men need consistency before they commit

[@fareenashofficial]

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[@animazen79]

Wow,I like it!!!

[@fareenashofficial]

You like the book?

[@miami4005]

Men also need to prove to the woman they're a provider, protector and emotionaly stable with respect. Them there will be no need for the woman to act out because she's not stressed.... takes two to tango

[@nofybn7794]

PREACH!!

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

💯💯💯❤

[@niahernandezlove2194]

THANK YOU.

[@anonymous-z6k7e]

Wow yes

[@fjockey1]

But today, there are way too many women who kick a man as soon as he is down on his luck in spite of all his best efforts. This is not what a helpmate is supposed to be. Life is hard, ladies, regardless of who you end up with. Get use to it. People lie or don't keep promises and sooner or later, either you or your man will be effected. Quit the Disney fairy tale. It's a cultural lie that's setting you up to fail.

[@books1278]

Great lessons for ladies! 1. Have boundaries and standards. 2. Dont be emotionally reactive. 3. Be consistent in your actions. Thanks a lot ❤

[@taghazoutmoon5031]

I started behaving badly after 3 years together...because he neglected me and was stringing me along. I also needed to make some big decisions that stressed me out. I traveled overseas, asked him to move out, and no longer initiated calls. He broke up with me instead of fighting for me. He drove me crazy with his inconsistencies and blamed me for being crazy.

[@Callieforniiaa]

Sounds like he was bored with the relationship imo. People (usually men but women can too) they get bored within about usually 2/3 years. That’s why she has said in the past that if a man isn’t asking about marriage within or about over a year then most likely y’all won’t get married and it’s time to run and find some one else. I had the same issue with my ex. He was great in the beginning, he wanted the relationship innately but after dating for two years and us talking about marriage that he didn’t want to do because he was previously married and had two kids he didn’t wanna get married again and he told me that. I should have walked away that day but didn’t. Low and behold after our 2 year anniversary date, he broke up with me a week later stating “he didn’t have the emotional bandwidth for me, himself, his job and his kids” we did reconnect recently and both apologized for how we both ended and handled the situation but that was it.

[@naimam3976]

I think you made the decision easier for him,he was just using you until something better come along.

[@taghazoutmoon5031]

@@naimam3976 he only stuck around while I was a doormat. As soon as I mirrored him and became difficult, he was out.

[@annado3885]

Be happy you're out

[@JennaLH]

Generally a man who wants to marry you will know within very short time. If no proposal within a year, chances are good you're a placeholder and you're being used. You dodged a bullet with that guy. Be glad he's gone.

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

I've found that when I'm consistent for myself, it naturally rubs off on the people around me. That way even complacent people transform into disciplined ones. Everyone else naturally grow apart. I always attract the best when I prioritize doing the best for myself. So I completely agree with you, healthy attracts healthy. They never take me for granted coz they know they'd loose me if they don't keep up.

[@fareenashofficial]

Healthy attracts healthy 🤍 You got that right

[@Lisa_M_V]

The women that follow this advice have no competition! Too many women don’t do the inner work. Women owe it to themselves to create a beautiful life for themselves ❤

[@Mindsetolympics]

yesss love this!!!!!

[@876tisha]

Confirmation. We don’t get to choose how people love us but we get to decide if we want to experience it. Don’t let a man decide how to react. Stay calm always. If he dis regulate your emotions just walk away. So simple we women complicate it especially having anxious attachment style.

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

💯

[@joelalala2845]

How do you maintain your composure? Coz this sounds just good on paper.Then their times when I am just in a bad mood😅 then devil takes over and I say things I come to regret.

[@Cookiedesigns254]

This is video was so good! It made me realize how much more healthier I’ve become as woman when I realized how uncomfortable and turned off I become when I realize a man is wounded, easily triggered and just not masculine. I don’t complain. I just use absence.

[@Max-br6xg]

Well Said, It’s not what you give, it’s the way you give it

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo!

[@vidhiharia9546]

Presence is attractive. He needs to see how you're showing up in different environments. He needs to see consistency in who you are. That's why authenticity is important. Before commitment, he makes sure that there's no drama and a sense of peace in the relationship. He won't commit if you're unstable and don't believe in his leadership. They look for consistency and emotional stability and authenticity, not strategies before committing. Feminine empowerment is the key to your hearts desires. The more the dark shadows, the more of it you attract. Healthy empowered men don't function from the ego. They wanna see how secure she is. We never chase when we're integrated. We're just aligned. Your energy and appearance should be vibrant. He also needs to validate with himself if you're actually being authentic. Her ability to be strong and neutral in situations is necessary. Emotional maturity. Micro tests are done by them. "he'll love when you never change". They thrive off consistency and stability, she needs to have these qualities in her.

[@violetpalmer1775]

This clarification is priceless for us single women. I love that you share your own dating/relationship experience with us too ❤

[@Lyzylyzy1922]

I have no drama in my life. And they still don’t commit. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@nessaa1201]

girl you are good! I agree with everything and I have learned a lot from your channel. Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷

[@fareenashofficial]

I love hearing this!!! Thank you 🙏 Brazil! Maybe we’ll do a retreat there one day 🤍

[@margaretbuj4284]

yessss!@@fareenashofficial

[@nightmaresandbutterflies1058]

If the man ,to start with ,treats her with enough maturity and respect to let her know where she stands- no inconsistencies,on/off behaviours ,then a high value woman will not have confusing unstable emotions or behaviors as well. She cannot just be the one downplaying and second guessing herself always.

[@elanna2392]

Glad to have found this...

[@vicm5272]

Love your videos!!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you!

[@ThirdPlanetAstrology]

Yup. Goes both ways.

[@Soysaucinn]

Great video Fareen!! ❤❤

[@posexpress]

Hi Fareen. I appreciate it if you can post videos this time not about healthy masculine men but insecure men, I cant even define them as masculine because of insecurity traits.

[@georgedaviotis3016]

Let’s make something very clear; a high value man has no issue pointing out manipulative behaviour. Suggesting that a high value man will not comment negatively on a KZbin channel as you did I the first minute of this video is tantamount to emotional manipulation. Emotional manipulation is emotionally immature.

[@AleFrancesca]

You’re amazing!

[@zsszikszai5180]

Love this!!❤

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you 🙏

[@EzoterraTarot]

God bless U

[@margaretbuj4284]

As always, such great advice!

[@cryptointegrations9854]

Great topic. 🙏

[@mariangoma718]

Very informative 👏 👌

[@vam9785]

You look much younger!

[@wassabilove1111]

You're 40?? I thought you were 25 😮😍

[@artbykarthikag3779]

Please tell how to do the inner work

[@AhlyiaLeanne]

Do you have any books? Or suggestions?

[@cryptointegrations9854]

This video is truth about guys for sure

[@TerryGuzmanMartinez]

Do you mean we can't/shouldn't be ever emotional?

[@xoxjelloxox]

I am cet emotional and have cried in front of him. He comes from a stoic family. Will he look down on me

[@TerryGuzmanMartinez]

@@xoxjelloxox I think he shouldn't. We have feelings, we are not just mind, a brain

[@mimosa27]

No. I am an emotional person - highly sensitive and very in touch with all of my emotions and feelings, which I like to process and honor, instead of deny. I met The One at work, and it took us a bit over two years to fall in love. He has observed me and noticed a consistency in my emotions: I am open to them, but I can regulate them extremely well. It's evident in the way I interact with coworkers and clients, and in our conversations. In other words - you should know how to regulate your emotions.

[@TerryGuzmanMartinez]

@@mimosa27 That's it!

[@keeley_shea]

is reacting when he doesn’t answer my calls / texts bc he is hanging out with another girl (almost double his age) and says they’re just friends something i should react to

[@awilliams7796]

No, move on.

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Nope don’t react. Just move on. This is why rotational dating is important so your not stuck on one person and have more options to choose from.

[@keeley_shea]

the girl might be gay tho, she tweeted she wants a gf, and she pays my bf bc he has a business. my bf is my #1 and we’ve been together since 2021 and I just turned 18. there has never been any other girl in the picture and the girl said they are just friends and i have nothing to worry about when I asked

[@Stephaniacat]

​@@keeley_shea if you're already questioning your relationship that's not a good sign. You need to move on

[@friedgreentomatoes5054]

@@keeley_sheasounds like a cover up. Move on 💯

[@Userforeverneverever]

You’re 40 😮

[@positivel5530]

This video is 9 months too late 😭

[@spiritualBaddi]

🩷

[@gabrielakristo4667]

Very good Video and content! A kind wish: could you work on not looking that much up? Maybe more often in the camera. That would be better to watch ♥️

[@Lisa_M_V]

She’s not reading from a script. People who look directly at screen usually are reading from a script and aren’t genuine. Look at the politicians. She’s speaking from her ❤

[@gabrielakristo4667]

@@Luxmundee I never said she would read. and wishes and constructive criticism are always unsolicited but the right ones won't take it personally or badly. Personally, I find it more pleasant to watch if she looks away from the camera less often.

[@cryptointegrations9854]

She’s channeling the information

[@cryptointegrations9854]

She’s really really good

[@anita.5964]

This was such a great video! Thank you Fareen 🩷