Modern Pick Me Girls are Built Diff

[@iminyourwalls03]

the way the first girl was like “i don’t like the way she was showing off her butt” she wasn’t showing off?? like my girl wasn’t walking around the gym in a thong, she was just wearing leggings, which almost every woman wears to the gym

[@angelic_cat_for_life]

They weren’t even see through. Girl was doing everything to not show off. Let a girl walk on a treadmill in peace

[@iminyourwalls03]

@@angelic_cat_for_life right. and if she has an issue abt people getting stuff done to their body, keep that shit to yourself and people close to you?😭

[@zhisu2665]

and her butt would show off no matter what she was wearing. thats just how clothes and larger bodies parts work

[@kupcakez]

People like her think just existing in a space is showing off. It's terribly misogynistic. Let people exist! 😭

[@salt907]

its people like the first girl that are the reason I get dress coded at my school for my FLAT ass wearing leggings to school thinking I was sticking my GYATT out 😭

[@TheBookWormhole]

First girl was literally just EXISTING in public and that pick me had to film her and publicly shame her for her body. Make it make sense.

[@becauseimmissy_]

LITERLLY!! She was walking at the gym!!

[@queenofbeinghungryaf1025]

Exactly and she said that that girl's body made her feel uncomfortable because her bottoms were moving(which is normal because bigger butts tend to move more)while she was on a treadmill??? Like duh it will move. She is literally objectifying her and saying that the girl should hide her body to accommodate her. And you can't even argue that the other girl is showing off or being inappropriate,she is wearing long pants,not filming herself and not shoving her butt in other people's faces. I swear people want women who are curvy(whether natural or with surgery) to keep their bodies so that others aren't bothered by the curves. Like that's not how it works. If someone's body just existing (without being nude of course)bothers you,then you are the problem.

[@mani-ei5kq]

right and the way she tried to spin it to make it sound like the woman she filmed was "showing off" and she felt uncomfortable when she was just existing is ridiculous. especially considering that's the excuse almost every s@er uses. "she was showing off her body anyway so she must have wanted it" like girl you can just not look its not that deep. ur at the gym, work out.

[@Impiloiscam]

She wasn't even naked and advertising 😭

[@Nonyanomo]

That insane shame of other is prolly why she felt she needed a bbl in the first place. 💀 Not saying that's the reason why she got a bbl(she could have just wanted one.) but a lot of plastic surgeries and body mods r built off of insecurities made by men and woman beating each other down along with that BBLS are incredibly life threatening. Risking ur life to mke your booty big is a lot of commitment.

[@groinBlaster31]

"natural face, natural lips" was incredibly uncomfortable to watch

[@NanaNaima1]

Right, who are you showing off too the men on the dark web looking for their next human made sex doll

[@futuristicgirl14]

Her saying “autonomy” killed me

[@futuristicgirl14]

Her using “autonomy” instead of anatomy killed me

[@antlerdeer]

she was clearly wearing lipgloss too??? like okay girlie. you're not special. be nice to other women and maybe you'll be happy for once😭

[@becauseimmissy_]

She literally went through her whole face the video was like 5 min long lol idk what she thought we were all going to say

[@Jordè1222]

I'm a recovering pick me 😅 it comes from low self esteem. I notice everything impulse I have to say something negative to my husband about a pretty girl. I've now started complementing pretty girls out loud and it is refreshing not being a horrible witch. Edit- y'all are too kind, ty❤

[@imdani4997]

Proud of you 💪 It's never too late to become a better person

[@ghoot]

heyy honestly congrats I hope your path becomes easier (:

[@ghoot]

also remember that sometimes this isn't only about beauty and you may find yourself comparing to a girl you deem unattractive simply because they receive more attention for having an interesting talent, or ability, or behavior. self esteem is about more than your appearance, and acknowledging that is important to grow and mature. keep informing yourself and you will find more peace in your life xD

[@becauseimmissy_]

Omg same. I realized i attract so much better friends and partner when i admit im a basic bihh

[@Seraphina.Is.]

That’s the fun about being bisexual lol. I tell my husband how cute she is or with my insecurities I’m like “ugh she’s so beautiful, I hate that b!tch” 😅 I’ll get over that one day

[@annak.9483]

the blond girl in the make-up video is such a mood, rolling her eyes

[@alyssapinon9670]

For real. I would have brought out the make up wipes at that point

[@becauseimmissy_]

Shes literally me

[@adamlambboy8332]

Fr, that other girl clearly has mascara on. She ain’t natural either 😂

[@dr.zuzykitsune]

A guy friend sent me that video of the girl at 3:56 (the I don't like make up girl) and I'm like if she doesn't like it, why is she wearing it?? And he was so confused and I explained to him all the make up she has on and he was like woah, how can you tell? MEN CANT TELL WHAT MAKE UP LOOKS LIKE IF IT'S NATURAL LOOOL

[@wolfsmaid6815]

well, if someone has really nice skin/brows/lips then it is often assumed they wear "natural" makeup. I get asked about where I get my lip fillers and brows done a lot by other women, but it was just a genetic blessing.

[@becauseimmissy_]

Im pretty sure she has foundation and mascara on as well but didnt want to accuse her since idk for sure but girl to girl, she was definitely wearing makeup

[@Morepanthers]

A guy friend called all mad because his date looked different from her profile pic in a cute goodnight selfie she sent. Like yeah dude, she took her make up off. Did you think she naturally had huge eyelashes and green lids??

[@tinanana-]

@@wolfsmaid6815true, but she was definitely wearing makeup. It’s not wrong to wear makeup…unless you’re shaming others for wearing it.

[@wolfsmaid6815]

@@tinanana- agreed. Honestly makeup is a matter of personal taste and what seems "too much" for one person can be totally normal for another. I used to be a goth for 10 years and have worn some pretty egregious makeup in the past, and I wouldn´t want to judge someone for doing the same.^^

[@paigew1311]

My sister in law will tell anyone who will listen about how she only listens to Norwegian heavy metal because pop music is just women competing to see how fast they can take their clothes off. Oh and how some women actually *like* cooking for their man. Like, go off sis but who fucking asked?

[@dr.zuzykitsune]

@@paigew1311 I mean I like cooking for my man but that’s cuz I like cooking for people I care about but it doesn’t have to be said by putting other people down. But serious question, does she have a man to cook for? 😂 Like I noticed the pick me types never (or rarely) get picked

[@denizkaragullu6239]

There are so many like SO MANY subgenres of pop. This woman is showing how little she knows about music while trying to show off her music taste lol. That's kinda sad

[@GlamGoth7]

Ah yes, the only two music genres

[@becauseimmissy_]

This was me in my pick me phase lol

[@lulukulu5489]

She does have some points tho, zoomer era of music is just trying to teach girls they cant truly succeed in music unless they take their clothes off, even Janelle Moned had to do it in the end to get recognition

[@user-my8ll6lw4q]

woman: "i think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and i think i am beautiful. you're asking me to rate myself and that's how i would rate myself." podcaster: "have you asked a million men? if not, you're not really a 10." major difference between the self-awareness that everyone has different opinions, and vanity. podcasters and men like these sit with their ego in the clouds because proving women wrong gives them a mental orgasm.

[@lillyrose6568]

This is wonderfully written!

[@Whatisthisgremlin]

Let’s not forget how they called her “delusional” after she said people need to love themself 💀 like those people just hate female w/ confidence

[@shimpiyaa]

Like why tf should I care about a million stranger's opinion ??

[@AliCatDarling]

Also, it's very much "you're a woman, your opinion doesn't matter, ask a man, his opinion matters."

[@juhimishra5759]

Thats exactly what it is​@@AliCatDarling

[@BassSavvy]

Ughhh guys im not like other girls 🥺 I pee standing up 🥺

[@francescapatti2934]

Ok but that is legit an upgrade 😂 Like I hate having to squat over gross ass toilets🤢

[@ereh31]

teach us your ways😭🙏

[@queenofbeinghungryaf1025]

Honestly that's a boss move especially if you are able to do so without dirtying yourself.

[@beautifullEternal]

@@ereh31shove the downstairs lips to the side. If you give a hard stream, you can aim. Practice in the shower I guess 😂

[@Wallflowerzizme]

I also pee standing up 😭 I was starting to think I was the only one. I ain’t training for the Olympics tryna squat every time 😭 bye I know I’m lazy

[@mycattypedthis2827]

pick me, choose me, NOTIFY ME!

[@kid.2062]

How did u comment and the video just came ou mt an hour ago??

[@swordinthestone313]

@@kid.2062 I believe channel members get to watch the video first

[@starrainbowyt6550]

I think is because of livestream

[@Smooveandpretty]

&& If it’s set to premiere you can comment before it goes live

[@d.n.3652]

Yes, queen, right away, queen. I choose you like pikachu

[@insertusernamehere5371]

with the first girl, why do women with large butts etc get demeaned and sexualized so much. She wasn't wearing a thong, she wasn't wearing booty shorts, it was opaque leggings. Like why the hell does it matter if someone did plastic surgery or just has a naturally big ass/chest? Honestly with how the first girl was doing this "tee hee I'm cute" moving selfie then a immediate shot of the leggings lady insulting said lady is just a clear sign of jealousy and unwarranted bullying

[@britneybij3997]

Is she suppose to leave her ass at home? I'm confused 🤣

[@queenofbeinghungryaf1025]

​@@britneybij3997Higheky some people think that. If curvy women have jobs then they should take off their curves and go to work without them. There are so many reddit,twitter and ig posts that shame curvy women wearing appropriate work attire to work because they are the ones finding them inherently smexual. There was post saying that the teacher should not be allowed to teach kids with a big butt like her because it would distract the kid and teach them bad thoughts. All this time,it was just the adults being pervs.

[@iamsosleepdeprived]

​@@britneybij3997 Exactly loll I wanna see what the lady wants the legging girl to wear instead, what else is she meant to wear what pjs 😭 "Oh ur wearing leggings at the gym!?!Ur such a show off omg.. "

[@mennaomar945]

What was the point of getting the bbl? Wasnt it to show she has a big butt? It reflects poorly on her life choices. Also technically she is not shaming her body but her life choice and thinking. Why is a bigger butt something she strives toward? Its shallow and also doesnt look good, its a lose lose situation, so why do people get it done? Also the men who keep injecting to get muscles are just as dumb. It has nothing to do with being a pick me.

[@D0LLS1REN]

It’s so disgusting and illegal in some countries to record people without their permission wether illegal or not it’s still wrong and about they disgusting, Imagine doing a workout in a gym when some pick me envious girl Body-shames you on TikTok for male validation It ain’t cute, whoever created that TikTok disgusts me in so many ways

[@meno564]

pearl is a huge hypocrite, everyone knows that. it's just the audacity of her to shame other women with standards that SHE doesn't even meet, all for the sake of a few giggles of the men in the recording booth with her. what do people like that even get out of it? attention for two seconds? like come on, why can't we all just help each other instead of discrediting people just to make yourself look good in front of a guy... why do women scorn women for the sake of men?!

[@munmun__]

What s more her parents r already rich (her MOM being the CEO) she doesn t need that money Ig It s a kink at this point

[@becauseimmissy_]

I cant imagine being a victim and having pearl talk about me like that like idk how she sleeps at night

[@meno564]

@@becauseimmissy_ ik she's so dismissive about things like that it's just infuriating bc what does "did you bring the abuse out of him?" even mean ??? 😒😒

[@LoverOfUVERworld]

​@@becauseimmissy_ She sleeps alone. So very lonely. Far, far away from what she wants most but can never have, a man, because no one likes her.

[@ShreyoshiRoy-o7t]

​@@LoverOfUVERworldshe has children without marriage and was in a relationship which she got cheated.....but since its pearl...I kinda don't even blame him because she like being cheated..🤷‍♀️

[@StarBoundAngel]

I genuinely feel sorry for Liz. Surrounding herself with toxic men who will never give a damn about her and then telling herself that it's just the logical outcome because she's conventionally unattractive is so sad. She couldn't even handle another woman trying to hold her up.

[@MikiNataka]

Absolutely devastating. The other girl was clearly trying to explain that she is beautiful but the person who needs to see that the most is herself. I really hope Liz gets out and see those men do not care about her and she needs to pick herself.

[@francescapatti2934]

Listen the woman talking about how she rates herself a ten is actually so right. I have noticed this myself. I am a fat girl, for which I have of course been made fun of relentlessly before. And like I legit believed I was ugly, and that destroyed basically my entire teen years and my mental AND physical health even more. And rather recently Ive been looking at myself in the mirror like "sure Im fat and that needs to change bc its unhealthy as fuck, but like Im CUTE actually" And tbh the confidence that comes with that projects outward and I have noticed feeling way less judged, probably bc Im not projecting my own issues onto random people😂

[@aaflesje]

🫶good for you!💜✨️

[@danishson97]

I believe you are and hope you believe it every day. ❤ because you are made in Gods image and anyone who doesn't see your vaule or worth isn't worth your time. Not when Jesus sees you differently ❤

[@SA-rj4kc]

This is awesome, thank you

[@a.5326]

Self confidence is sexy! I can't tell you how many times I've come across a man/woman I wasn't particularly attracted to but then seeing how confident and happy they are in their skin? Oh, I've definitely fallen hard for some of them to the point where I found it hard to remember why I WASN'T attracted to them.

[@eeeowozola]

beauty has no weight! im actually kind of skinny but i found out that my (skinnier) ex bsf was fat shaming me behind my back after we fell out, and that really made me hate my body. but the thing is, i might be larger than her, but im a lotttt fitter than she is. as long as you're healthy and happy, you're absolutely stunning! i just know that you are cute asf and an absolutely gorgeous queen, and dont let the haters bring you down

[@kissesfrom_naima]

That stupid podcast with all of those guys and the pick me girls are actually gonna be the death of me

[@becauseimmissy_]

Its literally like the plague i cant escape it

[@kissesfrom_naima]

@@becauseimmissy_ literally 😭 and they always bring the same kind of women on that podcast to push their sexist ideals

[@rufiredup90]

I absolutely hate the whatever podcast. It should be called the absolute bs podcast. So fake and all the girls as someone else said have the same brain.

[@GentleGiantessASMR]

Im pretty sure its a scam because they end up promoting those of girls quite a bit. It seems like a lot is scripted too because one time a woman said " thats not what you asked me to say" and it got cut

[@DOraShRuu]

the absolute worst of both worlds lmao

[@Jordan.elaine]

the BFF and BF trend just reminds me of how people these days are too comfortable touching others in a fairly intimate way and then gaslight you as if that behavior hasn't (time and time again) led to affairs. In high school my bff's Bf at the time always tried hugging me (to a weird obsessive extent) I am not a touchy person and all I could think of was my dad telling me that teen boys "use hugging as a way to feel a girls bodies" and the BF had so many red flags to begin with, so wether my dad was correct he protected me then and my friendship.

[@Amy-fk5we]

Omg your dad is so right! Good reasonable man!

[@grace-4072]

your dad is a real one for sure! kudos to him on being clear with you!

[@Fuhjcfffeewww]

Your dad sounds great

[@Whizzerisaicon]

Daria profile picture?

[@Maurima-z9w]

14:20 my man said he chose me because I'm ugly and cheap. I dumped him. I have self respect. Don't settle for less.

[@70195.]

Good for you❤

[@Xodileen_bell1234]

What? Your man said that? 😭 he's awfull :') at least don't say it c'mon man, you picked what u picked be happy w it

[@crossaint917]

girl wth good for you he seems like an absoloute fucking nightmare

[@htcheeto420]

wtfff

[@yourlove.rainii]

Girll how could he say that i would've done the same

[@sugar3155]

It doesn’t matter to me if they think I’m unattractive- they aren’t the one dating me.

[@FlossTheBoss-iv3tf]

Okay as a Brit I just gotta say it is a FEAT to somehow make Piers Morgan the reasonable one in a conversation. It’d be almost impressive if she wasn’t being shitty.

[@francescapatti2934]

No fr I was SHOCKED 😂

[@britneybij3997]

"As a Brit-" My dumbass: What does having the name "Britney" affect that situation?

[@becauseimmissy_]

first of all, thank u for watching! Piers Morgan is so cringe even us americans find him repulsive lol

[@NYD666]

He was kicked from America. We know how cringe he is. Now take back James corden and we'll forgive England's crime against humanity

[@SJB0919]

With ppl like the second girl, I get so frustrated bc they ALMOST have a great point. Like yeah, a lot of insecurities are manufactured by male CEO's and evil corporations.... but then they blame women.

[@whowhy7554]

Fr like instead of the men being the problem because they created the insecurity, it's women for being insecure in the first place🤨???

[@thesowalf]

Playing Ariana Grande’s song in the background while saying “I don’t understood the kink for taking committed men” was so good 😂😂😂 I see you with the details

[@alonebambi]

11:40 i absolutely love this girl, i don't know how the guy hosting this podcast could find a way to put her down because she's not being narcissistic, she still manages to be confident yet humble in a very healthy way. i aspire to be more like her

[@AMortifyingOrdeal]

It's because those kinds of men think women having positive feelings about how they look is narcissistic

[@whowhy7554]

Fr cause she's saying the exact same thing every health wellness websites say😭love yourself more and others could see that you value yourself and would in turn value you as well

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

My goodness, there's a LOT of people out there who need therapy, aren't there?

[@katc2040]

Well yeah, most people do

[@GoldenPurplle]

Boo, I think we all need therapy at some point.

[@yeonaandsenachannel7789]

Mhm..

[@SweetIrony0]

Stitch impressions, trains, AND a rock wall?! Man... I want to come home to that, and Im not even a man. 😂

[@bread_X3]

Sameee like I’m in no way a guy and that sounds great like I’m sold

[@gemfanclub]

🩷💙💜

[@becauseimmissy_]

Girl we can play hot cross buns together ❤❤❤

[@dr.RadhaKumar]

I remember one of my colleague has a girlfriend who is super pick me super anti-feminism type I try to give him a warning. He said "oh she is just not one of girls". When we went on hiking with our group she literally mock me and our other female colleagues about how not sporty we are but at last she fainted due to being too exhausted.

[@LS-nw2ob]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MoronvilleUK]

Girl, she needs a small smack on your face cuz that mouth is spitting nothing but garbage and shit

[@jenifergarcia327]

saying 'self love is delusional' is like #1 way to out yourself as crippling insecure and self-loathing bc wtf

[@bespectacledheroine7292]

Wanting attention/validation from the opposite sex is treated as this awful thing but it's frankly the most human thing in the world and normal to want. Men get to want that, but women are pariahs for it....makes sense. However! Problem is throwing others under the bus to make yourself look better by comparison, and not having self-respect enough not to get it from total jackasses. And so a natural desire is made annoying and meme-able.

[@ponkocrossingforpalestine]

yess there is a difference between desiring male/female validation and being a pick me

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

Definitely. Wanting to be friends with the opposite s3x is fine

[@bespectacledheroine7292]

@@_StrayKidsForever_ Exactly! I would say wanting anything is fine, but making yourself the exception of your gender to make that happen is cringe inducing to the max. Men doing it is just as bad. "Not like other guys" IS a thing. My brother, there are tons of you who are nice without having to pull this shit.

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

@@bespectacledheroine7292 definitely. Oh my god there’s guys who say they’re sigma males and therefore deserve your attention not your bf

[@Hweienthusiast]

It's not normal? I don't know a single woman that does the things in those videos nor a woman with so low self-esteem that needs a child to validate her

[@Pilineedstodraw]

a couple of weeks ago here in Argentina there was this one girl saying:”the perfect woman is the one that plays football/soccer and isn’t girly at all, and thats me” she called herself “mujer pibardo” ( pibardo in argentina refers to the typical guy that likes football/soccer and enjoys sports and all that) putting down other girls for liking girly things andd stuff like that and that she was better than them, it was so embarrassing😭😭

[@bonk.663]

and also like, as someone also from Argentina, doesn't everyone like football? lmao

[@burritobaabe]

How disgusting of them to tell her that her self love is delusional.

[@roselessraven]

If you want my man.. Get it girl... 😂 I don't want a man if he thinks I'm replaceable because he wants a maid for free.. 😂😂

[@YouSuck-y2y]

Slay yes girl!!!

[@abigaelrarts2257]

i roll my eyes whenever ppl do the rating 1-10 thing bc i'm not everyone's cup of tea but i'm a 10 to my husband for example (if u were to use the system). like attractive to who exactly lol it's different for everyone and honestly if ur just normal-looking, then you can be so attractive to the right person. a rating is just literally so irrelevant in the real world so it means nothing lol

[@allid3231]

YES OMFG!!! People forget so often that everybody likes something different in a partner both physically and personality wise. We're all different and that's the absolute beauty of humanity- we can all be different yet we can share the common joys of life like love, family, laughter, nature, etc in unique ways. And there is seriously somebody for everybody, so why do we all have to fit into the same cookie cutter standard of beauty propagated by the media???

[@adamlambboy8332]

Fr and they completely forget everything else that attracts people. Your attractiveness automatically goes up 5 points if you have a great personality.

[@bloodmajesty414]

And those men who strictly follow the conventionally attractive scale when choosing a partner tend to be flaky/unfaithful -- because there will always be a new 10 around the block. They don't have their own specific standard and tend to just follow the crowd, not gonna be a good partner anyway.

[@JesusisliterallyHim]

👏

[@tuney7319]

12:13 HUH?? She was literally just spitting, the girl who responded is such a pick me it’s insane.

[@sunshine-dz6xj]

12:44 imagine how much she hates herself if she would hear someone say she's attractive and question their judgement... I was like this when I was a teen, being used to bullying and automatically thinking any compliment is sarcasm or some kind of joke. this girl probably was or is in a toxic environment where she's constantly reminded that she's "unattractive" because she doesn't meet the beauty standards. that's actually sad

[@kaijuno]

The “objectively attractive woman” segment gives away so much of how these men see the world. The implication is life is a zero sum game where other people’s success is your failure and girls have an “objective worth” ranked by how useful they are to men. Beauty is great, & it’s true some are girls are more conventionally beautiful than others! Or have amazing style, hair, creativity, etc. But life isn’t a magazine! Everyone has different values, strengths, ambitions, joys and skills. Love & happiness is about finding people who appreciate YOUR unique strengths & values. That may or may not be beauty. Hot people are common. It’s not that unique. They also live and work and age. They change their style, their weight, they have kids, they travel. The thing that actually makes anyone lovable is the person they are & the life they choose to lead. Anyone who sees you as a human being will respect your body because it’s a part of well.. you. They’re going to see and appreciate the whole human being, not just the meat suit???

[@iamsosleepdeprived]

This is the best wording ever, i read everything you said and this needs to be up on the top comments because you are so right! Thats exactly what i was thinking when i saw it- like guys hear me out but..personality exists?Gosh i feel like the pick-me women who said shes ugly is also kinda just self projecting and shoving all her insecurities in that poor womans face. The lady was just saying shes happy as herself and they all got so pressed abt it like- how insecure do u have to be to do that?? 😭😭😭

[@grace-4072]

this was incredibly needed for me rn thank u for sharing your thoughts

[@darthvader9121]

So well written! 👏

[@AMortifyingOrdeal]

The emotional devastation I felt at "YOU have to lower YOUR standards so that MY crush could have a chance with YOU." That was a nuclear burn.

[@Unicornmegha116]

12:20 since when was loving yourself delulu? This lady is pathetic to put down that blonde girl for loving herself.

[@MissMoontree]

Omg, that pretty girl with the flower trying to uplift the other woman and that woman just breaking herself down is painful. Just because you are unhappy doesn't mean others should be too. She trying to help you, stop dragging women down!

[@futuristicgirl14]

It’s always the girlie with dry skin bragging about not wearing makeup, like we get it, you don’t get hormonal acne, THATS COOL FOR YOU

[@krissybugs]

In the best way possible this was SUCH A HARD WATCH

[@veronica_y1957]

The first one "showing off" at the gym? Girl was wearing full covers leggings, they were neon but she was COVERED!

[@PinkBerryMoose]

My mother in law is such a pick me 😭 it’s fucking painful to watch and I call her out constantly but it never ends

[@sascharuler]

There is a discussion to be made about beauty standards and why so many women are pressured into makeup. That is a conversation a lot of pick mes have no interest in having.

[@ahstiasummers5583]

5:40 I'm guessing that women who pursue the boyfriends/husbands of other women do it to get the thrill of "I'm better than you and that's why your boyfriend chose me over you". Other times it's the thrill of the chase, and they love the chase more than the person. But then after they get their man, they'll either 1) grow bored of him and ditch him for another taken man 2) be totally bewildered when he (inevitably) cheats on her with someone else Either way, they'll one day go online posting stuff around "Where did all the good guys go?"

[@allistars5749]

On my birthday??? Missssyyyyyy you shouldn’t have 🤪

[@eli-the-idiot]

@@allistars5749 HAPPY BIRTHDAY

[@ponkocrossingforpalestine]

happy birthday !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@_Vi_nes]

Happy birthday!

[@anastasiarivera3063]

Happy birthday!!!! 🎉🥳🎈🎁🍰🎂

[@_juiz]

happy birthdayyyyyyyy

[@kid.2062]

Why seeking validation when u can be comfortable in your own skin

[@uniraffesaur]

The planet fitness one got me riled up right off the bat; I used to work there, and it was policy that you weren’t allowed to take pics or film in the club so people don’t have to worry about feeling self conscious because of shit like this. It takes away from the “judgment free zone”. We shut that shit down so quick whenever we saw it; it’s a shame that the employees at that PF didn’t catch her and/or stop her.

[@441MsVanillaRose]

In a parallel universe, "Grey's Autonomy" is a long-running TV series.

[@yourunknownfriend6026]

I hate how women calculated their rate of attractiveness on the basis of if male will chose them or not. No!!! I am tried of telling girls that they are preety I can literally write entire book on that .man ......! I need to calm down

[@alanarama]

6:53 this woman is describing a mother child relationship

[@auroraonrise]

actually watching that podcast pisses me off to no end. "if i were to ask all these men, they would say your prettier" WHO TF CARES WHAT THEY THINK DUDE

[@elhopper3735]

If Piers Morgan himself is trying to reel you in then you know something must be wrong😂😂

[@dfrank2003]

I feel that part about abusive relationships and telling stories for confirmation/validation SO hard

[@britneybij3997]

Im really confused about that lady that was mad over the BBL....like is she just not suppose to go outside? Is she just suppose to leave her ass at home? What is the solution???? 🤨

[@lepidoptery]

well how dare she exist in such proximity to her, drawing eyes away from her! even the tiktoker was focused more on her than herself for once!

[@iamsosleepdeprived]

Exactlyyy like what was that all forr 😭

[@iamsosleepdeprived]

​@@lepidopteryLmao thats exactly how this was too ☠️

[@eldritchbidoof]

the mad/pick-me girl needs to leave her @$$ at home, I'll tell you that much lmao

[@lolahasan7208]

I'm not with shaming her or anything. However if someone is genuinely asking, then just wear loose pants. Tight clothing is uncomfortable.

[@pxrxse]

I wanna be as iconic and funny as u when I grow up 💋

[@MoriMementa]

"They are OBJECTIVELY unattractive!" That's not what objectively means.

[@grace-4072]

i appreciate how u have silly silly reels and then these well written deeply intelligent commentary videos 💀💀 new favorite channel i think

[@ashleeminnow8453]

You are absolutely hilarious with such poignant topics. Never stop being you!!

[@chrisjuliette]

1:45- she was legit just standing there and in pants 💀 "showing off" what 😂

[@_Jak_Hollow_]

"I was SO traumatized and scared by seeing a completely clothed and completly non-moving butt in a place where exercising your butt is 100% acceptable and even encouraged, just existing in an oh so frightening manner, DARING to be present in MY pressence... And as any traumatized person would do in a traumatizing situation, I pulled out my phone and stood as close to this UNSPEAKABLE thing as I could, and I took a video instead of a picture so that I could reaaaaaally soak up the mind-altering HORROR of witnessing a larger than average body part on someone Ive never met and who has never said/done anything to me... So trauma, much PTSD, need ass therapy NOW" 😂

[@moosedraw3731]

As a gay man who is dating a man, yea I also love seeing beautiful women in public

[@fjs5059]

In my opinion that whole Pick me and NLog seems to stem that that late 90's and 2000's when this Message of "Just be yourself, don't try to fit in when it means you lose yourself and everything you like and everone you love who love for who you rly are" swirling around in the medias- which in itself is a really important and valuable message. But like always they overdid it, and for some reason most of the time they played that out as a catfight like girl against girl (down to earth sympathetic Tomboy vs. popular, evil Barbie). No wonder people internalized misogynie went through the roof with Gen X and Millenials, and that included myself (even though try my best to be a girls girl now).

[@Hella_Siren]

My mom was pick me girl, you can imagine my childhood as a girl. Still have flashbacks.

[@Flogrog]

13:07 it’s the fact that she called herself a ten, then they said oh so you think you’re the most beautiful woman? Then when she tried to argue that she wasn’t they basically started saying that she was the one of the most beautiful women and ended up arguing on her side.

[@nalurodriigues]

it’s giving regina george asking “so you agree?… you think you look pretty?”

[@JesusisliterallyHim]

12:59 this whole segment gives me the ick

[@elabulbul1058]

2:49 her lips give filler because of the ᗯ shape with is often NOT always cause by filler.

[@AngelicDiva1988]

I love this conversation we’re having about pickmes because growing up we didn’t have a name for it and it was always that one girl. I’m not like other girls! Also a lot of content these days is rage bait, so you can’t get to worked up about it.

[@N03l13]

that first girl is crazyy... she's saying that that girl's showing off when all she's doing is working out

[@animatic_lace1941]

the girl who said about respecting yourself is actually what i would call a optimistic person with self confidence. nothing wrong.

[@ayanaerg946]

i hate that they are rebuilding the standards for women we are trying to destroy. like even if i’m the ugliest person in the whole universe with the nastiest body, style, habits and attitude, but i think highly of myself. so what? what does it do to you? like why try to make me feel bad for how i am? yeah, i’m SO gonna be single forever and no man is gonna love me. so what? i just don’t understand pick me’s. like yeah, you’re so right, then what? are we like having a make over or i’m killing myself because some girl i just met is better than me? or because i feel bad about myself now is gonna make the most attractive in the room? don’t think so

[@Vampire_xgurl]

the clip from the whatever podcast where the girl is talking about self love made me so mad. What she was saying was so valid and she seems so sure of herself and the things she wants, while they're just blatantly putting her down.

[@anony4637]

The way she said “show off her bbl at the gym” is so crazy because having a bbl and going to the gym are two completely unrelated events???

[@TheFlamingPotato]

BBL thing is so weird bc the only reason it looks ‘shown off’ is the leggings!

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

Very few of these pick- me’s have a point, but even if they do, recording it and shaming just goes too far

[@katc2040]

100%%%

[@wolfsmaid6815]

shaming is underrated. Some people respond best to social pressure, so shaming someone towards virtue is probably going to improve the lives of everyone involved in the long run.

[@couchmoth7089]

@@wolfsmaid6815bad bait try again.

[@wolfsmaid6815]

@@couchmoth7089 yep, that sounds like you have no rational argument.

[@dying_carat]

@@wolfsmaid6815 found the troll

[@E._.Claire-z3c]

The "my bsf and my boyfriend" segment like actually almost made me cry because first of all, thats not a best friend. Second the boyfriend needs to sent away. Like girl ill be your bsf leave them let them be miserable in their own lives together

[@nalurodriigues]

13:07 made me remember those old reality shows like butter face (derived from the saying “she’s hot, but her face…”). that just confirms people don’t grow, men don’t change and girls will be safer mentally and physically only after the apocalypse.

[@brokengirlsrus]

Brb adding great googily moogily to my vocabulary

[@yourlocaltato]

this reminds me sm of my ex best friend who tried to steal my husband. it’s such a long story but she was forever posting about how she just wanted to be the perfect little housewife for her deadbeat bf (she’s a chronic cheater and was in a relationship while trying to swoop in on mine), constantly talked about how pissed she got seeing other people that were happy in their relationships, and fished for compliments on her appearance from anyone who listen, despite fitting into society’s beauty standards perfectly. she also invited my husband to a 🌽 server without telling him what was on it and when i confronted her on it, she said “oh but i thought he would’ve told you.” HE DID. he had the receipts for what she told him and nowhere did she say it was a 🌽 server. we both stopped talking to her after that lmao sorry for trauma dumping in yt comments 🤩

[@somrone9236]

Thank God you both cut her off after that lol. I hope you're happy and secure in your relationship with your husband.

[@FreeminderXIII]

Maybe the 🌽 was delicious and there were some great recipes , you might get fat though, totally understandable lol

[@Saltyllama380]

Another cinematic video, also the To Be a Princess audio>>>

[@bees.neo.]

12:31 I'm so sad that this person feels so low about themselves!!! She's beautiful!!! ALSO she's not wearing makeup and the other chick is SO do men like makeup or not??? If the one with makeup is"prettier".

[@magnisky]

That last sundress idea 💡 had me. Why am I never this creative 😂? 😮

[@UrsulaZA]

0:40 thank you for explaining this!

[@akshathahegde6550]

The last me, my bff and my bf clip was actually cute ngl. The other ones tho...

[@HeatherCheddarZ]

If my fiance did the "my best friend & boyfriend" thing I'd change the locks, drain our bank account, and unfold all of his laundry/take all his clothes off the hangers lol

[@monymonty6692]

8:50 and we found out that the other😂 girl is actually the girlfriend and she is the steeevveeeee

[@sararobinson6571]

Pick me is always “my view represents the view of the whole”

[@Suited_Nat]

1:50 bro- she was literally exercising. The “showing off” is insane to me. Like… how she just “showing off” if she’s exercising? Shit isn’t a competition lol Edit: This shit will never not be weird. As someone who’s queer (lesbian and enby) I’ve hated having my curves be seen as objectified. Like, natural body whether naked or in clothes, loose fitting or not is just a body. It isn’t inherently sexual, and I hate how misogyny ends up making women bully other women for “being to curvy” and should “cover up,” but if you are less curvy then you ‘need’ to “get some jobs done.” Ppl really suck. Like, women are beautiful in their differences, so I really don’t get the point in fucking body shaming a stranger other than her wanting to feed her own ego.

[@RAHHHHHHHHHHH-r5i]

I have this weird thing where I say “ I’m not like other girls I like girls I love my gf” I remember I said that information of a friend and they nearly screamed when they thought I was gonna give some pick me shit but it’s so weird as a very girly girl so shame other girls for being a girly girl or not like be yourself idc(no clue if any of that made sense 😍😭)

[@colleenodriscoll8914]

A lot of the pick me girl culture, I’ve noticed, is opposite reactions to what has been regular sexist culture. I find most of them are reactions to stereotypes women have had to live with for years, and the women those stereotypes oppressed now feel like by showing off themselves as desirable, they’re finally getting back at all the people who say that being a tomboy makes you ugly to men, or taking care of your man makes you pathetic. In my opinion, these girls don’t need men, they need therapy.

[@poizinarrow5846]

“I enjoy looking at beautiful woman in public” that is a line we can all agree on 😌

[@Tepgg_]

It’s like: yeah the makeup industry does profit off of women, but also like makeup is something people do for fun too. Like can I not just want to wear eyeliner because I like it? Idk it just gives off massive “I don’t like it when women are confident in themselves” vibes lmao.

[@dcathification]

As a biracial woman, god I hate woman number one’s vibe entirely

[@shagssss199]

Sadly all of this just to impress men. Literally everything here revolves around getting a man or impressing a man. These women really need some self love and self respect in their lives

[@SilverSkitty]

16:14 Pearl literally looks like a female version of my pick-me-boy ex who thought he was better than other guys because he watched A24 movies and dated women of color (yes, he was white)

[@MxSae]

“Autonomy” is taking me out 😭

[@MxSae]

Also she was very obviously wearing lipgloss like wtf

[@nainarai8377]

Pearl is the ultimate misogynistic pick me, but defending a guy accused of assaulting a 16 year old is low even for her. Disgusting.

[@TheMedicatedArtist]

Pick Me’s know that men can’t tell the difference between natural makeup and being bare-faced; that’s why she said that nonsense with such confidence.

[@itzzWB]

YOOO SHE ALWAYS EATS UP EVERY VIDEO AND UR SO PRETTY 😭💗

[@jadorelajavel0606]

The biggest pick me is literally Thaïs d'Escufon she's the pick me in person

[@91Elisabeth91]

And justpearlythings too

[@91Elisabeth91]

@@jadorelajavel0606 Damn I checked out her channel and DAMNNNN....

[@DetectiveSonia]

The first one I was like...do you want a cookie or something? 🙄

[@demureworm]

literally teared up laughing when you manifested for pearl... she IS the ultimate pick-me, it's so painful to watch!!