Tenant-Landlord Mediation

[@williamf4544]

Here in the UK the state would pay his rent till he found work again and also give him about £75 a week to live on - i guess its different in the US

[@rmw9130]

Umm yeah, hella different in the States. We make choices everyday about medications or food, rent or moms jewelry, all that shit. But we also have the option to get way ahead in life if we choose. I would take our way any time!

[@wcresponder]

So the tax payers have to take the burden for the deadbeats. hmmm just like prison without the fear of dropping the soap.

[@williamf4544]

@@rmw9130 Yes im sure you and lots of people like you would

[@williamf4544]

@@wcresponder Thats one way of looking at it

[@jeffdo9195]

So if gov pays his rent etc no reason to go back to work

[@austinthaijam7009]

i found the mediator focused, fair, and powerful

[@lilipuceron551]

"Everything you say doesn't leave this room." Lol ! 🤣🤣🤣

[@FiscalRangersFlorida]

As a Florida Certified County Court mediator, I enjoyed watching this. I volunteer twice a month to mediate small claims cases.

[@kamyenterprise4526]

I want to get started. Where did you take your certification?

[@austinthaijam7009]

what's in it for you to mediate if there's no monetary compensation. How do you "get paid"

[@SheIsTristine]

Thanks for doing this. We are facing mediation soon with our landlords who illegally withheld our deposits, illegally removed our property, and changed the locks on our unit when we were still tenants and had paid the full month's rent. This helps give us an idea of what to expect.

[@lindamerchant123]

That's all criminal what landlords

[@Angela-ot7es]

Thank you for your post. How did you get your management to agree to mediation? Isn't it optional?

[@jbnx__6557]

@@Angela-ot7es Mediation is voluntary, so if someone does not agree to participate they can’t force them

[@9mler]

This was waaaaaaaaayyyyy more civilized than when I took MY landlord to mediation. My landlord screamed and argued with our mediator. She lied like crazy, too, even when she was proven wrong. When I sat outside during her caucus, you could hear her through the door, and you could hear the mediator telling her to calm her ass down, lol. and so did everyone else who was waiting for their case. As for me, I barely had to say a word.

[@riverking937]

So what happened? Did you get paid? I'm going through it and need to hear something good?

[@kulrich10]

Then move

[@sheevasilvera7309]

These landlord lies so much

[@RealMelaniaTrump]

U probably deserved to be evicted

[@zeezee7856]

I hope this is about someone else. Let’s NOT go there with all my stolen money

[@TheTigero]

this mediator lady is really calming lol

[@sarahendrix3132]

Lol

[@hollyb6885]

Did he seriously say that he needs the cable since he's gonna be home more now?! Cable= GONE

[@MrAtheists]

I agree about the tv part that's a luxury not a necessity if you're in a bad position got to make sacrifices to do what you have to

[@musicfriend2051]

8:25 “I would rather be in her shoes coz I don’t have a job” 🤣 he killed so funny

[@charlesphilhower1452]

He impresses me as being entitled and a professional victim. He was more concerned about having cable and having gas for a car he can’t afford, when he is not paying rent. His refusal to pay late fees and the blaming the landlord for charging for court fees when he had no reasonable plan to pay the rent and had no intention of doing anything about it until he was forced to by the court. I don’t blame the landlord for pushing this action, especially with his entiled attitude and the fact that he still has cable and is driving in a car that could be sold to pay the rent.

[@heidirobinson6406]

I think Dennis got tired of working. He took his extended vacation and figured it would work out in his favor. He forgot to pay his rent!! Then he found out Linda wasn't messing around!!! She rightfully wanted her rent from him.

[@dragosandreipapuc5281]

Landlords are leeches of society, Linda can get dust in her eyes he already gave her approx 30k, the house is his for all I care 😘

[@spacesandy2424]

@@dragosandreipapuc5281how long you been leeching?

[@dragosandreipapuc5281]

@@spacesandy2424 i don't leech anything i work for my money

[@tammyblouisville]

it doesn't leave the room? its on youtube now....lol

[@alvinbanthem3462]

+Tammy Hart Brennenstuhl first thing i noticed myself.

[@helema23]

+Tammy Hart Brennenstuhl maybe its scripted?

[@diamondbackqueen]

+Tammy Hart Brennenstuhl its a training video.

[@metropcs4993]

helema23

[@tammyblouisville]

well...that would explain alot...lol thanks

[@roozief9349]

Yes everything said in here is confidential except for the millions of KZbinrs

[@davidhartman6279]

No pay no stay

[@ellspressions1002]

watching this for my mock mediation tomorrow 😂🍿🍸

[@big1923]

Hey sexy

[@MoniqueDMarcano]

If this is real , I wished I could have her poker face when people are not being reasonable.

[@cdm0101]

The landlord wouldn't necessarily get an eviction if he missed a payment, that would still need to be secured through a court proceeding.

[@amandaforeman7441]

This is confidential. Broadcasts it to entire world.

[@mberge1]

The problem is, after he sells the jewelry he still won't have a job and he will be right back in the same situation.

[@2Brian]

Very good actors.

[@Steve-wf3vv]

Great educational video. Wrong dispute material. Never heard a landlord mediate with a delinquent tenant. They simply evict them and sue for any unpaid rent and that’s that.

[@sarahholland2600]

Exactly. He's arguing & hasn't got a leg to stand on legally!

[@worlock1470]

If I don't have the money I leave the place

[@janicepagano9200]

Wor Lock the sheriff will remove you for a small fee

[@GailThomason-j5x]

I’m a landlord and I’m not allowing you to be one month behind because that leads to multiple months behind. She’ll never see that money unless she garnishes his future wages

[@AureliusR]

Landlording is profiting off of human needs. It's disgusting.

[@MrUtzilaj]

"I won't pay the rent but I want to have my cable connected" lol

[@Liya_Nyengane]

"And I have to pay for my phone bill" LMFAOOOOO

[@Angela-ot7es]

"I have the whole day with nothing to do. I need cable."

[@j_u_ss_y]

😂😂😂😂 same

[@saikatroy4]

When Laura Dern used to be a landlord...

[@vestel777]

Wow I lived in Green Bay, Wisconsin for 3 years and I had NO idea that this place existed. Damn I miss living in Green Bay on Velp Avenue.

[@user-ht4kp7py2c]

Always keep a calculator handy during mediation. Great showcase of skill, movement, and appropriate reframing.

[@chloekit4861]

I WISHHH my rent was $750!!! I live in NYC & rent is $1400 and up!!!

[@lexiemaep7930]

D C2184 colorado is 1400 and up!

[@LindsAyWithAttitude]

D C2184 I wish I could pay 750, mine is way less

[@KaneneProductions]

D C2184 You can move.

[@ladyJustis]

2g for 2 bedroom here in Westchester ny.. fml.. In about to be homeless:(

[@Itsellasky]

California 2500

[@murcieme]

"This conversation is confidential and does not leave this room." lol posted on KZbin almost 90,000 views

[@anyviolet]

training video

[@kasienenerekha2985]

Thank you for this ADR vidéo. I am one of the experts on Alternative Dispute Resolution.

[@Neegromerican]

Okay, as a former landlord, you have to find a way to make the best of the situation. He is an older man, no job, behind on rent, but has been in the apartment for the past 4-5 years. Perhaps, have him work it off being that she runs a business. Now, if he decided not to work it off, then she would have no other course of action but to evict him. Eviction is part of being a landlord. 🤷🏿‍♂️.

[@oliva_jung]

Hello folks, I'm currently undergoing training for mediation, and I would like to say that this was a very helpful resource to me, as I picked up a few things after watching this mediation. However, I would like to respectfully give a few points as to what I realized while watching this mediation, and what I would do or change given my style of mediation. Hopefully this could give you a different perspective on the mediation process. As most of us know, this was a mock mediation, and only serves to give people a glimpse of what a tenant-landlord situation would look like. As far as I know, a normal mediation would rarely take this little time, and could potentially be more volatile emotion-wise. Throughout the mediation, I enjoyed watching the mediator take a more passive but firm approach when talking to the landlord and tenant. But is it me, or was caucus called way too early?? I could see calling caucus early as an effective strategy to gain knowledge of the situation early without interference of the other party, but I wasn't entirely sure if it was necessary. It almost seemed as if both parties weren't able to fully explain their stories. Another thing I noticed was that the mediator rarely used reframing to clarify what was being said by both sides, but I suppose the matter was extremely clear to both the tenant and the landlord. These participants are most likely much much MUCH more experienced that I am, but one thing I noticed was that the mediator seemed to become less and less impartial as the video went on. You can notice the mediator remind the tenant frequently about potential repercussions and the chance of being evicted if he did not come to an agreement. And finally, when terms of the agreement were discussed, the mediator once again reminded the tenant of the consequences. All in all, they did a much better job than I would have ever dreamed of doing, but thankfully I am going to another training session to roleplay these exact kinds of situations! It's amazing how such an old video can still serve to be an amazing tool for mediators in training just like me.

[@autumnecho4742]

I just wanted to thank you for your review. I am taking an online conflict resolution class and have a mediation assignment on this video. Your review helped me to look back and really watch what happened in the video which helped me to answer some of the questions on the assignment. So thank you for your input!

[@oliva_jung]

@@autumnecho4742 No prob! I'm glad to hear that you're currently learning about conflict resolution. It's actually pretty crazy that I'm re-visiting this video from a whole year ago, and it reminds me of when I first wanted to learn about mediation. However, life kinda changed for me, and I decided to study psychology at my university. Mediation/conflict resolution was definitely my second career choice, but I'm glad that I'll be able to help people in a similar capacity as a psychologist. Looking back in hindsight, I can say that mediation was one of the most enjoyable skills to pursue. As for you, keep at it! It'll be totally worth it :)

[@zubaidahadwan8310]

Oliver Jung have u completed your training?

[@refreshingthesoul6256]

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[@frostgfx]

This looks like a demonstration... not an actual mediation session since this being public and not confidential... is a total giveaway.

[@amyrpm5595]

Jon Frost the

[@thecop-arazzi653]

That and when she called her back in the room she was already in the room

[@bryansheehy2000]

Why is this so entertaining!??!

[@crand20033]

Because no landlord would do this. They just file an eviction and sue your ass.

[@nonyabiz550]

Because you're a shitty person? Occam's razor

[@scrappy4508]

"I have nothing to do all day, and now I don't have cable?" 😢😢

[@ladyJustis]

Why do people think it's okay to not pay their rent? Would it be okay if their boss kept their paycheck? I bet not. This is a landlord income

[@amenahking7863]

Is he crazy?? He's grappling over $100 of late fees....as if he's not late?

[@thebutterball2856]

It doesn’t leave this room no one will ever know except KZbin

[@chapachuu]

Damn, the comments are extra stupid here. This is a training video, children. Read the description. Learn how to internet. Cheers.

[@snowballleeblue8497]

I believe most folks are aware. Aren’t most comments about the actions of the characters? This training video communicates its’ message from several perspectives. Your comment is a testament to the skill of these individuals as actors/writers/producers. Or am I misunderstanding something…what would you deem a more reasonable comment? Should a disclaimer preface each comment? 😊

[@ignatiosification]

..who pays the mediation fees?

[@robjohnson1514]

The party that brought case to mediation, sometimes when court judge sends cases to mediation, he can decide if fees should be split or even waived. Some courts request that mediator work at least one case free of charge.

[@murcieme]

Tenant, I don't want pay late fees.... Sorry not your decision.

[@ting2006jd]

This is positional mediation.

[@wolvesprowl1]

pay the rent...

[@lexiemaep7930]

NOISIEST PEN EVER

[@missjay2524]

😂 😂 😂 😂 this got to be a mock interview

[@margotslaughter452]

As a tenant rent is essential to be paid. Make payment arrangements BEFORE you get into difficulty. I can see both sides. The tenant is not being reasonable to be honest. You can't expect to stay for free and then complain when the Landlord gets upset about wanting their money. You go without cable TV and use pre-pay phone service. It can be done.

[@thecop-arazzi653]

Its not real

[@ManpreetSingh-hn5sf]

hey there, will you help me to solving this situation

[@chibama4583]

I thought the man was the landlord at first.🤣

[@JohnnieBryant-iu2tx]

i don't understand why she has to bargain with him for her own money and he arrogant as hell to be owing someone, I would have gladly evicted him !!!

[@robertsteele5851]

Cable????

[@deborahconnolly4317]

Most mediators are not Lawyers but, get lawyers fees. They take a 10 week course. I almost lost my mind when I found out. Be very careful. Anyone cane be a Mediator. PAY ATTENTION

[@edpontiff8448]

She just wants him out period !

[@yoyo762]

I would too. This guy is a whiny bitch who thinks everyone should do want is convenient for him while he watches cable tv.

[@janicepagano9200]

yoyo762 as a landlord, I have a tenant and there’s a snowball effect...unless someone gifts you the money, especially at this mans age. This man has to realize, if he is evicted, a sheriff can come and take him out of the apartment or house.

[@yoyo762]

Good to see a hard core landlord. So many renters play the system with court ordered stays and delays to a point they don't pay the rent for more than a year. Many renters are clever when it comes to utilizing renter rights and motions to stifle an eviction.

[@KaneneProductions]

yoyo762 Not in the South.

[@ChatiseE]

@@newlife2596 did he leave your property?

[@newlife2596]

Chatise Smith yes ,finally but not before leaving mice in my house they had babies , let’s not forget the voodoo

[@FurbyGender]

She’s irresponsible for purchasing a property she can’t afford and he should be vindictive in return and let her go in a downfall

[@TMS-pj7fp]

@@FurbyGender If tenant paid his rent she could afford it ..

[@Lorijenken]

"everything in here is confidential" watches on youtube >_>

[@BflyLinton]

She is RUTHLESS! She said that she has other tenants. He was a good tenant who payed on time every month for five years! 😱 RUTHLESS and heartless. Shame on her. I feel bad for the elderly man. I hope that they can agree to something.

[@itsgoff]

You realize this was a skit right?

[@nosyrosie3716]

Homelessness creates debts for city and States, and when the the local City Police Commissioners don't agree to let the United States people to work because they don't like them or not able to control those United States citizens lives, homeless will increase and continue. The the States City police Commissioners are a problem for the United States government, because the landlords are right to want their rent on time or in a few days.

[@investfourmore]

"I don't have any money to pay but I don't want to move. Moving takes a lot of work!"

[@realalishikaangel3596]

they both are so good i wish i saw before i have paid the rent for this old guy very sad

[@brendalaprincegooglenext9736]

Someone should help him find a place in senior housing. Maybe something subsidized. He can't just live there, and not pay rent.

[@ladyJustis]

Yes our senior citizens need help. Take it out of my taxes

[@WallStreetWill86]

He cant live anywhere and not pay rent,though. Senior living places cost money too.

[@fayezentner619]

Senior living is quite expensive more than rent

[@dcg590]

@@ladyJustisnope. They had decades to prepare. They can go to family

[@adismell]

As a landlord myself, I totally sympathise with this woman, and my advice would be to evict as soon as possible, even it means foregoing the rent you're owed. It'll cost you far more if you give in.

[@sosimple7594]

Sounds good!👍🏽

[@jimmyday9536]

"A vacancy is far better than a bad tenant."

[@ambervallerio2816]

This doesn’t go anywhere but here….. Umm it’s on KZbin for the world to see 👀

[@ruicarson4018]

Agents most the times do not repair anything that was damaged before new tenants move in

[@heidirobinson6406]

Interesting informative video

[@stevesand8845]

“i gotta put gas in my car” to go where????

[@jeanthree]

She was nice enough to stopped the double asking for the late fees where not unreasonable

[@msrody8584]

Training video!!!!

[@snowblo1]

Hey, I live in Wisconsin. Are these real events, or just paid actors?

[@musicfriend2051]

I think it’s just mock meditation period

[@Ruthann22]

@@musicfriend2051 Mediation lol not meditation!

[@norms3913]

Paid for youtube acting Inc.

[@jorgehoty]

Only shared on you tube. Confidential lol

[@jodhturka01]

Mediator : The caucus is private Mediator - Also puts it on the *KZbin*

[@waynedavies3185]

I wonder if someone could tell us just where this mediation is happening (like state, country (or province if it's occurring in Canada))? Landlord and tenant laws are somewhat different in both countries as well as state and provinces. Could someone clear this up, please? If this is happening in the USA, it will have no bearing on what takes place in Canada, and vise-versa. I somehow think this is occurring in the USA by the sounds of things but would like it clarified for the record.

[@dcg590]

She owes him nothing. If she didn’t pay the bank you wouldn’t have a choice.

[@nrrakeshdas682]

Really helpful..Thank you for uploading

[@livingstones1196]

Pretty sure it was just a demonstration. Obviously!!!

[@Hardtoplease32]

I imagine this is staged or maybe some kind of training video.

[@anniecollins8939]

i was laughing very hard when the word double was use lol in my head the person was really thinking about to double slap her

[@wayneash8868]

But even if he moves outshes not getting nothing

[@sabinepabst4227]

She can move someone in that will pay rent.

[@kimbradley4105]

He is not being reasonable

[@srtasecret2309]

It just shows how the house market destroys people’s minds ! He’s a sir without job she is a business person ... Government knows that house is a big issue !

[@vegas9440]

I see why he in this situation. He worried about the wrong thing and is a know it all

[@jerrypissonme]

Even if the landlord gets an eviction on the tenant, he still owes the landlord right?

[@DREadful4486]

They could make him pay the money back

[@eddysmith_9]

@@DREadful4486how

[@perryp2261]

Yes,in Arkansas it is.

[@jerrypissonme]

@@DREadful4486 They agreed to pay back me but never did.

[@samfish6938]

The problem with mediation it's legally binding no appeals

[@hunterfisher35]

she should just evict and move on . she will be sorry for breaking down

[@ArtAbsurdist]

Even though they’re actors, I’d be damned if my landlord is gonna increase the amount I owe by two/three-fold bc I’d just laugh in her face. Nowhere is that acceptable for being 5 weeks late on rent like wtf 👋🏼😂

[@jimmyday9536]

Depends on what your lease says.

[@rubiamodelo540]

Landlord is too lenient - Landlord has a mortgage payment, and other fees, which Landlord is not allowed to skip payments - Tenant should and must be responsible with due dates and abide to the contract- Tenant already breached contract

[@FurbyGender]

Landlord shouldn’t go into debt for a mortgage she can’t afford.

[@jeanthree]

I am on the landlord side because I am one. I am responsible if something goes wrong and I have to pay taxes. so this man needs to go its not her problem and its not ridiculous fees we are not charities

[@canon3000tubester]

This isnt even be a discussion. It’s not the owners problem if he can’t pay. Evict and move on. Dumb of her to entertain the idea letting him continue.

[@jessiekatetheking]

“Well I’d rather be in her shoes because I don’t have a job” LMFAO

[@perryp2261]

The Bank doesn't care.

[@thequeenb8404]

Is this a mock mediation?

[@autumnroberts3086]

ITS A TRAINING VIDEO GOOD LORD PEOPLE COMMON SENSE!!!!!!

[@WilliamEllison]

Wow super cheap rent

[@janicepagano9200]

Will Ellison keep in mind this happened in 2013... and took place in Wisconsin... not NYC

[@crand20033]

What's there to mediate? File for eviction and get him out of the apartment with the sheriff.

[@BannerSound]

I was a bit nervous but all set to mediate my fist "case". When each party arrived, the first thing each one did is roll out a mat then sit on it cross-legged; Turns out they thought this was to be a meditation session.... HAHA, I know, stupid joke- Seriously, this video was great!

[@eyaalem7990]

This guy needs government shelter. Renting is a business if you don’t pay you leave the house. Before you rent save money at least for 6 month coverage.

[@mberge1]

This could be a case where she could offer to pay the tenant to move into a shelter, cash for keys.

[@reneeprivate6772]

Good video for assessment, the scratching pen however is not pleasant

[@camixnova]

Renting shouldn't be a business, as housing is a necessity. I'm not saying don't pay rent or things like that, but the problem is that renting is considered a business, and landlords take advantage from this. In London, U.K., there are very few landlords who really "take care" of their business, such as fixing what needs to be fixed for a decent living, etc... If landlords want to treat renting as a business, then fix the shit that needs to be fixed. I'm saying they take advantage of this because they know that if they don't fix the stuff that gets damaged in time, and if the current tenants decide to leave the property, they will always have someone who will rent their place, as housing is a necessity. Also, how can you even compare it to a business when there are things to take into account such as problems that tenants can go through in their lives? I'm not saying being uncommunicative, but this system needs to go sometimes out of the long paragraphs from tenancy agreements to considerate personal cases. I'm a tenant in a situation where we were all evicted from our property because of a problematic and dangerous tenant, as we were all in a joint agreement. We have all moved out from the current property except for this problematic and dangerous tenant, and the agency and landlord wants money from us as they said “we’re all liable for the rent”, which is what the contract says. But in cases like this, there should be a way to solve this outside of the contract, as we cannot control this person. Not even the police can help. It’s the most stupid thing I’ve ever come across to. I know they want their money, but what can we do about it? We people who can’t afford paying double rent, but it seems that the law is still on the landlord’s side. We cannot even afford a solicitor. That’s why we pay rent, because we do not have saved money for a mortgage yet. And yet, we are only able to get a place through rent when at the end the money we’re paying in rent would be the same money we would be paying for a place that is ours. We tenants are paying landlords’ mortgages, which is unfair. Renting a place should be less than when you’ve bought a place. The scheme is the same as rent to buy anyway.

[@zelos33333]

"Just so you both know, everything that's said in this room is confidential..." LMAOJKYOUTUBINIT

[@bencarey1682]

its a fake trial

[@melodicman3032]

Landlords are always concerned about their investment especially retired landlords who depend on their investment income to survive. You see, it's all about everyone doing their honest part and doing what's right to each other. If we all loved our neighbors as ourselves there would be no need for courts, police, lawyers, politicians, guns, laws, wars, security systems and whatever else we would need to prevent each other from harming each other.

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[@stevepatton2047]

Line up another place to live..settle all the details..then split on your own, furtively. That way no eviction is stated, the money from jewelry goes to the new place. And voila! Onward.

[@adebodundoyle9173]

Apparently, the mediator is biased and she is also threatening the tenant with eviction. She can see that the tenant is in a fix. I enjoyed watching though as I handle quite a lot of landlord/ tenant issues.

[@sarahholland2600]

She's merely pointing out he's broken the rental contract terms by not paying rent, so legally, his Landlord can evict him. The mediator has no power to evict him that is the Landlords decision: which she can make, legally, because he's broken the terns if his rental contract by not paying . The mediator is doing her Court appointed role, pointing out where the situation is at legally & trying to find a solution for both of them .

[@loriwilliams7868]

There's are resources out there that can help you when times get tough. Alot of people don't know about these resources. He should give money to the landlord out of each check. Shows your trying to show good faith.

[@londa1017]

Many places will not accept partial payments....you have to pay all or nothing...then you face eviction😢

[@nonyabiz550]

Suckers pay rent. If you can afford that, you can afford a little piece of land and old rv