MLM BOSSBABES SHOWS "TOUGH LOVE" AND NEW MLM IS NOT OKAY

[@cristyhenson4750]

This toxic positivity in light of chronic pain is extremely damaging. People with chronic pain often slip into depression and anxiety and having someone tell them "just think yourself into the mindset you want to be in" and override how you physically feel is just another reason for someone with chronic pain to feel depressed and anxious when IT DOES NOT WORK. What she is saying is very invalidating of the experience of someone with chronic pain.

[@tash4270]

👆🏽 big this!!!

[@divatemple2245]

Agreed!

[@nancycoleman4316]

Have heard this tough love bull💩from top leaders in BODi. All it does is make me want to shut down! It’s not an effective tactic at all! 5 kids in sports, a baby, pets, multi businesses.She’s giving herself a pep talk and transferring all her thoughts and insecurities onto her followers. Good for you Bri!!! You do you boo!!

[@kathycharlton4351]

@@cristyhenson4750 this is a great point

[@kathycharlton4351]

@@nancycoleman4316 true! Also, she probably has the means to hire help

[@rachapach6192]

I think a prerequisite for being a boss babe is you have to be able to turn into a motivational speaker. They all turn into Tony Robbins once they turn that camera on.

[@leecremeans5446]

It just breaks my heart seeing these boss babes yelling at their phones while their kids are like "Mommy! Mommy!" in the background.

[@kbird6208]

This business gives me time with my family! Quiet, kid, Mommy's giving tough love to strangers right now.

[@lmsmith015]

"Ozempic alternative" is a direct violation of FDA guidelines. They're specifically not allowed to say something is an alternative or substitute for a certain medication.

[@MegaChadAnakin]

Let me guess "tough love"= pressuring my downline into feeling bad so they make me more money ?

[@caoimhenimhuireadhaigh1303]

As someone with chronic daily migraines, the worst thing I could do for said migraines is to push myself. Rest and time are the only things that'll help 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not all chronic illnesses are the same, for example I've heard that certain types of arthritis are improved by exercising through the pain, but you should generally only push through your symptoms if it's advised by your medical team

[@HannahTheHorrible]

“I don’t usually swear, but eff that!” Girl that is also not swearing. 😂😂😂

[@kittenandgoat]

This makes me so mad! That is the worst advice for someone with chronic health limitations. It is so hard to keep going with even every day life - bullying yourself into over doing things when you should be pacing and resting will make you so much worse in the long run. It's a cruel way to treat other people.

[@annetteellis2788]

Pushing yourself to work out no matter how you feel is IMHO a sign that you’re addicted to it or you’re doing it out of vanity and not a desire to be healthy.

[@TaylorX3]

I'm not an "everything is the devil" type of Christian but something about working out through pain and joining a business that has a 98% chance of not being worth your time and effort feels like devil work to me.

[@Irrlichtwinter]

It's really unsettling for me how she explicitly is including (her fellow) chronically ill/ chronic pain suffering people in her "tough love". Especially as a person with a disability/ chronic condition, we need to learn how to prioritise and how to pace ourselves. Down the road of "I can override my body with positivity" lies burnout and a worsened condition for many of us. I am disabled & chronically ill, and this whole "you just need to act as if you are healthy, and you will become healthy" mindset is sickeningly pervasive. Many of us end up internalising it, and end up in toxic cycles. I'm still trying to heal from that mindset, myself. I don't want to spend my life going from burnout into "now that I feel good, I need to perform 100%", and right back to burnout. MLM targets people like us, because we are vulnerable, and then heaps on the shame and toxic mindset. Bree is a victim, yes, but she is also a perpetrator, and the toxic productivity mindset she spews will cause damage if not questioned.

[@livesouthernable]

This woman telling chronically ill women to “suck it up and show up,” so SHE can glut herself on their labors, is just gross. The people she’s shaming aren’t even going to earn any money from their efforts

[@ellie-rosie]

She's saying "I get it!" while also telling people with chronic pain/chronic illness to just "get over it" is absolutely unhinged. I don't know what she thinks she gets, but it isn't IT.

[@jodieblack6829]

Not all chronic illnesses are the same either. My sister and I both have pots but our flare ups are different. This method of pushing is dangerous for her to be saying.

[@youknowit4441]

As a chronically ill human, this is a joke and a nightmare 💀🤣

[@helenr4300]

Aha! If only I had known; all my stresses can be gone if only I claim each day as a 'great day'.

[@greatape8019]

the whole part where she was yapping about "choosing to show up" just pisses me off. is she implying that people who cannot "show up" (e.g. people with depression) are just lazy? jeez this woman is on such a high horse that she needs a pilots license.

[@stephanieefany]

She's just got her phone awkwardly on the kitchen bench and she's shrimping herself over to be in frame. Ma'am, get a tripod and sit down.

[@G-L-O-R-I-A]

When she was trying to force her followers to have a good day, my mind went to a day a couple months ago when we lost our dear dog to cancer. Then she literally said she didn’t care if your dog is sick, just have a good day. What a disgusting self-serving way to stop your downline from feeling normal human emotions, just so they can be in the hustle “mindset” to make you money. Gross.

[@G-L-O-R-I-A]

Also, as a first grade teacher, I can tell you that the scientifically proven method to get your followers (for me my students) to do what you want them to do (learn) is to acknowledge every step in the right direction while nonchalantly correcting missteps. The whole scolding thing doesn’t build relationships or really inspire. Maybe her holier than thou attitude is inspiring some very mentally vulnerable people, but it’s not a sustainable solution.

[@chucklehead.smitty]

Not the calendar and sharpie. Preach JJ!

[@annea.4173]

I swear KZbin has its own sense of humor. Hun Bot: You need to hear something. KZbin: *smash cuts to Wayfair commercial*

[@juliejo]

@@annea.4173 HAHAH GOOD! Show the anti mlm people mlm ads 😂

[@heygracevlogs]

I am so glad I left Make Wellness when I did!

[@juliejo]

@@heygracevlogs congrats!!!

[@Jason-ie1pg]

19:13 Wait so she is basically saying that you should gaslight yourself into believing something that just isn’t true so you keep on ignoring what is wrong with you until whatever is going on with you will run you over at some point and basically force you to rest and it will NOT be nice. And gaslighting yourself into believing that you are successful and screwing over other people is totally alright because you are "helping them" in one way or another is just messed up. The mental gymnastics this women is willing to do is astounding.

[@Randoplants]

I pushed through everything too - straight into several nervous breakdowns. Sometimes you feel tired and miserable because you need to rest and deal with your problems. It’s way, way less costly to allow yourself to rest if you can than to push yourself until you can’t anymore. This lady certainly isn’t going to help you when you reach that point.

[@kbird6208]

Same!

[@Rachel-zk6fp]

She did come out and say that she was too stressed being the sole provider and that her husband went back to work to help financially…basically cause she not making enough on her scams. Her engagement has dropped a ton too 😌

[@tflipt71]

Fascinating how these folks can look into their phone and just rant and rant and rant. And it’s the same vomit that every self help book teaches. Literally, every one! Such a turn off !! 🤦‍♂️ Plus, I think she’s trying to convince herself of all this. Seems pretty desperate to me.

[@ABeautfulMess]

I own a floral shop and at our monthly meetings I don't feel the need be Joel Olsteen. I go over the monthly plans, holidays, ect..why do they do this you can do more, you can do anything

[@sg1fannz]

they don't want people to give up because then they have to find other people so they gaslight people by saying this positive rubbish. People leave because they find its hard work trying to find people to join and use the products, You may get a few first try the products, but do they keep buying? The products are expensive. People join then find they are not comfortable selling overpriced stuff and trying to make their friends join. Allow people to change their minds. We all can try something then decide its not for us so don't gaslight us with what we hoped to accomplish at the start. Not everyone wants to be a salesman. Not everyone is comfortable asking people to join and avoid the question how are you doing in the business? What is your success so far? Because people leave it doesn't give you the right to gaslight them on the way out because you need to find someone else for your success

[@jennifersandahl4603]

Honey, you tell your kiddos, “let’s find a way to make that happen for you” and you teach them to do odd jobs for family and friends or you get your tush out there to make the cash they’ll need to get to do that sport. There’s also scholarships and payment plans that they’ll do. What a load of bs in a long line of bs messaging these huns spew

[@cassolmedia]

God i cant stand this abelist bs! Omg youre right! Suddenly my kidneys arent shutting down and this dialysis didnt sap all my energy! I have the same 24hrs as everyone else! 🙄

[@reinelantz3304]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Chewy_and_rascal]

I don’t like her. That’s the nicest thing I can say.

[@kathycharlton4351]

Unfair to shame those who can’t be a yes mom!!! Can you promise that mom that if she “shows” up to this business-they will be able to be a yes mom

[@nikki_justine]

I literally laughed out loud when you said some people put other things before scams! 😂😂😂

[@Cloudymoon916]

I can tell she's super happy by the way she said "today is going to be a good day" 75 times in 30 minutes.

[@rootintobeing]

13:16 All I hear is "Everything's the devil, Mama!!" 😂

[@Carminec2]

There are ppl who CANNOT get up and put their leggings on and go for a run! HOW DARE SHE. And I’m going to say it…i question her chronic pain, in my opinion. She would be more empathetic also in my opinion.

[@missingmimic]

But she says you just need to claim it 🙄 😢😅

[@jsc9000]

Chronic pain mgt requires you to believe that pushing through pain because it is a learnt response/pain pathway not a sign that you are damaging your body. Sadly I bought into this & in addition to my back/nerve pain I also had ME/CFS where pushing through is dangerous and can cause permanent decline in capacity. Despite successful fusion surgery I got sicker & have been virtually bedbound for 10years. It also took solid 5yrs to get diagnosed. Toxic mentality. Dangerous & exploitative.

[@kaw8473]

8:16 that wasn’t cult speak at all, I feel so motivated.

[@juliejo]

@@kaw8473 the sarcasm is seeping, isn’t it? ISNT IT??

[@kaw8473]

​@juliejo It was difficult but I got through her video. I feel bad for her kids because she is going to burn them out with cult motivation.

[@stephaniehuthmacher4214]

"Claim it! It's going to be a good day!" Oh man, I wish I'd know years ago that's all I had to do! (face palm)

[@Alioop1217]

I have abs now, but it took doing abs every day for a solid year to see those kind of results.

[@Maguire708Julie]

I’m thankfully not in chronic pain, but I can no longer walk… she stuff her positivity up her butt!

[@lucydawson1344]

She actually sounds very desperate. It wouldn’t surprise me if she’s not doing very well anyway. There’s definitely a connection to chronic illness flares and stress and no doubt she’s got her up lines stressing her out too

[@gmessec732]

26:06 A 360? So you want to make changes and be back to where you started? I think the phrase is a 180...

[@d3pr0fundis]

For someone who doesn’t let her chronic pain get in the way, she sure does mention it A LOT.

[@bahena735]

21:25 Actually, it's counterproductive to be a "yes" mom. It's actually healthy to say no to your kids. wtf

[@jessiedarrelljarbadan7326]

Wait… so speaking about your struggles is “preaching them into existence “…? Wow.

[@rebeccamueller8790]

She posts pics of luxury cars and stuff that isn't even hers 🥴 I live in the same town as her and she pops up on my explore page and someone I know does her hair so I think that's why I have to see her BS. Calling people haters all the time, but really, maybe listen to the haters, they have a point. This is embarrassing shit girl

[@He11o_Bitty]

33:17 Can she please pay attention to her kids?!

[@iamrachelmitchell]

Omg that Dad Bod to the 6 pack pics…. I can not abide!!! 🙅🏼‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️

[@Veggieblondie]

Maam pay attention to your children and stop yelling on the internet

[@nikki_justine]

Breeeee; your sick dog according to you should just get off that floor napping while sick and push through!!!!

[@Rachel-zk6fp]

Which is basically what she did…that poor dog suffered and died cause she was too selfish to end it’s suffering

[@nikki_justine]

@ the dog died!? So she’s making live videos, working out, shaking shakes and talking a big game about doing all the things; while her dog is just dying on the floor!? WTF

[@nikki_justine]

Did this chick just tell a person with chronic illness to “RUN”! Breeeeeee; on one of your “bad days” please do a live of you running so we can see how exactly that goes for you. Don’t preach running when it’s clear off of your own personal rant that you are not, yourself running on your “bad days”

[@carinwinkelman419]

I find it hilarious and sad at the same time that these boss babes honestly think we want to be like them and have their lifestyle. No thank you, I've got better things to do.

[@kathycharlton4351]

As a teacher-not a good philosophy to be a yes mom

[@DoodlesHearts]

How inspiring of a speech telling people to join an MLM in order to basically get exploited, and to exploit others :) This "tough love" bs she's spewing is disgusting :(

[@vapiddreamscape]

Julie your intro/outro gets stuck in my head constantly

[@KelD-tb8ji]

Notice how she never once mentioned the product except to say the flavor she was drinking?

[@erinfindsen4953]

27:13 we just got to the reason she’s doing this. People didn’t show up for an opportunity call. Boom.

[@CholeyCannoli]

Why did we all go to church camp with this girl for at least one year of our lives?

[@ABeautfulMess]

I have Bipolar so my brain ain't that great..😂😂

[@greatape8019]

as someone with ptsd, my brain isnt great either. its a struggling lump of nerves lmfao

[@reinelantz3304]

@@greatape8019🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@reinelantz3304]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@kbird6208]

Wow, that's a mighty big pep talk to be about joining a pyramid scheme.

[@RiverSkye.Reseter]

Even other stay at home moms don't have the same time she has.

[@elisa-beary]

Where is the milkshake candle from JJ? It’s beautiful!! I’d love to get one for my baby sissy for Xmas, especially if it’s scented!!!🩷🩷🩷

[@melissaquinney800]

Her TED talking needs to put a sock in it… good Lord, make it stop!

[@letsalltakeawalk6906]

This idea of being a "yes mom" is very common and I understand where it's coming from but mmm. . .even people making huge salaries who should be debt free overspend beyond their means trying to never say no to their kids. You don't have to be a yes mom. It's great to be able to have your kids do activities and support their interests financially, but you need to heal, be future minded, and have rules and boundaries or else no matter how much you make you'll keep feeling that guilt and keep coming to the end of the rope.

[@NoProHarrie]

This makes me sad Dadbod for life

[@tash4270]

The calendar 😂 ily

[@tash4270]

Just pointing out other hypocrisies buuut, how come the man got shredded in "16 days" and the woman "only" lost 6 pounds? 😂also all she's doing is standing differently, you can literally see her hunching your shoulders forward

[@shanibob5466]

how much shaking does that smoothie need?

[@HolldollMcG]

If someone gives you an "excuse," it's really just a "no, go fuck yourself" but more polite. Take the hint, and leave people alone.

[@HolldollMcG]

Pain is the body's alarm system. If you hurt, damage has been done. Sometimes that damage is acceptable, like a needle piercing skin so you can get a vaccine, or stitches being sore post surgery. Or muscles being sore after a workout. The damage is an inevitable part of achieving a greater good. But unknown pain is a big red flag. Get professional, competent medical help.

[@lorifluellen]

What company was she in before make wellness has

[@lorifluellen]

What company was she in before make wellness

[@pookieplans2230]

She left Beachbody for Modere and recently left Modere for Make Wellness. 🙄

[@amycnews1593]

🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@LT_89]

What’s up w the random southern accent she uses?

[@juliejo]

@@LT_89 me? I’m from yeehaw Texas and sometimes I pops out.