How to talk about what other people want or feel -たがる -たがっている

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Today I will teach how to talk about
１. what OTHERS want to do.
２. what OTHERS feel
If you have been studying Japanese for a while,
You might have heard of
たがっています(Tagatteimasu) /
ほしがっています(Hoshigatteimasu)
And you might have learned you can't use "たい" to talk about what others want to do.
So today I will explain A FEW EXPRESSIONS you can use to talk about what people want to do and feel.

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I'd like to learn more N2 and N1 Grammar. Your explanation and examples are really easy to understand and remember.

[@okhaiakhazemea369]

I know. I am JLPT N2 - high level. And Miku does not even write any KANJI 漢字 in her videos. It's quite annoying.

[@sovietnyc9125]

Okhai Akhazemea what are you talking about, there’s kanji in this video

[@okhaiakhazemea369]

​@@sovietnyc9125 漢字はどこ？いつもいつもみく先生は、ひらがなとカタカナばかりを使ってわれらの外国人に日本語を説明する。まったく！ふざけるな！　😡

[@sovietnyc9125]

Okhai Akhazemea i must be hallucinating kanji with furigana at the bottom then

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​@@sovietnyc9125 You dont even know do you.... so WHERE is it? What does 'at the bottom' mean. ARGH!! Why dont people give CLEAR DISTINCTIVE explanations? あなたの説明は不明確で、意味がない。私とちゃんと明確に説明しろ！ ＝＝＝ You cant even write a timeline number... no reference, NOTHING!! 😡😡😡

[@jarkurangajar]

"She seems happy, but maybe she's depressed inside." Miku, you're describing me so well. 👍

[@dargardargar]

Strange I never noticed these patterns before, even after living many years in Japan. I will need to study this seriously. Thank you again for the wonderful instruction.

[@okhaiakhazemea369]

You can start by learning DIFFICULT 漢字 Kanji. 😏

[@kanzenda4580]

Me too. I think Japanese don't say much what people want because it's not in the Japanese culture to say something that strong. I guess they will say ミクの誕生日って、プレゼントはいいかな and not that much ミクの誕生日って、プレゼントが欲しがってる The second sounds like Miku requested it. So it's super strong, and sounds like a kid's request something. Even, if someone said they want, they will probably say プレゼントが欲しいと思う

[@francescadallelucche5432]

Wow I love the new display! English, Japanese with kanji and furigana! Awesome! Thanks a lot sensei!

[@cresdankai]

This video is super easy to understand and I managed to learn a lot from it! この動画は分かりやすくて本当に勉強になった！ (Please do correct me if I'm wrong haha)

[@cintancatherder3098]

I felt so selfish just talking about what I wanted when I was in Japan. My class covered this topic but it went by so fast and there weren’t enough examples. This is so great!

[@DANGJOS]

So 嬉しい is similar to "happy" and 幸せ is similar to "joy"

[@pauljamesburgin9966]

That's so useful .... Lots of useful structures. Thank you ...

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This video is amazing...心から　どもありがとうございました

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You’re so cool and great at explaining things!! Thank you Miku!

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ミク先生は日本語を勉強するためにいい先生です

[@obi54086]

Thank you

[@stephenstuart9881]

Great summary - after a lot of time and effort studying Japanese I wasn't aware of much of this - really good and helpful

[@Qwink27]

Thanks for another great explanation video! I really like your hairstyle in this video. ♡

[@SonnyDarvishzadeh]

Thank you for the lesson. Regarding the subtitles, I kept matching the red colours but then I realised they are not related at all. I think it's definitely nice to separate certain parts with colours, but maybe also separating their context would be even better. Like furigana characters are red, so is the word "said".

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本当に役に立つです。ありがとうございますみく先生

[@lucassg2810]

Thank you miku!!! わかりやすいんで素晴らしいのビデオです。

[@gs9843]

新しい話方を習った。ありがとうございます。

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Very helpful!!! Arigatou gozaimashita Miku Sensei!

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[@gunillak6413]

Thank you for the great video, Miku. At school we‘ve also learned the combination of an adjective and がる like かとうさんがいつも暑がる or お母さん、まさおが痛がってる．If I didn’t miss it, this combination is not mentioned in the video. So I would like to ask whether it’s maybe not really used in „real“ Japanese?

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[@reinerwilhelms-tricarico344]

Wow! 今回、たくさん微妙な事を習ったと思います。ありがと! すでに，ファンになった。 Dear Miku, I wish you could use a different font for the texts that you display during the lessons, so that the details of the Kanji characters are easier to identify. For me as beginner there are many unknown Kanji, and so it would be helpful to really see more details - to memorize them more precisely and for writing them down. For people who can already really read Japanese the font doesn't seem to matter very much, even if many complicated kanji look just like a blob. But that is not so for me as a beginner. Thanks a lot. (BTW, I looked up that big word I tried to use above - subtleties, and found: 微妙, びみょう, na-adjective)

[@vordenweinbergen3265]

You can express „to seem“ with a verb with みたい, right? For example: 満足しているみたい。He or she seems to be content.

[@takatsu5]

I tried bringing up がる with my first host mom and she looked at me like I was nuts. I'd been living in Japan two weeks, and we studied this exact thing in class. Needless to say I got a second host family second semester.

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Thank you for this video! Great study material!

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みく先生やっとビデオに「漢字」を使う。よかった！😁

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very helpful realy, thanks

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Arigatoo gozaimasu... sensei

[@SkyeAten]

Great video! Though it would be nice if you didn't make examples of how not to say something... Because inevitably those get stuck in my head to. 😰😂

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[@Jrockarcher]

I am dumber than mud and I still learned a little something here, great lesson!

[@nanamitakuminonaka2075]

How do you Apply the same rule for dont want to?

[@SkyeAten]

Skip intro to lesson: 2:07

[@sheetaladagale9253]

Which samurai class I should if I want to learn N3

[@gethbond]

This subject is weird. It sort of seems to "respect" the others' feelings in a way, but then when it comes to verbs it doesn't anymore. It's strange to be able to talk about other people's feelings using verbs but not adjectives. Why, japanese people, why? LOL Thank you for the vid.

[@kevinlachica7466]

Please teach us how to use keigo verbs and nouns 😁 i hope you will notice me 😁 i need to master it

[@blakestone6644]

6:40 みくもパーティーにさんかすると言っていた。 Is that also correct? Thanks Mikuさん

[@mikurealjapanese]

Perfect!

[@sigitsubiantoro4505]

正しい

[@Laugh_Learn]

Hi，Miku-sensei Is 可愛がる the same conjugation ？

[@theophonchana5025]

-がる suffix

[@phillipwilson8973]

Miku-san I need some advice. I truly hate to bother you, but you make incredible videos, and you are one of the most honest Japanese KZbinrs I can think of! Also you understand what is like to be a Japanese KZbinr. There is a KZbinr named ミ-ミちゃんねる. Mimi-chan's videos are for children and she currently has 150,000+ subs. I am very worried that because of KZbin's new policies, all of Mimi-chan's and Mimi's mother's hard work is going to be destroyed. My question is, how do video makers find sponsors in Japan? Are Japanese KZbinrs concerned about the changes happening, and if so what steps are they taking to protect their channels? Sorry for the long post, but I truly love ミミちゃん family and she has worked super hard on her dream! My own family members are big fans and I feel like I have to help. Thank you Miku-san, Both for all of your wonderful work on this channel, and any feedback that you may have!

[@melodylagarde652]

Sensei!! I have a question :) We were told by our teachers that when you use ほしい - the particle should be が。is it okay to use を? 4:03

[@daniela1003]

I think that it's kinda late to answer to your question but anyway :) ほしい is an adjective not a verb❌ With adjectives like 上手な、好きな、下手な、嫌いな and so on you have to use が particle, not を！ And also in some situations you can use は particle to show contrast And when you want to say that someone wants something(so this grammar construction that she was explaining) you need to use を particle(smbd は smth を 欲しがる/ほしがっている Hope my explanation helped😊

[@melodylagarde652]

@@daniela1003 Naruhodo! Thank you so much for answering my question :) Happy new year btw :)

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@@melodylagarde652 Happy new year✨

[@Brinkie3]

いつも役に立つな動画作ってありがとう　＾＿＾ Can you also combine the そう　with words with すぎ ending？

[@mikurealjapanese]

For example? Can you tell me what you want to say in Japanese?:)

[@Brinkie3]

Miku Real Japanese In Harry Potter there is this scène where McGonagall asks Harry to take Ron with him because he looks “Too happy”

[@chensophie9347]

@@mikurealjapanese 嬉しすぎそうた？嬉しすぎた？

[@matgreen4789]

I can’t say that I’ve heard the use of そう　and すぎ together much. I think you would just say すごく嬉しそう

[@Brinkie3]

Mat Green なるほど　thanks :)

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sensei Miku ichiban sensei ii

[@maouuw]

レッスン、どうもありがとう(_ _)

[@ユールイーザ]

すみません、ちっと質問ありますが、XXは怒っている。ところが、 '' XXは怒りそう”大丈夫ですか。教えしてもらいませんか。

[@shubhamsingh7405]

Is it okay to use tte itteita even if the person being referred actually said nothing?

[@NyuAkiyama]

But but... If (for example) my boyfriend says "すしを食べたいな~" Can I say "あ!~すしを食べたい?" Or do I have to say "あ!ー~すしを食べたがってる?" And other example: If he says to me "朝ご飯を作ってほしいよ" Can I say "朝ごはんを作ってほしい???" Or do I have to say: "朝ごはんを作って欲しがってる?" I think I am confused now... 😕 Help 🥺 ~~~

[@torobravo1605]

Vた　と　Vていたの間違いの説明をお願いします。

[@tomasforastieri9194]

Why is it 「日本に 行きたいです 」and not 「日本へ 行きたいです」？

[@pam7374]

みくさんどの国から来ましたか。

[@nandinitambolkar5062]

is it 日本 に行きたい, or 日本 へ行きたい

[@matgreen4789]

Both are ok 👍 I think へ is more formal though.

[@nandinitambolkar5062]

ミク先生 説明 してくれませんか。

[@irisviel_Einzbern]

i have a question I want a phone is けいたいがほしい here が particle is used with hoshii but when talking about my sis want a phone, を particle is used,with hoshii in video , おねちゃんはけいたいをほしがってる、why is that ?can i use が particle with both?

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George is one of the best and he would be one of the absolute best if he’s stop dicking around. He was what got me started on Japanese but once you reach a certain level you can no longer rely on his lessons, unfortunately.

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That was one spot on prediction!!

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@@kamicham5142 そうですね？

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@@georgeleorgebeorge2354 George has a lot going on. He’s writing JFZ book 5, kanji from zero book 2, Korean from zero 4, and Chinese from zero 1, on top of doing KZbin videos. Miku & misa don’t write best selling book series’, so of course they have much more time to make videos.

[@selvamurrali6157]

Mikuさんは今どこにいらっしゃっていますか？ところで良いvideoですね

[@SuperYoda7]

Why is it 「お姉ちゃんは新しい携帯を欲しがってる。」here using を but 「私は新しい携帯が欲しい。」using が？

[@frencinguyen183]

「欲しがる」is the verb form of 「欲しい」. Because「欲しがる」 is a verb (and, more specifically, a transitive verb), the particle used with it is 「を」. I hope this helps! ^-^

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すごいよ~

[@grapeshott]

Summary: Not sumitai, but Sumitagatteiru or sumitai to/tte(casually) itteimashita or sumitai rashii

[@gabrielmillien7439]

Thank you for this video I appreciate it very much.

[@sharoona]

Thank you so much. super helpful.

[@tajraji]

Very good

[@rkkoul]

Love this video, and all other videos from you. Amazing teacher. Before watching this video, I didn't realize/know that I can't use -tai form to express what others want. So, thank you!!! As a quick feedback though, I may suggest, it would be useful to introduce garu as a verb before using　がっている。

[@filu_desu]

A couple of videos ago I hear "Miku eats five cakes".... In this video I hear "Miku wants to loose weight"..... 😂The continuity in your videos, not just in the amazing skits, but also in the meta, is amazing! 🤣 I just want to say that I watch a few good Japanese teachers here on YT, and there can often be an imbalance between English and Japanese.. You get that balance absolutely perfect! There's enough English for me to understand the lesson, and also appreciate your humour! However, you also provide so many opportunities for listening practice, sentence and grammar practice... Miku-sensei, thank you so much! Your videos are wonderful, and for me I think the most effective of all. I know this is an old video.. I am up to date with your life updates, but still early on my Japanese learning! Be well Miku 🙏

[@astakarolina]

Hi Miku, I love your videos, you do a great work. I have a question though: In the beginning you say, that you use らしい、and そう, because you can never be sure if the person you talk about is buying a house (verb +らしい) or is happy (adjective + そう). But in case of a negative feeling you can? Why can’t you say 怒りらしい？Love from Belgium

[@waylonybm1800]

S. Magnus the correct grammar to say will be 怒るらしい if you have to. But 怒っているらしい is closer because 怒る means about to get angry, but still it is weird for らしい has “I heard...” or “I believe...” meaning. Actually 怒っているみたい(よう)だ (みたいorよう has “look like” meaning, you can tell if the person is angry using your eyes) can be correct. 怒りそう is OK to say, but it will also mean looking like the person is about to get angry. So how about...怒っていそう? I don’t know about that. As you ask Muku 怒っている (which has equal certainty to うれしい as I understand) sounds like you’re hundred percent sure the person is angry and I’m also confused here.

[@waylonybm1800]

It’s interesting what you say, but in Japanese there is no grammar rules affected by if it’s negative or positive as I know.

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i just found your channel and it is amazing. I started learning japanese this week and i managed to memorize all the hiragana. Now i start to memorize some kanji and hopefully i can start to say some sentences in a few months :D

[@hamzacherki6708]

thank you for the lesson, looking forward to more N3 Grammar.

[@PixelSubstream]

The trick is to take the object or action of desire. Attach たい like normal then attach がる. Turn it into progressive te form (がって) +(いる) ケーキがほしいです。 I want cake. Third person: 「ほしい+がる+いる」 ケーキがほしがっています。 She wants cake 飲みたい I want to drink. Third person: 「飲み+たい+がる+いる」 飲みたがっている They want to drink

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Thank you for this video. Your way of teaching is good and easy to understand.

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[@dani.miyuki]

Sensei, if i wanna use 'To Want' in a question? When i can use IRU/HOSHI?

[@YagamiTrala]

You can freely use たい/ほしい in a question. But be careful as it sometimes sounds unnatural. For example when you are going out with a friend and you want to ask "What do you wanna do?" it could sound werid if you said 「何したい？」「どこに行きたい？」etc. It's more natural to ask 「なにする？」「どこに行く」etc. But lets say you went shopping with a friend and you want to ask "Do you want to buy anything/something?" you can freely say 「何か買いたいものある？」「なにかほしいものある？」. Basically because it's a question you're not assuming somebody wants to do something so it's okay to use 「~たい」、「ほしい」, but be careful with it!

[@leslieko888]

A bit confusing Miku-chan. After going to great extents to explain that Japanese cannot put themselves in the place of others so cannot say X は，嬉しいです but must use one of your three options such as Xは，嬉しそうですyou then go on to say when it’s a verb you simply say, for example, Xは，怒っている. What happened to not being able to put yourself in the place of X? Another thing you didn’t explain is why it’s と言っているin past tense and not と言った. Finally, why didn’t you teach みたいです?

[@jaokrehkuma]

Thanks for kind video I’d like to ask you that What is the difference between 〜と言った 〜と言っていた Thanks for your elaborating in advance .

[@XxIgnirFirexX]

「みくもパーティーに来たいらしい」の例文には 「みくもパーティーに来たい」がありますね… 悪いのに、どうして「らしい」があるだけでその分が存在できますか？ 「って言う」のれいに、何か誰かが 「あ~、私もパーティーに来たい」と言うから正しくなるとわかりました でも「らしい」に話している人変わりませんからどうして正しいですか？

[@Dahnvincente13]

ミク先生、このビデオはめっちゃ手伝だと思います！（正しかったですか？笑） ミク先生のビデオを見てが好きです。 手伝だてくれってどうもありがとうございます！！！＾＿＾）ｂ

[@ronquindoza251]

May I know why miku sensei used particle を in 欲しがる instead of が 欲しがる. May someone explain the usage of particles in this pattern. Please.

[@owlyjr]

Miku - great video. Thank you very much! I don't know if you read comments on old videos but I have a question. Could I instead say お姉さんはヨーロッパに行きたいんだって？

[@linaaouadi5001]

what about when you want to ask a person if they want some thing? Is it okay to say " 映画をみに行きたい？" or should we use one of the expressions in this video? ( not for an invitation, but just to know whether they do like going that or not)

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I like your teaching tecnics, I speak native spanish but english as well..wish you luck! Love you.

[@tarunasharma2949]

Miku Sensei, thank you for this useful video, it really helped me a lot!!! ❤️👏🏻

[@Sakura-ok3ep]

ともだちは4時ならおしてあげるといっていた ともだちは4時ならおしてあげたがっていた Please check this out I’m confused

[@henrimedot]

To say "my friend looked surprised", can't you say 友達は驚いてるみたいだった。or 友達は驚いてるように見えた。?

[@iansteels9195]

Very helpful may need to watch a few times until I get it. すごく役に立つ、けど文法について何回観ても理解できないかも。

[@paulmichaelantonio2706]

Your video is really helpfull. I hope you can uplod more vid.. can you do tame ni and you ni vid. Thank you sensei miku more power.