Men are lonely.

[@iambloopy]

Loneliness is a human condition. It’s funny, the more populated the world becomes, the lonelier we feel. I’m surprised you can relate because you have a partner and children but I’m glad you shared 🙏🏿

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@iambloopy Loneliness is definitely a human condition! I’m blessed and grateful to have them in my life. I can only imagine how it would feel like without them 🙏🏽

[@iambloopy]

@@pensonmlotshwa you are quite blessed with so much. May those temporary feelings of emptiness not consume you, there’s so much good surrounding you 🙏🏿

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@iambloopy Sadly it’s not just me… many men feel like this most of the time… Our fathers also felt like this… we just need to talk up more. And build strong communities of support 🫶🏽

[@iambloopy]

@@pensonmlotshwa seconded. As a woman I don’t understand the different thought patterns and feelings men have however I’m glad that you’re creating a community where such “taboo” (shouldn’t be) topics can be shared and discussed. I never knew that this was a thing. Keep sharing ✨

[@nompumelelondlovu2859]

Yoh this touched me alot society is really superficial it's scary. At times I feel like society needs a reset button

[@mosaednamolefe3945]

Love such content brother. Thank you for this

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@mosaednamolefe3945 Thank you for being so supportive 🙏🏽

[@nicosekano5942]

i love being lonely. i believe its a price one has to pay for sanity & solace, ive been lonely my entire life. its more the case now as I moved to another province for work away from my family. ive beem here for 7 months. no social life whatsoever

[@siyandamasala1136]

Thats not healthy though, go out there and live. Hope you find meaning in life❤.

[@sibusisosithole9778]

My brother, I appreciate you sharing this with us (particularly gents). 🤲

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@sibusisosithole9778 Always bro 👊🏾

[@shainemoholola3954]

good talk poi, is really difficult to be vulnerable cos lately they use it against u, expecially women.

[@Mnaoke]

True that.

[@mamofranco]

We don't necessarily use it against u, it's just women we cannot handle a man's problems, we don't know why. Yes girlies will come out here and be like "confide in me" but look at where that has mostly ended up to. It's just nature and has to be accepted, u can even ask ur great great great grandfather. It's best a man confides in his brother, father, close uncle, brother from another mother, male therapist, male figure u just met somewhere etc any man.

[@Mnaoke]

@@mamofranco Only if women, especially black women think the same way.

[@flextensioncord]

Best channel discovery I've made in a while🙌🏼

[@Kat-A-Pilla]

Pen, listening to this you just spoke directly to me. I am a functioning alcoholic, I drink on daily basis just as a coping mechanism. It doesn't affect my work whatsoever. But it's straning my health. I enjoy my own company but at times I feel lonely coz I have been separated for 3 years now. After work It's where I really feel it because I'm going to a home where nobody is waiting for me. So the booze closes that gap.

[@kram9076]

With Jesus you will never feel lonely. ❤

[@dylanmatipa136]

Then you stay alone with Jesus

[@kram9076]

@@dylanmatipa136 I will

[@Nqobilee]

I’ve surrendered my life to Jesus but I still feel lonely 🤍

[@sonininyaniso9683]

..... Are lonely in a crowd!! Meditate!

[@Luk012NW]

I've never felt lonely, but have always felt alone. I've mostly felt alone when in a relationship. Especially when everything was on me and me never having help. The problem had been me dating people that could not be in a position to help. And that made me feel alone a lot

[@bigthangz5489]

Now that im single at the moment, im not feeling alone anymore😂

[@travis_lwazi]

Dope content brvh 🔥🔥

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@travis_lwazi Thank you so much Lwazi 🙏🏽

[@MasegoMutloane]

We hear you Baba...❤❤❤

[@pensonmlotshwa]

@@MasegoMutloane Ngiyabonga kakhulu 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@prodbynhlaromunye]

Siyabonga Bhuti. this is a talk that we all run away from kodwa its the truth.

[@sibusisosimon7327]

Jesus Christ is king.He is the only one who can truly deliver you from lonileness

[@Wenzy_Royal]

This is interesting because i feel adulthood means being independent since its something i have always done as a first born. i like doing things on my own and i never feel lonely. I get uncomfortable when people try to enter my world. The only time i felt deeply lonely was in university and high school.

[@Nqobilee]

I relate to this cause I’m in varsity and the journey is so lonely 🙌🏾. I feel like I’m in a season of isolation whatsoever cause I even had fallouts with people.

[@Nqobilee]

I even went to an all girls’ boarding school but I still felt lonely. You can imagine being in a dorm with + 15 girls but still.

[@bigthangz5489]

Gladly you have children now, so u will never feel lonely again. No matter if the adults in your life are "busy with their own lives" or not etc. Kids always connect to you daily in life. No space to feel alone or lonely no more. My unpopular advice 2 those who feel alone is .... have kids👌😂

[@lorrainemndebele8212]

Then they become teenagers and hanging out with Mom ain't so cool anymore😂

[@theemapsmash]

As long you ensure the kids grow up in a healthy home. It isn't fair to bring kids here to suffer jst so that ure not lonely. Also finding other things to fulfill u can help, faith, have lonely friends as well u won't feel lonely 😂, hobbies etc.

[@bigthangz5489]

Gabor Mate said 'If people dont know you, you will feel lonely'. Im sure you've heard it before. I believe that.

[@yamkelanibojana5658]

I've been alone for months bro I'm not feeling good

[@stephenpato5524]

I hear you bhuti, but share your vulnerabilities with a woman at your own peril.......

[@blessingtsotetsi7940]

It's still easier said than done. You know if you've asked for help in the past and been disappointed countless times whilst you were always available to extend a helping hand it sort of takes something away from you. You end up keeping it all to yourself so as to not be a "burden". We truly are a broken people in so many ways yo. But nonetheless I love the content.❤️❤️ It's speaking to me.🥲

[@sihlemasondo2898]

Deep brother

[@lorrainemndebele8212]

Deep and true, it really hits hard when those you were there for don't return the favour. The challenge is to keep trying to find those who really and truly care for you and to continue to love those you love even more.