ME & MY BABYMOMMA SENIA MARIE FINALLY SAT DOWN TO DISCUSS THE DOWNFALL OF OUR RELATIONSHIP!!!

[@_treytraylor]

Y’all slow and only listening to one side. If u know me u know I’m genuine and I’m not materialistic at all. I stated that’s how I show I care about someone cause I didn’t grow up getting affection my mom showed she cared thru taking care of us. So I show my love Thru “ACTS OF SERVICE” meaning buying gifts, making sure they’re straight, getting them whatever they want etc. ITS A DIFFERENCE! And also I lacked in affection because of my career and being busy. I still gave it just not as much as she felt she needed Which I admitted just like she admitted to having insecurities and accusing me of cheating even though I let her go thru my phone everytime to prove it and everything. That was also a big fall of our relationship as well Not just me not being affectionate. Y’all ALWAYS want it to be the man fault and in this situation IT WASNT! And how am I not listening and I’m literally sayin yeah I feel u and I take fault in that? If y’all don’t go text and take that shit out on y’all own niggas and not me cause this situation is not the same as what y’all goin thru I promise u. I’m a REAL MAN I was takin care of home being a provider in the best way I knew how and how I was raised. And I let her chill and I took care of EVERYTHING! She ain’t have to lift a finger if she ain’t want to. I even showed her how to hustle and get money on her own. I lacked in other areas I’m not perfect but don’t run with that narrative that I’m a narcissist, self absorbed,and dont listen when she clearly said I knew how to listen and I’m a great listener and knew how to put up with her and understand her. fr that’s lame listen to both sides cause y’all ain’t speaking on nothin she admitted only what I admitted to. DONT BE ONE SIDED! We both admitted our wrongs y’all just hearing what y’all want and comparing it to what y’all goin thru.

[@Sarcastic672]

Trey I again apologize as I did in my comment back to you.. I have a son your age and just had this convo with him about the affectionate part. So, I do apologize if I made you feel I only heard her side .. I will admit I was a little biased ..standing along sode the women ..bc I am one. But, no one is saying you both aren't wrong..we just see where you were wrong a feel a little more than her. And maybe I was too opinionated in my comments too so I apologize for that as well. I'm still going to be a huge internet auntie amd support you no matter whatvbc I love what you guys are doing and being positive when so many try to box in our community with statistics.. Again I apologize for making you feel that way. But I do stand on my opinions of hearing BOTH sides! Now auntie will say this to you.... Drop some more music ASAP! 😂

[@MamiRitta89]

The fact that you still have to come to the comments and explain yourself is beyond me!! Those who get it, GET IT Trey!

[@_treytraylor]

@@MamiRitta89man thank you fr ❤️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

[@TheyWannaBMe]

Trey. F*% these people. This was YALL relationship. You know the type of partner you were & Senia knows the type of partner she was. No relationship will ever be perfect. We all human. Sometimes we mess up. We will not always understand where each other is coming from. Don’t let these people throw that narcissist word on you just cause they hear it all the time & now think they’re psychologists.

[@DHunter8468]

Trey it’s not wrong what you are doing/feeling at all. All men are build this way. We just stating how us as a women looks at it. Both your feeling are valid. I understand both perspective. I hope this makes sense. We all going through the same it’s life. Some just more experience than others.🙏🏾🫶🏾

[@Xxgoattalk]

He was raised on survival she was raised on love it will take a lot for them to understand each other

[@deemingo678]

Yesssss!!! THIS!

[@DKDAY26ALLDAY01]

This is it 💯 ❤ but it's sad that all that Love Senia was exposed too has her out here being defensive that she isn't mentally understanding of his survival. She is very defensive and lacks understanding.

[@helennicole4995]

@@DKDAY26ALLDAY01 girl what shut up 😂

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

This!!!

[@DKDAY26ALLDAY01]

OH you triggered? Are you similar to Senia, you cheated too?@@helennicole4995 Sorry this happened to you....'a hit dog will HOLLA!"

[@redefininggrowth7192]

"No woman has ever had me in the way that you had me." That's a TOP tier compliment! I get it, Senia!

[@kianidavis2042]

Top tier!

[@gabrielleallen5378]

LISTEN!!!! When he said that we would have had to turn the cameras off for a min 😏

[@redefininggrowth7192]

@@gabrielleallen5378 You feel me????? Like, there's no way that they're "better off friends"? That ain't right.

[@soos6159]

Time stamp?

[@redefininggrowth7192]

@@soos6159 I'd tell you if I remembered; but, I don't. I'm sorry!

[@PrettyQuaay]

She loved him for him. She didn’t care about the things he could buy. Men don’t understand affection is almost everything that a woman needs that’s also priceless

[@thatgirlnesha3576]

This Part!!! Say this Shit Again 👏👏

[@earthajacksone9674]

trey still growing

[@theroseombrella]

No, he loved her for her. Men might not understand affection but they are open to learning. That's not what is the most important thing a woman needs. Both men and women need balance in all areas of giving and receiving. Where was the affection she gave him? Where was the home she made in the house he paid for?

[@PrettyQuaay]

@@theroseombrella He said out his own mouth she shows love differently from him. Meaning she was the one showing the affection. Which also mean he wasn’t. Which also came out of his mouth. You can give someone a gift that doesn’t mean you love that person and it also doesn’t mean you don’t love that person. It just says he shows it in a different way. All the other things you brought up don’t matter

[@PrettyQuaay]

@@earthajacksone9674 yes he is still growing but you can tell he wasn’t showing up where she needed him at. (Affectionate)

[@lovelytc7678]

This is what she was trying to saying‼️‼️ “How someone makes me feel emotionally and mentally is way more important than what they can do for me materialistically and physically.”

[@theroseombrella]

Both are important. Being in love living in a shack ain't that great.

[@prettygyalcandy]

I agree like if you not checking on me emotionally and mentally and know me fr. You can get me 10,000 things and I won’t be happy and there. Emotions are what a woman is all about

[@Spreadlove16]

Her love language is quality time and yours is gifts. Well you like to show love through gifts and probably acts of service and she prefers to receive love with quality time and likely words of affirmation. So the moral of the story is we have to learn how our partners like to receive love and try to compromise a little in order to be on the same page and vice versa. This will help to improve communication within the relationship and make for a stronger union.

[@Spreadlove16]

You are not a narcissist Trey! You are a good guy and this was a great video! Your heart is big and pure. There was a lot of accountability in this video. Drown out the hate, there are so many positive comments. Trust me, I’m licensed to determine a narcissist unlike these internet people diagnosing folks. For all the internet clinicians, a narcissist very seldom takes accountability, if ever!

[@Spreadlove16]

I also left off Postpartum as a factor too! People don’t talk about it enough about the effects of postpartum on relationships. It affects women and men. Sleep deprivation, changes in the body, dividing time with the new baby, and the emotional aspect.

[@patriciataylor4878]

@@Spreadlove16 well said. Social media makes people just use words that they don’t understand. Clearly they both need work to be better versions of themselves.

[@DDCT11]

I SEEN THIS!! My ex was Tre and I was Senna.... this and the back and forth and back n forth and kids in between in what start to make this healthy dynamic later become very different and toxic to a mire broken family marriage and mental health damages!!! ❤❤❤❤PLEASE LET THIS SEPERATE HEALTHY HEALING GROW AND STAY HEALTHY SEPARATE!! ❤❤❤ IF PEOPLE KNOW WE KNOW.....notice the longer this video and more they talked the stressful they became...HEALTHY SEPERATIONS IS HEALTHY AND IT TAKE STRENGTH TO RECOGNIZE IT TO KEEP MOVING. HEALTHY COPARENTING TO THEM❤❤❤❤❤

[@Loveiseverlasting08]

I’m glad Senia admitted she thought he was cheating all the time due to her own insecurities. People really used be down his throat. It’s hard for a man to feel appreciated when they are constantly being accused of stuff they aren’t doing. I’m so happy they are able to actually sit down and talk this through 🙏🏾.

[@taaliyahpatton121]

Yesssssss, this video was so amazing for them to come together! I hate the comments are filled with so much negativity bc they really didn’t have to do this and ppl won’t take the good from it. Why beat up on two people who literally sat down and admitted their own faults?! It’s so pointless 🙄

[@AdoseofMo]

She understood what you needed and you didn’t understand what she needed. You were there, but you weren’t present. But the fact that you both could sit down and have this conversation and see both sides, shows that there’s love and respect is still there. Beautiful way to co-parenting. Praying you both continue to prosper. It’s so good seeing Senia again.

[@Xxgoattalk]

Trey never let a women get used to being away from you, bc once she’s done she’s done and it’s hard for a women to turn that back on.

[@laurynkristyne]

This is actually really true

[@ashlyritter2808]

Right it won't turn back on when we done we done

[@ChynaBoo55]

Oooooowweeeeeeee this the one ! She a grown ass woman compared to him not that young woman anymore

[@sulemandukuray2165]

💯💯💯💯

[@Chelleann2103]

Very true

[@alvidaaa491]

I think the main issue was they had no privacy. A couple needed their own apartment and space.

[@ScorpionQueen33]

Yes. Same thing with armon and Essy I think that’s what got to her as well… the no privacy thing

[@itzmoon95]

this ! its always good to have ur own place with ur partner . its not the same when live with everybody .

[@Honeycup90]

That's true. She kept bringing that up. That played a part in there break up too!

[@tlouii6951]

facts!

[@kemo8596]

Yep, stability and privacy goes along way when you’re in a relationship. People that’s used to being around a lot of people don’t understand that. A lot of young KZbin couples don’t understand that.

[@domineik5122]

This man is 100% in love with this girl but leaving her alone after giving birth is what did it.. Nothing can take away that trauma. Dang. They were a beautiful couple

[@kbenson5201]

I agree with this statement. He let go {broke up} at a very critical time. She had just had the baby and was asking him to talk to her. He allowed her to detach from him emotionally when she needed him and attention the most.

[@karinamobley9856]

Yess you can’t there’s always gonna be that remembrance cuz that’s a vulnerable time so

[@nikishamitchell9155]

​@@kbenson5201What man ever knew the importance of what she was asking him for at 19. What 17 year old would know about wanting to cuddle when she should have been focused more on her studies. He came as real as a man could come and I'm glad they both understand now what it takes to have a successful relationship. What man at 19 knows business comes before pleasure 40ty year old men still don't get that. I bet you she met men now that wanted to cuddle and couldn't afford to buy her a meal. She say her next man don't has to be as rich but I bet you she don't want him under her broke cuddling. Dating a woman is important but at 19 who knew how important it was.

[@ashleykeys9238]

You hit it on the head. That time with a newborn being alone during a breakup. I couldn’t imagine that pain. Whew.

[@Loveiseverlasting08]

@@nikishamitchell9155 so true!!! 🎯

[@jessicawilliams8687]

Senia I understand EVERYTHING you’re saying!! Men think that money replaces romance and thats NOT the case! Money is just money, there is more of where that comes from. But a man giving you his time and attention is PRICELESS! I’m dealing with it in my relationship right now and thinking about just ending it

[@ganderson7790]

But what y’all fail to realize and the thing about it is she was there from the beginning..he was trying to build a career, a lasting future. she’s was so busy worrying about attention instead of seeing that he was trying to build the future. she is still an angry person..so it’s a good thing he did get out of it…And to top it off, she did not have to get pregnant. She got pregnant because she wanted to after Essy got pregnant. She saw how their mom acted about Ar’mon making it difficult for them to secure their future and That delay is shown today. If she really cared about him, she would not have gotten pregnant until they was more secure in the future.

[@karinamobley9856]

Same here just bout to end it we shouldn’t beg for that the right person will give it automatically

[@jessicawilliams8687]

@@karinamobley9856 exactly! Especially when a person isn’t even trying to compromise with you so that the both of you can be happy. It hurts but it is what it is

[@Aziza-f4e]

​@@ganderson7790 if only you knew what a blessing children are those words should never be spoken, Theres people that have unprotected sex and never get pregnant, man like to plan, God already has a path for us!!! What u see a delay is a blessing to their life and the world..... if u dont want kids dont have sex full stop.....

[@lelebrown0531]

Yes, for real this generation think money is everything

[@Christylove1778]

Trey seems like a good dude. When he was talking about the things he wanted for his daughter, you can tell he got real passionate about it. He wants her to have everything he didn’t. He is a great father. He just needs to learn how to listen more, and let the other person talk, and make time for the relationship which is pretty easy things to fix. Senia is a sweetheart. This was a good video. It’s good seeing them talk it through.

[@fredtrinasherrod5946]

😊p

[@juskhloe]

I appreciate watching this and completely understand it. When you are young, you really are just reenacting the relationships you saw as a child. Most aren't healthy because they are formed from trauma. I can definitely understand her pain and his. In the end, he got quiet because he realized that he really hurt her but also that they really aren't healthy together. Both aren't wrong or right it is the space of moving on and learning lessons.

[@kbenson5201]

This is why a man has to pay attention to his woman. She was starving for affection, attention, intimate time alone, being lovingly touched on the regular, quality one on one time and intimate talks. She was there but lonely. Wow Trey I hope you learned from this. You both where so young.

[@lakaishamallory6529]

Listen!!!!! Listen!!!!! Listen

[@earthajacksone9674]

while always accusing him of cheating and being unfatihful when he was not

[@IfitsUpThenitsSTUCK]

🎯That’s why we leave or “cheat” as they call it

[@IfitsUpThenitsSTUCK]

@pretty.moraaaa Ain’t watch the whole thing and wasn’t tuned in when they broke up to know if she cheated . i would have too honestly but i heard nothing about her cheating 🤔

[@gwenrucker3815]

@pretty.moraaaa I’m not gonna backtrack when I said it still stands.How about you read to comprehend not respond! I said “Felt” a Young age and having insecurities” but I’ve never accused my boyfriend at the time of cheating ever! I’ve never felt that insecure about my man cheating now you sound stupid! As a grown sass woman I don’t have insecurities at all! So relax because you’re responding to something from a month ago apparently trying to find someone to argue with and I’m not the one ion argue in comments with trolls! I said what I said Have a great day and find something else to do with yourself and your time! Bye Chile!! 🥴😂

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

Honestly this every relationship, the difference is doing the work. Compromising, trusting, communicating and loving

[@Loveiseverlasting08]

Exactly! I don’t know why people act like this is not normal. It’s not a hard fix either.

[@DHunter8468]

This!!

[@ashantipearson4546]

Basically lol. I also feel like there are certain things a man will never understand because he’s not a woman, and vice versa. That’s just life.

[@venus3042]

Factsss

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

@@ashantipearson4546 This is true! That’s why It takes learning each other and being willing to do the work. I think being opposites is what makes the relationship beautiful if you let it build you and not break you. Ive been where they both are. I don’t know a relationship that hasn’t but i wish them both the best. I just want Senia to understand a career doesn’t change that in a person. Just because a man works a 9-5 doesn’t mean he’ll be any different and I can talk about it because i went through the same thing and we’re both 9-5’s. It just took us doing the work and finally listening to each other.

[@stpstp7963]

How a man treat you while u pregnant or once you have ur child hit diff for real. Especially at vulnerable times.

[@mochampagnelives1793]

Very true and the feelings you felt never ever go away

[@gwenrucker3815]

That postpartum ain’t no joke and if you’re unavailable emotionally to her it’s a done deal because she’s had to deal with that Difficult time on her own and she’s checked out completely once she gets through it! That’s a mofo Frfr and feeling alone in it …yeah it’s over. But I love the growth shown maturity and transparency here in this sit down so many people can learn from this. I really enjoyed it and I’m happy they’re able to coparent amicably because Treu is the main priority now. Some older people sadly will never get here and I applaud them both and respect them more because I never heard Senia’s take on it. These are beautiful mature adults who have a beautiful daughter to raise and she’s #1 and will feel loved unconditionally in a healthy way‼️ 🫶🏾👏🏾❤️😍

[@cutesycaramel]

a person’s childhood & the way they grew up plays a huge role in how they are in relationships. it seems like reginae had the same issue with armon about working all the time & not communicating effectively while doing so. sometimes when a person never had nothing & they finally get to a point where they’re successful they don’t ever wanna go back to being broke or struggling. so their work ethic be 10x harder. yall can call these boys narcissistic all yall want. i understand them wholeheartedly. it’s all about dating a woman that will understand even if she cannot relate.

[@ms.sophisticated1679]

Being that they are so young and being a man; they have to hustle. They seemed to be men who are providers. Some women will never understand this. Sometimes sacrifices must be made so that in the future you can reap all the benefits. It’s going to take a strong woman to be with these type of man. Not every woman is built for these type of lifestyle.

[@kandyluv522]

Armon was dating a girl who’s dad is literally Lil Wayne.. I don’t think there was a chance in hell that she’d ever understand his work ethic. And that’s no diss. She was blessed with a parent who has her set for life. Its a different feeling when you know what its like to have to stand in line for food, or what its like to be starving, or having to live with other people just to have a home. Armon & Trey have been there.

[@Loveiseverlasting08]

With Ar’mon & Reginae, it wasn’t even about him working all the time & not giving affection. We saw that man give 110% affection. It’s the minute he wasn’t able to be under her while working is when she started feeling uneasy. Literally. It’s not cool. If I was her I would’ve just went with him or just chilled because I know my man has to work in order to provide.

[@RaeH04]

@@kandyluv522 I agree and disagree..When y’all see Nae all y’all see is her being Lil Wayne’s daughter so y’all see everything coming easy for her. No, she didn’t have the same struggles as Ar’Mon and Trey but guess who did “Her Parents” so she understands where he’s coming from. As an adult she is trying to build a name outside of just being Lil Wayne’s daughter so she has to bust her azz just as hard. She never had a problem with Ar’Mon working from my understanding she said when he gets locked in he forgot to check in sometimes and that became an issue

[@BrittanyRover]

@@Loveiseverlasting08But was he really working?? Whatever he went to work on in LA that caused him to forget he had a whole woman is still not accomplished almost half a year later… hummmmmm was he really working?? 🤔🤔🤔 y’all love to make her the issue when y’all really have no damn clue.

[@Carenchamcox]

Aww Senia is a beautiful soul. She is right its not all about money.Women need love and attention. That spend time, love, affection and bonding its the best love language ever. I always tell my husband that when we spend time togather it is my favorite time with him.🎉 Chatting and laughing goofying around is priceless

[@Higherfrequency1111]

You can tell they've both grown . Senia looks good and she even sounds different like she's more herself u can hear a slight accent. they were just young and didn't have the maturity or communication skills. Also I think trey lowkey wants his family together..they seem like they have a healthy co-parenting relationship , I love that for them.

[@Chanelll2894]

She's from the Virgin Islands

[@ms.sophisticated1679]

That was a great conversation by the way; I think some people are missing the point of this discussion. The whole thing is they were young and they did not have the foundation to make the relationship work. They moved in together way too fast. As a young woman being 17 years old, Senia did not have the tool to be emotionally intelligent. And Trey was showing his love to her by taking care of the household and gifting her; basically thinking she would be appreciative of doing what a grown man is supposed to do. I think what Senia really wanted the most is to spend some quality time with him. By Trey showing her his phone he thought that would make her feel secure. Anyways I think they were both too young to understand what they needed from one another. With that being said I think it’s wise for young people to take their time to learn each other and setting boundaries before getting too deep in relationships. It would be even better to get married before having children . I don’t think anyone is to blame for the relationship not working out. They have grown up; hopefully in the future they are better prepared to handle tough situations and have the tools to navigate certain obstacles in a relationship.

[@patriciataylor4878]

Well said. People believe you have to take a side and bash one person. They both needed the separation to understand themselves and also each other.

[@everevolve247]

Agreed. No ones fault other than the context and the level of their development that didn’t allow it to work out in longevity. I don’t think it could’ve survived; they have individual growing to do that a relationship wouldn’t be sustainable.

[@caroloutler7641]

This was an awesome video.To be able to sit down and communicate. as they did shows how much they have grown.You can see that they genuinely wanted to listen and hear each other's point of view.They were young and had no understanding concerning what it takes to maintain a relationship.They are great parentsThe chemistry is still there.Who knows what the future holds for these two!!!Love you guys!!!❤️🙏❤️

[@shakaylaburns6569]

I feel her because going through postpartum everything is heightened and as a women I understand when she said after she pled and he didn’t care a women never forgets. When a woman is done there’s no turning back no matter how much you try.

[@SUMMERWINTER]

Going thru this now . 🥺 it’s so hurtful.

[@beautifulqueen3887]

Senia is showing her heart, she really love him for him she doesn't care about the money, and i believed he loved her a lot as well, I loved them together.💯

[@otishathomas5192]

I can see why Trey might’ve thought it was just another day cause they always got back together. I think the difference was that last time was they literally just had a baby. Then he still decided to leave. She was super vulnerable. To think he could leave at a moment like that I’m sure created some type of resentment. There was just no comin back from that. Glad they can co-parent!🙏🏾💕

[@JadeGemini]

Exactly. And leaving someone at a time like that, she had to learn and accept how to live without him. And she decided to keep it that way, yea they gave it a second try but lol with us geminis once our feelings for someone change it’s extremely hard to get it back.

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

I get what both of them are saying. Women are emotional beings and men are physical. I think the biggest issue was communication and actively listening and trust

[@nijarenei]

I don’t think it was communication because she said when she spoke he listened. So like they said I think it was their love language that was different. Which can be a downfall in a relationship.

[@laroyah.muhammad6402]

@@nijareneiShe was very young, she didn’t know what listening entailed. To actively listen you must engage the hearing aspect as well. He was listening, but not hearing her. So while he allowed her to speak or vent he did not hear a word that she was saying.

[@nijarenei]

@@laroyah.muhammad6402I agree totally, but still till this day she sat there and said he was a good listener. If she realized he wasn’t she wouldn’t have said that still today.

[@faithcj1847]

literally all it was. broke people go through this shit all the time I think when you famous it’s harder and we think nothing happen

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

@@faithcj1847 agreed

[@laquitaburris]

This was a conversation that was definitely needed. True definition of growth. I love me some Trey. ❤

[@alexisbarrett7455]

Trey has been through a lot! Mentally you can tell he's cane a long way. He was only doing the best he knew how. Love you Trey !

[@denisebascom3139]

The most positive comment I’ve seen thus far ❤❤❤😊

[@TNA_bloom]

I hope they both heal from the previous traumatic situations they've been through. They both recognize their wrongs. I hope they can continue to build a healthy relationship for their daughter and possibly try again to be together ❤️

[@skyceecee9495]

It's been years they healed

[@victorianixon6419]

Trey has the whole package he just dont know how to set back and show compassion in love just a little bit I feel like in loke a few years they probably would try their relationship agian❤❤❤

[@jasmine-y5t]

I agree Trey the catch

[@semariadiana6021]

No he barely took any accountability he spent most of his time trying to tell her how she felt and defend himself this was a cute video tho

[@stacymorgan7911]

She to much Trey is a good man

[@shawnaptalks]

I feel like people give up so easy these days in relationships and don’t fight for the relationship

[@gracefully_ebony_]

💯 it seems like something they could’ve got over maybe sometimes you need time apart . Great video tho ! Very mature!

[@kayyperkins]

Yes. Couple therapy is a option as well. It’s like have you tried everything before you can say yeah I’m done

[@BlackDymend]

This Convo was deep…. I give both of yall a lot of credit for letting us into yall past relationship issues bc yall don’t owe us no explanations on nothing bc at the end of the day yall will always have love and respect for each other….and shit ain’t no prefect relationship and yall was young shit big props to Yall for Real!!!!!

[@ohhey_chelsey]

Thank you all for sharing. You don’t owe us anything, but you still shared. We appreciate.

[@brownbeauty88]

I completely understand his side and her side. Yall communication towards one another is great!❤❤❤

[@Its_N.E.K.A]

This was a great sit down! I love how honest and open you both were with each other and how you both took accountability for your faults in the relationship. Wishing you both the best!❤

[@winnicajames4120]

Senia looks good

[@courtneyboudreau4284]

She's a bit thicker but thicker is always beautiful too. I gained a bit of weight just like her and it's sexy❤

[@briistheone]

@@courtneyboudreau4284Why mention her thickness………

[@Erickaxv1YT]

Af😭🥰

[@Melaninloccs]

Yesss

[@gwenrucker3815]

Yes she’s beautiful as always and got her sexy grown woman on

[@christieharris2550]

Trey, go get your woman back and make her your wife. I always thought yall were good together, and Senia, go get your man back now

[@karinamobley9856]

Not how it works unfortunately to much damage done

[@vcreacts802]

Hell nah they need to be good co parents and move on bc it’s better if they do so they relationship ended in a train wreck no need to try to put up pieces of a broken train bc it’s too many pieces to put back together

[@andreavfirst]

That resentment of being left alone after carrying a baby is going to be way to hard to look past

[@DiamondLeona]

I know how hard these conversations can get so big ups to the both of y’all to be able to be open and communicate about your relationship on KZbin at that 💙

[@shyaowens2404]

This is growth that y’all were able to sit down it’s just great when yall can listen to just hear the other person out and not listening to respond just taking in how each other felt

[@deer.1478]

I can understand both POVs. Trey was working to not only secure their future, but his family's too. Also, he didn't like constantly being falsely accused. Senia wanted romance and reassurance, but those bills don't pay themselves. Money didn't matter as much to her, but Trey refused to go back to not having enough of it. That's why it's important to build with someone with similar values. Glad they're friends now.

[@traceygrant3386]

She’s not saying he’s not supposed to work. But you always make time for partner it’s called compromise. If you can’t work and find time for your partner then you shouldn’t be in a relationship.

[@traceygrant3386]

Trey talks to much communication ain’t about just talking it’s about listening and understanding and comprehending. Men don’t understand women need you to listen and they need physical and emotional affection. There’s many people that work alot that find time for their partner. You always find time for what you want. If you can’t make time for a relationship then be single. That’s the problem with Armon he so into his work he doesn’t know how to be in a relationship Don’t waist people time.

[@waltdogg253]

If she wants a man there every day, then date a regular 9 to 5 guy that can provide that for you. Unfortunately she not gonna do that because she likes a certain type of guy. Yes he does need to work on how to balance things, but women demand so much but give so little. That man is providing and protecting his if she couldn't understand that, then so be it.

[@traceygrant3386]

⁠@@waltdogg253as a woman who have been married 28 years. Like I said you make time for the person you love. I’ve been a nurse for 32 years and my husband worked for transit and owned a barbershop. We both worked a lot of hours but we always found time to go on a date or two have some quality time together. Don’t say women don’t bring anything when there’s alot of women that brings more than some men. They were both young and trey didn’t know how balance his his relationship and career. Women are use to emotional and physical affection. A lot of men think that material things is love. But is not

[@alstonnichole3401]

@@traceygrant3386Tracey you hush bc you don’t like Armon so of course you will have that domino effect with Trey and try to make him out to be the bad guy and sole responsible person for the breakup

[@Kayx209]

I always loved Senia and Trey Together , so glad they were able to sit down and talk things out ❤ you can see they still have love for eachother ❤ it was probably right person wrong time 🥺 hopefully they live and they learn from the past to make thing better to be together again for them and their kid ❤🥺

[@LifeAsGia]

I love her way of thinking, it’s so rare to a find a genuine women who is independent and beautiful, not expecting to be tricked on by they rich partner. She deserves all the love and genuine happiness back. I loved this sit down talk- I hope more people normalize uncomfortable conversations with ex’s. 💯 ❤

[@Taylor-gi7rh]

All Relationships have struggles, the best way to maintain is having that open communication. Being able to listen to your partner and not downplaying their feelings. Hope they both grow, learn and be able to show up for themselves and their new partner.

[@Jljones1230]

You're real supporters know you're heart and no explanation is needed. We are from the same area and its how it is here. Keep being you and keep the integrity and strength instilled in you. Your blessings are far greater than your trials. Anyone that has you is blessed. ❤ much love ❤️ stay humble and keep god first 🎉

[@larissanicole5612]

I clicked on the video so fast!!!! How did i miss this notification??? Trey you have such a beautiful heart & soul!!! I love me some you!!!

[@ManiT22011]

Closure that was much needed! Thanks for the video Trey ‼️❤️

[@Lifewithladiwisdom]

Loved this ‼️💯Uncomfortable Conversations leads to healing and healthy relationships

[@kristentufts193]

The fact that yall are still young and growing. Giving each other grace and forgiveness! These conversations are needed and wanted Trey T. My husband works and told me to stay home with the kids n get the house together n whatever i wanna do ill do as in my own business or home job. We was 16 so I understand both sides. I use to be like ugh I need you here with me but as women we have to understand men roles n our roles. Yall are leaders period n soon as yall stop is a problem too. Is like dam i feel bad for men cause no matter what we will find a way to complain. Love yall 🙏n continue to make co parenting videos.

[@brittanyrucker1731]

This was a great video, yall both are learning and growing as individuals. I pray for nothing but healing energy for both of yall! ❤

[@joshlyncola201]

THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL CONVERSATION LOVE IT GOD BLESS THESE TWO BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😇😇😇😇😇😇😇💯❤️

[@nicolem5783]

Love that you both are now at a place where you can maturely sit down and talk it out. Life is a learning experience continue to grow no one is perfect.

[@I_Love_Sweets]

Senia is so pretty, and you can tell she has a genuine soul and just wanted to be loved the way she thinks someone should be loved

[@shamyeatz3170]

Awww I still love Senia , remind me so much of myself. We just love that old school love. ❤ materials are a plus. I use to watch yall all the time. So happy you guys could get on camera to try and work things out 🫶🏾.

[@AvakinJocelyn]

7:10 the most mature and realist thing an influencer could admit to, others claim how when they was little or either be undeniable about that stuff. Senia is so mature, genuine and real🙌🥺👏❤️❤️❤️

[@lifewithdri]

I definitely understand both of them.. two perspectives.. they both understand where they played their part & they grew from it. My man’s biggest fear is being broke again too.. he don’t ever want to feel that feeling again. Men battle with their own struggles like keeping the home safe and secure and the kids and their women.. it might be hard to juggle that with family but eventually they learn. My man did! We have family days and go on dates just us and it really means a lot. Maybe they’ll be able to get back together now that they grew from where they were & they can live just them as a family bc I’m sure a group of ppl in a home wasn’t good for them especially either a new born baby. Wish you both the best & pray y’all can get back together 😭😭 I’d love to see it.

[@StacyScorpio]

Senia is so gawddd damn beautiful and her accent i love ❤

[@chreiesenicole5662]

I love this, This is given very much both mature adults having a conversation I love it

[@antoniahughes256]

I’m just going to say this both of y’all have valid points and you can definitely see the maturity. The one thing I’ve always told my daughter when she had her first child. Is you owe your kids a healthy relationship so your child will know what that looks like. Whether that means co parenting or being together. But I know true love when I see it and people are blessed to find it. If it’s meant to be it will be. But the love is definitely still there

[@beautifulbutterfly695]

I’m happy to see this ❤and y’all both admitting and acknowledging and taking accountability for the mistakes you two had in y’all relationship that’s on a grown folk level. Congratulations Trey and Senia growth is everything

[@daniellejaudon9480]

I understand . I went through the same situation with my baby dad after postpartum and now a year later we are back and better than ever . Y’all will find your way back !

[@JuLyee7]

A man leaving physically or mentally after a baby is born is hard for a woman to recover from. I truly understand both sides neither one of them had ill intent, I will say knowing someone’s love language is crucial in a relationship because it can make a person feel unseen and unappreciated. I’m happy to see y’all are doing well ❤

[@niaizreal2992]

I think what Senia was trying to say at the beginning is that Trey was a great provider but not a great partner. They both have different love languages and I think that’s where most of their issues came from. I understand both sides and I’m glad that they are mature enough to even make this video. I see a lot of growth from both sides. Keep up the positive energy. We love to see it.❤🫶🏽

[@JusToni]

I knew this was coming this year ! I felt it 😌 This was such a grown up discussion and the fact that both of you understood where you both were wrong is growth . But this is so common in relationships. Men are money makers and providers and women want to be nurtured and loved on so they feel fulfilled. Knowing each there’s love language is so important and asking often is important because sometimes it changes . Healthy Communication is the main ingredient to a successful relationship whether co parenting or together as a couple . I wish you both well and if y’all get back together I’m here for that too ! ❤

[@Itstoya85]

So happy you guys are in a much better space, definitely feeling the growth between you two

[@samanthagarcia6512]

I love them as friends or whatever they choose to be but I am glad they talked it out that’s good for both parties ❤

[@talkingmyish]

They are still in love.

[@Seanababyyy]

@@blackbeautysupplystore6092lol she said “yall he’s lyin”😭

[@Tynitty6400]

I agree wit Trey . I got a daughter so i understand the mentality he have when it come to responsibilities came about cause sometimes stuff come up last minute as well. Yall both are valid .

[@thediaryofkeke]

This is growth and I love that for them both and not that they owned us or anybody any explanation as a OG supporter this was appreciated to see them in their growth. I wish them all the love and success they deserve 🥹❣️

[@jb.baby111]

I’m glad y’all working things out love y’all🫶🏽

[@Spreadlove16]

Yall both look great! This so mature! I’m tuned in now.

[@Chosenfavor1]

Most men get caught up in only providing financially. You have to make time to balance physically, emotionally, mentally, & spiritually while in a relationship. Money isn’t everything & a woman who desires true love will never be happy in a relationship where money is the only priority.

[@ms.sophisticated1679]

Let’s be for real. How many men in our community are providers these days? A man like Trey is a rare breed. Don’t get me wrong he has his flaws but he was taking care of his family like he was a husband. Senia did not make it any better by constantly accusing him of cheating when he wasn’t. They got too deep in a relationships way too fast. Honestly Trey would have been better single pursuing his career knowing he wouldn’t have the time for a girl like Senia. And yes I do think Senia was low key entertaining other people while still living with Trey. You can’t still be talking to other guys and having sex with your baby daddy for you to think it’s ok. She was wrong so wrong for that!

[@aishahussein2122]

Men are not robots , they are humans too like women. Most cases men put ther happiness aside to make women happy

[@earthajacksone9674]

yeah he didnt balance it well which he admitted to that

[@DHunter8468]

Aww! This was so good. I definitely understand Senia, that’s why DATE DAY/NIGHT are soo important. It should be a priority bc we females need that. We love to connect to our spouse/person daily/Weekly If possible. My husband the same. We just learn how to compromise & listen. Most men think SEX is romance & quality time and it’s not. Well it’s not from a woman perspective. 1:06 she laying it down. 40:57 😂Thank yal for being vulnerable & sharing. No judgment here. Trey I hear you too. However, most woman can careless about the materials things. Especially if she a working woman bc like she said. We can buy it ourselves. We went intimacy & for us it’s not only sex if that makes sense. Quality time and your presence first. Then, We love gifts too but it’s not important IMO. Again Thank yal for sharing 🙏🏾 Trey you young don’t think you fail bc you didn’t. Life is hard we learning everyday and your awesome dad.

[@shaygirl8683]

He wanted an apology from her so bad, then saying she won’t ever find anyone better than him? Senia stay woke.

[@earthajacksone9674]

when did he say that ? he was always accused of being unfaithful

[@JUS2324]

it didn’t seem like he wanted an apology from her

[@UNRULYTAYE]

Trey I want you & Senia to continue healing, keep a balanced co-parenting relationship. You'll have gotten older, more wiser, we all have our faults, flaws , insecurities etc some out weigh more than other's, but atleast both of you were mature enough to say I know where I fucked up at & move past it. I still see hurt in y'all eyes thou and maybe therapy could fix those damages or repair them for what's next to come. I'm not biased at all, I watched the entire video and I get both POVS, there were lack of thing's that you'll were too young to figure out at the time especially being new born parents that isn't easy & neither is postpartum depression, I'm rooting for a healthier relationship to the both of you.🩷🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿

[@tbirdsings6018]

This is W Vid U BOTH have grown since U both 1st got together it’s always good for the parents to have good relationship Pray U both allow yourselves to work things out if it’s what ya’ll desire

[@purplerain570]

Y’all have matured so much. Love this for y’all and your daughter 😍

[@Carenchamcox]

This was a beutiful conversation guys. This was deep, a lot of lessons learnt🎉Kudos

[@keekee1567]

I dislike when I find couples after the breakup. I see maturity, love, and growth in both of yall. I hope yall can work it out because the love is definitely there we see it

[@cintronfamily2998]

He still love her and I agree this was the real side of both he showed his love and still love her ❤

[@MichelleLN07]

I appreciated you guys sharing this video even though it was probably difficult on both ends. This conversation gave a lot on perspective and how communicating and understanding each others needs and wants are important.

[@quinnettsooreal3169]

A career does not define a type of man. A 9-5 could be giving the same problems

[@kiageter990]

💯💯

[@wilhelmineuusiku4029]

I’m really happy to see y’all sit down and talk🥺,i grew up watching y’all alot and i pray y’all work things out❤️

[@kiearrajones4694]

Seems like it was a relationship where one person was brought up on survival and one was brought up with love and that shit really plays a part in a relationship

[@gagirlb]

Wow!! I really loved them together.💗 People don't realize until too late, but a baby changes the whole dynamic of your relationship, especially when you're young and not fully established as a married couple.

[@victorianixon6419]

Yes I love this growing up and changing with you trey he loves his baby mama he even said it ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 congrats bro

[@fabulousfed8257]

Aww I love this. This was needed for sure, probably for the two of y’all are well. KZbin damn near be therapy. Your real supporters know what’s up with you Trey and the type of man that you are. Senia you look amazing per usual sis 💓😍

[@ourfamilylivelaughlove1464]

I can still see them getting back together and working it out it looks like they love each other I’m here for it they look good together and I understand both sides 💯

[@Blavkqueen90]

I loved this! Sometimes it takes expressing yourselves like this so you can later reflect on what the other is saying. The two may not see it today or tomorrow but time will always connect the dots. Just how y’all have made it to this point after the breakup to sit down on camera with one another! I truly believe there was a lot of love between you two and still is that’s why feelings got in the conversation but I truly believe the relationship could be rekindled. Things always work in mysterious ways !!❤

[@Jossal23545]

Yes we need more of Senia on KZbin 🫶🏽

[@oohitsjenny6543]

Sometimes people need to go their separate ways , grow on their own and if it is ment to be it will be. Loved how much both of you have grown and were mature enough to sit down and do this 🤍

[@mahalygraham3390]

I’m glad y’all came together to talk & work things out between other to get an understanding of how y’all are with each other I hope y’all can have a good coparenting relationship with y’all’s daughter💯❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Rotten103]

This is what me and my husband went through because I was raise to love, but I also show my love through acts of service buying and making sure you good. My husband was raised on survival. He started working and hustling since he was 13. That’s all he knows how to do is work. When we first met he had 3 jobs, but no car no apartment nothing. We started from scratch. By the time we separated we were 3 kids in had cars, house. We separated 3 years. It took a long time for him to realize you can have love and you also can have a career. Being here, but being present is two different things. Definitely see it.

[@marianclausell8556]

I love the fact yall came together to talk about it thats grown shit ❤️much love

[@alvidaaa491]

The way Trey smile, and looks at Senia 😊. I hope ❤ later on in life they could work things out

[@riahh340]

Y’all talking about Trey not listening but he’s clearly acknowledging how she felt throughout this whole video but because he’s telling his point of view at the time as well, he’s not listening? Senia wasn’t listening at some points in this video when trey was explaining how he felt during times in the relationship but ion see ONE comment about that.. Why so one sided ?

[@ForeverBlacGlamour]

Right.

[@asiabanks6439]

Trey your the best ! I see a man that emotionally not afraid to express himself . Keep being you and the great father that you are. I see the balance between your work life and personal. I fuck with you trey. You really are a GOOD man.

[@TaeTae-lw7oc]

Trey ass don’t listen😭 he’s just trying to justify her feelings, learn to actually listen & understand wat she’s saying Trey. She just wanted ur time, affection, & making her feel secure my guy

[@GeneseJ]

They sure don’t listen 😩😂

[@Soundslike_tenetta]

Agree but that’s any man. Signs don’t matter

[@shamariivey]

Yeah he still not listening I’m 32 mins in and it’s like it’s not clicking…. I get it , he been a hustler and a provider making it happen but we are in 2024 , present time and she is still telling you what you lacked in and you just justifying her feelings still my goodness. Like she said “understand her for her”

[@_treytraylor]

@@shamariiveyso because I say “I do take fault in that, it was just because I was providing etc….” I’m not listening ? What? I literally said I understand her hella times.

[@shamariivey]

@@_treytraylor I’m also not done watching Trey lol, I’m 32 mins. I’ve been in her position of not feeling heard of so forth. So I feel her when she said she just wanted your time , the little things. Nobody faulting you for being a man , making shit happen for yourself and your family at all. I’m just on the outside looking in. 🫶🏽

[@Keraaneshearaa]

You Really Can Tell Trey Understands Where He Messed Up At . I really hope yall could work it out. You can tell its love there. 🙏🏾 I Love To see the growth

[@stefanienicolee]

Unaffectionate people should not be with affectionate people unless they are willing to be affectionate for you… it’s so draining

[@figurering8654]

I'm unaffectionate and my husband is very affectionate I like to show love with gifts and he likes to be snuggled up ...we learned each other ques and we definitely make time to love on each other the way we like

[@psmith3821]

Everybody love language is different I’m not a affectionate woman but acts of service is a way I show love to a partner

[@stefanienicolee]

@@psmith3821 obviously everyone is different hence that’s why I said dating… why would you want to be with someone who likes different things, requires & expects different things.. that’s why it’s best to be equally yoked.. not saying you’re gonna be the complete same but the big things matter because what you except before marriage only heightens after marriage. I’m too affectionate to be with anyone less than that. I’ll be so unhappy

[@psmith3821]

@@stefanienicolee when you fully elaborated going back to what you originally said makes more sense lol I fully agree sis 🤍

[@stefanienicolee]

@@psmith3821 🤍🤍

[@keemzbee6713]

I loved seeing this. A man might have different goals than the lady next to him. What matters is how can you can come together and understand the challenges, also tackle the differences. #Growth♥️

[@majeedaaquilla]

This Is A Change,Yay!

[@PoohBear1212]

Love that yall had this conversation and i wish y’all the best. Together or not but trey you was not letting her talk!