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Mike and Kharyzma Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

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Arlette Amuli

Arlette Amuli

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@adams8830
@adams8830 5 ай бұрын
If arlette didn't include flashbacks from their matching i would not recognize these people AT ALL.
@Tresdrole123
@Tresdrole123 5 ай бұрын
THIS
@aidanwm7498
@aidanwm7498 5 ай бұрын
I think that’s why she does it
@ikennaamaechi2054
@ikennaamaechi2054 5 ай бұрын
It’s like their complexion changed
@kimoramicheal8353
@kimoramicheal8353 5 ай бұрын
I only remembered Connie, The Ya Feel Me Guy, The one who reminded me of Eddie Winslow, and The Day to Day Speak! 😂 Oh and of Course Dr. You Need Therapy Elom (Who was just on Insta Live!) 😅
@JohnBlessed5
@JohnBlessed5 5 ай бұрын
I remember the guy but not the girl
@DNGx3
@DNGx3 5 ай бұрын
Any time someone says “you’re not ugly” as a form of a compliment, you know they aren’t feeling you 😂
@anthonysanders7407
@anthonysanders7407 5 ай бұрын
She's cute...his lost and someone else gain....
@MrTwonetwone
@MrTwonetwone 5 ай бұрын
@@anthonysanders7407😂 go save her champ
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe 5 ай бұрын
⁠@@anthonysanders7407 that’s subjective.
@poerava
@poerava 5 ай бұрын
Yes, such an ugly thing to say to someone.
@adeliat3983
@adeliat3983 5 ай бұрын
Exactly. I just went back and watched the episode. I think he liked Esther (baddie in the black leather dress) but Esther popped early cuz he reminded her of her ex. Everyone else he talked about them being his type or not his type physically. But when Arlette asked about Esther he said “yes I would date her”. A definitive statement. So he can be definitive if he wants to be.
@sherrinaj6999
@sherrinaj6999 5 ай бұрын
"I can't do a nonchalant man... i need my man very much so CHALANT!" 😂😂
@JasmeenNasir
@JasmeenNasir 5 ай бұрын
Period!!! Understood you fully! 😂
@pblack.
@pblack. 5 ай бұрын
My dumb ass looked chalant to see if it was a word 🤦🏿‍♂️. Lol but I definitely understood you
@ALChandlers
@ALChandlers 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@montierejohnson3917
@montierejohnson3917 5 ай бұрын
Period
@earlcallender4233
@earlcallender4233 5 ай бұрын
LOLOL
@LuLu-1993
@LuLu-1993 5 ай бұрын
There's a difference between "taking things slow" and "not being interested" Mike was speaking in circles, it's clear he's not interested. This ain't pop the balloon and find friends lmao. She's gorgeous!
@2michael78
@2michael78 5 ай бұрын
Bro you just literally said everything I was gonna say lmao 😂
@joshuaalay2295
@joshuaalay2295 5 ай бұрын
She’s over weight guys, not gorgeous.
@THEBLACKBIKINIBOTTOMCXAXRXEXE
@THEBLACKBIKINIBOTTOMCXAXRXEXE 5 ай бұрын
@@joshuaalay2295 that’s a false dichotomy
@knowbeonekanobe5672
@knowbeonekanobe5672 5 ай бұрын
Let’s be real, these women can’t handle rejection. Especially on these shows. She’s a homie/phuc buddy only, in his eyes.
@johnnguyen6469
@johnnguyen6469 5 ай бұрын
She’s a post 2am text at best, no meals shared
@sblackmagics
@sblackmagics 5 ай бұрын
Can never recognize anyone in these catch ups lmao
@giannisakoumpo
@giannisakoumpo 5 ай бұрын
I only recognized the last couple 😂
@dscott1284
@dscott1284 5 ай бұрын
I thought it was just me bruh 😂😂
@FatalFarrow
@FatalFarrow 5 ай бұрын
That's what happens when folks don't show up to dates as their authentic selves. It's fake visual representation of what they really look like.
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 5 ай бұрын
Put your glasses on
@TyondaB.
@TyondaB. 5 ай бұрын
Right I be having to go back to the episode 🤦🏽‍♀️
@tynishawalker326
@tynishawalker326 5 ай бұрын
The way my face was scrunched up the ENTIRE time smh..she’s so pretty and seemed really excited about him.I hope she finds the love that she deserves and someone who sees how great she is.
@KiraJayCole
@KiraJayCole 5 ай бұрын
Same now I have wrinkles 😭
@JeremyArmando.Official
@JeremyArmando.Official 5 ай бұрын
Amen.
@cakujuo
@cakujuo 4 ай бұрын
Maybe he does but he’s not one to jump on people. He’s giving her time, being a gentleman, trying to schedule trips etc.
@Mistachill
@Mistachill 4 ай бұрын
She looks SOOOOOO much better in real life casual mode than when she was on the show.
@universallyauthentic9562
@universallyauthentic9562 4 ай бұрын
Yup yup yup. I agree!
@TSidez
@TSidez 5 ай бұрын
To recap: He’s not that into her and isn’t man enough to say it. She is kind of into him, but is hurt by not seeing those feelings reciprocated.
@BeAManPodkast
@BeAManPodkast 5 ай бұрын
Leading women on. But she needs to learn as a woman when to make the decision for the man so her time is not wasted.
@1Sakks0
@1Sakks0 5 ай бұрын
I hate that.
@MrTwonetwone
@MrTwonetwone 5 ай бұрын
He doesn’t have to tell her anything she clearly can’t read between the lines. Most women expect a man to know how they feel, tell her use them same powers and figure it out. Go talk to some rocks 🪨 or something
@Kellyyy44
@Kellyyy44 5 ай бұрын
@@MrTwonetwonenah buddy. Texting and FaceTiming every day is a sign he is interested
@shondalesstudio
@shondalesstudio 5 ай бұрын
Thanks
@TheLykon
@TheLykon 5 ай бұрын
If somebody say “ you not ugly” that means they don’t fw you like that lmaooo
@adgee5401
@adgee5401 5 ай бұрын
He said she was beautiful before that
@buckwheat6245
@buckwheat6245 5 ай бұрын
@@adgee5401 He was just being polite. I mean she is beautiful but it's very obvious he's not into her like that.
@queenc8280
@queenc8280 5 ай бұрын
100%
@kandicet4545
@kandicet4545 5 ай бұрын
He wasn’t saying it like that. As a man he was just making sure she was validated.
@ESBEAUTII
@ESBEAUTII 5 ай бұрын
She’s far from ugly but he’s closer to it 😂😂😂
@Edovelvet
@Edovelvet 5 ай бұрын
Arlette please bring her back. She deserves someone serious!! Thank you ❤
@winsomelettman6854
@winsomelettman6854 4 ай бұрын
Yes, bring her back
@negative949
@negative949 4 ай бұрын
@@winsomelettman6854 she needs to workout...
@user-av94566
@user-av94566 4 ай бұрын
He deserves a healthy woman
@walkingtree2486
@walkingtree2486 4 ай бұрын
she needs to stop eating
@dspenderella9671
@dspenderella9671 3 ай бұрын
@@Edovelvet Totally agree!
@nefertitiscott3179
@nefertitiscott3179 5 ай бұрын
Bring her back on the show and hopefully she'll find someone who wants more than a friendship. The show is about finding love.
@mikechiks983
@mikechiks983 5 ай бұрын
You don't want people more than 2x at most though. One as a line up and one as the walk-in. Otherwise, she risks turning the show to a place for hook up - to pick up ladies and guys alike. But you're right as far as these two, he only feels friendship. There's no burning desire to 😘😜
@francisadu-gyamfijr2322
@francisadu-gyamfijr2322 5 ай бұрын
He checked out her ig and lost interest. Nobody taking you serious if you showing azz online
@Decades-pl2kl
@Decades-pl2kl 5 ай бұрын
Yeah but that's not guaranteed which is why 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈 are all over the floor after every episode
@Kellyyy44
@Kellyyy44 5 ай бұрын
Her and Bryan should get together
@Yak.indebox
@Yak.indebox 5 ай бұрын
A lot of men want more than friendship. She’s in the same boat with them
@09irishpride
@09irishpride 5 ай бұрын
“She’s not ugly” He don’t like you girl.
@adgee5401
@adgee5401 5 ай бұрын
Wild you purposely left out him saying she is beautiful first.
@09irishpride
@09irishpride 5 ай бұрын
@@adgee5401 wild you give af about that when he initially said “she’s not ugly” & his actions align with not liking her.
@randyallen8213
@randyallen8213 5 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking when he said that
@09irishpride
@09irishpride 5 ай бұрын
@@AD_80s oh please lmao if he was so private he wouldn’t go on one of these pop the balloon shows. He likes her as a homegirl, that’s it.
@icec1628
@icec1628 5 ай бұрын
Right very poor choice of words if he didn’t mean it that way
@stylejas8731
@stylejas8731 5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry she had to deal with this publicly but girl EVERY female has dealt with this. Keep pushing 🥰
@Kellyyy44
@Kellyyy44 5 ай бұрын
Yup…. We gotta start learning as women that some dudes just aren’t capable of love. They don’t love themselves. It’s a personal issue and has nothing to do with you. They aren’t healthy. Can tell you they love you and show you sometimes but at the end of the day if it’s more harm than good fuck em
@Yak.indebox
@Yak.indebox 5 ай бұрын
⁠@@Kellyyy44what are you talking about? Men face this more than women do.
@jjf77able
@jjf77able 5 ай бұрын
@@Kellyyy44has nothing to do with him not loving himself. He just doesn’t like her, and he’s not pretending to like her. He said they’re friends multiple times. If anything she doesn’t love herself by not moving on.
@mucleboy0151
@mucleboy0151 3 ай бұрын
She gonna deal with it alot until sge betters herself tell folks the truth jus like yall dbt have a problem telling black men who try to date
@dylansandoval2902
@dylansandoval2902 3 ай бұрын
@stylejas8731 you are very pretty 😍
@v.private5038
@v.private5038 5 ай бұрын
Reading his body language from the start of this video, I could tell he was not interested any more, and keeping his options open.... She's a sweet young lady and needs to remove herself from being his friend.
@DaeMurda
@DaeMurda 5 ай бұрын
No he needs to remove himself. She’s the type that’s always unhappy and it turned him off
@Rittersport88
@Rittersport88 5 ай бұрын
That's how I sit on chairs with little to no back support. Even when standing I fold my arms as somewhat of a support regardless of how I mentally feel. I'd hate to have one of you body language "experts" observe me when I'm out with my lady.
@M2ze
@M2ze 5 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@dnaLedge
@dnaLedge 5 ай бұрын
I noticed it before they even matched. He just didn’t wanna be mean.
@M2ze
@M2ze 5 ай бұрын
@@DaeMurda that guy just played with her I’m not gonna lie
@Usersomethingsometh
@Usersomethingsometh 5 ай бұрын
The Anime couple are the only ones I recognized from the thumbnail.
@centenoj85
@centenoj85 5 ай бұрын
Me too
@vida.r
@vida.r 5 ай бұрын
Same
@aerielaeriel
@aerielaeriel 5 ай бұрын
Because they are true to themselves
@jcardosa02
@jcardosa02 5 ай бұрын
Which one was that?
@majormiri
@majormiri 5 ай бұрын
Same I love them!
@khayreewhetstone2583
@khayreewhetstone2583 5 ай бұрын
Mrs. Arlette you are a prime example of many may have the same business idea as you but no one can do it like you!
@Queen221-u3u
@Queen221-u3u 5 ай бұрын
This is ssoooooo trrrue!!
@Sparklez93
@Sparklez93 4 ай бұрын
Wow. This is true, and I needed to read it for myself too.
@mucleboy0151
@mucleboy0151 3 ай бұрын
The other show gets more views n has more subs but i personally lile hers better the other one hella ghetto to me
@wardat.waad1997
@wardat.waad1997 Ай бұрын
Yaaass❤❤❤❤👏🏼 so true...god bless her
@silvesternyanga4713
@silvesternyanga4713 5 ай бұрын
The girl has a very sweet character. I hope she finds her perfect match who will compliment her and treat her as a Queen 👸
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz 5 ай бұрын
She going to fast
@misstiff29
@misstiff29 5 ай бұрын
How ???​@@emmanuelversace-bb1yz
@DEEDUBZ
@DEEDUBZ 5 ай бұрын
Sweet Girl ?! LOL You don't know her. Majority of these girls just act innocent on camera
@netizensarrest4241
@netizensarrest4241 5 ай бұрын
One of the best clues to know if a man isn’t interested is if you feel like he isn’t interested. Men will chase after what they want and make it clear.
@sylvl0788
@sylvl0788 5 ай бұрын
Let me go send your comment to the girlies because it’s common sense but it’s apparently not that common 🤦🏾‍♀️
@Hoyt.45
@Hoyt.45 5 ай бұрын
Men used to chase. That's not the norm today and some men prefer to keep options open. A lot has changed based on how we interact with each other.
@kakishisfriend1126
@kakishisfriend1126 5 ай бұрын
​@Hoyt.45 Even the ones that keep their options open chase the one they want the most
@Hoyt.45
@Hoyt.45 5 ай бұрын
@@kakishisfriend1126 I think that depends entirely on his status. If a man knows he can get most of the women he talks to then he's not gonna chase any woman
@Ocosmos777
@Ocosmos777 5 ай бұрын
@@Hoyt.45true
@DarkMatter11k
@DarkMatter11k 5 ай бұрын
She's stringing herself along at this point. He's not interested and it's clear. And if you're unclear, understand that that confusion IS clarity. Men don't leave confusion where there is clarity.
@GavinDavisMusic
@GavinDavisMusic 5 ай бұрын
Yeah she frustrated…and even with this show…trying to convince him low key…
@tahamenepark
@tahamenepark 4 ай бұрын
He confused her by arranging dates and talking to her on the phone every day. Wasting her time
@DarkMatter11k
@DarkMatter11k 4 ай бұрын
​For sure. He's immature and emotionally irresponsible. He knows that she's falling for him and instead of setting clear boundaries he's doing things to make her feel that there's more there than there is. My point is the fact that he is confusing her is in itself clarity. There's no confusion when men are intentional about pursuing what they want. @@tahamenepark
@Yutsekelman
@Yutsekelman 4 ай бұрын
​@DarkMatter11k you said it right ....why doesn't he come out point blank and say ,I just want friendship from this ..she wants a romantic relationship, ,that's the whole point of the show.
@gracelong3975
@gracelong3975 Күн бұрын
He said I never flirted with u wow 😮
@kirkmalik4616
@kirkmalik4616 5 ай бұрын
He doesn’t like her like that, it’s clear . He makes that really clear.
@Papeeeee
@Papeeeee 5 ай бұрын
Yep, Crystal😂
@nickyjordine4457
@nickyjordine4457 5 ай бұрын
😂​@@Papeeeee
@qbee3413
@qbee3413 5 ай бұрын
He should say it though he sounds like a scared boy
@jb9911
@jb9911 5 ай бұрын
Ofc, look how big she is
@danielogwara3984
@danielogwara3984 5 ай бұрын
@@jb9911Everyone can’t be the same size. That’s a gorgeous woman.
@Cxn213
@Cxn213 5 ай бұрын
He just wants his hair done for free, RUN!
@dspenderella9671
@dspenderella9671 5 ай бұрын
😂
@justiceeuell190
@justiceeuell190 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂 im screaming, but she said everytime they go out hes paying so yea i would do his hair for free
@Aquarius_1007
@Aquarius_1007 5 ай бұрын
yooooooo i was thinking the samething😂
@Ayomide-nn4yn
@Ayomide-nn4yn 5 ай бұрын
😂
@Jazzzzyfit_
@Jazzzzyfit_ 5 ай бұрын
I said the same thing 😂
@alygisel
@alygisel 5 ай бұрын
I love Arlette she's gonna make sure she asks exactly what we all are wondering! 😂 "so is she not what you usually go for?" because at this point that's what we're trying to figure out 🤦‍♀️ lol
@dspenderella9671
@dspenderella9671 5 ай бұрын
I get what she's saying; like why take her out paying for it, invite her to the fashion show and Disneyland, talk to her daily, go kick it at her house, etc. if you're not interested and just friend-zoning her...He is laid back, but she could tell he'd be more romantic if he was feeling her like that. I can see why that was dissapointing to her, but she's a confident young lady who handled it well. She's right - they need to take it more seriously to avoid wasting people's time.
@50statee
@50statee 5 ай бұрын
At the end of the day they have a solid friendship you can’t always get to ones you want lol
@je39981
@je39981 5 ай бұрын
She probably initiated the interactions. The one red flag was when they went to Olive Garden before his work because it's right by her house. It's like all the dates they had weren't real dates. There was nothing he had to plan just rushed.
@tanishiag.6686
@tanishiag.6686 5 ай бұрын
@@50stateethats OKAY but he needs to learn to communicate that instead of making her solve equations
@GavinDavisMusic
@GavinDavisMusic 5 ай бұрын
I mean he had to see if he was going to develop real feelings passed the surface (physical or the hype of the show). After he made intentional steps to find out, he saw that he wasn’t going to be into her, however he did respect her by seeking friendship first. Unfortunately she really liked him a lot, but the feelings just weren’t mutual. It appears he likes a quiet relationship type of situation.
@mucleboy0151
@mucleboy0151 3 ай бұрын
Cuz he prob wanted to hit n keep hitting tf
@andreacumberbatch348
@andreacumberbatch348 5 ай бұрын
The ONLY person i recognise in these catch ups is Arlette 😂😂😂 Everybody looks different
@bmarchai
@bmarchai 5 ай бұрын
Yea so wild, who are these people hahaha
@derekwilliams6188
@derekwilliams6188 5 ай бұрын
Lol, you only recognize Arlette. 😂😂😂 Im glad im not the only 1. And its not even just 1 match, its literally all of them.
@ashleydominique6832
@ashleydominique6832 5 ай бұрын
I recognize them immediately. She was the first plus size girl to get chose. 😅
@andreacumberbatch348
@andreacumberbatch348 5 ай бұрын
@@ashleydominique6832 I like this hairstyle on her more than the half up style she had for the episode. But your eyes good girl 😄😄
@10150403
@10150403 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@tadtv_
@tadtv_ 5 ай бұрын
Arlette never misses with the looks 💕 whether it’s a recap/reunion or another episode.. She always gon eat with the fits! She just dont miss
@The_Harylaba
@The_Harylaba 5 ай бұрын
See me, grown ass 30 year-old man rushing to watch the episode 😂. This is premium entertainment.
@FreshDrummerBoy
@FreshDrummerBoy 5 ай бұрын
I’m 35 & be thinking the same thing. 😂😂😂.
@KingFlyBrian
@KingFlyBrian 5 ай бұрын
Nbs😂
@tlunceford77
@tlunceford77 5 ай бұрын
I'm 34. you're not that old 😂
@Woah2992
@Woah2992 5 ай бұрын
Bruh me to dawg 😂😂😂😂😂 🤦🏿‍♂️…..
@TheBigdaddy30
@TheBigdaddy30 5 ай бұрын
@@FreshDrummerBoyme as hell 😂😂😂😂
@rickymorty511
@rickymorty511 5 ай бұрын
When he said he had an emergency with a friend during the first date. That sounds like an excuse I would use to get away from someone I don’t like.
@MrBrooklyn295
@MrBrooklyn295 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 word
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 5 ай бұрын
Definitely an excuse used on the job
@kianashaw
@kianashaw 5 ай бұрын
Emergency my azz
@AltrinaRenee
@AltrinaRenee 5 ай бұрын
Her intuition is telling her what it is. Listen to it. He’s too nice to say he isn’t into her like that. When a man wants something, he’s gonna make it known. It’s called moving with intention. Everyone deserves to have that. So Sis, he aint giving that, say thank you for your time, and move on respectfully. It’s okay..thats dating till you find your person. Dont waste each others time knowing the “It” isn’t there.
@weeroo8273
@weeroo8273 5 ай бұрын
Yeahhh as a guy I can confirm that he’s just not into her. If you have to name a million reasons why you want to take your time then you’re not really feeling her. Men if we’re feeling a woman we let it be known especially because we also know there’s dudes in dms or wherever ready to take our spot. I wish he would’ve just been honest and say that he just not feeling her romantically, this is why women get confused, just let her know what it is so she can stop hoping and wasting her time and move on to someone who actually wants her. He said “friends” way too many times.
@drewcp2012
@drewcp2012 5 ай бұрын
But you say you not interested, you the bad guy….. it’s a slippery slope
@ImaniBrammer
@ImaniBrammer 5 ай бұрын
@@drewcp2012this is not true. You MISLEAD us and you’re the bad guy. Stop lyin to support your victim needs, ugh 🙄
@JAYAREWASHERE
@JAYAREWASHERE 5 ай бұрын
You out here competing to take on responsibilities ? I rather pick the one that makes it worth having the responsibility ima take whatever time I need because this my legacy
@Rhawn246
@Rhawn246 5 ай бұрын
@@drewcp2012 No, not having the guts or the integrity to tell the truth is what creates problems.
@maliksmith1870
@maliksmith1870 5 ай бұрын
He's weighing his options, keeping her on standby until further notice
@genayrose3981
@genayrose3981 5 ай бұрын
Yup!!! You called it
@maliksmith1870
@maliksmith1870 5 ай бұрын
​@@genayrose3981They hung out, he probably seen other women he was feeling and had second thoughts
@nigerianspecimen
@nigerianspecimen 5 ай бұрын
I see what you did there
@CullodenJones
@CullodenJones 5 ай бұрын
Some stars get in a good position during "free agency"
@jordanjojodenise4502
@jordanjojodenise4502 5 ай бұрын
Right ! That’s what he’s doing
@eeonacoore898
@eeonacoore898 5 ай бұрын
😍 She’s really pretty!! He should just flat out say he wants to be friends because that’s what it sounds like and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s no need to waste her time. She seems genuine and understanding so why beat around the bush.
@813REBECCA
@813REBECCA 5 ай бұрын
Honestly I don’t think he ever really felt her that way and this “catch up” confirmed it. Now he’s just sticking around for the free hair dos.
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz 5 ай бұрын
No yap at least she got a customer
@SweetiePieLuvU312
@SweetiePieLuvU312 5 ай бұрын
@@emmanuelversace-bb1yzhe's likely not coming back lol
@10150403
@10150403 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@JessRare
@JessRare 5 ай бұрын
I felt like that’s the only reason he chose her..to get his hair done n I bet he prob ain’t payin her or very lil🙄
@melissaleon1489
@melissaleon1489 5 ай бұрын
Yet she said when he takes her out he pays for everything ​@@JessRare
@damyabrown22
@damyabrown22 5 ай бұрын
I get exactly what she’s saying. She just wanted clarity and doesn’t want her time wasted. I’m the same way, I’m not talking to you everyday unless I’m really feeling you.
@peaceriver1793
@peaceriver1793 5 ай бұрын
Bro's body language is speaking volumes!! He kees his left elbow pointed towards her and his head and entire upper body is leaning away from her and his right shoulder is so tense!! 😮
@AWakesheeple
@AWakesheeple 5 ай бұрын
A man ALWAYS KNOWS WHO HE WANTS!!....Girl he ON ISH!!! MOVE ON!!
@lobmob3235
@lobmob3235 5 ай бұрын
Sure but it’s not always that black and white…
@SL-pg4dh
@SL-pg4dh 5 ай бұрын
Same for women
@beautiful.benediction
@beautiful.benediction 5 ай бұрын
@@lobmob3235it is .
@chocolate91
@chocolate91 5 ай бұрын
People only take things slow and make you wait if they not sure of you or they not really attracted to you/not your type. As a man, I been in his shoes before. She is not his type, but he tryna see if he could feel something for her beyond the esthetics and see if a spark can happen. He just need realize if a woman can't spark his interest, then he just gone end up leading her on or cheating on her for a woman he really does have immediate attraction for
@lobmob3235
@lobmob3235 5 ай бұрын
@@chocolate91 right! He’s open minded/mature and it’s wild bc most women/people slander men for being too “focused” on aesthetics/looks
@myyia3110
@myyia3110 5 ай бұрын
"There's your compliment girl" lmaooo I love Arlette
@tylarjohnson6886
@tylarjohnson6886 5 ай бұрын
I was cracking up😂😂😂
@321Venia
@321Venia 5 ай бұрын
Omg which part was that lol
@allthingsreview2778
@allthingsreview2778 5 ай бұрын
That was “petty” 😂😂😂
@KK32022
@KK32022 5 ай бұрын
I cant stand her… she is awkward af and embarrasses people on purpose… she might as well said “there’s the compliment you were fishing for you thirsty bish”
@_belleza
@_belleza 5 ай бұрын
She’s like a home girl fr 😂
@XerxeszSumfin-pq3fz
@XerxeszSumfin-pq3fz 5 ай бұрын
She’s so far been the most down to earth lady on this show and her essence is evident. She deserved respect and honesty from him. Good luck to you Kharizma or whatever your real name is🙏.
@deeds3337
@deeds3337 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Karterjane
@Karterjane 5 ай бұрын
He said “she’s not ugly “ 3 fucking times . unfuckingreal. SMFH
@kingdo777
@kingdo777 5 ай бұрын
Well, she's not ugly
@ronde1135
@ronde1135 5 ай бұрын
Honest assessment. The second part of statement he kept to himself which is - " but she not cute enough for me"
@slimm215
@slimm215 5 ай бұрын
Fk you want him to say? “She bad”
@Asiamairee22
@Asiamairee22 5 ай бұрын
What else is supposed to say?! lol it just seems like he doesn’t want to put her on blast and hurt her feelings
@ballin565
@ballin565 5 ай бұрын
Everybody don't like fat chicks
@dreamingbig686
@dreamingbig686 5 ай бұрын
Mike, kharyma came on the show for romance. She's not looking for a friend. If you don't like her that way, then move on because y'all will be wasting your time. It's called for love, potentially marriage.
@Usersomethingsometh
@Usersomethingsometh 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! I thought I was the only one seeing things this way. It a love show, not a youth's hangout.
@TamadgeGourdine
@TamadgeGourdine 5 ай бұрын
Why rush the intimacy while he is just trying to take it slow to get to know and just go with the flow 😅
@curleii333
@curleii333 5 ай бұрын
@@TamadgeGourdineThey don't have to rush intimacy but what she said is that he's doesn't make any romantic gestures. Compliments, flirting, etc is not as deep as intimacy.
@knowbeonekanobe5672
@knowbeonekanobe5672 5 ай бұрын
@@curleii333and who are you to tell this man how he’s to show his interest?
@Vampirita447
@Vampirita447 5 ай бұрын
Looking for love but doesn't know how to support her significant other. 🚩
@lw6339
@lw6339 5 ай бұрын
He looks so much better w/o the braids. He’s really handsome and his smile is top tier … Side note- he’s definitely not interested .. you can tell by his body language and the way he’s rambling lol
@_Milcah_
@_Milcah_ 5 ай бұрын
Ya’ll I didn’t notice they was matching with the butterflies 🦋…That’s so cute
@CCViews_
@CCViews_ 5 ай бұрын
He shook his head no when Arlette said maybe it could brew into something more. Girl, case closed.
@crystaljackson4744
@crystaljackson4744 5 ай бұрын
I caught that too 😂
@leahknowsbeauty1168
@leahknowsbeauty1168 5 ай бұрын
`Omg did he really? I gotta rewatch
@A.Light33
@A.Light33 5 ай бұрын
Yeah I saw that. Passive aggressive. This is what dealing with a man that identifies as a “nice guy” will get ya.
@naitjj1
@naitjj1 5 ай бұрын
@@leahknowsbeauty1168 @23:22
@shattashawn
@shattashawn 5 ай бұрын
I know I wasn't bugging. I had to rewind and come again
@jamesmiller8399
@jamesmiller8399 5 ай бұрын
Damn bro. Dude kinda reminds me of myself when I was around his age. And I grew up to learn you can’t try to be nobody friend and they want more. You’re leading them on. I did that and at the end of the day, that’s how the person you try to keep them as friends. They will hate you✌🏽
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 4 ай бұрын
They immature then if they can't handle being in the friend zone
@morgangant4384
@morgangant4384 5 ай бұрын
Arlette not gon let you beat around the bush “so when she flirt you u don’t feel that??” 😂😂😂😂 cuz exactly
@khethelomhlongo7311
@khethelomhlongo7311 5 ай бұрын
They should’ve already known from the main show “is she someone you’d like?” “Why did you pop your balloon”
@M_m810
@M_m810 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@theegreendragon
@theegreendragon 3 ай бұрын
Arlette is the Barbara Walters of Pop the Ballon. She will get the information.
@lady33357
@lady33357 2 ай бұрын
​@@theegreendragon😂
@opinionatorX
@opinionatorX 5 ай бұрын
Truth is he is not into her for some reason he's not saying. Ladies. A man knows and shows when he really likes you even if he's quote" taking it slow".
@David-tc8qh
@David-tc8qh 5 ай бұрын
He’s not saying because he knows he will be demonized.
@DatBoyJames
@DatBoyJames 5 ай бұрын
Fax. When I like a woman but want to take it slow, I'm still touching and even kissing her. It's actually difficult to take it slow because you like her so much. As a man, he ain't interested.
@DeathxXXxJoker
@DeathxXXxJoker 5 ай бұрын
That's true we know off rip. I guarantee you it's because she has a kid (if I remember correct), and he's not taking the relationship seriously because of that. Majority of men won't. The girl he really wanted probably popped on him so he figures he can just settle and leave with something. She's not ugly so it was still a win, and he most definitely got what he wanted. Remember she said he's been to the house twice, so he most definitely hit lol.
@lobmob3235
@lobmob3235 5 ай бұрын
It’s not as clear as people try to make it though. It deadass really does take time for guys to make that decision
@SL-pg4dh
@SL-pg4dh 5 ай бұрын
He’s not interested in Lizzo’s little sis. Its not a mystery as to why
@jaymonet9628
@jaymonet9628 5 ай бұрын
Don’t waste anymore time love, keep it pushing. You are a beautiful young lady, when a guy knows he knows and you deserve that certainty. You’ll get your perfect match.
@kuislittleworld2909
@kuislittleworld2909 5 ай бұрын
Girl is already hooked but dude ain't feeling it 😢 She seems so sweet though.. I hope she finds a love that is mutual ❤
@ImaniBrammer
@ImaniBrammer 5 ай бұрын
How is she hooked??? She was simply interested and noticing that he wasn’t.
@icequeen491
@icequeen491 5 ай бұрын
@@ImaniBrammershe’s hooked, she was all like “we did this, we did that, they called us the butterfly couple ☺️” Pay attention
@naimam3976
@naimam3976 5 ай бұрын
Thats why ladies should not sleep with guys they are not in a relationship with and really best advice is wait sex until marriage. Hope she didnt sleep with him, she will move on faster then.
@Kaleeza457
@Kaleeza457 5 ай бұрын
He just seem real young minded tbh the way he speak, body language alll tht is giving young
@msughanom
@msughanom 5 ай бұрын
He's 25, and she's 30 something. They said their ages on the show.
@Jannah-jg9rq
@Jannah-jg9rq 5 ай бұрын
She's beautiful, seems smart and confident but I can't understand how she's interested in this young boy
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz
@emmanuelversace-bb1yz 5 ай бұрын
@@Jannah-jg9rqi said the same
@mzermichaelterungwa7904
@mzermichaelterungwa7904 4 ай бұрын
​@@Jannah-jg9rq That may be why many women looking for serious, intentional relationships prefer dating reasonable single older men, as the emotional readiness factor is likely higher( except those seeking casual or "recreational" relationships) Mike came off as uninterested and in the exploratory phase, as many modern under-30-year-old young men are, and therefore not yet ready to settle down with Kharyzma, who is mature, intentional and ready to settle down. I pray she finds someone who will cherish and treat her like the queen she is. Imagine making Mike's hair and the dude is still taking his time!!!!!!!!! He should be taken to the evil forest, abandoned there and forbidden to return to the village.
@SignedTashaDavis
@SignedTashaDavis 5 ай бұрын
Kharyzma is beautiful and has a great personality. Please bring her back on for a chance to find love❤️.
@zimandolaallday8646
@zimandolaallday8646 5 ай бұрын
James Gourmet Pies 😄❤️
@YungStokes1
@YungStokes1 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@snicholson8884
@snicholson8884 5 ай бұрын
Why he's not in these comments everyday, idk 😂
@yourriderdie8472
@yourriderdie8472 5 ай бұрын
lol they need to bring him back
@qh9070
@qh9070 5 ай бұрын
Lol
@schlonda1981
@schlonda1981 5 ай бұрын
Okay 😆😆😆😆
@johnjackson1466
@johnjackson1466 5 ай бұрын
Mike should have been honest, and just say I'm not feeling you, and let's be friends at this point. Mike is definitely not a hunter, in which the majority of men are the hunters. You can see this young lady developed emotional feelings instantly.
@Tresdrole123
@Tresdrole123 5 ай бұрын
Not a hunter *for her*
@JocTillery
@JocTillery 5 ай бұрын
True he should've said it when Arlette asked him was it gonna be a match for him
@lobmob3235
@lobmob3235 5 ай бұрын
As a man it’s not always that clear tbh. Sometimes you really enjoy a woman’s company and after some time you get that “feeling “ he mentioned. People always try to paint men in these situation as evil or that they are leading the girl on when really we are just being open and really trying to understand/feel her out before we come that decision
@dee-3772
@dee-3772 5 ай бұрын
@@lobmob3235BS he wasn’t attracted to her so he should’ve just left with no match. Men are visual so feelings aren’t going to developed if he’s not attracted to her. You, him and men like you are just scared users in these situations.
@CoreyChampagneTV
@CoreyChampagneTV 5 ай бұрын
@@lobmob3235no he was being intellectually dishonest. When Arlette said at the end “I feel there’s still something there” he shook his head “no” he wasn’t gonna say shit to her about it had she not called it out. This has nothing to do with demonizing men.
@thegeminijayshow336
@thegeminijayshow336 5 ай бұрын
When she said he’s been to my crib and then they showed the clip of him getting his hair done lol 😅I hollered lol 😂😂
@Slim1986
@Slim1986 5 ай бұрын
Only pop balloon I watch. It's professional, organized, and fun to watch.
@sixobreezo1126
@sixobreezo1126 5 ай бұрын
Yea the other ones are filled with hood boogers and pookie and ray-rays
@Slim1986
@Slim1986 5 ай бұрын
@@sixobreezo1126 Exactly!! Lol
@VideoRandomChannel
@VideoRandomChannel 5 ай бұрын
If I don’t see Arlette I’m not watching
@mr314lh2
@mr314lh2 5 ай бұрын
Sis in the friendzone and don't even know it
@mellyelise
@mellyelise 5 ай бұрын
Right and the more she try’s to bring him in he may end up pulling away more. I’ve been in a situation like this before
@lifelove6164
@lifelove6164 5 ай бұрын
She knows, but for some reason she is not walking away.
@BeAManPodkast
@BeAManPodkast 5 ай бұрын
@@lifelove6164 She wants a man thats why.
@Orgizo08
@Orgizo08 5 ай бұрын
She knows it. She just in denial.
@pinkpanther5200
@pinkpanther5200 5 ай бұрын
@@lifelove6164 she’s desperate for human connection maybe, she said she only has 1 friend. I get introvert vibes from her.
@PreciousKuhlase
@PreciousKuhlase 2 ай бұрын
The fake smile he did when she finished his hair says a lot! Run beautiful
@TheSurvivorsPerspective-iq6qy
@TheSurvivorsPerspective-iq6qy 5 ай бұрын
I really love this Pop the Balloon Show. This is the only one I watch...I can't wait for the next episode.
@maryelizabethprice896
@maryelizabethprice896 5 ай бұрын
Sameeee!
@wisdomnissi4749
@wisdomnissi4749 5 ай бұрын
I've been waiting for the next episode, it's taking forever
@maryelizabethprice896
@maryelizabethprice896 5 ай бұрын
@@wisdomnissi4749 right I’m so ready 😄🎊
@ireseobanor8562
@ireseobanor8562 5 ай бұрын
I try the other ones when there aren’t any new ones. They just do not measure up at all 😂
@kembriafelder5136
@kembriafelder5136 5 ай бұрын
Literally the only one I can watch
@ruthy620
@ruthy620 5 ай бұрын
the way the guy shoke his head at 23:23 , Arlette don't give the girl false hopes he said NO
@Mr.Oct___
@Mr.Oct___ 5 ай бұрын
Seems like she annoyed him into that response.
@ssimplyki
@ssimplyki 5 ай бұрын
i didn’t even catch that at first lol
@lobmob3235
@lobmob3235 5 ай бұрын
Lmaooo he said “Hell nah”💀
@leahknowsbeauty1168
@leahknowsbeauty1168 5 ай бұрын
thanks for including the timestamp
@alakazam25yearsago8
@alakazam25yearsago8 5 ай бұрын
@@ssimplyki let me catch ya toez on my nose girl😩👃🏽👣🍿
@Grayer_171
@Grayer_171 5 ай бұрын
I swear I heard a balloon pop 🎈📌💢 during this recap 😂
@Officialpflow
@Officialpflow 5 ай бұрын
💀💀
@ErinTrim
@ErinTrim 2 ай бұрын
Saaame😂
@skiniminonochie
@skiniminonochie 5 ай бұрын
I’m with her, pls be clear with your intentions and good for her for trusting her intuition.
@TheMlGangsta
@TheMlGangsta 5 ай бұрын
He ain’t on fire about her. Probably great friends though 😂😂😂 he just ain’t trying to be an asshole.
@veriteetfeu
@veriteetfeu 5 ай бұрын
But is being one by not trying to be one. lol! That catch 22 always gets guys. Best to just be up front and possibly “hurt” her than to string her along and be a flake and actually hurt her AND waste her time! 😂
@francisadu-gyamfijr2322
@francisadu-gyamfijr2322 5 ай бұрын
No descent brother wants to be associated with someone who show their azz on ig. Sidechick category.
@MrTwonetwone
@MrTwonetwone 5 ай бұрын
@@veriteetfeunah he can do whatever he wants
@corina7929
@corina7929 5 ай бұрын
@@MrTwonetwoneno duh lol
@ericauntraveled8389
@ericauntraveled8389 5 ай бұрын
Why he come on the show if it bothers him how they met? Make it make sense
@jesuisleconqueror
@jesuisleconqueror 3 ай бұрын
That part!!! That whole speech he gave didn’t make sense. No one forced him to be on the show. He annoys me
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
14:00 was a REALLY great question to ask Arlette. He’s not feeling her like that. “You’re not ugly” was the telltale sign of you’re someone’s type just not mine.
@Missyoungesq
@Missyoungesq 5 ай бұрын
Girl you are beautiful! He has all the excuses! 10 episodes prior. Millions of views! He knew what was up! Next! Bring her back so she can match with someone who is really interested in getting to know her!
@Mr.Oct___
@Mr.Oct___ 5 ай бұрын
Yeah. Yall def keep each other single. .
@God_Dess9
@God_Dess9 5 ай бұрын
@@Mr.Oct___😅
@David-tc8qh
@David-tc8qh 5 ай бұрын
@@Mr.Oct___ I know right? The guy was giving his best to be a gentleman and he’s the bad guy for just not being interested. If he never took her out he’s the bad guy. If he tries to be consistent and ends up not being too interested then he’s the bad guy.
@BruthaJames
@BruthaJames 5 ай бұрын
Dang it don’t gotta be all that but he definitely needs to figure it out
@janinegodsdaughter9020
@janinegodsdaughter9020 5 ай бұрын
@@David-tc8qh Well Said. He's a gentleman that wants to take it slow. If a female can't appreciate a gentleman as a friend, then she should just leave. Like he said, if we can't be friends, then why in the world would I want you to be my lover. That young man is Wise...the real ones know.
@rebeccadixon4645
@rebeccadixon4645 3 ай бұрын
YO! She deserve MORE! He needs to GROW UP!!!
@janedeane3656
@janedeane3656 5 ай бұрын
Homie really said 'she's not ugly' 🥲
@yourriderdie8472
@yourriderdie8472 5 ай бұрын
Right that sounds like “she ain’t ugly, but she not the baddest thing” 😩
@OnthaRam
@OnthaRam 5 ай бұрын
😢 heard that
@41prime_
@41prime_ 5 ай бұрын
@@yourriderdie8472lmao that’s what I’m saying
@kuislittleworld2909
@kuislittleworld2909 5 ай бұрын
I felt that 😢
@CALord-tc7ww
@CALord-tc7ww 5 ай бұрын
If a man says you not ugly means you aight. And aight is not it. It's his way of telling you he's not feeling you.
@kervensregistre836
@kervensregistre836 5 ай бұрын
The only pop the balloon show I watch! Good stuff, Arlette!
@TheNyakaat
@TheNyakaat 5 ай бұрын
Weird but you look like a freedom fighter and preacher in your profile picture sir😅
@traplordso985
@traplordso985 5 ай бұрын
@@TheNyakaatare you that bored?
@johnnguyen6469
@johnnguyen6469 5 ай бұрын
The other ones are too ratchet and unorganized. This woman has a very soothing voice and she actually puts together some good matches. Not sure why there are other pop the balloon shows this is the only good one
@gottaluvpink89
@gottaluvpink89 5 ай бұрын
Same, I absolutely love that she’s down to earth and very professional.
@kervensregistre836
@kervensregistre836 5 ай бұрын
@@TheNyakaat 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 thank you, sir!😂
@MaritzaMendoza1018
@MaritzaMendoza1018 3 ай бұрын
She seems so chill. Ugh i hope he opens his eyes and sees shes real and cool!
@lavenderangel2655
@lavenderangel2655 5 ай бұрын
Dear, there's nothing to figure out, he's not into you but he will take advantage of everything you're willing to give him. He's not even a friend, let it go.
@Rhawn246
@Rhawn246 5 ай бұрын
This comment is the one.
@dacallins0884
@dacallins0884 5 ай бұрын
How would he take advantage? He just isn't attracted to her.
@Rhawn246
@Rhawn246 5 ай бұрын
@@dacallins0884 She said that "he will take advantage of everything you're willing to give him".
@PrettyMixedJawn
@PrettyMixedJawn 5 ай бұрын
​@dacallins0884 She did say 'she did his hair, multiple times' and I'm pretty sure it was for free. That's a reason to stick around for a lil bit 🥴🤦‍♀️😅
@therealmelrah
@therealmelrah 5 ай бұрын
Wmn do this all the time! They have guy friends who do little favors for them but the relationship is strictly platonic. Why can't a man have same?
@jenna4628
@jenna4628 5 ай бұрын
She doesn't sound like she was pushing for a relationship, but to have intention. He doesn't seem like he has any intention. Sis, if a man likes you, there will be NO confusion. Don't wait for him
@newerax1009
@newerax1009 5 ай бұрын
Ya, bro doesn't seem all that interested. If I were her, I'd start looking elsewhere.
@charls5834
@charls5834 5 ай бұрын
Thank you, agreed.....
@AWakesheeple
@AWakesheeple 5 ай бұрын
Exactly....he is not interested.
@DemiDollaz
@DemiDollaz 5 ай бұрын
Honestly when he mentioned where he’s from…I get how he moves…it’s not bad
@TheMinor18
@TheMinor18 5 ай бұрын
@@jenna4628 he’s interested. You don’t plan a vacation trip with someone you don’t like fr. I think bro just timid and still don’t know how to make a move on a woman.
@queniseb9133
@queniseb9133 5 ай бұрын
When she said it seem like it can brew into something else ole boy shook his head. Ugh if she wasn’t your type you could’ve let her stand for the next guy.
@ashleyrenee3906
@ashleyrenee3906 5 ай бұрын
This show is so fun. I love it when Arelette says, "we got a maaaatch!" Lol 🎉
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline 5 ай бұрын
@ashleyrenee3906 You forgot the "uh" she adds to the end. "Maaaatch-uh!" 😆
@jmonie02
@jmonie02 5 ай бұрын
yea, you leaving out that -uh at the end.
@mellyelise
@mellyelise 5 ай бұрын
Me too, and she does the little dance too😂❤
@ashleyrenee3906
@ashleyrenee3906 5 ай бұрын
@@faithtvonline 😄 I didn't even notice!
@takurakajengo7184
@takurakajengo7184 5 ай бұрын
I've come to the realization that each person has their own unique match, there's nothing like "most beautiful / handsome person", each person just has their own! and thanx to Arlette! 😀
@RosefrmVenus
@RosefrmVenus 5 ай бұрын
Finally!!!! Flashback included. Thank you Arlette!
@kimora3244
@kimora3244 5 ай бұрын
She always included it lol.
@ancientmindmeditation8452
@ancientmindmeditation8452 5 ай бұрын
He shook his head at the end 🙂‍↔️ like nope 😂 this ain’t going nowhere
@SHEABUDDHA
@SHEABUDDHA 5 ай бұрын
She's adorable when she's annoyed. 😂
@vfrancisco7457
@vfrancisco7457 5 ай бұрын
So adorable!
@sanra167
@sanra167 5 ай бұрын
This comment is a 🚩. She’s cute full time not only when annoyed
@shutupnvibe
@shutupnvibe 5 ай бұрын
@@sanra167 you reached so hard for that 💀😭
@millerforce1donaldson100
@millerforce1donaldson100 5 ай бұрын
Lol, she is not ugly, that sums it up right there, and he says it more than one!.🙉
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline 5 ай бұрын
He is saying in every way possible that he's not as attracted to her as he wants to be. I don't know how many other ways he can say it. Seems like he's trying not to hurt her feelings. Maybe I'm reading it wrong. I just know when a man likes a woman, it shows in his actions AND words.
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline 5 ай бұрын
Okay. Just watched to the end. He's not feeling her as much as she's feeling him.
@nicoleRobinsonH101
@nicoleRobinsonH101 5 ай бұрын
Yes, ur right! I agree💯
@yourriderdie8472
@yourriderdie8472 5 ай бұрын
Right he definitely said that he doesn’t feel the urge to flirt with her. Which tells a lot.
@princessreese1998
@princessreese1998 5 ай бұрын
Well why can’t he be direct and say it straight like that? He’s too damn grown to be sugarcoating.
@MJWife07
@MJWife07 5 ай бұрын
@@princessreese1998because most men do not want to hurt women’s feelings. Most will sugarcoat or give you signs but not straight up
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
“I just don’t know.” I feel like he’s a sweet guy & doesn’t know how to break it to her without hurting her feelings. Tip to all men out there: THERE IS NO WAY OF BREAKING IT TO US WHERE IT DOESN’T HURT. Just do it sooner than later. That way if we’re dumb enough to still entertain you, we can’t say you didn’t tell us what’s up!
@je39981
@je39981 5 ай бұрын
Yea, it seemed like he just wanted something to go off like her throwing in the towel or the update video so he can find his reason to exit.
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
@@je39981 Facts!!! Looking for an out for sure
@KeloDking
@KeloDking 5 ай бұрын
💔
@essedarden4690
@essedarden4690 5 ай бұрын
He DID NOT HAVE TO match with her on their episode!
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
@@essedarden4690 & She DID NOT have to get her balloon back. Should’ve trusted her gut. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@Alliekachala3692
@Alliekachala3692 5 ай бұрын
Kharyzma, You need to come back to the show girl...you are gorgeous girl.... Your man will find you
@mikashamba1
@mikashamba1 5 ай бұрын
Arlette needs to start screening these folks make sure they’re all coming on the show for the right reasons and know what to expect. Bro fumbling a baddy right in front of all of us
@JeremieD-o3u
@JeremieD-o3u 5 ай бұрын
Bro look like he got options
@ricardobernard9159
@ricardobernard9159 5 ай бұрын
He might be a baddy for but he may not feel the same.
@blackingingerpurrin
@blackingingerpurrin 5 ай бұрын
Y’all too old to still be labeling women as “baddies” because they know how to dress or attractive.
@sunnyboateng180
@sunnyboateng180 5 ай бұрын
A 250 lbs is a baddie? Stop it
@lenister7284
@lenister7284 5 ай бұрын
Where the baddie at?
@christof123
@christof123 5 ай бұрын
He’s not very attracted to her but he’s giving her personality a chance.
@Justice1980
@Justice1980 5 ай бұрын
🎯
@41prime_
@41prime_ 5 ай бұрын
@@abiStalli as a man sometimes we just wana give it a chance cause she do seem cool af but sometimes when u get get to that intimate stage just like Mehhh yeah I’m cool
@lovekennyxo
@lovekennyxo 5 ай бұрын
spot on, i wish he’d just say that to her tho😭
@A.Light33
@A.Light33 5 ай бұрын
@@41prime_well be honest and say you want to be cool or friends if the attraction isn’t there don’t waste her time.
@daveh9922
@daveh9922 5 ай бұрын
Lol very well said, sucks people don't understand the male perspective by now, I think he felt the need to dance around taking it slow so people don't notice hes not into her due to her weight and he gets attacked for having a preference.
@BezaHone
@BezaHone 5 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with him. I like to take it slow too....but I can clearly say he is just not into her. He is just waiting for her to get it😊
@drayawaya
@drayawaya 5 ай бұрын
But why wait for her to "get it". He could have just been honest and said he didn't feel a spark and would enjoy being friends. For her to find this out on this catch up isn't right. They could have discussed this prior and been on the same page by this episode. Nothing wrong with taking it slow, but he wasn't moving at all.
@50statee
@50statee 5 ай бұрын
@@drayawayait’s real life they aren’t together he doesn’t owe her an explanation and neither does she 😂 if someone clearly isn’t interested in you MOVE ON
@drayawaya
@drayawaya 5 ай бұрын
@@50statee Yeah, she could have done that, but he also could have just been a man and been real about it. Why waste her time. He came on a dating show and chose her. We're not talking about some random chick just chasing him. But he finally admitted his true feelings, so I think she's good now.
@BezaHone
@BezaHone 5 ай бұрын
@@drayawaya Im not saying it's right. But some guys are like that they don't want to be bad so they wll stay in friend zone, playing with ur emotions, time,... till u say Im OUT...and he wll 👋.... This girl feel it too she just don't want to let go!!! She deserve better so move oooonnnnn
@faithtvonline
@faithtvonline 5 ай бұрын
Arlette said, "You might not have gotten a full episode on Wednesday, but doggit, I'm gonna give y'all some CATCHUPS this week!"
@maryelizabethprice896
@maryelizabethprice896 5 ай бұрын
😂right!
@centenoj85
@centenoj85 5 ай бұрын
True story
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 ай бұрын
I love it cause I got onto the show late so now I can go back and catch up.
@bridgettejohnson9085
@bridgettejohnson9085 5 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one 😂!
@sylvl0788
@sylvl0788 5 ай бұрын
@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfectlucky you sad😢lol I’m suffering I don’t want these damn catch ups I need more episodes lol
@bodaciousshenanigans7171
@bodaciousshenanigans7171 5 ай бұрын
Ok, initially I understood her confusion because his actions reflect a deeper than a friend interest but he’s clearly not invested. However at 16:33 he answered that he doesn’t know if he wants to pursue something further…..BUT at 20:23 she said she is a black n white person so it’s either YES OR NO. He then said verbatim, “the answer is NO.” Everything else he said after that really doesn’t matter. She has her answer. We have our answer. Thats on her if she ignores it.
@essedarden4690
@essedarden4690 5 ай бұрын
Comments saying "he seems shy"? Shy is irrelevant from indecisive! From 13:20 his contradiction begins, again at 16:35, 16:55, 17:08... 🙎🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I don't think she's cool w/being friends.
@mikeuwagbai4987
@mikeuwagbai4987 5 ай бұрын
He doesn’t want her. When you want somebody you know it, it’s clear. Why waste her time?
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 4 ай бұрын
Hater
@mikeuwagbai4987
@mikeuwagbai4987 4 ай бұрын
@@shynebayarea510 what am I hating on? Weirdo
@shynebayarea510
@shynebayarea510 4 ай бұрын
Only a geek call someone a weirdo lol nerd ass@@mikeuwagbai4987
@quayahjolie9303
@quayahjolie9303 2 ай бұрын
Yes! He kept saying he’s taking it slow but the end pretty much said no we’re just friends, and that’s all, which is two different things.
@WadeJoncall
@WadeJoncall 5 ай бұрын
I respect that they weren't being petty or mean to one another. Keeping it classy. Big ups to them!
@tylarjohnson6886
@tylarjohnson6886 5 ай бұрын
The fact that his shirt says “Broken Hearts” tells me everything i need to know 😫
@MJWife07
@MJWife07 5 ай бұрын
Lmao I didn’t even recognize that until you mentioned it
@menadimond6695
@menadimond6695 5 ай бұрын
Lol 😂🤣🤣😂
@yrnx9334
@yrnx9334 5 ай бұрын
😂
@kiracarter5454
@kiracarter5454 28 күн бұрын
He's very handsome. His hair is healthy and beautiful. His smile is everything.
@broderickmoore7322
@broderickmoore7322 5 ай бұрын
Men we can no longer say modern woman are weird or aint shit. These women are applying pressure being respectful, intentional and allowing men to be men. If he's not interested or wants something more or different speak on that. He sounds crazy.
@Mr.Oct___
@Mr.Oct___ 5 ай бұрын
Wtf are u talking about?? SYBAU
@TamadgeGourdine
@TamadgeGourdine 5 ай бұрын
Rite! Ain't nothing wrong to get to know her and not be intimate!
@broderickmoore7322
@broderickmoore7322 5 ай бұрын
@@EnterTheReign_777 that still proves my point. If she turned him off speak to that and say I'm no longer interested. Cause at this point he wastin God's and her time 🤷‍♂️.
@broderickmoore7322
@broderickmoore7322 5 ай бұрын
@@TamadgeGourdine I'm not even speakin to being intimate. There are ways to show interest without being romantic. He wasnt feelin her and that's fine but say that and remain friend's. She's obviously feelin him and not makin him guess.
@AlliterativeAtheist
@AlliterativeAtheist 5 ай бұрын
It was never the women that were “weird.” You all were deceiving yourselves thinking it was.?
@alisonbrathwaite8923
@alisonbrathwaite8923 5 ай бұрын
Awwwwww she really likes him, but he isn't interested
@alisonbrathwaite8923
@alisonbrathwaite8923 5 ай бұрын
@EnterTheReign_777 I agree, but he kinda hinted that the girl he had his eye on popped her balloon He also, to me, was giving her false hope from the start
@treyleaves
@treyleaves 5 ай бұрын
So the match not matching??………😅 iykyk
@alisonbrathwaite8923
@alisonbrathwaite8923 5 ай бұрын
@@treyleaves no it isn't
@__Mikee23
@__Mikee23 5 ай бұрын
@@treyleavesit ain’t matching queen
@judahmac2249
@judahmac2249 5 ай бұрын
These people just be matching and not taking it serious
@FirdousDreamer
@FirdousDreamer 5 ай бұрын
He needs to stop wasting her time. I would’ve been in. She’s definitely beautiful.
@victorlewis7635
@victorlewis7635 5 ай бұрын
Well it looks like he got a lot of options so I mean he doesn’t have to snatch her up
@187Blackheart
@187Blackheart 5 ай бұрын
This is why I don’t settle for less than genuine desire. You don’t have to deal with any of this wishy washy stuff. We also have to learn to ask the most important questions up front. This show is like an in person dating app. Come prepared and if it’s not shallow, stand on principle.
@AyeshaBreannah
@AyeshaBreannah 5 ай бұрын
Kharyzma is such a beauty!
@AlishaNic
@AlishaNic 5 ай бұрын
I think this is the point as a woman where you need to make the Executive decision to remove yourself from being in a situationship with a low effort man. She is very lovely and quite accommodating!!!! And he still put so little effort in. Chipotle and Olive garden for the first couple of dates?!! I don’t have a second friend that would oblige to this. So the fact that she was okay with it and he still didn’t acknowledge how down to earth she is and try to pursue her means he’s just not that interested.
@CullodenJones
@CullodenJones 5 ай бұрын
They are younger than you! Places like BW3 is just fine!
@emmanuelezeagwula7436
@emmanuelezeagwula7436 5 ай бұрын
Are you expecting Ruth Chris on a 1st date ?
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe 5 ай бұрын
Are you crazy? Y’all are just getting to know each other, what sense does it make to splurge on a first couple of dates just to know someone? You guys are going to leave chipotle with a full belly the same way y’all would leave another place with a full belly so what sense does that even make?
@CullodenJones
@CullodenJones 5 ай бұрын
@@Dawgyjoe That type of crap is usually said by females who never make it to a 2nd date! They think, let me go all out, becsuse they cant compete, or there is someone who is obviously better, always!
@tanishiag.6686
@tanishiag.6686 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! Of all the restaurants with better quality food/ambiance he chose those low effort “lunch break at work” establishments…and no it doesn’t HAVE to be Ruth Chris but with some effort and research he could’ve taken her somewhere much nicer for a lil more…he just didn’t like her, kinda led her on and she didn’t get the hint…I wouldn’t have accepted those dates either! These are grown adults not teenagers of college students!
@maryelizabethprice896
@maryelizabethprice896 5 ай бұрын
Kharyzma has an AMAZING personality ❤🎉
@MsRacheeel
@MsRacheeel 5 ай бұрын
He did a good job of really f*cking up my day! 😂😂
@ToriSade
@ToriSade 5 ай бұрын
Gurl my head is hurting listening to him , and I’m genuinely trying to understand his point 😣
@janda6822
@janda6822 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@jessicarose187
@jessicarose187 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Veryvery987
@Veryvery987 5 ай бұрын
This man wanted his hair braided that evening…
@Goddessofloveeee
@Goddessofloveeee 5 ай бұрын
Yeah…. He don’t want her. He could just tell her that though smh
@kiaracaraballo8935
@kiaracaraballo8935 2 ай бұрын
The minute they showed their faces “ohh yeaaaaaaaaaa”
@naitgebre8908
@naitgebre8908 5 ай бұрын
A guy who likes you doesn't want to be YOUR FRIEND LMAOOOOO, he shook his head @23:22 when arlette said that
@jideo.4832
@jideo.4832 5 ай бұрын
Let's shut it with this BS. Are you a guy??
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
I was for SURE looking for this time stamp! Thanks!!
@naitgebre8908
@naitgebre8908 5 ай бұрын
@@ShayLamere girl I got that bc he shook it real quick
@ShayLamere
@ShayLamere 5 ай бұрын
@@naitgebre8908 Definitely didn’t peep until I read the comments lol
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