Model SHAMED For Apologizing - Because She’s A WOMAN | ep 5

[@spit_milk]

I hate that the narrative of women being overly apologetic has become another method of policing women. Of course women shouldn't feel uncomfortable with advocating for themselves or simply existing in man-dominated situations, but it's perfectly reasonable to say "I'm sorry" for making a mistake.

[@jadebel7006]

If u want to ppl to let u do you and you be you.. let them be them

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Okay, but we do say it way too often, do you have a man close to you in your life? Pay attention for the next year and listen to how often they apologize without being prompted. Women automatically say I’m sorry. Men, it will take them days to apologize. Both men and women need to balance out their apologies. Because it shouldn’t take so long to apologize and it also shouldn’t be a reflex when it isn’t something they should even be saying I’m sorry over. So often, women apologize for OTHER peoples emotions. You annoy your husband because you are communicating necessary information “I’m sorry”. NO! He needs to give her time and even be the one trying to connect to get that necessary daily information/communication, and she shouldn’t be apologizing for doing something that both people should be actively doing. And if he is always going to act annoyed, then he needs to decide a time that works each day and communicate/discuss and come to an agreement both people are satisfied with together, this is just one example..but I could give you THOUSANDS of examples in which women automatically apologize when they shouldn’t be. And it doesn’t just happen with men, it happens with other women. Instead, we should be hearing from people “don’t apologize..you don’t need to apologize, I’m sorry I’m just in pain/tired/it was me.” That is what my man does, he apologizes every singles time I apologize when I shouldn’t be because generally I am reacting to something that wasn’t personal. As a result, I apologize a lot less often now and have more confidence within myself and I’m able to let more people’s feelings/reactions go and not take them on personally.

[@novapark5788]

​@@TheKatarinaGiselle But that's a separate conversation tho. She was literally just being polite because she put her leg on him. That's all it was. But Cindy made her feel bad for just being polite. I also apologise too much but that doesn't mean I should abandon basic manners. It's just in poor taste imo. Feminism isn't forcing people into what a specific person's idea of feminism is. It's embracing and uplifting everyone. She stepped on a possibly expensive outfit and apologised. Why should she feel bad about that? This whole show the girls are being put down and dragged and her saying sorry for something reasonable as this is what Cindy is concerned about? Come on now

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@ no, I agree with you on the situation within the video. I hadn’t even watched it before commenting. I as speaking generally. I also agree with you with your thought on feminism. I don’t agree with the new age bullshit. This show is just as bad as ANTM!

[@PrincessPuff]

So she has trauma regarding apologies... and these judges with NO psychology degree think they can say "Oh just channel this into your photoshoots!" like this isn't some inner strength you'll just find in 2 seconds because some emotionally manipulative reality TV personalities in a position of power said so.

[@ravaogg9839]

As a person who tends to over-apologize (I´m working on it) - this was so weird to watch! She was afraid she physicaly hurt someone, so she apologized, normal human reaction. And they made a drama out of it. This is too much.

[@bethika643]

I agree. I'm also an over-apologizer. This seems like a normal time to apologize though instead of it being unnecessary. I just don't think this is the best example of a time someone shouldn't apologize

[@mysadending]

The whole "sorry" thing is so dumb. I would be apologizing too if I put my dirty heels that I been walking around for hours in on a probably ridiculously expensive costume. You can tell it was a very production move considering her past drama.

[@alkemistes]

Whenever Jessica satirizes situations with the squirrel voice effect 🤣🤣I can never get enough of that 😂

[@fireflyfox93]

She just wanted to make sure she wasn't accidentally being disrespectful 🤦‍♀️ That's so annoying!

[@Omgwhatisthat42]

The world would be better if MORE people said sorry

[@CarboneCat]

Oh no! Not Yu Tsai! These poor girls are in so much trouble.

[@ThereAlright]

This photographer! What a horrible guy to work with. If that was a normal photoshoot, he would've been fired! I can't imagine talking to anybody like this, especially in the professional setting.

[@kztwitter]

saying sorry doesnt make you less of a woman. not saying tho can make you less of a human

[@FlyboyJonathanLover]

Women are normally quick to apologize for a comment related to self-esteem or fear of authority. Accidentally running into someone warrants an apology REGARDLESS of gender. That's so lame. I'm all for encouraging women to stand up for themselves, but this wasn't the moment to assert that.

[@Jalil-wx7rh]

Cindy's been hurt too much in her life. Yeah, I said it.

[@leslieconnly8415]

Cindy's one liner "tips" just makes me think of bad fortune cookie papers

[@legsnhipsnbawdy]

Nothing wrong with apologizing if you genuinely think you hurt someone! The dancer is not a prop, it's nice that the model realized she might have hurt him. If she had caused him pain and then only said "it was nice working with you", I would think that's very rude. If Cindy had to say something, this could have been a teaching moment about how to interact with someone else BEFORE doing something. I don't think the model did anything wrong, but if the model was concerned, asking before can give both of them reassurance that the touching is okay. Cindy should be encouraging and modeling consent in photoshoots.

[@elchamo8849]

I know people exactly like Yu Tsai and all I can say is that people like him are the epitome of a walking migraine. I remember you saying in an old video that he was that bad that he makes Mr Jay look like a saint, is that something you still stand by? Also I do feel bad for the model who’s been told not to apologize so much, I’ve been told the same thing by not to apologize so much

[@AKMackle]

Her catching her say sorry was gold at the elimination 😂 that literally over my head "say thank you"

[@febartquibo559]

I do have a suggestion for you to watch. One episode from AsNTM Season 4 wherein the Subaru client yelled at the model for rolling her eyes before the photoshoot, and Cindy was pushing or forcing another model to be eliminated from the competition because she doesn't have a passion for modelling. Hehehe I'm looking forward to your reaction video on this episode.

[@manusiasejahtera4282]

Been asking Jessica for it since monthssss ago, but she hasn't done it... yet😢

[@sanu-t1x]

You know the photographer was also on germanys top model. A German version of the show with Heidi Klum. and he messed with a model there and was disrespectful to her. Her Name was maraike. In her photoshoot he said to her that she looked and Pose like a girl from the red light district. When she found out about it, she told him that he could criticize it more nicely and not compare her to something like that. he was so pissed that she had said something against him and described her as unprofessional and that she would not accept criticism. He was so rude

[@thormowantssome]

Yu Tsai has always been an awful photographer for this shows, like, he just goes and created drama for no reason 24/7 and then when people dish it back at him, he can never take it

[@davidhartono24]

Wait, in which episode and which season Yu Tsai on German Next Top Model photoshoot?

[@sanu-t1x]

​@@davidhartono24it was in gntm 2020.

[@AndikaPutra-x4g]

this episode they did dirty to Zeline. One of the panelist obviously saying that she outshine the show which it was the theme and turns out Zeline in the middle position almost on the bottom. This show is sick. Very biased towards some particular models.

[@anniej5205]

As a Canadian woman, I'm sorry, but I do apologize a lot!😂

[@farisn9915]

"Oh Nooo" oh SAME

[@MrCheesecake1928]

They did Zeline dirty! She rocked iiiiiit!

[@shawnadennis613]

I’m glad you’re back with another ANTM video! These are my favorite videos! ❤

[@afrosamuraiwarrior]

It's *not* another ANTM video!

[@here2_fangirl]

Uh? This is as terrible as ANTM but it's not that show, unfortunately they keep producing this type of fever dreams

[@antonmedvedev1128]

To be honest? These shots look amateur 😮 I can claim that because I am one of those Vogue obsessed heads who literally studies photos in the magazine and these ones are a far cry from being high fashion shots, they just toyed with the concept but did not really get there 🤯

[@microwave7512]

I said sorry when I bought the gold watering can in Stardew Valley from all the money my husband saved up from the mines. I wasn't sorry.

[@ridgeromero2633]

i wish you can also do a commentary abt asia's next top model coz everyone in asia loves that show and i just want you to hear your comments on how yu tsai and cindy direct the girls

[@manusiasejahtera4282]

Yeah, we all would love to see it. Please Jessica reacts to Asia's Next Top Model😢

[@meganh4011]

The lighting is atrocious way too harsh. Maybe if they were modeling like a circus type vibe, but this is supposed to be elegant and cultural. It looks a bit too at the club.

[@whatta3188]

How the hell she was supposed to channel that emotion into photoshoot, when it was over and the apology was after? I have no comments, since I don't even understand their answer to her story. Some non-logical sh*t. This Cindy woman seems a little bit not very intelligent to me, I have no idea why. Just trying to look like some pro who knows all. I never even heard of her.. :D

[@here2_fangirl]

Cindy's idea of feminism doesn't let true feminism to shine and empower all kinds and its sad to watch because she's bringing down woman in her try to make them like her

[@essgee621]

Jessica thinking they're rigging it against Hannah when she was the one they pushed all season lmao

[@harve8643]

Fr fr. It should be zeline taking her position instead. heck, even Isabelle is better than her performance wise

[@ckilbarger01]

If this was ANTM, they would have given them an hour to learn a full routine in order to watch them fumble through it and then do the photoshoot so good on them for not doing that lol

[@daffke1185]

I always apoligize when i make a mistake or when i said or did something wrong and my son and partner are doing the same thing it's a sign of respect not a sign that people are weak. About the show : I like some parts , the culture, the models are amazing , the woman that coached them the previous episode,... i don't like some things they say, that they pit the woman against eachother and that they eliminate them on a screen. I enjoyed the video thankyou ❤

[@andafasaisai]

Commented as a Thai peep (for those who may not know, Cindy, the host, based in Thailand): cindy had kinda specific concept of feminism ngl. While she encouraged people to "dont tell me how to dress" (as she was an s.harrassment victim), she made a tiktok a couple years ago saying that ladies should be at board meeting or anywhere else except stay at home as a housekeepers. I might be bad at wording but yea, she did not prefer the idea of voluntarily stay-at-home women as much as trad wives... (Mind you that, again, it was a couple years ago)

[@nellrose4699]

I agree with that. The onky way women can have equality is if we no longer have babies. Or find a way to make men get pregnant too. Being a housewife should never be something women should have to do.

[@ckilbarger01]

With the way it was edited, I feel like the opera guy said something first, almost like they were having a playful, positive interaction but Cindy just needed to be the drama

[@TenderKiss86]

OMG! I love you! You have me cracking up 🤣🤣🤣

[@davidhartono24]

The comments during photoshoot, literally very ANTM Gaslighting, criticism, made the models not performing well.

[@baoyenaj5186]

Yu Tsai is just a bully, that feels good by putting other people down. These young women are so professional and try their hardest and they get this shitshow

[@jbonceu2457]

29:20 Lol you clocked cindy😂

[@Jalil-wx7rh]

Love the blazer you're wearing, Jessica! ❤

[@joshjoshuchan1140]

horrayyyy new episode love this reaction videos btw next 2 episode its going to be high fashion

[@yammmyammm6828]

AFTER THIS SEASON PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE WATCH *ASIA'S NEXT TOP MODEL FROM SEASON 1 TO 6* PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEEEEEEE!!!! THANKS

[@Jspark18]

Just a heads up I got a notification and this show is leaving Netflix soon 👀.

[@jessrey.dahmer]

Cindy was recently a guest on Dragrace Thailand, and was just as horrid to some of the contestants.

[@AnaFox]

Cindy “look within” 😂 so true though. Also, if this man’s photography was as sharp as his meanness, maybe he would have less to complain about.

[@catherinethecatlike]

Oh Yu Tsai… You sigh, I sigh, they sigh, we sigh.

[@nellrose4699]

I think the real problem is why the man felt the need to point out that she'd hurt his leg. I agree with Cindy

[@AK12king]

16:37 THIS!!

[@michelleanderson7828]

I love your commentary 😂

[@manusiasejahtera4282]

Now Please react to Asia's Next Top Model Cycle 1, Jessica. We beg😢🙏

[@RockSomething]

cindy is just too annoying .....

[@Spanish101class]

please react to the episode where they put them to do high intense workout

[@rachzainhass]

I am a woman who has three sisters and a mother. I can count in my life how much the have apologized to me😂😂😂 But seriously she was talking about her trauma of not apologizing to her father before he died and now she trying unlearn this feminist bs and the judge is yelling on her please

[@manonvo8615]

Nothing they said made any sense... I could get mad at everything they said omg. Cindy and Yu Tsai are so mean and annoying

[@Potato-Hobbit]

I need you to do a message for my voice mail. "I might be home but did you think I'd answer the phone? Really guys? I disagree with that. If you really want to talk to me I'm going to need you to send an email. You know? Type it out? Do you know what email is? Do you know what mail is? Carrier pigeon? What's that ... morse code? Do you know morse code? This voice mail message was sponsored by Squarespace."

[@faborfavah]

I think you gonna have to watch other episode it's much cooler than the first 5 episode.. But really I love your comments avout the show really. Hahaha

[@terrylibratv1470]

These photos are just TACKY to the max. Like the photos that you take when you having a vacation tour with your friends in a temple then you pose with the props that they provide with the talent standby in the photobooth 😅😅😅😂😂😂 I can't see where the high fashion point in every single shot they take. Maybe if I had to choose only Zeline that came closer with the high fashion concept.

[@faborfavah]

Yeah they already decide who's gonna go home and it doesnt have any sense whybthey have to have plea and throwing each other on the bus..?? Hahaha

[@UltimateValentine]

23:35 when the problem asks what the problem was

[@aiesyahsyahirah4717]

It’s not a woman thing to apologise..it’s the asian thing…we always apologise..

[@intothemystic5223]

How did they manage to turn a really cool set into what looks like a cheap backdrop in the photos???

[@jacobcollins8649]

For me, I feel the contrast is too high and it's a tad too dark. I was excited but the darkness of the photo makes it looks like a cut out magazine collage.

[@jbonceu2457]

oh you are IN for a ride the toxicity of this show will be much MUCH worse now that Yu tsai's here!

[@gerry8381]

please comment on the next episode where Zeline angry because she's got best picture this week and they still put her in the middle

[@ultimatecolossus]

I’m sure you are too traumatized to watch more, but there are 3 more seasons of this show on ROKU for free viewing 😂

[@Shinchan57586]

I always wonder whenever the judge or someone become so mean in a reality show do they forget they are being flimed because there is way to be mean but have a valid point but when you just be mean for no reason your are just asking to people hquestion so the photo guy being too mean knows that by this attitude he not gonna have a career after that its like so obvious that he is paid to be mean but at what cost thats the question

[@damekkoDark]

I hate the lights

[@ArtemisPearl]

As a photographer negging your models is NOT a good strategy to get great photos

[@PawLet_144]

No apologies necessary 😂

[@UtamagUta]

I don't like the concept of the shoot - models blend with a background too much. Models are literally difficult to distinguish from the red boxes

[@emotionalfly1201]

i had to fast forward through the ranting.... girl, we got you the first time. You skipped Quynh Ahn's photo because you had to insert another clip of you going over the same topic again and again.

[@telaxonu]

I think the photo contrast needs to be turned down. Im thinking more of a vintage chinese opera photos style if you know what i mean

[@cassieleigh7400]

You look so much like Stephanie Arcila the actress. Both beautiful!

[@animefan25]

Do you have access to a channel called Vice? If so, they are airing a documentary on Top Model for their "Dark Side of Reality TV" series.

[@jimjimgl3]

I'm here for any one who can apologize... And Yu Tsai is certainly a successful photographer but for me his work is flat. I just went to his website and it blends in together...

[@jeffrivera3612]

We want more ANTM videos 😅😅

[@Robert-zv4qu]

Its wreak havoc

[@faborfavah]

I thought that I am onlybthe one who notice the editing of photography, hahaha

[@alfianakrama7888]

I wanna be friend with you... you are so funny

[@jmurdock8303]

I know I know

[@earl.c]

(spoiler) Jessica, you will love Hannah’s subplot with Yu Tsai

[@b3ckalaw]

waitt..... did she not show Yu Tsai's photo??? :,(

[@jeannesouthward4482]

Personally, I love your narratives of Supermodel me! I can't wait for the next one! You're too funny! Have watched your ANTM narratives and enjoy all of them! Keep doing you!

[@stylersswiftie2322]

I’m convinced this reactor has this unbearing hatred towards nikki like- Even tho she’s doing well she would say it’s bad yadiyadida

[@21tmitch]

you didn't even mention that the antm connection in this episode outright. Are you unable to talk about them anymore? Noticed you haven't been reacting to those episodes either

[@maru-kun4894]

I'm really confused why you don't know a lot of pro photographer when you're a photographer urself 😅

[@hindachris8768]

Maybe he's not that pro 😜 as in yu tsai n.n