I'm dying i have extreme menopause in in pain, I have hot and cold flashes cold sweats, headaches, fatigue manic depression i cry for everything I have really bad leg pain and arm pain, no ins , nothing works wild yam root creams, castor oil coconut oil ,Amberben nothing works I'm 51 started menopause at 50 yrs old, I was a really horny wife now I can't stand him even touching me!!! HELP ME PLEASE before I unlike myself I'm MISERABLE 😢