meeting each others parents for the first time (gay couple)

Hello, friends!
In today’s video we wanted to talk about what is was like meeting each other’s parents and families for the first time. Meeting the parents is always a daunting task but even more so in the LGBTQ+ community. We hope you love the video!
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[@G0rd0n1231]

The first time I met my boyfriend’s family was the second time I had ever met him. Neither one of us had any intentions for that to happen on the second date but we were still in college on Thanksgiving break at the time. So when I got to his parents house he and his dad both greeted me which I was kinda shook about and after we chit chatted for a few minutes his dad asked us to help him move old furniture down to the basement lol. Little did I know that after we got done helping his dad, he would then strongly encourage us to come with him to my boyfriend’s grandma’s house which is just located in the next neighborhood over... So yeah I literally met his whole family on the second date but I think it was a cool and easy way to break the ice. It’s now almost been 3 years since then and we’re still happier than ever and we love each others families like they’re our own :)

[@anthonyl.9059]

Dana Deardorff Sounds like such a wonderful story!

[@stalbirdjessiah6457]

I was a 6ft 2-- 200lb Farm Boy who's Partner was a 5ft 2-- 130lb NY Jew Boy. He was my College Professor. We were together for 40 Years and Loved by both our Family's. Now you must remember it was 1974. He Passed Away suddenly 6 years ago at the age of 75.. I won't have changed a thing. Sending Peace and Love to you Both.

[@JRLOC]

Wow that is amazing. What a beautiful gift.

[@Mohammad-pk6vq]

Wow It's amazing You prove Love is Love I wish I could have a partner

[@shanedorival3177]

I met my partners whole family including siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles etc…at his parents 50th wedding anniversary. I wasn’t the only significant other meeting the whole family that day. They were all fantastic, I instantly loved them. I happened to walk in to the kitchen to get another drink and heard them saying to my other half. This guy is a keeper etc… I was a little embarrassed, but walked in and thanked them. We all laughed. 14 years down the road. His parents are no longer with us. But we all have the best relationship. They, like my family are forever at us to get married. Like you guys we are very lucky to have the love and support of both our families.

[@pierrefournier9641]

can we have Jeff’s coming out story ?

[@elissarose1794]

Is anyone else here a straight female who loves watching gay men vlogs? Something about gay mens everyday life is so therapeutic and nice to watch 💜💜🙏

[@jger419]

This is a really interesting observation. I'm a gay man who watches a lot of these gay-men couple videos, and I've noticed in the comment sections of most of them that it's straight women who make the most perceptive and accepting remarks about them. Also, the most enthusiastic. I've wondered about it often! Is it the absence of traditional roles that removes some of the tensions that may be more common in male-female relationships? Is it the fact that they are both men and therefore understand each other better than (generally) men and women do? Or what? I'll be interested to see if any straight women reply to you about it and maybe shed a little light on the question you raised.

[@carlinabestin1645]

@@jger419 I'm from a country in East Africa. Here we are raised taught to respect, obey and serve men (our husbands). Many people have not strayed from this traditional mindset and so healthy relationships are viewed as those with strong commanding men, obedient submissive wives who once married should leave their ideas, perspectives, dreams etc and support their man's 100% and have his babies (in an often toxic demeaning manner) I can come up with a list of men who have told me not to look into their eyes when talking to them coz it's disrespectful. I love watching gay/lesbian couples coz they often come off as equal, supportive, vulnerability, open-minded and most of all, partners. It is not one above the other, they are just two people who complement each other and make each other better. A partnership. (I'm pan btw but that probably means nothing here coz I am bound by societal norms)

[@jger419]

@@carlinabestin1645 Nice to meet you, Cara, I'm Jim from Detroit, USA, and I think you may have come up with the answer. Those qualities of equal partnership do show up in many of the gay and Lesbian You-Tube videos. You're living in a very traditional society (which I hope is showing signs of change), but there are remnants of the same old kinds of attitudes even in the U.S. and Europe. Much progress has been made, but old attitudes die hard. If gay people can be examples of true partnership and show how that looks, it could be a great service as an example of equality for all couples, including men and women.

[@asarob]

It’s a different point of view

[@sirens4562]

And also straight female brains patterns are quite similar to gay male brains so we can understand each other more.

[@ATLcentury334]

I believe we met each other’s parents perhaps 4 to 5 months into the relationship. My husband was raised in a rural setting on a farm. He was still living part time with his folks, but usually shared a house with roommates. I remember him taking me to visit on a Sunday. When we walked through the door, his mother had started making sandwiches for lunch and expected us to eat. We sat around for a while chatting, then went into town with his mom to visit antique stores. When we got back, his mom began preparing Sunday dinner. She showed me where everything was so I could set the table while chatting with her. She was very friendly, his dad somewhat quiet. During dinner his mother suggested that the following month, we come up Friday afternoon and stay the weekend. We were a bit floored. My husband said she had never offered an invitation like that to any other guys he dated. Since it was very generous, we had to accept. The next visit a bit more relaxed, pretty much the same thing except breakfast was involved. She actually asked what I’d like, anything I wanted and she made it. It went that way for several months whenever we visited for a weekend. After about 6 months she was more relaxed and said I could fix anything I wanted myself. We became very comfortable with each other. After about a year, one Sunday afternoon I said I was going to take a nap. About 20 minutes later my husband snuck in for a little afternooner. About 10 minutes later his mom walked in on us, she turned around and closed the door, quickly. I started giggling, my husband asked “what just happened?”. I told him nothing. We emerged from his room about 20 minutes later. I asked in general “who needs a cocktail?”. Of course everyone did. It’s been 33 years now and both sets of parents are gone. We miss everyone. The holidays are boring now.

[@lendwatkins5424]

My partner and I have been together for 24 years and when all our family got together, Wild! Now I understand why my partner Brad and I get along so well together the Caos! was off the chains! But the one thing that connects our families through all the heartaches and craziness! was how both sides knew how much we loved each other because of my Baby! boo! Boo! is my ride or die. When families see how your eyes connect and how your heart beats as one. They work hard to make life happy! It's chemistry It's destiny! I can't wait to see you guys married and hopes it's a magical moment that last forever!

[@joshbaker430]

I think my parents and family ended up loving my husband more than they loved me. 😀❤️🌈

[@were-all-human9427]

storytime .... lol

[@song7087]

Me: mom can you make me a sandwich? My mom: go make your own My boyfriend comes downstairs My mom: hey what do you want to eat? 😃 Me: hello 👋 🙄

[@were-all-human9427]

@@song7087 your mum: screams / winks / or "you been at that for last 20 minutes".... or ...

[@song7087]

We're-all- Human huh?

[@Mo_laoshi]

''oh he is bringing another one home"'hahahaha.

[@TaylorandJeff]

莫小茉 he’s so mean to me

[@The_Black_Caps]

😂😂😂😂​@@TaylorandJeff

[@jamilwehbe6945]

You both are: pure,caring and lovely.

[@orelee5319]

Taylor's teeth are whiter than his shirt and Jeff's official chapsticks provider 😂😂

[@simonleaf2765]

Both your families seem really friendly . It will be lovely when they meet up on your wedding day.

[@rhmua7110]

''that was uhm... fun.. do you need some chapstick?'' lmao

[@TaylorandJeff]

always have his back lol

[@petermiglino9655]

I'm always excited when I see you've uploaded a new video! You two are amazing role models for me. Love you guys❤️!!

[@jamesr.1876]

OMG, Taylor's little moves are way toooo cute

[@allenelliott9729]

So happy you guys came along, I started watching at Christmas and been watching ever since. Stay happy lookout for eachother always. You make me feel good to be gay 🤗

[@JesusisKing602]

I don't really know you guys personally but I'm genuinely happy that you found each other.

[@itamar7548]

Video of the year (would be): Taylor and Jeff meeting with Mark and Ethan.

[@marcelofg1119]

I was living with my boyfriend for more than 5 years already ,far from my family . We weren't out yet. And yes, of course they knew it. His family has always been accepting. So we stayed over on our first trip to see them, we were in the same room but separated beds, next morning I was talking to my mom in the living room when my boyfriend shouted from the bedroom, "vida" or life, where are my black trunks? To what I replied, "why on earth should I know it?! It was such an awkward couple of seconds. Anyway they got along very well specially with my grandparents. My grandad 90 yo, later said in front of a crowded house, with aunts, uncles and cousins," in every generation of my family we had or have a bachelor" , to avoid saying gay. 😬🤭We were the last ones to leave his house and by the door he said to my boyfriend he wished all the happiness to us and that he's very welcome to the family. It was one of the best days of my life hearing that from him.

[@instasingingvids3529]

marcelo fg wow that gave me so much hope. It’s rare someone from that generation is so accepting I think. It was like he was glad you didn’t have to live a lie and hide your true selves

[@fredricweber872]

Really enjoyed this vlog. Carl & I had similar experience, but my family are so liberal it was easy, Carl's family became accepting & they looked at me as a friend who "saved" their son. As brilliant as my husband is, he struggled, but after 15 years it's a piece of cake. Same sex relationships have come a long way in a decade.

[@der22672]

You guys are incredibly lucky to have such loving and supporting parents/families. A lot of gay people sadly don't. ❤️❤️

[@CharitysMama]

Lol i,loved how Parker kept bringing toys

[@keithreynolds3801]

This session was fantastically awesome, guys. Totally tuned into every word. Outstanding. Parker was fabulous with her engaging you two, as you were engaging with us. Thanks J&T

[@maxvaldes5922]

Both of you are just very thoughtful and wonderful … love the Doggie 👏👏👏👏🌺🌺🌺♥️😘😊

[@nunewsmama3461]

I really appreciate how you relate with and respect each other. I wish you the best for the future.

[@mitchelldavey2023]

We have been together for 26 years. Our parents, siblings and inlaws have never met. We have separate relationships with each family. Both families don’t travel and live an 18 hour drive apart.

[@ivicamadar8803]

You are very dear to me, and I love watching you because I see you are honest ... I am waiting for your new video of cooking something new while we are quarantined because in my country we are slowly quarantining! Big hug for both of you! :)

[@bradleyf3224]

Awesome vlog! Not a topic often discussed BUT an important one ☝️👍

[@kevincannon6045]

The first time I met my mother in law she tried her best to drive a wedge between us. Pointing out my partners bad points. She then showed me baby pictures of my partner though after this we actually got together officially. For 26 years now she has always tried to control her children. His father and my parents were great, my parents used to give us their bed when we stayed with them, When they met it was a battle of the mothers as to who could show most appreciation of the pair of us.

[@darrylb9872]

I Love that T. has officially added J. to the channel. Now that's Love💕👍🥰

[@tomcoyne7267]

Thank you for sharing. It's nice to watch this video post wedding! Fun to see you in your old apartment too knowing how you have evolved into the new home on Long Island and the apartment in NYC. I'm sure that there is still lots more to come as you continue to live the good life that you both deserve. All the best from Hell's Kitchen in NYC!

[@TheSmilecamera]

You guys are so sweet together and very lucky to have found each other.

[@loom1c]

Love your outlook on life. Both come across extremely casual about your relationship, engagement and life together. When I think Taylor said "inlaws" there seemed be total acceptance of Jeff and Jeff's family. It was a done deal for both. Taylor's family seemed to really accept Jeff. Actually I don't know how either set of parents could be anything other than accepting. It seems any parent would want their child to be with that one person that is loved and gives love. The both of you are an inspiration.

[@michelinearthebise2783]

you are both adorable! i love your video. i am a straight female and i think gay men in love are the sweetest ever!

[@richardengelhardt582]

My father loved my bf at first sight, as did my grandparents, my aunt and uncle, as well as my little brother. My mother was "fine" - it was she who suggested I bring him home for Christmas - but she is a reserved personality and it wasn't until we had our first child that she became lovely and gushy. My bf's family is Thai. But they had known their son is gay for 10 years. His father was fine when we met, but he fell very ill very soon thereafter and died, so we never had the chance to become close. My bf's mother is ice. She has no interest to engage with me. After 20 years of trying, I've now given up on her.

[@tplmic5866]

You are such wonderful guys. And this brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for being so transparent and loving.

[@helenm4357]

I walked right up to the door (I was expected) past the dogs who never made a peep and knocked on the door. The meeting was fine but the dogs were in the doghouse. Apparently I was the one and only person they ever let through.

[@sonyeonsarang]

I love that the channel has both your names now......

[@zackherybarnham8060]

Hi Taylor and Jeff! MY FAVORITE COUPLE OF ALL TIME. I just want to say Thankyou from the bottom of my heart! You always serve us outstanding yet classic contents! You both always put a smile on my face. You never failed to make my soul complete. Always remember that I will never get tired of loving and supporting you unconditionally. You will always have a special place in my heart! I wish you nothing but the happiness and love you deserve on this world. I always pray for you and your family's safety amidst this current health issues. Hopefully someday I could get a chance to meet you. Have a great day ahead full of happiness and positivity. Loveyou! You'll forever be my happy pill! Sending all of these from the Philippines. Love, Zack! 🇵🇭❤️✨ #TeamTaylorandJeff

[@erlend9936]

I was going to spend the last few days of Christmas Holiday at my BFs parents house after us dating for about 6-7 months when we were about 20 years old. To get from my town to his I had to get on a 7-8 hour bus ride which included two ferrys. The first ferry about 2 hours in was okay, but I was feeling a bit nauseous, thinking it's just some nerves. As I get closer and closer towards the second ferry, I become really ill combined with EXTREME nervousness - I end up vomiting during the ride over the fjord LOL. Not sure if it's nerves or an actual flu, I arrive at the bus station where BF picked me up. We get to his parents house where I couldn't shake their hands or hug them, and I couldn't join for dinner as his mom is a nurse and couldn't risk giving the entire family the stomach flu!!! LOL. That was almost 6 years ago now and everything with his family is great:)

[@alb4297]

I have never clicked a notification faster! I love you guys so much ❤️

[@primoleahy5088]

So lovely to hear such loving families and thats how it should be xx

[@were-all-human9427]

great vid....accepting families make our lives more rounded.... though I do think many dads still have that initial picture in their head of their son in the bedroom question... but just as children usually dont enquire after their parents love life detail, there really is no reason for this thought process by dads. Love is love, and what we do in the bedroom with our lover is private. The first stay over at parents or family vacation can raise eyebrows if the boys arnt offered the double beded room ! lol x

[@rickson7575]

I loved Jeff's shirt

[@johnhenley970]

We'd love to hear Jeff's coming out story!

[@davidrock2771]

So happy you both have such a loving accepting families. The love you show for each other must make them very proud. You are both so beautiful inside and out! Take care of each other and that beautiful fur baby- be safe!❤

[@markbrown3558]

This is old video that I’ve previously viewed but it reminds me you owe us an update on how you two are doing - please - thanks

[@henrysousa7371]

Was looking foward to chef jeff n taylor cookshow. Great video.

[@discostu1543]

Jeff mouth has life by its own

[@yummboy2]

You two seem very well matched; both handsome, charming, intelligent and mature. The single thing I appreciate the most is the mutual regard you two share. I think you both shared some very good advice about family introductions.and yes, you both got lucky but you both realize it. When is the wedding?

[@chipwilliams403]

you guys are fantastic. There are so many young gay couples out there that I hope are watching your videos. You have so much wisdom and insight to life. I wish I had found that when I had been your age. Keep up the good work and keep posting good videos to help and support the LGBTG+ community.

[@JRLOC]

Wish there were more guys like them.

[@noanlopes5138]

My face on this whole video like: 🥺😍

[@HRHBen176]

important question: is jeff wearing a pajama shirt? 😂

[@ns.2417]

Great video! Love you guys!

[@wmoses29]

This is truly a great video. Very informative and heartwarming.

[@TehxHope]

thanks for sharing, you guys. indeed, you’re lucky and fortunate to both have such accepting families

[@davedave2146]

Do more story time’s like this pls

[@TaylorandJeff]

Dave Dave would love to! Any topics you recommend?

[@alessiadigregorio6174]

@@TaylorandJeff i would like to watch "reacting to old high school pictures" 😂 i think its a funny topic. Love you guys😗

[@JRLOC]

Travel stories, awkward moments...more boyfriend quizzes pls! (~;

[@davedave2146]

Taylor Phillips & Jeff O'Donnell I agree with J RLOC travel stories, boy friend moments, awkward moments,

[@dbjniinii1689]

i smiled throughout the whole video

[@chuckvaughn]

Going back and watching old videos of you guys. It's funny how we meet the ones we love. I was married to a woman and at 35 woke up that I was gay. I didn't have a clue. I just didn't identify. Me and my husband now met online in a gay rodeo sight. We talked for more than a year while he dated someone and I was raising my son in Arizona. One day one of us made the statement, too bad you don't like me.. and after a pause, it was like... What??? I thought he was so far out of my league that he would never be interested in me. Been together since 2011 and married for going on 8 years! As Jeff says, when you know, you know!!! Love you guys 💕💕😘

[@manuachiever4781]

Today I just saw your video for the first time,i really like it a lottttt Tq for sharing your story and encouraging us to have a lovely life like you guys Lots of love from India ,have a lovely future 💞❤😍🤗😄👍😃😀

[@marlenemacfarlane6199]

Just watched this video very interesting great info ❤️❤️

[@calvindavis3641]

Jeff has to do a coming out video. Taylor has already done one.

[@RobertoCortez202]

Im 20 & single but this is goals

[@sirens4562]

Robert Cortez I’m 15 closeted and still single!😰😤😫

[@hengkimu.n7741]

Good bless you guys 😭😍😍😍😍😍

[@sallyjanecampos5241]

Hello I love both of ya'll and ya'll are two awesome people ,good couple

[@christophercavanaugh6437]

Thanks 🙏 for doing this video it means a lot, stay safe love 💕 you both

[@kieran4155]

YOU CHANGED YOUR CHANNEL NAME! About damn time 💖

[@progressongs4346]

Gay dads represented in animated children’s classic nursery rhymes. As sung by Broadway’s CJ Pawlikowski (who currently stars as Bob Gaudio in “Jersey Boys” in NYC) the lyrics to “Five Little Monkeys” have been changed to “their daddies called the doctor and the doctor said.” Now is the time for representation! #progressongs

[@johnvirgilalberto5132]

How sweet..I hope i can find someone who will love me too..

[@sirens4562]

Sir Juan Vlog same!😚😩

[@johnvirgilalberto5132]

@@sirens4562 hi

[@theuglypaulus]

So happy to watch this episode

[@dr20jly96]

Love from Ireland 🇮🇪!

[@ahannon]

Sameee

[@mariozuniga1286]

Aren’t they the cutest couple!! Like correct me if I’m wrong

[@MrBthompson1992]

I have to know...did you not post about him on social media and stuff until you came out to your parents or do they not follow you on there? What made you want to tell them? It took me longer than I wanted it to to tell mine😬...Love this video and you guys! 💙

[@greggtilghman6349]

The hardest thing about an 11 year relationship ending badly is when the in-laws LOVE you as much as your ex and they feel guilty (with no reason) for him choosing drugs and his dealer over you and they don't like his new partner and you feel awkward going to see them because you might want to run into your ex and YOU DON'T WANT TO RUN INTO YOUR EX!

[@yosuarilandolubis1935]

Chapstick chalenge please lmfao

[@lugnut4848]

Great video guys! XOXO!!!

[@randiruiz96]

Your In-laws seams Ok with the introduction of your other half. Thank U for sharing. Good Luck With your In-laws. May U have Their blessings. Along with Your relationship that U both have with each othe.

[@clm6184]

Taylor, Did Parker bite you on the butt? Is that why you went "ouch"? Lol!

[@burthuffman2802]

Hey Guys. Loved the video do more. Parker is a scene stealer! thnx

[@tomdeininger7379]

I wish I were like you guys. I am older and it still was not acceptable to be gay-not at all. I had told someone, who told my father. he was furious and I got beaten pretty good. Years later now I've had an unhappy time lately. I know it will get better, I just know it will, it always does.

[@williamm8240]

Cool video. Thanks for sharing.

[@dane7936]

Cuteness overload ❤

[@austinwilson4944]

KZbin name change ooo I see it

[@lthiem101]

Jeff's mom should have known long before. :)

[@robertschwartz4810]

This isn't about meeting parents, but when I met my college roommate's parents, his mother told him that I'm the Devil. Probably because. I'm Jewish and from a big city, not because I'm gay.

[@Juan-xp5mn]

You are the best couple!!

[@stevehofmaster7489]

Loved this❤💙❤

[@arnaldosrojas6985]

hi jeff are you sings, I was watching a video with Jeremy Jordan , and one of the singer with him , I was think that was you ,if is not ,he look like you anyway I am glad for your relationship with taylor both look very happy. Congratulation.

[@JRLOC]

Thank you guys for entertaining us. ❤️❤️

[@dabpcc]

You guys are sweet and cool.

[@melodyphillips2185]

Glad you are happy

[@jimwilloughby]

Taylor, Coming from Massachusetts, I get Jeff's NJ background so I'm curious about your's. Are you a midwest city boy, a country boy, or a farm boy. A northern Indiana, central , or southern?

[@osmartrejo7726]

saludos desde monterrey mexico!! I love it guys

[@michaelmercurio2312]

What parents wouldn’t love you both?

[@onevision8097]

Good job guys.

[@Lorenzo11281]

Love you guy

[@DennisQLy-qx2em]

(gay couple) ...you know, you can just say couple lol

[@CRiver396]

How come you didn't call the channel 'Taylor and Jeff'

[@TaylorandJeff]

Chunky Rivera we will eventually but since it’s still new we want people to be able to find us easily (:

[@vbflyboy]

HMMM...I watched another of your videos where you said you met on November 10-11, not May. I'm confused...

[@greggtilghman6349]

My parents were Jehovah's Witnesses so my coming out story and the first and only time my ex met my mother was not a pretty site. My dad has NEVER met my ex. My mother found out we were becoming an item and stalked us until she caught up with us in town and confronted us "to straighten me out". It was a nightmare.