Finding Safety - Matt Kahn

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Matt Kahn is the author of the best-selling books Whatever Arises, Love That and Everything Is Here To Help You. He is a spiritual teacher, and highly attuned empathic healer who has become a KZbin sensation with his healing and often humorous videos. His over 15 million KZbin channel viewers are finding the support they seek to feel more loved, awakened, and opened to the greatest possibilities in life through the invitation to join the “Love Revolution That Begins with You.”

[@xXevangelaXx]

I'm so thankful that I have access to these teachings

[@PhoenixAurelius-138]

I had to rewind the first part a few times to understand what he meant about feelings coming when one is safe to feel them... Then, it hit me: when my brother died, I cried a little at the beginning, but then I didn't feel anything for several weeks. During that time, my other brother and I were in charge of getting the memorial service together and dealing with the ex-wife and our grief stricken parents. I was NOT safe to feel those emotions in those moments, so my body didn't present them. A few weeks later, something completely unrelated happened that suddenly opened the floodgates, and I cried and cried and cried some more. Our bodies are amazing that way. I suppose from now on, I will more consciously trust that when an emotion comes up, my body IS safe to feel it, even if, in society's opinion, it is not convenient.

[@TheJoanie369]

I am in awe of your teaching. I've been around the block for 80 years and your are not only refreshing but everything you present is doable and takes me to deeper levels. I want to get to one of your intensive. There is no time to waste!

[@QSnarf]

Matt is one of the few teachers whose words don't make me want to say "yeah whatever bla bla bla bla bla talk to the hand muthafucka". Yep. This guy is good.

[@carolbarnes7932]

Love this Matt! I am removing fear from this planet! Love, Carol

[@GodMotherSoLLove]

WHAT A FUCKING RELIEFFFFFF!!!!!!! THANK YOUUUUUUUU!!!!!

[@arizonagal4195]

Matt is a breath of fresh air with teachings that are practical both personally and collectively...I love how they stretch to new possibilities.

[@EnchantedMermaid]

I cried all through this. This was the missing link for me. My life has changed, instantly. I got all freaked out today and suddenly saw myself as the one clearing out fear for us all, and it was so interesting. The self observation created a space. And the safety thing...I feel like the universe now, and not so much a human in the universe. Thank you doesnt seem like enough for me to say. PEACE AT LAST!!!

[@Omgodspeed]

All of a sudden, in this transmission Matt reminds me of Jack Black. So funny. I never thought it before. Now it's seems obvious. This is SO good! Yes - Thanks Matt! Simply Amazing.

[@darleneblystone3478]

absolutely .. beautifull.. melts into truth.. like a hot knife into butter. thank you , thank you, thank you, thank you... sooooooooooooo gratefull for the 'light'

[@tracyaustin3826]

I am baffled how the audience can sit there and not loudly proclaim, "Holy crap, this is awesome to know!!!" I've never seen Matt speak in person though, so maybe the energy is different up close & personal, lol! All I can really say is, "Holy CRAP! This is so awesome to know!!!!" Thanks, Matt

[@Torpor111]

safety sense is facilitating profound healing here. many thanks and blessings for this one

[@AutismGrandparents]

I must be really safe because I finally am allowing myself to feel anger, jealousy, resentment and love myself anyway. I needed to re watch this again to remind myself that I am safe!! Thank you.

[@germywoodcock3254]

I bless everyone who see's this with the safety and ecstasy of inspired awe

[@demolicious1]

I'm watching this video while being chased by a lion!

[@martavasiliou605]

I LOVE YOU MATT KHAN ....WHOOSH ..... blown away and sooo tingly after hearing such divine wisdom xxxx

[@hogchief]

I feel deeply doubtful so, I guess I'm transmuting all collective needs for empirical proof that what Matt is teaching has validity. HOOORAAY!

[@chela210]

That eliminates all those "blockages"! Love that!

[@hubbahubba11x]

Immaculate transmission!

[@cateinnish6578]

Thanks for the brotherly affirmation - just when I thought I was nuts! There's Matt. Thank you.

[@ongoingness]

In other words, I'm feeling it, so I'm healing it 😄❤️

[@michaelcharles8181]

Safety leads to relaxation and pleasure.

[@vladkostin7557]

Wow.. Safety.. Never even came to my conscious attention, but now I feel how crucial this is. Thank you for the awesome message.

[@vladkostin7557]

And spiritual obedience.. Allows you to feel safe only when you meet certain criteria :) That new perspective on lightwork is very interesting, suddenly, indeed my life makes sense. I felt like I was failing mostly, because of not being the "pure and fluffy light being", and having all my issues and emotions. But if that is a part of the path essential not just for me but also for the collective, than it makes sense. But that perspective is a bit scary because it means that we might be.. meant to be.. experiencing all the adversity, and not meant to just live in a bliss, where this state of constant bliss is alike a reward at the end of the spiritual initiation), I know it is an illusion) I'll need to meditate and reflect on safety and all these ideas.

[@douglascooney1164]

Thank you Matt... sooooo much relief, soooo much remembering, soooo much laughter!

[@eyzonsky3279]

Matt, I sure hope that I can put in for a job transfer after this earth stint. I need at least a 50,000 year hiatus and I'd like to start now! Im so grateful for your videos so full of hope/love.

[@vsteph1571]

Um.... Holy shit! I just got it. OMG! This just turned my whole outlook on life on its ear!

[@Fecetious]

Matt, i freaking love you, brother puppy!

[@kelloggkirsten]

So much gratitude for this message ... ! Thank gawd, I'm already perfecto (duh =) ... what a hug *sigh* of RELIEF I have just breathed out !! Simply witness and BE awareness

[@wendi5985]

wow....and I just let out a deep sigh of relief. Mind blown. Wrapping my brain around this.

[@tomstuart668]

This is truly beautiful, I have never before thought of life this way...reminds me of Jesus

[@sagelovestodrum]

Man, I was SHOUTING out to my guides to show me some relief after studying and trying and trying all the while life getting , as you said, sparse, modest et al. . .feeling so tired and worn out from it all. . . now, I know THIS. YOU better believe this changes everything about everything! Gratitude for finding you! (understtement)Sage

[@bwulf6115]

This totally resonated with my experience and understanding, and brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much Matt!

[@miaowcat09]

Just so amazing. No words. Apart from thank you Matt. I realise I've been struggling with behaviours out of the need to feel safe. Now realise I was transmuting on behalf of others, but maybe I won't have to anymore if they don't arise? It sounds dramatic to say bit it's one of the best days of my life hearing this!

[@NowIAmDefyingGravity]

I LOVE YOU! I love you. i love you... I love YOU!

[@connysieben]

It took me a few times watching it to really let it sink in. This one is HUGE !!!!! WoW

[@CourtneyRohan]

Thank you again, Matt. I just thought that safety didn't exist! So happy to have found a new paradigm!

[@tamarabrennan6202]

What an incredible relief! laughter. Thank you Matt.

[@LOAWORKS]

Brilliant Matt… absolutely heartstoppingly brilliant! Totally resonates with me xxx

[@JoJoWilliams]

we are bad ass! thank you for the laughs and the tears. I love you!

[@michaelcharles8181]

I have watched several of Matt's videos and I feel that this one is the best. My feeling is that it is through pleasure that the maximum amount of planetary transformation takes place.

[@tkenline]

"We are the universe dressed up in human form to transmute the collective for all. For all those who aren't willing to feel and transmute. We are fulfilling our divine mission." I thought of the "i love you's" practice of Matt and Julies. Recently, I was doing it, saying I love you to my heart over and over. My heart drank it up thirstily. Then all of a sudden my heart turned into the universe, with a galaxy spinning inside my chest space. Matt's description in this video of us being the universe helped me to make sense of what happened in my meditation.

[@tkenline]

And let's enjoy the partaaayy!!!!!

[@dek2000utube]

High Level Stuff .... as long as we appear to have levels! Thank you Matt!

[@nurturewithnaturerarelikeyou]

FEeling is HEaling .. Deep GRAtitude

[@jillhochwald1487]

matt kahn, this tape makes more sense than anything i've ever encountered. thank you. bless you.

[@kevinfogarty5081]

Brilliant! Best way of explaining the journey I have ever heard! So glad I found you my friend. Keep spreading this reminder. Light and love.

[@louiseowen4171]

Thank you Matt for spreading PEACE!

[@insimplebeing]

The total transmutational embracing of all experience. Saying yes for myself is saying yes for everyone. I love it. Thanks for this great talk.

[@insimplebeing]

Everyone is a Boddhisattva.

[@insimplebeing]

***** I was speaking for myself. However, don't get too hung up about words. I'm not a Buddhist, nor do I consider myself an adherent of any formalized religion. I do, however, like the notion that we are all personal inlets of consciousness in one vast universal sea, and that by contemplating who we are, in truth, there is some possibility that we can reach that place which cannot be described by any language, except the silent language of the heart. What do you understand by the word Boddhisatva? And is that something you are not?

[@melonsoda123]

This, along with Matt's other videos, has really been inspiring me to be nicer to myself.

[@SeagirlX]

I get answers to questions I sometimes don't realize I have and my mind has been completely blown. ✨🙏✨

[@HealingAngelssend]

Such a relief to know and to be able to transmute not only for myself, but also for the planet,my loved ones and all humanity. It brings so much joy to my Heart!

[@LisaSimmonsandABcano]

I needed this exact thing today--- THANK YOU!!!

[@roxannelucky]

A life transmuting LOVE machine! Is that me????? YEAH?????? Love you, Matt, SO much!! Your perspective is so freeing! love to all :)

[@freddy29228]

Thanks Matt for the teaching. All the frustrating emotions we're going through are what we're transmuting on behalf of the collective. Not the judgements or boxes that we'd normally put things into. Good or bad. They're just is. You're right, we've never enjoyed this process before. Found it painful and want it to stop. Love to get to the other side!

[@idalawrence5912]

I think this is my favorite video - I've watched them all, but this one... very healing, deep and incredibly comforting. Thank You!

[@lisagale8992]

this spoke directly to me word for word.

[@roeoconnor9064]

My goodness so beautiful may peace and love radiate to all living beings . Thank you Matt

[@wendyspinks6543]

Laughed and cried and as ever so profound and perfectly timed. You answered & addressed just about everything I have been experiencing, questioning and contemplating of late down to the T. LOVE, & LOVE to you!

[@susanp4227]

You truly inspire me with your message. Everything you say resonates with me. Thank you so much for the love that you spreading throughout the world.

[@jazza495]

Whenever I got soooo negative and angry ect ect, The angels would congratulate me... which of course would send me into greater depths of fury and frustration where they would congratulate me some more. I think now I know why, I didn't know how much I was being a light-worker. funny in retrospect :) Thanx Matt

[@inheaps]

Matt, you are a warrior! Now I am too (after listening to you).

[@jlck325]

This is outstanding, so powerful thank you, Matt Kahn.

[@Shinobi_moon717]

I love your messages & your brilliant sense of humor Matt :) Thank you so much

[@DJDanCarter]

this is such a powerful video and feels so true to me, well done Matt all I can say is thanks for doing what you do. You are freeing me from a life of physical pain agression and endless answers and disappointment. huge love to you God bless x

[@Katherinewilson815]

Whew my mind is blown. Thank you Matt!

[@hermit144]

Oh Lord!! Safety. .... yes yes yes... feel safe where I am.... aaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@klb888]

One of my favorite A Course in Miracles quotes is, "In my defenslessness, my safety lies." Thank you!

[@chansonette22]

you rock, young man. thank you :)

[@SoulpunkTVshow]

Going through this again as my body is experiencing deep anxiety for the first time. Confirming my intuition about why I'm going through it. Thank you Matt.

[@SanzL1]

Yes, I knew this. I keep feeling the new for people, things, and money, and I know that the answer isn't there. Finding a significant other seems like it would not address my situation, though so many have said that it's high time again.

[@DenaJaq]

Absolutely mind blowing!!! Whoa! I feel like I've been doing this all my life!!!!!

[@rainbow7217]

Whew that takes the pressure off. We are well on our way! Love💗💗💗

[@seflesslove]

I f#&#-#ing love you Matt!!! You literally have been the most enlightened and inspiring soul that has crossed my path and i feel very blessed, that you've been able to confirm what I've felt so deeply inside and put into words what the world needed to be liberated by.. xo

[@DavidPackluvr]

Wonderful indeed! Thank you, Matt, Julie & all involved with True Divine Nature!!!

[@musebrad]

Awesome perspective, allowing and celebrating every experience as divine purpose.

[@karlamichellechase]

Thank you!

[@lizablove]

Ahhhh....Matt. Validating, uplifting and I'm so ready to have that party! Thank You ♥

[@mephista55]

Thank you...

[@liinu01]

23:30 blowing my mind again... thank you...

[@Muchjoy..]

Beautiful Matt Thank you Joy love and light Mary...

[@maryrichardson8790]

Dear Matt, you are BRILLIANT! Thank you so so much for this. And how right you are - revolutionary it is for sure, and wonderful to hear for that very reason. Wow, love it, what a crazy world we live in, where the truth is revolutionary! You are giving me the tools to begin living now. Bless you, a trillion times over!

[@pkingo1]

The transmuting perspective is very helpful to liberate yourself. It's so easy to start cutting yourself short by judging things as resistance to what is, unconscious behavior, etc.instead of actually seeing through it.

[@1bepresent]

"AAAA" Absolutely Awesome As Always!!!!

[@esthervanruiten8049]

you are so full of love...

[@Ankz0r]

THANK YOU for shifting my perception YET again.. Out of all the teachers out there you are just simply amazing.. I experience myself to be an energy sensitive and your teachings just resonate so much me! I am so happy to have found you. Thank you Thank you Thank you! I love you I love you I love you!

[@cococali1234]

LOVE YOUR MESSAGES!!

[@connieboston9752]

Matt. . . you've done it again. . . I am so enjoying the channel you are tuned into, it goes well with the flavor that my life has been. Much Love and Blessings!

[@patrickzenn1730]

This guy is helping me so much... I lovez him O__O

[@lynwillmott3794]

Matt, Humanity has been in in this traumatic state for thousands of years - meaning a lack of love is the actual state of this reality. We are here to experience the horror and under this terrible pressure to discover unconditional love......this is The Game we have agreed to play.

[@Sparklesuz]

Dear Mermaid, I cried all the way through this, too. I seem to have taken on "sadness" for the world-this week. This was such a life chancing video it is hard to verbalized. Matt is spirituality 3.0 as Teal Swan would say. The "internal chaos" took a deep turn toward peace. It is like all the work and all the learning and absorbing and being has led to this moment. Welcome to the party, pull up a box of kleenex.

[@haliawalters1869]

Wow ow ow woweeeeeeeeeeee..I am getting attacked at work right now...big time...and this and all your talks and courses have helped me stay loving towards myself throughout this difficult time..I am grateful beyond words Matt..beyond words and tears flowing now in the deepest gratitude!!!

[@davehshs651]

Matt, please answer a very serious, irresolvable question that this raises for me. If our negative experiences are transmuting negativity out of human consciousness even when we're unaware of it, then HOW did negativity ever accumulate in the first place? WHY wasn’t negativity transmuted all through human history as people experienced it? This just makes no sense to me, and I desperately want it to make sense. Thank you.

[@VitkiCarolina]

Excuse me for stepping in. For what I understand, we *wanted* to experience negativity and all that we are not to begin with, until we said: "ok, Enough of that. Let's return to what we truly are. And let's make it super fun becoming aware while we are stepping out of the mess we created in the first place just to have an experience of it." So that's what we're doing now. Any other ideas about this?

[@davehshs651]

One “answer” of sorts to my original question for Matt has occurred to me. It makes more sense than anything else at the moment: Perhaps the reason that we now transmute negative experiences even when we’re unaware of it is that our “higher” consciousness agreed to do so before we entered this life. For most humans throughout history, this was not the case.

[@kenkap444]

I don't think one talk answers everything. But as to your first question, for humans, I would say the arise of "negativity" occurred as a consequence of separation, which is the defining characteristic of this Universe of form. Animals and plants don't judge. Things just are. (although higher animals can feel difficult feelings. But they don't self judge.) The Lion that eats you is not seen as "bad" and the fear you feel to escape is not seen as "wrong". So for your first issue, its quasi Buddhist. Suffering (the egoic perception of life) is built into that lens. One could look at it as a natural stage of development that needed to be explored before it could be let go of. This talk, this time seems to be the Universes time to say, "It can be let go of". Haven't reached the point of your second question except I have noticed that what is in everyone is in me (if I am honest). If "negativity" is continually recycled, then it doesn't transmute. However, we are not truly the same as we were 5000 years ago or even 50 years ago. So maybe something is moving, just not in the way our minds conceive it should.

[@xenajade6264]

Thank you Matt for this powerful, liberating message. I kind of knew it, but now I know it! Thank you for helping me to transform my life. Lots of love.

[@cindyclark4438]

I LOVE YOU....I FEEL SO MUCH FREER. Thank you...And let me tell you I must be transmutting alot....cus I have alot of feelings going on here.....LOl

[@onespirituniverse12]

I love you so much ! Thank you.

[@anastasiakyriakidou1820]

indeed a very soothing and inspiring video , thank you blessings

[@CyndiMcKenna]

Ah that's what I'm doing! "Even if you find yourself being spiritually obedient, you're clearing it for the well-being of all, Thank God!"

[@andreakoch9862]

thank you Matt, this was so liberating for me.....my ears became bigger and bigger and I listened from my deepest heart....I just discovered you 2 weeks ago and I am so grateful for what you are transmitting....

[@susan-joybarger.53]

Yes, as a social light worker, safety is the most universal human need. To the point that our social systems are still grappling to meet this basic human need through housing, food, and cash benefits. These patterns can only be interrupted when people break the cycle by finding deep safety within. I am safe to feel powerful was the truth that came to me while listening to the great masters. Knowing that I have made such a contribution to the collective through my amazing experiences makes me feel lighter and freer. Thanks for sharing this, Matt.

[@moonbeam385]

oh god, brother! thank you!

[@jglightbody]

I feel a lot of ArchAngel Zadkiel coming thru Matt :)

[@jglightbody]

+Joshua Garbenis here is a link for a perspective on ArchAngel Zadkiel.. www.ascendedmastersspiritualretreats.org/archangels-spiritual-retreats/archangel-zadkiel-amethyst-retreat.html

[@cosmicshindig]

+Joshua Garbenis Wow! me too! Saint Jermaine popped in my head too! :) much love! :)