Mom forces Peter to go on Dating Show 😬 | First Dates South Africa

[@dtbristol]

Nagging his date about living at home like they are married. She's just insufferable. The drama would never end with this girl, and it would always be your fault.

[@selmarapoport573]

The guy was patient with a judgemental girl. He was fine, she was NOT.

[@Be1smaht]

Stooooop Its liek a 15 min. clip. How can you know that based on that. Come on man. You smarter than that. There are things called like... editing.

[@darrendoolan5161]

Wow how did that man stay so long I stopped watching at 9.16

[@silentwitness536]

You can see why her mother abandoned her as a kid. She's a narcissist since birth and her mother probably thought, her father can sort her out. And her bad childhood was probably her father setting healthy boundaries.

[@GoldenbanjoDJ]

@@Be1smahtyes there is editing. But you edit things OUT. You don’t edit things IN. She said literally all those things and acted in literally all the ways she did. Do you really think they’d be arsed to go to the nth degree editing one particular random person who no one knows or cares about purely for the purpose of making them look insufferable if they weren’t really that bad?

[@johnmosley9376]

She has so many red flags she made an outfit out of them. Nice guy, hope he finds his special someone.

[@Shelly-bts]

There absolutely nothing “polite” about that rude woman. She’ll be single for a very long time.

[@thushfdo7262]

Absolutely. Awful person she is really. Talking about a person's mum like that is also v evil. Overall, an unkind ,nasty person. Will be difficult for anyone to live with her, sadly. She needs therapy! Heal herself first....if it's possible...but not sure if she sees her Narc side

[@jeanniewilliams1937]

He was wasted on her. Terrible woman.

[@true_hani]

Literally she is AWFUL. What's wrong with him staying w his mom.. she's just plain mean and it's funny bcuz he seems like a way better person than him

[@snicholson8884]

The damage her mother did, has her sabotaging a potentially good thing, before it even gets off of the ground. Hope she gets the therapy she needs.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

The damage his mother did by not teaching her son to have some self respect and dignity and walked out on her

[@GoldenbanjoDJ]

@@lalosalamanca8574kind of agree but the fact he stayed around does also show him as a patient and respectful person even whilst she wasn’t. I think he came off better for having not left tbf although I wouldn’t have judged him negatively if he did walk

[@ginalindsey8925]

I am truly sorry to hear that she has past traumas...but, HE wasn't the cause of them & no reason whatsoever for her to take out her aggressions upon him. 😢 First Dates, please bring this man back to your show with a sweeter, kinder new date!! ❤️

[@robertgelblum5154]

I thought the young lady was physically attractive, but her being super judgmental about his living at home (bringing it up constantly) was very unpleasant.

[@ladykws]

Yikes...that girl is rude and has a slightly (greatly) inflated sense of Self. Boy, move on!

[@emilyrosebutler4875]

Please get this guy back on here for another date! He deserved SOO much better !! 😢

[@makeeshaxo]

She needs to watch this and see how rude was she. There is a reason she’s single with a 2 year old. I wouldn’t want to stay around either.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

It's his fault. He could've left but he stayed and took the disrespect. He got himself to blame

[@badgalx90]

Exactly

[@true_hani]

Real 😂😂😂 like shes a single mom and mean too she must pick a struggle

[@spiritedaway99]

whats wrong with someone living with his mother? its actually so nice of him and shows that he is responsible man

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

One of the first things guys are asked. Living at home is deemed a turn off

[@spiritedaway99]

@@JamesCraigWhoop it depends on the person mindset I guess!! independence is great but I'd rather date someone who is living with his parents if they are in the same town where he works,why not save some money aside nd make him value family life more!! would keep him on the right direction, no incentive to involve with many women or bring bad influence friends,his family members gets to give their advice, not to mention how lonely men are these days so yeah why not have a laugh with your mother nd care for her instead of golddiggers nd women who just go out for a free meal(on this date my opinion is that she should have paid her "dessert" since she wasn't planning on seeing him again,nd the rudeness omg!!)

[@Skeezer66]

@@spiritedaway99 I agree. He seems to be more helping out his mom and sisters as the man of the family. It's not like he's being mothered, there's a difference.

[@spiritedaway99]

@@Skeezer66 yeah!! he is a gentleman for sure and raised well

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Awful date. When she said touchy subject ie the father of her son, he immediately backed off. Clearly he wasn't comfortable w her bringing up his living situation but she kept at him and making fun, even telling him when to eat. Get yourself your own place then look for a real nice respectful woman, she definitely was not a good fit.

[@delilahjolie]

Wow she got judgey and rude very quick.

[@follow_the_fox9432]

he deserves sooo much better! first i thought she was amazing but she clearly needs to work on her traumas in order to have healthy romantic relationships (in my view)...wow

[@FootyViews]

She can't reject him because he is living with his mum, when you've got a 2 year old at your gaff

[@badgalx90]

Right

[@darkerbinding6933]

Man she was a full time red flag. Run away my dude.

[@Greenpeppersandeggs]

Aw, she seems reeeeeally hurt by her Moms actions and I hope she heals from that to allow her to stop degrading that mother-child bond in others. Oof. Love her job! Love that he loves his Mum!

[@MaverickLee11]

its her single friends keeping her single, gave her false expectations and this is why she is getting on now and reverting to blind dates.

[@hd-xc2lz]

Well said Greenpeppersandeggs, it's often private bitterness that leads to lashing out at others like she did to her date. She struck me as quite guarded as well, starting with the choice to make it dessert and drinks. Poor girl seems damaged, and in need of therapy.

[@lifeiswonderful2023]

On point.

[@heidiperez1387]

Well said!👍

[@ralphlyda4545]

The woman has been traumatized. She said that she likes to let someone down gently if it is necessary at all; then she bit down like a raging pit-bull, & never let up. The chap was quite a gentleman, not to mention being a hero for his Mom. That woman is absolutely horrible as a date for anyone! She had to jump in immediately to say she rejected another date with him, but she thereby helped him dodge a bullet, or should I say, "dodge a pit-bullet?"

[@658Chrissy]

She was so mean. He deserves so much better

[@manilkasheran2934]

She found out he has a great relationship with his mom and basically went on attack mode due to her not having one at all!

[@s.bornand5424]

Facts!!!

[@harryvanderveen773]

Good summary!

[@suzanne9702]

I don't like her attitude.

[@Savestime]

He shouldn't even see her as a friend as she's not a nice person

[@tvted6160]

She has lots of childhood trauma. She won’t be in a great relationship until she addresses her trauma.

[@hd-xc2lz]

Couldn't agree more. Her near lashing out at him reeked of bitterness.

[@scarlettwitman2028]

I don’t understand why is it funny to take pictures of him?

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Maybe they were glamour shots

[@scarlettwitman2028]

@@JamesCraigWhoop I don’t think she said that to him so the poor guy is wondering why are you laughing at me

[@harryvanderveen773]

He was being polite by offering it and she was just uncomfortable about being around someone that has a parent. Super rude to go out for a blind date dinner and order dessert, it basically saying "I want to be out of here in 15 minutes".

[@o_vroboros]

She's acting really high-class for a single mother for whom every other question is a "zebra crossing" and makes fun of ever thing she herself is selfconscious about

[@pickynikki2933]

What a rude woman. I love how confident he is

[@lalosalamanca8574]

No he was not. If he was confident he would've left

[@thesnoopydance645]

It's people like her that make being single very desirable. I dont know how he stayed so cool.

[@jacquelineadams8363]

At least he's asking about her major job activities. I don't like how judgy she is about his home situation. She shut him down when she wanted dessert only and kept asking about his mother.

[@Bright.Owl.Gifts24]

I’m so glad they didn’t work out. She didn’t come across as a very pleasant person

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

agree...

[@lifeiswonderful2023]

He deserves a heart as kind as his. Bless him. He will be happy, I am sure.

[@woodies2009]

This is the reason why she's a single mum.

[@liznicolas272]

9:11 yuck. I wonder if this is her "flirting" or just bad behavior. He's a nice guy and she's just snooty

[@donaldauguston9740]

He was a catch! She should have recognized that - BUT - no one should spend too much time talking about someone else they are close to. Everyone should be mentioned but NOT dwelled on; no matter HOW close they are.

[@kiewfenchik7006]

He deserves much better. She's very rude.

[@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020]

There is a difference between never having left home and you’re still there at 26 and having left but returned to take care of your mom and sisters because the man of the house has left so it falls on you to step up and take care of them. This girl couldn’t see past that and that’s her problem. I can understand how this would be a deal breaker for some and like she said, if she has to let someone down she will do it in a nice way but there was nothing nice about harping on the issue and taking shots at him. It actually shows that he does take care of his family and respects women because of it. Any other guy would have just up and left her to pay for herself and not tolerate her behavior.

[@cortneyrens]

Islaykay: agreed. Definitely a turn off to be a mammas boy living at home still

[@danielledanielle3566]

She was very immature and rude when she had a kind gentleman in front of her. Very disrespectful woman. He, on the other had was delightful. Hopefully you have him on the show again with someone more mature and kind.

[@slevinlindsay3624]

I think she assumed he wasn't interested after she told him she had a son and he said he wasn't very hungry. She probably interpreted that as him wanting to cut the date short thinking that her having a son was a deal breaker. So she says, "skip to dessert" and he agrees and then she's being passive aggressive to him for the rest of the night.

[@denachtconducteur7070]

She seems full of herself but from a place of insecurity.

[@MaverickLee11]

Imagine in the near-future when her Son wants to move out because his mother is a damaged, single, lonely, narcissistic-control freak, flooded with bills and house keeping responsibilities... everything does a full circle. This video made her known to the world, she will remember this (her karma) for the rest of her life. He could have easily put her in her place, by bringing up her age/single/single-parent/fading youth situation, but instead he naturally knew in his heart, her energy is going to attract her own karma

[@lalosalamanca8574]

How About leaving the date. No need to stoop on someone's level. If he left it would've sent a message that people are no going to tolerate it

[@lalosalamanca8574]

How About leaving the date. No need to stoop on someone's level. If he left it would've sent a message that people are no going to tolerate it

[@BunkerWise215]

The fact she's a single mum and picky about a guy who lives at home is laughable

[@simonehunter2509]

So she's rude!!! 😂

[@heidiperez1387]

She is damaged goods. RUN! She was so rude to this man😢

[@edglue6138]

I feel sorry for her child

[@aalam418]

I wish she would stop going on about him living at home like it’s a crime!

[@a.blanco7680]

Shes annoying and he is too nice for her

[@AnnaSzabo]

She’s cruel, narcissistic, and abu…ve, she’s absolutely not kind, she is defensive and damaged but does not understand how damaged she is, very dangerous person, stay away from her

[@punkybrewstar83]

I hope that you find a man exactly like this one darling- I really really want that for you 😂😂😂😂

[@sherrytee2962]

She looks lovely but is SOooooo 😬 Omg she took from his plate after saying that. 26 too old to be living at home in this day n age? And why did they not eat really...please get him another date! Hopefully he'll be more forceful next time not going along with the dte so much. Let him stay with his with mum and save! Unfortunately, I think her mum story and his mum story caused friction. No nody is perfect but he wasn't rude.

[@Skeezer66]

This shows how backgrounds can matter. Their relationships with their moms are completely different, and it was something they couldn't get past. Also, as a young mom herself she just needs a different type of guy altogether.

[@harryvanderveen773]

"We talked a lot about his mom", yeah because you brought it up all the time, guy kept his cool, I would have been annoyed about it if she'd bring it up 5 times. You can tell that she has issues from the past, dang what a wreck. Red flag nation, dad left her behind, ex left her with the kid, doesn't want to talk about it, just being rude to him, no surprise her dad and ex left.

[@eijonasson]

He should RUN ...right now . This woman is not a lady in the least .

[@adedut8134]

She’s insufferable

[@RHathemoment]

the guys a treasure.✨

[@LunaBella144]

She's a horrific person. Poor guy.

[@Jay-oh1li]

Giving her a safe word as an easy way out of talking about an MIA father is pretty big.

[@Spiritualteacherlightworker]

He's a beautiful soul She's an unhealed soul

[@jessicab2682]

this is sad, I would do anything to have a family i felt comfortable living with so i could save money and travel etc while in my 20s. Her life has hardened her so much

[@Lulu22510]

Yikes - why does she laugh on his face like that?

[@RHathemoment]

I think she was actually possibly a bit jealous of him and his mother. ..💔 That's what I think.

[@SEOshogun]

It's a shame really. It seems he would be just as protective of a mate choice as he is of his mom and sister.

[@Oregonthistle]

Wow she is a trial. Very off putting.

[@liviamooresmith7331]

He’s so sweet bless him

[@normandavis8855]

As soon as she said she doesn’t have a mom or dad and that it was just herself and her son, that was his signal to keep conversation light and approach that kind of topic when there was a better foundation. He missed the several signals she gave him and doubled down with the, “because you don’t have any family” question, and she annihilated him for it. Brutal date. She left no mercy on the table.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

He didn't have to put up with rudeness and disrespect. He had a choice to leave , but he stayed and took the disrespect. He got himself to blame. That goes for everything in life not just women. This what happens when someone dosen't work on themselves and decided to go on a date

[@normandavis8855]

Indeed. He initiated his own pain. She was obviously rude, but his poking a stick at her most troubled area on a first date when she asked him to not do that was also rude. He got a valuable lesson even if most people dislike her for it.

[@lisag.2902]

He was soooo nice! She was beautiful but super rude! He said he moved in with his mom to help her out so she wouldn't be alone, not that he was a dependent mommas boy. The girl blew it with him, also after he said he hates sharing food and she just went and ate some of food just to provoke him...wow

[@chimakalu41]

3:05 she is gorgeous though. This should be a good match.he is a decent guy.👍🏾.10:14 This girl may have ruined her own date. His living situation was done of her business. Was she trying to push his buttons?

[@blinkybill2198]

You dont want that hassel dude. Famly is famly and if she can't adapt to having your family close forget them.

[@TheMainManBD]

She's off putting.

[@laurastuart3814]

She is horrible and has no boundaries.

[@Spiritualteacherlightworker]

She was extremely rude.🙈🙈🙈 I would have let her eat alone.💯. Hurt people hurt people.

[@harryvanderveen773]

Imagine what she's like if you'd be in a relationship with her after several years if she's this rude on the first 5 minutes.

[@thelittlesthobo7100]

Aww he was so lovely 🥰 Maybe she craved that closeness with her own mum. Usually a person’s reaction (especially if negative), is to do with their own issues:(

[@sarabrigido2163]

Why she even on the show? Poor bloke

[@Spiritualteacherlightworker]

When u Dont heal what hurt you you will BLEED on people who never even CUT YOU!

[@michellewei7349]

I don't like her!

[@61sunset]

I find that there are many females out there that seem to get very jealous if a man has a close relationship with his mother. Its sad really.

[@VesaJay]

I can't put my finger on it but I wonder why she's single 🤔. Then I liked how she worked in how she has a son. That means she doesn't make go decisions and even that guy didn't want to deal with her.

[@macoeur1122]

Painful to watch. He seemed like a very good guy...and yes, maybe he needed to separate a bit more from his mother but this girl was being a total passive aggressive bi#€*...and then laughing to disguise the fact.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

His mother didn't teach him self respect. If his mother taught himself respect he would've left the date. He had a choice. His mother did a horrible job and if she watching she would he ashamed

[@lindseysanford1843]

She’s so rude

[@Ou8y2k2]

Him: Oh, you don't like that I live with mum? Well, I don't like that I'd have to take care of someone else's sperm. Bye, Felicia!

[@ScousersWife]

She's way too jaded to be even dating. Unless there are men who like being chided. The least she could do was advertise that in her application. He seemed like such a great guy and I hope he's found someone who will appreciate him for who he is.

[@Be1smaht]

Shes kind of harsh. She didnt mean to be but I think her mother did a number on her. She wanted a closer relationship with her mother... hence the making fun of him... jealousy and a little bit of how shes learned to manage in the world. Btw 26 and living with mom is not a loser lol. A lot of people do that.

[@edglue6138]

Run for the hills fella

[@krkrdg]

It would be interesting to see if her 2 year old son grows up to be a decent kind gentleman like the one she mocked and derided on that date. She needs to STOP that nasty behaviour.

[@yamo9695]

Dam his only living at home to watch over his mum 😢 .. read the book before judging it for it’s cover

[@bambi274]

Why isnt there proper food like the othe First Dates?

[@CM-sk2td]

“She is full of Kak”…. As we would say in South Africa

[@davidcdp]

Mama boy, and she called him out! Good girl

[@hugo311name9]

Dang!!! She´s beautiful but mean as can be.

[@chautran3240]

The way she laughed at other people is so insufferable. The guy is so nice, gentle and lovely. That's why her ex must run away....😆

[@dessaarnold7540]

Rude

[@OG_BlackBazooka]

If NBA Young Boy never became a rapper… 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

[@holland448]

Unlike-able lady🎉

[@carolinerhodes8956]

He could do better. Nice guy, her, not sure i liked her😊

[@JARRED27358]

i would dump my pants to get away from this girl. she was mocking him the whole time.

[@franh9320]

She is horrible

[@angieondrik7780]

I were him, I would have walked out and left her with the bill, so very rude....she kept bringing up his mom, not him

[@keithmutamba1395]

She is a hardship. He dodged hard times for a long time. She has trauma worked hard loves the hell out of her son. But she ain’t ready to have a relationship. She needs therapy. And he is too submissive to women. He constantly let her have her way. From dinner or dessert to drinks.

[@lauraphysicsspeer5029]

She was insulting on a first date, that is a huge red flag.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

You think. Wow your so smart

[@lauraphysicsspeer5029]

@@lalosalamanca8574 At least I am not mean.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

@@lauraphysicsspeer5029 he should've walked out on her. It's his fault for toleratering abusive behavior . There are rude people everywhere, It's part of life. Walking away is about respecting one self

[@mikelc4434]

I thought I was going to side with the girl but the guy turned out to be way nicer.

[@ChopSkits]

No wonder her ex man left her. Her attitude is why she’s single lol

[@lav7161]

She had a great personality sober but once those drinks started going down her traumas came out with them. Some people shouldn't drink. It's not for everyone.

[@maryblencowe]

She is objectionable.

[@saffronmccaughna1592]

So uncomfortable watching her judging him..he had the respect not to talk about her ex as she put that boundary in at the beginning. He is a lovely man and it's really endearing they he cares so much for his family.Hopefully he has found love now and hopefully she has stepped off her pedestal 🤣 unattractive!