This song on repeat already. Bawling like a baby. Trauma bonds are the hardest to break.
@jessicalefay Жыл бұрын
Girl me too sheeewwww... Just feel it. We'll be better people for it. Sending love.
@BreezeofBliss Жыл бұрын
Trauma is just an unhealed emotional wound. You can heal. You've got this!
@katarzynastomskapoetry Жыл бұрын
I see You. I feel you. I hear you. You will get there. I promise.
@angelaaharrah8853 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely yes! I'm ten years into a healthy loving marriage with three amazingly frustrating daughters.. I'm the happiest I've ever been but there's always that one person that tugs at your heart a little bit in the worst way.
@twintaurean520 Жыл бұрын
The hardest to break…. I feel that on a level not many have ever experienced to understand
@maloriemclain1500 Жыл бұрын
Lyrics to this masterpiece 💜 Did someone you know Ever turn on a dime From an angel right into a monster? You still wanna stay Wanna help, wanna heal Only so much that your love can offer Why did I try for as long as I did? Back on the ropes when I knew I should quit Where do I run 'cause I've got no more blood left to bleed? I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong You tried to protect And you always defendin' Even when they’re caught red-handed But all that you get For your purest intentions Is your heart wrapped up in a bandage How many tears do my eyes have to make? How many years is it gonna take? Where do I run so that I make it out in one piece? I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused 'Cause all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong
@imadtouati5742 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@aryssasasasassygurl Жыл бұрын
Wow every lyrics super duper good
@otjayultra_b Жыл бұрын
Thank youuu😊
@nehamathew5665 Жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for lyrics may God bless u abundantly
@termilena Жыл бұрын
thanks mate
@beckyeon922 Жыл бұрын
To all the people who listen to this masterpiece, hope you heal from all the pain you suffered.. Life goes on no matter what don't let them bring you down.. Fighting 💪
@kamamoores3138 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢
@melissabee5708 Жыл бұрын
❤
@Sally-07294 ай бұрын
My past is exactly where my stepfather belongs as well as my own mother!! Two abusive parents towards me ! One was sexually abusive and the other was mentally and physically abusive but they are both gone and i have met them go and do not want to think about them ! Let God take care of everything for me!! I am a survivor with the Grace of GOD!!
@ghxst2910 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting so long and needed it for even longer
@rachelmaslow3972 Жыл бұрын
SAMEEEEE
@victoriahess1119 Жыл бұрын
These are the words I wish I could have told my adopted mom before she passed. Thank you for helping me scream them to the stars. Maybe her energy will feel the pain she caused me and my brother. She is in my past forever now.
@faiththepacifist1756 Жыл бұрын
I didn't think I needed this song so badly.... Now I can listen to it, I can finally heal and move on. Thank you
@atd8134 Жыл бұрын
Matt Hansen is officially my favorite singer! So underrated!!!
@TheHallofmemories Жыл бұрын
Man, I feel like this song came out just when I needed it. But instead of putting another person behind me, I need to put the old me behind me. 💯/💯 love this song so much!!! Definitely having this on repeat for a long while!
@saraabdula-bb6xp Жыл бұрын
😔
@roseobua6643 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@localhound9657 Жыл бұрын
This is probably the song I’ve ever cried to in my life. I’m no longer on speaking terms with my mother for 7 weeks now and I’m deeply hurt and this song just explains to me or how I felt about her. Shes my mom you know and il always love her but she chose her path and I chose mine. It’s time to move on and for my mental health she belongs in the past. they belong in the past!
@katrina5403 Жыл бұрын
I JUST FOUND THIS SONG MYSELF. I HAVE NEVER HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MOM. I HAD MY SON WHEN I WAS 23 SHE NEVER ACCEPTED US -- SHE SAID HE & I WERE OUR OWN FAMILY-- SHE TOLD ME WHEN I WAS 2 I COULD TAKE CARE OF MYSELF SINCE MY BROTHER WAS COLICKY THAT'S HOW SHE RAISED ME AT A DISTANCE. I TRIED FOR MANY YEARS AFTER MY SON TO ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP BUT HE ACTUALLY TOLD ME IF SHE ALWAYS UPSET ME WHY? SHE NEVER LOVED ME I MOVED 10 YEARS AGO TO ANOTHER STATE SHE & MY BROTHERS KNOW WHERE IVE BEEN NOBODY HAS CALLED OR CARED, SO IVE LEARNED IN MY 54 YEARS GOD IS MY (& YOURS) FATHER WHO UNCONDITIONALLY LOVES US ALL. HE KNOWS THE HEART OF EVERYONE SOMETIMES EVEN FAMILY DESERVES TO BE A PAST. I PRAY FOR YOU & YOUR SITUATION DONT LOSE FAITH. STAY STRONG FOR YOURSELF & LOVE YOURSELF TO HEAL
@lynnevans3097 Жыл бұрын
His voice ❤ you can feel it all
@justrees4929 Жыл бұрын
I've been struggling over the last week after my mother, who I haven't spoken to in over a year, was hospitalized for the 3rd time since October. She's slowly dying, well, killing herself basically. She doesn't wanna speak to me and I feel the same. No one understands how I feel. No one understands how much it hurts every time I hear she's back in the hospital because yes, she is my mom, but also how it brings up every awful thing I've ever been through with her as my parent. Thank God for therapy I guess. This song is cathartic and all I can say is thank you for sharing it with the world.
@paigestephens7029 Жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart give yourself some grace and remember that you are not the parent here. You’ll be on my mind and heart ❤
@Be_You. Жыл бұрын
Pain, soul, passion, love, broken-heart, and healing- all in one. What a gem to the soul.❤️🩹✨
@kelliefowler146 Жыл бұрын
Crazy how much a song can speak exactly how your feeling and what your going through. Best song I’ve heard in so long and it came out As soon as I needed it🖤 your music is amazing please keep them coming!
@tiffylubee13 Жыл бұрын
One day out of a mentally, physically, and verbally abusive relationship and this song had me shaking and pouring tears but thank you Matt for making this song❤
@sidneywomack4170 Жыл бұрын
After 5 years, I finally left. I've had the preview to this song on repeat for weeks. I needed this ❤️
@brittanym. Жыл бұрын
I've been in a rough place for the last 5 years too. I feel like I'm so close, but still struggling to actually leave. Do you have any advice?
@brianaespinal42439 ай бұрын
Lyrics: Did someone you know ever turn on a dime From an angel right into a monster? You still wanna stay, wanna help, wanna heal Only so much that your love can offer Why did I try for as long as I did? Back on the ropes when I knew I should quit Where do I run? 'Cause I've got no more blood left to bleed I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong Where you belong You try to protect and you always defend And even when they got red-handed But all that you get for your purest intentions Is your heart wrapped up in a bandage? How many tears do my eyes have to make? How many years is it gonna take? Where do I run so that I make it out in one piece? I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong Where you belong I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused 'Cause all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong
@yanethgarcia6136 Жыл бұрын
Been waiting for this song to out out for a fat minute. I'm glad its finally out! Song is so relatable and I love it! Your amazing Matt! 🤍
@jessicalefay Жыл бұрын
Just ridiculous tears rn...... You have no idea how much this song can help people to face the trauma and heal it. Thank you again for being you and following your heart. It's beautiful
@scorned_lover3082 Жыл бұрын
10 years of marriage, 7 years of abuse, 5 years of fixing me when it was him who needed the help. 2 weeks it's been since I walk out 😢 I've been striped of everything
@CorruptHeart8811 ай бұрын
I feel your pain....was 19 years for me...💔
@destinymarian219811 ай бұрын
I’m proud of you, you beautiful soul
@meganfox97449 ай бұрын
12 years for me 😢
@PinkPixie-km3jg9 ай бұрын
I hope you're doing okay 6 months on. Well done
@Paragonghost7 ай бұрын
GOOD....
@Gthing79 Жыл бұрын
This song found me at the perfect time... Though it doesn't feel like a perfect time. Thank you for this song, sir.
@Miraculer4life Жыл бұрын
Song arrived just in the right moment of my life!! 🥺💗
@Karma777-e8u Жыл бұрын
Absolutely floored by this, every single word is like matt is singing about my life, beautiful lyrics beautiful voice, thank you matt ❤
@SR3272 Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for this to come out....trying to break a trauma bond, but honestly.....it's been over a year and I still feel it everyday
@manbearpig89mvh2 күн бұрын
The song I never wanted. The song I always needed. The song I hope to never forget.
@flirk7778 Жыл бұрын
Did someone you know ever turn on a dime From an angel right into a monster? You still wanna stay, wanna help, wanna heal Only so much that your love can offer Why did I try for as long as I did? Back on the ropes when I knew I should quit Where do I run? 'Cause I've got no more blood left to bleed I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong Where you belong You try to protect and you always defend And even when they got red-handed But all that you get for your purest intentions Is your heart wrapped up in a bandage? How many tears do my eyes have to make? How many years is it gonna take? Where do I run so that I make it out in one piece? I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused I barely made it out fighting You drained all the life from my love Sometimes in moments of weakness I want you back in my arms But all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong Where you belong I gotta put you behind me With all the pain that you caused 'Cause all of the bruises remind me The past is where you belong The past is where you belong
@solareclipse2130 Жыл бұрын
I assume this song talks more about leaving a toxic romantic relationship, but this hits me as the people I see in this song is my mom and her side of the family. I have left my mother in the past. And once I move out, she’ll finally be where she belongs. My love for the rest of my mom’s family leaves me feeling like I’m being bled dry of it. I will always love them, they are helpful, but so much has happened that I’m drained of any compassion when I’m around them for too long. I’m glad that there’s a song that I can feel like I can put the people who need to be in the past can stay in the past
@katarzynastomskapoetry Жыл бұрын
11 yrs ago I escaped covert narcissist who I was married to. This song is my anthem - a reminder what I have went through and not to takemy freedom for granted. He certainly belongs in my past.
@natashafessler-do5jm Жыл бұрын
I have been listening to this on Spotify since it's dropped at midnight ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS SONG
@michsapien Жыл бұрын
I am going through a separation probably a divorce. We’ve damaged each other a lot. It’s hard to let go, and I want to because I know I have to love and respect myself. For now that’s my goal as well as getting close to God. Idk what will happen with my husband I truly don’t. But for now I just want to focus on me ❤
@mshabs2238 Жыл бұрын
Best of luck! Don't give him a second thought. Move forward with your head up.
@ashk8380 Жыл бұрын
Dear Matt Hansen Just a few weeks ago I foundout about your music by instagram i came around a sponsored song and it was yours and i remember it like it was yesterday the song was let them go the first time I heared it i went through all kinds of emotions happy to tears to mad to thankfull to happy again that song made me realize that sometimes its better to let go then holding on cuz sometimes holding on ends up hurting you more then letting go! That song helped me in so many ways! And then Just a few days ago i came across the short from this song and Just like the last time all the emotions i felt with this one straight up i felt the same! Honestly when i saw this vid online it was uploaded Just a few hours earlier ( time difference) i had to put it onto the speakers after the second or third time i had listen to the song i knew the lyrics Thanks for your music! Music has always been my way out cuz of my troubled childhood soo thank you so so much! Im really really glad I got that sponsored video of you and that I found you! You made a big difference in my life! Big hugs from me Ps. Your music reached the Netherlands ❤
@kaitlynamira39162 ай бұрын
I found you right when your songs literally described my life and what I’m going through. It is so amazing how people can write songs and depending on how you interpret them they can really put a lot of things in perspective for you. Thank you for this song and the meanings behind it
@jd426211 ай бұрын
It's crazy how humans can hurt each other so deeply... this song goes to the deepest part of my broken heart. If you're listening to this and you're still single... let it be a lesson to you to stay single! Much much less heartache to be single
@lukedonnelly7031 Жыл бұрын
you are just a different breed matt hansen, all of your songs are so beautifully written
@tayuibea7144 Жыл бұрын
Finally😭😭😭😭. Been waiting for so long. So much love Matt. This is an incredibly beautiful song
@lynnmcdonald2444 Жыл бұрын
THIS!!!!THIS!!!!!THIS!!!! SHOULD BE THE SONG FOR ALL SURVIVORS OF ABUSE. I'VE SENT IT TO ALL I KNOW!! I AM AN ADVOCATE AND WILL SHARE SHARE SHARE YOU ARE AN ANGEL MATT
@graystormdrizzleclan6567 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this song with the world
@Tintanya1 Жыл бұрын
I've been counting down until I could hear this full song. So beautiful and honest. Playing on repeat.
@haileebruce3591 Жыл бұрын
This song really helps me been listening to it non stop, reminds me of all my trauma from the past and it helps me be able to let things go
@jasmineneely6136 Жыл бұрын
I've been begging and dyeing for this song omg I love it your amazing keep up the good work I mean it your music touched my whole soul
@Shannon-wo5xz Жыл бұрын
Never been so excited to listen to a song or have a song I relate so much to xx
@ECarman79 Жыл бұрын
You Drained All The Life From My Love... brilliant lyrics.
@pringleeeee Жыл бұрын
This is soooo good. I’m in love ❤️❤
@terriepps9087 Жыл бұрын
The is now on repeat!!!! I need this sing so bad.
@shelbyhull7587 Жыл бұрын
I’ll loved all your music since your first covers 🥹 beautiful voice!! You’ve come so far🥹
@Mountains4ever11 ай бұрын
Just heard this song for the first time today and i really needed it. My girl left me a couple months ago and I’ve been a wreck and broken down every day since she left. She has BPD and really destroyed me. I feel trauma bonded from everything and I can’t stop missing her and loving her and I want her in my arms again. These lyrics hit home
@Lys-Anne Жыл бұрын
I ammmm so happppyyy it is out, I just love it sooo much, the lyrics, the voice, the energy, it is a masterpiece!
@2PMisTimeless Жыл бұрын
FINALLY WAITED SO LONG!!!!
@anaisc1122 Жыл бұрын
Crying to this song 😮💨 If you come across this comment I hope you heal from that one relationship ❤️🩹
@paireneasharobinson8238 Жыл бұрын
I been waiting for this song to come out. This is one of my favorite songs because I understand what the meaning of the song
@emkoa6975 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss finally I love you what a way to wake up!!!!!!!
@shelbyhull7587 Жыл бұрын
So beautiful😢❤ Thanks for sharing your story
@SeveredInfinity9 ай бұрын
I recently stumbled across you and your songs, this and let em go really strike chord with me, this one in particular. They remind me of my ex, I miss her… every day… and think “I want you back in my arms”… but I am starting to think … “the past is where you belong”.
@ry3942 Жыл бұрын
Matt's music is my form of therapy
@lapheanasasmr2396 Жыл бұрын
Finally thank you so much for releasing this. It's a beautiful, emotional and over all amazing song
@1Baby_Blues-Venus. Жыл бұрын
Waited so long for this and it’s so worth the wait 😭😭😭😩❤️❤️❤️❤️
@masterpimp2000 Жыл бұрын
Finally! Thanks Matt, its a piece of Art. Already on Repeat. 💯🤝
@rosettadmytruk3472 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this beautiful song, I feel like I can heal with this song 💜
@xcruthlesscx Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. 😢 I got so emotional listening to this. Thank YOU for this masterpiece.. your voice is so majestic. Shed a little tear because your song reached a part of my past I wanted to forget. It’s bittersweet how things ended so quick… Still, I love this song ❤
@rosewright619811 ай бұрын
Such a powerful voice, already singing along. I love this so much.
@amieineese2718 Жыл бұрын
Oh wow what a song. 🙂 I love it.
@koridevereaux Жыл бұрын
The timing of this is perfect. Thank you so much
@MegaHerosmash11 ай бұрын
This song hits way to personally. I love it. I needed this. Just separated from my fiance of 5 years who I did and still unfortunately do love but can no longer accept the disrespect and lack of care especially with a kid in the picture. It hurts and just like the song says, every once in a while I fall back to wanting her back. But I know the pain and cycle will just continue.
@enrysc.5438 Жыл бұрын
I JUST LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH
@natashawatts8118 Жыл бұрын
So stoked this finally dropped!! My soul needed this!!
@arielleebhoff8198 Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much this means to me at this time I really needed to hear your words. Thank you.❤
@bfast999 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for blessing us this song
@yourgirlsofiedits Жыл бұрын
The highlight of my day! Love this song! 🎉
@shellydurkin7660 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this right now because I am just going through this ❤❤ LOVE IT
@amandacolonna3872 Жыл бұрын
Trauma bonds are sinister, domestic violence is daunting and this song just a breathe of fresh air 💜
@sofialale Жыл бұрын
As always in love with his songs 😍💙
@alavifitopedia5728 Жыл бұрын
Keep making these amazing songs bro. I know you are underrated but one day you’ll be on top artists. I’m sure about that! Your voice is powerful and healing❤️
@kaylachen9322 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God!!! Your voice 💚💚💚 Please do Angels Like You by Miley Cyrus 🙏🏻🥺
@PROTOxKILLx142 Жыл бұрын
Always releasing good music
@rachelmaslow3972 Жыл бұрын
The song of the decade is FINALLY here!!!
@ChristalW32 Жыл бұрын
Yay! Congratulations.. now let's take it to the top.
@sirubenpo Жыл бұрын
Your music sir save my lonely soul 😭✨
@sophiejames477611 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOUR MUSIC. YOU ARE MY FAVORITE ARTIST PERIOD.
@deavenbryant98 Жыл бұрын
This song hurts me to the core. It’s so true to trauma I endured. I wished I had this when I was being abused by those who were supposed to love and protect me as a child. Truly a gift🫶🏻
@justinawall-sm7xt Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for so long, awsome song love it
@melissabee5708 Жыл бұрын
This one kicks ya right in the feels….
@yorihisagi6150 Жыл бұрын
*I really really love this song. Btw, hello from Indonesia 🇮🇩*
@jessicalefay Жыл бұрын
I came in at 4.6k and now it's at 11k!!!! So excited!!!! 😛🥵😛🥵😛🥵😛🥵
@littlecuddlefish Жыл бұрын
I am sk glad it's finally out!! I'm gonna listen to this on repeat!
@frihet43 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt This song is perfect I needed so much ❤️
@livelife0412 Жыл бұрын
YES !!!! Am buzzin
@destinylynne9850 Жыл бұрын
My favorite song is on repeat
@imadtouati5742 Жыл бұрын
Man, this a masterpiece 🤍
@kya6256 Жыл бұрын
fantastic song
@madsraine6705 Жыл бұрын
I'm struggling listening to this song. I'm having a hard time forgiving someone that was family for assaulting me in front of my child. I know I should forgive for me but the damage they caused... Idk if I could. There's something of this song that hits so close to home, but it's a vocalization I needed.
@brittanym. Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you went through that. It's really hard to forgive when a boundary that big is violated by someone who was family. I grew up being told I needed to forgive, and I knew I should forgive too, but if I could go back and give my younger self some advice about forgiveness it would be this. Don't be afraid to create some distance, from the person, from the location, from others even if they are well meaning and just trying to help. Sometimes forgiveness comes in the background while we focus on moving forward rather than what we are trying to forgive. It took me a really long time to forgive my dad for my parents divorce, I didn't want to, and for many years didn't think I could, but I can honestly say that I have now. It doesn't erase the wrong, or even the hurt sometimes, but I have made my peace with it. Forgiveness can't be rushed, it's a process, the more we "should" ourselves I think the harder it gets. It's certainly not easy, I can relate to this song now because I'm having to separate myself from my mom and sister so that I can heal and forgive them too. It's so hard, and there are days I just want to forget they exist, but it's a process. Just give yourself a lot of grace, and keep moving forward, you'll get there.
@madsraine6705 Жыл бұрын
@@brittanym. This was incredibly recent for me too. Approx. 3-4 years. I've since disconnected and cut off the person who did this. I know I should forgive, but right now I'm not quite sure that's a possible task I can do. Maybe one day, just not today. I'm even in therapy for all that I endured that day and days well years prior that I endured too. Maybe one day.
@brittanym. Жыл бұрын
@@madsraine6705 Wow, I am so proud of you for setting those boundaries and seeking counseling! That takes incredible courage, and bravery! 🙂 Forgiveness comes with healing, and healing takes time, and time seems to take patience. Sometimes I feel like I lose patience with the process, I feel like I should be more healed, or should have learned how to set better boundaries, or I should have conquered my fears and separated from my family and the pain I feel around them, or that I should be more forgiving toward them. But at the end of the day we are only so strong, and in training to become stronger. We can only take it one step at a time. You are on the right track, and I fully believe over time the healing, and forgiveness will come. You're doing an amazing job! Plus in this process you're teaching your child resiliency, how to handle the process after a bad situation, and how to be mentally healthy. That is a wonderful example for your child! 🙂
@alessiabiancucci5576 Жыл бұрын
Grazie per condividere il tuo talento, fai bene al cuore ❤️
@ismarayrodriguezdita2 ай бұрын
I really love your songs ❤❤❤❤
@jarededwards1841 Жыл бұрын
Right time. I need dis song an mak me happy cz 💕💕💕
@sehamalkholani1840 Жыл бұрын
Just on time! ♥️
@nyeinnyeinaye2718 Жыл бұрын
Finally I got this song thank you. 💛💛
@scorned_lover3082 Жыл бұрын
I need to give you a hug, not only did you break me, but this song is the song that's going to get me out of my marriage😢😢
@augustinmluther3299 Жыл бұрын
The amount of times I’ve listened to this song is disgusting🔥🔥
@sarahargrove2121 Жыл бұрын
I needed this song so bad💔 Thank you😭😔
@lynnlakeview7534 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! 🙌🏻 the short didn’t do it justice!
@samcabrera7382 Жыл бұрын
The fact that my AirPods died in the middle of the song…but I’ve need this song for so long and it has opened my eyes