Men Answer 1 Tough Question...

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[@marpear0]

I personally think that when men cry it is not less masculine. It shows that they actually have a heart and feelings.

[@heylol4363]

fuck thats sad as shit. I am so sorry

[@haidermir1019]

Yes as a human Both can cry its simple when it is hard for girl to control emotions she cries and when it is hard for boys to control emotions he cries

[@ComedyGlor]

@@insurgenthiphop5870 sorry that that happened but u shouldn’t even want to be with someone like that

[@noshba8327]

what makes me cry is absolutely everything. crybabies where u at?

[@arianaloera7453]

Nosh The Unicorn legit anything can make me cry. Whether it’s sad or beautiful.

[@Guzelkz]

👩‍🎤

[@robertdowneyjr5478]

Nosh The Unicorn *Same. It’s hard my guy. I get screamed at in class sometimes lmao and it makes me so sad and I can’t help but cry but I try to stay strong. Not by the teachers, but the students.*

[@noshba8327]

@@robertdowneyjr5478 that sucks, scream back at them. students aint shit, just get that education

[@janae8609]

Reportjng to service

[@mariephillips5188]

You should ask people “are you afraid to die?” And explain their answer.

[@AfricanGirl]

Aren't we all afraid?

[@AfricanGirl]

Most people are. depends where you are at in your life n other factors

[@fugue3823]

Marie Phillips hope I don’t get asked that because oh boy

[@AfricanGirl]

@@fugue3823 I want to read your answer. are you afraid of not being here one day nomore?

[@Whimswirl]

@@AfricanGirl I've actually never been afraid of my own death, I'm more afraid of the people in my life dying. I'm afraid of the pain, as I've heard that dying is very painful but other than that I'm not afraid of dying.

[@TheRacingWind]

People trust you so much Thoraya, you bring out this really amazing vulnerability in everyone you interview. I love these, the bring tears to my eyes.

[@judeless77]

Men want to talk about their emotions and feelings, we’re just trapped around others who assume toxic masculinity is a default setting. It’s not.

[@Mathew1516]

I get swollen around the eyes when I see innocent people being hurt, like a school shooting or civilians killed in war.. sometimes a tear or two will leak out. Same with when I reflect back on mistreating ppl who didn't deserve it. Videos like these are making me ugly cry. I've been able to forgive my family for a pretty neglectful upbringing riddled with bad influence and pain that spill out into their child rearing. Hearing people work through similar things live in the moment, gets me leaking.. I know how hard it is for them, but they deserve it! You come out of that gauntlet so clean and new when you can understand, forgive and drop your baggage, and truly move on in peace. You're an angel Thoraya! ps. Seeing good people randomly help others for no other reason than their loving heart told them to, also gets me balling! Thank you for all you do!

[@EtherealNxte]

Honestly as I've grown up (20 years old right now), I've come to understand a lot about emotions and how to just not bottle it up. It's okay to cry when you're down brothers. Doesn't make you any less of a man. Don't let anything hold you down and pull you back. Always look up and push forward. 💪🏽😤

[@DrAdnan]

Med school makes everyone cry 😂

[@savedbygrace_alone]

Adnan A 😂 Facts !

[@DrAdnan]

N Madikizela Are you a med student too?

[@savedbygrace_alone]

I’m an Emergency Unit doctor now 😄 but I remember quite vividly the tears I cried in Med School. 😂

[@Nuuu007]

true. I have med school exams coming up and today I had three break downs

[@ioa8456]

Looool true af😂😂😂

[@valerie9999]

Crying is an essential human emotional reaction. When I was little I swore to myself that I would never marry a man who I never saw cry. There is power in crying. I often feel stronger afterwards.

[@mikeyaharkel1537]

Honestly last time I cried was a few minutes ago. Crying every night for the past nights and months silently in the bathroom on the floor so no one can here me 😞 depression, diabetes, acne,failure, failing health, my family getting older, working so hard and getting no where, feeling like Gods given up on me, not wanting to be here anymore tons more to add to the list

[@LaserrSharp]

How’s your sleep?

[@shamanite]

God loves you so much, even if you don't feel it right now, He'll never give up on you

[@ayshahilton5624]

Heavenly Father loves you mikeyah. Life is hard and sometimes it feels like the sun won't cone up. But I promise you that the sun will come up. Life will get better whether that's tomorrow in a week or in a month, eventually life will be tolerable again. Keep pushing you got this!

[@anieti006]

I have been there. My whole life falling apart. Tried and failed at a lot of things. Even had my folks give up on me. Over the years, I have made a lot of promises to my mom about the things ill do for her when I 'make it'. I am still yet to make it. My mom has stopped believing and my Dad never really did. Seeing them getting older and frailer gets to me too, knowing I am running outta time to pay them back. Even experienced failing health too. I used to cry alone a lot till I realise that the change I seek is up to me. So I did a 360 with my life style. I started by feeding my mind with positives only by being careful with what I watch or listen to and the people I hang with. I seek positive energy only. I started watching what I eat. 0 junk or processed food, only fresh, natural and organic food, mainly vegetables. I started exercising regularly (by the way when you feel depressed do a very light exercise and it will give you instant relieve). I also stepped up my hustle to help me meet my financial goals. I also learned to accept the things I cannot change while working hard to change the things I can. My life right now is not perfect, I am far from where I wanna be, heck I still cry sometimes, but now I feel in control and definitely happier. Sharing your struggles with others like you just did helps too. People may not be able to physically help but just sharing helps lesson the burden.

[@ozzyhokozy]

I have been there and you can overcome that with self love and with faith. Faith in you and faith in that you deserve to be happy. Good luck. It’s up to you. We all wear our crosses on back.

[@AlissaandJager]

Seeing other people cry makes me cry :,(

[@Bebe-xn4tk]

Thoraya back at it again with another epic video. I love u girl!!!!! ❤️

[@solitarelee6200]

That guy at the end who said "it sucks being a man" really hit me. I'm intersex and recently made the decision to stop taking estrogen, which has resulted in my natural testosterone being way more prominent. One thing that shocked me was that it's a lot harder for me to cry now... even when I want to, sometimes I just can't. It can be very frustrating, and makes me feel like I'm not as in touch with my emotions as I used to be.

[@VisionaryofMirage]

Thanks for sharing, he struck a chord with me too. Growing up I think I physically forgot how to cry, because years went by as a teenager when I barely cried at all. I've always been emotional, but internalised and bottled up a lot. It was only in my early 20's that I re-learned how to let it all out; it didn't come easily, but it sure feels healthier in the long run.

[@a12i9]

"If I wanna cry, I can't do it" is also 100% me and I'm a woman. Somehow emotional situations make me numb and only sometimes when I recall it later I suddenly start crying. I've always been like that, which makes it super uncomfortable to cry in front of people. It's one of the worst things for me and I wish it wasn't. Almost nobody knows me crying..

[@choosecarefully408]

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[@tetrayonaknight9346]

Seeing my mom cry would break my heart

[@remmyd9288]

What makes me cry? *Watching these videos* Love it

[@castle4328]

Majorly underated.... The little things that matter.. I love your videos.. all so heart warming

[@caitlinhicks1546]

i really love these deep emotional questions, the way that they give you that little peak into someone’s vulnerability is so surreal.

[@sillymug44]

When I've been going through chaotic times and tearing myself apart about my inability to just carry on, and then I see/hear/remember/am told something really warm and relatable. Then I feel so broken about how I've been trying so hard and don't deserve the pain of worry and self-criticism, but I also no longer feel like I'm alone or hopeless. And that feeling of sharing both sadness and mutual love with the rest of the world just makes me cry, whether it's because of a song or a memory or something a friend told me..

[@mathildemerce2669]

Well I was damn sad until the guy at 6:58 made me smilebecause of how handsome he was, had to go back a bit to listen to what he said tbh ahahah! Very nice video tho, I really enjoyed how honest this stories were and how they weren't afraid of speaking about what makes them emotional! Loved it ♥

[@luck4183]

Im a men and i dare to admit i always cry at night while showering, thinking about how tough life is and how stupid i was to fuck up a perfect relationship and reflecting of the good memories i had with my girlfriend. Those late night thoughts always make me emotional.

[@LolaBug99]

When a man is strong enough to cry I find it beautiful

[@7mdso145]

Well...this channel made me cry after 5 years of being feelingless and pain

[@brittbezemer9269]

what makes me cry? like, everything??? i’m an extremely emotional person its INTENSE

[@NostalgiCrazy]

August 2, 2019 The last time I cried was surprisingly over 2 music videos: Alan Walker's "Different World" and Michael Jackson's "Earth Song". I had seen both prior to crying, but I guess the power of those songs and videos really hit me that night. Not to mention, depressive mood swings are always unpredictable 😓

[@darleybobarley]

This video was so well put together. Props! Your channel and The Skin Deep, love your guys' content.

[@Sento35]

The idea that Men don't cry is the biggest Feminist lie told.

[@janinalahn477]

The Boy in 1:18 let me discover one of my favorite songs! Thank you for that ❤️

[@MsAnchovey]

Being true to your sad, happy, crying emotions shows your not only a man but a honest man.

[@ttkriftel]

When my favorite sports team won a major trophy and when I got told that my father has got cancer were the last times I cried

[@roxana4218]

The guy at 1:07 - he is so beautiful. Take good care of your heart. I really hope you found peace and joy.

[@Stylomagic]

3:48 the pain in his eyes... I am so sorry for your friend and for you losing him...

[@Anonymous-ev3rl]

the thing that made me tear up in this video is hearing the little kid saying that he cries when his brother is sad and grown ups mostly said some really tough situations and problems...honestly growing up is really hard and brings so many problems and stress...

[@abdelhakimbouaziz6000]

You are brilliant in what you do respect !

[@YoanBoyyyyy]

Guam is always home chel'u 🇬🇺 love your videos, just found your channel. Keep up the good work 💪🏽

[@clarity2517]

That one guy saying nostalgia is one of the most relatable things I've heard in a really long time ❤

[@creative.coderie]

I found your channel at a time of need. You ask so many great questions that made me reflect on my life and make peace with myself. I've been trying to let go of so much negativity that have resided in my mind for so long and now, because of you, I could finally let go. Thank you.

[@clairebarnes4413]

I cried like a baby when my boys were born, unstoppable emotional tears. Unconditional love!

[@dallasmcpeek6630]

the boy that said love Simon that he cried 6 times I felt that like I love that movie cuz it actually hits me hard and I cry like a bunch I love that movie so

[@heyitstay15]

River of tears the song makes me cry. It just makes me think about life and my relationships with my parents.

[@butlerdawgs78]

Also cried during Big Fish.... CoCo made me lose my shit.Also military surprise homecomings

[@Sunshine-ct3zq]

Cry as much, dnt hold back, u will feel light, strong n energetic....

[@pun988]

it amazes me that we live in a society that still shames men for crying. its can be beautiful, painful, funny, cathartic but its always necessary and makes us grow and heal as people. Cry if you need to, its human and its important. people seem to feel that they will burden their friends if theyre sad and want to talk about it but in reality youll make that friendship stronger and let them have a moment to feel useful to you and understand you. its never a burden to offload your problems with friends. and if someone makes you feel that way it isnt you thats the problem there, its their lack of empathy and patience.

[@Hani-sh7fb]

When I left womb OMG are u even real?!😂

[@kiav0820]

Imagination is more important than knowledge.

[@bronwenkubiak7666]

Watching this video made me cry

[@chelseat3341]

I love your videos so much!! I look forward to them all week!!

[@JamezMichael]

You should do one where you ask them about the first time they were in love or the last time they were in love or both lol I just feel like it’d be nice to see people talk about that

[@akiral9234]

3:41 - 3:54 the fact that he is smiling with so much sadness and pain in his eyes makes me cry 5:49 this smiles i swear to god are killing me the last thing that made me cry was this vid 5 seconds ago

[@cindynguyen4260]

i've found your channle in an unexpectedly way and really love it pls keep doing your meaningful work 👐👐

[@alicehong7809]

I have read that some study shows that crying makes you happy. Interesting.

[@ayushkuruvilla5900]

This is honestly a really hard question to answer 😐

[@MadA-br1db]

So many sweat and pure answers 😭

[@TaakeItEasyy]

What a sweet question - no matter what gender :)

[@havenwhisper]

Thoraya your channel is amazing. Thank you for coming up with that concept and sharing these videos. They make me not hate humanity as much as I usually do!

[@Qubicle.]

yay finally caught up! so...who else didn't know holocene and proceed to look it up? oh, and I cried like a baby when I watched "I am Sam".

[@jjlemley7261]

this video made me cry

[@kathy7613]

I cry every Day..

[@gasasmk]

I can 101% relate to the guy who cries every time he watches Big Fish

[@e-reptiledysfunction2243]

As a man I don't cry, sometimes I just sweat from my eyes

[@danielleohare3364]

I Cry Everyday... Missing my Daughters, Situation that's Not Fair, Right.

[@sizamnonon]

I cry every time just thinking that one day I might live without my beloved ones. My parents, my two brothers and my husband😞 that's why I always pray God to take me before them🙏🙏🙏

[@dufflebaggz5889]

I can't cry.... That hurt more than crying

[@ilhem9565]

Father and son relationships always make me cry too.. this video is so good❤❤🙌

[@Gailsla10]

What makes me cry is the fact that most men have this pressure to hold in emotions, because of society's expectations.

[@user-jc9cj3tq1e]

this is so beautiful!

[@jmarieeemint4907]

2:49 Nostalgia. Omg i feel you.

[@aroosak1434]

The guy at 1:01 looks very much like Shia LaBeauf

[@issaciams]

What makes me cry is watching this video. 😭

[@tifanihikmanisa]

The moment when a man cried because of a woman is actually true love 😭 I've met those men but I left and hurted them, can't hate myself even more

[@enDai_]

This video made me cry.

[@arteinighters]

I love this so freaking much

[@petiteearthling4324]

1:23 when he said Holocene by Bon Iver awww 😍

[@meghannslays6101]

I cried watching the video...

[@samvaldes2682]

@thoraya is some of your footage ever shot near or at either MCRD and Camp Pendleton/Oceanside? I ask because I am a former Marine who lived in San Diego Metro from Sep 97 to 9/8/2001. I haven´t been since...that´s what makes me tear up.

[@luklomlikam2198]

Apart from many other things, this made me cry too 👌

[@Summerheart714]

I love your videos! What camera and lens do you use?

[@TheCheseMonster]

A star is born 😍😢

[@Hyunesbuns]

The guy at 1:40 is absolutely gorgeous

[@Simba______]

Nellie.L - But his teeth are????

[@jackien404]

Bon Iver's songs are full of emotion.

[@alyssasantos2571]

i love this. this is very inspiring to me, i kinda wanna ask people for myself now 🤣

[@carlychardavoyne7759]

Omg I’m crying

[@aryangupta1971]

What makes me cry? Seeing how the friends cast has got old and we can't get more episodes

[@its_reckoning6667]

I wish people can see through looks and enjoy personalities

[@laceyluzano]

2:49 when I left Guam 🇬🇺 me, too 😢

[@juliagomez8304]

Seeing old people alone. 😞

[@livelovelearn1986]

I am sam!! Ive never been able to make out through that movie without crying BUT I do cry during movies a lot😂 #empathlife

[@emdermont2218]

Beautiful video, you inspire me😊

[@sofiya4056]

The animated movie Coco is amazing , I love it!😁

[@BeaMash]

Listening to the halo 3 menu music makes me cry

[@Bebe-xn4tk]

When the guy said he cried two months ago due to depression. I felt that😞

[@ItzMidnighti]

Bebe’ me too

[@RaiLongLee]

@Sideways Rain you do know but you don't want to confront it, its okay tho

[@ainaaina4505]

the feels got me too ❤️💔

[@RaiLongLee]

@Sideways Rain thats prob it, sucks growing up

[@veronicaleyton2576]

Sideways Rain I hope you are feeling more happy, at peace.(:

[@naynaynay324]

The wind when I'm biking.

[@simplechicful]

nay naynay The noise of the wind? Or what about it makes you emotional?

[@darleybobarley]

Thanks for making me laugh before I head back from lunch! ;)

[@issaciams]

Lol

[@meinegedanken3220]

@@simplechicful he wasn't talking about getting emotional, he just cries literally because of the wind, same happens to me while riding my dirtbike 😁😁

[@isabeladams80]

BAHAHAHA

[@stefaniewein4]

It was so touching when the one man said he cried, because he was overwhelmed by love. Beautiful!

[@bensaid909]

When men are emotional , it's beautiful

[@alexandrapfab654]

Ben Said replace men with humans

[@whengrapespop5728]

Alexandra Pfab I think he/she wrote that because men are “supposed to be tough”, so seing/hearing about their vulnerability and sensitive side is nice as it gives them depth. Humans in general, yes, but OP was addressing men in his/her comment.

[@bensaid909]

When Grapes Pop 👍

[@alexandrapfab654]

When Grapes Pop Oh yes that makes sense, of course 🙈 I didn‘t want to be mean or anything. Emotions are just beautiful haha

[@whengrapespop5728]

Alexandra Pfab Got you.😊

[@lolosbizarreadventure]

Thoraya: Hi! Carter: i'M cArTer He's so adorable 😭😭

[@joelchungus]

Can you make a children call their dad video? Would love to see it

[@josh-tp3sd]

Yes!!

[@ruvimbovambe7790]

What a great idea!

[@LoudUpstairsNeighbor]

Your kids better call you!

[@naylisyazwina6836]

What if the dad abused the child?

[@LoudUpstairsNeighbor]

@@naylisyazwina6836 ask God for healing and to help you forgive him but you wouldn't have to call him. The abuser has to admit the wrong doing

[@ItsMeChallatDBXV]

What makes me cry is the same that makes you all cry. I'm only human.

[@marcohumbakic7568]

My answer is.. nothing, nothing makes me cry.

[@may-kg8rm]

Marco Stènsruds then you're weak. Lmfao

[@beautiful10381]

@@marcohumbakic7568 lol

[@CupcakeBla]

The hide and seek story gave me goosebumps, I could imagine that must have been such a wonderful moment. I just love when people realise a precious moment while it is still happening, you can really appreciate it completely from start to finish.

[@davomccranko]

Yep. That was so touching ❤️‍🩹

[@hasanax4458]

when he said old people being lonely i FELT THAT it always gets me

[@whatifwewould]

hasanax same loneliness makes me so emotional

[@Kaesewicht]

but do you do anything about it? Like talk to them?

[@pigebarn]

Me too! 😭 Also old people holding hands and/or giving eachother a loving kiss or stroke of the cheek. I love how love sometimes can survive a whole lifetime!

[@rayyanhussein5919]

What makes me cry: Thinking about my parents getting old Watching sad videos about babies Sad scenarios💀

[@xfxaxsxhxixoxnx]

Such a good question. Men you can cry and it’s absolutely okay.

[@jacksonmccann5642]

Alisha Taylor thank you for this comment. So many women reject men that cry

[@StarrySoakedSkiess]

Animals being treated badly makes me cry the most. They are the purest beings on the planet

[@Guzelkz]

Shego you must be vegan then

[@yourfluffyvegancinnamonrol2772]

@@Guzelkz Yes indeed!

[@kiraveritas164]

Same

[@talastra]

Animal cruelty to rats really kills me. Such sweet and generous creatures.