Millennials Answer Adulthood Questions from Gen Z | Filipino | Rec•Create

[@marcgerrian]

"You should fully take ownership of your life and be the boss of your life"

[@coachingwithnik]

Yass girl! 🙌🙌🙌

[@johnpaulalcaide7081]

Noted po..!!😄

[@lalilulelo]

Millennial here (born mid 1980s) and just want to share some random thoughts... 1. Travel alone 2. Someone's religion should not matter as long as they are not harming anyone 3. Life is more than just finding a partner and getting married 4. Have an active sex life habang kaya pa 5. Question everything. Be skeptical.

[@lancelotray]

4.? Anu number mo? 😉

[@marjhuncantago9476]

@@lancelotray Gagu hahahahah XD

[@titaniamia7111]

"... Don't be hard on yourself if you change your mind." Hear that, me?

[@coachingwithnik]

💖💖💖

[@fatmahsalik6332]

note to self

[@ellajay260]

Agreeee

[@annethdarrenmalit6978]

"I think there is no wrong dream. The fact that you want it and you aspire to get it, that's not wrong." 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@yuukistraussable]

I'm 25 and the advice I can add is, don't force the things you want to have. If things didn't turn the way you wanted then let it be and move on. My favorite quote is "Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished" - Lao Tzu

[@alichoi3828]

Adulthood hits me when I Appreciate SQUIDWARD more than SPONGEBOB.

[@justaryati]

NEXT TOPIC: PARENTS WHO TREATS THEIR CHILD AS A RETIREMENT INVESTMENT

[@jm8837]

THIS, WE NEED THIS!

[@michaelcampos7386]

Agree

[@max_payne95]

Good shit to eto dapat pag tuunan ng pansin

[@justineleiannedeleon8565]

PLEASE!!!

[@notyourrisse]

THIS!!!

[@coachingwithnik]

Thank you Recreate Team for having me! Pang Ms Universe talaga ang questions 🤣🤣

[@fayeastorga2878]

Love all your answers. Very well thought of.

[@joshuaclarito1216]

galing niyo po huhu

[@coachingwithnik]

@@joshuaclarito1216 thank you 🥰

[@justawatcherofpeople]

Focus on your mental health and take care of it. Take things slowly too especially when you want to do a big task but you’re not ready yet, GEN Z. Because if your mental health breaks, all of your plans breaks too. Millenial here.

[@buhagsigwasan2259]

Thanks

[@MB-ib9zv]

Way to put it into words, fellow Millenial! Thank you!

[@marcgerrian]

"If you're not living your life according to your terms,think about it"

[@marcgerrian]

"You're not meant to please everyone" I love that!

[@lyrad4584]

More than a decade ago. i always thought that i had lots and lots of friends because of school and happenings outside it. but then after when you had to face real life adult problems, you will realize that you are alone and nobody will help you but yourself. one day you may wake up and life decides to fuck you up in all various ways you have never imagined

[@miggybarretto797]

Thank you Recreate for the opportunity! Learned so much from this experience 🤟🏼 To all my fellow millennials and super gen Zs, kaya natin to! Fighting! 🔥💪🏼

[@vinardmilano9179]

"Kalma kalang, there's always a TOMORROW" last phrase hits so hard.

[@lancelottttt4110]

Me at 17 living with my sickly lola and young cousin : pays the bills(money not mine ofc), does bank transactions, knows all household chores, does groceries and market alone, sets appointments with diff. gov schools,agencies, and hospitals (Senior citizens office - I was the only one there who wasn't a senior huhu). I think I adulted early and I just entered 1st year college huhu

[@littleprince12]

Wow, di ko pa kaya ang ginagawa mo nung 17 ako 😅 an adult too soon

[@lorenmaeplaza821]

Same

[@MamiLuvs]

Kaya mo yan enjoy life pa din

[@alexbata1202]

You'll get what you deserve, just be patient and please dont forget to make yourself happy so that you wont lost yourself in the process of doing all the things for your fam

[@jonaslorence]

Needed this. I resigned from my job a month ago, and I’m currently lost in the shuffle now. Thanks for this! I guess ganun ata as you grow older no? Minsan namimiss mo maging bata. You just want to wish that time just slow down.

[@Mingregory1798]

Ang tanging advice ko lang sa mga "lost souls" who are still trying to find their purpose: find that one and only source of happiness that can give YOU a sense of fulfilment. Maraming mga tao nga ang successful sa path nila, but deep down they are not happy. Ika nga ng Invictus, "you are the captain of your fate, the master of your soul". Do not be afraid of taking one less road traveled. You will stand out among the rest, as I always believe in. Lastly, don't be hard on yourself when you made errors. We're are humans born with flaws but it doesn't mean we can be dictated by our past mistakes. Own up to your mistakes and let yourself figure out the solution out of the problem, because YOU HAVE ALWAYS FIGURED IT OUT OVER AND OVER :)

[@rheygalvez]

Before, I used to worry about the future but when I reached 27.. Come what may. Anyway, we can’t control future. Just do your best, don’t give a f*ck about people think or say about you. Enjoy life and don’t be too harsh on yourself.

[@kevinbelledo_]

Aweee miggy, “just be a good person.”

[@miggybarretto797]

Daily mantra ❤️🙏🏻

[@Harispotterrr]

Hey thank you for featuring my question. Especially right now that I am about to change my course because I want to pursue my dreams. Thank you for the advice, right timing. Thank you Rec•Create!

[@reboaguirre6533]

9:20 "Everyday is a chance to be a better person" Love this content! Hugs to everyone

[@Smile-nw8mb]

and here i am, 18 going as a freshman college already "frustrated" of what my perfect future should be like. but I think its natural for most young people to anticipated their future path. nakakakabanga lang kasi di pa tayo familiar sa ganung sitwasyon, but nevertheless wala naman perpektong buhay. we always have our own up and downs

[@emjaydoctolero3501]

"Your break-up could be your glow-up" PARANG AWAN NIYO NA, SAKTAN NIYO NA AKO PLEASE HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA jk.

[@akane3549]

Napaka wholesome episode naman to. Very relatable talaga especially ngayon na ang mga millennials are blind sighted with the futuristic goals na yumaman. Wala na mang masama don. Pero It's not as easy and as realistic as what they think.

[@lawrrencelozano3647]

As a millennial watching this, gandang reminders yung mga sagot nila.

[@romroberto3311]

"Lead by example" yown!! Ang sarap pakinggan yung mga sagot nila. Great job! 👏🙂

[@yvander9325]

5:44 I just want to butt in to their answers but don't get me wrong, all of their response to the question were satisfactory BUT it doesn't actually work that way, okay considering if both of your parents are ''Senior Citizens'' so basically being the youngest and also the only one that is left living with them because all of my siblings have their own families already , they're not capable of doing something to sustain their needs anymore, it is not that easy. the thought of '' If I'm gonna leave them to pursue my carer even though my parents are okay with it and they're totally aware that I'm not responsible to take care of them in the first place'' , coz that is the reason why they molded me for me to become ready to face the life wth/out them. and this led me to the hardest decision I have ever encountered in my life. I guess their answers will only work if your parents have financial back ups, insurance, savings from their retirement, my father was the only one who had a decent job, my mother did not even finished her highschool and was married at a very young age. Yes it is indeed not my responsibility to take care of them even both of them are aware of that, but I can't just leave them like that, they nurtured me until I became like what I am now , what I have now and it is my moral decision to take care of them.

[@danica4745]

I'm 20, on a burnout and existential crisis, one reason is because it's my expected year to graduate. And I just want to say that even though I know most of these things, it feels reassuring and comforting to hear the older people tell it. Thank you :(

[@oscarfedereziii9498]

The guy wearing a brown jacket and glasses gave the on point answers. I like how he gave his opinion. 😊

[@isabellaferrer5738]

I hope this becomes a series. There's a lot to talk about adulting and what transitioning to adulthood is in the philippines. Seeing this content felt like "a talk with ate/kuya" feels.

[@kevinserrano3471]

I'm 22 and badly needed to hear this. Thanks :))

[@revelinknation]

I really needed to hear these. This is a free counseling for me

[@diacat]

Love this content! Sana maging series din ito

[@shaynekhietly3480]

Eyy Thank you for featuring my question REC.CREATE! Legit yung gulat ko nung face ko una lumabas hsdgsahdg I luv this episode currently taking down notes.

[@leesong4487]

Love!!!! Thank you for this video huhuhu. I’m turning 25 this year, and di ko alam kung anong gagawin ko. I guess I need to loosen up and don’t put too much pressure on myself.

[@edrylardenespiritu]

guys! KALMA lang tayo! Just enjoy our life being an adult...yey!!!

[@bullsharkTM]

Gosh, as a millennial, i feel old now. It's come to a point na we get to mentor the younger generation about adulthood. We are gen z's boomers/gen x'ers na. hahaha

[@patrickborro2000]

As a Millennial, I'm still lost and a kid at heart...huhuhu

[@marc_albaran]

Informative, entertaining, inspiring. I just love this episode.

[@sweetestmangoes]

as a gen z na praning sa buhay at future, tAMAH PO ITOH!!!! HAHAHAA very much needed this tbh. thank you, recreate. hope this becomes a series tho..👀

[@alcolus2985]

As a millenial my tips are: 1. Save while you can 2. Love. Find a person who values you and stays with you through thick and thin. 3. Build happy lasting memories with your family and friends. 4. Be the change to yourself and other people around you. 5. Stay strong. Pray and don't put too much pressure to yourself. Breathe and find time to sort things out.

[@neth2175]

Just live the life, don't dream or plan too much cause its fuckin depressing when you suddenly failed to accomplish those

[@cyrusconcep3788]

I wanted to react to all questions. Born 80 I'm An adult because I know how to be a responsible person. There is no good/bad advice, you have to learn from experience because it's the best free lesson you can get. Nobody can determine the right path, every decision in life will have consequences (bad/good) Pursue your career, your family should not expect anything from you in return. You have to take care of yourself 1st before others. Everything happens for a reason, I enjoy my childhood time. It's different before than today. If it's too late then you have to move forward and learn from the past. What matter's most for me is I enjoy life to the fullest. I don't do things because I want to be remembered by someone. what matters is what I remembered.

[@dianerazo2596]

idk but i almost cried when he said "kalma ka lang. kalma ka lang" aaaaa

[@zenakidorregi6653]

" Huwag mong ako-in lahat... " This is a good reminder for us eldest child out there 📢📢🔥🔥

[@christiang.nobleza9335]

Life is not a race guys. Enjoy every moment lang ❤️

[@binibinispurse985]

You can do everything but not everything is beneficial. Life is always about choices and trade offs.

[@vallynjoy5196]

Gusto ko yung unang sagot sa " How you liked to be remembered?" ahahaha it really speaks for me

[@gpaige_95]

This is channel is very helpful and a “feel good” when I have my days.

[@arvin0697]

Thank you Recreate for this video. Hope you could make videos about how they managed their salaries and how they invest. thank you!

[@NONAME-dj2gm]

I'm 21, expected to graduate by 22. Tapos uncertain ako kung ipagpapatuloy ko yung current field ko after college. Di ko maramdaman yung satisfaction sa ginagawa ko, napapagod lang at nasstress. Di ko mafigure out kung ano ba talaga gusto ko. Ngayon I feel like I'm running out of time.

[@maryannestrada4774]

omg, samedt. idk if i'm in the right path or what.

[@micahmagno1092]

:(((

[@mallowbleu8289]

You're still young, you have plenty of time live in the present :)

[@snowpsyche7379]

You're just 21 life will figure out eventually. 😊

[@ellajay260]

Watching this to comfort myself from the trials of adulthood. Knowing im not the only one who feels this way, is very comforting and thanks for the advice also guys huhu

[@マンマデティ]

hi, i’m a teenager currently studying. i just wanna say that.... i’m scared. thank you guys for these advices and tips.

[@samantha7101]

I once read from a book/story :when you get your heart broken, other people can help you pick up the broken pieces,but on,y you can glue the pieces back together” ewan ko it just stuck to me it says na lahat ng ibang tao never yan kasama mo forever at the end only you can help each other but it doesn’t mean you can’t get help from others.

[@samantha7101]

Sinasabi ko sa Iba na it’s not bad to get help from others pero ako ayaw na humingi ng tulong sa Iba😂

[@joshuajessieenraca840]

6:13 or 6:36 ! 7:24 + 9:22

[@jonacelagarpao37]

I love how the guest speakers shared their experiences thank you so much recreate!😊😍🙏

[@kenoalba5826]

As a fellow millennial I can relate to majority of the advices they give. You can't deny the fact that experience is the best teacher. Also more of this millenial - gen-z content :)

[@joml2466]

Their answers are insightful pero mostly applicable sa mga tao na may headstart sa buhay. Sana they included someone na lumaki sa hirap, or kung meron man sa kanila na nagmula sa hirap, I kind of expected yung sagot from a perspective na nagmula sa wala.

[@maxscene7]

I feel like pressurized gas thats just waiting to burst. I have Billie Eilish to compare myself to and whenever I see even a glimpse of her name or fame, I shrink and feel every insecurity I've had since I was a kid. I hate myself for not being what she is. I dont know how to overcome this and I feel very agitated. Im also very dependent on my parents and its starting to make me worse.

[@rdos8883]

You know when you are an adult already when you have this kind of wisdom, i mean the guests' wisdom. aside from the bills kasi totoo yang bills na yan HAHAHAHAHA

[@jm8837]

I'm only 19, a college dropout kasi feel ko I'm not in the right course now na ka stop ako and feel ko I'm failure already :((((. Wala ako specific dream and not even a plan so Idk why I'm being frustated, maybe because dahil napag iiwanan ako. So basically I'm aimless. I don't know how to really start living and I don't have full control of my life.

[@Jjclipse]

Thank you, napamember bigla

[@Rec.Create]

Thank you so much for your support, Justine!

[@JamesJest682]

Categorization by generation is much like as assigning your horoscope signs based on the month of your birth. Gen X, Gen Y or Gen Z labels just make one compartmentalized in ones' own biases. One does not need to conform to the mainstream stereotyping. Own your own values. Live with your own dreams. Conform with what you believe. You are more powerful than your own stereotype.

[@wf2472]

Thank you Rec• Create for dis😭💓

[@eyesandstars6222]

Adulthood is when joker and Squidward have more sense than SpongeBob and Batman.

[@angelodeleon7676]

I really love this topic, I'm so confused and I have so many questions in my mind rn, and I really need an advice to adults.

[@sirmigz]

I love this vlogggggg! Nakaka inspire

[@elgienbarera4027]

Awww.. relate much! More of this guys. Please!

[@roquebuenavente4662]

I feel attacked with the billlllls! HAHAHAHA.

[@eyesandstars6222]

Don't emulate the things in the movie and series and effing wattpad Because, it is the glamorized, romanticized version of life which is quite far- fetched and realistic to achieve.

[@rafainton9975]

thanks for this.... I really like ateng naka white haha very on point at she really knows what shes telling and conveys it very well. thank you recreate for this content, from millennials to us Gen Z very informative.

[@TinTin-gk3yn]

I can't believe this episode has only a few views. This deserves moreeeeeeeee!!!

[@colaii5845]

Watching them share their opinions makes me think again if I’m really matured enough but turned out I’m still not hahaha.

[@gaitankristine]

naks asensado ganda ng upuan ^^ btw, mula sa isang batang hindi alam ang gagawin sa buhay THANK Ü FOR THIS!

[@lakimjiezlelynb.7202]

been stressed out because of org works and family. thank you po for reminding me to calm down!

[@leinardcucal8009]

Thank u! Great advice!

[@reignmiller4491]

Napakagandaaaaaa.

[@jennybabesinguran3202]

Create more content like thissss❤️❤️❤️

[@popopopo4981]

about sa financial: pls save.. dont buy just because you think its gonna look good on you, or "ngayon lng ako nagkasahod ng malaki, kaya reward myself".. i mean... sa dami ng mga close friends ko, lage na silang nabili bawat sahod.. sapatos keso ganyan.. needs versus wants...

[@marloudiama6043]

Beriiiii timely as bilang isang freshgradd sksjsjsjsjsjs thanks for this content

[@josephdiaz764]

Tip to GEN-Z people: "If ur sleepy, go to bed."

[@michaelcampos7386]

Wag magpupuyat pagsisihan nila haha

[@josephdiaz764]

Eyebugs

[@miguelquita9714]

Thank you recreate for this content, very relatable.

[@erwiintoots]

hoy atake ung tanong about own fam and parents haaaaa! hahaha

[@kenalde1074]

I would love to see a reaction videos of gen x and boomers to this video.

[@ElijahMondays]

The Accountant Quote lol! 7:22 😅

[@shekinahblueming]

Thank you 🤗 Super helpful po.

[@johnpaulquizana9373]

"PAYING YOUR OWN BILLS!" AHAHHAHHAHHAHAHHA

[@dds9563]

Just be ready ... To get ... Ready ... All the ... time !!! Don't just focus on ... Your ... plans bec. Sometimes ... what your plans route you to a diff'rent situations that will challenge ... Your ... ability to adopt and your decision making !!! Just be ... yourself and ... Pray a lot !!! RC 39 y/o !!!

[@tres4301]

7:20 napaisip tuloy ulit ako. Gusto kong mag teacher pero nakita ko sa step mother ko na malakas kumita ang accountant kaya yun nalang din ang kukunin kong course.

[@ErikaBangsChannel]

natamaan ako dun sa "alam mo sa tita mo na malakas kumita accountant." YES, but not in the philippines hahaha

[@alexandretudorhapsburgvalo9004]

Very insightful

[@akocry17]

For me the starting point was when I keep telling myself "Trabaho ta kay pobre ta." , "Ang hirap kumita." , "Sweldo na ba bukas?"

[@leonilynbueno9667]

Love this episode smmm

[@marvinprimicias6351]

for me, not bcos you're doing chores in your 20s doesnt mean youre an adult already. doing chores is a basic life skill. i believe that it should be done or taught in our younger years.

[@chrisaizaapordo6890]

"the best time to invest is yesterday"

[@jrc92813]

Thank you rec.create 💚💙❤️

[@princessnicolesangabriel1286]

Natawa ko sa 7:20 KUNG KELAN PAGRAD NA KO AAAAAAA CHAR

[@MyBrokenWingss]

Very good topic 💕

[@marjhuncantago9476]

How you consider yourself as adult? - not Overacting on things that really not matter. - a simple mistake of others, will not result into argument by simply let it go. - you always think ahead of time. - If you can't make your dreams fulfill, you just accept it, and get over it. - you no longer, seeking for someone's attention. Best love advice or dating advice? - look for RED FLAGS and GREEN FLAGS (if the person you like has more Red flag than green flags, ask yourself, - "Am I willing to accept this person, regardless of his/her red flags?") if Yes - Don't go crying on someone you accepted in first place. If No - Go find yourself a better man/woman. - Don't ask your parents for pocket money just because you have date, Prep your own Money. - Starts being Acquaintance, then Friendship, try sleepover under one roof (if one goes beyond friendship, it's Red Flag!!! unless you allowed it, it's better to know more about the person you interested in RELATIONSHIP. Wrong path and Right path on your dreams? - Everyone has wrong path and right path of dream, you may experience hardships during your exploration, lots of failing, if you keep trying to achieve your goals, that is right path, if you discontinue your dream that's also right thing to do, you just have to find a RIGHT TIME and RIGHT RESOURCES you need to succeed. the wrong path is when you completely stop achieving your dream. Habits you need to avoid from achieve financial goals. - Lazada and Shopee. (Unless you really need it) - If you can't buy it twice, Avoid it forever. (Unless you are financially prepared to buy it again) - Milk Tea, Travel, Vacation, Food Trips, Cravings go ahead and buy it that's makes you happy, but if you can make it yourself the better. You are expected/willing to take care of your parents while achieving your career choices. - That's hard, really, I am in that path, where I am willing to take care my parents, it's my duty. the hard thing is, the family I belong, "DON'T POSSESS ANYTHING" that I needed to help them like "what the L." every family in this country have province, mine "DOES NOT HAVE" they also "FAILED ME, TO FINISH MY COLLEGE", "My family members specially titos titas are TOXIC" the main reason why my life is GLSOB. so two choices. 1 - Leave and achieve your dream first. (Note: you leave, so you can support them financially, and do not make another problem.) 2 - take care of your parents, achieve your dream later. (Note: while doing that try doing business remotely.)

[@adiria5266]

ATE NIK!!! 😍