Myths about MtF Bottom Surgery (srs)

11 myths about the male to female transgender bottom surgery.
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Question of today: What do you work with? ❤

[@slowshop]

I make asphalt just outside Alingsås.

[@miltonnunez1881]

I hope your vocal surgery goes well and that it helps with your gender dysphoria

[@NickyTannock]

I create 3D models for games.

[@KirstyTube]

I'm a copier and large format service manager and engineer lol. I work with a bunch of guys that need telling what to do every half hour..... then I usually have to train them up to standard 😂 ..... I have to tie my hair up at work, wear uniform, polo neck, black trousers and flippin safety shoes 😓 try looking womanly in that getup 🙄 (my nails are always awesome though, until I break one)

[@sudiptopaul6916]

Can we go out for a cup of coffee

[@illyvfx]

i am not trans or even apart of lgbt+ but i like watching these videos bcs it helps me get educated and understand others and their backgrounds

[@Likeno217]

Period

[@localreviewking134]

Same, I just like people to live a life of peace and freedom. To be the person they want to be.

[@theextramiles404]

@@ScupperMan I love how incoherent the backlash is. “It’s all a lie” - what is all a lie? Do you even know what you’re upset about?

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

@@theextramiles404 "it's all a lie" meaning men who think they are a woman, facts are they never will be a woman, no matter how many surgeries they have

[@AZtheHippie-jq3ve]

Thanks for being here ❤ Your support is crucial and empowering.

[@charlotte2549]

I can't imagine how awkward it is for her to talk abt it but I'm MTF and so I'm really glad that she does

[@charlotte2549]

@OceanGirl207 ur mtf?

[@charlotte2549]

@OceanGirl207 cool we should be online friends, wat ur snap?

[@victormaxwell777]

Wow same

[@obnoxiouslytrans]

That's what we call strong spirits 👻

[@lewisfoltz6306]

You spelled he incorrectly

[@kraziecatclady]

I'd imagine a lot of these "Myths" vary person to person. Especially when it comes to things like regret, sensations down there, and desire to have those kinds of activities. I'm not trans, but when I had a c-section with my daughter, the nerves in the area where they cut for the c-section never got their feeling back and there is a spot on my stomach that is still numb to this day. She's almost 12 years old now, so it was not recent. I know a c-section is not the same as SRS, but surgery is surgery and depending on your body, the surgeon, and other factors, there is a chance that some people might lose sensations in that area permanently. Probably not everyone, but there is a chance. I'd imagine researching your surgeon before going under the knife would probably help decrease those chances a lot though.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

Exactly. I had a tummy tuck and all the area around the scar is still numb 2 years later. Also had a breast reduction and regained full sensation in that area, and my scars disappeared completely. Very different results from each surgery, and I did the same scar management protocol. I’m super happy with my tummy tuck the aesthetic result is beautiful but the numbness is frustrating.

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

Surgery is surgery!! Wrong!!! Surgery done on a male is not the same as surgery in a female, just like if you going to pull your teeth,one question a dentist ask a woman they're not going to ask a man.Are you pregnant?

[@staceycorteville6756]

Don't feel awkward..cis women in general have problems. I have needed to lube for a long time! It's normal! No shame!!!

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

"cis ' women lol!!!!!!! Corny!!!!! Potatoe, potatoes

[@SewingFaith]

Bio Women

[@tommorris3688]

SRS healing takes circa 12 months; most of the healing occurs within the first 6 months. It is highly invasive surgery and there is a significant risk that things go wrong, requiring revision surgery. Such SRS was first performed in the 1950's in Denmark as pioneering surgery.

[@mathildehb0076]

I like how you keep saying «obviously» 🌞

[@kimberlybrown7412]

Just to throw this out there I'm super comfortable with my body but so many cis women MYSELF included have issues with self lubrication. I definitely don't get as wet as other women and my partner and I ALWAYS use lube. So that shouldn't even be a factor, lube is nothing to be ashamed of. :)

[@Virginia.50]

First off biological females don't use the word cis',soooo that I'm itself will let biological females know you ain't a biological female and this is the Internet anyone can say anything, second bottom surgery which is located in the prostate on the opposite side of a man's butt is no COMPARISON TO A BIOLOGICAL FEMALE 'S VAGINA NONE WHATSOEVER. STOP TRYING TO DISMISS BIOLOGICAL FEMALES TO SATISFY YOUR DILUSIONAL IDIOLIGY IDENTITY.

[@lauraximenaarevalo1677]

Amputation does not change what you are

[@DarDarBinks1986]

I'm almost 8 months into feminems myself and can't wait to have bottom surgery. That won't be for at least a year or so from now, though, depending on how long the hormones take to work their mojo. At least I know how to debunk these misconceptions in case someone tries to give me shit for it.

[@Viktoria_Selene]

Feminems 😄

[@DarDarBinks1986]

@@Viktoria_Selene And now here I am, two and a half years along. It's been a hell of a ride.

[@Viktoria_Selene]

@@DarDarBinks1986 so cool! I'm still waiting for an appointment and it's taking ages 😭

[@talkingonthespectrum]

​@@DarDarBinks1986I hope it's going well still

[@DarDarBinks1986]

@@talkingonthespectrum I'm coming up on three and a half years of HRT and it sure is going well.

[@dalailarose1596]

Cis woman here; I can only take 5" (12.7 cm) & I always have to use lube. Even the "downsides" of neovaginas can also occur in natal vaginas.

[@Viktoria_Selene]

There was an article saying that uterus transplants for trans women will be possible in not that long

[@slimthickaz.]

That's never gonna work that's as possible as me taking your gamates and producing spr, literally impossible lol.

[@Viktoria_Selene]

@@slimthickaz. it was an article written by scientists, so they must know what they are talking about Not me tto

[@slimthickaz.]

@@Viktoria_Selene Doesn't matter who wrote it. It never happened and will never ever happen, it's impossible.

[@Viktoria_Selene]

@@slimthickaz. literally a profesional said this, idk

[@slimthickaz.]

@@Viktoria_Selene It's impossible stop doing this to yourself.

[@JimmiAlli]

By the way, 15 cm is 6 inches.

[@Gamerlein]

Totally agree with u with the period topic... Lots of cis friends told me so and it hurts knowing to be never able to get own children.

[@mekadoz86]

Uh… you could’ve had children!!! You just chose not to have it with your ACTUAL body parts

[@mekadoz86]

Do like we did… keep our body parts and have a baby… DUH!! That’s how I had my child. I didn’t “change” into a “man” and then say oh darn I wish I could have kids. No!! I’m a woman, I got pregnant and had a baby

[@Gamerlein]

well Meka Doz, this would only works out with a "functional" relationship or u have to get a woman who is willing to carry it out. Because im pansexual and don't care about my partners gender at all,there are constellation where it is impossible to do so. I just buried my dream of children and keep looking forward. At the end I feel better with the fact, that the world is ugly, harsh and there are lots of lone and lost childs u could adopt instead. :)

[@slimthickaz.]

Lol be happy, I'm on mine right now😂

[@timeshagooden7859]

@@slimthickaz. fr

[@carolehenson6180]

You are so sweet. I like your openness and thoughtfulness for others so that they can level-set their expectations. I am so glad you had the surgery - and so glad that you share your experience.

[@NinaNeko4]

I mean... as a woman I actually appreciate my periods but it can be annoying at times (like bleeding through clothes) so that might be why women complain about it every once in a while.

[@briauny]

Bleeding through clothes and a whole list of other unpleasant symptoms is why natal females complain about our periods. It’s part of the genuine experience of biological women. We carry the cradle of life….literally

[@stephwarren155]

Please don't feel awkward, you are providing valuable and helpful personal testimony of what you actually experienced; and that can only help trans women understand the very relevant issues.

[@alexmaclean1]

Are there really people out there that thought this would allow you to get pregnant?

[@timeshagooden7859]

Ikr smh

[@saratormenta4687]

Have you had any other surgery? Facial feminization, adam's apple removal or anything like that?

[@foreverskeptical1]

This takes courage to talk about so kudos to you

[@jamesjianghaiwang9536]

I think one should not regret in having srs. Your dysphoria is gone and should welcome with open arms. Regret comes about

[@jamesjianghaiwang9536]

Without thinking thru and made oneself more miserable. One should be mentally prepared to accept whatever comes. Good luck n best wishes with full regards,

[@shelteredopal]

So you pretty much did not talk about anything relating to the topic, you didn't expand on anything, and you even said it didn't stop your gender dysphoria, and you're recommending this legal body horror to others?

You clearly didn’t listen. It has stopped the gender dysphoria regarding that part of my body. I wanted to unalive myself before, now I’m happier than ever.

[@shelteredopal]

@ I'd never want to take away from anyones happiness, but your eyes and other videos belie the truth. All the best

[@macsim9294]

Thank you for talking breathe in and breathe out it helps

[@defonthana]

Thank you for talking about the period wish...because i thought too "jeah lucky...i wish they were gone". But i think both is true... you rather feel complete and take the baggage with it and yet periods are so annoying and hormonally exhausting. But your opinion gives me a new graditude for my body. so yeah thank you for making us...think :). i am a cis woman but... i kinda wish i had a p... so practical. i am really curious as to how it would feel but i will never know.

[@mellowyellow2022]

My monthlies were heavy and painful...add endometriosis and I am so glad to not have to deal with that anymore.

[@smooshycushycanadian6774]

Ms. Girly, I’m so happy I found your channel! I’m a girl who’s just figuring things out regarding my sexuality and stuff-but I’ve always been-I guess-not as knowledgeable on trans people/experience as I really need to be-so thank you for that! And I love your hair😊

[@parapoliticos52]

The biggest part of the survey you left out is this.Of the monitored MtF TSs only 40% completed the survey. The rest fallen off the radar.The second biggest part of the survey you didn't include is that is ALL based on self report, not any verifiable data. The third misconception in the survey is that it mainly reports about the satisfaction from the procedure, not the functionality of it. A fourth misconception about the SRS (not related to this specific survey)is that alleviates GD. The Very thorough, population wise, long term research on TSs in Sweden(the only ones of their kind) show no impact or even worsening of the problems they were meant to address.

[@winstonmccurley9953]

Frankly, if you have gender dysphoria over having a penis and get surgery to have a vagina, how could that NOT alleviate gender dysphoria? Please cite your references if you are going to fear monger.

[@priusskipper]

Thank you for sharing with us Mathilda. You seem to be a wee bit happier. I really hope so. All the best.

[@SmilingGlacier-qp1xf]

I had the surgery I love it and my husband love it I can feel everything I use very little lubricant

[@savannahhollister1104]

How i explain to my little brother how a crano feels, its basically like my insides are being rung out like a wet washrag, the pain is different every cycle but for most of my cycles its like a pulled muscle combined with a charlie horse times 4

[@savannahhollister1104]

I meant cramp

[@8888riqui]

Congrats that you made the right decision❤

[@MrGregsanderson22]

Thank you so much Mathilda shush a interesting vlog it will help me out in the future and hope it can help someone else too 🏳️‍🌈

[@KaiiWinter-nw4vi]

Thank yu for being brave and honest , even if it feels awkward . It•s nice to hear these kinds of testimonies from someone who has experienced it and can talk openly about it . Also , the technologies for Incubators and 3D Bioprinting are becoming very advanced , so hold out! . Yu might get the chance yet .

[@Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr]

Periods were never painful for me, but they are a pain in the ass. Having a baby kick you from the inside is pretty awesome though. Pushing that baby out is pretty painful though. The bond through breastfeeding is pretty great though.

[@fretless05]

I'm glad that you answer people's questions and address myths despite the awkwardness. Only through open communication will any of us learn.

[@theaansel8738]

For hundreds or thousand of years women were stigmatised because of their periods. We were and in many cultures to this day we are still told we are unclean, unholy. Periods and the pain of child birth is the curse for original sin. With this type of history please try to understand why some women will say to you how lucky you are for not having periods. For many women period pain makes them lose days or weeks of their lives monthly., imaging the psychology of preparing yourself for this every month. You don't understand because women's biological difficulties are often trivialised. Do you think if men had to go through a process such as childbirth that can kill them the phrase "women have been having children forever don't be so dramatic" would exist. Many women who have gone through the menopause say the best part is no having periods, because it's not a nice thing to experience every month. You pray to have your own biological children, I pray that medicine can help women to safely have less periods. Thank you for enlightening me about issues I did not know about, I could tell how uncomfortable this made you at times, but you are making it easier for those coming after you.

[@hanna7427]

It's not this Far away The possibility of a uterine transplant is not only important for transsexual women. There are also women who were born without a uterus, or women who had their uterus removed due to an illness or injury. In January this year, Swedish surgeons performed uterine transplants on nine women. This is what CBS News reports.

[@r5014]

Are you advocating for women to donate their body parts so trans-women whom are biological males can "give birth"? That will create a black market for impovershed and vulnerable wmen to be trafficked for their organs. Definitely not a good idea.

[@Cieln0va]

@@r5014 slippery slope fallacy. try harder next time, maybe take a debate course

[@r5014]

@@Cieln0va where will they get wombs from? Who will be the donors? How would that not create a market for wombs?

[@Cieln0va]

@@r5014 trans men who don't want their wombs, organ donors, maybe even close relatives if it's possible. my point is this is niche enough that it won't cause a fucking black market. kidneys have far higher demand, and the USA is basically the only developed country where that's a problem, so why would anyone form a black market around giving trans women reproductive organs?

[@r5014]

@@Cieln0va do you really want to debate the rights of others to use wombs from women who may have been forced to give up their body parts through poverty or force?

[@dalefrancis6787]

Hello Mathilda how ya doing, Thank you for being straight up. I love it when your so honest.

[@petrovsim]

Quick question: Why they dont transplant such organs like kidneys and hearts? Of course it would come from a person that has lost their life in an accident but it would be a way for them to have biological children through someone else's body.

[@lovely_heart1365]

I love how you explain it, it realy helped me a lot, thank you so much! also nice ur from Sweeden, im from Norway so hello neighbour

[@murrayallan1960]

You're amazing, 😊💕 I enjoyed listening to you. You explain it really well for me to understand, thank you 💕

[@marialopez4849]

They are not myths

[@loveshell007]

As I CIS woman, I think not having to worry abt getting pregnant is a big advantage for trans women. I would hv had a lot more sex if I dint have that anxiety.

[@carlosp.galvez4639]

"Thing" call it SEX, You're an adult. Omg this is 2021. You are the only one making it sound weird.

[@markhug5871]

My goodness I have so many questions about this being a straight man

[@susanemig972]

No matter what you have done or do to yourself, you are a biological male & are missing out on your God given purpose in life. Father God did NOT make a mistake when he breathed you into your mother’s womb & wrote a book about your life & destiny. Read Psalm 139. It’s sad what yore putting yourself through. No one who understood how much Jesus loves them would ever inflict that kind of pain on themselves. You’re still the same person deep down inside who rejects himself. Very sad

[@Sims3fan-Ht4l]

Blah blah blah. No one cares -A transgender Catholic

[@charocflores]

In my opinion to say...OmG you don't know how lucky you are! It sounds like kind of a consolation or trying to make you feel better or good because you do not have to go through this horrible periods. More like a say, a way of saying I wish I didn't have to have this every month. I see it not as bad intention or mean. I even said it to my mom...like Aghh you are . lucky you don't have to have this anymore. The people that say this to you are not thinking about pregnancy or anything. they are thinking just of the annoyance of those days. They are probably not even connecting period with reproductive, because we have it since 11 or 12 or 13 years old , when had nothing to do with pregnancy . No one I am sure had ill intentions. You see it as a way to pregnancy. We most of our lives see it as an annoyance. I talk for all my friends and women I have known all my life. That is how we women think, is natural and common to complain about it.

[@_Martine_]

I'm trans and they always tell me how lucky I'm for not having periods, I wish I could experience periods but after hearing my friends complain about . I don't really want to seat on blood every month.

[@joane24]

Your should be happy for having periods, especially when they're regular, because they're a sign (and a kind of 'barometer' as well!) of women's overall health, especially hormonal. Some say their one of the vital makers, like blood pressure, in a sense that tracking your cycle can tell you a lot about you eg hormonal health.

[@charocflores]

@@joane24 for most of real women you might get a 1% that thinks of their health when having a period . MOST are annoyed.

[@joane24]

@@charocflores I'm not saying it's not annoying. But you can learn to appreciate it, in a sense that it's a good and healthy sign. Appreciate it while it lasts, it won't last forever. And when it's gone as you menopause, your dropping hormone levels will be followed by much more physical problems than period cramps. Our monthly cycles affect our whole bodies throughout the whole month, not just hormones, but also cardiovascular health, digestion, energy levels, concentration, etc. It's often underappreciated, but when we learn our biological monthly rhythm, we can use it to our advantage.

[@charocflores]

@@joane24 I am aware, of all you just said, but I do not know one person that thinks about these things while laying in bed in pain. Everything has a phase.

[@Hello-1814]

Just saw this, great video and thanks for doing this

[@richardyau6656]

if i am mtf, what will happen

[@daniellesalvia7788]

I’ll trade with you!!!! You can have my period for me once a month. I totally understand where you’re coming from but honestly it’s not all what it’s cracked up to be and it’s makes you feel gross and it’s messy and you can leak and bleed all over. I do know that they have devices out there where you can simulate a period. Like there’s Fake blood and everything. So if you do wanna experience what a period is like look into This device that simulates a period. I can’t remember what it’s called but the Try Guys tested it out years ago

[@rubycruz_]

Thank you for this video!

[@liltrix3006]

Thanks, that must have been reallllly awkward

[@jasminegailey7510]

You’re a beautiful woman. I’m thankful for your helpful videos. I just started hrt last week. I’m mtf.

[@sarastevenssinger8126]

Thanks!

Thank you so much 🌸

[@katywalker8322]

I get the impression that you have done this video to reply to every fake point that one of your commentors tried to use to attack me (and no doubt others). Doubt they will listen, but hopefully it will stop anyone else believing their lies. I gave up and just blocked them!

[@aliciabenton5335]

Male and female are two different genders. Males have a different bone, muscle, skin , brain and organs structure than females that will never change.

[@yurmabeechaudits3522]

Male and female are two different sexes. Man and woman are genders. These things have never changed. Furthermore, we've seen the DNA of xxy and xyy carrying humans. If xy is male and xx female then what sex is xxy and xyy?

[@shelteredopal]

​@@yurmabeechaudits3522 there's only xy and xx you social reject

[@samikalastaja]

KZbin is censoring the word ὀργασμός? Why?

[@liamodonovan6610]

Your stunning Matilda awesome video love you so much Matilda always great to see you

[@quasar8898]

Myths? Oh, you mean Medical Science.

[@mranderson5668]

Can you say "climax" instead of orgasm so it isn't blocked? This is a great topic!

[@Pana-anna63]

Natural-born women are called what? I've just come across your video and you seem like a nice person but I thank God that in your present state, and that applies to 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 in the same position, that you can't bear children.

[@yurmabeechaudits3522]

God made Eve from man.....still wishing everyone in our position can't bear children?

[@toddjenest3212]

Why is video so censored? Most of us are mature adults here, so I’m not sure why it’s so awkward to speak about things.

[@877swissmiss]

Women who tell you to be happy not getting periods probably just mean that it can come with some nasty „side effects“ like immense pain, dizzyness, sickness, headache and for some of us it‘s tough to go to work like this, especially if you have these side effects 6days/month. That is nothing to wish for. But yes, at the same time it‘s related to the wonderful ability to concieve& give birth. And to give birth is painful and sometimes quite brutal too when some tissues rip, break during the process. Watch a woman giving birth from A-Z, then you will know… Romantisizing female biological processes doesn‘t help anyone. But to see them as what they really are does help. And still I can understand a wish like dreaming of having a child. We all have dreams we can‘t realize. That‘s life and it can be hard to take reality, I know. But the sooner we realize that something is in no way possible, the sooner we can get over it and we can focus on sth else, something we can achieve, something we have and aren‘t yet aware of enough to appreciate etc. Good luck with all your achievable wishes & goals, May you get there:)

[@slimthickaz.]

My periods are completely painless for the entire 7 days so not all of us have those issues. My pregnancies are also eventless until labor starts and I also get terrible after pains became my births are super fast. My point is not all women have a hard time with these functions.

[@katherinemcdonnell6333]

@@slimthickaz. Most do, though. Your experience is atypical.

[@vegandolls]

oh it's healed in a few days, is it? Keep lying, brother

[@ezragonzalez8936]

Fellow Ts here think the better word would be does it look feel taste and smell natural! 😉 would have to say yes to everything aforementioned! Lovely beautiful girl I am Mexican American and mh girlfriend is Swedish totally sounds like Mathilda! ;) cheers from SLC Utah

[@otisjenkinsjr.3556]

,😂😂😂 bullshit

[@jackmailam2776]

When your periods are going to start?

[@slimthickaz.]

Never😂

[@DavidS22003]

Is it possible for a domestic dog or cat to suffer from gender dysphoria as well

[@talltree4252]

It's probably less risk dating a mtf then it is a female biological born female as they are very high risk factors in today's world no matter how responsible kind non violent behaviour you are as a man.

[@cody1212143]

Her videos did convinced me. Trans women are more down to earth then most girls.

[@katherinemcdonnell6333]

@@cody1212143 Dream on.

[@junjuncamacho8998]

Love you Mathilda

[@runito75]

Is the word «orgasm» a no-word now? Why silence that word in the video?

[@Barneyluvshisfam]

demonetization

[@notar5148]

which way was your surgery done?

[@artemismoonrose]

How come orgasm and other words is censored out, is it because those words are prohibited in Sweden?

[@KingstonHawke]

This video was pretty interesting. Glad you addressed some questions a lot of the other channels I watch for info transgendered people deal with normally skip over. I've always been curious about how trans vagina compares to cis vagina from the parter's perspective. So maybe if you make a future video, center it around your boyfriend answering questions. I've never measured the inside of a partner, but 15cm does seem pretty shallow. I actually wonder, could it cause structural harm if you were with someone that was "large" and they made the mistake of inserting themselves all the way? What exactly is immediately at the back of the canal where the cervix would be? Does this differ depending on the person? It maybe could even be a good video if you had a medical professional on to discuss the details with. Honestly, I think a lot of the reason men aren't willing to date trans-women is that we expect it not to feel or function the same as what we're used to. If it turned out it felt even better, then most men would probably give it a try just for that reason.

[@SongMangosteen]

Where the cervix should be, it's the end of the "tube", it goes nowhere and is connected to nothing. And yes, structural harm can happen because it lacks the natural elasticity of a real vagina. It also lacks all of the muscle control that a real vagina has, so it can't compare to a real one.

[@KingstonHawke]

@@SongMangosteen So, it would be kind of like using a fleshlight?

[@SongMangosteen]

@@KingstonHawke I guess so.

[@ironshoes1720]

​@@KingstonHawkeThat's a very awkward comparison. 😖 Are you aware that this "fleshlight" is part of a female human being?!? Do you call people who had knee surgery robots because they now have a metallic knee? Are people with artificial limbs multifunction tools? Do you confuse people with pacemakers with electric flow regulators? Are people with kidney transplant called mobile filtration systems after their operation? Does wearing glasses make you an optical device? 🤷🏼‍♂️ Please be more respectful from now on. ✌🏻

[@KingstonHawke]

@@ironshoes1720 You are way too in your feelings and aren’t adding to the discussion, at all. If I had metal put in my penis I’d be fine if people asked if it feels differently for myself or my partner when in use. These are cosmetic surgeries after all.

[@meredithbeenyikana4421]

Really proud of you for putting yourself out there to educate people and other transwomen who have questions but have no one to ask ❤️

[@mimim6885]

😂...so you have to be educated to feel woman🤣

[@Double_Jae]

@@mimim6885 how about “informing people about a major surgery”. You’re making yourself look dumb.

[@Likeno217]

⁠@@mimim6885girl can u read? Bro I swear get some glasses

[@mimim6885]

@@Likeno217 🤓

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

@@mimim6885 😂😂😂😂 that's funny,I got it!!

[@Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr]

Does anyone else think that 75% success rate to be able to have an orgasm is actually pretty bad?

[@firephoenix3711]

given how complex the surgery is, no

[@MisoMow]

no

[@therebeldolly]

She's real pretty. Happy to know she's doing good and shares her experiences with others who may need to hear it.

[@Tonixxy]

I must say this is the best transition i have ever seen. That 1 in 10 000 that actually succeeds 100%

[@notar5148]

​@@Tonixxy yeah, most passing transgenders would rather not post about it as their transition was to hide the fact that they're trans and posting about it would defeat that fact. some are different tho. personally would rather hide it

[@Rainfallzz]

@@Tonixxy I mean not really Like 99 percent of ppl that transition before 16 pass quite well

[@Tonixxy]

@@Rainfallzz i mean might as well injected Testosterone and be male

[@wakeup2realityostriches]

@@Tonixxy until it doesn’t

[@nahmastay3300]

You can wish for periods all you want, but as a bio female with endometriosis that has resulted in being cut open twice to remove massive cysts on my ovaries and the doc finding endometrial lesions in my pelvic cavity and pain attacks growing in frequency and severity over the past several years, I genuinely don’t want to hear it. I respect what you’re doing with you’re life to be who you feel you are, but seriously. Having a uterus for many women is absolute misery and with the pain and the impact endometriosis is having on living a full life at 25 years old, I have every right to tell you that YES, you are lucky that you can be a woman without the massive amount of physical ailments that I’m pretty sure 1 in 3 women have. I hate hate hate hearing this. Unless you can fathom having biology that may very well turn against you for the entirety you your childbearing years and be okay with the pain and scars and it may leave you while also robbing you of feeling like a functional woman, It’s so messed up to say that “cis-women” have no right to tell a trans woman how lucky they are that they don’t possess organs that wreck havoc on many women’s existences.enjoy what you have. Being a woman is more than just fetal incubation and wearing pretty things.

[@BujjuIsABee]

I agree with you for the most part; ovulation isn’t fun or something to be glorified. When trans people say they wish they could experience periods, they’re not saying it’s a fun and positive experience that they wish they could appropriate. They’re saying the idea that their body isn’t capable of pregnancy makes them dysphoric. I for one, am glad that I don’t have to experience that and the risks that come along with it, but I also understand why not experiencing it can be a trigger for some people’s dysphoria.

[@slimthickaz.]

​@@BujjuIsABee Ovulation is nothing serious it's just clear sticky liquid.

[@ElianaMae.X]

ur literally bitter. regardless of the realities of whatever tf you or other women go through. she will never get to experience certain parts of womenhood and it is sad for her. whatever u went through has nothing to do with her experience. and since u innately had that experience from birth, it’s really not your place to judge someone who wishes for something that they didn’t have.Theres so many women who view trans women as some sort of 3rd party. Shes a woman to u until she says she wishes she had periods and now all the sudden shes not woman enough because she has an opinion u dont like. but i know if i press it deep down u probably dont even accept trans ppl and thats why u are ranting on the internet

[@kayzeegirl972]

I had “ female” problems since my first period at 11 yrs old! 9:13 . Severe, excruciating pain for 5-7 days each month. Severe endometriosis that required surgery 11 x !! At the time the technology was not yet there. I’ve had 11 D&C procedures. Each time was pure hell! Finally had to get a hysterectomy ( total- incision from hip to hip) which took close to a yr to subside. When I was put on HRT, it was a dream come true. No more hemorrhaging every month. No more pain+ the ever present PMS symptoms. I had 6 pregnancies-/ only 3 went to full term. Sometimes you need to look at the context that a statement is in to understand why it’s being said. I think that in today’s “ politically correct, or incorrect has people almost afraid to say anything cause words get pulled apart beyond what makes sense. Just imho , we need to mellow out+ give people the benefit of the doubt. 😁💜

[@AshleySpeaks4U]

​@BujjuIsABee Ovulation is the fun part. It's the uterine shedding that is a nightmare.

[@timmusician5060]

They can actually grow a vaginal canal using stem cells. They successfully implanted at least for in women who were born with underdeveloped canals. I think it’s pretty far off from some of the other more complex structures and organs though 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@justalittlenobody1423]

Wow can u tell where u read that pls, i really need to know

[@SongMangosteen]

Those women had underdeveloped vaginal canals, not NO vagina to start with. The vagina is actually quite complex, you can't just grow one and then implant it.

[@JuniperThornton-ny1oq]

If that procedure is ever offered to men who identify as women I will be absolutely enraged. Stop appropriating womanhood. Stop playing god. These surgeries have already gone too far.

[@NoBeunoPendejo]

Most people (regardless of gender) would feel awkward talking about sex, climax, depth etc online but it's important to talk about! Thank you for your bravery and honestly, you shouldn't feel embarrassed. Keep spreading awareness and the truth and educating the "kids"!

[@Virginia.50]

Ummm that is not true, nowadays you got 16yr olds telling what kind of sex is out there to try.

[@carlydean11]

Why do the “kids” need educating?

[@emmaeriksson7155]

From a cis girl point of view: yes period can feel like a burden and the relationship can be complicated around it a lot because of how society has been treated women just because of their period BUT it’s super rude to rub it into someone’s face like that especially women that suffers from the lost of it. It’s not like I speak about how lucky someone is to not have a mom just because my mom is a full time work😅

[@ninasimone1207]

So you dont mind being rename" cis" in order to add an subgroup

[@emmaeriksson7155]

@@ninasimone1207 ?

[@enbeast8350]

@@emmaeriksson7155 She's the type to be mad about the label of "cis" because it's somehow offensive to cis people

[@emmaeriksson7155]

@@enbeast8350 oh now I get it! Never heard of that before so was confused haha

[@aprilrae6551]

Trans women don't suffer from the loss of a period. They never had one. They are fully functioning males. Stop pretending they females. That's why they in the Olympics trying to take over Female sports.

[@stayathomecichlidmom3579]

CIS Female. I can ASSURE you that when we say "you are so lucky that you don't get a period" we are absolutely not insinuating the inability to conceive or carry a baby. I have PCOS and was told I'd never be able to conceive and it was devastating, I couldn't imagine not having kids, not ONCE did I ever get angry because my friends all had regular periods or tell them that they should consider themselves lucky ect. The few times I did get mine was a few to many. They have nothing to do with whether or not we want to have a baby. If anything the lack of one makes you want a child more. It's hard to explain but that correlation is just not there.

[@SapphireBurns]

We understand the insinuation is not that but from a trans women's perspective it kinda just rubs salt in the wound because it's just a reminder of one of our biggest insecurities

[@r5014]

@@SapphireBurns trans women should accept reality and not pretend to menstruate for attention.

[@Kaylakaykay1997]

@@r5014 Are you can leave trans women alone

[@r5014]

@@Kaylakaykay1997 Do you also pretend to menstruate for attention?

[@Kaylakaykay1997]

@@r5014 No one does that again could you mind your business

[@vanessadavis5771]

I just watched another trans woman say that you DO have to dilate for basically forever

[@Worlds-Collide]

Shes inaccurate saying. The procedures vary. Anyway my does not dialate 24/7

[@zoilalulu3798]

No one wants periods, and if you were able to experience one, I assure you, you'd change your tune. For some women, periods are excruciating.

[@ellaellaeheheh]

Not all women experience periods

[@slimthickaz.]

Not all of us don't like ours. Mine are completely 100% painless and come like clockwork every 28 days.

[@slimthickaz.]

@@ellaellaeheheh All healthy ones do.

[@shelteredopal]

Autogynephiliacs fetishize ALL aspects of a woman, including our cycles sadly

[@Ray-zd7me]

@@slimthickaz. so you're saying MtF aren't healthy

[@susanmckee1406]

I understand why people have SRS and I say kudos to them for choosing to have such major surgery. I wish it was affordable in other places. I also worry that people will have the surgery they can afford instead of going to a really really good surgeon.

[@DAVING0]

This will be my ignorance im sure. But why are trans still referred to as trans when they have already transitioned. Like in Mathildas case. She has already transitioned so isn't she just a woman. And if it was F to M they would just be a man. I'm just curious, probably a really stupid question. Surly after that its no ones business.

[@susanmckee1406]

@@DAVING0 very good question! I have no idea. Hopefully Matilda is reading this and can answer. Maybe they don't usually, but only do it for education like in Matilda's case. I doubt any trans person when they meet someone new says hi, I'm John, I used to be a woman. And do nice to meet you too! We need more help with answers on this I guess.

[@DAVING0]

@@susanmckee1406 Thanks for taking the time to answer back. I was just curious. I was half expecting it to be told it was a silly question but it was confusing me. As far as I'm concerned if they have transitioned then they are what they have transitioned into. Cheers Susan.

[@Virginia.50]

​@@DAVING0 because transwoman are biological men.

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

@@DAVING0 still biological a man ♂️

[@lovisakevatdottir8909]

Thanks for doing this video. Also, thanks for actually telling people to keep working on themselves.

[@hendrahenshin5471]

Hi Mathilda sweetie, I have one question: "After seven year of having bottom surgery; can you vgg feel still hurt when having sex with your partner?" Thanks previously 🙏🏻

[@ivanjdrakov1957]

@Logical Rationalist wow that is absolutely disgusting!!! Can't believe that people are so messed up in the head to actually remove their weiner and mutilate it completely..... It's like, no......

[@aprilrae6551]

I think they lie about removing it. I think they still got the man parts.

[@ashimpalak9974]

I appreciate that you said you would like to have the complete experience of normal woman fertility.

[@user-so7oo4pl4z]

In reality, that is never going to happen

[@JuniperThornton-ny1oq]

Exactly. Men can wish they could have a female reproductive system as much as they want but it’s just like me saying I wish I could fly.

[@judychandler8733]

Glad it worked for you. I had a friend who had V surgery and during Intercourse her V broke thru to her Rectum and she had to have a Colostomy to give it time to heal. She lost a Kidney in the process . She had problems the rest of her life and she was born a female formed perfectly on the outside just no V or other female organs

[@ac61900]

Wow gross 🤮

[@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eye]

@@ac61900you people stay hating regardless if it’s a cis topic or a trans topic 😐

[@masterofwit339]

⁠@@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eyelol… the person you commented towards was reacting to a terrible situation where a female’s vag legit split /ruptured and then she lost a kidney. It does sound gross and quite unfortunate to say the least. I’m a female and it makes me squirm just thinking about it.

[@Lil_5_8_Cross_Eye]

@@masterofwit339 ok

[@mellowyellow2022]

Wow. Horrible. I had a large tumour and ended up with my v to back area...know exactly what that's like. Very painful scary. Hope life gets easier for your friend.

[@christophernewman5027]

I'm a straight man and I think you are absolutely brilliant! Your boyfriend is a very lucky man. 😊

[@jamesb4729]

Not sure why you need to say you’re a straight man just to say they are brilliant. If however you are sexually attracted to them, you’re definitely not straight.

[@faziufaziowski4572]

@@jamesb4729 how come he isn't straight?

[@jamesb4729]

@@faziufaziowski4572 because the person he is attracted to is male?

[@faziufaziowski4572]

You mean girl that made the video? I don't see any male there.

[@jamesb4729]

@@faziufaziowski4572 you’re blind then. It’s a biological male

[@grizzlybear2702]

How much does the surgery cost and how long does it take. Just curious. I’ve herd that allot of people go to Thailand to get it done cheaper for around £5000.

[@miriamn1075]

Duration: about 4 to 5 hours, depending on technique, surgeon, etc. I was narcotized for exactly 4:30 (according to my surgery record). Cost: well, german statutory health insurance does cover it (you've got to run a gauntlet of bureaucracy for it, though), so I've never seen any bill. Reports from people with private insurance range about 30k EUR +/- 5k (in Germany). Thailand is cheaper, yes, but I doubt that it's that cheaper. Last time I heard from him Dr. Suporn (the god of GRS there) charged about 25k EUR. It's possible that some 'backyard clinic' does do it for 5000, but I wouldn't go there. You've only one shot with this, so you better pick your surgeon and clinic carefully.

[@katywalker8322]

Uk surgery took about 2.5 hours, with 7 days in hospital, 2 weeks at home not allowed out. This was covered under the NHS so didn't directly cost me anything. Last time I looked Thailand surgery cost £18000. While there may be some who are a lot cheaper, I'm not sure I would trust them!

[@grizzlybear2702]

@@miriamn1075 good point. As the saying goes if you be cheap you buy twice due to bad quality.

[@miriamn1075]

The problem is that you can't buy twice in this case. Botched is botched, correction a complicated and agonizing thing.

[@katrinaboyer386]

It's not cheap anymore.

[@paolavazquez5250]

Please give us a tour of Sweden 🇸🇪!! Vlog of northern lights please !!! Nature and snowy mountains and the crystal blue water!! Enjoy the fresh air!!

[@ShannonGarvey-o8c]

Why would you say these are myths!? They aren't myths for many people who have had bottom surgery, & ended up absolutely devastated by it. You're lucky things worked out for you, but how horrible for you to tell everyone these things are myths! Disgrace!

[@peanusbirthday]

I’m scheduled for my surgery in May!!! Sooo can’t wait ❤

[@andread5672]

Happy for you girl! What surgeon?

[@peanusbirthday]

@@andread5672 thank uuuu Dr Zamarias

[@dsplays1]

@@peanusbirthday how did it go?? (In like a, how do u feel sorta way XD)

[@peanusbirthday]

@@dsplays1 it hurt A LOT ngl. the dilating is not fun but necessary. But I now feel complete

[@dsplays1]

@@peanusbirthday I am glad you got it done tho!! And now you know, it’s gonna be hard to go through anything more painful so you know you can do it

[@rogerphillips2846]

How could it feel fake? Obviously, Hayward feel like what it feels like. I don't know what that is? What I do know is it would be authentic for whoever it is you happen to be. So if you're a girl, or a trans girl, or trans boy, or whatever trans thing or whatever thing you are

[@exnihilo415]

I've had the good fortune to have sex (as a guy) with trans girls and cis girls. My wife is a trans woman. It doesn't feel the same. Doesn't mean it's fake or it's a deal killer. The internal vagina is just a complex organ that can't be fully recreated with this surgical technique.

[@agoffgrid640]

thank you for making this. iv been lied to so much, it is so hard to find real info.

[@alanheinrich132]

I have to say that the bottom surgery of my friend is phenomenally good!! :)

[@lillianroux2747]

I’m happy I got this recommendation it fits right into my dreams. I also want to feel completely happy. ❤️💕

[@portfoliofotoz]

Really?!?!!? KZbin allows you to say ovaries and uterus and periods, but not vagina or orgasm? What the hell is wrong with these people? Reminds me of my great-grandmother. We had to refer to chicken as light-meat and dark-meat. Couldn't say breast or leg or thigh. Straight to hell, I guess . . .

[@kaylykellys7414]

OK Groomer.

[@portfoliofotoz]

@@kaylykellys7414 What's a Groomer? Should I be insulted?

[@portfoliofotoz]

@?? So are orgasms. Did you even read my comment? Perhaps my ironic way of expressing myself failed me. My whole point was that KZbin is wrong, inconsistent, prudish and hypocritical to penalize normal discussion of biological functions and body parts. And . . . what about my name leads you to label me "clueless?"

[@minacarroll8867]

Gender affirmation surgery saves lives .anything that does that can do that is A ok . ❤

[@katrinaboyer386]

Not really it mask it temporary as you get older it gets harder to hold back.

[@kalvinflowers6178]

“10 to 15 years after surgical reassessment, the suicide rate of those who had undergone sex-reassignment surgery rose to 20 times that of comparable peers.”- according to “the most thorough follow-up of reassigned people-extending over 30 years and conducted in Sweden.” I’m not convinced it saves lives.

[@MiaRosenbloom]

@@kalvinflowers6178 Sweden admitted that study was biased and the statistics are wrong.

[@kalvinflowers6178]

@@MiaRosenbloom This is not the only source of these type stats. I’ll leave it to you to research as I don’t want to get into a debate over it. Unfortunately, this has become politicized.

[@gdrileyx]

Actually, all these myths were essentially true 30-years ago, which is why they persist as myths, despite advancements in science.

[@unfortunatelyevil1767]

I somewhat wish science was faster (while not becoming unethical), as animal testing has (in 3 different projects) used stem cells to make valid sperm, stem cells to make valid eggs, and artificial wombs that can get mouse babies from day 0 fertilization to half or more of the term. Getting those three approved for humans will be huge for not just LGBT & disabled people, but also others that cannot currently have biological children.

[@DAVING0]

You mite be able to answer a question for me. Is it possible to grow specific body parts from a persons stem cells ? Or even promote the growth of said body parts on the person.

[@unfortunatelyevil1767]

@@DAVING0 Way above my amateur knowledge, but I know that we are in the process of being able to 3D print organs. I do not know if it uses stem cells or just regular DNA, but it is basically fast-growing your own organ which removes the possibility of it being rejected. As of 5-6 years ago, there was an issue in making sure they don't collapse/die without flowing blood through them, but I am pretty sure they are past that stage by now. A nifty side effect of this research is 3D printed meat products. You only need 1 cow to replace a farm full of cows, and there is no need for the muscle to be live-implanted, as it is just used for food~

[@DAVING0]

@@unfortunatelyevil1767 This is amazing stuff. At some point there will be no need for anyone to kill animals for food. It seems like it would be a good thing for body dysmorphic people so they have full function without all the barbarity they have to go through. Thanks for your reply. I know this is a bit morbid but I'm fascinated with all this stuff. Iv not long learned about dysmorphia, its horrendous. It would be great if they had a fix that didn't come with any problems. Thanks for taking the time with your explanation. Cheers.