Men Who Cat-Call NEED To Get LOCKED UP-I Said What I Said 🙄| Thee Mademoiselle ♔

[@TheeMademoiselle]

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[@reneedennis2011]

Thank you!

[@nyecore]

Cat calling is a no go and asking teens when they turn 18 is disgusting but telling a woman she is pretty is a compliment. I like it when tell me I’m pretty but all that extra “yo mama what’s up….” is what’s irritating.

[@reneedennis2011]

Yup.

[@henryb6747]

Men don’t realize how uncomfortable they make women when they catcall. I cross the street and try not to make eye contact when I see a group of men. I remember being in NY and ignoring a man who catcalled me, it quickly turned into a verbal argument. I ended up calling the police and getting a escort to my car.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Wth 🤦🏽‍♀️ that’s so sad man.

[@henryb6747]

@@TheeMademoiselle sooo sad, I cried my eyes out once he started threatening to beat my as5.

[@reneedennis2011]

Good grief 🤦🏾‍♀️!

[@rubiana2.0]

@@henryb6747 we need to stick together the worlds crazy nowadays stay strong girl 💗

[@gensai93]

They know. They just don't care or they do it on purpose to intimidate/feel like they have power.

[@dennybick6011]

Thank you! The amount of men who have told me, "If men stop doing it, you'll be the first to start crying about how no one is noticing you." I swear, I would be the happiest woman on earth to never get a compliment again if it means I can go to the store without being harassed.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Lmao wth they realllly think we care 😂😩😩😩😩😩😩. Id loooove it.

[@SummerSecretz]

I was getting food the other day and I was catcalled but this older man, and I completely ignored it and rolled my eyes. Mind you he was sitting by an older woman and another older man. I walk by them again after getting my food and I’m staring at the man in disgust who catcalled me and he’s looking at the ground QUIET. The other man by him says I know that’s right you have a blessed day. LOL I guess something happened after I passed by the first time

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Someone he was with def called his nasty ass out smh

[@islandgirl8067]

At his advanced age he should have known better.

[@angelicadayanafernandez1525]

@Fires And Flowers, same but its latino men always making fun of latinas for being "mad"

[@tasmeenbaker9912]

The guy who said "She was asking for it, look at how she's dressed" That argument is not completely valid because I got sexually harassed while I was wearing jeans and a hoodie. The only thing that was showing was my stomach but that doesn't mean I deserved it. Plus he was 25 and I was 16. I even told him from the jump.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Facts I said that in the video i been cat called with simply my eyes showing. Full sweat suit and a mask on.

[@alientingz7733]

I'm so sorry that happened to you 🥺 we truly do not deserve this.

[@reneedennis2011]

I am so sorry that happened to you 😢.

[@fundash5124]

That is what I always say, that argument is not completely valid. I had a culture day event at my school where we were required to do research and dress like the different cultures that we were given and choose to do. I decide to do a African culture 'the Somalia People' and let me tell you I was in a long black dress that reach the ground , with something like a hijab that was covering my head and with a long black coat that cover the dress and plus I was wearing a black mask so the only thing you could see is my eyes. I was dress as a Muslim and do you know how much cat calls I got that day. So I really do not like when people say that. Once you show any sign that you are a woman you will get cat calls. 😱🤢🤮

[@dfreeman13]

I've gotten catcalled in a hijab and a loose fitting dress.

[@DanielRandB]

Desperation, Entitlement & Ego Is A Real Disgusting Combination...And Dangerous As Well.

[@Theefashionkilla]

Catcalling should be illegal period

[@LIFEOFVEGANKINGZZ]

As a men myself it’s just nasty how us brothers treat women, then get mad when they ignore you smh.

[@betc293]

I hate the sending the friend thing..🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@alientingz7733]

It doesn't matter what someone is wearing, you should still keep your hands to yourself and stop calling out to someone just because they're attractive. If you want to speak to someone, go up to them like a normal person. If they like you then so be it but if they aren't interested just keep it moving. Instead, a lot of them get hurt and take it out on you by assaulting you or taking your life. It's never that serious but it's sickening this happens. That you have to be on guard when you reject someone, especially men. No means no. If you think someone has to give you a chance, men or women, you need help. QUICK. No one owes you anything. Get it through your head. All these women getting taken out because they rejected a man and he couldn't let his pride go and decided to confront her about it. It's very dangerous out here.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

It is. Especially the bystanders getting caught up. So disgusting & scary.

[@latortura1986]

To be honest there’s nothing new under the sun this type of thing woman be assaulted just by a man in in the Bible it wasn’t acceptable then it should not be acceptable now.

[@kristlecasey9506]

I think they needed a male reporter to approach the men in this one tho. Bc I feel like they see the female reporter and feel like the women are framing them a certain way. If the reporter was Male I think they would have actually been more responsive and giving their answers

[@reneedennis2011]

🤔

[@junkokai8133]

This is exactly why I wear rings on my left hand even though I’m not married yet. It’s such a scary/uncomfortable situation.

[@ms.mikaelson]

Sadly that still doesn't work I thought about doing that

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I did it, doesn’t work 😩

[@cadyg2531]

its sad that I've been doing that since I was 15, it still doesn't work

[@pandaluvr]

@9:50 Chile I remember I went to the mall and I was wearing a red tank top and checkered leggings and a man greeted me into a store and he told me "girl you look good...you need to buy me flowers" and I was like HUH?!?! man you need to buy ME some fcking flowers I- 😭

[@MeMarcusTheCreator]

Ha! 🤣

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Buy him flowers 😩😂😂 that was funny

[@khrystal718]

Getting catcalled in middle school is to this day the reason why I am afraid of intimacy and men

[@britneylacy8991]

It’s insane that this is a universal experience for young girls and women growing up. It had gotten to the point where you expected to be harassed every time you walked outside the door and saw a group of men in your path. It was something we had to learn to navigate, deciding on whether we’d just ignore them or speak up. It’s sad to see how delusional some of these men are and some of them even tend to get angry when you don’t pay them any mind! Ugh, this is something that’s always bothered me growing up and it isn’t talked about enough😭

[@pandaluvr]

Ugh I remember when I was 12 at a public library sitting with my momma reading a book. To a lot of people now I still look like im in highschool so back then I must've looked like a baby. I randomly heard some barking like a dog and I look up and it was some random man that looked like he could be my dad barking at me while riding on a bike. He kept barking at me till I looked up at him again. I was so disgusted. Also I'm glad you had a good break and yes I missed you ❤️💞(ʃƪ＾3＾）

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Thank you 🙏🏽 & just grosssss I HATE THAT BARKING MESS LIKE NO.

[@runnabackboyyuh8173]

And even if you ignore them they still try and talk to you! I just kept on walking and then he kept on going.

[@feliciajenkins5041]

One hundred percent facts. I heard disturbing things from all the ones who would blame a woman's clothes not the predator violating. I'm telling my grandsons everyday respect people especially women.

[@dfreeman13]

I had an incident yesterday when this guy tried to catcall me and lure me into his car. He had the audacity to call me crazy and called the cops when I reacted to him. Oh, and he got out of his car and tried to run me over (after I pulled a knife on him and kicked his front bumper). I don't like wearing short dresses or skirts and full makeup when I plan on coming home late because of men like this. I hate the entitlement.

[@tydera4706]

The first time I remember getting catcalled I was 10 walking with my mom and sister down the street to my grandma's house. And I looked 10 wearing a jean set. I was walking ahead of my mom and this guy from the alley told me I looked good and to come here. I was so uncomfortable. Luckily my mom wasn't too far behind me and cursed him out.

[@CircumstancesNeverMatter]

When I was in middle and high school I used to deal with the “Aye baby gurl!!! Aye!! I know you hear me!!!” 😑

[@WINDOWS77555]

It's creepy its honestly used towards little girls or young woman and it's disgusting and weird "there asking for it thier wearing this thier wearing that" it doesn't matter what they wear people shouldn't be harassed period. Even LITTLE GIRLS MINORS get sexually harassed and it's weird. And you are speaking facts people can wear what ever they want without being harassed smh Aslo how "oh it's the little girls fault she shouldn't have been wearing that and wearing shorts and a skirt and and" AND NO don't blame the girl or woman for wearing what she wants blame the creepy guy for overly sexualizing her dang

[@greenlightmonster8371]

Yes I may be 13 and my dad wasn’t with my mom but he still taught me how to treat a woman

[@n.eliana3933]

The "it's because you're pretty" is not a excuse! There was this one day that I was on my way to get my hair done, and literally, the only thing that was visible on my face was my eyes! I was wearing a hoodie, all covered, jeans (not even tight) and a mask! And this guy tried to hit on me...

[@islandgirl8067]

This was a regular occurrence growing up in NY, & started when I was 9 years old. I used to cross the street when I saw groups of BM standing around, & some of them would shout at you across the street to get your attention. 🙄 I'm subbed & didn't even get the notification for this video.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Tbh so annoying and KZbin playing od. But make sire you have all notifs on

[@toniiblack7014]

Girl. They will follow you if you try to cross the street. If you go to the store or a heavily populated area they follow quickly They dont gaf at all.

[@sabrinascrochetdesigns]

Where I live it’s horrible.. I hate it.. I tired to explain it to men.. but they keep blaming the women

[@calistafalcontail]

Yes to everything you said but sadly, most people who NEED to hear this wont watch this video. We luckily dont have alot of cat callers where I live...just "gazers"...guys who look at you up and down or stare way to long and wont look away even when you make it quite obvious that you see it and you dont like it.

[@imartinist]

I feel like some men cat-call to impress other men. Still creepy af tho...

[@princess39730]

I've been getting cat-called since I was 11y/o nd typically ny grown a$$ men. Never dressed provocatively mainly bcs as a child, my mom wouldn't allow it; nd also bcs I've always been pretty shy. However, I did develop pretty early nd have always had a thick and curvy body. But still, ppl could tell I was just a kid nd yet these demons in skin suits felt entitled enough to cat call me. One even tried getting my number even tho I told him I was 15 smdh 😒. Guys like this are jusr gross all around...

[@niaanais895]

Honestly 💯 like cat calling is unattractive

[@alientingz7733]

YAY! ANOTHER UPLOAD! 🤯

[@paris40359]

I used to live in a place where one of the roads to my apartment didn't have any alternative routes so I HAD to take it everyday. There was a guy who kept trying to talk to me everytime I walked past but I ignored him. One day I accidentally made eye contact with him and for some reason that meant something to him because the next day he was waiting for me in the lobby of my apartment building and he just hugged me like we knew each other. Luckily the security was there so he didn't do anything more when and I just nervouslu laughed and went past the barrier but I was so scared to go out for days after that, especially if I had to use that road. God was smiling down upon me because I only saw him again once after that and when I looked away and started walking faster he seemed to finally get that he should leave me alone. I have resting bitch face and I dress like a grandpa because I literally can't be bothered, but none of that makes these men stop. I'm glad I have a car now because it's reduced the amount of incidents I've had to deal with and that's much better for my anxiety and mental health.

[@yeahyeahyeah5035]

I can totally relate. I’ve had a nice body since I was about 10 years old… since that age… I’ve been harassed and bothered and it’s really scary. I’ve never known how to respond..I was scared to tell my mom… Watching this footage is so telling. 😩 I’m just having flashbacks 😩

[@breonnah.8747]

Amen sis-family of black female Queens

[@TayPatel]

I always just give men my number or IG bc at the end of the day I can change my number or block them. Turning them down can put me in a dangerous situation and after that happens its really not much I can do. If you just give them your number, you can control the situation. I've never given someone my number that I didn't wanna talk to and seen them again, ever.

[@tylergood3773]

Sad reality.

[@amosand7476]

She’s back with another one

[@ladydede88]

I don’t know what country it is but it’a against the law to cat call. Also, men especially cis men don’t understand harassment until it’s them. Imagine if a man cat called them when they walked passed. They would be ready to fight.

[@tyj7063]

I’m 9months late but this still goes on. Especially when u at a gas station. Idk how other states is but in the city they will come up to u and try to talk to u. Then when u reject them. They get soo mad

[@hanokokun9246]

I remember being catcalled by boys my age and a couple men It’s weird telling me I’m beautiful when I’m thirteen years old and looking me up and down especially when I’m walking and your whistling at me

[@lamontsteward3426]

I know you been talking about it a lot but I really really notice the view drop the last like 8-10 vids , as your fans and supports what can we do collectively that will make KZbin notice and fix this issue immediately? Like 50k of us need to email or write ✍️ a letter

[@TheeMademoiselle]

KZbin claims they fixed the issue. At this point I’m just testing different content. They claim the notifications are indeed going on but people aren’t clicking but I’m not sure anymore. They did say there’s no restriction so idk

[@dragosanders4234]

Those men on there are hypocrites because when asked if they would get mad about their daughters getting catcalled So if yall wouldn't like it if your daughters got cat called.Why do it to women that don't want it

[@2muchofme280]

Just one compliment from afar is ok I guess but giving more than one compliment, following us and asking irrelevant UNWANTED questions isnt ok.

[@randomlyweirdproductions8749]

And that is another thing I dress up for me and me only but a compliment is nice these men treat us like we easy y tf do u think imma want u after u took the easiest way out to talk to me?

[@rachelreii5952]

You 🤗 are 🤗 not 🤗 entitled 🤗 to a womans: Time Money Body Anything really

[@Lemarry]

KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF DIDN’T YALL LEARN THIS IN KINDERGARTEN 🤦🏽‍♀️😒😕

[@randomlyweirdproductions8749]

Well I think that cat calling isn't particularly bad it's the way it's done! Sometimes the way a man cat call boost my confidence but that don't mean I wanna give him my number! I'll blush, say thank u nd keep it moving the problem is when u try to keep it moving but he won't let up! So guys yes say nice things to her make her feel pretty when u see her maybe then she'll give u the time of day but Kno when to just leave her tf alone don't feel entitled to anything more or anything at all!!!!!!!

[@TheLeloM]

Am not getting notifications 🥺😢 KZbin is really tripping

[@AidaCute16]

Once I started dressing more elegant and classy I barely got catcalled. Compared to when I dressed down or promiscuously. Usually low class men catcall, so I assume that when I look "cheap" they can treat me any which way but when I look expensive they keep their mouths shut.

[@Hollendaryy4064]

Of course. If a woman says “no” and you press more than twice its is harassment. I just think it’s important to distinguish between the two. There’s shooting your shot and there’s harassment. Both technically fall under the category of catcalling these days depending on the woman. I feel uneasy about condemning/jailing men for approaching a legal woman. Unless we want to start approaching, but I doubt it.

[@reneedennis2011]

Please look up the case of Ruth George. Edit: You talk about her case in this video.

[@jacquelinwilliams9293]

They there The Mademoiselle .l enjoy your vlogs.

[@alientingz7733]

Are you gonna speak on the passing of Kevin Samuels? 👀

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I ain’t got shit to say 🤷🏽‍♀️. My condolences. Shit sad

[@alientingz7733]

@@TheeMademoiselle lol true. It's sad but I wished he did something better with his life. Now you have black women respectfully not caring that we lost a black man last night. It's funny seeing people telling us to care about him just because he's gone. 🤦🏾‍♀️oh well

[@kristlecasey9506]

he died?

[@alientingz7733]

@@kristlecasey9506 yes

[@MzKeepItMovin07]

Pickles

[@tuiapele153]

I’m confused, so you guys don’t want compliments, and or is there a big deference between the two? Most people don’t want people walking up to them especially nowadays. Mind you I don’t condone the actions presented in this video. But I’d like to know if anyone wants actual compliments.

[@tiasmith4015]

i think most people appreciate a compliment but catcalling, yelling out to a woman and even being persistent after they have ignored or rejecting them instead of approaching them like a normal person is just very uncomfortable.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

We just don’t like being bothered.

[@invisiblerevolution]

Speaking as a man.... I don't SPEAK to or LOOK at women, out in public anymore. And for anyone thinkin I'm just leavin a TROLL comment.... last summer in the middle of the DAYTIME (in a nice neighborhood) I past this sister on the side walk, *just smiled at her and said Hi to her.* And she said NOTHING. 😑

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I believe it. I ignore most men in the street even when I was single lols. Tbh it’s just hard to be nice because we are so used to men having ulterior motives.

[@invisiblerevolution]

@@TheeMademoiselle Yes... I can understand being uncertain about, ulterior motives point of view. But dag.... it was broad daylight, middle of the suburbs, I wasn't wearin saggin pants, *ya'll sisters are that paranoid????* lol

[@LEXIDIMPLES93]

Why does she have to say something? 👀

[@TheeMademoiselle]

@@invisiblerevolution yes, yes we are lmao.

[@invisiblerevolution]

@@LEXIDIMPLES93 She doesn't..... but if you want to live in a WORLD where, we don't even *acknowledge each other as humans* and just walk by each other, then ok!

[@Lala-th8in]

💜😎☕

[@Hollendaryy4064]

I don’t like it but I’ve also never had to approach a man for a relationship either 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ Maybe you’d be more comfortable if a man is into a girl you could follow her till she stops walking and casually start a conversation but that’s basically stalking. Considering one-time cat calling harassment is cap.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

I don’t like any of it and clearly common sense right. If you’re not interested in a man &hecontinuously keeps asking to speak to you or continuously follows you that’s considered harassment.

[@paris40359]

A lot of times, one time catxalling is more than enough. People who just say hi or talk to you normally aren't catcalling. This is about men who yell and call you by something that is inherently demeaning. They will talk to you as if you owe them your attention or make slimy comments about your body or what they want from you. One time is still absolutely harassment

[@islandgirl8067]

Following a woman is harassment