Mean People... And What to Do About Them • Part 1┃"Even is Easy"

[@yourmoveandystanley]

Do you have a story in your life to serve as a reminder that you don’t always need to take matters into your own hands?

[@johnkimmel]

Thank you for this one I just got done visiting my mother-in-law in West Virginia she's been mean to me for 40 years for no reason her husband is fine towards me just not her she just says mean things and treats me unkindly I don't give it back I just tried to ignore it I always have and I wonder if I had stood up to her if it would have made things better but I kind of doubt it I just think some people aren't capable of knowing that they're mean

[@lisablack6004]

L)

[@Clothed-with-His-Glory]

@@johnkimmelI would

[@HolySpiritIsSatanOfSinDethHell]

I don't really deal with mean people that said, Jesus is Lord and fight temptation by the power of the Holy Spirit and old testament is for learning!

[@MadDragon75]

For the love of God! Please stop telling atheist God bless you. It's insulting. You're saying devil bless you. Your god is also your devil, not ours. Mean people are in your own congregation. Do some self reflection without being so self righteous. It's been how many years that you could have found a better way to say goodbye. Here, try mine on us.. "May love and peace rain upon you." It took me three seconds. Don't forget, mean people breed mean people.

[@kristyp8314]

I don’t let others determine my actions. I do not change my actions based on other people’s actions. Period.

[@paulagilland7366]

I stay away from them and avoid them ❤

[@jacquelineperry8515]

One day they will meet someone meaner than them and that’s all folks

[@prettylady995]

Several mean people in my family and in laws….They are mean over and over and became even meaner because I decided to continue to be happy and nice. Eventually it was a burden for me to try to continue to be happy and nice as I was hurt and sad. They took my light away so then I removed myself from them. They turned even meaner when I was nice. It must have given them permission to get meaner cause I was nice. Never did find the answer. They wanted me out and continued to hurt me

[@AnthonyJohnson-rd1rd]

I work at a grocery store and I see them all the time

[@marilynwashburn4480]

I can only imagine, but I, for one, want to thank you for what you do! 🥰🛍️🛒..even though I kind of hate going to the grocery store. 😬

[@matxalenc8410]

The worse I ever met was when I worked at the grocery store. Never went back. Too bad, 'cause I loved that job.

[@Heavens3]

@@matxalenc8410why is it so bad?

[@lianecornils6603]

Ignore them.

[@maryb.9463]

Not paying back doesn’t mean you shouldn’t protect yourself from evil people.

[@maryb.9463]

I think it depends how mean they are…. You also need to protect yourself and not throw your pearls in front if pigs.

[@truthseeking1st]

I need you to talk about family members that think they are better than anyone. They make life so miserable for those around them if they don’t get their way that people stop disagreeing with them completely and practically bow down to them.

[@riley6740]

I run away from anger, confrontation, or under handed tactics. I cry then I end up having to take extra heart medication and an anxiety medication because I automatically go into panic mode and can’t function. I’m dealing with a situation where I’m living in fear.

[@adriennemccain4261]

I heard this message when I was half asleep and it made me sit up and listen. Loved the message he brought.

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@Adrienne McCain - we love reading this feedback. Thank you for taking the time to share it! -the Your Move team

[@jclee44ecec]

That really means their bad- SORRY! When u make bad choices constantly and u know right from wrong and choose to do wrong all the time- tells u something about them. Don’t sugarcoat it

[@__simply_April__]

As long as I’m not in immediate danger than Idc about “mean people” and their opinions, comments, etc. all that does is bring unnecessary stress into ur life. Not every battle needs to be fought and there’s always gonna be a person that has something negative to say. That’s when you decide are you going to be mature or are you going to handle it immaturely. Are these ppl really Important ? No, so why bother?

[@spottedhorse7]

The mean person is the one who keeps you away from God while being very nice about it.

[@keithcoulston6150]

I'm sure Satan was very nice in the garden and so will the Antichrist just like Andy Stanley

[@mephiboshethswish8742]

Facts

[@intentionallymade]

Glad you’re pointing out Andy Stanley’s deception. This message had no weight whatsoever.

[@charleschi843]

Unfortunately Andy is becoming the person you are referring to. Find a church that does verse by verse Biblical teaching and run to it.

[@presmasterflash7555]

Or a sociopathic narcissist wife. Also runs away anytime I call on the name Jesus Christ… it’s one of her tells.

[@MimiBlackBeatPeace]

This is a great presentation. I really on’t lose the care for the others well being, or health & safety, but I do lose respect and trust. And with a couple people I’ve lost concern. But if they were drowning I WOULD rescue them or call for help. The person changes in my mind into a kind of feral animal who I would rescue but not pet, or keep caring for after it recovered. It’s a matter of safe distance according to their behavior. You can rescue a domestic cat, or a groundhog, and keep it if you can’t turn it loose or find a home. But if you rescue a wild jaguar or adult bear, you’re going to have to turn it loose or find an appropriate home for it. Too unsafe. But they’re God’s own, and they’re part of my world .

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@MimiBlackBeatPeace - such an interesting analogy. Thank you for sharing - we're happy you found the show! - Anne from the Your Move team

[@christinadecamara8009]

Very FEW nice people any more….. 😳

[@susanhawkes2519]

My little sister is a lazy, entitled, thief who refused to help me empty my hoarder mother's house (except when she snuck in 3x before the estate was officially opened and rifled through my mother's jewelry drawer). Now that the house is 95% emptied by me, she walks into my old bedroom and demands one of the nice few things I chose to keep for myself! She had repeatedly said throw all my mother's things away and didn't even clean out her own room full of 50 years worth of free storage of her own junk. She doesn't want me to be compensated for the physical labor I put into about emptying out about 5 roll-offs of junk nor pay me the statute-mandated executor fee which got wasted on lawyers due to another relative's interference. I am so hurt & confused, I may need to go into a psychiatric hospital to avoid going off my rails.

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@susan hawkes, we hope you find part 2 of Mean People helpful; we're at [e-mail] if you'd like to share more. -Anne from the Your Move team

[@denapagoria2512]

In love, forget about your feelings. Just tell her NO. Don’t give in to people that are unstable as a result of their own choices. She was consulted, said no, now you owe her absolutely nothing. It’s time to separate yourself from toxic people. That’s biblical my friend. God bless you

[@iraeaglemind]

Go no contact and keep it that way.

[@keithcoulston6150]

Every single issue in our lives are issues of faith. God is not the author of confusion

[@wealldieatthehandsoflovedones]

Blame your mom

[@rideronthewhitehorse]

It’s a two second video... get them out of your life and be happy about it. That’s it Finished.

[@dennisborell104]

Have you ever heard him ask for money in any of his your move segments? No, you haven't, HOW REFRESHING

[@Teeko253]

Even if people do ask for donations after a sermon wouldn’t you want to feed that which feeds you? That’s the whole point of giving and tithing to sustain one another especially the church

[@KathleenCernetich]

I have a heart of gold but I come off to others as though I'm a mean person it's my protection around me to avoid getting hurt by anybody

[@munimathbypeterfelton6251]

“Mean” is both an adjective and a verb. Being “mean” (adjective infinitive) means that you are bad to others verbally, physically, emotionally, romantically, professionally, domestically, socially, and so forth. “Mean” is a synonym for: rude, impolite, immature, degrading, narcissistic, ill-mannered, condescending, snobbish, etc. Now the verb “mean” refers to being intentional and purposeful about what you say and do to other people. I.e. “I mean what I say”; “He meant to sabotage your success.” When somebody “means” something, it signifies how serious they were about committing to whatever they were saying or doing. Bullies are mean (adjective) because they mean (verb) what they say and do in a violent manner unto others. Some people are naturally mean. It’s who they are. Mean people DO NOT deserve to be forgiven, empathized with, given a second chance or the benefit of the doubt in ANY WAY! When you commit a crime, you do the time! Mean people do not deserve any friends, financial fortune, power, or moral support of any kind! Lock up every mean person in the whole entire world and everything and everyone will be much better off! And keep those mean people behind bars FOR LIFE! Before they take other innocent people’s lives or cause other innocent people to take their own lives!

[@glendabarton1914]

There are many sociopaths and psychopaths in our society. Our educational system and religious institutions fail to teach and nurture real values like compassion and foster instead a spirit of greed, revenge, selfishness. Our ex-president is a prime example of that and I'm being honest about that.

[@krabbyphattie9833]

This feels like the 90s game show, not a bad ad haha

[@yvonneanderson4]

Thank you Andy Stanley. Your many teachings have helped more than you know

[@joycemechell3171]

I liked the message but , in turn, we allow thise people to step on us and keep stepping on us if we don't step up and stand up for ourselves.

[@KathleenCernetich]

Mean people can be evil

[@sshaw4429]

My husband, his father and his sister……meanest people ever. Never has a kind word for anyone.

[@JamesBond-j4m]

If your from the hood...well we all know how that goes 😂😂

[@MrGrimmfan]

Feeling are not logic. Sticks and stones break bones, not words. If we allowing our feelings to dictate our actions, then we are going to keep taking great leaps backwards. Victor over victim, is a perspective, it’s your choice.

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

Idk why I got this as a sponsored video but I clicked

[@SophiaEwing-uz1ji]

I missed U...so much.. I was so down...these last few days ...U saved ME

[@SophiaEwing-uz1ji]

I have been so diwn...in dealing with this person at wrk...n U.. have gave Me the answer ..thank U

[@jasonadams5971]

In the Animaniacs’ case, their way of dealing with mean people is driving them crazy.

[@deiss-capstonefinal1271]

Not sure if I need to set boundaries or just give more to mean people

[@maryb.9463]

You should not throw your pearls in front of pigs. You are precious in Gods wyes, you should not be abused, emotionally, financially, etc. You should forgive , try to win a brother and then shake it off and protect yourself

[@Movieclips_101]

You should set boundaries

[@CleoWard]

Simple: Change the Locks on Roger!Deadbolts with chains... 😂😂😂

[@StyleViewStudio]

According to the bureau and according to the behavioral science, your character and your behavior are unrelated, I disagree, but you can separate it for the purposes of this exercise. If you separate the person from their behavior, then it makes it easier and it is less offensive.

[@bernitafrancinemapp519]

Just watched on TV..Spot on!🎯👆✝️👏🔥✌️

[@NJeanB]

Where is Part 2

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@NJeanB - it will be posted soon; if you subscribe to the channel, you will see the most recent episode when you open our channel. Thanks for asking! -Anne from the Your Move team

[@floaretudorache9287]

What to do if your husband is malevolent My name should be Abigail He is heavy

[@JuliahFL]

My husband went on a cruise with his family without me and I didn't unalive him.

[@dwaynebronk]

Love Andy Stanley

[@PassionateFlower]

Bottom Line: Mean People, people you can't count on.

[@JoeHinojosa-ph8yw]

"Hold my beer........ 🍺"!

[@nicolettemitchell3146]

I have a friend who’s is not mean to just me but other people and I also got bullied on TikTok

[@KathleenCernetich]

People think I'm mean because I keep people at a distance I am more an introvert than being mean I have a very independent way of thinking I'm not always right but I'm very informative I think a lot of people are actually stupid and are not aware of what's going on for taking place in this world those kind of people are boring they have nothing to add to a conversation or any knowledge to offer for any kind of an outcome regarding a situation

[@AncientHistor33]

Mean people - stay the hell away from them. Problem solved.

[@seasidesue816]

What a joy. I used to listen to your father.

[@lottiegilbert4681]

I mean it is a proven system proven to not make any sense when thinking logically

[@hapahaole9819]

You nailed it!!! Been there!! 😢

[@markshaver2813]

I’ve kept my balance plenty of times with plenty of mean people, and I’ve had plenty of people try to kill me I’ve got a stabbing to prove it. And I loved him through it. I didn’t even tell the cops it was that’s what it means to love.

[@lisahall1989]

I miss Charles Stanley. I can't wait to meet him in heaven one day.

[@vanessadagenet457]

I learned this in jr high

[@ramonakennard7637]

Perfect message for relationship in my life Thank you

[@yourmoveandystanley]

So glad to hear that, @Ramona Kennard. What was a takeaway? -the Your Move team

[@wealldieatthehandsoflovedones]

Get meaner, or turn the other cheek. Its pretty simple...... but keep it between yourselves.

[@tammymartin880]

Wise words ❤

[@naur8879]

hit that block button

[@cindyhorn5786]

My renter has used horrible language, attacking my character:( Might be time to give notice. My hub has gone to Heaven, but I’m sure this is infuriating him.

[@MLove-777]

Thank you...✨🙏✨

[@actually_a_wyrm]

Pikmin 4

[@kaybaron5179]

This guy is the best wow awesome really

[@tinkerlove5319]

Amen in fact im at a job around mean people but i stand up for myself and when me and (child) children sick they don’t care

[@glendabarton1914]

Does your state have paid family leave? Push your legislators for that. Our state, California, does, a couple of other states do. We are one of only two or three modern countries in the world (besides Burundi and Nicaragua) that doesn't have paid family leave. That's crazy, especially when we had to deal with COVID and families were taking care of small children, adult children and parents and grandparents too.

[@bearbones4347]

Nice shirt 😂😂😂😂

[@LoriAnne808]

Very effeminate. So much for teaching men to be masculine.

[@patiencefalters9024]

Well, let's just work on division among people. So disappointed in this man.

[@ddrse]

You can be LGBT and Christian 👨‍❤️‍👨

[@Oldmillacres777]

The meanest and cruelest people in the world are people who distort GOD’S precious word JESUS COMING IS NEAR.Where will you spend eternity

[@sandraflores2940]

My sister

[@carolsnyder1464]

What did you do to get this guy out of the house. ? Never said. ? I read the Bible. I know about David. What does this story have to do with the guy in the house? I don’t get it. ?

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@carolsnyder1464, Andy talks about this in the follow-up, and here is a link if you'd like to watch: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4LbpqF5i9J6mNksi=DTdjvVqwIZMngWlA Thanks! - the Your Move team

[@dougmartinek9964]

Just get a lollipop get in bed and get under your covers and hide from life 😂😂😂

[@patriciabrock7303]

Great

[@rosaliafeal671]

❤make decisión ❤

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

This is hilarious! I don’t have any mean people in my world!😂

[@Crispie_creme]

On behalf of all mean people, we need the rest of the population to gain common sense and be generally less stupid.

[@Shesblessed2114]

😂

[@MrsMysteryWoman]

😂 👏🏻

[@Jane5720]

You actually have to evict Roger

[@yourmoveandystanley]

@Jane5720 - great point! Did you watch part 2? The ending is pretty incredible. Thanks for the comment - Anne from the Your Move team

[@KathleenCernetich]

You talk off track of the title you gave to your article

[@nicoledells8817]

Anyone still attending this church should seriously reconsider. He has lost his way and is not teaching sound biblical doctrine. His father is turning over in his grave at what a disgrace his son has become.

[@ScottMayys]

Not watching their KZbin channel.

[@veronicarodriguez-kx9wj]

Coworkers

[@IRENE-t4u]

🙏OBEY📖FORGIVE🙌❤️🤍⚓️

[@suesmith9665]

How to deal with mean people get a real job

[@markshaver2813]

Mean people really, what does the Bible say? What did Jesus say? It’s simple love your neighbor as yourself that’s how you treat mean people. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love another person end of story.

[@ReeRee333]

The Bible also says to stay away, far away, from the evil people. 1 Kings

[@suesmith9665]

Decrease 😂 nothing better to do than wonder what power is. Maybe you the one has power problem