How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

[@iniobongeyo-abidua6557]

Nice teaching. Have noticed one thing about who God always want us to marry. Our partner is not always our spec but God's purpose

[@Amacee7000]

Really

[@olayemisegun9388]

That's very true

[@imaobongiwatt]

You are truly right

[@Official_Bernice]

You're correct

[@rosagilbert957]

God I'm tired of having a back and forth relationship. I decree and declare stability. I shall be married, from Ms to Mrs, from single to married in Jesus name 🙌🙏.

[@n.judith4211]

Amen 🙏

[@rachealikumoinein8068]

Amen 🙏

[@SharomBirungi]

Amen 🙏 🙏

[@okerecatherine-laboure.ezi6236]

Amen n amen ijn🔥🔥🔥🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@preciousbrown5981]

It is not about who you marry, it is about what God wants to do with your destiny. Lord, bypass my emotions, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage!

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

Amen

[@Timeless_Tee]

Amen

[@TheMayorEsq]

Amen

[@goodnesssamuel53]

Lord by pass my emotion, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage Romans 12:1

[@Harmonyndu]

Amen🙏

[@favie_1018]

Marriage doesn't change anybody. It only amplifies what is only in existence.

[@arlonmougani]

yes you right❤

[@jennybubu-gy7od]

I was emotionally down I just lost 4yrs relationship due to some certain reasons I was thinking I m finished but when I listened to this preaching I knew I made the right decision thanks a lot mam

[@paulzerina]

The Quality of people in Marriage determines the Outcome of the marriage.❤

[@sandrataaka6624]

Oh my God, this is the same word God gave me in my 3 days dry fasting, for my previous relationship 2months back😳 John 4:16 onwards I just froze where I was kneeling. God is powerful

[@jubileedaniel5460]

Something I'd like to add to this video is that before getting married, prepare more for the life you will live after the wedding day, and not prepare for the wedding day only. Learn how to cook properly, do proper cleanup, pray ps 139:23-24 which says; "Search me oh God and know my heart, try me and know my anxious thoughts and see if there be any wicked way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. When you do this, you'll find out a lot of things about yourself that you didn't even know you had. God help us.

[@PrettyMoriba]

I love reading this verse so much when ever am lost

[@jubileedaniel5460]

@@PrettyMoriba yeah, I love it too. David was a man after God's heart and he regularly prayed this prayer. I got to find out a lot of things about myself that I didn't know were in me and got deliverance from them. I also know a lot of people who did same and are now peaceful. I you would, I have godly contents I could share with you, just check my bio.

[@IbrahimBuliaminu]

Am a muslim,but I like ur preaching

[@nansumbadeborah8378]

Please accept Jesus as your personal savior

[@genevievegaskin3751]

Jesus is the only way truth and light❤

[@jesusintech]

Jesus loves you so much

[@Itsallbanterbaby]

I’m watching this at the perfect time. Thank you Pastor Mildred, this has solidified the decision i just made. I was calling on God this morning because my emotions were trying to overwhelm me but as I was doing morning prayer this morning your message was the next recommendation and I thank God that I watched it.

[@luciennevifemseh6156]

Pastor Mildred is very Beautiful❤❤. I love this woman of God

[@kachetphilip6177]

I tell you. Anytime I watch her I just can't get enough of her beauty plus brains.. Plus her way of passing the messages!! Gosh!! She's invested in God totally.

[@marypolycarp7736]

Pastor u speak the truth ,let God bless you and continue opening ladies mind who force marrige without knowing the benefit of it to their life.and it is not sin to change the direction where u notes ur in a wrong way.

[@angieflama828]

Dear God, I'm tired of heartbreaks n falling for the wrong person. This 2024 pls give me a good man. Amen

[@didymma]

Amen

[@YengyM]

Amen

[@JjCathy]

Dear good lord, enough is enough. May this year be mine for real marriage

[@peacempamugo4697]

Amen

[@gracenyambok7604]

Amen. My prayer too

[@LivinwithEmma]

This is so aspiring! I almost married the wrong man due to my desperation and emotion. But God was so against it that every fiber started fighting against me. I eventually let go after prayers and fasting . It was not easy breathren.

[@jennywinny4066]

But it's worth it. Praise God!!

[@BlessingHafa]

I can relate dear

[@ihemekwelamdeborah7518]

When you say every fibre what do you mean by that pls ?

[@yahnaza6619]

“Bypass my emotions and do what is best for me!” Very difficult but important prayer 🙏.

[@brendadickson9583]

Wow this is confirmation for me I have a man who I prayed for n I know he is from God for me but I nearly left him cause of looking at him outwardly, he is a good man n I thank God for him now

[@ojegbebesidone194]

@@brendadickson9583 yyy

[@brendadickson9583]

@@ojegbebesidone194 why what please?

[@brendadickson9583]

@@ojegbebesidone194 by the way the man left so he obviously was not from God, but am glad he left than wasted my time.

[@izzyazubuike8455]

Respect is more important than love in marriage…..if you don’t respect your spouse it is difficult to have a true love for him/her…….real talk!

[@basilikitchen]

After listening to this, I definitely know I've not met the man God wants for me yet! Thank you Pastor Mildred 🙏

[@okedijioluwatosin6895]

Exactly how I felt while watching... had to just share her the link to watch and let's conclude how our breakup will be 😅

[@basilikitchen]

@@okedijioluwatosin6895 lmao 🤣 😂 I was not even in any relationship but I had guys asking me out. After watching this video my discernment was clearer 🤣 its a no go area! God no go shame us🤣🤣🤣

[@okedijioluwatosin6895]

Lol... @ChefinTech may God see us through that stage

[@basilikitchen]

@@okedijioluwatosin6895 Amen 🙏

[@izyomijeh1805]

@@basilikitchen Exactly. This message just cancelled out some guy that are on my case 🤣

[@PIPI-LOVE]

Heavenly father help me make my relationship and marriage a place of worship and where you will have your free will and move

[@ieshasims8843]

LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHATS BEST FOR MY PURPOSE AND DESTINY IN YOU!!🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️ In Jesus Name!!

[@taytayl3866]

Wow.wow.wow.wow.wow Probably one of the BEST sermons I've ever heard on marriage - and I've spent yrsssssssss listening to marriage sermons lol. Never heard of this lady before but she randomly popped up on my timeline. What you said about "if God can tell me who not to marry God can confirm who to marry" hit meeeeeeeeee. Because God recently told me no on my last relationship. I'm believing He will confirm the Yes when that time comes (hopefully soon 🙏🏾). I am trusting him. All three points in yhis video were 👌🏾 I have just turned 34 and this message has come to me EXACTLY when I needed it. Wow. God's timing is perfect. Bless you and thank you, pastor lady xx

[@tobilobaelemo4695]

Hi,my name is Grace..would love to be your friend I'll await your response

[@neellyzabee]

Hi hi

[@Bennydexta]

Make sure that it is worship to God. Make sure that it is working. Make sure that it is worth it.

[@shannygrace3211]

LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME 🙏🙏🙏

[@oats4454]

That's a dangerous prayer, i hope you mean it 😂

[@horlicks3920]

​@@oats4454hush

[@SoaringEagle657]

It's also an excellent prayer reflecting total surrender to God's will for one's life. God is all knowing and has infinite wisdom to detect who is best for each one of us.

[@melisizwengcobo1170]

Thank you Pastor. I can attest to everything you just said. If your partner cannot be part of your destiny, there's no need to marry them.

[@Disza113]

Oh Heavenly Father please bypass my emotions and do your will to make me know he comes from you.

[@mariagorettistella196]

Wow!! I feel like liking this video over and over again. God is so intentional about us. We were born for a purpose and God knows that we carry great destinies so He makes sure to give us that man that will bring that purpose and compel us to fulfil destiny. God deals with us in so many ways till we surrender to Him totally and listen. I have come to observe that God never jokes with us especially if our destinies concern saving lives.

[@atakoraconstantine3163]

GOD SHOW MERCY UNTO US

[@mercyjeptoo2377]

True

[@Thellytv]

Amen

[@rosecommey9028]

Amen. Lord your will be done.....🙏

[@charlesettazikeh6724]

Definitely!!!

[@Officialabbiee]

This is literally my experience concerning my last relationship, I was honestly hoping and praying that somehow we would work out and I just prayed to God in that moment of uncertainty, the Lord ministered to me with this exact scripture, and it hit me hard. I still didn’t believe because the heart wanted something, but on hearing this. It’s just a confirmation on what God said to me that indeed, that guy is not for me (husband)

[@oscarekponimo6745]

can relate

[@funnymaseya1142]

I'm officially making you my mentor, pastor Mildred Kingsley

[@charlotteoppong3350]

It’s not even really about who you marry it’s about what I want to do with your destiny. Wow, very deep 😢 I thank God I chanced on this message 🙏🏻

[@estherkamara4180]

Watching you from the USA 🇺🇸 Your teaching has change my perception about marriage. Thank you.

[@christatthecentercac8228]

Hi ! Ester ... praise the Lord.... I'm Elijah and I'm in of your help from there...if possible we can exchange the contact. Thank you!

[@adiliuliangmai2794]

Great dear friend

[@francisetiko3262]

Me too....Nice to meet you Amara!!!

[@Peace_Eliana]

When I first watch this video I see myself in you .indeed wen God want to speak to u he pass tro his word.. this is where I see myself in u God bless you Ma.

[@senaagbattor3913]

Order our steps Lord, to make the right choices and never live in regrets 🙏🏻

[@onoriodebank6973]

Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen 🙏

[@Wandesings]

Amen 🙏

[@Emah-bc6bu]

Amen

[@MusaAbuba-wu1tj]

#drcosmanspellcaster are,,🥰🥰🥰 you heart broken and you still want to fix your relationship ✓

[@MusaAbuba-wu1tj]

:🥰🥰🥰I read your name and felt a Stronenergy around you and thought you wanted a general life reading to know more about your life .....

[@catherinesani8989]

Thank God for the gift of singlehood. Dear Lord, help me to utilize this time properly and when the time is right , help me to meet the one after your own heart .

[@giftmuswema8111]

If you want a kingdom marriage ,you have to do with kingdom principles

[@LisaKunene]

which are those principles please share

[@favouronyeisi7100]

​@@LisaKunenego to your bible for easy access and ask the holy spirit for guidance too

[@chizzyanyanwu8756]

Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me, this word healed my heart. Thank you Jesus for this word

[@GracieGee]

"When you say I do, you gonna do". God bless you Pastor M.

[@johnpaulina8473]

This message is more than i can imagine,, honestly speaking she's really right,my experience 3months ago i have to let go cuz it's wasn't working,so many signs coming after i prayed about it,, infact the guy believe in God more than i am buh God still show me he was never for me, with a clear vision,God is good,#prayers is just D key to see brighter things 💯✅🙏

[@giftmuswema8111]

Its the quality of people in marriage that determines the outcome

[@wana4592]

Wow worth listening to,,,, Lord lead me to the right path of my destiny,may my emotions not lead me to a path that can not make me better...

[@newbeginningsn.u.t.p.o.G]

That's right. If you marry wrong it can change your whole destiny

[@exclusiveserenehotel9033]

This video is EVERGREEN and TIMELESS. God bless you pastor Mildred.

[@happinessmomoh6462]

Kindness is important..Meanness doesn't make you more of a man.

[@smileyoumatterpodcast]

Wow😮👐, to see if your relationship qualifies for marriage, make sure it is: 1. Bringing God worship 2.Working 3.Worth it

[@freshangel1]

“If you are in a relationship and you are worse than when you were alone you can’t take it to marriage” (it must make you better because two are better than one)

[@joyceasante6391]

Hmmm you're speaking to me directly ooo I was doing perfectly fine, when I met this guy since then, everything has gone wrong I am down hmmm

[@freshangel1]

@@joyceasante6391 May God reveal the path you should take next and protect you from all harm

[@amossundaysunday]

@@joyceasante6391 well I can give a suggestion that has helped many along their way.. One thing having a strong relationship with the holy spirit does is that it can allow him to tell you things to come. So I would suggest you don't just quit marriage altogether. Some mistakes are the path to life. In it God will have something to teach you in life that will give your life more meaning than if your life was just comfy. God's way is that he can bring out of the bitter something sweet and out of nothing produce a bounty it's the God you serve. Get down and find out why he brought you along this path... Vessels are the usually finer when broken and then Mended again.

[@evelynemwinuka671]

Very true 🙏🏽🙌🏼

[@bossd8026]

@@joyceasante6391 I hope you have listened to the message. Your answer is also in this video, the plain truth.

[@neomososo]

Today was my 1st day listening and watching Her videos ...i wasn't actually coming to youtube for them but holy spirit made me sit the whole day in her videos .....i hv been asking myslf alot about relationships in my singleness ....m Blessed ❤

[@EstherAivinhenyi]

Lesson learnt " It takes two good eggs 🥚 🥚 to make a good omelette." Thanks Woman of God.🙂🙂

[@oputavivian6614]

I’m grateful I stumbled on this! I’m at the verge of getting married April 6th but I’m canceling

[@chinoj5066]

Oh dear. God's Strength and Grace. Pls try and update us afterwards ❤

[@BlessingHafa]

🤦🤦🤦🤦 Oooooh Noooo

[@magomalilian]

Heey how are you keeping?😢

[@hopebirungi994]

I love such women of God, so inspiring "WORTH HEARING"

[@kateonakpoma3391]

Wow! Powerful message. Marriage should make you better than what you were before marriage

[@elizabethoyeniya8827]

God bless you pastor, every mistake i made before my marriage i pray God to order the steps of my children.

[@blessingsimon576]

Tonight. God has given me this woman as a gift. And I will cherish you forever mama Mildred okonkwo

[@estherkamara4180]

Lord bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me in Jesus name Amen 🙏.

[@nyakioannie5831]

Amen

[@GraceForlu]

My God. Amen

[@orokepatricia2931]

Amen

[@sundaymiachi2433]

Amen

[@adoborfaith8096]

Amen

[@mayowaadetunji8172]

My Father, My God, bypass my emotion and give me the best. Let your will be done in all areas of my life🙏

[@peacealibo9263]

Thank God for this message, the Lord spoke to me this year that I organise my self for marriage but I was in cross roads. But from today I know what to do in Jesus name. God bless you so much

[@elizabethghumpi7304]

Am grateful just found this early this year as I could cut off and wait for the Will of God

[@being_nafe.8215]

This just appeared randomly to me, glad I clicked it. Thank you Lord for the affirmation 🙏

[@cynthiaantonio1863]

Same here and my story n here's have hot some similarities

[@ibrahimajaiteh-wl9zo]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Amen in the mighty Name of Jesus I am also single man

[@proviaaudrey5273]

Your my role model ma'am, i tap on your anointing cup,may God use me and be of purpose in my generation. I love u n papa your a blessing to so many teens. May God bless you

[@ibizmediatechnology]

Everyone wants someone good; I wonder how many wants to be good for the good. Even the bad wants the good, May God have mercy and make me the good for the goodone. Am so encouraged with your teaching

[@KiRetteCouture]

Superb talk! This shakes traditional tables and I like it! Thank God for this new generation of pastors who explain biblical principles well.

[@celestineasumah4511]

Oh yes! We are blessed

[@kachetphilip6177]

Honestly!!

[@JesusMyIshi]

Amen!!!!

[@akingbaderutholuwafunmilayo]

There is no new or old generation of pastors🤌 Our God is The God of yesterday,today and forever

[@KiRetteCouture]

@@akingbaderutholuwafunmilayo that's a matter of opinion. I didn't mention God as being of different generations.

[@KaluPrecious-hr1oi]

Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me Amen 🙏

[@maggiemueni9516]

Dear Lord, bypass my emotions and give me what is best for me

[@peaceojang822]

Lord by pass my emotions and do what's best for me.. This has opened my eyes🙌God bless you Ma

[@MmasomNdefo]

Beautiful Prayer " Daddy bypass my emotions and do what's best for me"

[@effect9180]

God communicates and shows us all signs of a wrong partner

[@Lyunea]

Pastor Mildred is on point & a comedian 😂 if you want your clothes washed get a washing machine. Got the points: 1. Worship 2. Working 3. Worth It

[@chinenyelizzy8346]

Heavenly Father bypasses my emotions and does what's best for me. I pray in Jesus' name, amen

[@wambuikaranja2701]

I watched this video a while ago and today I came back because I needed to hear you say this again for reference am at a point where I need to make a decision and yiu don't know how this is helpful. Lord bypass my emotions and let your will be done🙏🏾

[@AngelTUME-po2dg]

God really pulled me over to this message. i needed this so desperately. thank you Jesus for your message. it waa loud and clear. Thank you Pastor

[@tochiejike8160]

First tme of listening to her and I am loss for words, the simplicity and the wisdom that can come from only God.

[@mfonabraham9177]

Me too

[@graceannan6726]

Lord bypass my emotions and do what is the best for me in Jesus mighty name Mega Amen 🙏🏼

[@oyungrwothsharon8029]

Woman of God your message was really really great, I mean, I wish I had heard such a message before I made the decision I made back then. I'm in a broken marriage now, because I didn't get such a powerful advice 🤦🤦But God's name be praised, because he allowed me watch this particular sermon...may God use you even more.

[@patiencejohnson5878]

God has something i will benefit from dis message dis morning, i dreamt about my sister teaching about marriage, log into KZbin d first video i see is dis teaching, what a coincidence. Thanks ma

[@kunihiraesther6022]

This message is so beautiful,informative,eye opening, evaluating for us singles. God bless

[@davinaowusukonadu9526]

When she started mimicking the couple's vows I knew in my spirit that she was a true book lover😂😂😂.

[@queenokito8945]

😂 Same here

[@deborahnenwa6938]

Exactly what I needed..... been confused about the man am currently dating now, it's obvious that it wasn't meant to be. As hurting as it is, it's the truth.

[@lovedvdsony]

Gather courage and wake away

[@vevinebrown4379]

Am confused myself as am planning my marriage, am scared of something happening now. I wish I could hear the spirit speak to me like it does pastor

[@lovedvdsony]

@@vevinebrown4379 let talk about it in ldeal girl Africa

[@amadinvalerie1171]

God I need you in every areas of my life..my relationship,my finances,my career and everything please Lord bypass my emotions and let your will be done

[@lizzyfresh07]

The three Ws; Worship, Working, Worth it!

[@ricwell209]

She's definitely been listening to Dr Myles Munroe's teaching on marriage 💑. Awesome teaching 👏🏿

[@mankaabright7474]

Oh noooo. She has received revelations from God directly.

[@emmyscakesnconfectionery]

The omelette part

[@horlicks3920]

​@@mankaabright7474Hush. That's Myles Munroe.

[@horlicks3920]

Words from Myles Munroe

[@gavinmanamela5718]

😹😹😹😹😹 Stop playing. Listen to Dr Myles' sermons dating back 2008, you'll understand she's been nibbling wisdom from the legend. She also read Dating and Waiting written by Myles.

[@gloriandagire5659]

Waaawooo It's been a pleasure learning from this sermon. It's given me the Discernment I needed. Thank you very much

[@yolandakelly8285]

Wow, It's been a joy and pleasure for me as well. I have never heard marriage spoken in this way before and yes it has opened my eyes of understanding in such a way that It's never been open before concerning how a marriage should be. Thank you Lord for this message on marriage and Thank you Woman of God for allowing God to use you as a support to your king in a public service. 🙏🏽💖🎶

[@patiencemambokos6170]

I've dating a guy for 2 years and he asked to marry me and I asked for one year to get ready for myself and to finish my college year etc…but at the end, he just moved and is about to engage to another girl one thing I'm confused about he was a nice guy and I was in love with him but I did know why God removed him from me. I'm hurt right now but one thing I hope is that God will give a better one ❤ Thanks a lot for this video I just Learned a lot from it 🙏

[@missionfortheyouthinterhos7987]

when a person moves away from you is not meant for you trust God your right person wont move a away

[@janevanessakalu3684]

Was never yours...Time tests relationships,God can use time to open your eyes so you can see what is yours or not..Time reveals the gold or straw in a relationship..Either in dating or marriage..if he was for you he will have a desire to wait extra years if thats what it will take.. Even when jacob was decieved to marry leah he still desired to wsit 7years for Rachel....you got it

[@ceciliahelpinghandlimpopo1037]

GOD'S plans is always the best ... remember my Queen 🎉🎉🎉❤❤

[@BlebleYoo]

Hi

[@RICHBECKS_naturals]

I personally don't know what u needed extra 1 yr for in wrapping up? u enter a relationship when u r ready to get married or? Why will u even start without agreeing on when u both want to marry? To me the guy made the right decision perhaps u insisted on the 1yr while he perhaps wish he was already married. So my sisters here who r always making that mistake u better advice urself before u loose that precious God-sent man. I'm sure the guy was financially stable enough n isn't asking u to quit sch n marry so why won't you. I guess ur decision was wrong

[@bigmama5434]

I am in a relationship with a guy he respect me so much that's why I love him .

[@Stacygirlgmail.comDivine]

Lord bypass my emotions and do wat is best for me..this is one important prayer I pray almost every day....I just can't afford to get it wrong in marriage..

[@pehtrahh]

Abba, please bypass my emotions and plans and do what's best for me.

[@okyereishmael7423]

It's good hearing someone talk about God's involvement in our marriage.. God bless you mam..

[@beneditaakakpo5522]

Let them go and let God be God in your life...God bless you Mama❤

[@phameso]

Dear God, I want to come back here with my own testimony 😭😭😭 let your will be done in the area of marriage.. Amen🙏

[@arinolaodunuga3275]

The mother I've been in search of . so happy to be following you ma. You're my Mentor @Pastor mildred kingsley-okonkwo

[@SundayEse-wt2zu]

This is how we win our battle - reading the word daily.

[@elizabethmuzembe7614]

First time listening to a sermon. .. I was missing this truth. This has really helped... Thank you

[@asuntanasi962]

I ended my relationship today,thank you .I have just been having questions but now i have the answers.

[@JoviaKusiima]

All shall be well ❤️‍🩹

[@denzeliyase]

Ohh God pls by pass my emotions and do what's best for me,let ur WILL come to pass in my life Lord.Amen

[@GracefullyKaren]

The joy I get rewatching these videos. Holy Spirit, thank you 🙏🏿. God bless you Pastor Mildred 🤗🥁.

[@julietnamonjemweemba9918]

Thank you ABBA FATHER for this message which has come to me at the right time 🙏🙏🙏

[@cherish587]

Thanks so much ma'am, u and pastor K are really making great impact in us singles. God bless you and I pray for more grace upon u both to do more for the kingdom of God Amen

[@enugumabel6419]

If you are in a relationship that is not making you a better person, you are wasting your time.

[@MathiasOdika]

Madam, you are a woman of God, ANOINTED by God Almighty , Continue the good work and remain blessed forever. we love you ❤ Wella

[@fragrancedeparadiso443]

May our generation catch these truths in the mighty name of JESUS. Help us Lord

[@celestineasumah4511]

Amen!!

[@MilleAmaka]

Lord please bypass my emotions and do what is best for me Amen 🙏🙏

[@AbehTichick]

If u are in a relationship that causes u to reduce your divinity, gather courage and work out, I hear you ma🙌🙌

[@ojooluwafisayodamilola8600]

Quality of people in Marriage determines the Outcome of the marriage.

[@Enehlovethh]

I just saw this video now and it's really Inspiring, especially where she said that the first step is making you a better Christian..

[@Fadaintv]

Lord bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me

[@SundayEse-wt2zu]

Wow! How great and special it is to understand how God speaks to us.