KOREAN GRANDMA'S REACTION TO PREGNANCY! (DOESN'T GO WELL)

[@MamitaGomez]

Children are a blessing. It is understandable to believe the grandmother’s reaction was due to her personal reasons/experiences that led her to associate children with financial stress and limited resources (including the free time she lost in her own childhood.) She grew up in a scarcity mindset. It was all she knew. Not her fault. Very good of her apologize when she realized the pain her reaction had caused. Her grandbaby will likely see this video one day and it will be a lesson in forgiveness and compassion.

[@joychisanga2207]

I think it's more of her being scared that the older kids will have to raise the younger ones which is already happening

[@eve3363]

The Bible never stated children are a blessing

[@elsie9939]

@@eve3363 girl are you being fr rn. “Let all the children come to me” “ multiply fruitfully” smhhhhhhh, do you not know God adores His little ones. Out wiTh that blasphemy. They are a blessing. Not easy to raise or bear but truly a gift from God

[@eve3363]

@@elsie9939 Nowhere from those statements can you imply that all children are a blessing.

[@eve3363]

@@elsie9939 If you are a drug addict and use drugs during pregnancy, how can your child be a gift from God?

[@headtonix]

That's what I appreciate about this family's vlogs, they don't sugar coat or cut their real life conversation and reactions. They find ways to work through it and reach a common ground even when its awkward.

[@paulettesmith7787]

Indeed

[@lindabotello5103]

For sure

[@allthingsangelica833]

I love how Joe teaches the kids Korean language, Korean traditions etc it’s very beautiful to watch

[@Vivianne1124]

This Joe is such a beautiful soul. He is very mature and strong. His wife too is courageous. Not easy a black woman marrying an Asian man. Wish more Asian men could be like him.

[@joelblake3104]

Yes so proud of Joe

[@eleni5556]

I agree with you, I suffered a lot of prejudice from my boyfriend's family. I'm not black, but I have a small disability. Blessed family ♥️♥️

[@Reign_Of_Is_REAL]

I have 2 blasian friend’s and 3 cousin’s, I thought it was more common. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Reign_Of_Is_REAL]

@@eleni5556 🥺 I’m sorry! Stay strong lovie 🙏🏽❤️

[@pastryshack551]

I did not like the way she said she is not my mother, that was not kind

[@V.L.R.]

“Lo, children are a heritage… and the fruit of the womb is His reward.” 🥰 This is such a beautiful thing from a beautiful family. 💯🙏🏾

[@constant_change72]

Maze and Joe showed such grace and forgiveness to Joe's mom about her negative reaction. That's real christianity.

[@constant_change72]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 WHAT????

[@jennahh_]

Alaina

[@eve3363]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 True Christianity is believing in the One True God of Abraham, belief that Jesus Christ is the divine Son of God the Messiah who atoned for mankind's original sin, to therefore repent to God for any sins you commit on this earth, and to try to live like Christ which above all is love others like Jesus loves us. You don't know what these people believe. Being cordial which is what happened is not an indication of being a Christian. Showing compassion isn't even an indication of being Christian. Is LOVING others how Christ loved us.

[@kya2645]

@@eve3363 yea but they are very open about being Christians if you watch all their videos

[@eve3363]

@@kya2645 Anyone can say they're a Christian.

[@cosandraodame7623]

I think it's wonderful to see a mother loving and raising her children and very educated. I only had two but I wish I had more. Yes it's a great responsibility but I think it's worth it to have your family together.

[@marytaha2448]

That little one looks just like her grandmother and her great-grandmother on her Korean side beautiful beautiful beautiful children bless her you and your family

[@lilliestephens6195]

You guys have done a wonderful job, you guys are doing better than people with less children. Your children are beautiful. 😇🕊❤️😎.

[@apeyb5606]

I believe having a lot of kids is the way it’s meant to be. As long as the parents are present, kids thrive when they have older and younger siblings to interact with and learn from. It teaches them responsibility!! A lot of single children or even families with 2-3 kids, end up coddling and spoiling them. Growing up in a big family is the best way for them to learn responsibility!

[@vibingwithcedi3328]

I literally admire how forgiving they are cause I'm not as forgiving as others.

[@kaimart795]

I think it's down to their faith. My flesh wouldn't be that forgiving either.

[@Same1689hfrh]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 huh?

[@vibingwithcedi3328]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 😂 this here is comedic gold nothing but jokes

[@anulinwume688]

Please be forgiving ok, God forgives you, if you forgive others. God help you with this in Jesus name . Amen

[@sakurakou2009]

@@anulinwume688 god only forgive those who repent abd regret their sins, god dont forgive the arrogant who dont repent and keep sinning

[@Dandelion333F]

I understand his Moms reaction even though it was not okay. I was born into a family of 11. Our father was present up until I was 13 but he never financially helped in fact he was the cause of all our fear and hurt because he was abusive (he clearly was battling his own demons) anyways I am now an adult and I will not be bringing a big family into this world because of how I grew up. We definitely had to survive and did little living, I am 24 and have never been happy. I never got the attention or love I needed and many of my siblings feel the same way. We now have to work through all the trauma. I’m glad you are all mature and were able to have a conversation to move past the different views caused by different life experiences. It is easy to judge someone it is a lot more difficult to have a conversation that’ll lead to understanding.

[@clwxrf6007]

I hope you have found the peace and healing you need.

[@karenmoore4432]

I love the realness with you guys no fakeness and it’s raw. Beautiful Korean goodnite song❤

[@jaeworld3596]

I really admire you guys. I love your family. You represent the epitome of love. Always stay together.❤💜

[@exoticbeautyblisssimpson8430]

As a mother…I would stay out of my child’s marriage. They have to live according to the way they see fit. I would be grateful for all my grandchildren.

[@itsbritt9155]

Yeah you can clearly see his mother disdain for his family situation. But she has to accept it , it’s who her child chose . I think his mother doesn’t like that she had multiple kids prior, I think she doesn’t like that she’s black , I don’t think she likes that he’s having multiple kids with her , making it harder from him to leave if he wanted to, probably other things she doesn’t like we don’t even know about . But it’s clear as day. Wonder what she thinks about the current baby she’s preggo with ….

[@lindc1070]

Cant blame his mum. Its a normal reaction abt the prior kids and no.of kids. Harder to give them the attention they need when there are so many

[@guyana5933]

She is concerned that her son is trapped. She doesn't know or care to know Alana, and her racial hatred is blatant.

[@lindc1070]

@@guyana5933 its not about race but the fact she has kids with multiple men that will throw of any mother whatever the race

[@kaiser1295]

No parent want their child to marry a woman with a bunch of kids with two different fathers. It's about morals and values. You don't see Korean women do this.

[@carolsmith6650]

She will be fine wher she like it are not they are happy family and I love them God bless them

[@Decemberarcher]

It's especially harder for parents I think becaise they have a lot of concerns for the well-being of their children when they increase their families beyond a certain point. Once they can see that you will manage ok, then they come around.

[@teaman9868]

The babies are very bright.and adorable. They articulate much better than most teenagers.

[@kaylastephen16]

not his mom just getting up & walking away 😩😅

[@philisiwenkabinde1196]

I love the way you teach your babies how to do house chores 💕💖😘Joe is a supportive husband you guys are good together

[@du7857]

My Husband and I have 9 children. Not Everyone will like it or agree. Thats okay. My Job is not to convince anyone. My Job is to Love and Support my family and teach them the ways of the Lord thats it. Bless this family ❤

[@deltastarr3167]

Moms reaction is priceless. Joe's, mom is not happy, no one wants their child to be trapped in a unhappy marriage or relationship. To be young with this many children is extreamly hard.

[@christy2152]

You guys inspire me. I just broke up with my boyfriend and I had stopped believing in love. But watching your videos give me hope. True love does exist. ❤️

[@rodrozil6544]

I doesn't believe in love either. I believe in marrying, baby making and building a family.

[@Jhannzy]

I'm going to give u more videos to watch so u don't give up on love. Reafe&Kristen Ika&Dem Destene&Brandon TheLoyalFamily. All love and vibes. Love this family too.

[@hollyhobby6669]

I just love this amazing beautiful family! So down to earth.

[@cafejavasriders2886]

Love you guys

[@faithyagbenor8749]

You have an amazing family, I pray that God gives you the strength to cope and provide for them !

[@alvidean22]

That’s a lot of kids, and it’s 2022 and she’s pregnant again. But, to each his/her own. Best of luck to you both

[@nahosnihon1221]

In our religion, it's normal and sunnah; the more you have children, the merrier your family lives and the more blessings you get. We believe that God will take care of their needs and sustenance, and we only have to put effort into getting it.

[@souljaunt]

"You gave her a tattoo?" What? Lmaoooo 😭

[@linnyw1072]

I love you guys....you are so real and embody so much grace

[@linnyw1072]

I think also that it's important to realize what our forefathers have had to endure just to survive... beautiful homes and possessions are great but for this grandma a large family was the luxury that was beyond imagination.I think that even now the pain and fear of not having enough is with her...

[@mableluswanga6860]

In all honesty, mama Korea's reaction is normal....this is A LOT of kids and not everyone has the mental capacity to process this. Joe and Alena do a great job but its not for everyone due to our past experiences.

[@veganfoodlovers2667]

Good 👍 answer she is pregnant a lot like it’s the 1920s but her older children most likely do help and the older girl know how to be moms at a early age and mostly will not want kids because they enough is enough My sister had 9 Her daughter had 5 Her other daughter had 3 It’s a bunch I have 2 and I want 1 one ☝️

[@chikaobienu]

I think saying something is normal is so absurd! Normal to you might not be to another person … some people love to have a lot of kids and that’s no one business

[@getachew.]

@@chikaobienuthe general census does not have this many kids. this is out of the ordinary…not weather you think it’s normal or not

[@chikaobienu]

@@getachew. girl if I want to have 6 kids I will and you will only rant on the internet … everyone won’t follow census keep you out of ordinary to yourself T for tanks Dear sending you love

[@greenthumbsup2136]

I thought I was only going to have 2! Then 2 grew into 4, 7 years later surprised with baby number 5. Now I have to even the numbers and want another girl. A big family is amazing... there's never room for loneliness. As long as you set a good example for your children and teach them in a way a queen/king would and should, raising children is the best accomplishment a mother or father can achieve. Some children even unplanned become a blessing into people's homes and lives. I can't believe I have an adult already... they grow so fast! I want to have kids until God doesn't allow it.

[@portiamokoena1062]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@malvinelpinnoy]

That's bold

[@island_girl_shan]

7:10 Agreed. My grandparents had 11 children with my mom being second to last born. It was pretty normal at that time. Edited for timestamp

[@ronijohnson6137]

I love you guys! Keeping it real!

[@오둥삼냥이네]

릴리가족보다가 들렸다 가네요😊가족들이 넘 행복해 보이네요 가족모두 행복하시고 건강하세요🎉

[@knowbetterdobettertv]

4:10 that was harsh. I felt that probably because I've been there, I was 31 a mother of 1 and congrats seemed to be a foreign language. Instead I found myself justifying my actions. It's hardwork motherhood but I'm in love with my girls. Glad there was healing for u all.

[@markita.hardenhome]

I know this video is old... but Alena....I felt this for you. I don't have a relationship with me MIL. She is very passive aggressive towards me. Kudos for how you handled that terrible reaction with patience and grace. Joe...Respect for holding up b your queen. Children are a gift from God. Her own struggle doesn't have to be YOUR story❤

[@tautropfen7807]

She deserves an award for her composure in dealing with the MIL‘s reaction. I know from experience that couldn’t have been easy and such experiences tests your limits. IYKYK

[@ushavijaysarathy1939]

More the kids more the responsibility...u need to fulfill every one's wishes starting from school till their marriage

[@troygobeo8966]

W

[@nincompoop1207]

And she's capable of doing it and will and also PREPARED TOO. Next caller

[@lindc1070]

@@nincompoop1207 like you can see the future?

[@freshelephant]

@@lindc1070 yes bby

[@lindc1070]

@@freshelephant you are delusional. Just look at the number of kids who act up in their teens and beyond especially those who dont grow up with biological parents , absentee bio father. Not a comment on this family, but the fact is no one can see the future.

[@achilles5596]

Some of yall act like his mother is not entitled to feel how she wants to feel. When you tell someone "news" they do not have to be overjoyed or feel the way you want them to feel just because "that's how they are supoosed to respond". I completely understand why it would be awkward after or even their feelings may be hurt but she is still allowed to not be happy about it if she doesn't feel that way. We have no clue exactly why she feels how she feels while so many in these comments are assuming and this family is only going to share what they want to share and that's ok as well but we as fans only see what they want us too. We don't know what goes on behind the scenes.

[@lindc1070]

Well said. She is Asian. Most Asian mothers, even western educated ones will react like her.

[@RichardJuukovsky]

Great stuff as always. Peace and love

[@lisa196409]

Every time I watch them and the greenway family and others all I could do is just smile

[@sushmajoseph5205]

What Joe’s mom said was right coz elder kid are taking care of ur young once 😂

[@Denise005]

...love how the kids are learning and practicing their Korean heritage/culture.

[@shirley9529]

So what if they are learning Korean, those children, Joe and Maze don't deserve to be mistreated and disrespected by that Korean grandmother. Joe looked so hurt, embarrassed and ashamed of his mothers reactions to hear about Maze's pregnancy. That is none of his mothers business. Joe needs to stand up to his mother and let her know that he will not tolerate her seemingly racist and horribly awful behavior to his family. And, he should demand an apology in the most respectful manner he can do. And whether his mom apologizes or not, he and Maze should think long and hard about exposing thier family to the grandmother for long time. Children need love and nurturing for a lifetime. A hug, a kiss, or any type of affection from that grandmother would have been cherished for a life time. It is highlt necessary in the guturw development of those sweet children. That is the heart and soul of an innocent child we're talking about. Sheesh. Damned a culture that has no respect for the love, heart and soul of a child. .

[@tiffanytiffany4564]

@@shirley9529 oh my calm down. Its not that serious, and they understand. What was racist about that? Or are you hoping for it to be about her race?

[@shirley9529]

@@tiffanytiffany4564What rock do you live under? I have nothing to say to a person who cannot write a complete sentence and use correct punctuatiom. Due to your lack of education and lower class stature in the world, it wouldn't be fair to exasperate you by expecting you to read this entire comment. You are dismissed! Good Riddance!

[@tiffanytiffany4564]

@@shirley9529 😂😂😂 anything to avoid answering the question huh? I see you 🤷🏿‍♀️🤭

[@tawandahunter5885]

@@shirley9529 smh...unnecessary and hurtful comments. People who insult and belittle others to make themselves feel better have some issues of their own. It's Alena & Joe's decision on how to communicate with his mom, not yours. We can always tell others what decisions they should make, when we need to mind our own business.

[@ohkeydokeythen]

Its very hard to mash two cultures together, but the outcome is so wonderful. Its a very new idea for the older generations especally Koreans so it can be hard to understand. Im glad you both understood Joes mum and did get too hurt by her words.

[@fireflyhaze4938]

My father was 55 when I was born and he was the youngest of 7. My grandparents were born in the 1800s. Of course, at that time birth control wasn't a thing and infant mortality was high. A few miscarriages and a few babies who died young was common... I really like the structure of a large family because older siblings also take on responsibility for the little ones, and it's such an energetic but also supportive environment. Small families can be isolating. In bigger families, there is always company and someone to talk to. I used to think how awesome it would be to have a big family like yours, but now I feel that the growing threats of overpopulation are on the horizon and I don't want to contribute to it, or see my children in the future suffer from wars over basic necessities. However, I think you have a beautiful family. 😍 The mixing of cultures reminds me of my own upbringing!

[@killjoy9797]

I liked your comment. My parents were older parents as well. My Mom was 45 and my Dad was 50 when I was born. All 4 of my grandparents were born in the 1890's. I don't believe large families in Western countries are necessary. In fact, they are probably more harmful than helpful. I completely agree or least understand what you mean about isolation but sometimes a person has to move away from family in the end anyway. I really like this family but I really struggled with their decision to have more and more children a few years ago when they were really struggling financially. It's OK to disagree with people you like sometimes

[@tiaratyson9261]

I agree however live your life love has as MANY kids as you want to love and take care of they are blessings

[@islandgirl3330]

They keep talking about overpopulation, but really how many countries are. If certain countries will open their doors to those countries, I doubt any country would be overpopulated. As fast as people are born, people die. I live in Canada and we don't have people to fill half of the jobs that are available. Hats off to those who are blessed with children. There are lot of people who just can't have any.

[@kelseasuche2451]

@@islandgirl3330 you make alot of sense

[@islandgirl3330]

@@kelseasuche2451 Politics, religion beliefs and racism have our world the way it is. We could have been a big happy family.

[@diva8455]

arazo is such a beautiful soul

[@martineterrell1798]

I love, love, love the Mazelee family so very precious.

[@msanadeen5083]

One day grandma going to happy about her family members .its lovely feeling been with big family.god blese youre family❤️❤️

[@joychisanga2207]

I don't think they are in contact

[@shirley9529]

I am so disappointed that I never saw the grandmother smile or hug those children. One hug, a kiss, a mere smile could last a lifetime in the minds of those little children. They are totally innocent of anything negative that the grandmother thinks about who her son married. If she loves her son, she should not be racist and cold to her grandchildren. Joe needs to step up and respectfully let his mother know that her behavior is hurtful, cruel and wrong, and that he will not tolerate that around his wife and children. He looks so hurt and dejected. That grandma needs to be talked to and dealt with. She is hurting her son, his wife and family! Perhaps she is ashamed of the fact her son has married a dark skinned black woman, I don't know if the Korean culture frowns down on interracial marriages, but, his Joe's wife is wonderful, fun and has a great personality. And, that

[@joey888]

Elderly asains don't hug. Respect is shown by bowing, 'insa'.

[@shirley9529]

@@joey888 Well! I get it! Perhaps thats why most asian children grow up without a clue of how to connect to other people in a caring manner. What a waste of life and a heart for emotionally caring and responding to other human beings. Sad, if all this grandmother can respond to is bowing. I would never bow to her or her culture. Who the hell does she think she is? She is hurting Joe, who loves his wife and his children. It is easy to see the hurt in his eyes. His mother should have been shown the door, immediately, in the presence of Joe's wife and grandchildren, after she was told that her disrespect to his family will not be tolerated. And, would ask her to not call or come by unless she apologizes to Joe's wife and his children. And, she should promise not to do that ever again. And then, Joe and his wife should give themselves time to talk about her apology. Like wait a few months. As she can apologize over the phone. Even if it takes a lifetime for her to apologize, if ever, I woukd never expose my wife and children to that kind of racist and humiliation. Never and No Way.

[@shirley9529]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 You are evidently not qualified to advise anyone on what to read, especially, about other cultures. The love, nurturing and caring of a grandmother for her grandchildren transcends and translates in all human cultures. Love is a natural humanistic quality you have, evidently, never experienced. No amount of reading about how other cultures work, could ever erase the damage, hurt, and pain of an innocent child, who is not properly nurtured, loved and cared for. It's not right, especially when it comes to the heart of an innocent child, who needs to know and feel they are loved. Damned Any Culture that permits that kind of behavior from, of all people, a grandmother. Even after an apology, I'd think long and hard before I ever consider her again. my children, husband and wife to that grandmother again. Mistreating and Ostracizing children is the highest form of neglect and cruelty. The damage can last a lifetime. So unnecessary and unfair!

[@shirley9529]

Joe Lee has absolutely no reason to apologize to his mother. But, he needs to respectfully stand up to his mother about her racist display and disrespect she showed to his family. And, let his mom know that he and Maze will not tolerate it. And, he and Maze should think long and hard about allowing his mom to visit for at least 6 months, even if his mother apologizes for her actions. No, Joe has nothing to apoloze for.

[@shirley9529]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 Luckily for me and my constituents, we are able to pinpoint who you are and where you are. We are determined to meet you face to face. Your comment about Africa is Interesting. And Provacative! We are loving our new satellite technology, coupled with the assistance of U-Tube. The anonimty you enjoy by hiding behind the initials CGU will come to an end! It seems that what ever hatched you, should have left you in the toilet. But, you don't have to be lonely and bitter. Rejoin your mother, and your other family members. 💩💩💩💩💩💩💩

[@paulettesmith7787]

"Awwwwwwwwwwww....you forgot presents", gotta love him. These kids are so adorable.

[@MSKSITO]

What a beautiful family!!!❤❤❤ please don’t be so hard with grandma… she is just worried about too many children too much responsibility🥰

[@msfelika]

I’m proud of the two of you for how you are raising your family I know it is hard for out parents bc of the times the were raised in and the hopes and dreams for us but at the end of the day God blessed of with our own strengths send blessings always remember that.

[@pamelasaunders2755]

God bless you and family 😇 You are truly been fruitful and multiplying 😊 A beautiful and loving family. May God continue to bless your union and family.😇🙏❤️💕❤️

[@TashaSewingTutorials]

My grandparents on my mother's side had 22 boys. No joke. She died in childbirth, with the last one.

[@20PINKluvr]

I think the parents reaction is valid. Kids are expensive. And Holy hell 7 kids?? Too many

[@stephanieking8233]

It's as many as they desire to have. They are well able to take care of them.

[@vidoan7568]

I could totally understand why his mom has that reaction. Many of my friends got 1 child and struggle with having another one due to financial burden. And they already got 7

[@lizzylou3142]

I know this was quite a while ago but, I have to say I love Joe - "I wanted to understand where that reaction was coming from." That could have gone horribly wrong. It's great that you guys took the time to process the beliefs of the older generation, and recognized the judgment based on those beliefs. I have one child and so wish that I had had more children.

[@pastryshack551]

I do t blame his mother 7 children in today's struggle , she could see how her son will have to struggle to raise these children

[@user-qg5jw1kb3r]

I wonder if Joe is supporting ALL the kids, or are Alena's ex-husbands taking care of their own kids' expenses

[@pastryshack551]

@@user-qg5jw1kb3r I though all the children were his. You mean she has many ex,es poor guy

[@user-qg5jw1kb3r]

@@pastryshack551 Her oldest daughter is from her first husband, the next 3 girls are from her second husband, and the remaining kids are Joe's.

[@lindc1070]

4 arent even his, from her point of view.

[@lindc1070]

@@pastryshack551 yes , 2 or 3 exes?

[@윤폴라리스]

아이들이 너무너무너무 사랑스럽습니닷~♡ 늘 저에게 활력을 줘여~ 예쁘게 잘 키우시고 계시네요... 마지막 나비야 노래 아이쿠!!! 너무너무너무 긔엽고 이뻐요 이뻐~~~♡♡♡

[@pamelahewitt3397]

Beautiful Family 💝

[@elanawilliams6148]

Yeah His mom's reaction was truly piss poor.

[@veronicahaney6005]

I mean she's entitled to her own reaction and opinion. She doesn't have to be happy. But of course I understand it's hard for the grandma because it challenges her worldview.

[@20PINKluvr]

I'd be the same. If my kids (which will never happen) were having a 7th kid I'd say that I give up all babysitting duties cause theyre on their own

[@lindc1070]

Dont blame her at all

[@Loveamericasave]

We are so accepting of other cultures into our culture but the other cultures do not accept us as clear his mother is not happy that he's with a black woman and having all those biracial children

[@lasagneforever]

You can not blame her.

[@Loveamericasave]

@@-goldenrootsbronzebeigebro5074 we're not talking about light skin in dark skinned black people from the same culture we talkin about this Korean woman whose culture does not want a black woman in it another one of their videos he admitted that his mother was upset that he was married to a black woman stop making excuses for these prejudices people

[@Loveamericasave]

@@lasagneforever I can blame her she needs to get off her high horse,her shit stinks just like everybody else's,im sick of all these other races of people thinking that they're better than black people ,he's got a strong intelligent educated women thats all she should be looking at not the color of her skin

[@_ashmason007]

@@Loveamericasave Everyone is not that welcoming. Do you expect everyone to be extremely well prepared? This is extremely common in Asia. The country I live in, forget about race or color of skin, it is considered wrong if you marry someone from another state or even caste. Things are very different in third world countries. And maybe it isn't because of the fact that the wife is of a different race, but maybe because having 7 kids these days is uncommon and difficult for her to process. Log out, and get a life. Easy to judge, difficult to accept and understand.

[@Orchid_1026]

I have always sensed that his family doesn't like the fact that he is with a black woman. It is complicated. I don't have the patience to stand my husband's family not liking me because of my race. It would just piss me off. But honestly, many Asian communities are notoriously anti-black. When I date interracially, I ask what are their family's ideas on race pretty early on because I have no time to waste.

[@justycewittawhy5082]

Cultural differences or not. Come on Grandma :(

[@eleni5556]

Blessed family, for more men like him. I suffered a lot of prejudice from my boyfriend's family. Because I have a small physical defect. I love this family 💇♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🇧🇷

[@koreagrandma0423]

행복한밤되세요 사랑합니다 응원합니다

[@LadyMul]

Understandable reaction from where grandma’s coming from, I would have thought there goes my retirement, cruises and all 🤣 in her day you went out to work all day just to make rent and food non of this tech privilege labour saving devices we have now. These two can work on a computer at home with babies in hand and they have mastered parenting, careers and good income. They’re exceptional parents ❤️

[@saalooaa]

in the middle east it's so normal to have 7 kids and more I have 13 siblings 😅

[@vivianidelacerda9708]

He loves his family. That's what is important...

[@latonjiarenteria3772]

The kids are beautiful

[@aidadelacalzada9785]

having more than 4 kids is not that burden if the parents are responsible and fully know their obligations, parents who has more than 5 kids are lucky than to people who wanted to ba a parents but they can't make it. as this alena and joe, i think they are very responsible parents, they give their children harmonious and happy lives, they sent them to school

[@20PINKluvr]

Are you talking about fit parents? The unfit ones are the ones who shouldn't have that many

[@marytaha2448]

Yeah but they used to have more children than that they can have like 11or15 children I remember remember back in the 90s I knew a person and they're on headlight 15 19 children and they were all very healthy they went to college no no it's a blessing that you can have children it's a blessing from God some people have one some people got bless they want to have 10:20 15 whatever now that's a blessing and you you both are such excellent parents such good good parents God knows what he's doing and you have good excellent your parents and the blessing is you have good health and six children is not a lot of children compared to watch the other people had

[@常中興]

Your guys are very nice god have bless you with them all

[@blume1232]

The children are all so beautifull :)

[@nikki0076]

As a immigrant myself I somehow feel the pain of the mom through the screen I understand

[@nincompoop1207]

Nooo.. You dont

[@lyricdoll876]

Be an immigrants have nothing to do with this because the mother is not taking care of the kids why does she care he’s a grown man having babies with his WIFE if they’re financially stable it’s nobody business congratulations on their eight child

[@nikki0076]

@@nincompoop1207 excuse me???

[@nikki0076]

@@nincompoop1207 ofc.. I didn’t mean the baby part that was wrong something else I can’t quite explain

[@freshelephant]

@@nikki0076 oh okay honey

[@TheRealLaurel]

Oh my gosh, after binging on this show of yours for the last week, to see little Arizo singing the Korean lullaby at the end just takes the cake in precious moments. I’ve seen from your family. I want to be adopted or do an internship in how to do such beautiful scenes with your eye for videography.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@trishaprett7721]

Totally understand.Nana worries about financial stress,of having so many children.She brought up a very responsible son,who chose a wonderful wife.Respect for Nana too.

[@latonjiarenteria3772]

I wouldn't care what the mom say anyway its yah life an family she will get over it.y yah can have many kids as yah want its yah life not hers .yah keep doing what makes yah happy .love yah.ill keep watching yah

[@Yewp-h3q]

They're such a happy family, but his Mother should have been told in a more respectful manner, also why doesn't the Wife understand the Korean language?

[@elizabetesilva3065]

Vcs são uma família maravilhosa 💗😍

[@pumpkinspice777]

GOT TO LOVE,LOVE,LOVE THIS WONDERFUL GOD LOVING FAMILY!!!💜🎶💜🎶💜🎶🥳🎶💜

[@numberkayjonathan6985]

Now that you have baby #8! What will she say! Lol

[@lizafulcher7917]

I think the wife knows his mom doesn't care for her or her other kids

[@anonymouspink4726]

I got so much sadness out of this idk why

[@ezz1ebee]

i love all their baby faces😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@lalitatasnaruangrong5248]

ฉันเข้าใจคุณย่านะ สำหรับคนเอเซีย การมีลูกหลายคนจะมาพร้อมกับความรับผิดชอบ ค่าใช้จ่ายที่สูงขึ้น มันแล้วแต่ละครอบครัว คนที่มีฐานะดีก็สามารถมีลูกหลายคนได้โดยไม่ลำบาก คนสมัยก่อนมีลูกเยอะเพราะพวกเขาไม่มีวิธีป้องกัน อย่างไรก็ตาม ฉันชื่นชอบครอบครัวของคุณ

[@tonieltaylor7755]

God blessed you with a forgiveness that one could only dream off 😩 I'm not there yet. God ain't threw w me yet 😖

[@denisedean2446]

Its sweet that his mom apologized to Alena. I think Joe's mom had a difficult upbringing in Korea.

[@carm536]

Joe mom is just worried about his son maybe,thinking how her son will provide for all the children but she never thought if God gave you another one mean he will there for them. she is mom to his son and we can understand her reaction❤

[@kevinkia1145]

Love this family

[@leinell4730]

I saw a vlog lately and they said having 2 baby is the standard in korea

[@ajrkantu2335]

The first 17s is just wow! 🤨 Ok... This gonna be interesting...

[@gloriarivera9004]

Cool couple 😊

[@gloriarivera9004]

You very wonderful men best father😊

[@aidadelacalzada9785]

when children are young seems they are many but when they grown up ang started to work specially working afar from parent's place sometimes there only two people staying home , its the parents. the next time the house will be noisy ,messy, and joyful when the parents become grandparents.

[@พนิดาประดับวงษ์]

น่ารักค่ะ

[@merlithangavetene4932]

But where are her families? Why is the concentration on his side of mother country and family?

[@josephmachine2710]

Make God bless you ❤️

[@naturegirlbb100]

How I wish I started having babies early, but it is not too late.

[@MsArtelia]

Be happy

[@lady.sunshine6227]

I agree with the mother 1000%

[@20PINKluvr]

Me too. Id be pissed for sure