MEN USING EMOTIONAL TACTICS TO ENSLAVE WOMEN| WOMEN GAIN FREEDOM BY DETACHING

[@anabelsama]

If a man ignores me, I'm blocking them💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️

[@ms.opinion8470]

period!

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Block them! Because you better believe they will come BACK! Men love to use women! They need far more attention and validation than we ever will! They can have a whole girlfriend of even wife at home- but as soon as they argue with her or feel insignificant- they’ll come crawling your way, so you can validate that EGO BABY! Block- depending on what business you have attached to your number, might even want to change that number.

[@RachelLondon]

Straight.

[@kittenkat5244]

Fr fr PeriodT 🦶

[@tamiausten873]

I have some guys trying to date me or most likely just have sex a few times with me. The thing is I'm not even remotely attracted to them and they don't even chat me up to get to know me and engage in conversations. Then suddenly I'm receiving calls😂😂 and I'm irritated, then they send messages like "come and see me" or "when can we meet"? The only guy who I've ever visited used to respond to my texts immediately, always, like even at midnight, now I'm hoping he comes back to town so we can hang out. They don't realize that people are attached by contact, I don't know if those men thought being distant to a girl who hasn't gotten to know them would spark interest 😂😂😂

[@emmadiri7189]

I’m blocking any man who wants me to chase him

[@natural3362]

As you should. Those men are garbage and they are playing games

[@SkylarSparkles-p9h]

PERIOD

[@dianaslade9595]

Exactly

[@jordanferguson2254]

Yeah, it doesn't look good at all when a woman is chasing, it's so gross lmao 😅😂

[@XXLady]

I guess I'm a defective woman because when I'm ignored, I completely lose interest and immediately move on 🤷‍♀️

[@masixchell]

Me too. We are not defective - we are just not podcasters who make more money when males fail so they give them bad advice on purpose😂 Idk any woman that gets closer with disconnection.

[@Jamiefit11]

​@@masixchellme too

[@fatz9810]

😂😂😂 I even forget you exist. Ghosting truly doesn’t move me. It’s a very clear communication, non verbal but communication nevertheless.

[@AyAReI00]

​@@masixchellyeah indont still understand why they give them Bad advice 😅

[@tamiausten873]

I don't just lose interest, sometimes I forget 😂😂😂.

[@Poetically_Correct]

Men: Male loneliness crisis! 😭 Women: I'm here for you.🤗 Men: *Ignores*😒

[@kayleewilliams1232]

Then: Women: walk away Men:wtf why aren't you here for me!?

[@lillyfire8524]

You can do everything for a man and he will still tell his buddies that you never did anything for him

[@KilonovaBurst]

They really said "I'm lonely, how can I make this worse for myself while also abusing women" 🤔💭

[@kittenkat5244]

@@KilonovaBurst Fr fr 😐

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

@@kayleewilliams1232 because I'm in the forrest having tea with the bear...he's present and eating all the cookies...

[@rosa2098]

You ignore me and make me feel unwanted, imma leave you alone and never speak to you again. If you don’t care, I don’t care.

[@Maybe-An-Alien]

This🙌🏾 I "ghosted" a guy that did this. We bonded over our nerdy goofy humour, he was well read and quite intellectual, had the best conversations with him. After both admitting we were into each other, he would be hot and then cold the next day. I told him how it felt like he was playing mind games, he apologized and I gave him a second chance. He started doing that crap again and went silent for a whole weekend, then Monday comes and he acts like nothing happened, this time I just blocked him. Moved to a different city around that time, so only ran into him a year later, he had the audacity to call me dramatic and unforgiving,🙄 asked for another chance, told him I wasn't interested🤷🏾‍♀️ No matter how painful walking away from someone is, I'm not allowing people to play in my face.

[@jcool743]

🤦🏾‍♀️This is why relationships are failing. He's telling them we'll want them more but it's the opposite.

[@niratomas579]

@@Maybe-An-Aliengood for you!

[@dream_on_sammi]

Exactly I think men like this are projecting. This is what they do in relationships. When women in general do not want to be ignored. I don’t want clingy but both people have to be willing to give or what’s the point?

[@oliviaobiaja]

This...the lonely male epidemic is a self infliction delimna.

[@feliciajenkins5041]

This is why they deserve NOTHING. If you pursue me to mistreat me. That's sadistic and evil.

[@myidissasha-marie8869]

The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. Yes they pursue to destroy - seek and destroy is their mission

[@AmericanDreamer]

exactly!!! They are sadistic psychopaths and actively grooming other men to also become that!

[@LibertyCairde]

💯

[@SobrietyandSolace]

Exactly why message me at all if you’re going to avoid seeing me at all costs.

[@JennyferPepin]

Don't play into their little games ladies. If he doesn't treat you right, move on. They don't deserve your heart, your time and your tears.

[@jayogee913]

The best thing I've learned from all of these conversations and information sharing among us is their tricks and manipulation. If men ignore me, as far as I'm concerned, that's FINE by me, lol! I have no interest anymore, so I welcome them not paying attention to me. Also learning what lovebombing is. THAT one has been the most helpful. It's all manipulation, and being aware of it makes it so that I can live in freedom, peace, and wisdom. I would never go back to being ignorant about all this.

[@natural3362]

​@@jayogee913yeah! Narcissistic manipulation!

[@Rozie32]

That mean all man are crap

[@niratomas579]

What men fail to realize is they’ve used these tactics SO often that we are on to them🤦🏽‍♀️ All they’re doing is giving us the playbook to completely detach from them. Boys, thank you for shedding the light on your dysfunction. . . Now, women can peacefully move on!

[@powerhouse2024]

@@niratomas579 these red pill men with a microphone and internet connection are doing the lords work.

[@Laptopbabe]

Right!!!!

[@robbbaseee5081]

This! We’re also getting therapy and reprogramming ourselves from centering males. They will have less and less victims to exploit.

[@ndnprincess2517]

You ignore me and I will forget you exist.

[@niratomas579]

Especially in this time of short attention span!

[@arnelabih1845]

Ameen my eyes will be elsewhere

[@noneofyourbuizness]

Creating anxiety will only attract immature woman. This anxiety game isn't healthy My now future hubby was the only person that never played mind game. Imagine how common these things were We texted all the time and saw see other whenever we felt like we wanted to enjoy each other's company Made me realise he was one of a kind.❤❤❤❤

[@SuMonCheri]

😂😂❤❤❤

[@77kc_77]

Dating coaches will have MEN SINGLE

[@gabrielnadia1085]

Thank GOD 😂

[@77kc_77]

@@gabrielnadia1085 FACTS

[@jayogee913]

That's their business model. They don't make money off men who don't need to date anymore!

[@77kc_77]

@@gabrielnadia1085 right 👍🏾 so glad to be 4B

[@GraceHarwood88]

Predatory when you think about it. Condemning their viewers to failure and charging them for the misguided nonsense. Trouble is some of the men are just lonely and lost and desperately crave a woman’s loving embrace, and they’re going the wrong way about it. Always been the way. The men with awful, unsuccessful relationships giving relationship advice to the younger in how to ruin their marriages. Men can be just awful to each other.

[@macky1847]

These 'men' out here are sick.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

sweetie, they have been doing this a long long time..social media and this new generation is a blessing and opened our eyes to it.

[@solomoon3083]

@@heneverforesakesme4038 THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@happygucci5094]

They really are sick and don’t even know it- they dying of thirst.

[@sadepayne]

​@@heneverforesakesme4038 That's right!

[@tanitshkatanjusha]

Yep

[@sharkweekeveryday125]

I don't chase, I replace. My Father taught me to never lose my composure over a man. It crushes their ego. It's the best piece of advice he ever gave me.

[@ladywolfwolf]

In my considerable experience, men have always been the chasers. I think they are jealous that as soon as he leaves, other men will be showing up wanting to take their place. That doesn't happen so much to them.

[@FreeBirdee]

@@ladywolfwolfnope…they have to get back on the hunt/chase

[@vladimirazubcekova7727]

@@ladywolfwolf then they should stop showing up? they do that to themselves basically

[@ladywolfwolf]

@@FreeBirdee Women don't have to chase. At 61 years old, it would take me practically no time for a male to show interest in my skills. My great grandmother married a gentleman at the tender age of 87. She was always told it was terrible to be alone. Me, I kind of like it.

[@956judith]

These same toxic men that play games hate when women move on with a healthy emotionally available man.

[@lm2082]

Yes, they call those men simps lol

[@bougiepeaches5497]

*cough cough* Future

[@AmericanDreamer]

yup, sick immature "men" hate healthy, emotionally available men, hence they literally invented the word "simp", to insult those good men, like simp is a non existing, made up word, brought to you by red pill BS world, to intimidate good men into conforming to toxic, evil Red Pill BS... that's it ..a bully technique

[@janeelliot2280]

Men think manipulation is how to get and keep a woman and then wonder why women leave them and don't love them. These men would rather view relationships as a manipulation competition than actually reflect on themselves and work on themselves to build healthy relationships. 4B until they evolve.

[@happygucci5094]

And women are socialized and conditioned under patriarchy to behave this way.

[@moubhattacharyay6891]

Absolutely Agree Wth Thzz❤👍🏻

[@iaf4454]

Exactly

[@reallyeasy100]

From what I've noticed, generally men use detachment to play mind-games. Women generally use detachment to focus on themselves and heal. It's absolutely not the same thing. It's not the same goal and end-game.

[@alexnightray3204]

The right response to these men playing games is simple: don't play the games. Do not engage and start loving yourself.

[@niratomas579]

Hard to manipulate a woman who simply walks away! Can’t manipulate a woman who does not engage🤷🏽‍♀️ Manipulation works if a woman is willing to participate!

[@morganalefay5454]

❤ right. They're pathetic

[@natural3362]

​@@niratomas579women have the power to walk away! I love it!

[@SkylarSparkles-p9h]

Yessssss

[@MelanatednNature]

Bingo

[@goddesslivy]

When a man ignores you mirror his behavior. Ignore him too. I guarantee you it will do you good. It will be the end of that relationship 💁🏾

[@nothingbutthetruth564]

❤thank you. Needed that

[@terrineyluvinher9897]

Just happened Everything was good he pulled back i pulled back 😊 He text that he was thinking of me😅😅 I said oh ok Never heard from him again 😂😂

[@UberNatasha666]

Stay safe and strong sis you got this

[@Love-eg2vf]

They’re telling on themselves though. They’re saying: “breadcrumb/invalidate this person so they want you more” therefore admitting that they desperately seek validation to the point they’re willing to go down to that level to achieve said validation. So essentially, the desperation they attribute to “women” is pure projection.

[@AmericanDreamer]

bingo!!!! 💯🔥

[@NetSunJin]

I actually don’t like a man that is liked by too many other women. And I’m not talking about looks. It means he’s playing games with a lot of other women and I’m not trying to be a part of that.

[@moubhattacharyay6891]

Exactly! 👍🏻Whenever I See A Popular/Egotistical (Basically Baseless & 🧠less) Guy I Sarcastically Observe Them Lyk They're Something JOKER🃏 To Me I Jst Say In My Mind.. Thanks! Dude For A Good Laugh.. (Seriously! They're Something Irritates Me By Their Own Nonsense..)Lol! 🤣🤣

[@SarahKateBailey]

Remove yourself from the roster and block

[@KilonovaBurst]

This is giving an upgrade to elementary school logic, i.e. "you like her, go pull on her hair to show her you like her". Same logic, same level of immaturity. # decenter

[@kittenkat5244]

It's not "immaturity" its straight up narcissistic manipulation. This shows a lack of empathy which makes them dangerous

[@SuperStella1111]

Men have no inherent value. A world of only men would be filthy and dangerous. A world of women would be fine. Men shorten women’s lives and wreck their health. Being around a man usually means a woman loses her looks etc…post-relationship glow ups happen for a reason. We have the inherent value they don’t. If a woman stands outside for a few minutes, a man will flirt. A man can usually stand outside all day, a woman wouldn’t glance in his direction. Make sure your lover receives nothing of you without paying for it. You are the prize.

[@Theaceofspace255]

They want broken women

[@Loluxmarie]

This is trueb

[@B0OBIES]

Then they say "well I don't want a woman with baggage" 🙃

[@77kc_77]

Yes easy for control

[@Shillery-n1i]

The only way they can feel like a man is if they are with a broken woman

[@shanicrystal8671]

@@Shillery-n1i so true

[@michelledavidson1781]

Eventually, they get tired of waiting and the "longing" turns to "stop wasting my time". If a Man's not moving towards you, there is no point chasing.

[@flutatious_music4]

I learned this lesson myself. I ended up chasing a man that didn’t really like me despite claiming to. He kept saying that he could see us getting married someday, but he didn’t even work up the nerve to ask me to be his girlfriend. He wasn’t even trying to get to know me as a friend. And he kept trying to make it seem like it was my fault that we couldn’t be exclusive, because I’m the one in nursing school. Yet, I was the one always making the plans to go on dates. Eventually, I had enough and ended it. That situationship I was in was a waste of time.

[@dominiquedickey5032]

Just cut mine now​@@flutatious_music4

[@DuttyGyal718]

Tis the find out season after f*cking around. They gonna learn today. Men dont understand emotions. They understand ACTions.

[@AfrosamuraI6]

Duh,, because we're direct... the total opposite to how a women operates and thinks... there is no measure in on emotions,, there is a measure where someone brakes down the door and I hv to be there to protect you...

[@brianamichelle9024]

Ha! When we are being direct, most men complain about us “nagging” or “complaining” and a man will shut down because he doesn’t want to hear it! So foh with that. Most men, honestly only ever desire POWER and CONTROL within a relationship with a woman. That’s not gonna fly…

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

We have “undeserved ego”. But I guess a man’s ego is.. “deserved”..? And these are the same kind of men who will say that society doesn’t value them, and that their mental health is ignored. Smh. To me, it’s counterproductive. I don’t have time for this kind of stuff, but god bless the women who endure this kind of mess.

[@niratomas579]

We have “underserved ego” yet they go out of their way to manipulate women in an attempt to lure us into a relationship!

[@KilonovaBurst]

woman with self-worth,pride, and confidence= egotistical(undeserved ego).

[@emmm_4465]

Of course if you can’t afford something you need to ask it at its lowest price

[@victorias5272]

They’re jealous of women

[@taiwo5282]

They are always steadily giving horrible advice smh.....

[@poohcanplay123]

And will turn around and act like victims

[@powerhouse2024]

@@poohcanplay123 every time no matter what 😂

[@NutsNBerries]

lmao

[@mzmindurbusiness4489]

Must be xy’s in here

[@rgirl1243]

I once was really into this guy, but he was aloof. He would tell me he liked me but around other people he acted like he was cool on me. So, one day I was out on a date with another dude. He happened to see us that night kissing. He called me and left a whole nasty gram on my VM calling me every version of lady of the night in the english language. Oh well...your loss.

[@tiffnym]

😂 he was too slow and that was on him!

[@NutsNBerries]

lmao....thats what he gets

[@UseYourVoices]

These so-called gurus and dating coaches are just making shit up at this point. If I'm waiting for a text/call from you and it doesn't come, I don't fall in love, I fall out of like. You obviously are not that interested in me, and that's fine. It won't break me. I have so many other things going on in my life. I don't latch on to men like that. These men are delusional. Abuse and neglect do not make me fall in love. If you ignore me, I'll give you the same energy you give me and IGNORE YOU RIGHT BACK!!! I will delete you, block you, and keep it pushing. Stop lying to these gullible young men who listen to your podcasts. I hate that shit!!! I get away from men like that with the quickness.

[@AmericanDreamer]

EXACTLY ‼️

[@elisabethhughes6005]

And if you think you’re getting emotionally caught up by any man who’s messing with you, just imagine him in his probable natural state: sitting in a dim room, zoning out on stranger-smut on a screen, with his hand down his pants. Disempowered. You’ll get instant ick and a freed up mind. Then go have a fun day.

[@niratomas579]

This.

[@RickRorose]

Go to OF, hit forgot password, type in his email address and if it says password reset emailed, he’s got OF and is pretty gross. Plus he’s too cheap to take you out or buy you things but he gives these “ladies on the cam” the cash flow. And jacks to it like some baboon.

[@noraa.616]

Just to add to the example you mentioned: that m@le in a dim room likely also has a stench of some sort (even nurses mentioned that many male patients leave poop stains on the hospital beds!)

[@AyAReI00]

I watch a show one time with a psychologist saying if You want to fall off love, imaging the significant other taking a shit

[@ashleykathryn9038]

🎯

[@gabriella_123x]

My heart is full of love. Partner of 2 years started ignoring me and saying he didn’t want a relationship anymore. I told him I accept your no and I will be moving on. I blocked him on everything, and now dating other wonderful man. I know he will regret it one day. I wish him the best :)

[@SweetAven00]

I had a man just do this recently .. and it made me resent him. He’s not adult enough to be open or honest, it wreaks of weakness.

[@babyg7796]

Tbh, those men are right. HOWEVER, once a woman grows some self-awareness, self-respect & self-love, these tactics no longer work. I recently got back into dating & found myself emotionally chasing men who weren’t reciprocating effort, But when I finally saw them in person it was a different story. It only took them doing this once and me catching on to the game that I quickly fell back and distanced myself. Some of them tried to come back to me, with some bs excuse that they were sooo busy & the rest just fell off. When a man really likes you & wants to pursue you, these cat & mouse games won’t even be apart of the conversation. This is simply to boost their EGO-don’t fall for it!

[@AyAReI00]

I think that if a person is soooo busy that have no time to woo You then that person don't deserve a parnert... We all have a little time during the day, not having time for days is no sense. At least a woman wants exactly that not having to spend time with their man but the bare minimum, that why some women Marry marines, soldiers, pilots, hahahahaha they don't care and if fact they want that, indont know a single military woman crying cuz she hasnr seen his husband, they are ao chill hahahahah, when they come, they come

[@natural3362]

This is all their games to boost their ego because they need women to serve them

[@hippie1252]

Gotta block them so they can't give you their excuses. Happened to me. He kept pushing back dates, went a week without texting me. I blocked him.

[@natural3362]

@@hippie1252 it's a loud and clear communication. He is shouting at you non verbal " i don't want you! You're just shit to me" Well i block anyone who shows me that i meant nothing to them. I rather die single than to betray the person i love the most which is me

[@HellaBay23]

These push-and-pull tactics sound psychotic.

[@TM-nb9zf]

These tactics work with young women or broken women. Thats it

[@kittenkat5244]

This is why young girls and womenn need to be warned especially.

[@chiobabe2180]

Then they get older and realize the game

[@Bodytheliz]

I’m 24 this shit doesn’t work on me at all I’m the queen Of giving back the same energy

[@ageofaquarius8309]

💯

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

I love it!!! Let them keep talking. The more they talk, the smarter we become. 4B ALL THE WAY!

[@duckyh9712]

Not very smart since the 4 b movement was a fake made up movement from feminists and you believe it.

[@niratomas579]

The more they talk, the more they reveal to us!

[@kittenkat5244]

​@@duckyh9712 Kick rocks ince1. Y'all can 1ie all u want but the dropping birth rates and male loneliness crisis says womenn are decentering from males. Team bear 🐱🥂🐻

[@duckyh9712]

@@kittenkat5244 watch the video by Anne Lee exposing your 4B lies. Y’all are pretending to do what men do. Men actually pulled out of dating yall are pretending to. Go on google check the stats. Don’t give from the truth.

[@truecrimes1435]

😂😂😂😂 yes​@@kittenkat5244

[@roccafille]

This is terrible advice. I'm convinced these guys just want other men to be as misserable as them. Terrible!!

[@stephanies9071]

Bingo!😂

[@theiswithin3649]

I'm so thankfull for the internet. Let males talk enough and they always tell on themselves

[@SoramimiKeiki]

I did this on a date. I let the guy talk non stop, just asked a question now and then, to give him the oppurtunity to blabber on more non-stop. He revealed EVERYTHING about himself and on his plans he had with me, and it was horrible. It was the first and last date with this guy.

[@morganhumphrey5587]

gurl

[@jayogee913]

I'm so tired of them and turned off by them at this point, I honestly have no desire for a man to pay attention to me. When one does approach me, I roll my eyes to myself and sometimes pretend I don't see him or hear him, lol!

[@shanicrystal8671]

I’ve been wearing a fake wedding ring lately, if I sense one looking over at me I flash that 😂

[@jayogee913]

@@shanicrystal8671 I've thought about doing that, but honestly, I don't even want them thinking I'm interested in being with a man. I don't wear a ring, and when I turn some guy down, I do it politely, sweetly, and tell them EXACTLY why I don't get involved with men anymore. And they honestly have nothing to say! What are they going to say to a woman who tells them that s3x and relationships with men is not good enough to risk my life, limb, and freedom for them? Pretty much shuts down the vibe, lol!

[@2rude307]

You're scaring away the right ones like us.

[@jayogee913]

@@2rude307 You all better do something about your more repulsive brothers, then, because yes, they ARE ruining it for ALL of you! And it's not up to women to fix this problem! We're just keeping ourselves safe and happy!

[@ameenahgaffar7383]

@@2rude307there’s no such thing

[@itzyogurlEleanor]

Effort is attractive to me.

[@clauaome25]

BLOCKED!!!! 🚫🚫🚫

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

Me: okay..no more videos, I've learned enough Mary J: posted a new informational video Me: okay...one more..I need to watch this....😉😉😉

[@rosierb852]

Same😂

[@ZanilSingsToo]

The blind leading the blind. This is actually sad to see.

[@gabriellehanks6850]

When I was still on the dating scene, I would just cheat on a guy when he ignored me. It ain't the 60's. Lol.. Women aren't waiting at home by the phone anymore. At least not alone.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@kimcham9949]

It's not cheating when you're not in an exclusive relationship. It's just dating. You're still single - FREE to date whomever you like.

[@Blossom702]

I’m sorry but there’s no justification for cheating..

[@FoAl-h2b]

Had a guy i was seeing ignore my calls and messages. I broke things up. Goodluck to men that think like this. Women are choosing better now.

[@Betterme4lf]

Like Princella The Queen Maker says men are incapable of Love. Knowing what Love truly is and not believing man’s definition will keep you free from men. That’s where your power lies.

[@morganhumphrey5587]

yeppppp

[@RNDiva33]

I wish I knew this in my twenties.

[@Prismatic9008]

When men do things like this and play these games, I block them and move on. Manipulation is not cute. They want unhealed women who will chase them because they know deep down that they bring nothing to relationships, especially if they are emotionally unavailable. Men are giving terrible advice and clearly don't understand quality women. Healed women don't chase. They want unhealed women who stay in their masculine energy. They are jealous of the attention women get. That's why so many women are tired of dating. Men play way too many games & my patience is not the same as it was when I was in my 20s when I was naive. I'm the type that will change my number and have a dude texting and calling into the abyss if they play games like this 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@AmericanDreamer]

exactly so!!!! And - same here!!! 💯🔥

[@elainesorrell2142]

Men mistreating women is not a Christian way, i will be with a man that loves me like christ loves his church

[@AmericanDreamer]

Amen! 💎

[@Cynophileandavianenthusiast]

Ah yes, xys telling me about myself. Thanks 🤡🤛

[@thebilliexojean]

I match energy when I date someone. You get what you give with me. It’s very simple. No guess work. No mind games. I communicate, and I’m clear. If you can’t do the same, I don’t have the time or the dime, my baby 😅

[@cuethelights8195]

These guys know nothing. But keep advising these fools. Real women are busy. Thanks!

[@Emo2heart]

All these men need the gift of singleness. Are the of a boyfriend because all these mind games are gross

[@sinceresong9907]

Exhausting total waste of time and their own lives, let alone anyone else's.

[@tamiausten873]

3:53 this touched me in my soul. This man is talking to men but I felt like he was speaking to me alone. I just started to remember who and how I was before. Imagine that I used to play with makeup at 13, now sometimes I stay a day without washing my face 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I'm actually depressed, I don't have anyone I want to see except for my mother. I need to take drastic measures to get to a good, healthy state. I've been hurt in life but I'm only 23 and this emptiness has come too early.

[@AmericanDreamer]

Beautiful, beautiful girl....Pray to Your Father in heaven....He hears you wherever you are, if you speak out loud or pray silently in your thoughts...! May He heal you and protect you! Seek Him while He may be found! He will keep you from evil!

[@sashashaktiable]

I feel you. Been there, done that, still learning to live again. I wish you to find your way home to your true whole self.

[@gabbypage6929]

I was with a guy who stopped contacting me for 2 weeks. When he rang with the he was busy crap I ditched him.

[@MbalenhleQwabe]

All these games... you're damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

[@yoachim91]

Don't take advice from this type of stuff. All these influencers men and women alike, they want clicks not your happiness. The only truth is that every person is vastly different so you can't make general statements in the first place. Good day.

[@truthseeker3967]

This is diabolical. What a world!

[@kittenkat5244]

Yup demonic.

[@sinceresong9907]

What do you mean..The message here?

[@truthseeker3967]

@@sinceresong9907I mean it is diabolical the level of scheming, manipulating and deceit to get one's way at the expense of someone else; it is dehumanizing to the other person. Even the lie by omission is deceit - the man is still intentionally misleading. ======> But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, WITHOUT LOVE [WITHOUT NATURAL AFFECTION, in other translations], unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, BRUTAL, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.... (2 Timothy 3:2-4)

[@morganhumphrey5587]

its a man's world thats why it's fucked up

[@conniemcmillian7010]

4B Movement ladies 🚺

[@morganhumphrey5587]

yep

[@Chunlialways]

this is emotional abuse and to me it's not just emotionally, it's physically and mentally too. trash throwing itself out is the best and leave it there ladies!

[@AmericanDreamer]

yes, abusers grooming other men to become abusers if they already aren't....Insanity !!!

[@powerhouse2024]

This is hilarious because I have had men try this from the first interaction - when THEY slid up in my DM’s totally uninvited. Then he starts this waiting to reply to a text when I never asked for a text in the first place. In fact, he is nothing but an actual problem having a conversation with himself in my texts. If I took 3 days to text, he takes 3 to flippantly tell me how busy he is and he will call soon. Uh bru I never asked you to call what are you doing. It’s so obvious when a dude is playing red pill games. They are not getting the memo that we don’t give a sh**. No one gives a sh**. Ignore me PLEASE. It’s REALLY obvious when the woman isn’t remotely attracted to the dude that they are playing this game😂

[@kimcham9949]

Do you block these men?

[@powerhouse2024]

@@kimcham9949 this example was a guy at my bougie apt leasing office. Took my # from the computer 🤯 I’m 50 IT NEVER ENDS. I literally faked cancer to get rid of him, then cold shouldered him when I saw him, then outright ignored him when I was weeks from leaving. When my deposit is returned, I’ll be leaving a strongly worded Google review.

[@powerhouse2024]

@@kimcham9949 I don’t date, I don’t invite interaction with any men. Now I won’t sign a lease either. Being trapped in leases is going to be more of a problem for women moving forward.

[@andreaschmidt5107]

My husband use to try this with me, it didn’t work because I would give as good as I got, I would cook dinner for me and the kids but not him I would do laundry but not his.

[@natural3362]

And if he try harder, divorce! Ain't putting with that shit

[@FoAl-h2b]

What did he do to ignore you?

[@bjyoung924]

Why do you stay? Just curious?

[@annamayyy9771]

This advice from the 1st video made me break up with someone completely 😂 he thought I would chase after him. He thought I would want him

[@Neskazeria]

I’ll wear the “Underserved Ego” badge with pride because it’s a symbol of the self-respect I still have for myself to not play these boys games. My goal in love is mutual respect, not one in power over other but that’s all these men want. I’m so sick of hearing, “oh these women want us to kiss the ground they walk on” that shouldn’t be a problem statement if you mutually respect each other. The men that have actually listened to women instead of continuing to play games understand that they’ll be treated like a king, if their partner feels HEARD and respected (like a queen) With all this said, BOTH women and men need to work together.

[@inettawalker9387]

Mutual respect IS a must!

[@kindandinternationl9386]

Women do this to each other, too. Put downs, ignoring, stonewalling, silent treatments, withholding compliments and support..

[@rkl3692]

My husband played these nasty games with me for years. Last guy in the video is gold. Who is he? When I was done, I was done. He is now my ex and still can't believe that I have a cold side. Happily separated though he is miserable.

[@NetrunnerMox77]

Didnt even have to listen to the rest of the men on those 'advice' podcast to know they are setting men up for failure. An adult woman has no interest in a man who is hot and cold. That is wasted energy

[@ds37215]

You said it...adult women. But these same men are openly saying they prefer them barely legal.

[@dream_on_sammi]

Why in the hell do men think like this? I mean really I would love to know. If I’m ignored too long in a relationship I’ll leave or ignore in turn. No one wants to be completely ignored all the time. Why is anyone with someone if they’re just going to be ignored constantly. Ignore your wife and come back and let me know how that’s working for you.

[@kittenkat5244]

They are acting like narcissists with severe personality disorders. Empathy is a human characteristic but these males show a lack of empathy.

[@yoachim91]

It's just influencers and their nonsense to get clicks, normal people who are in love are not busy with all this bs. I find it entertaining from both sides but i would never implement 99% of it. I can't remember any time i ignored my wife in 11 years.

[@NutsNBerries]

because other toxic men tell them to lol

[@morganhumphrey5587]

they are demonic sheep

[@gazellehelene5380]

But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. ‭‭II Timothy‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭7‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ God BEEN warned us!!

[@AmericanDreamer]

🎯🙌🏻

[@G.G.276]

He Did! Roman 5:12. Majority are Useless!

[@emmm_4465]

This is why knowing about attachment styles and your own can really help. Anxious attachment would be manipulated by this. Someone with a secure attachment would acknowledge the situation but ultimately walk away. I recommend Thais Gibson’s channel.

[@AmericanDreamer]

Not really and what she does is indirectly gaslight women (because mostly women are the audience of PDS) into overly examining themselves when in most situation, problem is not that there is not enough self reflection, BUT that women put up with too much, tolerate abuse and red flags and when the men's crap gets overwhelming, they get told that they are just not secure enough!! There is some truth to AT (It's a theory not a fact!!!) but it has turned into a slippery slope with the mental gymnastics, done on those people who are suffering at emotional abusers, disguised as just yet another attachment style characteristic.

[@elephantintheroom5678]

I wish I had access to all this education about how to deal with men years ago. It would have saved me a lot of time, energy and life.

[@renethomas6575]

These men who have played these game of being emotionlly unavailable are the ones who are looking for a nurse in later years or who end up in nursing home with no-one caring about them because they have burnt too many good women and children. The last guys was 100% on point once I'm done there is no coming back to what could have been..."you snooze you lose!"

[@G.G.276]

Or With a Guy!

[@aprilswill9204]

Nah, I forget. I’ve been humbled by life so at this age, I want everything I deserve.

[@AmericanDreamer]

yes, exactly! Go for it and don't settle for less! 💎

[@Neelam-uk3yk]

yes very true 💖🌼🥺

[@lm2082]

When a man ignores me I go off into my own world, if I’m in a relationship. He would barely see me lol (true story that’s what I do lol). If I’m trying to get to know a guy and he ignores me I block him and move on as if I never met him 😂

[@mystichealer]

@1:22 He says "Women believe men were put on the earth to worship the ground they walk on." So, if men were not put on the earth to worship women.... what exactly were they put on the earth to do? Somebody please list 5 reason men are put on this earth that have nothing to do with women. Go! 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

[@xiamariansupreme72]

Exactly, meanwhile men think women were put on Earth to worship them. Hypocrites.

[@2rude307]

1. God 2. God 3. God 4. God 5. God

[@powerhouse2024]

@@2rude307 well then why aren’t they doing that instead of manipulating, abusing, and using women. We would prefer it if they just went and hung out with their god. All day. Forever.

[@morganhumphrey5587]

be evil and misogynistic and selfish is what xy chromosomes have done for centuries #4B

[@morganhumphrey5587]

God has nothing to do with it. Yall aren't acting like god

[@hardcandy71287]

shera7 spits facts. i don't follow her too closely but essentially she's saying, "find a man who likes you more than you like him."

[@SelenaSecretShow]

This control tactic doesn't work on women that have avoidant personality types and the reason why is because we're actively looking for a reason to never talk to you ever again you just confirmed it to us. 😂

[@myidissasha-marie8869]

FACTS!

[@Djteesha]

Yes!

[@Bodytheliz]

@@SelenaSecretShow girl preach this is me daily with humans

[@MY-qm6yz]

Honestly I’ve been addicted to your videos since I found you. And that was after going through the worst hurt and pain caused by a man….oh, how naive I’ve been…love your work

[@denisemitchell6034]

Ignore me.. I will definitely block you… not because of my ego but because I know you are playing games… go play with ya momma. Go play on a playground.. cause clearly that is where the immaturity needs to be… 🙌🏾🙏🏾🤷🏽‍♀️

[@audrablue515]

This is the equivalent of telling your sons and daughters that when a boy punches you in the arm it’s because he likes you. WTF kind of relationship advice is that for kids? Parents need to be more accountable and tell both sexes if they are mean to you or ignore you, to move on because THEY DON’T WANT YOU.

[@salome9124]

Man unless you’re my husband, you ignore me I’m out. And even if you are my husband, detachment starts. I have Never entertained multiple men at once so never grew addicted to attention . I’m fine and beautiful. So I get attention but since I’m married it’s just looks and hellos and you made my days is as far as it goes. There is nothing to miss or to yearn for. I have pretty privilege, which is just a privilege to get man handled at a young age first. I have learned that my beauty is a mask and a tool, and anyone that addresses my tools yet never addresses my soul is a passerby.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Fighting for his attention? NO. You ignore me , I’m no longer interested. I am interested in mutual attraction. These relationship coaches are so stupid . You’re disconnected towards me , I’m walking away. I am only interested in a man that is capable of being genuine and real! I don’t need to detach from someone that I have never been attached to in the first place. I will attach only to a man that is attached to me and committed to me!

[@nehanebnica]

that guy at the end of the video has told pure facts and truth!!! It completely described the end of my relationship with my ex

[@Jeronda-se6im]

Peace is beautiful

[@arieldaniellestewart8780]

I dated a man for 2 years and he went one week without seeing or texting me once and I broke up with him immediately lmao, so...

[@pagie2467]

Lost him when he said "box". If he uses that word run. Yuck.

[@niratomas579]

They lack emotional intelligence. Their vocabulary is severely lacking. They manipulate their way into relationships. They get online to share their mediocrity with the world. What are women missing out on exactly???? I’ll wait.

[@chiobabe2180]

Right. So cringe

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

For the demographic with the highest rate of loneliness and suicides they sure ALWAYS give terrible dating advice lol

[@NutsNBerries]

lol

[@gwendolynrobinson3725]

It's 2024. Women know better now.

[@morganhumphrey5587]

some do actually not all

[@Kikki305]

Childish ass game leads to lonely gamers

[@TARAdubbleyuu]

😂great comment!

[@alexp24370]

Thank you for your sacred words. Women of all ages should be listening to this message. I am following!!

[@LibertyCairde]

This is emotional abuse!!!!! What they are teaching them is to be abusers. This is heartbreaking

[@edithart5753]

I am so grateful for the internet 🙏, they gave these men a safe place to talk and it has taught me a lesson. I now know I wasn't the problem because for a minute I didn't feel good enough. No matter what I did and now I know they are the ones with the issue all along.

[@MP-pp9nd]

That last video needs to be a PSA every night at 10pm.

[@Melissakay09]

The more u hold off ❣️the more you ignore men they want u❣️ let him chase❣️

[@elainesorrell2142]

These men a narcissist

[@AshaSelfsDemoFilms]

So this will not work on ADHD people😅 Still not diagnosed but I don't miss people. I'm glad to see them but I don't miss them. Part of the reason I'm thinking I need to be evaluated. (been married bout 20 years)

[@KarenTski]

Another guy that knows about women hahahahaha

[@natural3362]

I rather die single than to accept the and give myself to the people who have the extra effort to show me they don't want me I rather die single than to entrust myself who is ghosting abandoning betraying hurting and abusing me. Never! I'm just too previous for that. Once they have done that, they don't deserve and worthy of me I'm blocking!

[@G.G.276]

Why do that? Be World Renown. TRAVEL!

[@natural3362]

@@G.G.276 i will travel! I will have every blessings that life has to offer me. I accept and receive it and i be grateful for it. I want more. I was always destined for greatness

[@sammich-lp2qm]

He’s right, a woman will treat you the way she wants to be treated. That’s what I thought we all were taught? Treat people the way you want to be treated - and yet men somehow think that they don’t have to do that. I don’t get where the disconnect is. And then I’m supposed to believe that men treat you the way that they want to be treated when they first meet you? Because they just love women that treat them like crap, and they find every reason in the world to chase her. Where is the split in their brain coming from?

[@AmericanDreamer]

💯🤷 I genuinely second your comment/question, it has been on my kind a lot too - where is this coming from? It's literally insanity!

[@iaf4454]

Sheera is right!!! Bussiness iss bussiness

[@lillycham]

I will not chase you sir, never.

[@Grandma_Jizzzzzzzard]

This has been a fascinating video. ❤ Thank you!

[@9darshana]

I can't stand that black guy most of all. He has to be Lucifer's favorite.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

That black guy has been rejected by the hottest 🔥🔥🔥

[@morganhumphrey5587]

yep