Masculinity is Fake and Toxic

[@cgarcia660]

It took me a long time to get it. I didn’t see oppression and abuse on others clearly until I saw the system of abuse perpetrated against me. It’s way too hurtful to see yourself alienated and ostracized for things you have no control over. You just want to believe the best in others, and to learn that everything is a facade and a lie is too much to face, especially right away. There’s layers to peel away and more perspective to know. I think it’s scary to be open to the unknown. I don’t think I could be so open if my husband did not carry me through, holding my hand and educating me. Love is the only way through. ❤

[@jamaicadiaspora6642]

There is a severe, widespread lack of basic comprehension and it is a serious problem.

[@drstone3418]

The electoral collages is supposed to be the Bufger between individual rights and thebTyranically majority.

[@TatianaBoshenka]

Bullies are people who are damaged, and they bully because damaging others makes them feel better. Anyone who punches down is damaged. That's how you show you're messed up, is by punching down. Somehow we have to heal all that before we can all be free by dismantling ALL the systems of oppression. Free people don't need all those hierarchies and all that bullying.

[@jamaicadiaspora6642]

Floko, if that's his name, is a mess 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@TheBlackWidowNextDoor]

Talk to the kids.

[@MindMelding-t5e]

Government running all corpetations is dictonary definition of fascism . Other buyness are supposed be thr buffer between corperations and people . Corporations are supposed br buffer for other corperations

[@Jojo-ig1hd]

You look like Mr Freeze from incredibles movie Pub. 😂

[@emeraldyoung5433]

The man (Viper) you’re talking to during the 3-hour mark sounds like he could be my son’s father. 🤔🤔

[@TheBlackWidowNextDoor]

What would you tell your 13 year old self?

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

There's positive masculinity: Emotional intelligence: Being able to understand and express a wide range of emotions, including sadness, fear, shame, kindness, and tenderness Empathy: Being able to understand and relate to others Respect: Respecting others and being respectful of their boundaries Resilience: Being able to recover from setbacks, learn from failure, and try again Vulnerability: Being able to show vulnerability and ask for help when needed Healthy relationships: Developing healthy relationship skills, such as active listening, communication, nonjudgmental support, and seeking out consent Comfort with nurturing roles: Feeling comfortable in emotionally nurturing roles

[@MiketheNerdRanger]

None of that is unique to masculinity, therefore it isn't necessary to do or be any of those things. Why do we keep clinging to masculinity so hard?

[@stepfaniehawkins205]

Honey what you described is simply being a good and decent human being, it has nothing to do with having a penis

[@ra1nydr0ps]

your inability to understand ppl's stories and then result to calling them a liar is frustrating

[@brightbritt94]

Don’t judge me fam 🫣 I was looking into it andddddd upon my research Viper wasn’t lying. You have to bring your own liquor and things… but they do provide chasers and food. You have to eat outside the play area 😂 Edit: I was looking prior to this live