Men Fall in Love When You're a Mystery

Men fall in love when you're a mystery.
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On a deep level, masculine men know that the woman of their dreams is not easy to get. She takes her time getting to know men, and because she knows her value, she can take her time in dating, ultimately leading to her being mysterious. Men want this. Men want to figure you out piece by piece and want the satisfaction of winning you over! They don’t want everything right away.
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[@PB22559]

You're projecting. Men don't want mysterious women. It's women who crave for mysterious men. Men also don't care about your career despite the fact that women think men care about those things. Men find your life 'experiences' a total turn off. Here's what men care about when it comes to finding a wife- YOUTH, LOOKS, and VIRGINITY. The reason men aren't marrying women anymore is because men don't want to marry used up/leftover women and unfortunately, most of you modern women fall into that category. Yes, men will still have sex with you but they won't commit. You might be able to find a simp to settle for you but women don't want simps.

[@josephinesyoutubechannel1770]

I’ve heard this before. The premise which is not mentioned in this video is the man becomes infatuated with a fantasy basically by filling the gap that the “mystery” provides with an illusion. This is temporary and NOT real love. Once he gets to know the real you, the fantasy he created in his head will shatter. This is where his “feelings” change. Remember, no games or strategies are needed when someone really wants you.

[@sandral5086]

That’s what I was thinking, what happens long term?

[@Pyxelles]

There are tons of male relationship coaches who are saying the same thing. These are masculine men who also know how men think because they are men. It's nothing to do with playing games but it's a known face that men place value on what they work hard to get. Why do you think that once a woman starts showing real interest in the man she likes, he starts losing interest and starts pulling away? Why do you think the "good girls" always get treated the worst? No healthy masculine man will be deeply attracted to a woman who hands him everything on a plate so easily and gives him nothing to work for! Biologically and psychologically men were designed to initiate and pursue and get the woman. Like I'd mentioned before it's not about playing games or treating men badly but knowing your worth as a feminine women not to have standards so low you easily fall for breadcrumbs. Yes when a woman is interested in a man, she also needs to reciprocate the attention to let the man know she is interested.

[@Diarrheagod]

But if he’s genuinely interested in getting to know you, won’t he ask questions that reflect that? A man that doesn’t ask questions about you isn’t trying to get to know you. Ladies need to pay attention to this.

[@angiegigiari1111]

Exactly

[@deborahg427]

With my husband there was no need for me to be inconsistent or mysterious. He just pursued me, was consistent, and I just responded accordingly. While, I understand it’s never a good idea to wear your heart on your sleeve right away, I still reciprocated his interest and took things slowly. The right man will be happy to go at your pace.

[@hgf5127]

Being mysterious means not a clingy or needy person, not the games of pretending to be busy. Just live your life and not giving too much information about yourself. Have a normal good conversation, be yourself and let the man do the pursuing if he likes you after that. Mysterious in a way that he wants to know you more because you are fun but reserved.

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo!

[@hgf5127]

@@siphevuzani Yes like I said be yourself, it's exhausting not to be yourself. The definition of 'reserved' in my comment is not holding back your true personality but your awareness that you don't give away details that are not meant to be said that early. Make light conversation then let him decide. You don't spill all to a person you are not serious yet.

[@MrStudGuy]

Men fall in love when you treat a man special and you’re loyal.

[@tanyakas4111]

😂they still cheat if u loyal

[@MrStudGuy]

@@tanyakas4111 not all men cheat and not as much as women.

[@IamMonaOfficial]

This is so spot on. The man I adore lives across the country. Since I’m no longer on social media he has no idea what I’m doing unless I tell him. After not speaking for a few months he said “ I’m always wondering what you’re up to and if it will be another decade until we speak again”. 😂😂😂 Men really do love a healthy challenge.

[@fareenashofficial]

Yup! Healthy men :) Unhealthy men clearly are triggered by it 😊

[@StitchByBytes]

A few months???

[@siphevuzani]

A few months??? Oh my goodness I cannot believe this comment section😂 ain’t no way a healthy, emotionally intelligent and mature man is going to put up with these games! Y’all are talking about insecure men, they’re the ones that love these games. All the best

[@Mo.1988]

Girl, what??? You can’t be serious.

[@Lisa_M_V]

My friend went on a tinder date. But invited her with all his friends. Wasn’t a one on one date. He went bank to Italy. Didn’t contact her for 3 months. She liked him but never chased. He obvs had notional stuff to deal with. Then he came to London asked her on a date . He stayed consistent moved in with her bought a ring now they are married with a beautiful kid and live in Italy ❤

[@neokhajit3978]

My 2 cents if i may. Idk where you get your information but it may not be accurate for all men. I'm a guy. If a girl i had my eye on followed your advice, it would drive me away. First thing a chick has to know is whether she likes a guy, is there chemistry, excitement, attraction. Second are you two compatible personality wise. If so, then you take steps towards forming a relationship. Guys like me want a girl to be feminine and just be herself. No mind games. No petty psychological games. No toxicity. If she flirts with another guy, i leave her alone to pursuit that route. I dont appreciate the girl im with bringing another person into our little world. Social media, the present unnatural social norms, and other propaganda have done a lot of harm to the interaction between girls and guys. Girls just be yourselves. Be feminine. Be available if you are interested in a relationship. This is not to say to be sexually easy. But just be available to invest time. Bring out your inner child. Forget about remembering all these complicated do's and don't's. Just let the magic of the moment guide you. Be you. Be feminine. Be available. The time you spend, because of your female energy alone, will make us fall in love with you. Your inherent feminine energy makes it happen. Makes us fall for you

[@icecedaht94]

Thisss! So Truee! I've been connecting with a Gentleman and when I started to get to know him personally (going on dates, Hanging out, ect) all I could remembered him telling me was how much he's attracted to and loved being around Feminine Energy! I witness the way he looks at me all the time. Even when I'm not looking I can sense that he's watching and admiring me from a distance. He instantly Blushes, Smiles, and becomes a bit shy at times whenerver we converse and lock eyes. It's like I help bring out his inner child. I can just feel that he's falling for me just by simply being myself.😂

[@catcat9582]

Thats bc they can project a fantasy onto you? It's not real love

[@fareenashofficial]

Lust … yes …

[@fareenashofficial]

@hejo6876 you’re very welcome ☺️

[@SpecialKel66]

Real love comes later but men need romance to draw them in.

[@catcat9582]

@SpecialKel66 wouldn't they leave if they get to know someone that isn't there

[@jaylynnfarr1276]

Thanks for emphasizing healthy, mature masculine men. I have been getting frustrated because the guys pursuing me in the beginning slow down a lot once they realize I’m not just going to give myself away so easily…it makes it hard to stay in your feminine when they’re sort of baiting you into being easy like you said. I appreciate this message and will be more aware of this meaning they just aren’t mature enough yet.

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes!! Lots of different nuances …. You’ll feel more and more okay with their reactions the more embodied you become 🤍

[@sangwonkim9298]

I think you need some therapy if you think men are baiting you. Ngl men love sex, but that's not what we all think at all times. Us showing attraction at the start is to let you know that we are interested in you. However, we don't further push towards you as we don't want to end up looking like a desperate creep in the eyes of the person we find attractive and that's what you notice when you say they slow down on you. Men are logical so think of it as playing tennis with us. We hit the ball to your court and if there is no reciprocation we get the idea that you are not interested in us. At the same time we can't instantly move on. Moving on from a person we find attractive is hard unless we see her acting or doing inappropriate things. So what we do is wait to see if you care. However, from what you say I see that you get the wrong idea about us and that's where the misalignment occurs in your interactions with men.

[@elcristoph7380]

"I have been getting frustrated because the guys pursuing me in the beginning slow down a lot once they realize I’m not just going to give myself away so easily" Because it reads as a lack of interest.. if you're attracted to a guy, other women are too.. if they're showing him interest and you're not.. why would he keep trying with you? Or he's not that interested.. its one of the other.

[@a.d.b535]

Men cheapen a woman as soon as they try to bait them.

[@siphevuzani]

They slow down because of the games you’re playing. Grown men are busy and don’t have time for that.

[@user-tu7ko4dr4r]

For me I fell in love with her for what she is. Knows how to cook good food, she's great in teaching the kids and helping them with thier lesson. And everyday with all her flaws I stil fall for her.

[@theincredibleharry151]

No men HATE mystery. We want straight forwardness NOT games. Just because a woman is STRAIGHT FORWARD doesn’t mean that she’s easy. As a woman you can EASILY have great standards WITHOUT a man needing to play detective stop it. Men ARE NOT women we DON’T NEED or LIKE uncertainty please stop.

[@t_a_r_r_y_n_]

I was straight forward with a guy. Told him I had no interest in playing games with his mind or his heart.. he ran away 😂

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

thank you.

[@Freetobeme8181]

A man actually does need these things even if it’s subconscious and he doesn’t realize it. You may wanna get to know yourself better and do the healthy inner healing.

[@kellysegerson1915]

👏🏻👏🏻

[@misscleo_]

I was straight forward and got rejected, they got in relationship with a mysterious woman :D Lessons learned.

[@blackgod9160]

INCORRECT INFORMATION!!! MEN DONT THINK LIKE THIS!!!

[@Lisa_M_V]

Only healthy masculine men do. Not unhealthy men more in feminine. But 95% women want masculine men.

[@shannette_]

Amazing video. Men wants an desire emotional pain/discomfort period.

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo! Thank you 🙏

[@warnacreamadeicecreamskool6305]

Some men perceived that if you are easily available or chase men. Then you are also easily available to other man as well.

[@tizzlekizzle]

Well isnt that true?

[@fareenashofficial]

You got it 🤍

[@cpozo1123]

Im always direct and straight forward and I have had multiple men fall for me. Be yourself and don't play mysterious games. Huge turn off and very immature. My two cents.

[@yzma6142]

Me getting Googly eyed over a man I just met shows me I’m not in a good place mentally yet LMAO.

[@linal3489]

Saaaame he got scared and disappeared even though he was pursuing me at first

[@NoName-zb1gm]

No way I hate a mystery. This is not accurate. Men want women to be honest right from the start. I just spent 2 years obsessing over a woman who I thought was single for the past 20 years because she always went to Church alone. It turns out she was married the whole time and just recently got divorced. We had obvious chemistry but she wouldn't go out with me because she still hasn't gotten over her divorce. The first thing I want to know about a woman is where she lives because most women after they buy a house with their husband and have children get rid of the husband and get custody of the children so they can get the house. NO!! Men do not like mystery one bit.

[@jeanpaul4100]

She is grasping at straws. The reason women are single is hypergamy. End of discussion.

[@deeleon7377]

That isn't all women. Some men will use women for a place to live. Some men make the woman homeless, which puts her life at risk!

[@SpecialKel66]

You are speaking for all men? 😂

[@nunyab1975]

Completely agree. This is a woman projecting what appeals to them onto men. Ladies, if you want a man to obsess over you, be fit, friendly, and kind. No amount if “mystery” will overcome deficiencies in these three items.

[@TheBeautifulShutin]

Sounds like she attracted you with some mystery. When you got the full picture your attraction lessened. You might not like mystery but it sounds like it attracted you.

[@jahjah1769]

I hate this because it is so true. Why does everything require strategy?

[@fareenashofficial]

I see it more as how human behavior and dynamics work 🤍

[@jahjah1769]

do you have to continue to be reserved even after being with the man for a while? Like does it ever end and you just want to be together with out the games?@@fareenashofficial

[@jaimiemainberger5039]

Wow this makes so much sense! Thank you for putting so clearly! I will definitely start creating more mystery and not be so available !

[@fareenashofficial]

Your welcome :)

[@Lindz7650]

Love this video!!! I really hope that everyone actually takes the time to watch it instead of making judgments when they first see the title. Pacing and not jumping all in right away just feels soooo much healthier 💗💗💗

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 🤍

[@Lindz7650]

@@fareenashofficial❤

[@shireen400]

Thanks for this video Fareen ❤ You explained the difference between how men and women fall so well, and this really helps me put things in perspective in terms of what it looks like to be in my empowered feminine energy ❤❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh good!! I love this comment and I’m so happy that you shared that it was helpful 🤍🤍🤍

[@dnj3391]

Thank you for this video! It is so good to see the differences in how men fall in love vs women and what they need to feel!

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh you’re welcome :)

[@Lewis-me7jr]

Follow her advice and you will lose every man you’re interested in. I know because I’m a man.

[@jefferythompson3235]

Nah they don’t fall in love with mystery, they are intrigued. Once they find out it’s not from a genuine place they feel resentment and consider it games if you agree with it or not

[@justme176]

That's exactly why it is important to have a rounded fulfilling life so that it comes from a genuine place. It is important to be honest, reciprocate, and connect with someone in the initial stages. However, when you are healthy you naturally won't attach that fast to a (still) stranger. You allow love to grow by giving it time and space. When you don't get too attached (unhealthy) to someone you are attracted to right of the bat, and you give them and yourself the needed space to see how compatible you are, you'll automatically be perceived as a mystery by them.

[@QueenJZ]

Spot on! This is not good advise--these are games. Express what you need to express ladies and gentlemen. I don’t agree with this video. But the comments in this thread are correct! Respect folks is so important. Don’t play games folks.

[@sharifs649]

​@@QueenJZya her heart seems like it's in the right place but as a man she's actually not completely right but it depends on each women goals. An attractive women w some mystery let's say Intrigue will make us want due to the challenge but if the guy is a good looking and has options she's going to be his side project and will commit to a women who is showing more clear honestly were not that much everyone wants to be wanted in the end

[@Didi-fr5ic]

Thank you so much for speaking up about these things that most people don't belive in , when a man stops moving towards me, I always say I gotta go 😂don't want to block my blessings. Ps I have a gym crush and will not shoot my shot but I do smile and make eye contact. Feminine energy ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Oh you’re welcome!! Hah gotta go is the best vibe! I love that crush feeling :) You have a beautiful energy 🤍

[@mariav5930]

This was such an amazing video! Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom with us ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m so happy you loved it 😍😍😍

[@caitlinfeere4780]

So good!! 🩷 Thank you Fareen!

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m glad you love it 😍😍

[@Soysaucinn]

I love the way you explain this!! So true! ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you so much!

[@anita.5964]

Wow this is really helpful insight into how healthy men think. They think so differently from women! Thank you for this Fareen ❤

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m so happy you find it helpful 🤍

[@user-lx2jx2cw6e]

Awesome video, what a time saver, thanks!!!

[@MsFeminis]

Love this video!Thank you!

[@fareenashofficial]

You’re welcome! 🤍🤍

[@kristenmoonrise]

This is a great video! New subscriber here. The healthy marriages I see all have this dynamic!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you! Happy you’re here 🤍🤍🤍

[@alexandriat5950]

Another insightful video 🥰

[@fareenashofficial]

😃🤍❤️

[@360du]

Thank you for confirming what men really want. These need to be told more.

[@margaretbuj4284]

Thanks for another great video Fareen!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thanks Margaret :) 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@margaretbuj4284]

@@fareenashofficial 💞💞💞

[@Lisa_M_V]

Great video ❤

[@jazminm9052]

so curious to see what future will bring for me, gotta make the jump and start with the fun !!! so glad that we have focused on inner work, just feeling happy makes me happy !! Love you F! 🤩🤩🤩

[@fareenashofficial]

Me too! Excited for your dreamy man! You feel so good to me lately! Talk to you this week! Love you more !

[@jazminm9052]

@@fareenashofficial I don't live in constant pain as before, my mind feels lighter and clearer, the awareness is connected to the feeling more and I'm loving myself. Thank you so much for all your help Fareen!! life changing !! 🥰🥰🥰

[@fareenashofficial]

@jazminm9052 and we’re only just beginning 😊😊😊

[@jazminm9052]

​@@Handleitnow933 thanks for taking the time and for your concern. "Mystery" is just a heading to this video, this is not about games, that's far from Fareen's work and I myself have no time for games. I appreciate your intention but know that the man for me is working hard out there, with no time to read & clarify KZbin messages, this is actually a turn off for healthy women. Thanks again for your message, all the best.

[@fareenashofficial]

@jazminm9052 🙏🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@jenniferangela8]

Wow! This is exactly the situation with my love interest. We see each other when I bring my car for repairs. He has been getting more confidence every time I come in ( over 3 months). Last time he made sure I brought my car in on a day that he's working, then afterward he brought my car around to the waiting area. Usually the car is brought around by one of the guys in the garage. When he got out of my car, he shut the door so I would stand there for a few more seconds with him. I thought we would catch fire it because of the chemistry between us. Now in the last month, we randomly see each other when driving a few times a week. I hope he is ready to progress this situation soon! I am firmly grounded in my feminine and will wait for him to be ready to ask me out.

[@fareenashofficial]

That is so cute! 🤍😍

[@kathyburton3142]

I don't like this dating stuff. Just be friends for a while and see him with your friends of friends and family. If you're both in it for real love and you're both on the same page then you don't need help. In France Women and men know to romance and flirt without any problems because we're natural and enjoy it.

[@PrinceoftheLightSkins]

We fall in love with your looks and the idea of being with you, not about being mysterious😂 . The fact that i have this beautiful woman and shes all MINE, I don't have to worry about infedelity, paternity, etc. We actually fall inlove with certainty. Guys whats more appealing her being distant and mysterious, or she not flaking being open giving us certainty. The path of least resistance is best for all.

[@Mahnaz333]

Thank you for this video. If you could possibly make a video regarding being in a relationship for more than 6 years of understanding how your partner is still in love with you? How do you continue to keep him interested?

[@fareenashofficial]

I love this, yes I will do that !

[@izzy_96]

I think a lot of ppl are missing the point here. Being mysterious is not playing games. As a woman I am very straight froward in terms of what I want for my life, kids, marriage, goals, needs, but I dont disclose sexual information or anything that would be considered TMI, nor will i go into detail with every single thing that happened in my life. It takes an amount of time for me to know that you are valuable of knowing certain information. You can still be transparent, down to earth and classy, but just be mindful of what you disclose to someone you are just meeting and not to overshare. Especially if you are not asked, or if you feel uncomfortable. Also dont give more than a man would give you because you gotta let the man do the pursuing BUT do show your interest with your energy. Do not act arrogant or try too hard to show the man you are playing hard to get…..

[@stephanietherese]

Like.. I agree with most of this for sure. But how did you learn this stuff?

[@user-ij9vg4ug9r]

so goodd

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 🙏

[@positivel5530]

Is there anything I can do ido messed thing’s up and was anxious and needy during the difficult bumps in my relationship

[@KellyRegimbald]

Never understand any site that advises women or men to play these childish and ridiculous games like this. A woman does not have to pretend to be all mysterious. Yes, he may see you as a challenge possibly, however, once he has you...doesn't mean you met a real man. As real men aren't out on the hunt, chase, challenge and wouldn't resort to games like these. Just be yourself; genuine, honest, and respectful of yourself (that goes both ways) and give yourself both the time to get to truly know one another. Build on more than mere games, such as these. Sorry but total nonsense.

[@sarahsawrie]

LOVE ❤️

[@fareenashofficial]

😊😊

[@Zen-ii7ds]

Love 😂😂😂 that's from movies and music. It's not real.

[@loriawinfree478]

Thanks

[@fareenashofficial]

🙏🙏

[@AmalAli-dd9tt]

lovely video i enjoyed watching it .. but sometimes we feel like we knew this person from past lives and i blieve sometimes in love from the first hello ..cant explain why it happens!) i blieve that love should happen organically and mutually but the man should b more in love with the woman for the relation to really work lol . cheers

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m so happy you did!

[@banyana6515]

Its 2023, why do we still give a crap what men want. Ok then, be a mystery, when he gets to know you, his illusion of you shatters, he shows you his true colors, he leaves, you're heartbroken, then repeat the cycle again as your body count rises. That then means mental health and anger issues. Nah sis, this is not it.

[@loujosevski3124]

No REAL MEN don’t want a women who’s mysterious They want the REAL OLD SCHOOL WOMEN Remember them cos there’s not many left I think it’s due to all the new age relationships teachings You either have it or you don’t it’s a gift not a teaching Like Swans they mate for life naturally They don’t watch videos to improve relationships

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Thank you. No mystery ladies. Do not listen to this woman.

[@beyourself2788]

Agree, the only problem is that we don’t have the old school man anymore. When an old school man finds an old school woman, Bingo

[@fareenashofficial]

@beyourself2788 we have the old school men :) I am with one :). But yes, there is definitely a backwards idea in society about relationships today 🤍

[@beyourself2788]

@@fareenashofficial I’m sure of that I’m married to one as well for 13 years. The problem in today’s society is that a lot of guys wants that traditional wife when they are not a traditional man. The reason why we have all these red pill podcast.

[@fareenashofficial]

@beyourself2788 men are weak. These men that post this bs at least. Healthy men get it. 🤍 I agree with you! It’s very enlightening to see how weak men have become and explains why our world is so messed up!

[@nickconnor1608]

Hello, can this be applied as a gay man? Although my outward appearance doesn’t make it seem so, I was actually just having a conversation with a friend about that. But I feel like I’m more in my feminine energy predominantly. But I have also been told that I have golden retriever energy. It actually was a compliment, and I use it myself to this day lol. But I feel like I have started to notice I may push men away because I am so open. I’m really trying to not open up so much, whether it’s to people, I just met or people that have known me for a bit I feel like with some individuals there might be an initial attraction, but I feel like if it goes the other way that some point. Part of it comes from trying to appear more interesting individual And wanting validation, whether it’s conscious or subconscious, the other part is confidence. Either way, I am still learning. Because I think my high energy/friendliness/openness is sometimes the reasoning lol. But I assume this video is more towards women? But I definitely hope I’m welcome here. 🥰

[@fareenashofficial]

I love this comment/share so much!!! The video can apply to anyone although it’s titled to women the principles are the same! You got it completely! The openness, when it’s very soon, it’s the unhealthy aspects of us and it will push away the masculine energy. The masculine energy (true) needs time to assess feelings and will always want to be the pursuer and if the feminine energy is too available or trying to win the masculine energy’s interest, it will cause him to close. I hope this helps! Such a good share.. thank you for this as I’m sure it will help others as well 🤍

[@nickconnor1608]

@@fareenashofficial thank you! I appreciate your response 🥹BTW, I edited some of my answer above, I use voice to text and I was reading it I was like “what?!” 🤭 but yes, I followed you as well🥰

[@fareenashofficial]

I understood it!! I’m so happy you’re part of my world 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Philson]

doesn't always work

[@kateinparadise]

What about if you have been dating for over a year?

[@fareenashofficial]

I think I’d need to know a bit more specifics to answer this 🤍

[@linal3489]

I'm mysterious not because I'm trying to play a game but thats just my nature, Im a pisces. I was too mysterious for the guy i met though, he told me im always a mystery and he ended our friendship sadly.

[@Kpleaides]

You are stunning

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 😊

[@Lisa_M_V]

Great way is to hold back sex because women have control over that and men have control over commitment. If he’s only after sex he’ll disappear. My friend made her partner wait 6 months for sex. Now they bought a house together and have a child. The women of high value stand out

[@Lisa_M_V]

I think main issue is women think men are the same as them. Wired totally different. From different planets. Some women are happy to date a feminine man but then they must stay in masculine. But they end up getting resentful.

[@daniellelevine9638]

I can’t help but think of Taylor and Travis Kelce in this instance, because she didn’t make it that hard for him. She’s not being a mystery. I’m just saying.

[@TySimpkins]

Are you a Pat Allen student?

[@fareenashofficial]

No idea who that is

[@t_a_r_r_y_n_]

Men are just interested in games. Confident women don't play games 🙌

[@Pumpmaximum13]

Chicks like mystery, guys nit so much. If I want mystery I'll read a book.

[@siewmj1]

I need pearl to debate this lol

[@GUITARTIME2024]

I'm a dude. This woman is WRONG.

[@sophiia5193]

How can you be mysterious in a relationship?

[@fareenashofficial]

This video I was going over the earlier stages of dating … in “what men want” I go into things in a bit more detail.. did you download the free chapter?

[@zsszikszai5180]

😍😍😍😍

[@fareenashofficial]

😊😊

[@jzbeater]

Men want to know and not have to discover you/ deal with a mystery

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

‼️

[@bellabriggs1393]

No way !!! This is not correct at all , both sides of there is no consistency nobody can get attached !!! Just horrible !

[@x__lexx]

So basically.. men like when women don’t like them (show little interest) and make them prove their self to her. So stay at a distance, do nothing to build the relationship, let him do all of the work, and let him win you over?

[@Lindaworld1983]

Correct

[@linal3489]

No wonder my exes were so attached to me thats how I acted cuz I wasn't really into them... but when I finally met the guy who I felt in love with.... he disappeared.

[@mariaabatino9061]

I honestly DON NOT CARE AT ALL about what men need. It's been going on for centuries with their needs being met. What about men amking 5he effort of what women want?

[@anonymoussxo]

some weirdos in the comments don't understand what healthy mystery is and it shows stay away from those types of men ladies lol

[@anitago]

False. Love requires knowing and understanding - its hard work. A mystery will never be loved.

[@siewmj1]

I want to know the age of the author lol.

[@leechiehchien1343]

Manipulation and game packaged as “healthy relationship”. Nowadays dating advice has evolved to be even more covert

[@MS-ns4ki]

Nik Nak clean the chauterie board

[@teecee1678]

That is not a man, that's a boy playing games . . .

[@Chimalmita1]

So how should a woman behave? Should she just ignore him a little bit?😊

[@fareenashofficial]

Definitely read the books! I go in-depth in there 🤍🤍 And watch the rest of the videos on my channel… it’s difficult to answer this question in a comment as I can’t really simplify it and no I don’t promote ignoring or playing games from a “trying to win or get a man” 🤍

[@leowetzel2497]

I think you got that backwards.

[@barnabasbabatunde5454]

Totally backwards.

[@megalou6567]

Eff men … I’m in love with myself .

[@Ifidreamitidoit3566]

But isnt this just playing fear based games? Having all these relationship rules of "do this, do that" so the man will be interested?!

[@fareenashofficial]

Not rules.. human behavior 🤍

[@coldmago]

Lol

[@niongg8042]

Total bs every woman has mysteries and most of them are skeletons in the closet

[@mountainkid417]

Instead of getting mad, learn from it. Knowledge doesn't have a gender, the same things apply to women as well

[@mountainkid417]

And actually this applies more to women than men because of the hypergamous nature of the feminine they always want a man better than them, and secondly in the healthy masculine/feminine dynamic masculine is the leader and feminine submits/surrenders to the masculine. When a man falls for this like explained in the video, it actually means he is in his feminine and a woman is the leader of the relationship because he doesn't have a masculine frame (instead she holds the masculine frame)

[@niongg8042]

@@mountainkid417 i will never be a slave and place my happiness in other peoples hands .Only God and my children and family . I have dates but these are more for fun purpose. These women try everything to get you hooked on them but since i detached my heart and start recognizing the red flags not one of these woman showed total honesty .They have a reputation to protect but we all know better .

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Women are natural liars and are sneaky. Men know this. So if you're not transparent men will not risk being with women.

[@Lindz7650]

@@niongg8042 If you follow Fareen, you’ll realize that she doesn’t ever advocate to try and get a man to be obsessed over you

[@esobrinks]

Ladies dont be a Mystery! We dont want to play games we wanna know who we got, who we can rely on. Dont listen to Women for Men Advice, this is truly super hard to watch.

[@GMTZ-pi1qw]

No. Jajaja

[@GYMSHIT]

This isn’t true. Ladies. Please don’t listen to this. We don’t want a mystery

[@eulennachathen449]

Not this bullshit again... Women teach other women to play all mysterious to be pursued, men teach other men to ignore women to be pursued. Everybody thinks they're smarter than everyone and tries to outplay the other one.... If it goes on like that, soon men and women will stop talking to each other alltogether and humanity will end. Seriously though, you don't need to play games. Especially seeing how games get really old really fast and they're really only good for initiating a relationship based on some sort of dopamine dependancy... you know, you get a thrill from those games, a little dopamine rush, when you do get them hooked and mistake it for love, but it's actually just a toxic dynamic with a chemical addiction added to it. How about this for dating advice: Figure out who you are and what you want from life and in your partner. Then stand by it and look if a man or a woman holds up to your standards. Also figure out if you yourself hold up to those standards. Don't accept anything that doesn't suit you. Be kind to yourself and others, take responsibility for your own emotions and communicate your needs. Approach your dating partners with that kind of attitude and see what happens.

[@jackdeniston59]

You have no clue. You are not a mystery. You are a convenience.

[@misutasutanto6312]

😂... this is all Bs the man falls in love when women DO THEIR JOBS AS HIS WIFE OR WOMAN..THAT'S IT.. people are over complicating things

[@forzasport6839]

wrong asf

[@elcristoph7380]

OK, I have mixed thoughts about this video.. Here's a few example.. 1) If you have in the past given sex away easily to guys, and now you suddenly decided to make a guy work harder for it, the moment he finds out you made it harder for him and not the other guy, he's going to walk away, because now his ego is telling him you had more desire for the other guy then for him. So if your nature is that you make guys wait and always have done.. then don't change.. if your nature is to want to fuck on a first date if you really desire the guy.. then don't change.. 2) Mystery.. Ladies, the men who are desirable and have their lives together are attractive to not just you but many other women. Men of high value are not attracted to "Mystery" because they have options, men are attracted to your looks, and your attitude, your desire and your loyalty.. Are you a good looking ride or die woman??.. that's it.. playing pretend that you have a busy life when you don't (if you do that's different) and cant reply to a text is just an indicator they you have low interest in him so he'll arrange a date with the next girl. Now can being hard to get work a bit.. sure, but it doesn't last long.. again Men with VALUE have options. PS, UNTIL HE GETS TO KNOW YOU.. YOU'RE JUST ANOTHER ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HES DATING.. 3) Is chasing a bad thing?.. not really, but it depends, chasing without having or respecting boundaries certainly isn't good, you can't fall in love with a person you hardly know and can't trust, and if you do then it may indicate an underlying issue in your personality.. Women who make it harder for men by pretending to be something they're not often get found out and left behind, likewise men who pretend to be leaders, who pretend to have confidence ect.. They will get found out and left behind. just a few thoughts.

[@superbusymommycoach9082]

I agree with you, and with this video. I don’t think the point is to pretend. I think the point is to get to a healthy place where we don’t get attached to a person we barely know. Then we naturally take time to get to know someone on a deep level before making them a top priority or deciding if they’re the person for us. It’s not a game, it’s genuine.

[@elcristoph7380]

@@superbusymommycoach9082 if that's ALL the video said I would agree.. problem is when you tell women they need to be "mysterious" to attract a desirable man, more then likely it will back fire. If I'm showing interest in a women and I ask her out.. then I already find her attractive, I don't need her to play mysterious.. what I need is chemistry on our dates, flirting, sexual chemistry, to feel if she's feminine, does she have a desire for me.. ect ect If the date goes well, Ill want to see her again, I just will.. not amount of playing hard to get will make up for a crap date, it just wont.. She doesn't need to play pretend she's mysterious.. if she had a busy life then she has a busy life and we negotiate it.. acting like she has one to get me interested will end badly, especially if I find out.. Ill move on... Men are attracted to beauty and attitude.. Women are attracted to confidence, leadership, humor, aspiration, an athletic body with strong shoulders and a V taper, A life that's put together she wants to be part of, An ability to provide financially, and a stable mental state she can depend on. These are not things you can fake.. and if you do.. you will be found out.

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo

[@willievannieuwenhuizen5725]

Absolute nonsense

[@margaretbuj4284]

which part do you consider to be nonsense?

[@windmilldoc]

Total hogwash

[@CherryGirl113]

Oh my Lord annoying on all levels 😅

[@StitchByBytes]

This is false information.

[@emilienaples3543]

I post a lot on my social media and this guy still seems really into me cuz I do literally every single other thing that you just said 🥲 I’m millennial so 🥲 I have to lol also just trying to be myself out here 😅 he likes almost all my insta stories anyways lol

[@emilienaples3543]

But maybe not so mysterious hahaha