Married in Korea Q&A : How we met, first impressions, being black in Seoul and more 🌸

[@madgiemadgie9128]

This young man is A MAN.A lot of older men could learn a lot from him. Authentically masculine… decisive, and quietly confident, exudes strength and security and ( no false bravado and machismo) . He introduced his girlfriend quickly, he informed his family of his intentions without fear ( I am sure it was done respectfully). No playing around😂. They are a beautiful looking couple and I wish them every happiness.

[@4h44pm]

Ahahah thanks, he will love the compliments ! ❤

[@SpannaBanna-e4e]

It's amazing what being raised by a father can do for masculinity. Most blkmwomwn are racing theor kids without fathers a d is kneecapping them.from the start

[@yogyal292]

I thought the same 🥰🥰

[@AJD7233]

Exactly! 👏🏾

[@gailwilliams9798]

@@yogyal292and me

[@acaciampoyi9019]

Him indirectly calling you a gem was the best part of this video, y’all are too cute 😭🫶🏾

[@kadijahbatiste5342]

I just subscribed and I loved when he said "it's my life I didn't need approval or anything.

[@YTD07]

Quote of the century "it's my life, I didn't need approval "

[@oliviamonteque6407]

A man that knows what he wants !

[@-ilham1371]

I love love love how cute you guys are, it’s so natural and cute 😭!! I’m so sick of KZbinrs being like “KOREAN husband, how we met”. Your channel is so normal and cute, just a cute couple living their cute lives haha. You guys are toooo adorable

[@tyunlvsuheh]

She’s no different

[@-ilham1371]

@ no she’s not? Other KZbinrs day “me and my KOREAN husband” “KOREAN husband go out on date” she just says “life in Korean with my husband”, “going to xyz with my husband”, she isn’t emphasizing ethnicity she’s just emphasizing where she is. If I was living in Korea I’d for sure make my title “life in Korea” cuz I’m in Korea? Korea is popular? I want views?

[@jejeamaris8186]

​@@-ilham1371 I mean it's the same for people who titled it Korean husband/bf because that's a popular phrase that people search up as well. The title brings attention.

[@chateaumangaroo8088]

I’m a Black American woman in Korea. Husband’s job brought us here and we’re loving it!

[@lvstjonnellfaith]

When bro said ''damn'' because instead of noticing him you noticed his English level 🤣🤣🤣

[@4h44pm]

@@lvstjonnellfaith 🫣🫣🫣

[@LavenderMingi]

8:31 I love this!! My husband’s dad said some pretty crappy things when he found out about us but my husband didn’t let that come in between our relationship. It’s been 20 years and we’re still going strong with 2 awesome kiddos. It boggles my mind when ppl let go of love bcuz of what relatives think. Your happiness and sanity matters!

[@4h44pm]

Agreed ! Love to see your relationship stayed strong after that 💖 wish you the best

[@mdgarner1]

This young man is amazing. He is the real deal. He didn’t hesitate to express his interest to his Korean family in a foreigner. That’s rare. She was so cute becoming a bit shy and speechless and losing her words on the details of first meeting him. Also, I love how both families supported them. Absolutely beautiful. 💪🏽🔥

[@PhilipTomisi]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life

[@PhilipTomisi]

By the way, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@PhilipTomisi]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@BlessedAleika]

@@PhilipTomisi I looked him up too. Do not be deceived- This man is no spiritual healer. You should not be looking for healing from this guy since the "power" he holds is not from God but devils. Why is he charging $290 or $891 to "heal" a relationship? Charging you for these supplies he needs to cast a spell on either your finances or your relationships. That's not gonna fix a relationship nor your finances! This is all demonic. If you want help, go to God and not these people who are out to deceive others. If you truly love the person, you would never go to someone who conjures up spirits, preforms demonic rituals and enact spells on people to get what you want out of something. That's controlling behavior and that is withcraft (Proverbs 16: 25) Even if it looks like things are going well or whatever, in the end, it all leads to destruction. God is the only one who can heal and restore, if it's his will.

[@AvisShivBran]

Isn't it nice to find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Hip Hip Hooray for love!

[@4h44pm]

❤❤❤

[@reggiBB]

I'm not done with the video yet, 1/3 of the wa through but I just think it's so peaceful and beautiful to see your relationship dynamic. HEALTHY, I love that both of your parents didn't show prejudice towards either of you all. That's how it should be, y'all stay blessed and beautiful ❤

[@warisjournal]

Omg , it so rare to see someone from Benin 🇧🇯, I’m also from Benin and when I tell people , they have no idea about the country so it good to see we’re from the same country, i feel a sense of familiarity 😇😇

[@4h44pm]

girl omg same !! 🇧🇯🇧🇯🇧🇯

[@VickyOlanike]

Are you guys Yoruba or Fon?

[@lindojay1057]

​@@4h44pmI thought she was South African because of her accent,her accent is so South African

[@kenyanbee753]

​@@lindojay1057 her accent is French

[@inemesitebong4254]

​@@VickyOlanikeYou know the history of Benin Republic because they are from yourbal .

[@deci5160]

He’s the golden retriever, she’s the black cat 🥰🥰🥰🥰 beautiful couple!

[@Gemisnotmyname]

Definetly!!!! I like her energy.

[@Ireach]

They are both black cats, he definitely doesn't give golden retriever energy. But lovely couple nonetheless.

[@stanunproblematic2546]

Proof that it can happen when you both want to make it work. Congrats to you guys on nurturing your relationship no matter the distance. Seems like effort created magic. I wish you guys well! Your channel is growing organically and its so nice to witness🩵

[@UserGirly-c7c]

The girl is very shy and authentic and true to herself , guy is masculine and kind. Both very cute ❤

[@AJD7233]

And also can we talk about the background? It looks sooo dreamy😍

[@janelleeden5253]

You guys did fine true love that's so sweet 😊

[@szszszsz95395]

He knows EXACTLY how many months and when and why. 😂 That is rare for a guy to remember. Also, Did he have private tutors when he was younger, or did he live in an English speaking country? How did he become so fluent in American English?

[@lovelydorrie]

how amazing that you could’ve done what you wanted and even found love. God is good. this Q&A was really great I love your honesty. May your marriage last forever🌸

[@courtneyfrazier1821]

You guys are awesome. Each video is such a treat! Blessings from California :D

[@yogsdiary]

you guys are so lovely! May, you are so gorgeous - you actually look like a barbie 😩😩 my fellow west african 🤝🏽🤝🏽 and Kangseol is so handsome! I can’t wait for more vlogs 🫶🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I wish for your marriage to be blessed & fruitful! love from 📍🇿🇦

[@4h44pm]

Thank you so much 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@theninarenae]

Yall are beautiful.. congratulations on your union! 💗

[@AlwaysLoLove]

Awww thank you for posting this so we can learn more about you May! You are truly blessed, it's obvious you are both well matched and your hubby seems like a good man! The fact he said he informed not asked permission and also how he clearly expresses appreciation of you. God bless you both, lovely couple💕

[@anb25me1]

girl you are so pretty and amazing!!! i am a foreigner in Korea, living with my fiancée too, so i was glad to find your channel to see your experience 🫶🏻

[@BlessO-f8z]

I love this couple is so aesthetically pleasing

[@kahliaday3794]

Also, questions for your second Q&A: 1. Will you ever move back to France permanently? 2. Did you learn English in the US? Your English accent doesn't sound French. What about your husband also, where did he learn English? 3. Your braids are lovely. Where do you get them braided? In a black hair salon in Korea or a Korean one? 4. Korea and France, which do you love best? 5. How do you share chores? 6. How do you find the Korean work culture? What aspects do you dislike? 7. Any culture shocks? 8. Will you be keeping your last name? 9. Were you always open to marrying from a totally different culture? 10. What aspects of Korean marriage culture do you find weird? FYI: You are so beautiful. Thanks for having the courage to give us a peek into your life.

[@4h44pm]

Thank you for the compliment and the questions 🥰🥰 let me already answer some of them : - Yes I kept my name (women don’t change their name in Korea, but I never wanted to change mine no matter who I married anyway) - I studied English in France ahah I try my best to hide my accent - I do get my hair done in Seoul there are a few hair stylists (mostly Nigerian) who do an amazing job !!

[@kahliaday3794]

@@4h44pm Interesting 😊😊

[@sramas757]

What a beautiful young couple. Continue to cherish one another!

[@ladypi7978]

May your style never misses! This is a really cute look too ✨

[@4h44pm]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@MelindaCharles-j6d]

You are so pretty! You are such a lovely down to earth couple, I enjoyed watching your video 😊👍.

[@Lina_Simiti]

Your love story is so beautiful I love that you worked so hard to be together and you guys are so amazing I feel encouraged

[@4h44pm]

Thank you 🥹

[@EmmanuellaAsomaniAsante828]

Beautiful couple, I see realness here ❤❤

[@tantra7]

He was actually very cute in this vlog ... I think when you are educated you do not want mindless chatter, so I understand him now in the other, he actually has a stunning personality, so now you are the lucky ... like I said in a previous vlog you are absolutely stunning & he is lucky but I think you are too now

[@AJD7233]

You seem very chill and real. Love to see it!💗🔐. You listen so well when he talks, love that. And this goes to show that every couple who is not "regular" or "couple next door" get stares or (un)wanted attention. You are black and french. He is Korean. People get shocked. When for example the men is older then her, people get shocked. Vice versa. When the woman is taller then the man, people stare. Its like, people will ALWAYS have something to say. So yes, do you boo💗

[@sheilawashington9313]

You are the REAL thing , God Bless you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@allisonB123]

New sub from South Africa 🇿🇦 You guys are a lovely couple, I look forward to getting to know you both through your content 🌺❤️

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Such a young yet cute couple. Enjoy love from each other. Met my hubby at uni, in medical school and are still together more than 25yrs now

[@isabellalouis]

So happy that your video popped up on my feed!!! Very beautiful and engaging. Cheers xoxo

[@jacelynarmstrong1439]

CUTIES!!! Loved this Q&A 💗💗

[@cupcake5671]

You’re both so cute together, wish you the best time living in Korea ❤ also you’re so beautiful 🌸 and the husband’s skin is just glowing ✨

[@jacelynarmstrong1439]

Him munching down these huge and tiny pieces of cake is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

[@4h44pm]

He was HUNGRY 😂😂😂

[@kling8460]

I love that he’s eating in the video made it feel more like we are right there with them.

[@elsiebalasbas7195]

Your husband is quite smart,and he love's you ❤

[@ladypi7978]

Thanks for answering all of my questions May & Kangseol! I really enjoy the travel vlogs, but it was fun watching the “chat” style and seeing your personalities

[@Milaroom_12]

great video, also about the stares in public do not worry even if some people might be confuse of whats going on bettween you two its not their life so you two should not worry about what others think i know that it is not easy but yeah just be happy you two

[@munaosman7563]

Such a cute couple ❤

[@rozaah937]

Such a compatible and beautiful pair so happy I stumbled upon your channel. thank you for putting a smile on my face ❤

[@mapalomukupa6459]

Thanks for answering, it was fun 😊

[@waustin8045]

You are so cute ❤. I wish you all the best !

[@mish8978]

Sooo cute. Both of you are lovely and we can tell the husband seems like a very nice person and is mature…His comment about hidden gem is a sign of emotional intelligence….And May you come across as demure and respectful. All the best to the both of you.

[@wetired8547]

Omgg I'm commenting just to tell you that I am so excited for this like I can't wait to watch 🎉 thank you 💓

[@JustSomina]

You guys are too cute. I appreciate the transparency

[@diannegraham1515]

You both are so gorgeous. I love this so much. I hope for nothing but the best for you guys! ❤❤

[@tarahbird1591]

Beautiful couple. So happy for both 💓 of you!!!

[@suz-2050]

You two are such a good looking couple 🤍

[@ourtimeisover]

I love how you guys are genuine ! Soooo for part 2 : How does it feel for both of you to communicate in a language that isn't your mother tongue? During your first encounter, did you have a sense right away-or at least quite early on-that you wanted to be together? 😊

[@NescatericaTaylor-eg1or]

Love the relationship and content! Me and my mom visited Seoul on last year and I do agree everyone was really warm and welcoming! So excited to see your family and platform to grow! I’m here for it all! 🤍 🇰🇷

[@istoleyourmilkandcookies]

i love seeing you guys happy and at peace ~ loved the video!

[@CatherineRoberts-n1r]

I am from St Lucia in the Caribbean...my 10yr old US born nephew. Had a project on " Christmas in Korea" Oi was speaking to his mum and got interested too...then BAM!! I came across your beautiful interesting vlog..Co granulation!!

[@rwondacharles-antoine9832]

So beautiful! Happy for you two! ☺️👏🏾

[@ItsLondon5]

Happy Anniversary 💎💎💎🫰🏻🫰🏽💯💯💯

[@user-xt9tp4sp9o]

They way you responded to the question of people who want to find love in Korea is crazy! They'll be heartbroken! 🤣🤣🤣 There are a lot of international couples nowadays. But yeah, one shouldn't find love, love should find them. It doesn't matter if it's Korea or any other country. Also a lot of people are international students or working in Korea now!!! 😄

[@MaggieMagnoli]

This was so sweet to watch!!

[@wetired8547]

Commenting again bc I love this a lot omg😊 you guys are no only so beautiful but also your voices are so calm and give me so much peace❤. Thank you for sharing part of your life with us 💕

[@nickogy9829]

Ya'll are a beautiful couple!

[@debraelliott3085]

You two are so cute ☺️. I wish you a lifetime of happiness together ❤

[@nduwie3518]

I enjoyed this Q&A so much, you guys are such a beautiful couple. I just subscribed and so far I love your channel, can't wait for more content🖤🖤

[@brionnaleigh3791]

I’m new to their channel and I love them ❤

[@4h44pm]

Welcome and thank you ! 😊😊

[@ssevensseven7893]

I'm a mid age korean man who are living with a beatiful wife and three kids. Wow what a beautiful couple^^ god bless you^^

[@christinemcliesh7628]

You both are so cute.

[@Lively_hope]

Love the fact that y'all was so realistic with how the world works...most people live in fantasy that's why their expectations gets ruined Much love❤

[@grassrootsentertainment7676]

It was good to hear of your experiences together. I started learning Korean during COVID time while watching alot of k-dramas. Very nice language. I live in Montreal so French is my second language also. Thanks for sharing.

[@mamiguevo]

cafe daernys is beautiful and now on my want to go list! you two look super in love, enjoy your time together ☺️

[@obikenooobi3905]

You guys are so cute ❤ Happy for you both!

[@AikayOtaki]

Love you both. Your husband seems so nice and gentle❤ wishing you two a lifetime of love and happiness 🙏 watching from Nigeria

[@Kaymitlit]

You too are so cute and honest thanks for the inspiration et plein d’amour à vous 💖💖💖

[@stephanie6866]

Woww, this is wholesome , also you are soo pretty, xx😍

[@4h44pm]

Thank you 🥰

[@ladypi7978]

25:43 it’s time for a sign off 😂❤

[@Rhonda-w2w]

Your such a beautiful couple!

[@wakasukku]

May you have beautiful eyes😊😍

[@patriciajackson6285]

You guys are just so special and so cute and so realistic. May, your husband is a rare Korean male gem. He’s everything any woman would desire to have met and married. He’s the epitome of knowing what he wants, and you are it. Best wishes to you guys now and for the future. His English, being Korean, living in Korea is so impressive and well received.😊🇺🇸😊💯🌷

[@kenyanbee753]

Were and are and will be pretty 🥺🥺🥺

[@MidnightOtter-19]

Korea was a great place to live when I was there.

[@amourcouture8524]

Cute couple 🩷 maybe you can tell the story of the proposal ?

[@PurpleKoco]

Y’all are so cute together, congratulations! I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation

[@clockeat1300]

bee n here since your first video. I love watching anfd your channel growing fast. KEEP POSTING LONG VIDEOS

[@4h44pm]

This is actually so sweet 🥹🥹 thanks a lot for taking the time to watch and comment 💖

[@clockeat1300]

@@4h44pmyou guys are the best you make my day I’m so glad your channel growing fast ❤❤❤

[@Me-fy8ue]

He exudes quiet confidence

[@Lucymar-2024]

Both are so cute.💞

[@AdelaineBoateng]

Love your videos

[@alemanencontexto]

Una hermosa pareja. Ella tiene una voz preciosa.❤

[@sunniishorts]

Blessings to you guys forever and always. 🙏🙏

[@tonyamclellan]

You Guy's, look great together 🎉

[@TyeemaNatoria]

Beautiful couple ❤❤

[@lifeofmariam3225]

Such a cute vlog🥰🥰

[@wuncieadams1352]

We should make an effort to find love wherever we are, imo.

[@Mar-kc6cv]

You guys are so cute

[@user-fj9lm8ux6m]

vous êtes trop mignons, belle découverte je m'abonne 🥰

[@4h44pm]

Merci beaucoup !

[@claudialinton-martins1133]

A lovely couple

[@bananamariana]

You guys are so cute together! I’m also a married girly in Korea for the long term whose friends all left kkkk let’s hangout! I miss having friends here 🥲

[@mishy460]

Love your whole look in this video 😍

[@vhoy7899]

Go where you are. Treated best is what i just heard.

[@GNICHO]

The only couple I’ve come across like this without weird vibes ngl