Men's Rights: Defending Against False Domestic Violence Allegations

[@FatherX2022]

If the courts make a presumption that a woman must be the victim and must be telling the truth...and they don't have that same presumption for men...isn't that gender discrimination and isn't that clearly unconstitutional according to the equal rights amendment? Shouldn't lawyers be suing judges on behalf of their clients for civil rights violations every single day?

[@peterculver233]

That’s exactly my fault especially now in the time of LGBTQ and all these other groups where people look all different ways and we’re not supposed to judge anyone by their looks. I walked into the court wearing a clean Calvin Klein suit. I don’t have one tattoo. The judge is first words to me were we are off to a bad start. You already look scary. I have all my teeth no missing extremities. Nothing weird about my face came in smelling fresh in a nice suit and was given that presumption right from the start and I was the person who called the police, but I got punished cause she beat me to an order. Mind you she came to the small gym I go to two months after I left her and alleged that I was bothering her routine but she never goes to my gym and it is a private gym yet they claimed that it’s a public place and anyone can be there. That’s not actually true unless you have a membership.

[@terellkid1]

Ok and who makes the judgments on those cases. Other courts that also favor women. We don't really have good checks and balances when it comes to the courtroom, judges can do whatever they want and most of them are incentivized meaning they getting bonuses for charging men with crimes, a cut of the money when putting men on child support even if its for a child that's not theirs, etc.

[@ArchmageMarlock]

Discrimination in various forms has never been fully banned. Explain this to uneducated people is always a nightmare. Understanding the law goes beyond simply reading the words on the page, which is why law school is so crucial. Often, people who haven't gone through this process, like @terellkid suggesting that "judges can do whatever they want," don’t fully grasp the statutes, regulations, and case laws that govern judicial authority. He likely isn’t aware of Republican efforts to empower judges or Democrat efforts to impose rules like ethics codes on them. Here, I’m just saying law school involves well over three thousand pages of reading, followed by life-breaking tests. As a lawyer, I’ve had to get used to the fact that everyone thinks they’re a lawyer and knows everything. Lovely, uneducated humans, but lovely! People believe what they want until they realize they aren’t actually lawyers. Love the Pro se, but O MY GOD! There’s so much history and complexity behind the law, all written by some of the brightest in society. When someone offers a groundbreaking opinion without this understanding, it’s often just them feeling themselves. So before making it personal, try to approach the court system with love and an open mind-it’s not all about you.

[@caucasianafrican1435]

The thing to understand is this was done by design. The process is the purpose.

[@TheDdlymccluney]

The courts created scrutiny laws that allows them to discriminate against men. It's all corrupt.

[@Anonymous-yn2ny]

Zero feelings. Zero commitment. ZERO cohabitation. 100% honesty upfront: "Casual & recreational"

[@EastbayRoyalty]

I’m I’m gonna gonna get some of my friends for lunch

[@treesart6914]

That'd be great because I would know to avoid you, so we'd both be happy.

[@gettingschooled3094]

Yes the man is right. Protect yourself when dating as a man.

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

Bree Marie Chavez tried to accuse her hubby, who in fact, was the victim. Myself, a woman, did NOT stand by her and I am exposing her now. I am going down for it, as she has z Simp Army, but I stand up against this bs.

[@TheDdlymccluney]

Unless good women stand against this modern day Salem Witch Trials, we will all suffer the consequences.

[@gking1767]

Why is she not in jail for assault???? He has video proof that she hit him first.

[@4u2h8on]

What you saying is true I seen first hand how the court system works regards to allegations of domestic violence You're always guilty until proven innocent remember that. Record everything just in case doesn't matter if You start seeing red flags of a woman trying to use the system or threatens to Make false claims document everything through audio recordings app that are dated and timed keep your mouth shut. Don't play her game Don't call the cops Don't give any information to the cops if the case gets that serious could have it all the recordings just in case you can give that to your lawyer cuz no prosecutors going to put an alleged victim on the stand when there's audio recordings of them being a totally different person on several different occasions be careful my guys some of these women out here versus straight psychos in disguise trying to put innocent men in prison. Even if proven innocent the allegations the alleged victim just goes on with their day nothing happens prosecutors don't charge alleged victim for false reports even when proven the system is so broken there is no justice it's all a money-making game!

[@rhyscox3250]

A man is guilty until proven innocent and a woman is innocent until proven guilty

[@Diana1980-mu8go]

Happened to my fiance in Wisconsin. I even gave the courts factual evidence and they basically told me to shut up. Now he is in prison.

[@vegasskidd7081]

Your so cruel

[@Priyansh-s1p]

​@@vegasskidd7081she is saying her fiance is fasely accused by other person not her. Now he is in prison

[@BluntTrauma369]

So I was painted a DV Perpetrator by my lifelong abuser / mother. The situation came up when I confronted her with a few questions regarding sexual abuse, physical abuse along with straight up bullying and neglect from childhood til current day. Before 2024 I thought she was just a terrible mother / not a great person; now I'm convinced she is intentionally set out to destroy my life while painting herself the "poor single mother who tried her hardest to help" -> she left me at my worst, and has called in crisis assessment teams when realising I was ready to talk to police (but doing alright mentally) its so fked up.

[@TonisScene]

What happened after?

[@BluntTrauma369]

@@TonisScene Charges dismissed; we don't talk - she refuses to address it but I saw the BWC footage and pray no-one ever deals with that situation. Got to spend several months seeing headlines + biased af news articles about how 7/10 DV cases are male on female and our state needs to go harder on the men. They opened a "Ministry of Mens Behaviour" no joke lol.. Then had a moment of realisation - I reported it directly and indirectly so many times and got laughed off or ignored. Same happened when my older brother had a similar situation w his GF attacking him in public.. The rates are skewed because even when men report, it never goes anywhere. Oh and I think police are rats. Pray they never need me as a key witness cause as far as they know I'm "dumb deaf and blind" now. The interrogation tapes are absolute gold. Just me sitting there repeating the truth.. telling them to speak to her for 5+ mins cause she can't maintain a straight story. At the end I was calling the guy Detective Donut and telling them "less cowboy, more investigations" lol

[@stephenkaake7016]

the lawyer I had just said, plead guilty, the woman couldn't even say I had contact in 12 years

[@myworkout2502]

I’m being charged of domestic violence after I called the police to help me from her as she said she will empty the clip in my chest after hitting me scratching me multiple times.

[@Shwondo541]

That is awful... I'm sorry.... I was falsely accused of sexual assault and two day before going to court she dismissed her allegations... Why are women so terrible? Why would you weaponize the court system like that. It's one of the most scummiest things someone could do... Sorry, not to make this all about me. I learned that a woman can file a report and request a restraining order and it goes into effect immediately. And then it's upon me to prove it non factual in court... How is that fair? For 3 months of my life, there was an active restraining order on me. If women want equality. There's only one place they can actually get it, and that's in the court system. And they weaponize it. And it's absolutely terrible.

[@THEINFAMOUSJLC]

I’m being accused by a woman .. god knows what.. I’m scared for my life .. pls help .

[@Shwondo541]

Brother ... I just went through the same thing... You are not alone. You may be frightened and scared.... I was ... I lost 20 lbs in 3 months.... Do you have an attorney? Do you have any evidence contradicting her allegations... I felt alone through the whole process. Trust me you are not alone. I wish you the best, and feel free to reach out. There needs to be a men's advocacy group for falsely accused men. I know it sounds cliche, but you have to stay strong. I know I got sick and tired of hearing that. But it really is the only thing you have control of.

[@RobinWhistles]

@@Shwondo541 In my case my phone and my whatsapp was wiped by her and before I knew it, she had the tables turned on me and I the victim of years of DV was accused of this very thing. I got sick to my stomach when I rushed to my phone only to find all my evidence wiped by her. Apart from ONE just one video she missed where she was vandalizing the kitchen and this along with God's help saved me. It was a brutal experience but I'm coming out of the storm as a custody battle ensued but I managed 50/50 so far. Document everything and keep fighting.

[@gettingschooled3094]

Spitting facts. Yes, men get a raw deal when it comes to public perception.

[@thegoldenland]

There should be no such domestic violence law, as it is prone to abuse, and innocent individuals may be wrongfully accused and seriously harmed.

[@ArchmageMarlock]

No - it’s not all about you. Also, Thank you coming to America. We hope you enjoy your time!

[@thegoldenland]

@@ArchmageMarlock lol you are smart. I corrected my English. Actually, I don't fully enjoy living here. Too many Demoncraps. Too many lawsuits. Too many crook attorneys and judges.What's American dream? You have to be constantly worried.

[@thegoldenland]

@@ArchmageMarlock in California, if someone call police and accuse you of domestic violence, you'll be booked in jail. That's their protocol. You have to post bond to get out. Stupid America.

[@ArchmageMarlock]

@@thegoldenland "Stupid America." You may have shown your own, ummm, education level. :( DV is controlled by State Law. All states can set different rules. This is not lawyerly of me, but I argue anything going down in Texas, California, Florida, Utah, Alabama, or Ohio is bound to be ridiculous. If you live in these states you get what you get! If you want good laws go to a state with laws you like. America has a beautiful system. A shining Republic. Most people, however and around the world, are dumb.

[@buildmotosykletist1987]

My advice would be to have a journal with times, locations, people, etc recorded in detail. It's difficult at first but will quickly become an enjoyable habit. It also exposes false allegations very quickly. A bloke I know found his invaluable but still the courts allowed his wife to sell his house and give the funds to her boyfriend. In a twist of fate his children recovered some of the money and returned it to him.

[@brandonledford7685]

I filed for a protective order the judge granted me sole custody of our daughter because it happened in front of her. The mother took off with her then filed a protective order a week before our court and admitted in the court room that she refused to follow court orders and the courts through out mine and granted hers for 2 yrs with sole custody and makes me do supervised visits

[@barryfaulkner7032]

Keep all DV matters in the state court. Make a no admission consent to the state court and free up money to fight for custody of your kids. Keep a diary from the very beginning of your children’s birth.

[@SeanChristopherMcGee]

I dont want to throw hate at attorneys but I just love how they keep insisting that you need one to defend your case.....I would love one..really I would but can someone tell me how the F someone like me who has faced bankruptcy because of my covert narc Ex, still recovering from the financial melt down from Covid, afford an attorney at $450 an hour??? I don't have a bloody choice but to research and defend myself. I never wanted to go to court in the first place but it appears I don't have a choice.

[@EAllison-dr8tb]

I have a open case with false straggelation and they have pictures and im not guilty and she dont show up to court whats the outcome?

[@harryhill8543]

Its not just standard DV they make accusations about, last week I was accused by an unhinged neighbour because I didnt let her speak to my elderly mother as I didnt have time. Her response was to put in a false allegation I was beating up my own mother. Only yesterday I had adult protection at my door and of course they found no evidence of this. I have called in the police to make a claim about their lies. Its typical that women will try and destroy someones life because they go in the huff about something and think they can simply walk away.

[@dianawhite2639]

What can be done if the judge is the one who said the man was being charged with domestic violence for striking her several times, even if the woman said he had never hit her.

[@West_Coast_Of_The_East]

I just had a 5th temporary injunction served against me the other day, in the last 2.5 years, and in my life. I filed a paternity action for my son, and look at me now?! 5 entirely made up stories. 6 if you count the violation I got charged with. 7 if you count the other violation that was reported (made up.) State finally did not pursue. Maybe they finally realized that without any evidence whatsoever, except for to the contrary, other than a ‘victim’s” statement, they might not have a slam dunk. Had I not locked my screen door on the 2nd reported violation, even though the dumb ass deputies asked me to step right outside, I said no fucking way out of instinct/fear. He told me at the end of the questioning, that they would have come in and arrested me if I had left that door unlocked. I have everything documented. Police reports, 911 audio, video recorded police interactions, and my own journal/video log. 13 times the cops came to my house on bogus calls in a mere 6 months. And that was just the times that they wrote a report. It was a lot more than that. I’ve spent a shitload on defense costs. Now, I’ve lost my job, I’m bankrupt, nearly had a nervous breakdown. I think I did. But I was unwilling to seek medical attention for fear of what would happen to my boy. I scrounged up a trial retainer for the custody case, starting in less than 2 weeks, but other than that, financially, I’m ruined. The shit my son has been through wrecks my heart. It took me 8 months to get him back. This is a fucking crime. The pain they put my boy through is reprehensible. The potential future mental health issues he’ll battle?! Unknown. I hope not. On this fifth injunction, thank God and finally it was not issued as an injunction, but as a notice of hearing on a petition. I was so mad when that cop knocked. I told him to leave it at the floor and go fuck himself. I didn’t know what it was. Sorry, not sorry. They fucking smell the shit. Finally. Jesus. I don’t have the money to retain a defamation lawyer, I think I have a case. There’s a lot more to the story you can imagine and it’s not a story. It’s a living nightmare and It’s the fucking truth. By the way, I’m 38 years old I was charged with a DUI when I was 21. That’s the extent of my criminal history. I’ve had all kinds of rights violated, 1st amendment, 2nd, 4th, 5th and I think 8th. All because I want to be a father to my son. A child that I was therefore before he was born, the day he was born, and I have not left his side since. Only when he was unlawfully withheld have we been separated. That’s happened 5 times, in the past 6 years. He’s 6 years old. These people are despicable.

[@zagood6775]

How can I acquire your legal Council?

[@ayoogbeide6637]

You have an office in nyc ?

[@caucasianafrican1435]

It's called discrimination

[@JohnDoe-bi4ho]

Don’t forget sexual harassment. And don’t forget fake rape allegations either it’s time women go to prison.

[@650dch]

My sons mother just jumped on my car and punched the back window and front driver window with our child in it at the doctors office, she then called the police and stated that I tried to run her over I wasn’t there to give a statement. I was advised to get a PO due to numerous times of her filing false allegations. Any help?

[@RIDINORHIDIN]

Dear Santa , please get me a dash cam for Christmas 😂

[@650dch]

@ 😂😂

[@nathanmciver6496]

See threw glasse's for sure!

[@Poppy-yx8js]

I am a real survivor of abuse and this is not normal to put into my account. And I’m female. Someone is cyber bullying me. A bunch of posts like this in my account!

[@Poppy-yx8js]

And I did not accuse a husband! Random person! I really don’t want these in my account KZbin!

[@biancapierce639]

There is no presumption in law to believe women! Men who are domestic abusers always deny or minimise their abuse, but they also reveal their arrogant demeanour in court. It's not hard for a judge to9 work out who is telling the truth.

[@DenaHall-ub3ly]

Not unless the judge has a brain the size of a knat !!!

[@malokk5773]

There should be NO presumption to believe women, only evidence. False accusers should also be punished to the full extent of the law when found out.

[@biancapierce639]

@@malokk5773 A women's testimoney is evidence! If she has a witness or corroborating evidence which supports her evidence then all the better. However, her testimoney alone is sufficient to convict an abuser.

[@malokk5773]

@@biancapierce639 Which is BS, effectively saying that a lair can say whatever she wants and get away with it.

[@biancapierce639]

@@malokk5773 Alternatively, as is most often the case, the man lies and gets away with it.

[@THEINFAMOUSJLC]

God man pls help me this woman lying on my name .. pls help .

[@JohnDoe-bi4ho]

Don’t forget sexual harassment

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Mike Tyson did not SA anyone.

[@Aaron-r6u8q]

Biased kaws

[@francesbernard2445]

Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too. Why a man would want to take chilren away from their biological mother who gave birth to them while being the main caregiver of their biological children is hard for most ment to understand too..

[@dwaipayansarkar1815]

Are you talking sensitively?

[@francesbernard2445]

Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too.

[@francesbernard2445]

Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too.

[@Shwondo541]

Stop reaching... This is not the venue for apologist simps like you