Block them! Because you better believe they will come BACK! Men love to use women! They need far more attention and validation than we ever will! They can have a whole girlfriend of even wife at home- but as soon as they argue with her or feel insignificant- they’ll come crawling your way, so you can validate that EGO BABY! Block- depending on what business you have attached to your number, might even want to change that number.
@RachelLondon3 ай бұрын
Straight.
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
Fr fr PeriodT 🦶
@tamiausten8733 ай бұрын
I have some guys trying to date me or most likely just have sex a few times with me. The thing is I'm not even remotely attracted to them and they don't even chat me up to get to know me and engage in conversations. Then suddenly I'm receiving calls😂😂 and I'm irritated, then they send messages like "come and see me" or "when can we meet"? The only guy who I've ever visited used to respond to my texts immediately, always, like even at midnight, now I'm hoping he comes back to town so we can hang out. They don't realize that people are attached by contact, I don't know if those men thought being distant to a girl who hasn't gotten to know them would spark interest 😂😂😂
@emmadiri71893 ай бұрын
I’m blocking any man who wants me to chase him
@natural33623 ай бұрын
As you should. Those men are garbage and they are playing games
@SkylarSparkles-p9h3 ай бұрын
PERIOD
@dianaslade95953 ай бұрын
Exactly
@jordanferguson22542 ай бұрын
Yeah, it doesn't look good at all when a woman is chasing, it's so gross lmao 😅😂
@XXLady3 ай бұрын
I guess I'm a defective woman because when I'm ignored, I completely lose interest and immediately move on 🤷♀️
@masixchell3 ай бұрын
Me too. We are not defective - we are just not podcasters who make more money when males fail so they give them bad advice on purpose😂 Idk any woman that gets closer with disconnection.
@Jamiefit113 ай бұрын
@@masixchellme too
@fatz98103 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I even forget you exist. Ghosting truly doesn’t move me. It’s a very clear communication, non verbal but communication nevertheless.
@AyAReI003 ай бұрын
@@masixchellyeah indont still understand why they give them Bad advice 😅
@tamiausten8733 ай бұрын
I don't just lose interest, sometimes I forget 😂😂😂.
@Poetically_Correct3 ай бұрын
Men: Male loneliness crisis! 😭 Women: I'm here for you.🤗 Men: *Ignores*😒
@kayleewilliams12323 ай бұрын
Then: Women: walk away Men:wtf why aren't you here for me!?
@lillyfire85243 ай бұрын
You can do everything for a man and he will still tell his buddies that you never did anything for him
@KilonovaBurst3 ай бұрын
They really said "I'm lonely, how can I make this worse for myself while also abusing women" 🤔💭
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
@@KilonovaBurst Fr fr 😐
@heneverforesakesme40383 ай бұрын
@@kayleewilliams1232 because I'm in the forrest having tea with the bear...he's present and eating all the cookies...
@rosa20983 ай бұрын
You ignore me and make me feel unwanted, imma leave you alone and never speak to you again. If you don’t care, I don’t care.
@Maybe-An-Alien3 ай бұрын
This🙌🏾 I "ghosted" a guy that did this. We bonded over our nerdy goofy humour, he was well read and quite intellectual, had the best conversations with him. After both admitting we were into each other, he would be hot and then cold the next day. I told him how it felt like he was playing mind games, he apologized and I gave him a second chance. He started doing that crap again and went silent for a whole weekend, then Monday comes and he acts like nothing happened, this time I just blocked him. Moved to a different city around that time, so only ran into him a year later, he had the audacity to call me dramatic and unforgiving,🙄 asked for another chance, told him I wasn't interested🤷🏾♀️ No matter how painful walking away from someone is, I'm not allowing people to play in my face.
@jcool7433 ай бұрын
🤦🏾♀️This is why relationships are failing. He's telling them we'll want them more but it's the opposite.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
@@Maybe-An-Aliengood for you!
@dream_on_sammi3 ай бұрын
Exactly I think men like this are projecting. This is what they do in relationships. When women in general do not want to be ignored. I don’t want clingy but both people have to be willing to give or what’s the point?
@oliviaobiaja3 ай бұрын
This...the lonely male epidemic is a self infliction delimna.
@feliciajenkins50413 ай бұрын
This is why they deserve NOTHING. If you pursue me to mistreat me. That's sadistic and evil.
@myidissasha-marie88693 ай бұрын
The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. Yes they pursue to destroy - seek and destroy is their mission
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
exactly!!! They are sadistic psychopaths and actively grooming other men to also become that!
@LibertyCairde3 ай бұрын
💯
@SobrietyandSolace3 ай бұрын
Exactly why message me at all if you’re going to avoid seeing me at all costs.
@JennyferPepin3 ай бұрын
Don't play into their little games ladies. If he doesn't treat you right, move on. They don't deserve your heart, your time and your tears.
@jayogee9133 ай бұрын
The best thing I've learned from all of these conversations and information sharing among us is their tricks and manipulation. If men ignore me, as far as I'm concerned, that's FINE by me, lol! I have no interest anymore, so I welcome them not paying attention to me. Also learning what lovebombing is. THAT one has been the most helpful. It's all manipulation, and being aware of it makes it so that I can live in freedom, peace, and wisdom. I would never go back to being ignorant about all this.
@natural33623 ай бұрын
@@jayogee913yeah! Narcissistic manipulation!
@Rozie322 ай бұрын
That mean all man are crap
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
What men fail to realize is they’ve used these tactics SO often that we are on to them🤦🏽♀️ All they’re doing is giving us the playbook to completely detach from them. Boys, thank you for shedding the light on your dysfunction. . . Now, women can peacefully move on!
@powerhouse20243 ай бұрын
@@niratomas579 these red pill men with a microphone and internet connection are doing the lords work.
@Laptopbabe3 ай бұрын
Right!!!!
@robbbaseee50812 ай бұрын
This! We’re also getting therapy and reprogramming ourselves from centering males. They will have less and less victims to exploit.
@ndnprincess25173 ай бұрын
You ignore me and I will forget you exist.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
Especially in this time of short attention span!
@arnelabih18453 ай бұрын
Ameen my eyes will be elsewhere
@noneofyourbuizness3 ай бұрын
Creating anxiety will only attract immature woman. This anxiety game isn't healthy My now future hubby was the only person that never played mind game. Imagine how common these things were We texted all the time and saw see other whenever we felt like we wanted to enjoy each other's company Made me realise he was one of a kind.❤❤❤❤
@SuMonCheri2 ай бұрын
😂😂❤❤❤
@77kc_773 ай бұрын
Dating coaches will have MEN SINGLE
@gabrielnadia10853 ай бұрын
Thank GOD 😂
@77kc_773 ай бұрын
@@gabrielnadia1085 FACTS
@jayogee9133 ай бұрын
That's their business model. They don't make money off men who don't need to date anymore!
@77kc_773 ай бұрын
@@gabrielnadia1085 right 👍🏾 so glad to be 4B
@GraceHarwood883 ай бұрын
Predatory when you think about it. Condemning their viewers to failure and charging them for the misguided nonsense. Trouble is some of the men are just lonely and lost and desperately crave a woman’s loving embrace, and they’re going the wrong way about it. Always been the way. The men with awful, unsuccessful relationships giving relationship advice to the younger in how to ruin their marriages. Men can be just awful to each other.
@macky18473 ай бұрын
These 'men' out here are sick.
@heneverforesakesme40383 ай бұрын
sweetie, they have been doing this a long long time..social media and this new generation is a blessing and opened our eyes to it.
@solomoon30833 ай бұрын
@@heneverforesakesme4038 THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!
@happygucci50943 ай бұрын
They really are sick and don’t even know it- they dying of thirst.
@sadepayne3 ай бұрын
@@heneverforesakesme4038 That's right!
@tanitshkatanjushaАй бұрын
Yep
@sharkweekeveryday1253 ай бұрын
I don't chase, I replace. My Father taught me to never lose my composure over a man. It crushes their ego. It's the best piece of advice he ever gave me.
@ladywolfwolf3 ай бұрын
In my considerable experience, men have always been the chasers. I think they are jealous that as soon as he leaves, other men will be showing up wanting to take their place. That doesn't happen so much to them.
@FreeBirdee3 ай бұрын
@@ladywolfwolfnope…they have to get back on the hunt/chase
@vladimirazubcekova77273 ай бұрын
@@ladywolfwolf then they should stop showing up? they do that to themselves basically
@ladywolfwolf3 ай бұрын
@@FreeBirdee Women don't have to chase. At 61 years old, it would take me practically no time for a male to show interest in my skills. My great grandmother married a gentleman at the tender age of 87. She was always told it was terrible to be alone. Me, I kind of like it.
@956judith3 ай бұрын
These same toxic men that play games hate when women move on with a healthy emotionally available man.
@lm20823 ай бұрын
Yes, they call those men simps lol
@bougiepeaches54973 ай бұрын
*cough cough* Future
@AmericanDreamer21 күн бұрын
yup, sick immature "men" hate healthy, emotionally available men, hence they literally invented the word "simp", to insult those good men, like simp is a non existing, made up word, brought to you by red pill BS world, to intimidate good men into conforming to toxic, evil Red Pill BS... that's it ..a bully technique
@janeelliot22803 ай бұрын
Men think manipulation is how to get and keep a woman and then wonder why women leave them and don't love them. These men would rather view relationships as a manipulation competition than actually reflect on themselves and work on themselves to build healthy relationships. 4B until they evolve.
@happygucci50943 ай бұрын
And women are socialized and conditioned under patriarchy to behave this way.
@moubhattacharyay68913 ай бұрын
Absolutely Agree Wth Thzz❤👍🏻
@iaf44542 ай бұрын
Exactly
@reallyeasy1003 ай бұрын
From what I've noticed, generally men use detachment to play mind-games. Women generally use detachment to focus on themselves and heal. It's absolutely not the same thing. It's not the same goal and end-game.
@alexnightray32043 ай бұрын
The right response to these men playing games is simple: don't play the games. Do not engage and start loving yourself.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
Hard to manipulate a woman who simply walks away! Can’t manipulate a woman who does not engage🤷🏽♀️ Manipulation works if a woman is willing to participate!
@morganalefay54543 ай бұрын
❤ right. They're pathetic
@natural33623 ай бұрын
@@niratomas579women have the power to walk away! I love it!
@SkylarSparkles-p9h3 ай бұрын
Yessssss
@MelanatednNature3 ай бұрын
Bingo
@goddesslivy3 ай бұрын
When a man ignores you mirror his behavior. Ignore him too. I guarantee you it will do you good. It will be the end of that relationship 💁🏾
@nothingbutthetruth5643 ай бұрын
❤thank you. Needed that
@terrineyluvinher98973 ай бұрын
Just happened Everything was good he pulled back i pulled back 😊 He text that he was thinking of me😅😅 I said oh ok Never heard from him again 😂😂
@UberNatasha666Ай бұрын
Stay safe and strong sis you got this
@Love-eg2vf3 ай бұрын
They’re telling on themselves though. They’re saying: “breadcrumb/invalidate this person so they want you more” therefore admitting that they desperately seek validation to the point they’re willing to go down to that level to achieve said validation. So essentially, the desperation they attribute to “women” is pure projection.
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
bingo!!!! 💯🔥
@NetSunJin3 ай бұрын
I actually don’t like a man that is liked by too many other women. And I’m not talking about looks. It means he’s playing games with a lot of other women and I’m not trying to be a part of that.
@moubhattacharyay68913 ай бұрын
Exactly! 👍🏻Whenever I See A Popular/Egotistical (Basically Baseless & 🧠less) Guy I Sarcastically Observe Them Lyk They're Something JOKER🃏 To Me I Jst Say In My Mind.. Thanks! Dude For A Good Laugh.. (Seriously! They're Something Irritates Me By Their Own Nonsense..)Lol! 🤣🤣
@SarahKateBailey3 ай бұрын
Remove yourself from the roster and block
@KilonovaBurst3 ай бұрын
This is giving an upgrade to elementary school logic, i.e. "you like her, go pull on her hair to show her you like her". Same logic, same level of immaturity. # decenter
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
It's not "immaturity" its straight up narcissistic manipulation. This shows a lack of empathy which makes them dangerous
@SuperStella11113 ай бұрын
Men have no inherent value. A world of only men would be filthy and dangerous. A world of women would be fine. Men shorten women’s lives and wreck their health. Being around a man usually means a woman loses her looks etc…post-relationship glow ups happen for a reason. We have the inherent value they don’t. If a woman stands outside for a few minutes, a man will flirt. A man can usually stand outside all day, a woman wouldn’t glance in his direction. Make sure your lover receives nothing of you without paying for it. You are the prize.
@Theaceofspace2553 ай бұрын
They want broken women
@Loluxmarie3 ай бұрын
This is trueb
@B0OBIES3 ай бұрын
Then they say "well I don't want a woman with baggage" 🙃
@77kc_773 ай бұрын
Yes easy for control
@Shillery-n1i3 ай бұрын
The only way they can feel like a man is if they are with a broken woman
@shanicrystal86713 ай бұрын
@@Shillery-n1i so true
@michelledavidson17813 ай бұрын
Eventually, they get tired of waiting and the "longing" turns to "stop wasting my time". If a Man's not moving towards you, there is no point chasing.
@flutatious_music43 ай бұрын
I learned this lesson myself. I ended up chasing a man that didn’t really like me despite claiming to. He kept saying that he could see us getting married someday, but he didn’t even work up the nerve to ask me to be his girlfriend. He wasn’t even trying to get to know me as a friend. And he kept trying to make it seem like it was my fault that we couldn’t be exclusive, because I’m the one in nursing school. Yet, I was the one always making the plans to go on dates. Eventually, I had enough and ended it. That situationship I was in was a waste of time.
@dominiquedickey50323 ай бұрын
Just cut mine now@@flutatious_music4
@DuttyGyal7183 ай бұрын
Tis the find out season after f*cking around. They gonna learn today. Men dont understand emotions. They understand ACTions.
@AfrosamuraI63 ай бұрын
Duh,, because we're direct... the total opposite to how a women operates and thinks... there is no measure in on emotions,, there is a measure where someone brakes down the door and I hv to be there to protect you...
@brianamichelle90243 ай бұрын
Ha! When we are being direct, most men complain about us “nagging” or “complaining” and a man will shut down because he doesn’t want to hear it! So foh with that. Most men, honestly only ever desire POWER and CONTROL within a relationship with a woman. That’s not gonna fly…
@AmberColeman-gq1wn3 ай бұрын
We have “undeserved ego”. But I guess a man’s ego is.. “deserved”..? And these are the same kind of men who will say that society doesn’t value them, and that their mental health is ignored. Smh. To me, it’s counterproductive. I don’t have time for this kind of stuff, but god bless the women who endure this kind of mess.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
We have “underserved ego” yet they go out of their way to manipulate women in an attempt to lure us into a relationship!
@KilonovaBurst3 ай бұрын
woman with self-worth,pride, and confidence= egotistical(undeserved ego).
@emmm_44653 ай бұрын
Of course if you can’t afford something you need to ask it at its lowest price
@victorias52723 ай бұрын
They’re jealous of women
@taiwo52823 ай бұрын
They are always steadily giving horrible advice smh.....
@poohcanplay1233 ай бұрын
And will turn around and act like victims
@powerhouse20243 ай бұрын
@@poohcanplay123 every time no matter what 😂
@NutsNBerries3 ай бұрын
lmao
@mzmindurbusiness44893 ай бұрын
Must be xy’s in here
@rgirl12433 ай бұрын
I once was really into this guy, but he was aloof. He would tell me he liked me but around other people he acted like he was cool on me. So, one day I was out on a date with another dude. He happened to see us that night kissing. He called me and left a whole nasty gram on my VM calling me every version of lady of the night in the english language. Oh well...your loss.
@tiffnym3 ай бұрын
😂 he was too slow and that was on him!
@NutsNBerries3 ай бұрын
lmao....thats what he gets
@UseYourVoices3 ай бұрын
These so-called gurus and dating coaches are just making shit up at this point. If I'm waiting for a text/call from you and it doesn't come, I don't fall in love, I fall out of like. You obviously are not that interested in me, and that's fine. It won't break me. I have so many other things going on in my life. I don't latch on to men like that. These men are delusional. Abuse and neglect do not make me fall in love. If you ignore me, I'll give you the same energy you give me and IGNORE YOU RIGHT BACK!!! I will delete you, block you, and keep it pushing. Stop lying to these gullible young men who listen to your podcasts. I hate that shit!!! I get away from men like that with the quickness.
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
EXACTLY ‼️
@elisabethhughes60053 ай бұрын
And if you think you’re getting emotionally caught up by any man who’s messing with you, just imagine him in his probable natural state: sitting in a dim room, zoning out on stranger-smut on a screen, with his hand down his pants. Disempowered. You’ll get instant ick and a freed up mind. Then go have a fun day.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
This.
@RickRorose3 ай бұрын
Go to OF, hit forgot password, type in his email address and if it says password reset emailed, he’s got OF and is pretty gross. Plus he’s too cheap to take you out or buy you things but he gives these “ladies on the cam” the cash flow. And jacks to it like some baboon.
@noraa.6163 ай бұрын
Just to add to the example you mentioned: that m@le in a dim room likely also has a stench of some sort (even nurses mentioned that many male patients leave poop stains on the hospital beds!)
@AyAReI003 ай бұрын
I watch a show one time with a psychologist saying if You want to fall off love, imaging the significant other taking a shit
@ashleykathryn90383 ай бұрын
🎯
@gabriella_123x3 ай бұрын
My heart is full of love. Partner of 2 years started ignoring me and saying he didn’t want a relationship anymore. I told him I accept your no and I will be moving on. I blocked him on everything, and now dating other wonderful man. I know he will regret it one day. I wish him the best :)
@SweetAven003 ай бұрын
I had a man just do this recently .. and it made me resent him. He’s not adult enough to be open or honest, it wreaks of weakness.
@babyg77963 ай бұрын
Tbh, those men are right. HOWEVER, once a woman grows some self-awareness, self-respect & self-love, these tactics no longer work. I recently got back into dating & found myself emotionally chasing men who weren’t reciprocating effort, But when I finally saw them in person it was a different story. It only took them doing this once and me catching on to the game that I quickly fell back and distanced myself. Some of them tried to come back to me, with some bs excuse that they were sooo busy & the rest just fell off. When a man really likes you & wants to pursue you, these cat & mouse games won’t even be apart of the conversation. This is simply to boost their EGO-don’t fall for it!
@AyAReI003 ай бұрын
I think that if a person is soooo busy that have no time to woo You then that person don't deserve a parnert... We all have a little time during the day, not having time for days is no sense. At least a woman wants exactly that not having to spend time with their man but the bare minimum, that why some women Marry marines, soldiers, pilots, hahahahaha they don't care and if fact they want that, indont know a single military woman crying cuz she hasnr seen his husband, they are ao chill hahahahah, when they come, they come
@natural33623 ай бұрын
This is all their games to boost their ego because they need women to serve them
@hippie12523 ай бұрын
Gotta block them so they can't give you their excuses. Happened to me. He kept pushing back dates, went a week without texting me. I blocked him.
@natural33623 ай бұрын
@@hippie1252 it's a loud and clear communication. He is shouting at you non verbal " i don't want you! You're just shit to me" Well i block anyone who shows me that i meant nothing to them. I rather die single than to betray the person i love the most which is me
@HellaBay233 ай бұрын
These push-and-pull tactics sound psychotic.
@TM-nb9zf3 ай бұрын
These tactics work with young women or broken women. Thats it
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
This is why young girls and womenn need to be warned especially.
@chiobabe21803 ай бұрын
Then they get older and realize the game
@Bodytheliz3 ай бұрын
I’m 24 this shit doesn’t work on me at all I’m the queen Of giving back the same energy
@ageofaquarius83093 ай бұрын
💯
@anonymousa-uy1hk3 ай бұрын
I love it!!! Let them keep talking. The more they talk, the smarter we become. 4B ALL THE WAY!
@duckyh97123 ай бұрын
Not very smart since the 4 b movement was a fake made up movement from feminists and you believe it.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
The more they talk, the more they reveal to us!
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
@@duckyh9712 Kick rocks ince1. Y'all can 1ie all u want but the dropping birth rates and male loneliness crisis says womenn are decentering from males. Team bear 🐱🥂🐻
@duckyh97123 ай бұрын
@@kittenkat5244 watch the video by Anne Lee exposing your 4B lies. Y’all are pretending to do what men do. Men actually pulled out of dating yall are pretending to. Go on google check the stats. Don’t give from the truth.
@truecrimes14353 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 yes@@kittenkat5244
@roccafille3 ай бұрын
This is terrible advice. I'm convinced these guys just want other men to be as misserable as them. Terrible!!
@stephanies907120 күн бұрын
Bingo!😂
@theiswithin36493 ай бұрын
I'm so thankfull for the internet. Let males talk enough and they always tell on themselves
@SoramimiKeiki3 ай бұрын
I did this on a date. I let the guy talk non stop, just asked a question now and then, to give him the oppurtunity to blabber on more non-stop. He revealed EVERYTHING about himself and on his plans he had with me, and it was horrible. It was the first and last date with this guy.
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
gurl
@jayogee9133 ай бұрын
I'm so tired of them and turned off by them at this point, I honestly have no desire for a man to pay attention to me. When one does approach me, I roll my eyes to myself and sometimes pretend I don't see him or hear him, lol!
@shanicrystal86713 ай бұрын
I’ve been wearing a fake wedding ring lately, if I sense one looking over at me I flash that 😂
@jayogee9133 ай бұрын
@@shanicrystal8671 I've thought about doing that, but honestly, I don't even want them thinking I'm interested in being with a man. I don't wear a ring, and when I turn some guy down, I do it politely, sweetly, and tell them EXACTLY why I don't get involved with men anymore. And they honestly have nothing to say! What are they going to say to a woman who tells them that s3x and relationships with men is not good enough to risk my life, limb, and freedom for them? Pretty much shuts down the vibe, lol!
@2rude3073 ай бұрын
You're scaring away the right ones like us.
@jayogee9133 ай бұрын
@@2rude307 You all better do something about your more repulsive brothers, then, because yes, they ARE ruining it for ALL of you! And it's not up to women to fix this problem! We're just keeping ourselves safe and happy!
@ameenahgaffar73833 ай бұрын
@@2rude307there’s no such thing
@itzyogurlEleanor3 ай бұрын
Effort is attractive to me.
@clauaome253 ай бұрын
BLOCKED!!!! 🚫🚫🚫
@heneverforesakesme40383 ай бұрын
Me: okay..no more videos, I've learned enough Mary J: posted a new informational video Me: okay...one more..I need to watch this....😉😉😉
@rosierb8523 ай бұрын
Same😂
@ZanilSingsToo3 ай бұрын
The blind leading the blind. This is actually sad to see.
@gabriellehanks68503 ай бұрын
When I was still on the dating scene, I would just cheat on a guy when he ignored me. It ain't the 60's. Lol.. Women aren't waiting at home by the phone anymore. At least not alone.🤷🏽♀️
@kimcham99493 ай бұрын
It's not cheating when you're not in an exclusive relationship. It's just dating. You're still single - FREE to date whomever you like.
@Blossom7023 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but there’s no justification for cheating..
@FoAl-h2b3 ай бұрын
Had a guy i was seeing ignore my calls and messages. I broke things up. Goodluck to men that think like this. Women are choosing better now.
@Betterme4lf3 ай бұрын
Like Princella The Queen Maker says men are incapable of Love. Knowing what Love truly is and not believing man’s definition will keep you free from men. That’s where your power lies.
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
yeppppp
@RNDiva333 ай бұрын
I wish I knew this in my twenties.
@Prismatic90083 ай бұрын
When men do things like this and play these games, I block them and move on. Manipulation is not cute. They want unhealed women who will chase them because they know deep down that they bring nothing to relationships, especially if they are emotionally unavailable. Men are giving terrible advice and clearly don't understand quality women. Healed women don't chase. They want unhealed women who stay in their masculine energy. They are jealous of the attention women get. That's why so many women are tired of dating. Men play way too many games & my patience is not the same as it was when I was in my 20s when I was naive. I'm the type that will change my number and have a dude texting and calling into the abyss if they play games like this 🤷🏾♀️
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
exactly so!!!! And - same here!!! 💯🔥
@elainesorrell21423 ай бұрын
Men mistreating women is not a Christian way, i will be with a man that loves me like christ loves his church
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
Amen! 💎
@Cynophileandavianenthusiast3 ай бұрын
Ah yes, xys telling me about myself. Thanks 🤡🤛
@thebilliexojean3 ай бұрын
I match energy when I date someone. You get what you give with me. It’s very simple. No guess work. No mind games. I communicate, and I’m clear. If you can’t do the same, I don’t have the time or the dime, my baby 😅
@cuethelights81953 ай бұрын
These guys know nothing. But keep advising these fools. Real women are busy. Thanks!
@Emo2heart3 ай бұрын
All these men need the gift of singleness. Are the of a boyfriend because all these mind games are gross
@sinceresong99073 ай бұрын
Exhausting total waste of time and their own lives, let alone anyone else's.
@tamiausten8733 ай бұрын
3:53 this touched me in my soul. This man is talking to men but I felt like he was speaking to me alone. I just started to remember who and how I was before. Imagine that I used to play with makeup at 13, now sometimes I stay a day without washing my face 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. I'm actually depressed, I don't have anyone I want to see except for my mother. I need to take drastic measures to get to a good, healthy state. I've been hurt in life but I'm only 23 and this emptiness has come too early.
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
Beautiful, beautiful girl....Pray to Your Father in heaven....He hears you wherever you are, if you speak out loud or pray silently in your thoughts...! May He heal you and protect you! Seek Him while He may be found! He will keep you from evil!
@sashashaktiable3 ай бұрын
I feel you. Been there, done that, still learning to live again. I wish you to find your way home to your true whole self.
@gabbypage69293 ай бұрын
I was with a guy who stopped contacting me for 2 weeks. When he rang with the he was busy crap I ditched him.
@MbalenhleQwabe3 ай бұрын
All these games... you're damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
@yoachim913 ай бұрын
Don't take advice from this type of stuff. All these influencers men and women alike, they want clicks not your happiness. The only truth is that every person is vastly different so you can't make general statements in the first place. Good day.
@truthseeker39673 ай бұрын
This is diabolical. What a world!
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
Yup demonic.
@sinceresong99073 ай бұрын
What do you mean..The message here?
@truthseeker39673 ай бұрын
@@sinceresong9907I mean it is diabolical the level of scheming, manipulating and deceit to get one's way at the expense of someone else; it is dehumanizing to the other person. Even the lie by omission is deceit - the man is still intentionally misleading. ======> But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, WITHOUT LOVE [WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION, in other translations], unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, BRUTAL, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.... (2 Timothy 3:2-4)
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
its a man's world thats why it's fucked up
@conniemcmillian70103 ай бұрын
4B Movement ladies 🚺
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
yep
@Chunlialways3 ай бұрын
this is emotional abuse and to me it's not just emotionally, it's physically and mentally too. trash throwing itself out is the best and leave it there ladies!
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
yes, abusers grooming other men to become abusers if they already aren't....Insanity !!!
@powerhouse20243 ай бұрын
This is hilarious because I have had men try this from the first interaction - when THEY slid up in my DM’s totally uninvited. Then he starts this waiting to reply to a text when I never asked for a text in the first place. In fact, he is nothing but an actual problem having a conversation with himself in my texts. If I took 3 days to text, he takes 3 to flippantly tell me how busy he is and he will call soon. Uh bru I never asked you to call what are you doing. It’s so obvious when a dude is playing red pill games. They are not getting the memo that we don’t give a sh**. No one gives a sh**. Ignore me PLEASE. It’s REALLY obvious when the woman isn’t remotely attracted to the dude that they are playing this game😂
@kimcham99493 ай бұрын
Do you block these men?
@powerhouse2024Ай бұрын
@@kimcham9949 this example was a guy at my bougie apt leasing office. Took my # from the computer 🤯 I’m 50 IT NEVER ENDS. I literally faked cancer to get rid of him, then cold shouldered him when I saw him, then outright ignored him when I was weeks from leaving. When my deposit is returned, I’ll be leaving a strongly worded Google review.
@powerhouse2024Ай бұрын
@@kimcham9949 I don’t date, I don’t invite interaction with any men. Now I won’t sign a lease either. Being trapped in leases is going to be more of a problem for women moving forward.
@andreaschmidt51073 ай бұрын
My husband use to try this with me, it didn’t work because I would give as good as I got, I would cook dinner for me and the kids but not him I would do laundry but not his.
@natural33623 ай бұрын
And if he try harder, divorce! Ain't putting with that shit
@FoAl-h2b3 ай бұрын
What did he do to ignore you?
@bjyoung9243 ай бұрын
Why do you stay? Just curious?
@annamayyy97713 ай бұрын
This advice from the 1st video made me break up with someone completely 😂 he thought I would chase after him. He thought I would want him
@Neskazeria3 ай бұрын
I’ll wear the “Underserved Ego” badge with pride because it’s a symbol of the self-respect I still have for myself to not play these boys games. My goal in love is mutual respect, not one in power over other but that’s all these men want. I’m so sick of hearing, “oh these women want us to kiss the ground they walk on” that shouldn’t be a problem statement if you mutually respect each other. The men that have actually listened to women instead of continuing to play games understand that they’ll be treated like a king, if their partner feels HEARD and respected (like a queen) With all this said, BOTH women and men need to work together.
@inettawalker93873 ай бұрын
Mutual respect IS a must!
@kindandinternationl93863 ай бұрын
Women do this to each other, too. Put downs, ignoring, stonewalling, silent treatments, withholding compliments and support..
@rkl36923 ай бұрын
My husband played these nasty games with me for years. Last guy in the video is gold. Who is he? When I was done, I was done. He is now my ex and still can't believe that I have a cold side. Happily separated though he is miserable.
@NetrunnerMox773 ай бұрын
Didnt even have to listen to the rest of the men on those 'advice' podcast to know they are setting men up for failure. An adult woman has no interest in a man who is hot and cold. That is wasted energy
@ds372153 ай бұрын
You said it...adult women. But these same men are openly saying they prefer them barely legal.
@dream_on_sammi3 ай бұрын
Why in the hell do men think like this? I mean really I would love to know. If I’m ignored too long in a relationship I’ll leave or ignore in turn. No one wants to be completely ignored all the time. Why is anyone with someone if they’re just going to be ignored constantly. Ignore your wife and come back and let me know how that’s working for you.
@kittenkat52443 ай бұрын
They are acting like narcissists with severe personality disorders. Empathy is a human characteristic but these males show a lack of empathy.
@yoachim913 ай бұрын
It's just influencers and their nonsense to get clicks, normal people who are in love are not busy with all this bs. I find it entertaining from both sides but i would never implement 99% of it. I can't remember any time i ignored my wife in 11 years.
@NutsNBerries3 ай бұрын
because other toxic men tell them to lol
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
they are demonic sheep
@gazellehelene53803 ай бұрын
But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. II Timothy 3:1-7 NKJV God BEEN warned us!!
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
🎯🙌🏻
@G.G.2763 ай бұрын
He Did! Roman 5:12. Majority are Useless!
@emmm_44653 ай бұрын
This is why knowing about attachment styles and your own can really help. Anxious attachment would be manipulated by this. Someone with a secure attachment would acknowledge the situation but ultimately walk away. I recommend Thais Gibson’s channel.
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
Not really and what she does is indirectly gaslight women (because mostly women are the audience of PDS) into overly examining themselves when in most situation, problem is not that there is not enough self reflection, BUT that women put up with too much, tolerate abuse and red flags and when the men's crap gets overwhelming, they get told that they are just not secure enough!! There is some truth to AT (It's a theory not a fact!!!) but it has turned into a slippery slope with the mental gymnastics, done on those people who are suffering at emotional abusers, disguised as just yet another attachment style characteristic.
@elephantintheroom5678Ай бұрын
I wish I had access to all this education about how to deal with men years ago. It would have saved me a lot of time, energy and life.
@renethomas65753 ай бұрын
These men who have played these game of being emotionlly unavailable are the ones who are looking for a nurse in later years or who end up in nursing home with no-one caring about them because they have burnt too many good women and children. The last guys was 100% on point once I'm done there is no coming back to what could have been..."you snooze you lose!"
@G.G.2763 ай бұрын
Or With a Guy!
@aprilswill92043 ай бұрын
Nah, I forget. I’ve been humbled by life so at this age, I want everything I deserve.
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
yes, exactly! Go for it and don't settle for less! 💎
@Neelam-uk3yk3 ай бұрын
yes very true 💖🌼🥺
@lm20823 ай бұрын
When a man ignores me I go off into my own world, if I’m in a relationship. He would barely see me lol (true story that’s what I do lol). If I’m trying to get to know a guy and he ignores me I block him and move on as if I never met him 😂
@mystichealer3 ай бұрын
@1:22 He says "Women believe men were put on the earth to worship the ground they walk on." So, if men were not put on the earth to worship women.... what exactly were they put on the earth to do? Somebody please list 5 reason men are put on this earth that have nothing to do with women. Go! 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
@xiamariansupreme723 ай бұрын
Exactly, meanwhile men think women were put on Earth to worship them. Hypocrites.
@2rude3073 ай бұрын
1. God 2. God 3. God 4. God 5. God
@powerhouse20243 ай бұрын
@@2rude307 well then why aren’t they doing that instead of manipulating, abusing, and using women. We would prefer it if they just went and hung out with their god. All day. Forever.
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
be evil and misogynistic and selfish is what xy chromosomes have done for centuries #4B
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
God has nothing to do with it. Yall aren't acting like god
@hardcandy712873 ай бұрын
shera7 spits facts. i don't follow her too closely but essentially she's saying, "find a man who likes you more than you like him."
@SelenaSecretShow3 ай бұрын
This control tactic doesn't work on women that have avoidant personality types and the reason why is because we're actively looking for a reason to never talk to you ever again you just confirmed it to us. 😂
@myidissasha-marie88693 ай бұрын
FACTS!
@Djteesha3 ай бұрын
Yes!
@Bodytheliz3 ай бұрын
@@SelenaSecretShow girl preach this is me daily with humans
@MY-qm6yzАй бұрын
Honestly I’ve been addicted to your videos since I found you. And that was after going through the worst hurt and pain caused by a man….oh, how naive I’ve been…love your work
@denisemitchell60343 ай бұрын
Ignore me.. I will definitely block you… not because of my ego but because I know you are playing games… go play with ya momma. Go play on a playground.. cause clearly that is where the immaturity needs to be… 🙌🏾🙏🏾🤷🏽♀️
@audrablue5153 ай бұрын
This is the equivalent of telling your sons and daughters that when a boy punches you in the arm it’s because he likes you. WTF kind of relationship advice is that for kids? Parents need to be more accountable and tell both sexes if they are mean to you or ignore you, to move on because THEY DON’T WANT YOU.
@salome91243 ай бұрын
Man unless you’re my husband, you ignore me I’m out. And even if you are my husband, detachment starts. I have Never entertained multiple men at once so never grew addicted to attention . I’m fine and beautiful. So I get attention but since I’m married it’s just looks and hellos and you made my days is as far as it goes. There is nothing to miss or to yearn for. I have pretty privilege, which is just a privilege to get man handled at a young age first. I have learned that my beauty is a mask and a tool, and anyone that addresses my tools yet never addresses my soul is a passerby.
@gabrielamartiniuc63223 ай бұрын
Fighting for his attention? NO. You ignore me , I’m no longer interested. I am interested in mutual attraction. These relationship coaches are so stupid . You’re disconnected towards me , I’m walking away. I am only interested in a man that is capable of being genuine and real! I don’t need to detach from someone that I have never been attached to in the first place. I will attach only to a man that is attached to me and committed to me!
@nehanebnica3 ай бұрын
that guy at the end of the video has told pure facts and truth!!! It completely described the end of my relationship with my ex
@Jeronda-se6im3 ай бұрын
Peace is beautiful
@arieldaniellestewart87803 ай бұрын
I dated a man for 2 years and he went one week without seeing or texting me once and I broke up with him immediately lmao, so...
@pagie24673 ай бұрын
Lost him when he said "box". If he uses that word run. Yuck.
@niratomas5793 ай бұрын
They lack emotional intelligence. Their vocabulary is severely lacking. They manipulate their way into relationships. They get online to share their mediocrity with the world. What are women missing out on exactly???? I’ll wait.
@chiobabe21803 ай бұрын
Right. So cringe
@TIAOFNEBULA3 ай бұрын
For the demographic with the highest rate of loneliness and suicides they sure ALWAYS give terrible dating advice lol
@NutsNBerries3 ай бұрын
lol
@gwendolynrobinson37253 ай бұрын
It's 2024. Women know better now.
@morganhumphrey55873 ай бұрын
some do actually not all
@Kikki3053 ай бұрын
Childish ass game leads to lonely gamers
@TARAdubbleyuu3 ай бұрын
😂great comment!
@alexp243702 ай бұрын
Thank you for your sacred words. Women of all ages should be listening to this message. I am following!!
@LibertyCairde3 ай бұрын
This is emotional abuse!!!!! What they are teaching them is to be abusers. This is heartbreaking
@edithart57533 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for the internet 🙏, they gave these men a safe place to talk and it has taught me a lesson. I now know I wasn't the problem because for a minute I didn't feel good enough. No matter what I did and now I know they are the ones with the issue all along.
@MP-pp9nd3 ай бұрын
That last video needs to be a PSA every night at 10pm.
@Melissakay093 ай бұрын
The more u hold off ❣️the more you ignore men they want u❣️ let him chase❣️
@elainesorrell21423 ай бұрын
These men a narcissist
@AshaSelfsDemoFilms3 ай бұрын
So this will not work on ADHD people😅 Still not diagnosed but I don't miss people. I'm glad to see them but I don't miss them. Part of the reason I'm thinking I need to be evaluated. (been married bout 20 years)
@KarenTski3 ай бұрын
Another guy that knows about women hahahahaha
@natural33623 ай бұрын
I rather die single than to accept the and give myself to the people who have the extra effort to show me they don't want me I rather die single than to entrust myself who is ghosting abandoning betraying hurting and abusing me. Never! I'm just too previous for that. Once they have done that, they don't deserve and worthy of me I'm blocking!
@G.G.2763 ай бұрын
Why do that? Be World Renown. TRAVEL!
@natural33623 ай бұрын
@@G.G.276 i will travel! I will have every blessings that life has to offer me. I accept and receive it and i be grateful for it. I want more. I was always destined for greatness
@sammich-lp2qm3 ай бұрын
He’s right, a woman will treat you the way she wants to be treated. That’s what I thought we all were taught? Treat people the way you want to be treated - and yet men somehow think that they don’t have to do that. I don’t get where the disconnect is. And then I’m supposed to believe that men treat you the way that they want to be treated when they first meet you? Because they just love women that treat them like crap, and they find every reason in the world to chase her. Where is the split in their brain coming from?
@AmericanDreamer3 ай бұрын
💯🤷 I genuinely second your comment/question, it has been on my kind a lot too - where is this coming from? It's literally insanity!
@iaf44542 ай бұрын
Sheera is right!!! Bussiness iss bussiness
@lillycham3 ай бұрын
I will not chase you sir, never.
@Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard3 ай бұрын
This has been a fascinating video. ❤ Thank you!
@9darshana3 ай бұрын
I can't stand that black guy most of all. He has to be Lucifer's favorite.
@gabrielamartiniuc63223 ай бұрын
That black guy has been rejected by the hottest 🔥🔥🔥