Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviors / Ep. 99

Can you meditate with a narcissist or someone with narcissistic traits in your divorce? Although you might see it as a waste of time, there is actually some good that can come out of it even if you don’t settle. Our experienced accredited mediator and experienced family law specialist will guide you through how you can make your mediation for family law matters (like property or parenting) work for you.
Learn some strategies and steps you can take if you are dealing with someone who has narcissistic traits. Don’t waste your precious chance to settle or find out more about your ex’s plans. Listen to this episode today and get your agenda and strategies sorted.
Please note this is general education only. Always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.
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In this episode, you’ll find:
What might surprise you at a mediation with a narcissist
Why you think you know what your ex is thinking is a mistake for mediation
Why it's a bad idea to assume your ex thinks like you leading up to mediation.
When you understand what they care about you can have success in mediation
What is the shuttle process?
Why the shuttle process helps in mediation with a narcissist
How you can ask the mediator to help you with the narcissistic attacks during the mediation.
How to let your mediator know about their behaviour
The three things a narcissist will care most about in their agreement with you.
Does it matter if the mediator knows they are narcissists?
How you can use the mediation to help tailor your affidavit for trial
The cat and mouse game sometimes used in mediation by a narcissist
How to avoid the game playing in mediation with a narcissist
Which issue do you deal with first in mediation with a narcissist?
Can you make suggestions to the mediator?
How to agree on the agenda for the day
How to make sure your narcissistic ex doesn’t run the agenda for the day.
Why you should avoid using the word narcissist when going through family court unless they are officially diagnosed.
What should you do to show to the mediator or the judge that your ex has narcissistic behaviours?

[@chrystelwilkins9550]

I just got off a meditation call and there is a protective order in place and he used that session to make digs at me and I lost my cool and I never fight with him I have never lashed out and I completely lost it

[@thedivorcecoursepodcast]

Im sorry :( it can be so hard. Sending big love

[@AmySmith-ur9gs]

Excellent advice! Thanks so much for your insights.

[@thedivorcecoursepodcast]

Hi Amy it's not advice, just education, but you are most welcome. Hope it helps :)

[@user-ui8pw2zf3n]

Thanks for the great advice! PS I appreciated the chit chat

[@thedivorcecoursepodcast]

Any time!

[@jonasaharoni1724]

Thanks from Washington state…huge help

[@thedivorcecoursepodcast]

Thanks :) Hello over there

[@robynfoss9449]

People who put out these videos have to realize that people are clicking on them to get information not just chitchat and wasted time please get to the point to help people. Please

[@thedivorcecoursepodcast]

Hi Robyn, I hope you listened to the whole episode to get the great tips. Sorry for the length. I hope all is ok.