We did a huge declutter before Christmas too. My mom buys them so much that I don’t do more than stockings for them! My daughter is so sentimental, and my goal is to teach my kids that donating is a regular thing to do, because for generations my family has been keeping things “just in case” and while that has a place, it’s not for everything. I’m going to be working on it myself too, but I have huge hope that normalizing it for my kids will stop this generational struggle that my family has going on on both sides. Now that we are 99% sure we are done with 4 kids, it’s so nice to be able to truly give away baby clothes and baby gear and baby toys, keeping only the very most sentimental ones, and a couple for when we have guests. I need to do the same with books!
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Megan Whitney In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@hannahgrinder44863 жыл бұрын
You are so right! When we walk into a room full of stuff we dont feel inspired but rather overwhelmed, not knowing where to start. And your little girl is darling!
@vivianaojeda90505 жыл бұрын
This is a goal for me this year being a minimalist . So I appreciate this videos so much
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Viviana Ojeda In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@amandamertz30375 жыл бұрын
I love you & your videos to pieces!! I enjoyed your tidbits, but am especially motivated by seeing other purge, organize, etc. - Hopefully we'll see more of that in upcoming videos. And I absolutely agree about purging without the kids!! :) Before Christmas we have my daughter donate unused & unwanted items, but for a big declutter I am much more successful if I do it alone.
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Amanda Mertz In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@jenniferhiza78485 жыл бұрын
I know this is off topic about cleaning up and minimizing toys. But, I notice that you are so patient with your kids, and so kind and understanding(Not saying that I'm not). I would love if you'd do a video about parenting!! 😊
@ruthiemill5 жыл бұрын
Ah! The struggle! But to be honest, I’ve kept my kids’ (7 & 4) toys pretty minimal since they were babies. I’m not overwhelmed. Santa gets 2 then 2 toys each, a book each, and 2 STEM toys that have them learning and being creative by building and creating solutions. I also ask their aunt to only get them 1 toy each. Then maybe a piece of clothing or a book. But even with that, they tend to leave them everywhere 😒
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Ruthie Mill In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@falasteen27235 жыл бұрын
I been in my Minimalist journey for more than a year now, and your the first youtuber that I feel wouldn't judge me for not being minimal enough! I love ur energy! So so happy for you.
@FancyThatwithCandice5 жыл бұрын
Ahh you're so kind!! I think being open minded and free of judgement is one of the mindset practices that really drew me to minimalism!!! It's whatever you want it to be!!! HUGS!
@AshleighPhelps5 жыл бұрын
Love this!! I’ve loaded my car multiple times- trying to weed out the stuff that doesn’t do anything but add more anxiety to my life. Such great motivation!! Thanks for Sharing your journey!
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Busy Little Blondies In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@jjjks54 жыл бұрын
Just discovered you & I subscribed immediately. I have 3 kids - two boys and a girl also. Ages 9 (almost 10), 8, and 2. I discovered minimalism about a year ago and it’s changing my life. Thanks for sharing!
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
Girl!!!! We are so similar! My boys are 10 and 7 and my girl is two! I started my journey a year ago as well!!!!
@felichiah58455 жыл бұрын
I make my kids 11,8,4 to help me declutter their rooms. They now have started to ask if they can declutter toys they don't like anymore its great. Keep it up enjoying these vedios.
@randalthor545 жыл бұрын
Oh geez.... the toy/books purge is every 6 months at our house. 5 kids with birthdays and Christmas...it adds up fast. It's going to be time to do this again soon. I dread it.
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Jeanne Putnam In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@thepartysjustbegun55573 жыл бұрын
My kids loved the bounce house too lol 💕
@elisha55264 жыл бұрын
Next on my to-do list! I'm in serious need of a declutter.
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
YES!! Not having too many toys will make your life soooo much easier!
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Elisha In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@songbird-og6tz5 жыл бұрын
I love declutters and donations !!! I taught my son how to donate and give to the less fortunate. Also , I wanted my daughter to love dolls like I did but sadly she isn’t big on them . Instead she loves legos, magnetic toys, tinker toys and anything she has to put together or tinker with . She gets that from her day who is a mechanic . So , the dolls will go to someone who can love them . Another thing that makes it difficult for me is thinking , what if . What if at 5 she will like dolls then should I keep them and just put away ? The toy struggle is real 😂😂
@magrand115 жыл бұрын
Your sweater is so cute! Where is it from?
@aliciawaxman10285 жыл бұрын
Meagan Grand old navy sweatshirt.
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Meagan Grand In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@amalshahinaaz53004 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful idea especially in quarantine time
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Glad you think so!! I actually realize I need to purge the toys AGAIN!!! I can get rid of more than I thought! The kids really only stick with a couple of things...the rest needs to be donated!
@cocomoco397265 жыл бұрын
I need to do this! There are so many things we don’t play with anymore. I feel like I’m more sentimental than the kids are and it makes it hard!
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Coco Moco In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. children may not like them at all.Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy.Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility.If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more.I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time.I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Hello there! Dear parents! Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too,because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!!It will teach all the parents,how to give the best childhood for their children!!!This is the best lesson for all the parents!!!Thank You!
@mckennamauck24154 жыл бұрын
I love your shirt and lip gloss color!
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
You're the sweetest! Thank you!
@beckysmith23465 жыл бұрын
For your daughters toys, you could have some of the new ones be special toys that she just gets to play with in the car or trips like shopping or doctor visits. Things she doesn’t see regularly may keep her more distracted when you need her to be.
@joannamarticio90025 жыл бұрын
Though we don't have little ones. We still have been Decluttering. We also are starting to be mindful of what we bring in our New Home. My theory, does it have a purpose. Or am I just keeping it. Our development has a garage sale in early Spring. So I'm keeping my goods to sell. Love your channel.
@HayleyandSimba4 жыл бұрын
Totally off topic but your sweater is SO CUTE!
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!! Old Navy a couple years back!
@melissaolivo4075 жыл бұрын
Love this sweater on you !!!
@juliemanalastas4645 жыл бұрын
Have you read Emily Ley’s When Less Becomes More? I’m listening to it right now and it goes right along with your journey. I think you would really like it.
@embooth71064 жыл бұрын
My kids are all 2 years apart, oldest almost 7 and youngest arriving soon. I have toys for a variety of ages and it is such a pain in the butt.
@مطبخالستنوجه5 жыл бұрын
Good luck to you.
@maebaybay4205 жыл бұрын
I have 4 kids and getting rid of toys has to happen 2-3 times a year with birthdays and Christmas
@Glitter_bug864 жыл бұрын
Just came across this video. You look like the actor from the tv show called good trouble.
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
That's so funny! I've actually never seen that show!
@christinnicole72785 жыл бұрын
Oh books you should always ask local schools if they are accepting book donations. Most Elementary schools love to take donations like that
@FancyThatwithCandice5 жыл бұрын
GREAT idea!!! Thank you! I love supporting local schools!
@benniemorris48724 жыл бұрын
For me, I just throw away things behind my mom & dads back. EXAMPLES............. 10/27/2016: I threw away the 1st half of my Hotwheels track set 11/09/2016: I threw away the 2nd half of my Hotwheels track set 08/26/2018: I threw away ALL 5 of my sister's frisbees. 10/19/2018: I threw away my Hotwheels Ultimate Garage track set 04/12/2019: I threw away ALL of my Legos in the garbage AND THEY(my mom, dad & sister) STILL HAVEN'T FOUND OUT
@astraviil30434 жыл бұрын
Dear Parents, In my opinion, kids could also get toys at other times if they have been very good and good kids all the time. If there is any kind of trip or Disneyland going, then I think the kids should get something out there because the things they bought from the trips are still very valuable souvenirs that are not sold in shops, and every thing that is bought, will be remembered for their wonderful trips. I highly recommend that you let the children choose what they like very much, their biggest dream and buy it. Children may not like them at all. Purchase only the things that they really wanted and make them really happy. Sometimes they could rarely allow children to have the toys they deserve with their great nobility. If children are still very good, then, very rarely, they could just as well afford more expensive things. Very expensive things, then for the holidays. I advise against banning things that children really like, because then they start plans to just want more. I advise not to buy all the time, but sometimes very rarely still be able to afford something if they have been very good children for a long time. I certainly also recommend that you let the children choose from online stores, because there are just so many rare, popular, exciting, cakey, and sweet things that may not be available in stores. Every child has the right to keep all the toys because they are valuable! If you have space, let them keep everything in their childhood! Keep the toys, if the kids like them very much!!! Could you please forward these messages to the other people and parents too, because it is very important for all of us that every single kid can get the best childhood ever and their dreams should also come true and they will be very happy then!!! It will teach all the parents, how to give the best childhood for their children!!! This is the best lesson for all the parents!!! Thank You! Respectfully, Astra Viil
@FancyThatwithCandice4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughtful suggestion! I love this!