What Is Worldly? Nose Piercings? Dyed Hair? Makeup? ☕️ Chatty Coffee Date

[@MyLifeRefining]

Chatty Coffee Dates with Sabrina are my favorite parts of this channel because Sabrina brings really good balance. Sabrina, I’m so glad you figured out that dreadlocks helped keep you safe! It was SO wonderful to finally hear more of your story and what has shaped and continues to shape you. I’m glad you were able to feel comfortable enough to share more about yourself. Your beautiful pink dreadlock head wrap looks like a literal crown! Much love and strength to you. 🌸

[@marykillough7582]

And just maybe…. There’s a broken hurting worldly girl with dreads and weird colored hair who could ONLY hear truth from someone who looks like her 🤔 Such a sweet precious lady. Keep doing what you’re doing. Both of you ❤

[@SaltyBibleCracker]

I was curious about Sabrina’s hair when I first found this channel last year. Thanks for sharing. I’m so sorry your suffering w/chronic illness & will be keeping you in my prayers, sweet sister. ✝️🙏🏻💟

[@dailydogwalker5425]

Hi ladies! Thank you for your maturity and transparency while discussing this topic. Sabrina, I’ve met a young lady who suffers with the sporadic black outs. She was also tested for “Potts”. I saw her black out one time. One second she’s just walking down a hallway…next second she’s on the floor unconscious. How awful. Praise the Lord, one day sickness will no longer exist! God bless you my sweet sisters in Christ. ❤

[@breatheinsimple5369]

My 10 year old son has very long curly hair....he is autistic with major scensory issues and loves his hair and uses it as a safety blanket basically. I love it as well....but everytime we have family gatherings or out in public he gets comments. I just do not understand why people feel the need to comment on others appearances. It gets so old. Sabrina I love your hair and I am so sorry people are making you feel bad.

[@missymurphy9996]

I have had my hair coloured all different colors. I am permanently grey haired now. I have 4 tats that no one sees. I have had my belly and ears pierced. I just don’t like to wear earrings anymore

[@amyd4797]

This was such a great conversation. I have definitely been guilty of judging others based on their looks. I’m so glad I was able to meet Sabrina when we came to see you a couple of years ago. She is so sweet and loves the Lord. Thank you for sharing your story, Sabrina. I hope this opens others eyes up to stop looking at the outward appearance but rather the heart if we want to be like Christ. ❤️❤️

[@jenniferwilliams3408]

We never know what so.eone is walking through. Sabrina is a prime example. I have auto immune issues and my mom has asked why I don't get a scooter for when I have to walk for too long, but because people can't "see" my issues, they end up judging me or anyone else in the same situation. Bless you both! As Christians we are to love as Christ loves and I think you are both beautiful inside and out!❤❤

[@AndreaLinkenhoker]

Christina, I was thrilled when I saw you had a nose ring because I just got one 2 weeks ago. I'm a 38 year old Christian wife and mom. I am the same height as Sabrina. People tend to look at me and think I'm Mennonite or something because I almost always wear dresses and skirts. I just love old fashioned style clothing and it's just so comfortable to me. Good for you two for addressing this subject.

[@zechariahcameron3645]

Why as Christians do we need nose rings? Don't get things because others do. The world is what makes those things popular. If we can live 30+ years without them, why do we need to add them? I'm not trying to disparage you. I am just saying that we look great as we are. I apologize if I'm coming across a different way.

[@victoriachapman5674]

Same people look at me weird too I love old fashioned clothing too

[@Kat-s5f]

Making this comment within the first ten minutes of the video….Sabrina, I’m so glad you are putting yourself out there and being on KZbin! It takes courage to be vulnerable in such a judgmental world. Please do not let the keyboard warriors R US club get to you. 💜

[@Faunaflys]

Oh Sabrina, it breaks my heart to hear the horrible things said and done to you. I am so sorry all of that happened! As someone who also has a lot of body/self image issues, this saying has helped me lately not to take things so personal: “what someone says about me doesn’t mean I am those things. It just shows the fruits that they are bearing.” Knowing that how they act ONLY shows who THEY are and not me makes me feel a lot better and cope quicker. May God bless you and preserve my sister! ❤

[@janettequinones2182]

So amazing! Sabrina, you’re an inspiration! My first impression of you was that you’re such a genuine child of God and you’re beautiful and confident in who you are in Christ. You wear the pink hair so well! And after hearing you I wasn’t wrong about the first impression. 🤗. God bless you both! God knew what he was doing when he impressed upon you to go on this journey together! Much love sisters in Christ 💕.

[@haleyvitko6843]

Sabrina, thank you so much for sharing your story! I have been so blessed by it. You are a beautiful daughter of Christ both on the inside and out 💛

[@RAE1775]

Thank you for putting this out here and standing firm and holding strong. You ladies are doing Great things and just keep doing it. Ignore the noise and keep listening to Gods “noise” which is what your doing and providing scripture/Gods word to others. Much Love ladies and know You Are making a difference❤️🙏❤️

[@annalevel389]

I've said it before , but it needs said again... y'all ladies are a beautiful bunch! I always love to listen to you gals! So full of wisdom and truth! You should have full heads of silver!!! 🧓 VERY well said. You give ppl a lot to mull over and ponder in their hearts. I always learn sooo much! Praying for you Sabrina! ❤

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Thank you so much!! 🥰🙏🏼💕

[@LindsayB369]

Sabrina, you are beautiful! I admire you so much for your bravery and your faithfulness throughout all of your illnesses. You are an inspiration. Don’t let anyone take away your joy in the Lord. Heidi, you are an incredible friend to Sabrina and godly woman. I’m so thankful I found this channel. God bless you both!

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

All glory to Good! 🙌🏼💕🥰

[@cookfrances]

Learning about making snap judgements has been so good and enlightening to me. Now I know we all do it, but to use discernment to look beyond the snap judgements makes sense. We should being looking at the inside and actions like the Lord does. Thank you ladies for discussing this topic.

[@cherisebeekman]

I often listen to KZbin videos as background noise while I do housework or other things. I started the video without looking at the screen at all, and let me just say, my vocal impression of Sabrina is everything that Heidi describes! Very sweet, very kind, Full of wisdom, but not pushing herself forward. As they began to describe the reason for the video, THAT’S when I picked up the screen to see the pink hair! By the way, it looks adorable, and you rock those dreadlocks❤

[@LisaDupree-sf7fi]

As the old saying goes, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” We need to get to know someone and make every attempt to understand from a compassionate and kind heart. God’s Healing and hope to Sabrina. Bless you both and your families. Lisa Anne Dupree ✝️🙏🏻🌻🦋

[@lisamcdonald7125]

This comment sums it up perfectly. Well said. ❤

[@Kingdomseeker23]

That is so funny, I would like the manual as well please. Yes, I am guilty of some snap judgments. Thinking those people are rude… Praying for us all to walk in the love of Christ.

[@ShellyJohnson-xs1mf]

Everyone has a story! We as Christians need to stop judging & take the time to live life with others just like Jesus did! Get to know people & listen to them ❤ this is by far my favorite video! You are an amazing friend Heidi to Sabrina! Thank you Sabrina for sharing your story with us ❤ you are incredibly brave!

[@lynnhendley8910]

I member a scene in the movie Bambi. When you see Thumper saying something He should of said. And His mother scolds him. And He finally say " if you can't say something nice., then don't say nothing at all" People need to remind them of that saying. Love you both so much.

[@amybeasley7388]

Talk about being convicted! I want to hug both of you Godly, beautiful women! 🩷. Lots of love to you both!

[@jenniferlaquey4035]

I am going off the subject but like to add that even if someone is gay and has colored or not colored hair, I believe we as believers are to be kind and loving to everyone. It doesn`t mean I will wear a tshirt to support their lifestyle, etc but more churches are affirming gay and transgender life styles. I believe we as believers can be kind and loving to people and not affirm or support umbilical lifestyles. God willing, we all will have opportunity to share God`s truth in love.

[@jennifermcleod8176]

Wow, what a good podcast today! Thank you for sharing a bit about yourself, Sabrina. Were your pregnancies difficult with all your health issues? I love you both and am so thankful for y’all! ❤

[@aprilpetersen5479]

Love this. I commented the other day on a channel where they were telling people "dissociation" or maladaptive daydreaming which if often caused by trauma or neurodivergence was sinful against God. ARE YOU KIDDING? Where do we think treating people this way is a reflection of Christ?

[@susanmason3432]

Sabrina, I understand your staying home. My mom suffered from Epilepsy and regular no notice Grandmal Seizures that took a shot to release. So frightening and embarrassing when this happened in public. People freak out and don’t listen to family instructions on how to handle the situation which often makes it worse. Epilepsy may not be your issue, but I pray you either always have someone with you always or a big dog to fall on. Full size Collies & German Sheppard’s worked well for her. Glad your pink hair makes you feel happy 😃.

[@christymiller6350]

But YHVH said to Samuel, " Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For YHVH does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but YHVH looks at the heart." 1 Samuel 16: 7 You ladies are awesome...😊

[@LadyOfTheNorth11]

☕️ can you do a chat about how to find a good church.. what to look for, red flags, etc.

[@laurajohnson7818]

Thank you Sabrina for your transparency! The two of you have blessed me today. You helped me take a moment to do a personal heart check. In conclusion, it is my deepest desire to demonstrate more love and compassion for others regardless of how they look. Jesus is our ultimate example and we are called to follow and learn from Him! Hallelujah! Thank you Jesus!! God bless you both as you continue forever forward! SHINE YOUR LIGHT! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Kingdomseeker23]

I have to tell you the first time I watched a chatty coffee was with my husband on the couch and I just loved you both!! I was like, “oh yeah, sisters in Christ, they are awesome!!”😆

[@jenniferlaquey4035]

I think worldly in the sense of wearing clothes, jewelry, and makeup would be if someone shows no characteristics of walking with Jesus ( fruits of the spirit) and someone is dressing to bring attention to themselves. I think wearing clothes, makeup, jewelry is a way to complement a person`s appearance. To be honest regarding colored hair and short hair on women, that the way the world is today, the world has tainted that and I automatically wonder if someone is gay and at first have a snap judgement but I do strive to look at who a person truly is. I truly appreciate you both for talking about this topic. There are unfortunately women in church who dress immodestly. You are both sweet, gentle, and bold in sharing God and His word. God bless you both.

[@milicajacimovic1]

Black is also my go-to color❤❤praying for Sabrina's wellbeing.

[@tammypoling9618]

Glad your back,hope your feeling better

[@sannatiisanoja2110]

Oh Sabrina! Sometimes I need to put on my pink hoodie to brighten my day. I hope people get over that too! 😂

[@zaidagonzalez466]

I adore your hair I find you unique and godly ladies. Now I am 45 years old and one of my goals is to get my nose pierced just because like you said we go to trauma and you need to overcome some fears and stuff like that, I do believe that the Christians may find that ungodly that’s one thing that I’ve struggled with growing up in a Christian home but I can’t stop being unique and if Christian people wanna put me down for that or judge me that’s not right either I totally agree, but you guys are saying It’s a new generation and how we have to see things in a different way and that’s what I believe

[@zechariahcameron3645]

You do not need one. You look great. As Christians we don't need to follow others and do what they find appealing or popular. Did you feel like you need one 15 years ago? They are not needed. Many people with them have become to idolize them when they are a hole and accessory.

[@Dana-mb1hd]

Hooray! I love you 2 together! Hope you both are well!!!!!❤

[@Lovingmeintheinbetween]

Sisters, Matthew 5:11-12 God blesses you when people mock you and persecute you and lie about youfn and say all sorts of evil things against you because you are my followers. 12 Be happy about it! Be very glad! For a great reward awaits you in heaven. And remember, the ancient prophets were persecuted in the same way.

[@gillianjackson9403]

I find this chatty coffee quite sad and sending the biggest hug to Sabrina ❤

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Thank you 🤗💕

[@Ministry_of_Defense_Ky]

I love Sabrina's hair and her. I have neurocardiogenic syncope, pots, lupus, and fibro, so I understand the passing out and staying home.

[@katherinekalinowski1967]

Sabrina is an inspiration. You are right, we do make snap judgments but like you said, take a step back and look at scripture. Great video.

[@gloriamurphy7660]

Sabrina, your so sweet honey!!! I truly love your haircut and the coloring of it! PEOPLE can be so heartless 😢😂😢 God will bless you for all who are so yes, worldly! 🙏💛🧡💚🤎🙏

[@tinasumrall1420]

I just found your channel, finally someone that i can relate to. And carnivore. 😊 Tell Sabrina she is far from worldly, she's so pretty i just want to hug her.

[@kellywade7821]

You ladies are super intelligent. I love you

[@thelivabug8147]

Sabrina, thank you for this! You are beautiful and I definitely see Jesus in you! As someone that struggles with a chronic illness that have not only taken a physical but mental toll on me, I like you try to find some joy in the little things. I too love gray hair and have wished that mine would just go gray but at 43 mine is only around my face and the rest of my hair is dark brown, I didn’t want to look “worldly or vain” and dye my hair but my sweet husband said for our 17th anniversary that he wanted to gift me getting my hair dyed, he even called the beauty salon and made the appt for color with highlights, I did cause he wanted me too and cause the reason behind it was he wanted me to recapture some of the confidence that my illness had taken away… while my focus is on my inner “beauty” I hadn’t even noticed just how much the physical changes that my illness had caused and the way it made me see myself… I’m sure your husband like mine just wanted us to feel good about ourselves and see our own beauty like they do! While I don’t like the do what makes you happy phrase (cause we should do what makes us holy)… I do agree and love Heidi’s find the beauty in things approach… we should find things that give us a little joy! Also praying for you and that the surgery you need will happen and help you!

[@rosemarymaigur9280]

Sabrina you are so blessed to have such a loving husband.

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

She really is- he’s wonderful!

[@penguin7964]

This is interesting because whenever I see Sabrina I wished I could look like her but I did not think any further into that. Never did I think that was worldly, I still don't but super interesting!

[@lydia8965]

‭‭Ezekiel‬ ‭16:12, 15 "I put a ring in your nose, earrings on your ears, and a beautiful crown on your head.... ‭‭Ezekiel‬ ‭16:15‬ ‭NET‬‬ [15] “‘But you trusted in your beauty and capitalized on your fame by becoming a prostitute." The problem isn't the nose ring, the jewelry, the nice clothes, or being beautiful. The Lord describes giving those things to Israel as good gifts FROM HIM -- all of it, nose ring included. The problem was Israel trusting in her own beauty and acting as a prostitute. Read the whole chapter and see what God says He did for Israel and then what she did. Was God saying He made a mistake giving those things to her? Or that she MISUSED them and her behavior was the problem?

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Yuuuuppppp!!!!

[@LeahSmith-c4h]

I love your channel and points of discussion. Everyone should always be trying to improve themselves. It's called emotional intelligence - being aware of how your words and actions affect others. Sorry to say that most people aren't very intelligent in this area and haven't recognized God's gift of discernment.

[@Modisetteinfaith]

I love y’all. I am always thinking about what the others think of my clothes and the lack of makeup but I still go to church Wednesday nights in sweat pants and a hoodie/sweatshirt and no makeup. Sundays most of the time no makeup and my good jeans and a nice shirt. Sabrina I’m 5ft with blue eyes white skin. I freckle instead of tan. Love you girl!

[@EauSoRandom]

I think the key takeaway here is that the people who are judging need extra prayer and love. It’s easy to focus on how someone judges us and we lose sight of what they are going through or where their walk is with the Lord and that they are needing an example. What we don’t want to do is spend more time being offended. If someone is judging especially a fellow believer the first response should be are you in need of prayer or hey I would love to talk with you and work through these things. I personally feel that these types of conversations are better placed in a close group because if someone who we’re looking to this video for some insight what they may hear is a sort of gossip/judgemental session. We can expectI that we are going to encounter these kind of things. To someone who hasn’t had much experience with the lovely ladies on this channel it could present as cattiness. I really carefully thought this out before I responded and I say this in love. I hope that makes sense.

[@Lovingmeintheinbetween]

I bet most “Christian’s” today would think John the Baptist a bum. I’ve also said that if Jesus would come through our time that “Christian’s” would crucify him all over again. Legalism has no room in the faith and grace that Jesus Christ offers.

[@Amoski1208]

I pierced my nose when I learned women of biblical times had theirs pierced. Rebekah definitely had one & many Nazarite women did too!

[@andreaWBW]

How do you know? Are you Jewish? We don't have to follow Jewish customs.

[@ClaireCole-k7f]

Sabrina that is so romantic about your husband playing with your hair and dying it for you. It sounds as though your husband is so thoughtful and knows what you love & shows his love through your hair. I'd love my hair to be played with by my husband without having to tell him to, as i have long hair too and my husband doesn't necessarily voluntarily touch it without being told. I also have dyed my hair since I was about 14yrs old, I have blond hair at the front section and the rest blends in with my natural brownish colour as well as other colours I've tried in the past lol. The only time I tried something very different was after lockdown in 2021 & i went purplely red with the blond section at the front, I did it because I came to the point of, I don't care what people think anymore and did it because I wanted to & it didn't matter what people thought. Thank you for explaining why you have your hair the way you do & dreadlocks that I didn't even realise you had. You've been brave to allow yourself to be vulnerable to those who have no idea. X

[@conniecornsilk2955]

yeah its the same thing getting older I have long hair and I dye it and keep the gray hairs away, a lot of people think after a certain age you should keep your hair short!! Well I don't want to !!

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

I absolutely pray to be the lady with full gray hair long as it can be! I love having long hair, and hope to receive my crown of glory one day! 👑 👩‍🦳

[@jmill7336]

We should be asking ourselves if we are carnally minded or spiritually minded over being worldly. This whole conversation seems very carnal to me. We are to die daily-decrease so He can increase. I don’t agree with any of this.

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Sorry you've missed the whole point-- Thanks for sharing- death to flesh to live for Christ is the utmost importance of it all! And that's a lot deeper than someone's hair or jewelry.

[@wendya5887]

Looking less like the world is important. Modesty in dress and hair. Wearing soft makeup is ok, but not to draw too much attention to self. This channel came up, thought it would be good. I’ll pass.

[@melanierasmussen3282]

My belief is that this goes way deeper than the physical. I grew up in a fundamentalist group that is considered by most Christians to be a cult. Makeup and Jewelry was frowned upon, where jewelry and especially piercings were considered to be pagan and extremely vain. Their prophetess had said that it was vain to wear jewelry because she came from a time when most jewelry was made from precious stones or gold/silver. So it was perfectly normal for women to wear very nice expensive clothes to church and drive a 60,000-80,000 car and yet condemn the girl wearing a $10.00 pair of earrings for being vain, rebellious and pagan. Even wedding rings were not ok, which to me was very upsetting because stories abounded of how married women or men would be hit on because they didn't wear a wedding ring, much to the embarrassment of the poor person who didn't know they were married in the first place. The older women used tactics such as ignoring, shunning, gossiping and generally acting better than those who didn't conform. I have always been a girlie girl and I love makeup and jewelry and I never could see any biblical evidence for their assertions, so I did what I did normally. I refused to take off my jewelry when I went to church or church events, just so I could fit in, it just didn't seem genuine and I didn't like the control that was held over the women and as a result I was often hurt as I was not well accepted. What I began to see over time that much of what was occurring was not based in logic, it was not based on biblical doctrine, but instead it was based on a prideful religious and legalistic spirit as well as deep seated jealousy. Especially as the younger generation came along, feeling secure in their personal relationship with Christ and unwilling to conform to man made traditions. It wasn't just that the younger girls looked pretty, they actually believed that they loved the Lord and that he approved of them. That made the older women so angry. And on some level I began to understand that they had never been allowed to look pretty or to feel feminine and they felt they were doing it all for the Lord. Then these young ones came along and got to be pretty and feel feminine and they believed that they were loved by the Lord. They were enraged because it was confusing to them and their pride in what they had been practicing all their life (basically abstinence from vanity as they believed) pushed them to treat the young women with contempt. The jealousy and envy was a real thing. One women I know told a younger woman that because she wore jewelry on this earth, she would not receive jewelry in heaven, she had her opportunity to be beautiful here, so it wouldn't be allowed in heaven. But all the women who had not done so were to be rewarded! I had to giggle a little at that one. At certain churches where the women were only allowed to wear dresses and no makeup and jewelry, any outside women were shunned. One of my very dear friends would go to their home-school co-op group and sit in the car while her husband attended because if she went inside the women would completely ignore her, acting as if she wasn't there and she didn't even wear jewelry, just mascara. Her only sin was that she was beautiful and they couldn't handle being around her. They were also extremely scared that their husbands were going to lust after the bejeweled women. At our business when a man was hired, his wife saw a picture of me and asked my husband if I still looked like that and her mother said that any posters of women who were modeling a certain product we sold should be taken down so that her son-in-law wouldn't be tempted by them. She was worried that her husband was going to be lured away by the woman with makeup and jewelry. It's sad really, it gives some Christian women a sense of pride fullness about their own abstinence while they accuse others of being vain and prideful. They say the women are sinful for being worldly, while they burn with jealousy at not only their appearance by also their freedom in Christ. Now looking back I can see what was really going on and it makes me sad that their judgements don't come from a place of concern or kindness or even really caring about other women's heart and walk with the Lord, but from their own fears, jealousy and misguided scriptural interpretation. It's one thing when a woman is all dolled up and flirting with your husband and calls herself a Christian, but what if a woman looks really beautiful inside and out and is chaste and dresses to please her husband? What if all Christian women were allowed to be beautiful inside and out and were able to embrace their inner and outer beauty and understand how fearfully and wonderfully made women are and how were gravitate toward the beautiful and lovely things in life? Yet, at the same time they were godly and careful with how they handled themselves around other men and true godliness bubbled up from the inside. Because that is what I see among my sisters in Christ. I attend a church where the women are gorgeous and unique and some wear makeup and jewelry and some do not but they all love each other and allow each other to express themselves as they wish. They are also women who are careful with their boundaries and how they interact with men in general. They love on each other so much and are so careful with their words, they truly emulate Jesus. I appreciate both of you Sabrina and Heidi and I'm so glad that you aren't letting these comments go unnoticed or unaddressed. For we to use our discernment yes, but not let religious and legalistic spirits work through us, stirring up jealousy and condemnation of our sisters-in-Christ.

[@PoisonKestrel9]

This is awesome girls! Sabrina, I make synthetic dread extensions and braid them in my hair all the time. It gives me more confidence in my dread adventures. I find it's interesting how judgemental people are and mainly Christians unfortunately. I've grown up in a very judgemental Christian home. Its so sad. Even careers etc we get frowned upon. I find that the enemy hits you where you are triggered, because satan knows our buttons. We fight not against flesh and blood but spiritually. We are to love each other. How is judging love?

[@asimon8313]

Hello ladies…. I don’t get to watch/listen regularly. However, I had to chime in. Agreed with the tendency of human nature towards snap judgement v running impressions thru a biblical lens. Nevertheless I am beyond saddened to hear of some of the comments you all have received. Sabrina, as seldom as I have heard you, I 100% agree with the attributes Heidi used to describe you. You are darling inside & out. I LOVE listening to you both when time allows. I am always delighted to note how the Lord knits together opposite (personalites/strengths) in relationships. I’m sorry that you all had to address this hard topic, but grateful for your transparency. So gracious. 💗 One last thing… As we come to the end of the podcast, I wanted to add that I am so glad that Heidi lassoed you, Sabrina, and forced you onto the Internet. You are a breath of fresh air. God bless you ladies! Happy Valentine’s Day!

[@gianna5517]

so should i take my nose piercing out?

[@jenniferlaquey4035]

It is better for people to ask others questions before judging someone.

[@beckyfischer7025]

One of the things I remember is a woman speaker who said that we need to always look at someone and find something nice to say to that person. We, as Christians, need to love others. Sometimes I do look at a woman and wonder why she has tattoos, but I would never say anything. I just wonder why a woman has tattoos, not thinking they should not have a tattoo. For me, it is a question, not a judgment. I do not think that Sabrina is a good Christian woman because of how she looks. From listening to you, Sabrina, I see a beautiful Christian woman. The important thing is that we are to be people whom others can see Christ through. Sabrina, my heart goes out to you because of what you are going through physically and mentally. I can relate to your major depression because I have Major Depression and Seasonal Depression. I will add you to my prayer list. You are a love and I am blessed to have seen and heard you today. Hugs to you two ladies, Love in Christ,

[@saraphillips5945]

You are both beautiful testaments to God's wonderful creative abilities. Just know that those little attacks are Satan trying to hold you back and weaken your faith... You must be giving him fits living your heavenly minded life, ministering to us online and walking with Christ. I just found your videos and I'm very thankful for Heavenly Minded. Your show is something I really needed at this point. Much love to you both❤

[@tammypoling9618]

I'm a Christian I have different views on some topics but I don't call it out on you guys that's the Lord's job

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Absolutely nothing wrong with having different thoughts/views. Never! But we must all be willing to look at those views through scripture and not personal feelings- and never come at someone without love. 💕 📖

[@yvonnetitus2]

Dear Heidi and Sabrina this was the most enlightenig and convicting thing I have heard all day. To put my thoughts in context I am a 73 y/o retired home school mom who taught my 3 kids through the 1990’s. I treasure my husband and love God’s Word. I was raised in a legalistic Baptist environment of church and home. Obedience was utmost to earthly authority. More recently I spent the better part of 9 years in a Messianic community because I wanted to learn and experience the Feasts of the Lord and worship on Sabbath. That was great until leadership went off the rails with NAR music and theology. For the last 5+ years I became a below the knee amputee from cancer in my ankle. All that to say, The LORD has been faithful to me on my journey. Your Chatty & Coffee episode today was amazing. It gripped my heart to the point I am going to share it with a few significant young women who may have felt judged by me even if I never said a word about their preference of hair color and other adornment. One in particular whose color of choice is purple and I know she suffered from years of depression and migraines. It never occurred to me that her choice of hair color may have been her only way to distract herself in order to feel a moment of joy. I have other examples who will be receiving this episode to be an encouragement to them as well. Keep up the good work and your transparency.

[@christydodgin3712]

I loved listening to this podcast ! I’m a wild one at heart so the more different you look the better. People are very judgmental. I’ve been judgmental. The church is notorious for judging. I think it’s because we lack the understanding of who God really is that we somehow put God in this box and women or people in general are suppose to look like this. God is creative people! I been judged too not by the way I look but by my past mistakes. Sabrina in your a doll ! Heidi we are a lot alike . I’m bull headed by nature and have no problem walking the plank ! 😂 . Good content girls keep it up !

[@amandacurtiss8759]

Sabrina is adorable and a pure delight! 😊

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

I couldn't agree more!

[@amyannlutz6753]

Thank you Heidi for your video and your coffee date with Sabrina. I am a Christian woman, wife, and a mom. I just recently started dressing modestly and wearing head covering/Veiling. I have my nose pierced, my eyebrow is pierced and I have 6 tattoos and I am planning on more tattoos. I don't feel convicted of these things. And I do sometimes wear makeup. Are they really Worldly? That is the big question. And I love that both you Heidi and Sabrina are women who are on the Internet and look like me. God bless you both. Thank you again 🙏🏼❤ P.S. I had my hair colored all kind of colors, Red, Pink, Blue, Green, and more. You are beautiful💜

[@andreaWBW]

I think that's too eyecatching and isn't modest. And you don't have to wear a veil, it's about your hair. That's your glory, that's what Paul meant in 1st Corinthians 11, 15.

[@JadaRansom-f3q]

Hi Heidi, thank you for bringing these controversial topics to the surface!!! Everyone finds them so "taboo" to actually discuss truth through a biblical lense. While watching your video, I thought of wearing makeup or piercings (as seen and created in the world) through the lense of 1 Timothy 2:9: "In like manner, also that women adorn themselves with modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls..." Typically, these things can "add" to a woman's "attractiveness", not being perceived as being lowly or modest in appearance. Can you share some context to this?

[@gloriamurphy7660]

May I ask a question? What does a Christian look like? Honey if you new what my life was like as a young woman it would have you in tears, but as a Christian woman I am a child of God, that is all I want!!! PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE AN AMAZING WOMAN IN GOD'S 👀 💞🤎💚🧡💛💞

[@1977angelinflight]

I just love watching you both. Sabrina you are absolutely right, we will never look physically like Jesus. Smh at how people look at the outward so much. We are praying for you Sabrina and please know that you are a beautiful woman inside and out. Gosh if we were all the same it would be boring. Love ya'll big ❤

[@sunseeraleigh1264]

I am just speechless. I just don't understand why Christians judge things like this. This is breaking my heart.

[@tammypoling9618]

You are right on Sabrina we'll never be like Christ we're flesh until we get to heaven

[@nickihearon8164]

I’m only 45 minutes in and my comment is this .. I had a friend in college that had blue hair and tattoos.. she loved the Lord and went to church, but when she went to conferences ( around people who didn’t know her) they would try to pray her through !! lol lol! She would share the story and we would have a good laugh .. if you see her now, she don’t look like that now her is a natural color and she felt the need to have tattoos removed .. she matured as a person.. I’m not sure .. we were different denomination but we enjoyed each other’s company.. it wasn’t my place to correct t her or her to correct me .. that’s God’s business.. One thing I would like to know is what doctrine do you teach ? Plan of salvation? ( I love your videos) but would like some foundation information

[@brandiland7798]

I love Sabrina's hair!! I am jealous (not in a bad way) lol I can't grow my hair anymore 🙄

[@lynnhendley8910]

Love this video. You both look just fine and are beautiful Women of God. His Princesses for His Kingdom. Love and Hugs. Don't let anyone steal your Joy!!

[@tammilawrence8186]

Your January 2024 transcript mentions to not be guest on outward appearance don’t adore yourself with gold etc. so I think that’s where all of the questions are coming from because we were listening to you and then all of a sudden you had a nose ring which doesn’t bother me but I’m just telling you why people were questioning this

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

I’ve had a nose ring for nearly 20 years? I’ve also always worn earrings and at least a wedding ring. :) The scripture is speaking about where we’re putting our focus - is it on the outward or the internal?

[@EauSoRandom]

I agree with this, jumping to judgement while we are being judged isn’t okay. I don’t think I can articulate the point we are trying to make here. I get that it’s frustrating to be judged but it will come with the territory and we need to project that attitude and seek the opportunity in these comments from people (while also acknowledging that it does hurt and that the physical assaults like touching someone’s hair or continuing a personal attack is something we do not need to endure. Sometimes we need to dust off our sandals and move on) ❤

[@karenwalker3756]

This is so sad and crazy I am so sorry people talk to you that way!!! I do believe we are to let God convict we are not Holy Ghost JR. I like my nose ring and lip piercing lets put on LOVE!!! You are both beautiful women and I thank God I found you.

[@zechariahcameron3645]

My thing is that God made us without nose rings. In 2010, people didn't care about getting them, but now more people get them and it's pressuring people to feel like they need one. As vocal believers, we do not need to be following trends. My thing is that we should love ourselves as we are. As Christians, we don't need to need extra. I have seen some women with nose rings make it part of their identity. It shouldn't be. We should live our lives and let others be themselves. I am not saying this to knock you. I'm just stating that we are fine as we are and without extra things; tattoos included.

[@Ana-n8y1c]

In heaven no one will try to hurt others.

[@tammypoling9618]

We have a lot in common Sabrina you just keep going forward to the Lord

[@BeadyBomBomElizabeth]

This was a great chatty coffee date and it's unfortunate that it had to be talked about especially when we are Christ followers and should know better. Also I am sure there are many that are new to the faith and see those type of comments and behavior can be so discouraging. This Scripture comes to mind and would be a good reminder to those that read comments before commenting themselves to think before speaking/typing. James 3:5-10 in context. Verses 8-10 "but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so." When we speak to one another, is our words being used to build one another up or to tear one another down? Something to think about. We are to show the love of Christ not only to the outside world but also the world of social media. Tfs.

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Amen- couldn’t agree more! 🥰📖🙏🏼

[@tammypoling9618]

Your right Sabrina Christians are the most judgemental I have had horrible things sad to me about my fibromyalgia came to the conclusion that it's their issue not mine

[@Ana-n8y1c]

I like your creative hair. It look good on you. Lots of people are wearing different colors. But its about the snap judgement of the commenter who mosy likely was not Godly. Thats my discernment, that the commenter is worldly.

[@amandazplace5663]

What does "worldly" even mean when Christians use it? I wasn't a Christian til age 26, so I always ask people to define their terms. Arent we all worldly? I mean, we live here, dont we? I find it hard to believe there is such a thing as a Christian who isn't affected by the world. Even if you intentionally do the opposite of the world in some area, your decision is a reaction to the world. 🤷♥️🇨🇦

[@andreacockerill6676]

I wear make up every day and I like nice clothes but I love jesus an I know what he did for me,yes I have to check my heart an make sure these things are not idols..I don't like attention from anyone,im a creative person ,I like to look nice an make an effort for my husband.im quite an insecure person but my identity is in Christ I have to keep asking him to help me with these things an he will correct me an convict me of these things.i would never judge anyone on the way they look these people are obviously coming from a religious point.The work that jesus begun I'm us he will complete it to the very end.🙏

[@mrscp04]

Some humans are really bold. How incredibly shameless you have to be to pull on a stranger’s hair. I have a question. What about Christians that wear band T shirts? Especially stuff like Led Zeppelin, Rolling Stones, Iron Maiden, etc. I don’t question salvation, but I do wonder where they are in their sanctification process. Also, wow everything Sabrina has endured. God bless you both. I’m pretty new to your channel.

[@Imelda123]

What other people think of you is not relevant. You don’t work for them.

[@ruth3-11]

Such a great discussion and I haven’t even heard all of it yet! It makes me think of what Jesus said to the people… “John came neither eating and drinking and they say he has a demon… I came eating and drinking and they say I’m a glutton and drunkard and a friend of sinners.” Even John and Jesus couldn’t win with that Pharisee Spirit! We are to be in the world and not of it… That is far more about what is unseen than what is seen. Being “worldly” is a matter of the HEART and Motives etc. Like Lots wife… We don’t know what it was necessarily that she was longing for but her heart was sadly n the world. And I just have to say… Sabrina you didn’t even have to share all of your reasons for how you wear your hair but I am grateful that you did! I Pray that your vulnerability convicts some hard hearts and they get on their knees to ask for forgiveness. And this is actually the first time I’ve ever seen/heard you and from the first couple of minutes I thought to myself “I LOVE HER!” You communicate so much just with your beautiful face and expressions… You were making me crack-up just from that! Thank You Both Sisters!!!

[@andreaWBW]

In Ezekiel 16, 11- 13 is about Jerusalem, not about women's jewelry. And a nosering isn't mentioned there. I am reading the King James Bible 1611. Please always read the context. And if this is Jewish why should I wear a nose ring as a Christian woman? That's what very many unbelievers wear. So we don't make a difference then. 🧐

[@karenharvey7197]

Wd 40 the chair or whatever that is squeaking in the background. 😂😂😂

[@barbaraflowers5547]

👍

[@mcanultymichelle]

Basically YAH said after your wedding,ladies we are to put some effort in to our looks for our husbands . And if what you’re wearing you can stand in front of YAH in HIs throne room with out feeling ashamed and embarrassed ,you should be good.🤷‍♀️Butts and boobs are for your husband not for ever man.

[@conniecornsilk2955]

To me modesty also means not twerking at church or (shaking your butt up and down) to me its ridiculous!!

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

I don’t even know in what situation that could come up. Absolutely disgusting. 🙈

[@TheHBMINISTRIES]

so then everyone that carries a stanley cup or wears yogas should go through biblical screening cause a snap judgement of seeing someone with a stanley or yogas says "your not a chiristian" not true my close "christian" friend is a work out instructor and carries a stanley and she wears yogas all the time! I also do too and I am not worldly. I m still tied up on that snap judgement from you.

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

I'm sorry you missed the point of all of that-- you'll note that in tht video we repeatedly pointed back to the fact that the motive and root issue was the focus. It's not "just about" a cup or some pants. It's the roots. That we take before the Lord and work through. If a. Christian is calling another Christian "sinful" or "bad" for owning a cup (and nothing else) that's insanity and wrong. If a sister says "Hey, for those of you stuck in coveting worldly possessions- that's a big root issue that the Lord calls us to handle in a Biblical way." Huuuuuge difference. 😊

[@TheHBMINISTRIES]

Ok I’m sorry it may have been the title that grabbed me the wrong way. Thanks! 😀

[@reetayoung]

Why would Sabrina wear her hair that way other than to draw attention to herself?

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Did you watch through the video?

[@reetayoung]

Sorry, guess I shouldn't have said that

[@Raven.Tulips]

40:55 You can find the answer to your question here. She talks about why she started to wear dreadlocks. It’s a protective pillow for her exposed brain.

[@tiffanywitmer6360]

Sabrina, is this Chiari syndrome?

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Yes!

[@ErinB06]

Very interesting conversation. 🩷 Keep up the great work!

[@ginamarie2782]

Cult of Sabrina! I’m in!! 🩷😂 the world would be so much sweeter and better! 🤗 love you both!!

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

Sign me up! Hahaha!😆

[@FeralWomenPodcast]

Thank you for addressing this!! I’ve had people try to discredit my Bible teaching content on Tik Tok because I had my hair in a braid!

[@HeavenlyMindedHome]

That is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard… 🤦🏻‍♀️