Venus square/opposition Lilith in Synastry

[@billmyers991]

Can never have enough Lilith videos, poor Venus person needs all the help she can get

[@shainamadai]

🤣always somebody getting eaten in this animal kingdom

[@stephifox9955]

He* lol

[@natlions]

My son's Venus is opposite my Lilith and all I can tell, that our relationship is very harmonious. I believe if the Lilith person is very much in touch with their own Lilith, than they can be the guide and the support that the planet person needs. Tom Jacobs explains the Lilith relationships quite differently in his book, as well as in his videos.

[@localhotpotato5149]

I'm adding this comment after a year later but what you mentioned in this video is harshly true. I was the venus person and I didn't have venus-lilith hard aspects or venus-pluto hard aspects in my natal chart. And he was the lilith person and I was the venus person and I did all the craziest things that I could ever do in my whole life lmao. Though his venus conjuncts my lilith, I still had to go through so much pain it was unforgettable. As u said, it's not a fairytale.

[@minuit6305]

What were some things you did out of character?

[@themoonbleu627]

@@minuit6305😂😂😂 I can imagine maybe expecting being cheated on and disrespected sadly .. maybe not in her case but these are the things . Publicly embarrassing yourself for example someone low key going off on Facebook over something done to them by Lilth . Forgiving Lilith for anything they decide to do putting lilth over your own kids it gets insane !

[@lea-ko7uv1ou7w]

What happens when it's woman's Venus opposite man's Lilith ? As men's Lilith means smth different from women's Lilith.

[@idmigdia]

i am the lilith , and yes i have to start thinking on my behaviour , having lilith in scorpio in the 1st house is like .. why i can not have a healthy realationship?? hahahaha oh god...

[@aquarian.mystic]

I feel that- my Lilith is in my first house as well

[@mrsquics4588]

Which lilith do you use? H13 or H21? Would love to hear your thoughts around this as you seem to know lilith well.

[@77shawnie]

I can validate this with personal experience my venus squaring his BML

[@taniaoliveira9139]

Hi! I have found your channel a few days ago and I am loving your interpretation, specially the ones about my own sign scorpio. I was so impressed that someone could explain certain atitudes (dificult to explain to others) that even I couldn't explain to myself. As I ear you, I catch myself thinking: yes, that is why I do that. Amazing! I don' t know what you think about the vertex but I would like to know your thoughs about the exact conjunction of my potential partner (pluto and venus exact conjuct at 8°) with my vetex at 8° in scorpio, in my 6th house. Just to complement, I have a stellium in ♏ ( mercury-my charts ruler at 1°, sun at 6° pluto at 9 degrees and venus at 24°) so just with this, we have Pluto conjunct sun; pluto conjunct venus, pluto trine mars, sun conjunct venus. It's a lot of pluto aspects in our synastry, that is why I am so curious about this vertex aspect. We don't know each other personally yet, just talking through messages. I apreciate any though you may say about this. 😊 Congrats for your work.

[@lunalaguna6173]

Hi Beata, how does the conjunction play out in composite?

[@lunarcappy]

Lilith is always fun to look at 😈 His Venus and Lilith are conjunct my Sun exact 😅

[@kitsuve]

Can I suggest a video on Lilith square Pluto in synastry? :) Or maybe this aspect but in the composite chart? Either one is fine!

[@samcruz1049]

what if both of our liliths square eachother? (leo and scorpio)

[@sallym8810]

So true my ex had his Venus bewitched by the Lilith mistress . She snared him good & proper .

[@modernastrology4521]

I am sorry to hear this. Although this is classic example...

[@sallym8810]

@@modernastrology4521 yes I’m learning fast & you are a great teacher- thank you 💕

[@irina1siren]

This is so accurate. I risked it all as the Venus person to be with this Lilith guy. We have a ton of Venus/Pluto hard aspects in both synastry and composite, and even more pluto/mars, Eros/venu/mars, Lilith/Venus/mars/moon contacts in our composite. Almost destroyed my marriage and family just to get to be with him one more time. Is synastry or composite chart more accurate for how the relationship dynamic plays out?

[@NayeCartelz]

What happens when Venus walks away from the Lilith? Does Lilith get angry?

[@fanyfunx7379]

What happen if venus man in the sign of Libra, and opposite lilith woman in Aries?

[@modernastrology4521]

Hot!!!

[@deborahwhitney9427]

What about if the woman is Venus and man is Lilith?

[@danam358]

I had this aspect in most of my relationships and it had no effect at all. You have to consider the whole chart. Also, it’s not wise to base you’re relationship on synastry at the end of the day we have a free will. Have a great day!

[@themoonbleu627]

You said that on each video

[@fetterkater7484]

Shut up

[@william6084]

I'm Lilith person and Venus person won't let me come to church on Sundays, it's like I'm not good enough to meet her friends. I have to meet her at truckstops and only after dark. I feel so cheap and used. I think I'll tell her churchy friends what their pastor gets up to on a Friday night on the other side of the border

[@sarahbar9081]

What about quincunx??

[@Sara-nk3jc]

is it still bad when there are many other supportive aspects? Like venus mars, mars moon, venus moon, sun saturn, venus saturn, neptune sextile moon and trine mercury, pluto sextile sun, and pluto conjunct moon, moon in 7th, sun trine sun, sun in 5th. Is lilith square venus still bad? 😭

[@lfaconde]

Please, do a video about Lilith conjunct Venus!! Pleaseeeeee!! Thank you!!!

[@modernastrology4521]

I will for sure eventually make that video :)

[@biancaiordache6446]

We have this aspect in synastry DW. How do it work having both this aspect?

[@annaanna8079]

I dong understand why I Will be the Venus and he the lillith when I have hard Pluto or lillith contacts in my birth chart. Maybe you can help me out please. My Venus and mars are squaring my Pluto. My sun and mercury are conjunctief my lillith. My lillith (pisces) is inconjunct (?) my Venus (Aquarius) My moon and ascendant are squaring his lillith His Venus is opposing my lillith and sun. His north node is conjunctief my sun and lillith His moon is squaring my Pluto His Pluto is opposing my Venus His moon is opposing his Pluto in natal chart His sun and mars are conjuncting his lillith. What does who feel?! This maken me dizzy. But I can tell you i've felt a lot of obsessieve thoughts. I dong think he is obsessieve but Somehow I do het the feeling he likes me.

[@modernastrology4521]

Hi, this is synastry video. You are lilith in synastry grid if your lilith makes an aspect to any planet to your person.

[@annaanna8079]

Modern Astrology Thanks for you Answer! I love your video's! Why do you Thanks squarepants is felt more or in a different way than oppositie? I have this aspect with a crush. I am lillith. My lillith conjuncys his north node and opposes his Venus

[@cadilac949]

What if I’m the Lilith person square others Venus and I’m not trying to control him or manipulate him. My moon is also conjunct his Venus and sun... I don’t see a big impact of this in our relationship.

[@AnGryPOETry]

Youre super manipulating him lol; moon conjuct venus AND sun?! Oooof. Dont break his heart, you heart breaker... Im kidding btw, maybe its not you thats lying or hiding things from him but some expectation that he has which could be left unmet? Example, if he has neptune square venus in natal chart, he may be one of those 'hopeless romantics' that has an Idea about love but the reality of love always comes short of his neptunian vision, and to that extent, perhaps, you are playing that role through the lilith bewitchment. Like always, the devils in the details- youll have to consider other aspects in his chart and between the two of you.

[@sasherful]

Moon conjunct sun is a marriage aspect

[@mantuli8500]

His Venus and Mars both square my Lilith. His moon conjunct my Pluto. His Pluto conjunct my Lilith. My chart is very plutonion -including Venus. His chart has Venus conjunct Mars, both sextile Lilith. Is it safe?

[@deborahwhitney9427]

My Venus is opposite my ex partners Lilith.

[@195t0343]

Does this apply with the conjunction?

[@modernastrology4521]

In some ways. Conjunction should be a separate video

[@Drvm614]

Are these mean of osc?

[@Drvm614]

Moon Square and opposite synastry. Lilith conjunct algol natal. Lilith unaspected.

[@austinplatt4427]

Thanks

[@pendafen7405]

Anyone experience this in a gay or lesbian relationship? Does it have the same effects and power in a same-sex bond?

[@minuit6305]

General rule of thumb is that lilith has control of situation just like pluto because they are shadow energies that bring out the more toxic obsessive traits of the planet in whatever sign they are in. For LGBTQ+ look at Uranus/Pluto/Venus 12th house hard contacts!

[@pendafen7405]

@@minuit6305 thanks, that's so helpful to know! Lilith & Pluto really share so many similarities and connections--kind of beautiful in a way, when you consider that they're both thought of as lonely/reclusive/exiled archetypes & planetary bodies.

[@borz55]

I have venus square/opposition lilith double whammy with someone

[@Phoenix333Rising]

Hi Beata, is this true BML? Also, please could you do a video on Mercury Conjunct BML?

[@mary-anneb2614]

She has said she mostly use BML

[@shainamadai]

I think I’m more the Lilith and he is more obsessive about me, it took me so long to notice... years after. His Venus, sun, Mars, Uranus, Neptune square Lilith in his chart. They are all in Capricorn. My moon opposes, Mars and Mercury Sextile, and Uranus and Neptune square Lilith in my chart. In synastry we have his sun and Venus square my Lilith. His Lilith square my Neptune and both of our Lilith conjunct in Aries. I need help lol 😂🧐