'Nitakukatakata na nikuweke kwa fridge!' Those words from my ex husband led my son to depression.

'Nitakukatakata na nikuweke kwa fridge!' Those words still ring in my mind. They were from a man who once loved me and married me. But as time went by, our marriage became a source of indescribable pain. He would beat me on daily basis. I persevered for 12 years. But the day he said those words, it hit differently..my then 10 year son was so depressed that he was admitted in hospital. One day I watched him as the doctors tried to inject him. I knew if I didn't leave that marriage, I was soon going to be dead, killed, another statistic. After my son was discharged, I packed and left. Its now over six years and i will never look back! This is my story
#methayakagoni #trending #whyareyousingle

[@catherinegithaiga7004]

God created women with golden hearts and a whole bag of forgiveness, we forgive so much until we run out of patience, but once a woman is done..she is done..DONE...

[@joycemaina2126]

sure

[@janewamaitha3407]

Done done done kabisaaa.... No one just leaves N no one is convinced to leave her home

[@agnesnjeri8402]

Azn DOONE yes

[@irynejames5161]

​@@agnesnjeri8402yes... Completely done

[@gladysmukami9445]

With insecurity is dangerous, don't allow to die to save a marriage.

[@peninahnganga781]

Hey darling hio story yote ni yaukweli na ukweli mtupu,mimi kama wangari Ng'aNg'a your friend Nime ya shuhundi,Na kubuka kuna siku Nikiwa Kapsoya ulilala kwangu all most 3days,after hapo ukarundi kwako na ukanishow unaenda kusamehe mume wako licha ya kumpata na makosa,a salute your dr ulikiza kuona ndoa yako isimame Big up dr ❤❤❤❤ your strong 💪 women in this world, God bless you,you have toti me alot in this life,once more Big up❤

[@charitywangare4844]

Namesake God bless you so much for the big role you have played in the life of glado

[@amosnjagi9804]

Baaaaass...can't wait to see her again with someone besides her wakitoa testimony. Wishing her the best. She is cute and young.

[@wanjiru-usa1]

Can’t wait for the guest to come once again with a big testimony. Thanks Monica for hosting her. ❤

[@mburulucky9580]

When ever you see single mother try to ask what happen walk a mile to there shoes before you judge them

[@kariukijoseph1198]

And also single father's too

[@alicenalulwe84]

Kabisa

[@loicendamaiyu7012]

Yeah😢​@@kariukijoseph1198

[@mburulucky9580]

@@kariukijoseph1198 our society don’t have that name

[@kariukijoseph1198]

@@mburulucky9580 which one please.sijakuget

[@peterchege3911]

Ladies please learn about narcissism, that is the only way you will be able to know yourself and your man.

[@randombeb]

I hate insecure men ,they are angels kwa public but devils in the closet, nice to know you saved your life,hugs

[@user-bn8wi7qu2l]

True...ogopa

[@queenexellent9854]

Holier-than-thou in public but dangerous in the house.

[@marymuthonimuthoni3671]

Narcissist 💯

[@user-tq6zs1dh9g]

This kind of people are called Narcissists, I have stayed with one for over 30 years, they never change.

[@ggathoni35]

How do you manage?

[@user-tq6zs1dh9g]

@@ggathoni35 , it is by God's grace, you see he's the father of my children but honestly we don't communicate, I'm just here for the sake of my children

[@rosemutinda3076]

​​@@user-tq6zs1dh9g30 yrs your children are grown up for now

[@njerinyambu6769]

She's such a courageous young woman, she saved her children from traumas which would have affected their adult life

[@johnkanyua5582]

She's so cute and strong...she looks like leah of ithaga riene

[@Luxury52items]

Stay Single, Be Happy💜

[@paulinebarlow396]

Wakagoni, mine was a similar situation. But I’m analogue, so there was nothing like walking out in my time.Nilivumilia for 18 yrs with 3 kids, nikajaribu kuenda transfer niondokee mbaara, juu I was a civil servant, lakini alikuwa anakuja wherever I went. Violence was too much. Mimi nikatafuta passport, nikatafuta visa, nikatorokea US instead of death. But I regret my 18 yrs went to trash. I left 24 yrs ago. Ladies, if you get certain red flags, don’t waste your time. Take off. I’m who I’m because I left that violence. Kuongea ama kuendanisha nyumbani na male coworkers warranted a whole nights beating- ta ndarama. Keep up lady. You’ll be just fine.

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks.We keep going

[@bancywaithera2673]

And the kids

[@Famera_Sweet_treat]

Best interview not blaming inlaws in her failed marriage straight to the issue and problem's facing her marriage

[@carolwahu8096]

One thing I came to understand, when another woman gets in your husband's life to a point they live together,only God can save that marriage...never beg him to stay.

[@rosewairimu2108]

Sure I went through hell because of another woman but today I have testimony God rift me very high

[@carolinemuthee1322]

Very true n u go thru hell wondering what ua doing wrong u try u pray

[@catenyambura6053]

You're such a courageous woman. 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 Men should try and resolve their childhood traumas before marrying someone's daughter.

[@modestapparells3802]

The things that happen in our family directly affect our children, say no to gender violence! Bravo girl, bring up your children and they shall be mighty in the land

[@ggathoni35]

Very true...If we truly love them lets avoid violence however small.Its impact is vast .

[@Ann-sm6pz]

Kagoni please kua unaleta psychologist after a story like this to analyze the story. This way many women will stop tolerating nonsense

[@susannyambura9634]

This lady is so beautiful and she really tried her marriage to work but having a narcissist person in your life can never work...big up Mama jilelee watoto wako God is always there for you dear

[@ggathoni35]

Amen

[@user-qx8ue8du4s]

Wah sorry mama.. umepitia...bt pia mm nmepitia kukuliko😢😢😢... watching from Saudi

[@lucymburu155]

Thumbs-up for the guest. Many stay bcoz of children. Learn today that you are traumatising them instead. Leave allow them to have a healthy mental state

[@margaretmuriithi6975]

Thanks for sharing your story Gladys. Mimi my daughter at below three years aliambia the dad "usipige mama yangu" and I directly knew am not subjecting her to such a life. My story was almost similar to yours. Kudos on putting your kids first.👍

[@paulinekawira4524]

I respect single mothers n father's too,I can't stand an abusive marriage

[@WanguNjoroge]

Have you ever listened to a story and wish you could see the picture of the culprit?😂😂

[@mercynjeri-li1hy]

Kairitu pole sana bt kama uko tayari na onother relationship ,tell that other man kama atakupeda apede yr kuds first.i was in a relationship that died aloong time.pole girl

[@lucywambui3469]

Gladys God is good all the time , nimeskia umenitaja hapo Wambui , aki kumbe ulikua unapitia mengi hivo 😭 as I always say we hide our problems in a smiling face, anyways God is God of many chances I know soon God will make it happen and you'll have a testimony ,

[@alicengondi6728]

When a woman is fed up there ain’t nothing anybody can do.

[@user-pt5hn1zx1x]

Strong Gladys. Flowers to the very wise and blessed Headmistress. I have watched this several times.

[@annnjenga9754]

Such a beautiful lady with full of wisdom! That guy was true narcissist 😢

[@ggathoni35]

Thank you

[@wachairman7657]

Then you will see irresponsible keyboard worriers bashing single mothers..yet you have not walked half of her journey

[@janemuringo4643]

Kudos Gladys for taking such a brave step,, this is un imaginable coz i know your ex husband ,, he was employed at our farm for close to 10yrs then got promoted to be our shop attendant at OJ… my mum n dad would be shocked to hear that he turned out to be a different person ,,them having taken him in from when he was a very young boy , we used to be disciplined together if we made any mistakes .. surprising i met him at one of the hotels along Kiambu road and we interacted very well in 2014-2015 and he made us go to that hotel for so long coz he was one of the best attendants till he left 😢😢…. Stay strong and am really happy for you..

[@mburulucky9580]

Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, see things from their point of view, and imagine yourself in their place. Essentially, it is putting yourself in someone else's position and feeling what they are feeling.

[@user-lv4jx9pd9u]

Will never tell my daughter to stay if it’s time leave 😢😢😢it’s good we learn from these stories

[@mbairemwangi6669]

This is so informative. Thank you for sharing

[@mikek9158]

Heeee mah...na vile nikarembo. Good piece of advice there that as parents we shld always tell our kids we love them else wataambiwa na wrong pple...

[@ruthwilliams7371]

My dad also was a narcissist,womanizer ed a violent to everyone from my mommy upto children,my mom got ulcers since I was 10 yrs upto date,I have that violence trauma till today if I hear commotion from a family my heart beats 180 rates ed shaking..it’s awful experience 😢

[@user-nq3wb7rk4i]

My dad too

[@mburulucky9580]

She have good mam unlike the previous poster who was rejected by her mam

[@shikuliz4134]

Wanawake learn more about narcissist they never change .

[@lufapavifapavi6277]

For many of us who are singles. First we persevered a lot. But I don't encourage anyone to live under such toxic marriage. KIURA RUGA.

[@njerinyambu6769]

That's an inspiring story. We learn everyday from your informative sories

[@Dee_the_blessed1]

Gathoni and Kagoni you somehow look alike 🎉

[@janenyambura1103]

Athuri agikiyu makoragwo mahana ngoma,,, I was once married na tuliachana akadai hawezi somesha watoto hawako kwake

[@andrewmuigai6573]

Aiiiiii stereotype why

[@andrewmuigai6573]

Other tribes wote ni malaika

[@peterchege3911]

Don't blame Kikuyu men, narcissist are in all tribes and race.

[@bancywaithera2673]

But kukuyuscare worso and pro in the game

[@mburulucky9580]

Marriage is not bed of roses but when it becomes both physical abuse and mental emotional abuse that trauma is not good for one heath….some time it’s good to let go and choose your life it’s called self care

[@mburulucky9580]

When I ever you listen to this stories always try to see if they are happening to you and your partner? You can lean from them .

[@shikuliz4134]

This has happened to so many of us all this stories relate with eachother expecially from kagoni. Tuko and Lynn Ngugi show that's tell you we have a very high breed of narcissist men around that's why killing has raised in this year's . women let's be cautious because sio kuzuri

[@mburulucky9580]

@@shikuliz4134 what do you think it contributes to this problem

[@janekogi6442]

Uuuii,we think when we tell them tunakatiwa they will feel great,but they start thinking that men like you

[@mburulucky9580]

When you marry for wrong reasons. She married cz of pregnancy, she got married without life experience, can you do research those marry immediately after school there marriage never work cz they marry for wrong reasons

[@Monicahkaranja27]

True

[@dr.healthstyle4305]

True

[@njengawinfred]

This lady is beautiful and her story is very inspirational. We all walk into a relationship or a marriage with the hopes of growing old together. Wishing you all the best life can give you ..

[@faitharisson7002]

You are a beautiful strong woman life has to continue don’t stay there move on there is a God of a second chance

[@VeeMso]

My friend Gladys You are a strong woman

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks gal..Ni God tu

[@user-dp2fi5iv9j]

Waiting upon God my take home

[@ggathoni35]

Thank you

[@faithkoi2193]

My Son also got Ulcers when he was in class 1 so i had to leave and he got healed...

[@ggathoni35]

Pole,save the kids

[@ggathoni35]

Pole,save the kids..they deserve a beautiful life

[@Ann-sm6pz]

Watching these stories confirm that marriages harm women. How about you stay single,make money and raise your children? These creatures do not deserve you.😢

[@kabuinjoroge1056]

This lady is so mature and l see Moni hooking her up 😊 Monica she has talked about talking to young girls in school she can be a good speaker with your along side your viewers l love her English. Can we do something for her???

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks for your comment,That has my desire for so long,i would be glad to inspire young girls, teenagers that pregnancy doesn't mean the end of life,they can still pursue their education and achieve what they want in life.Provided they remain focused.Thanks for your positive thoughts

[@kabuinjoroge1056]

@@ggathoni35 you are going places l can see it happening dear

[@ggathoni35]

A big Amen to this.Thank you.

[@angel.----]

Tuned in❤

[@josephinekamau2162]

That man don't know what he lost

[@elizabethkariuki6424]

People say they are staying in a toxic marriage caz of children not knowing they are causing more harm to the children than good

[@MonicahKamau-vg5ys]

I have learnt so much from this and uko strong sana because umeheal na thats why you can give your story with a big smile

[@hannahwambui4433]

Good lessons I'm learning everyday

[@joycemaina2126]

Women pass alot .Hugs grace❤ its well n God be with u..

[@mercywanjiru-ig6jr]

Hi kagoni na guest wa wetu Wah! Mundurume maraya onaga niguo mutumia wake ekaga. Shindwe kabisaaa.

[@gikonyo__3505]

This is very encouraging and i wish Gladys will fall on the hand of a loving n responsible Man.A widower who is a God fearing like Alex wa Sussie,would be a better option.She needs someone who will also love and accept her children. Pls Gladys take your time.

[@queenexellent9854]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 you already matched her with someone?

[@muriithijohnmaina]

@@queenexellent9854 c poo

[@njerinyambu6769]

Monica, you are a gem👏👏

[@23BlessedLady]

Mrs Kagoni uko 👌👌🔥

[@sarahngugi2779]

Situation ya Gladys ni similar to mine although mine was a cold war which made me scared

[@wambuimbugua8948]

Cold war is bad because it kills yourself esteem and that is what the man want you to believe that you are stupid and afool

[@ngaruiyahenry4293]

Yaaani kwa barabara we are all smiling but deep down us we are all sick.... She was my manage back then I know her very well we used to call gladys sholei

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks soo much Henry ...A smile keeps away all other difficulties...It hides a lot.

[@kk-xl2pp]

All the best for you Madam ,,

[@annewangui6421]

Tuned in from Narok

[@marykuria8472]

Tuned as usual

[@waruhiucas]

😂😂😂soko mapema utoke mapema.He lost such a gem!

[@ggathoni35]

😂

[@ggathoni35]

😂 ..kama itabidi utoke itakuwa mapems

[@waruhiucas]

I love your resilience amidst what he put you through.May God keep showering you with His endless blessings.

[@njesh9807]

​@ggathoni35 you are a strong lady.

[@nyobs]

Tuned in from Hamburg

[@andrewmuigai6573]

Apo amesema Kikuyu men don't accept kids wa single mums huo ni uongo am dating a single mum with a girl and I love her sasa hiyo steeotype yako stop it

[@marykamau3085]

Tuned in

[@user-gy6et7tt1y]

Strong, beautiful lady....

[@naomykikky]

Woiiii imagine 3 months of dating you are pregnant and you are in high school….it must have been tough

[@ruthwanjiru-gy2ro]

Tuned ❤❤❤

[@tabsangie1035]

I'm 28years no kid I learn alot from Metha ya Kagoni atleast when I will decided to get marriage I will be able to handle.I wish wanatuambianga which is the best age to get marriage. Naona kama nimechelewa but atleast I can't regret I'm investing for my life.

[@gracekariuki6688]

No best time to get married if you have the right person. Wait for God to give you the right person. It can be below or above 30 bora it's the right person.

[@cellplus4764]

Tuned

[@RechalWanyoike]

Gladys u r very strong u hav exact my story,we r many mum

[@monicahwanjiku2524]

My schoolmate you are strong

[@shikumwithiga3252]

This lady has a very good heart n muture ❤

[@shonkairu228]

She was my class mate a very humble lady

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks

[@janethangwa3414]

Tuned from Saudi Arabia

[@elizabethwamuyu7136]

Similar case to mine hapo kwa insecurities,kuachiwa bills

[@gracejoe9487]

Monica this is exactly my story ten years back the same same town,,my life affected my son very much he got trauma mtoto born 2006 amemaliza class eight 2023,,hizi violence za nyumbani zikianza kimbia

[@millicentwanjiku1698]

Afadahali wako ako hai wangu aliaga

[@gracejoe9487]

@@millicentwanjiku1698 pole sana

[@Chai-moto-fm]

Woiye! Pole

[@evelyneva]

Tuned From Qatar

[@charitywangare4844]

Gladys always smiling as you carry on with your daily duties weuh sisemi meeengi you and know but God knows better..much love sister sister

[@ggathoni35]

Ni God dear

[@charityngatiah5026]

My namesake right here

[@suzziewilliam3246]

Woooi Gladys...hugs mamaa

[@rosemutinda3076]

Hope God will locate the right person 😢😢😢some men are worse than devil

[@elizabethnganga]

Kwahiūha kīūra rūga!

[@stankirubi1182]

Gwi kihiko Na kuhuthirwo uru

[@Joylynw]

Nyandarua girls are beautiful and disciplined...Guess ni ile kazi ngumu ya kulima tuliofanya😅😅

[@ggathoni35]

😂true

[@ngaruiyahenry4293]

Gladys woooiii what is it😢😢😢😢😢

[@user-lv4jx9pd9u]

One mistake we do is to forgive once twice thrice

[@mercymathenge5742]

Wooooi maa wakwa ndamutumanira aririo anjeraga andu acio njeraga mathina ndimatwarire mwana

[@VeronicaKamonjo]

My former youthmate from OJK

[@joyjoy140]

Wee Gladys 🙆 , thank you kagoni for bringing this golden Lady, I have learned not to envy someone blessings without knowing the journey they have gone through, I salute you baby girl I have never know you went through this, you are a 💪 kudos

[@ggathoni35]

Thanks a bunch my dear.Lets trust in God and always place the intrests of our kids first.We might loose them when protecting marriages.

[@SallyKinyanjui]

Kagoni my favourite

[@marssystems4357]

The other side of story

[@hellencatt]

What woman go through.....weuh.. it's only God knows ❤

[@VeronicahWambui-tw3zj]

Waaat?? threatening me is enough for me to leave.

[@estherwambui6204]

That man was a narcissist

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Kagoni you are doing amazing work.. keep going on!

[@winniejoy3858]

Sa hyu mwanaume alifikiria gladys atawai kuwa working class,,, wivu itaua men