Married 22 yrs, caught having DL man on man love, now homeless

[@a.turner8813]

He wasted her 22 years! Plain and simple. I feel more hurt for her.

[@noirfit9721]

That’s what I was thinking

[@dorothyholder9229]

What he did was very selfish , his kids may not think as well of him as he believes

[@micheledeun1048]

Exactly

[@Poshgardenherbs]

Me too with his nasty selfish self

[@truthhurts...6574]

Exactly. But people are overlooking the devastation it caused his wife and kids. Can you imagine as a woman catching your husband with another man. Meanwhile your in a monogamous marriage so you think and he brings you home incurable disease???

[@nikkilove6283]

You know I see a lot of ppl are sympathetic regarding this man’s homelessness and his plight with his sexual identity, but no one is speaking on the fact that he was married for 22 years and actively engaging in homosexual activity. Not only was he engaging in homosexual activity but admitted he was still in the streets being reckless with other females. This has led to an increasing number of HIV in the black community but yet, no one is speaking of it. We have more down low brothers in the community than one can count.

[@aquariusrising2185]

Exactly

[@taylormade242]

Thats it Nikki, no one will speak the truth this man jeopardized her health, ruined her life !! But get credit for being truthful. Would he still be truthful had he not got caught????? Good comment!!!! Thank you!!

[@Mskimat1]

Come on with the truth and FACTS!!!

[@hairyape3935]

That's because they stay in the prison system

[@Minababy40]

Thank you!! I agree with all of these comments!! I'm shocked at the way people were being so sympathetic towards him like he did not make his own bed smh

[@rosestewart8879]

I feel sorry for his wife!!! Hell he could of given that woman, all kind of disease’s!!! He’s entitled to live his life as he chooses,but other people shouldn’t have to pay a price,because of his actions.

[@moneytalks556]

Exactly!!

[@washedbytheblood1738]

Facts 💯

[@ThouArtOfWar0724]

If unprotected never the less nasty

[@brownbronjames9811]

He's gonna burn like disco inferno

[@bettywilliams9633]

I agree.He need to repent and turn from sin.And he probably got aids

[@deemaverick987]

Then Black women are asked why they are single. This is ridiculous. He married a woman knowing he sexually desired a man.

[@sereneamani1713]

I don't see the correlation. There are men of all ethnicities who do this. Also, many or most (IMO) Black men are not gay, bi-sexual, or questioning.

[@talenalewis1823]

I am proud to be single. Total peace and tranquility.

[@calvalitabrowning9274]

I am single also. I choose to abstain from reckless sexual encounters or being misled by words to lure me into lust. I am peacefully living my life being responsible for myself and when it comes down to it, I am accountable for my actions. and my reputation. Period

[@vlux5916]

@@hydroblast2209 and we mixed and exotic women do not want to marry y'all unless y'all are millionaires

[@vlux5916]

@@hydroblast2209 no your point was to disrespect her until you got called out.

[@inactiveaccount6106]

I'm 22 rn. I can't imagine having 22 years of my life wasted... and having had all of my kids and thinking I'm done and can just focus on growing old with my loving husband. That's so unfair. I understand that there is the stigma of being gay, but please just stay single if you're scared of coming out. You don't have to get married and ruin someone else's life as a cover story. I'm glad things are getting better and people can live in their truth for the most part today. There's no excuse for that in this era. That's just plain selfish.

[@rosajohnson5212]

@Inactive Account, I think he is telling the truth. He was not gay. There are gays that will tell you that they can slow walk a straight person into being gay. That's why a straight person should steer clear, not out of bias, but to cover themselves from being slowly pulled in. I saw an episode on Oprah, with a gay man explaining that this can happen.

[@heatherghimire7744]

True that's hurtful to the partner

[@OneWhoKnowz]

People are discriminatory and sounds like u are victim blaming! He probably didn’t know his sexuality!

[@jasminewalker3522]

@@OneWhoKnowz oh well he’s trifling for what he did

[@DaeFranklin]

RIGHT! If your gay, just be gay stop bringing innocent women into it wasting their time! That’s selfish to me, but let them tell it he just living his truth! He should of been living his truth! He didn’t deserve to be homeless though💯

[@ubiquity02]

Bad incident = probably gave his wife and STD or AIDS. Be sure to interview his wife. She went through a lot and my sympathy is with her!

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Amen let’s talk to the wife too

[@divineorder7695]

I agree 💯❗

[@batmane8016]

What makes you think his wife wants anything to do with this mess I pray that lady has healed and moved on

[@patienceroper3517]

She had 22 years of her life stolen from her why in the world would she want to dredge all that pain up and be interviewed. I don't see that happening.

[@sensimania]

@@batmane8016 I was just about to comment something similar.

[@barbaralightfoot8157]

I can’t believe that the interviewer makes it sound like 2 or 3 unfaithful incidents isn’t enough to end a marriage. One adulterous affair is too much. A gay encounter makes it a whole other meaning. If your spouse turns out to be gay, then there is no fighting for your marriage, because you are not the gender that your spouse desires.

[@Raven-ug8uw]

Yeah, that was weird because many husbands would walk after a wife had one affair.

[@vegewoman]

Women are taught to accept infidelity and men are taught to cheat. It is like a indoctrination of sorts.

[@yackieshabaker4370]

@@vegewoman well me nah put up with that,if I found out that your cheating I'm gone cause that would mean me can't satisfy your needs or your interest in me gone(nah force nothing)

[@autumnrose6370]

He is a fake... DL men aint shit

[@natashaduvall3840]

The interviewer has to imply empathy to get the story told. Thank you to the interviewer for having the openness to get this interview out. People need to see the ramifications of living a lie. A black family can build and destruct just on lies. No racism or oppression just demonic desires to lie! Or lye. Yes, thanks for being candid black man!

[@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj]

I appreciate his honesty and pray he is off the streets soon. thanks for sharing this story.

[@daniella8400]

Wow, she divorced you after one or two instances? Tf was she suppose to do? Men leave without hesitation if a woman cheats!

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Right!! An ex coworker from years ago got married, marriage lasted a year. They got divorced bcuz her husband gave her herpes. He denied it at first, then confessed he was out there cheating. She divorced him and moved on quickly. She said, she realized it could have been worse.

[@morigomidamagi9206]

@@Southern.Nappiness DAMN herpes?? That's pretty bad. Whatever happened to him?

[@Dweeble233]

Guy code 101. ALWAYS divorce a woman if you catch her cheating.

[@daniella8400]

@@Dweeble233 that needs to be woman code as well! Be single if you want more than your spouse, it’s not that hard.

[@robsawyer8034]

@@Southern.Nappiness So he gave her herpes and she moved on? TO pass it on to the next person. Amazing. She should've stay with him.

[@belleame1064]

I can't give him Kudos for admitting to DL. HE lived his lie for 61 years.. He hit rock bottom and that's why he's been honest.

[@jatall2797]

You are not his God or Judge.. he doesn’t need your Kudos! What lie are you living?

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

No one is judging You all say that until the show is on your feet He is a deceiver and opportunist..if you have someone do this to you like he did to his ex wife you be like “burn him at the stake” you people kill mr with no judge zone until it happens to you Your child mother father or love one Then it’s time to judge

[@OliviaBaeBy]

@@jatall2797 Blah blah blah. Y'all always praising the wrong shht.

[@OliviaBaeBy]

@@jatall2797 Who's judging when you out it out on the table. I wish his ex wife had better judgment. Now look at him

[@jatall2797]

@@OliviaBaeBy stop acting like you know somebody that you don’t.., stop acting like you know someone’s story when you don’t… and on the real .., I don’t know anyone who are better liars and deceivers than females. Just because something is revealed about someone.., still don’t mean you know them, their heart, their mind, their motives, their history, or their story etc… PERIOD!!!

[@angelawhitaker3792]

Black men, just STAY SINGLE!!!!! DOWN LOW 🤔🤔😡😡 or is it their PRIDE??? Live YOUR life and STOP including US...... if you PERFER the SAME SEX DO NOT INVOLVE OTHERS.... BOTTOM LINE!!!!! Our Black Men are Locked up, dating out of our RACE ,gay or living on the DOWN LOW .... SMH. 😳😳😔😔

[@shelb7243]

Yep yep!!!!

[@derricklangford4725]

My grandmother's brother married a white woman next year will be their 60th wedding anniversary, stop being racist.

[@minniemouse6058]

Thats not racist

[@angelawhitaker3792]

@@minniemouse6058 thanks QUEEN!!!

[@Poshgardenherbs]

@@derricklangford4725 preferring and embracing your own is not racist, kick rocks Derrick

[@1stgoddesssings]

I am on the fence about how I feel about this. As a woman who has been with a DL I am upset if you know you like what I like don't come my way, waste my time when I could have had my forever love with a straight man, had my children with a straight man. I understand he is now free to live his life how he pleases but men if you know you like what we like be open and honest she might like a man who likes men also don't ever take anyone's choice from them...

[@rosajohnson5212]

@Goddess, so, you don't believe that he is telling the truth? He said he never wanted another man. He said he isn't even sure why, after all those years, he did it. It was probably a midlife crisis and once that young man, finally got him to give in, it took a hold on him. He liked the feeling. He didn't mean to hurt his wife. The same thing happens in heterosexual relationships. Some have been married just as long and for whatever reason, cheat with the opposite sex. I'm sad you experienced that. So did I and I consider him a nice person, but I don't understand why he married me, knowing he wanted men. Finding out after two years, didn't make it any less painful.

[@bklynblue2995]

Live in your truth...stop wasting ppl life ...

[@ceoofhoneyconjuredlash7326]

I agree with how you feel because I have been there before

[@l0rdapophis]

You sound mad bitter, just forgive, forget, and move on

[@MYFBAMB]

@@l0rdapophis how did you get bitterness from all that??? You’re sad and it sucks because you’re name doesn’t suit you.

[@rachelderenoncourt3881]

Not to say that this man isn’t being honest about his earlier sexual feelings which he seems to have been completely transparent with the interviewer. However, I have heard from police, social workers and educators who have seen the worst of the worst say that meth creates some of the most hideous sexual dynamics they have ever seen. So he may be telling the truth. I am not saying homosexuality is hideous. I’m saying under the influence of meth people may do things they never thought they would do.

[@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj]

I agree with you. When u see stories of people walking around in public completely naked like the NFL player in Florida recently, I believe that is definitely drug-user related. I pray that drugs get off the streets!

[@AyooCashley]

Omg my ex was addicted to meth and upon us breaking up he told me he screwed his neice (took her virginity), and watched his sister's (who were also on meth) make out 😭🤢🤮 it was beyond some Tennessee shiznit

[@lawtraf8008]

@@AyooCashley WTF, girl

[@AyooCashley]

@@lawtraf8008 I Kno right. We broke up for other reasons but that was the icing on the cake. It just hit me one day like oh yeah you're crazy crazy. It's ironic how the above commenter mentioned insane sexual situations involving meth, because I know first hand the two go hand in hand.

[@rachelderenoncourt3881]

@@AyooCashley that’s sounds about how wrong things go when meth is involved.

[@madonnaclark4074]

That drug use allowed him to explore his homosexulity.He wasn't to much on the down low if his name was ringing in the streets he likes men. and was sexually involved with a man and it got back to his wife.Some people on drugs do strange things for change. He most likely had bisexual demons he had been fighting for years.That young gay guy sucked his straight life right out of him and forced him out the closet. .He looks like a strong able bodied man.I don't 100% believe he was't having gay sex prior to his relationship with the young gay guy who exposed him.He can still physically work.I hope he finds the resources he needs to get back on his feet.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

You said a mouth full

[@jylessa_spiritgem4736]

Swear I thought that same thing! I was wondering if anyone was gonna bring that up or had commented on it already 💯

[@lali853]

Yep...demons is all that was about. Drug use opens the doors to them.

[@astrology4u]

Thats the same thing I was saying. He just can’t remember because he was high and at this point, all he knows is he likes gay sex so much that he was willing to risk his family. So the details of how he got there is mute.

[@kennethwilliams8240]

@Madonna Clark You not no fool and you sure as hell ain't lying.

[@kephrenh]

My uncle is gay and my aunt, his wife, is lesbian. They were put through therapies, tortures, and exorcisms. When it failed to cure them, my aunt’s mother threatened to kill herself, and my uncle was warned he would be disowned if he didn’t see the light. At the end, their pastor found a way to get them married, saying they would find healing in each other. Under family pressure and moral kidnappings they had three kids. After they were no longer required to have kids, they simply stopped having sex. For various reasons, they never looked for other partners and remained married until my grandparents and my aunt’s mother died. We learned the whole story after my uncle said he had nothing good to say about my grandparents. According to them, they were the lucky ones because many gays and lesbians they knew had to be married to people who didn’t know about their sexual orientation.

[@Erica_Cherelle]

Wow, that is an intense story. Thanks for sharing. That is interesting it was put together via exorcisms and torture. I cannot say I am surprised, I guess

[@DaeFranklin]

Yeah but they were forced! This wasn’t that man story! However this is messed up💯

[@tincredible]

@@DaeFranklin The man in the video wasn't forced per se, but there did exist a degree of social pressure to get married (from religious dogma, from families, etc.), especially in his generation. So, I get kephrenh's analogy.

[@RareGem-82]

Wow...what a story

[@sereneamani1713]

Just curious, are you and your family African-Americans?

[@derricklangford4725]

I like how he said "I really can't give people advice" hope he comes up on his luck.

[@nessiezee8887]

I'm sorry, but this is a damned shame!!!!

[@micheledeun1048]

Right !

[@jackiewilliams7876]

Yep sad!!

[@cappriment]

"Damn Mother Fucking Shame"!!

[@BellaDrips]

😅I was really thinking the same thing. Like, this nicca really threw his whole life investments and family away for some d? 😩

[@BellaDrips]

@AL 214 Ridickulous

[@Miss.Donnell]

As someone who found out my “former” partner was dl and now recently becoming a correctional officer, I don’t trust anyone!!! And being in the jails day in and day out, I’ve seen everything! I can’t imagine how his wife felt…

[@missdesireindependance5194]

I use to think it was a small percentage of men in our community that are bisexual but it’s not. A guy friend told me 80 percent of the town we lived in the men were down low.

[@RetrogradeBeats]

@@missdesireindependance5194 a guy friend told you? You do not like actual facts or data. You all like anecdotes and hearsay.

[@chriscooks5437]

@@RetrogradeBeats liars figure. Stats can't account for people living dishonestly.

[@robsawyer8034]

This is why it's recommended not to deal with multiple people, including women that have dealt with felons. Yet, they all get triggered when men say that. Far too many people spreading their sicknesses around.

[@paigealexander5601]

Some men view sex as just that & will get off by any means .They don’t even have to be that into men to engage in sexual activities with men.

[@DoesItReallyMatter25]

“She left you after ONLY TWO affairs??” 😂 umm, that’s two too many, Sir 😅

[@anastasiabeaverhausen860]

This is not about him being attracted to the same sex. This is about him being deceitful toward his wife.

[@djuanaberuk9908]

Very compassionate interview but I don't feel sorry for this man. He made a decision to do drugs and engage in sex as a priority. The fact that he became nonproductive after these revelations is a testament to his character. He was not a provider. He was a moocher all along. His wife had a business. He had nothing. I think after years of being taken care of he did not have the courage to leave and decided he would go ahead and be the woman he had become in the marriage. In a passive aggressive move to hurt his wife and his children, he decided to be sloppy, put her at risk and let the rumors humiliate her. He probably thought his lover was going to take care of him, which is why he has been homeless nearly 20 years. He definitely needs to live in his truth...evil and worthless!

[@fitgirlism3038]

You are the only person who zeroed in on this. First he said, 'we' had businesses. Then the interviewer asked how much it was sold for and he then told the truth...it was HER business. I have seen a serious connection with DL men not ONLY looking for a beard to make him look normal to society, but a HARDWORKING, PROVIDER, BEARD. A woman who has way more brains and ambition than he will ever have. That way, not only does he get to look normal, he gets to be taken care of like a pansy as well. Did we ever hear what job he was holding down? All I heard was beauty salon and store. That woman of 22 years lost ALL.THE.WAY.AROUND. Look at all the ways she lost: 1) Sexually. This gay man really did not have a desire for her. He did what was expected, got some kids to look normal. But the natural desire a man has for his woman? Nope. Can you imagine what emotional abuse that was to her? 2) Financially. You got a man who is living off of your ambitions. A man on meth is not a man who is simultaneously holding down a serious job/career. Its very likely that the money pressures were almost hers alone to carry. Had he been of a productive mind, he would not be homeless now. 3) Emotionally. You got a gay man, don't know it, and can't figure out why he is not giving you emotionally what a man naturally gives a woman he loves. The self-doubt. The self-blame. 4) Socially. The shame of this man doing men and the streets knowing about it. He seems humble here...and that has people fooled. I have met many a demon who comes across deserving a bit of sympathy. But all I see is that selfishness drove this man's entire life. Any sympathy should be had for the WIFE. Not this deceitful, unambitious specimen. Trust and believe, his kids are not as neutral as he wants to posit. They likely hate his guts...which is why he is on the streets.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

You are a very wise person! I said the same thing this man is a beta male who is an opportunist ..God has given all of us grace but when you use someone for 20 plus years no good will come to you..Karma is real too I just pray God gives him grace but he need to ask his ex wife for forgiveness This is not cool at all..A lot of people do this They don’t want you but want what you have and if you have any desperation spirits these con artist will pick you Marry you and drain you dry..”Fall From Grace” movie was heterosexual but people are users and takers And when desperate they will screw an animal if they have what they need..everyone saying hero and not to be judgemental but I see an evil man that probably has done way more than what he is stating..he only came out of the closet because he was expose..if he never got exposed he will still be running the streets using the wife money to get high

[@estherfarris3802]

By the Grace of God that's not you or I. Never look down own a man unless you're picking him up

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Whew!! I thought it was just me! This was exactly what was going through my mind!! SHE had the business, not him. He was just riding on the wave.

[@emmasarge2521]

Exactly.

[@reginajackson8051]

People save... save... save... your money If its only $20 a paycheck....after his divorce he couldn't afford an apt? He was a business owner...no stocks...bonds? Videos like this is why I bring my lunch everyday!

[@sereneamani1713]

I tend to think there were other factors involved in his downward financial spiral. Perhaps drug/alcohol abuse. Getting divorced and losing his business in his forties should not have stopped him from working or getting another business. I also wonder did he pay into the social security system. Evidently not, since he seems to be without a viable source of income. However, even at his age, there is hope for him. He just needs assistance.

[@MySignatureSoul]

Because it was probably HER who had all of that established before marrying him..

[@reginajackson8051]

@@MySignatureSoul could be...but he still shouldn't have been broke working all those years .

[@MySignatureSoul]

@@reginajackson8051 When you on drugs, that most definitely will have you broke.

[@HijabiRuby]

@@reginajackson8051 DRUGS! DRUGS! DRUGS! Drugs were his downfall. Has nothing to do with bringing lunch to work

[@breezluize3282]

I hope you paid this man for asking him so many intrusive questions.

[@artprice4847]

The beauty industry is or will not make you gay if You're not already gay

[@mariethomas3143]

@Breez Luize I totally agree 👍

[@cilla4000]

Facts!!

[@veei4762]

That's what I was thinking cause wth

[@roda9540]

I know like wtf are you t be askin this. Hella loud

[@clarencesanders3789]

You can try to hide it but you are who you are and the truth is going to come to the light.

[@zoodleinfo]

I heard you can hide what turn you on. That’s something. You can’t settle for what you are not attracted to

[@industryexposedofficial]

Very true it’s no need to hide it be honest out here

[@shenetheawardlow1033]

Absolutely

[@paigealexander5601]

Lol that’s not necessarily true many men are great at not getting caught & partake in activities no face no case 🤣🤣

[@Zizzy616]

@@paigealexander5601 what do you benefit from advocating for men to stay DL and to hurt women? Why can’t a black woman choose that she doesn’t want to be entangled in their mess? Do you know that the biggest enemy is the voice in their head, something is always off when someone is living a lie. You can lol all you want and assume by hiding that the DL have one upped someone but the OP is right people should choose good mental health and that starts by living in truth.

[@Broyale26]

Salute to his wife for cutting him off when she found out! He sweet for the streets, let him go.

[@lucey98]

Praying for him 🙏🏼♥️ He is a gentle giant. I appreciate his honesty and standing in his truth. Although he is homeless, his spirit is lovely ☺️ Lord continue to keep your arms wrapped around him. Remind him, he is not alone🙏🏼♥️

[@anmorgan3129]

Yes! AMEN AMEN 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕

[@moniquejones6482]

He wasn't honest with his wife and kids, exposing them to disease and stuff.

[@stevemcraemanager7119]

🤣🤣🤣you believe in magic.

[@remyruns3349]

Amen!!

[@chocolatenikki]

@@moniquejones6482 Exactly! Wtf

[@tincredible]

I hope he overcomes his homelessness. However, his visible discomfort with the last several questions indicates that he probably knew he was gay when he was young. Like so many Baby Boomers who came of age in less tolerant times, he probably just buried his same sex attractions, married a woman, and suppressed those attractions for as long as he could. But it's hard to live a lie forever. When people hit puberty and develop and libido, they are generally aware of their sexual attractions and curiosities.

[@sir3958]

Exactly but sadly that’s a lot of men … they try to live a certain way and start having a crisis in later years.

[@tincredible]

@@sir3958 Yep. Not living your truth will literally drive you crazy.

[@monicascott5265]

Well said

[@MzDyer11]

💯👏

[@jjholl00]

Yes, not living in your "self-truth" will eventually lead you to all sorts of problems in your life. YOU can see it throughout our society!

[@arimasmemphis4061]

He's lying. His kids hate his guts. They either hate him or they don't know where he is. If they really loved, respected and treated him like their father, they wouldn't let him end up on the streets. 1 child might, 2 maybe but all 3 kids? Just doesn't seem plausible. Idc what kind of drugs he did, even if I don't trust him with the money and have to pay his rent myself, my dad would have to really make me hate him or I'd have to be homeless and broke myself before I'd let him end up homeless and living on the streets, in a whole other state because his apartment burned down. No sir, I'm not buying that.

[@francesnelms610]

I was just thinking about what you said, you're so right. It might be that case also that he is ashamed of what happened and this is his way of punishing his self. I've seen people do this. He was saying he didnt understand his self. I really dont see this man as gay, lveI seen how some drugs help bring this about. They will do things not natural to who they are.

[@iy4563]

@@francesnelms610 Unless the other man raped him at gun point his as gay.

[@arimasmemphis4061]

@@francesnelms610 Yeah, drugs will make you do something strange for a piece of change but if it wasn't for money and he wasn't forced, he just got high and slept with a man, he was already gay. The drugs just make you careless and lose your inhibitions about whatever it is that causes you to suppress those feelings, in the first place, whether it's your morals, society, personal responsibility, etc. you lose all of that when you get high.

[@karmenwilliams3682]

This to what I think

[@Abasi.Amin242]

Believe it or not, there are some addicts that would rather stay in a shelter or even the streets because they don't want to expose their families to their sickness. In my own family my 1st cousin was "using" and his brother offered to take him in but he declined because he was "for the streets" and wanted to keep using. We all love him but it's very hard to live with an active "crackhead" so we had to love him from a distance. He's doing better now and is living in transitional housing.

[@detrajackson5992]

People can say 'it's the black communities fault' or any number of variations of that statement.While the REALITY is that may be partly true; however, THIS man is not being 100% honest. As a healthcare professional in the field of public health, I will say with HIV positive patients, I have heard it all!!! People can say what they want, but having to tell a person they are HIV positive and them knowing it was from their husband having sex with men is a PAIN you do not EVER want to hear nor experience!!! Men like this do not protect themselves. They are the great pretenders. He had a family, they were entrepreneurs, but that didn't matter to him... He is no victim. His wife and children are. Imagine the devestation he left in his wake; then he left the state for his family to deal with the aftermath of embarrassment and destruction! Him coming to ATL was very strategic on his part and we all know why... This is very sad on so many levels. I am an advocate for people who want to live in their truth. But not at the expense of a spouse, their health, or children. My apologies for the lengthy post.🙏🏾

[@wingardhouse8461]

You aren't the lie detector you don't know if he is telling the whole truth or not don't be so certain. You don't know how much he loved his wife or family. To men sex is just sex. It was just an urge. But as a woman you look at it totally different as if he did it because he didn't love his wife because that's how you would take it. All actuality, not the case at all

[@liane585]

It was definitely somethings he left out. The interviewer didn't dig enough for some of the questions and answers I would have liked to known. And ignorant ppl can keep on believing oh sex is just sex. That low vibrational spirit will have you believing that. Men and women need to stop sinning against their own bodies having sex with just anyone because of lust.

[@emmasarge2521]

You spoke NOTHING but the whole truth.

[@senoracheapee1864]

you said what needed to be said!

[@paigealexander5601]

Lmao y’all the same people who was against gae marriage & it use to be illegal for men to have same s relationships. Just imagine the amount of dl men back then 😎😂. He was Turned out which can happen to any man or woman. He said the urges came the older he got which most older men become open to new experiences. He’s no victim , but also never claimed he was . He did throw away his life & family for a sexual encounter regardless of who he cheated with cheated .

[@talishaclark7308]

I only feel sorry for his wife , he deserves everything coming his way !

[@paigealexander5601]

Lol he never asked you to feel sorry . Y’all are watching a story of a homeless man 👨 & y’all watching to entertain yall selves . This is somewhat exploitation of these ppl , but they agreed.

[@beverlydiggs501]

We're the same age this is a Damm change I can't feel for him too much he knows better

[@wellalabama7308]

My father is dl with multiple children. He create us to show the world that he's straight. But honestly hate all his seeds. Why create us, just to hate us. Sadly was when I realized that it's nothing that I can do. So he could see the beauty and love in me. Until he stop hiding who he is.

[@Qwertyx017]

how did you find out hes DL

[@Mookara1st]

At this point u need to just re-tgpe evthing u just wrote ma!!!!! EDIT, EDIT, EDIT!!

[@thequeensonarant9403]

The interviewer tried several avenues to blame the WOMAN,😆Thank God the gentleman told the truth 🙏🏽💯💯💯

[@paigealexander5601]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jayelove1504]

He said no he didn't mess with crack like it's worse than crystal meth....😂... I really admire his humbleness and honesty....good luck to you Sir Charles.🥰🙏

[@torriebrown9607]

You so crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@peacefaith560]

he wasnt honest with his WIFE!! I love the single life !!

[@sfwatxyo2162]

Too many people are out here living lies and sleeping in a bed of secrets. Be honest with yourself before you waste other people's time, energy and lives.

[@butterflyblue9016]

Somebody turned him out. Took him to the clouds and made him feel so good that he just did not give a damn about his family.

[@Tiwaplus3]

😂😂😂 agreed! That’s wild tho, some people just risk everything for something so temporary. That grass ain’t greener on the other side

[@TeliciaBrathwaite]

​@@Tiwaplus3I'm telling you because look where he at now being gay is a hefty price to pay

[@TeliciaBrathwaite]

​@@Tiwaplus3it changes your whole life

[@tanjaellis6998]

Good luck dude. Seems like a cool guy. Pray he gets it together and gets a place to live.

[@heyitsj1834]

I always thought this is the norm in Atlanta- like the men were either openly gay or on the DL, no such thing as a straight man in ATL- that was my impression anyway.

[@Facebook-sb3eo]

He from Toledo, Ohio

[@t.q.1331]

Down Low

[@sheilablount2392]

Not only ATL you can be on the DL anywhere California Chicago New York

[@liyaxo4560]

Unreal, i feel sorry for the ex wife. Wasted 22 years of her life while on the DL and wants sympathy. No amount of adultery is acceptable! Unbelievable, I hope he gets the help he needs and prays he is forgiven for his horrible decisions in life. I hope she didn’t get an std from his cheating DL ways. Calling it a “dibble dabble” and laughing like it wasn’t a big deal shows what is wrong with some of these men. Best believe if it was reversed they would not put up with it.

[@paigealexander5601]

How did he want sympathy & the man goes around randomly interviewing people & exposing their lives for your entertainment. You get to sit back & watch homeless people with no resort tell their deepest darkest secrets . Relax

[@beverlydiggs501]

Meth really at age 64 man what is your problem

[@JustMi1]

This was a really interesting story. I’m wondering if the lifestyle of drugs contributed to opening him up to a different sexual orientation.

[@tracishirley88]

And Kevin Samuel wonders why women initiate divorce. Smh DL men.

[@rolandemorgan5992]

Good interview. He made bad choices and admits he did it to himself. Satan can ruin your life and future.

[@prettylittleliar7311]

Big facts the Bible say he come to kill, steal and destroy

[@athorpe630]

He put his wife in danger,and wasted her life he obviously didn't care about her, or her health. So he's reaping, the seeds he sowed. Karma don't play.I had 6 years of mine wasted,so I can't imagine 22.

[@kimtallsleekchic2118]

This is one of my worst nightmares!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@realn.w.a554]

I have one question though, have you ever been with a women or thought about it?? If you have, then you are your own nightmare and a hypocrite. & If not then be free to be afraid of whatever you please lol😄

[@yackieshabaker4370]

How many relationship you see a last 10 years much less 22?here we have this black couple building a life together for 22 years only to be destroyed because of the husband's DL lifestyle,so sad.

[@honeypott01]

He made a choice he felt was better for him, but eventually the devil came collecting, leaving him homeless. I don’t know how anyone cannot see the results from his choices. The devil always come to collect even if you change your mind. You have to give up SOMETHING to the master you chose.

[@sakimoontheefixer]

To the Interviewer, your upbeat attitude and cadence, is great for your Guests. It triggers brain stimulus, which is good for anyone. Our homeless citizens need that brain stimulation, from good people as often as possible.

[@NurseSnow2U]

Agree wholeheartedly, pessimism and a condescending tone are how most would've approached this. He truly is a gem.

[@paigealexander5601]

@@NurseSnow2U Most would of done much better infact . I notice the black people exploit & the white side atleast pretend to care & they often try to get these people help whether thsts shouting out a go fund me & etc .

[@laaaayb.1124]

This is literally why I left my bd when I was pregnant , it’s so sad how many men are on the DL . I feel like a mf shouldn’t have no shame living in their truth.. to date or even procreate with a woman KNOWING THAT YOU DESIRE TO BE WITH A MAN is wrong asf , especially if you dont have the balls to simply let her know !

[@realn.w.a554]

Do you feel the same way if a women decided to procreate but had thoughts before about other women... Or is this a one sided thing, I've found that "some" BLK people are hypocritical when it comes to this.

[@paigealexander5601]

@@realn.w.a554 It’s definitely a 1 sided thing . Woman especially Black woman 👩 are allowed to do whatever they want . That is why they tend to be more open . If a man 👨 has relations with a man he’s automatically labeled gae & never looked at the same by alot that’s why most aren’t open , because they may not want to live a homosexual lifestyle .

[@realn.w.a554]

@@paigealexander5601 🎯 EXACTLY, you are the only person besides myself who makes sense on this topic, and I believe other people see it that way too, it's just that acting dumb to the facts suits them more.

[@kapplejacks22]

Sometimes they use women to have kids

[@realn.w.a554]

@@kapplejacks22 Yup & women do too vice versa, plus benefits 💰.... & Some of them be freaking they home girls on the side.... I've seen it all😄 for years

[@johnwilson5157]

I hope he’s doing better, Prayers !!!

[@destiny2572]

I respect his honesty, however it is wrong for a man to live on the down low deceiving women, which is the cause of many divorces, as well as diseases. (not that you can’t get disease in other forms) Bottem line, Real women desire real men & vice versa. I pray that he OVERCOME & get back on his feet.

[@greengoddess6355]

Back on his feet? He never did anything in the first place. The businesses were his ex-wife's before they got married. If it wasn't for her, he would have been homeless the entire 22 years of marriage.

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Exactly the people on the comments are such frauds until it happens to them or a very close love one of theirs..this man is an opportunist and I pray God gives him grace but what he did to the ex wife is not cool at all

[@chriscooks5437]

He's not honest. There is no one left for him to lie to. His wife, kids, family & hometown know about him.

[@greengoddess6355]

@@destiny2572 He's not going to get it together. He never had it, and doesn't want to get it together. He comes off as a "nice" ,"honest" person and when someone is fooled to give him a chance; he shows his true colors. He's not a young man, so I can bet people have attempted to help him. He likes his situation. A person doesn't change much, from their past, especially when they are in the exact situation.

[@reginaldandrews4002]

This is what happens when you don't accept what you obviously are, and you live a life of deception to yourself and others. Smh

[@AuntieThree]

It's hard for them to be honest when the world doesn't accept them for who they are

[@sereneamani1713]

@@AuntieThree Hard does not equal impossible. I was born and raised in the Bay Area, California, so I don't get the claims of homophobia (i.e not being accepted by the world, etc.). I was raised to love people, end of story. Whether I agree with their ideologies or behaviors or not. However, love for people does not obligate me to accept any and all ideologies, standards, and behaviors. I feel I am obligated (based on my standards and beliefs) to love people.

[@kialonng]

So true

[@reginaldandrews4002]

@@sereneamani1713 .......And there it is!💯

[@zonagale2200]

Judgmental.

[@Carolinas_SweetTea]

This was interesting. It goes to show what you do in the dark will always come to light. But I tell people all the time no one person is better than the next. It's a whole lot of married men living the DL life and their wives have no idea. I'm almost 36 and alot of people can't believe I don't have kids and I haven't ever been married. Well one thing I am is smart. I can detect a gay man or a straight man with gay tendencies almost instantly. I appreciate this man's honesty because there is millions living a lie. However I don't feel he should be homeless at 64. I hate he for involved with that meth. That drug right there is wiping people out left and right and I hate to even hear about it!!! It break's my heart for real. I will praying for this man and his stability. He needs a home no matter what he has done to be on the streets. No body should be hungry or homeless....nobody. even though it happens everywhere I don't wish that shyt on nobody. Thank you for hitting the streets my dude and sharing this video. He said one particular thing that stuck out to me and that should be a lesson and advice to all and that was to BE HONEST AND OPEN ABOUT ANYTHING YOU DO WITH YOURSELF AND WITH OTHERS. NEVER LIVE A LIE. YOU KNOW THE STORY....YOU TELL ONE LIE...AND YOU GONE HAVE TO TELL ANOTHER LIE TO COVER UP THAT LIE AND ANOTHER LIE TO AND ANOTHER. LYING GETS PEOPLE HURT. BUT ALSO TELLING THE TRUTH HURTS WORSE BUT SOMEBODY HAS TO TELL IT. 💯💯💯 I always said that I wish the DL ones would come clean and tell who they have been with. It would help out alot. I'm a good woman out here but I refuse to date right now. I just can't allow myself to right now. I'm kind of just being observant at this point and trying to better understand things. This type things happen with women too but no one is really talking about that and how women doing it. Cause they going in hard now. And I think it's highly because of things like this. 💯 My prayers and hearts go out to everybody. For real. I will say this before I go .... Do what makes you happy and tell the truth. I don't care how long you been with someone or If you keeping it from your family or what you gotta be 💯. You can move or relocate or whatever it is to hide it but just be honest about it. Honesty takes you a long way but don't be out here lying cause one day you will be caught....💯

[@KD-OFFICIAL]

Yeah, being honest is the way to go!

[@michealmangaroo8990]

He should have being truthful from the start I would hate him if I was the wife

[@louisejones5773]

This is very well said

[@girlinterrupted2625]

You are who you are and eventually it will come to light. It’s too bad he didn’t feel comfortable enough to live his truth and worse that the wife got caught up in it.

[@_prettybrownbrown7729]

This why I stopped dating in Atlanta .

[@missdesireindependance5194]

Good for you 👏

[@gymeni]

Yet they litter the dating apps. You have to love how most of them suddenly hail from other ATL areas (Decatur, Stone Mountain, etc.).

[@lavender123u]

My childhood friend married her Atlanta husband. I feel bad in a way

[@talenalewis1823]

It's a scary world out here especially when having unprotected sex. I'm scared to have sex. You never know who's straight or gay these days and I'm not trying to find out. Celibacy is the best route for me.

[@vanessastokes977]

He just smileing he think that shit funny good thing she got rid of his ass talking about one or two incidents one or two leads to three and four and so on and so on at lest she was smart and nipped that shit in the bud....

[@robsawyer8034]

All the wife did was let him go to pass on whatever he had to someone else. And the wife had it, and like most women, she probably hooked up with someone else.

[@m.roberts1120]

"She divorced you JUST for 1 or 2 incidents ...?" Just?? Guess she was supposed to stick around for more (particularly if he'd cheated with a woman).

[@Southern.Nappiness]

A friend of mines' sister was an attorney who died from AIDS. She got it from her husband. It took her quickly. After she died, he was still in denial. She didn't get the opportunity to divorce him. 🤨🤨

[@LiciousSavage]

“BEING FAITHFUL HAS ITS REWARDS “.

[@tboogie000]

I don't think working in a beauty salon is going to make you go gay. 🙄

[@shantafields4860]

He was GAY before all of that. He hind it until the devil took over him.

[@gymeni]

Yeah, because like he said, dudes was all up on him. These constant excuse having mfs.

[@rosieparez]

This is called karma. You can't screw over other people and think life won't screw you.

[@7mariposas740]

Not cool man putting your woman's life in danger when you vowed to be the man who protected her for the rest of her life that is not cool at all and it's downright disrespectful and disgusting

[@sherryhillman9197]

He is in his 60’s and still using drugs. Some people just never grow up and become responsible. Surround yourself with good people that will motivate you, support you and let you know when you are wrong.

[@shinecam1]

Drug addiction has nothing to do with growing up 😐My cousin was young, a mother with a disabled child and she got hooked on crack for 19 years. The stress she went through and blaming herself for his condition, was a heavy burden. She's been clean now 17 years, a nationally licensed Drug Counselor who opened a shelter and support group for women in recovery. Only God can take that taste and desire from an addict.

[@rotricesummerville7910]

Prayers going up for this man

[@jessiewashington1221]

Prayers going up for this mans wife.

[@co9971]

...there's always more to the story than just one side yall. clearly i hope he gets off the streets but lets put this into perspective (bc i did the math) ....born 1957, married in 81, divorced bc of DL gay stuff in 2003. Yall, in 2003 people were still dying of AIDS. so let's not act like 2003 was the most tolerant, low-key era ever. one of my mom's friends died of aids in 2007 and a co-worker as late as 2011.

[@chriscooks5437]

Tolerance has nothing to do with adultery!

[@h2d127]

Hope he turns his life around and get clean. I will pray 🙏🏽 for him.

[@shirley9209]

"Turning around" is what got him in to trouble in the first place.

[@h2d127]

@@shirley9209 well Shirley you should ask him to be your man.

[@shirley9209]

@@h2d127 How is the Low Down, Down Low Brother who wasn't a man to his wife is going to be a Man for me, you go for it you saw him first.

[@lizhijabi5418]

Exactly why I’m glad I’m still a virgin & not giving no man kids period but bless him but he’s wasted her time youth and all

[@boebender]

Hats off to Mr. Charles!!! Thank you!

[@redray9146]

Meth turns men out. I’ve seen it happen quite a few times. Hats off for him sharing his story. Prayers for him and his living situation 🙏🏽

[@chesterjade7630]

He said he was gay now. That means he never really wanted to be with a woman in the first place. I felt like he was holding back. Oh well.

[@redray9146]

@@chesterjade7630 💁🏽‍♀️

[@realn.w.a554]

What about all the other people who do drugs and are still straight.... I think y'all are just finding something to blame, this man either was bisexual anyway but never acted upon his attraction to men till waay later in his life, or he was curious, tried it and found out he really does like it... Drugs didn't have to be involved, it happens everyday, and again there are plenty straight people out there on drugs lol

[@keepingupwithnae8255]

@@realn.w.a554 right I hate it here

[@verdahunt6006]

So basiclly he lived a lie for 22yrs.

[@moon.star2]

Like how the interviewer kept asking questions until he got to bottom of everything

[@sereneamani1713]

Yes, and did so, I feel, in a dignifying manner.

[@Amanda-zd7ei]

You don't need his entire story, questioning someone like they're being interogated for being homeless

[@Shespretty08]

Almost like therapy. It’s a technique.

[@firstnationfall5451]

There are alot of blk men doing this??!!!!! To their families. God help us.

[@blewprent]

And if she hadn't found out, he would have continued. No conscious. Black men dont see a problem with it if it's done in secrecy and the wife doesn't know. Sad.

[@firstnationfall5451]

@@blewprent I agree. Sad and troubling at the same time.

[@chandrareid6966]

Stay single and live for God

[@firstnationfall5451]

@@chandrareid6966 I am not single but have a wonderful husband who is not. From here. I have never been so happy.

[@chandrareid6966]

I am saying this to those who may not find a good supportive husband to marry. Stay single and focus on your spiritual relationship with God you can never go wrong or be hurt.

[@destinysdaughters965]

I hate that you pushed him while he was obviously uncomfortable. All people deserve respect.

[@tatyana137]

Yes. Very pushy and very inappropriate

[@chriscooks5437]

How uncomfortable were his wife and kids having to face his deception, decreased standard of living. He out his comfort over others long enough.

[@muscle4u]

God bless this man and good luck to him 👍🏾👍🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ksr2059]

Being Gay did NOT bring this poor gentleman to the streets. ITS GOT NOTTHING TO DO WITH IT. Don't be ridiculous Mr. Camera man.

[@spencejoy]

Camera man never said being gay led to the streets. He said drugs and partying led him to the streets. You're projecting.

[@ksr2059]

@@spencejoy listen again dear, there no projection only the reality of the words spoken. Start at 6:50 and put your listening ears on.

[@rosephillips6547]

@@ksr2059 I heard the same!!!

[@skyfalldeadpool1633]

Being a cheating DLan is what made his ass homeless. Potentially exposing his wife to deadly diseases being on drugs and most of old folks do not use condoms. Seriously!!! Why are y'all acting like he is martyr???

[@lenebrantley221]

Maybe his children would help but the drug addiction is holding them back. Hope he gets help needed. 🙏

[@derrekastudwood6574]

Wow.god bless him hope all turns out well for him 🙌🏾

[@chuckfrost5624]

What he did in as far as deceiving his wife was an evil, cruel thing to do. He did not have the courage to live as a gay man. He destroyed that poor woman's life. You evil bastard.

[@vanessavarner]

Please STOP this madness of interviewing these helpless people. Are you going to help them in any way???

[@egonetworktv603]

I watched this interview and you handled it with so much care. I was compelled to Subscribe.

[@TBISYTC]

I admire this guy's ability to interview that gentleman without making it a low key insulting or cringey encounter ( inquisitive but respectful).

[@valerieunderwood6588]

I agree with the person who said that meth brings out the worst in people they do things that they never thought they'd do.

[@linnyw1072]

Drugs are demons ..the allow evil spirits to enter into you ..like lust greed covetousness...alcohol- hard alcohol is too...why do you think they call it spirits?

[@lovelysosweet8386]

I don’t agree! It was already in him!

[@Purple_911]

@@lovelysosweet8386 durrr thats what they said. It was in him and the meth brought it out.

[@Me-gc9kp]

...not really, he could have pick that spirit up sleeping with other women.

[@streetsofgold4310]

@@Me-gc9kp I agree!

[@1041normalguy]

Gay or straight god still love you.

[@zanie906]

💕

[@mrbear716]

👍👍👍👍

[@zhyondavis8776]

Amen! 🙏🏽❤

[@p.vinson9149]

Absolutely he does but let's not forget that sexual immortality is an abomination to him!

[@len1045678]

@@p.vinson9149 how you know that ? Is it base on what you red in the Bible? A Bible that was written 2000 + years ago when ppl was more ignorant compare to now ? Is ppl that found that beein gay was abomination and want to say god don't like it, God love you just the way you is, he never made no mistake with nobody or anyone

[@teeblack9066]

Wow this was so d to hear his story but at lease he's being honest about it🖤

[@ms.branch1207]

He is the best one to give advice. Tell them what not to do.

[@doc8713]

Interesting how Atlanta is the Mecca for even the Black Gay “Homeless” male. What is it about the ATL ?????

[@shannonbourgeois6083]

Evil place, it's like a gay spell was put over that place

[@mauricejohnson6123]

GREAT ATTITUDE BROTHER! HE DIDN'T WANT TO TELL YOU BUT YOUR UPBEAT DELIVERY MADE HIM COMFORTABLE SHARING. DON'T CHANGE YOUR STYLE! 😁

[@noirfit9721]

I don’t feel sorry for him. He deceived a woman for all those years. Betrayal by cheating is already horrible enough but to cheat with a man?!? And being married to a woman for 22 years!? My heart goes out to his wife. How shocked she must have been and how hurt. She built a life with this man, gave him 3 children only to be betrayed in that cruel way. I understand that being gay wasn’t accepted back then but wasting someone’s time knowing you had those desires is just deceitful. Shouldn’t have gotten married at all. Honesty is always the best policy

[@Ria-sd2ex]

I feel super bad for his wife and kids. That is so selfish to cheat(be it gay or straight). He also sounds like he had a serious drug problem the entire time. I'm sure his family had to put up with alot more than he let on. That being said, it's sad he's in this situation, but he didn't have to be. Also, maybe if our community wasn't so hateful towards gay ppl, he never would have felt the need to get a camouflage family. Did the interviewer really say, "Did she really just divorce you for 2 or 3 instances after 20 something years of marriage?" Wtf🤔why wouldn't she??!? At the very least, he gave some decent advice at the end.

[@jonathancoleman9266]

Woman cheat all the time though?

[@Ria-sd2ex]

@@jonathancoleman9266 People cheat. Women and men, gay and straight equally. Still isn't right, so what's your point?

[@phyllisduncan1408]

This is so sad,you can't play with people and think there are no consequences.

[@jefbowles7745]

Being honest is the best policy. Hope he will be alright bless your gingerbread hearts 🌻🎃🌻🎃🌻🎃

[@wazxwazx6076]

He said he learned but he didn't if he is still involved in the same shit. His life changing is equivalent to a curse that's what he's really trying to say.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

“She divorced you after _only two or three incidents???_ “ 😒😒🖕🏾

[@MySignatureSoul]

Right! What you mean “Just” 2 or 3??? Like damn, it’s sad how men look at cheating as no big deal yet it ruins lives even once. Then when men get cheated on or even teased in elementary they spend their lives making sure every woman pays for it. Foh

[@edwardpinnix249]

It's his drug use that took him down! It will do that no matter what your sexuality is.

[@greengoddess6355]

Yeah, overcoming drugs abuse is a start. However, if this guy wanted a better life he would have to work towards it. He doesn't want anything better. People will be more willing to help him, when they see him trying to help himself.

[@toddjones9833]

You get what you deserve in life you took 22 years from that woman by sneaking around when you do in life catches back up too you

[@kevinharris3993]

It is obvious he suppressed his urges for years because a change in lifestyle rarely happens the way he he is claiming. Those urges were there but suppressed and possibly the trauma attached to it. . Trauma and suppressed feeling are almost always an event that occurred as a child. Sometimes the trauma is so severe that the brain blocks it to protect oneself. Drugs are never the real problem in one's life. Drugs are how we medicate pain and trauma. However I hope the best for this man and that he gets the help he needs to overcome his mental issues as well as his addiction.

[@dabigd1860]

@Kevin Harris YES. You make valid points. And there are a lot of traumatized men out here. They have been traumatized since they were little boys. They have been both physically and sexually abused by both men and women, neglected by parents, unencouraged unloved unmotivated, maligned by the public educational system that is supposed to teach them. Etc etc

[@awckid3]

@@dabigd1860 Very true!

[@monicascott5265]

But why do people chose drugs there are so many other addictions. How does one decide that it will be drugs? I don't understand..

[@ms.whitefolks1223]

Sometimes when people are using methamphetamines they do wierd things.

[@kizzysimmons2745]

ABSOLUTELY True

[@nadinegayle5223]

This is so damn nasty, shameful and worthless

[@tishtvinc3403]

Wait a minute lol are you judging him? Lol

[@ricardored207]

Everybody’s GAY is different he’s in my father’s age group,I couldn’t imagine having to hide his true feelings, IT’S so many men running around here like this, and you’ll NEVER know until the truth is revealed.🤯

[@jackiebennett6304]

Not everyone. I’m not and I’m a female. This isn’t true

[@briannaburch6737]

@@jackiebennett6304 thank you exactly Not everyone is Gay I’m a woman as well and straight

[@tastacherry6939]

That is so true. There is a lot of men in the dl. Sometimes when men get older their testesrone levels drop and the same with women their estrogen level drop. Then they become bi sexual. I am not married and the city I live in I am very reluctant to become involved with a man here out of fear he is bi sexual. There is so much of it here. Sometimes that is an avenue to transmit HIV/AIDS. So I don't even concern myself with being in a relationship. Plus I live alone and don't want to become sick. I will just wait on the the Lord.

[@neicynunnery]

I understand ur point but not everybody but some. True with the men statement...some sure are on the DL. I don't date women.

[@tastacherry6939]

A lot that is so true

[@SublimeThinker]

Well I appreciate his honesty

[@joycejones4855]

Always remember that people will eventually see the real you

[@rspen2142]

I think his urges were always there, but because he was/is from "that" generation and, not to mention, black, he probably suppressed such urges that have always been there. I, also, think he was a down-low athlete. I had a "bi" guy tell me that once you explore a man you can't forget that feeling...

[@sereneamani1713]

Interesting, I've heard "hetero" guys say once you explore a woman, you can't forget that feeling. Your real point is??

[@rspen2142]

@@sereneamani1713 I would expect a hetero guy to only explore women. But, most consider a man who is married that messes with men, more on the bi spectrum. The fact, however, was that I was responding to the video where the interviewer asked the gentleman if he lives as a straight man or a gay man. `He said that he lived as gay... So, my current point is, that before someone responds to the comments, they need to comprehend the content of the video and how responses apply to said video!

[@sereneamani1713]

@@rspen2142 Thank you. I was thinking in terms of both, but I get your point.

[@streetsofgold4310]

Rspen I have heard old folks say that a Bisexual person, mostly prefers the same sex rather than the opposite sex.