawab by doing so. By the way if you really love a person you would love all connected lives and things. For instance majnoon used to kiss a dog belong to Laila’s maholla. Hope you got my point🌹🌷💐 love for all.

[@sunlozara625]

What a beautiful and authentic analysis. ♥️♥️ There is hope until there are people like him exist. Shopping 😄😄😄Exactly, that’s all ......getting married about, unfortunately.

[@somithestoryteller1151]

Questions n sessions are logical m though provoking❤️

[@najmanajma3186]

Mashallah accha topic hai

[@azkashakeel6877]

This program is the Gem of my life.

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Aap ki shadi ho gai he?

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[@vallabhanakat4775]

Simply great !

[@princessleo5311]

Plz make your podcast too.Love to hear you again n again.

[@asraansari2294]

Best lecture ever👍

[@farazalikhan4570]

MashaAllah..you r right mentor in this society...these days..Allah apko lambi omer d

[@deliciousfoodvlogs2843]

Jazakallah khair💐

[@Khizr_khan_official]

MashaAllah good lecture

[@troisxa]

May Allah swt bless this man.

[@mirzazahoor7463]

Bohat Khoob.

[@tasneemrasool8222]

Creating awareness about this precious knowledge of order of relationship.Your contribution is the essence of perfection and excellence.I would love to be an active part of your organisation.

[@mrsnazar4001]

Sir JazakAllah you are such a good teacher in my life ..

[@wajeeha.mnaeem9384]

Keep up the god work of providing and transferring ur wit

[@NotTakeBG]

Sir you have explained it in excellent shape

[@sarahk4410]

Bohat khoob sir....👍

[@amnashahzad2509]

Well chosen words , catered wd awl d ethics n a very imp topic , very well explained . nvr thought of awl ds interlinked behaviours wd ds topic 👍

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Mere se shaadi karlo

[@almazshaikh7861]

Very knowledgeable man❤️

[@NotTakeBG]

It's realization of responsibilities of ours beloved

[@balqeesmanzoor4210]

A great teacher

[@manzoorsirseducationchanne5179]

Amazing

[@omarfaizan]

Amazing bhai Amazing

[@mishikanwalirfan7463]

His wife is very lucky to have like him husband

[@user-wg4zh3kv6n]

Masha Allah Baruk Allah fee amen.

[@tasneemrasool8222]

So True.Its all beyond rules and regulations.Beyond......

[@faisalazad1127]

Waiting for next

[@meresheherkamausam7821]

Great sir zindagi ki ranai is rahnumai me he