MOM Takes Daughter's Life Over LOSING AN iPad...| Thee Mademoiselle ♔

[@TheeMademoiselle]

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[@lisacarnegie1427]

This is why I’m pro choice. Not everyone needs children. This was terrifying and so sad.

[@numacamara]

Those don’t even correlate because some people chose to have kids and still abuse them

[@lisacarnegie1427]

@@numacamara there is a strong correlation. But thank you for your input.

[@thequintessential5503]

Yes indeed. There should be a law that parents should take a psychological test to determine if they are mentally capable to have kids to avoid such tragedies like this

[@JessAnonymous]

I’ve been saying this for years! If they did background checks tbh A LOT of people wouldn’t be allowed to have kids since a lot of these mfs are psychologically messed up.they also should be required to take parenting classes

[@pfb74]

Yessss Lisa. I agree.

[@EDPISINNOCENT]

As an 80s baby people in my generation justify abuse yet we have the most mental issues

[@TheeMademoiselle]

That part!

[@Nille0212]

That's not a mother. That'd a monster! Every childbdeserves a parent, but every parent DOESN'T deserve a child! This is sickening and it hurts me to my core. I'm 42, and I had a complete hysterectomy at 26 after suffering from endometriosis so bad my doctor hadn't seen such an extensive case in his 40+ years of practice. All I ever wanted was to be a mom. And these people who are blessed enough to be parents, but mistreat then so badly that they end up dead...I wish I could have just 3 mins alone in a room with her!!! I'd save the state so much time and money! That poor baby! She deserved so much better than to die like that. My her soul be at peace now, and her sister be healed through the love of a true mother and father, and the help of an experienced therapist.🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@eve_intimacywithnature]

Hi. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm also suffering from severe endometriosis & my gynae and I have agreed hysterectomy is the only solution for me at this point. I've been reading about it however & I've come across several articles saying that you still continue having pain even after hysterectomy & it also comes back full on after 5 years. What was your experience after surgery? Did you feel completely fine?

[@Nille0212]

@@eve_intimacywithnature it was the best decision I made! I have an occasional twinge of pelvic pain here and there, but nothing that lasts long or even requires a Tylenol to deal with. It's been 16 years and I've never had anyone say it's back, nor have I ever heard of it coming back if you're not taking hormone replacement therapy. Estrogen is what causes flare-ups, so I've been dealing with the symptoms of menopause since about 6 weeks after the surgery, but I can deal with some hot flashes much better than I dealt with endometriosis! I don't know where you're getting your information from, but I wouldn't rely on others saying it comes back. If the surgeon does a good job removing all the implants they can see and there's no HRT, most women don't have any issues with endometriosis for the rest of their lives. It definitely gave me my life back. The last 3 years before my hysterectomy, I was basically stuck on the couch crying in pain all day with a heating pad and pain meds on deck. After I healed up, I was able to pursue my dreams and become a flight attendant, and after that I was getting my R.N., BSN, but another health issue came up and caused me to become disabled at 32. I never would have been able to even begin the process of either had I not decided to have the hysterectomy.

[@eve_intimacywithnature]

@@Nille0212 Thank you so much for writing back to me sharing so much details. I am exactly where you used to be, basically couch ridden. You have given me so much hope that there is still a chance of living a painless life after surgery. Thank you!

[@islandgirl8067]

A lot of these women take their anger at the father out on the kids. Beating your kids for 2 hours with a broom & extension cord is not discipline, it’s abuse. I heard that the little girl cried “Mommy help me” as she lay dying. 😢😢💔💔 Kids can try you, if you can’t control your anger then you don’t need to be a parent. It wasn’t about a tablet, this woman hated both her kids. She is a monster & should rot in prison for life.

[@NellyBahati]

I agree with you, this was not about The tablet

[@hypeknuckles113]

Exactly it wasn't about no ipod

[@bxbygurlshay6518]

I've had both of those as a punishment when I was 7 it was not fun :(

[@Moszan]

General assault of any kind isn't discipline period.

[@saibot7962]

evil woman killing your daughter over nothing literally nothing

[@Diana734]

There is discipline and straight up abusing your kids out of anger is crossing the line.😑😑😑

[@user-ho3uu4sn4p]

Yeah slapping them on the hand is one thing, but BEATING THEM TO DEATH? Dear god

[@MsMookalate]

Exactly

[@Moszan]

One too many people think "discipline" is assaulting children anyway, regardless how much damage is inflicted.

[@MrsMeeseeks]

The last thing that baby felt before passing away was intense fear of her own mother 💔

[@danniellejohnson448]

Unfortunately she probs had that feeling her whole life living with a parent like that

[@netaniamullings]

I completely agree with you. We don't have our hands on other adults, why put our own children.

[@dinyjp9075]

Cuz adults generally fight back and there's a greater chance of jail or retaliation. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@CruellaDeVil.]

A lot of parents who would do this to their children, see their children as their property.

[@seleciaa]

I used to think it was OK that my mom beat me growing up until talking about it in detail with my fiancé. I'm not laying hands on my future children. There are other ways to discipline and all getting hit as a child did was set the foundations for anxiety, which I had to take years to heal from and still experience on occasion. 🙄 I wasn't even a "bad" child, simply an imperfect one, like we all are.

[@amiahedmondson6320]

Same, I used to think that o deserved it until I learned in college that it’s abuse and NOT discipline.

[@seleciaa]

@@amiahedmondson6320 Preach! It's abuse.

[@dont_harsh_my_mellow]

Children are honestly a totally abused group of people in the world and possible the only group of abused people that don’t know it. Children are taught a lot about stranger danger but never get told that they shouldn’t tolerate that same behavior from family. They are also a group of people who somehow don’t get the same basic levels of human decency that adults have. Do you have a right to hit and lock an adult in a room if they do something wrong? No.

[@akaianamere8774]

I love your perspective on this. I’m so glad people with this perspective exist. You should be proud of yourself.

[@jlovesj3335]

exactly!!!!

[@kasmith54]

Yes! They're literally treated worse than dogs.

[@gensai93]

That's true, most people who are sexually abused are victimized by family/family friends and other people they know instead of strangers, but we're only taught to be careful around strangers and not be "rude" to family members.

[@danniellejohnson448]

That's why there is so many toxic and broken adults due to childhood trauma including myself in my 20's

[@Professoryu]

Some people don’t deserve kids.

[@minhoney9859]

There’s a LOT of parents (black parents especially) that NEEDS to watch your videos regarding kids because I feel the same and agree with you, I could never put how I feel into words that’ll make them think like this

[@mypierre920]

My mom was definitely a bit psychotic growing up. She flipped a bunk bed on my little brother when she found out my step dad was cheating. Thankfully for us and her nothing like this came of that besides trauma. Now that we're all older than 21, we've made our internal peace with the situations we faced as kids. We discussed them as siblings and realize the fault was never ours but our parents for putting us in toxic situations. At the same time we've faced our own issues in relationships with others due to our upbringing. My kids will never know what it was like to be me growing up and I won't rub it in their face about what I did and didn't have as a kid to make them feel 'lucky'..that cycle ended with us.

[@briannanickson6656]

Aww, you are honestly amazing. So many parents rub that fact im childrens faces, it’s weird imo. Everyone should heal and get help with their trauma and issues before having children

[@DVohnaOfficial]

Amen

[@leelasmoochie]

I dated a Haitian man who said the best time of his life was when he was 9 and was “sa” by his older female babysitter. I told he he was a victim and he said he would allow that for his son. I had to leave him

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Shit is DISGUSTING. I have heard many men say the same shit like foh.

[@f_d7497]

Girl, over a tablet…. My parents beat me like I was a grown adult because I was studying for my exams and they wanted me to go buy milk. I got beat because I wasn’t getting ready fast enough… and that’s not even the worse reason why they beat me before. I hope they not confused or surprised when I ghost them for eternity once I move out.

[@Utopia2k]

🙏you continue to heal, sorry that happened to you.

[@licianne]

ppl dont hit on adults cause theres a chance youll lose n sometimes severely, it's definitely a control thing. so weird

[@Mlemonsxo]

Discipline is being told “no , you can’t go to your friends …because you lost your iPad ” this is sad and It’s just a iPad .

[@missantrafalgar782]

And if they sneak out?

[@arcane1282]

anyone who thinks its "normal" or "discipline" to hit children ( let alone ANYONE) is a psychopath and does NOT deserve to have kids/ be around them/

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

Please note that I am not excusing or sympathizing with abusive parents that abuse their own children.(That is unless they make an effort to change or admit their own mistakes). However, It is more of sociopathy, due to upbringing and normalizing abuse brought upon them by their own parents who also mistreated them. Not excusable anymore, but these abused kids grow up and think it is ok to beat up their children, it doesn't feel normal to them if they give their children only corporal punishments. Their trauma brain does otherwise. It is like a defense attack mechanic to physical or mental abuse.

[@arcane1282]

@@digimonalvatrax2738 Yeah and honestly its sad. It teaches the child 3 things. 1, that conflict can only be resolved and fixed with violence and not any other way such as communicating or peace. 2, it sets them up for abusive relationships because they're taught and forced to accept abuse as " disicipline" or " love" as a young age so when they get married and their spouse mistreats them and harms them, they will not be able to defend themselves or leave the relationship since its been so deeply engrained and rooted in their mind that abuse is acceptable. And 3rd, it just teaches them that violence is acceptable. I agree with you wholeheartedly and abuse against children needs to stop ( let alone anyone.)

[@NubianQueen100]

People pop their kids all the time, doesnt make them bad parents....obviously, this situation is much different...

[@ashleyyoung905]

@@NubianQueen100 Yes it does make them bad parents because no good parent would ever do that to their kids and I'm disgusted you're defending abusive parents.

[@purplepheasant4776]

Spanking your child and beating or abusing your child are two different things.

[@ochukoasiafor5834]

2 whole hours?? That’s sickening.

[@carenasmith7]

That social worker that lived in the same apartment building needs to be investigated and charged with child abuse/ neglect because the social worker is a mandated reporter. This means the social worker is obligated by law to report abuse

[@nileciaable]

@@LeaLeaA7 Lit rally said they didn’t in the news report lol.

[@danniellejohnson448]

social workers always let kids down

[@Crystalbella1999]

I wish instead of using physical violence people used their words. Corporal punishment was used on me for many years but I can’t use what was done on me to another. But if I was raised where words were used to convince me to change and behave better, I could use this method on others. I could be a better communicator with my boss, friends and other family members.

[@Sunshinestarryrose]

Punishment and rewards work with words to. Punishment as far as taking objects and privileges away.

[@thequintessential5503]

You know the world has completely fallen when parents use their children as punching bags over the littlest situations. Shows that they value material possessions than human life...

[@sereneseventeen4919]

Exactly why I have no kids

[@Simsanimelover456]

Seeing this made me rethink even “spanking” or “tapping” your kids. I gotten beatings as a child and felt more resentful towards my mom (especially the whole mother daughter jealousy thing but that’s a different story). Although, this made my perspective change as it appears that putting your hands on your child does not work. However, I discussed this with my long term bf and we both agree that beatings can be damaging as if affected him.

[@Sunshinestarryrose]

I won’t beat my kids

[@taylorshani1119]

Having to explain the reason why you lost a child being a misplaced object.... embarrassing. this world is too materialistic

[@maaniigill1277]

Beating your kids does nothing But make things worse and make us hate you and not listen to the point I was in a dv situation and he said he was doing it outta love the same way my parents did mhmm

[@kaishawna3753]

Can we make this sh!t illegal? Like why is hitting kids ok?? Hitting kids is abuse. This sickens me... Children need to be respected, not abused. Ever.

[@ninibugg6203]

When I was a kid, I used to lose things all the time. It's not that I didn't care or was ungrateful, I just had a very poor memory. And whenever I did lose things, I'd always feel genuinely bad and disappointed in myself, and I'd wonder how my parents would react. I can't imagine losing something as a kid and having the thought of being beat to death looming over my head😔

[@_anshin_anshin]

It's normal too. It's a child the brain isn't fully developed. Killing a child for being a child

[@misstinahamilton5714]

Thats normal for a child . My son has adhd and he's lost , misplaced , and damaged so many expensive things but he tries his best . I would never and have never hit him and I try not to make him feel bad but instill its important to be careful with our things .

[@applepieplays1684]

I thought the punishments I was getting was normal until my mom gave me a pet for my 9th birthday. My mom wouldn't spray her with water or tap her with newspaper, or use positive reinforcement. She would throw her across the room, hold her down by the neck and beat her with a ruler/flip-flop, or choke her (sometimes kick her). She would laugh at my cat if she ran away from her or not accept affection from her. She also used to lock her in the bedroom or the bathroom for days (with food or water tho) for punishment or stop her from messing up things. I used to cry because I wouldn't be able to see my own cat a lot of the time and my mom would justify it like how she justified beating me saying, "You have to treat animals like a child." My cat died at 5 years old (she lost her ability to walk and breathe and died while I was at school). I'm still scarred by her death till this day and my mom still thinks she has nothing to do with it. She still thinks violence is good punishment and I tried to tell her that it hurts me all the time and is terrible to use for a child. People like this are far too gone sadly and have control and anger issues. It's so sad to not only watch, but be in.

[@applepieplays1684]

I feel so bad for that child, they should have never had their life take over an iPad. It's ridiculous

[@sagitterroist1287]

What is the world coming to... I literally almost vomited! This is so sickening!

[@jeremiahstraight6301]

🥺💯✊🏾

[@umbracastaway3379]

This world is crumbling

[@pfb74]

I have always called children little humans. Always. Let's keep it in perspective. They have autonomy too and deserve such. Please STOP hurting them! They can't even defend themselves. 😮‍💨

[@justayoutuber943]

I could never communicate about things that bothered me because all my mother knew how to do was hand out beatings. Never a dull moment where she didn’t believe a beating couldn’t solve it! Slavery at its finest!

[@chaosworld60]

I was hit only a handful of times in my childhood. Usually if I did something really bad and I was always hit on my hand. That was enough for me to understand I messed up bad. Other then that I would get a tongue lashing because time outs and taking things away never worked to discipline me. That mom went too far in my opinion. Kids are kids they won't be perfect, they break things they scream they act up. It's just a part of them being a child you teach them better because you are the parent.

[@redgarnet27]

Same, taking things away and privileges worked when I got older like 11/12

[@bxbygurlshay6518]

@@redgarnet27 punishments never really fazed me when I got older I was always quiet and in my room so

[@TheRacqgrl769]

Because I was beaten as a child, amongst other things, I did not beat my own. There are so many other ways to discipline children. Both of my children are fine. I love them entirely too much to pass on the trauma and dysfunction that rules my family. I refused to let it get past me. My family doesn't like my children because they're not traumatized and have a good relationship with me. The jealousy is hilarious and we have nothing to do with the family since my mom died. She was the only reason there was any contact at all. BP seem to love abusing their children. I refuse to be a part of it.

[@akaianamere8774]

I’m proud of you.

[@gigi4874-w3w]

You sound like a genuinely good parent.

[@ebonih7138]

This is so gross. I hate some people. Staying with my boyfriend’s family for the week and it’s so peaceful seeing gentle parenting at its finest. I want my son to be like him. College was me realizing how I was raised was truly a MESS 😭 I luckily never went into system bc my family intervened but dealing with CPS and abuse… it forever impacted me. Intervention is soooo important. Not holding it against my parents but it definitely impacted our relationship as well.

[@jessihartley5413]

It’s okay to discipline your children but abusing them is a NO!

[@mimikuyiawia8809]

As a native my family has delt with generational trauma and so there was abuse , Being beaten as a child left me angry confused and scared , so when i had kids i knew i would NEVER beat or spank my children . They are now 23 and 21 and they have NEVER had any problems in school outside of my home (because kids act diffrent when there away from our sight) and both my adult kids are well rounded healthy emotionally evolved members of society. My son at the age of 23 just bought his first home and works in banking. My daughter is my free spirit complete opposite of her brother but just as successful she lives with her 2 best friends and works with children . I had to heal so much in me and deal with my trauma and be honest with myself because i was adamant about stoping the cycles that plauged my family for generations.

[@andreablossom3929]

I'm so happy for you.

[@mimikuyiawia8809]

@@andreablossom3929 miiweetch (thank you) so much !!!

[@miahaaliyah9140]

I’m happy for you and I’m glad that you didn’t beat your kids cause not everyone is against beating their kids ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lifeisfunny6486]

I used to get beatings and did not like it. Fast forward 20 years I became a social worker and found that black and Hispanic parents beat their kids a lot more and can go too f***ing far. I for one don't believe in beating children especially if you're angry. My dad had to eventually stop beating us because he realized it wasn't working. Instead he got smart and started thinking 3 steps ahead of us. We are evolved people we can discipline our children in a different way. Assaulting and traumatizing your child ain't thhe way.

[@BeachBrah247]

My mother beat my late brother (who died from asphyxia unrelated to what I'm talking about) to the point where he needed six stitches on his head. She had the nerve to lie at his funeral about how he got his stitches. She's emotionally abusive and has been physical before.

[@HaterzGoneHate]

But there is a difference between whopping a child and down right abuse! Why beat a child for over 2 hours! That’s sick!

[@IReadBooksForFun]

They're the same. Not every child ends up dead or severely traumatized by countless studies show the negative effects of corporal punishment. While I empathize because a lot of parents that resort to spanking don't often have the resources or time for gentle parenting, it's still abuse that we've normalized. If your kid isn't old enough to reason, spanking won't help them understand anything except fear and if they are, there are way more effective ways to teach your kids right and wrong.

[@HaterzGoneHate]

@@IReadBooksForFun I take it you’ve never been abused or whooped? Good for you!

[@IReadBooksForFun]

@@HaterzGoneHate I have... which is why I say it's the same.

[@temilola9366]

It's the same thing, both abuse just different levels bit still wrong

[@lovematch2295]

Oh my gosh this is so messed up rip to the daughter man 😞

[@zyzy5845]

People are sick.

[@Eliserose14923]

I was always beat as a younger child when I was in the system and i didn’t think much of it when I was a child , but as I got older I realized how traumatic it is to the child . Sadly a lot of parents take it too far when beating their kids and they think they’re disciplining them which in actuality they’re hurting them . Condolences to the young girl and the family it should’ve never gotten that far . Also I believe most DV women do tend to abuse their children because they tend to do out of anger I witnessed this myself .😔 . Also when I mentioned DV mothers taking our their anger I mean the abuse they endure from their partner they take it out on the child

[@ajeyhiabrown2629]

The DV mother part is true my mom is a DV survivor and every time she couldn't get back at my dad she would take her anger out on me and my sister until we got old enough to fight back then she stopped.

[@amiahedmondson6320]

The worst part is that parents are in denial 😢 I can relate because I didn’t realize how traumatic my childhood was until after I became an adult 😭

[@_anshin_anshin]

In my opinion beating a kid at all is going too far.

[@fmc2973]

I remember witnessing a mom berate her young daughter at the airport because she had lost her phone. She had other kids with her too but the way she dogged this little girl out in front of everybody. I couldn't imagine what she does behind closed doors

[@teeteegay]

What is wrong with these parents?! Why do they think beatings and whooping will help?

[@kaishawna3753]

Because they seek power and control over a smaller human being. It's all about power.

[@Raven5563]

There are folks who should be prevented from having children, period.

[@frederickdavis2320]

As a parent myself I would never in my life beat my children over electronics what a shame and cold world that we live in R.I.P.

[@n.eliana3933]

How is that child going to get over her own MOM killing her SISTER?! For a tablet?! This is heart breaking 💔. Some people really shouldn't have kids. My condolences to the family!

[@aminahussein7707]

People that fight tooth and nail for beating kids don’t need have kids. Abusers disgusting

[@ashleyyoung905]

People who make excuses about hitting or spanking or using any form of violence on their kids and say they aren't abusive don't understand they're actually abusers since that's not how you discipline a child, that's assault and a crime. Any parent who resorts to violent isn't fit to be a parent and I won't be surprised if or when people reply to my comment just to defend why they are violent towards their child because then they'll be exposing themselves for the abusers they are.

[@SHAWNTESH]

She really killed her child over something that could had been replaced smh . That child cannot be replaced, that really hurts the heart😟😔

[@chooselife8527]

I remember I skipped English class my freshman year because I was in the restroom suffering from the WORST uti Id ever experienced in my life. My mama whipped me with a belt as hard as she could for at least 20 minutes. I was so used to being whipped I didn't even cry I was numb to the pain. This is one of many stories I don't think ill ever fully get over.

[@dfreeman13]

I remeber being spanked by a babysitter (I said that right). She would hit me over the most mundane things (one was because she got impatient because I didn't learn how to tie my shoes fast enough. I was only 4). I tried to tell my mom, but she didn't take me seriously. I've always had trouble standing up for myself especially when it comes to authority figures. It doesn't help that the whole "respecting elders" thing was hammered into my head. Almost to the point when I can't question them. My mom spanked me a handful of times.

[@NJPWGirl]

What a crazy world we live in.

[@cienciababcock5991]

Over an iPad? What the eff???

[@maleahj308]

I remember when I was 12 I got a woopen for not killing a spider. This type of abuse is normalized in the black community and it's needs to stop

[@yescarycan]

IPads cost money honey !

[@xoticmars]

@@maleahj308 omg my mom pulled my hair for not killing a roach when i was little…. it’s sick how parents treat their kids

[@xoticmars]

@@yescarycan it’s not worth the life of a child

[@coffeebean4356]

@@yescarycan for 2 hours???!

[@k.a5765]

I was beat, a lot. I’m a productive member of society so idk if it helped. All I can say is my childhood was a nightmare. I was always scare to do or say the wrong thing. My mom even broken my front two teeth because she hit me so hard.

[@zoe._.1850]

I’m so sorry you experienced that :( that’s awful 💗

[@andreablossom3929]

It didn't necessarily help, but it probably gave you anxiety. Which if it's not debilitatingly severe then it makes you more productive. When I had only anxiety, I was great with getting things done because I wanted them out of the way since they would stress me so bad until they were completed. I showed up to places or would be ready very early out of fear of being late or left behind, etc. That may be what the beatings did for you. When I got depression coupled with the anxiety everything went down hill from there.

[@symonelewis1690]

How would this mother feel if her daughters grew up, and the men that they are in a relationship with hits them out of anger and frustration?

[@_anshin_anshin]

She wouldn't care. It's normal for people like that.

[@lisacarnegie1427]

The next part of reporting these cases, is that if you call and nothing comes of it? “You don’t know how to mind ur own business “, “ur trying to take black children from their homes”, “ur wasting peoples time “ ect. If there is no hard proof, reporting it is a gamble.

[@kitaboo206]

She didn't beat that child for 2hrs over an IPad. She was mad about something else. Lock her up and keep her. Hopefully her other daughter will be better off.

[@chalisewashington7586]

That Bystander effect is something serious.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Extremely

[@zakiyaholman2360]

Child abuse & neglect, never fails to break my heart. Omg those poor baby’s, Rest In Paradise Babygirl 🕊❤️🤍

[@tresvegan3633]

This is such a sad lost world we live in. These children deserve so much better.

[@bugsbunni4200]

I’m early, and she must not have AppleCare. Who takes away their own childs life?

[@cristhianmontoya6648]

Those who got beat badly, when they get older tend to resolve their problems with violence when they get angry.

[@6_checkmate_9]

This is why I always say, "CORPORAL PUNISHMENT IS GATEWAY ABUSE!" it's should be more adequately named "corporal abuse" especially considering where it originated from.😔

[@danneighheart1890]

I hope they put her under the jail, how could anyone do something like this to a life they brought into the world? Over an IPAD😑, Life is hard enough outside but to suffer inside of your own home. RIP to that little Angel😔

[@AutisticByNature94]

Material things are replaceable; lives are not.

[@TheWolficorn]

Just watching the first 2 minutes was painful. Not only for the little girl but for all the kids that are in similar situations. I’ve seen it and lived it. I’m actually holding back tears.

[@mira3903]

over an ipad is WILDDD.. may she rest in peace fr

[@Mimi-xv6jm]

It’s a shame that we place more importance on material things than our kids. Material things are replaceable, the love of a child is not.

[@s0meonerandom578]

Why can't people just think if they would be a good parent for a child? If you think you aren't going to do well as a parent don't have any, it's that simple!.

[@mystysenchantedeats]

Growing up my dad used to whoop my sister and I, mostly because he hated my mom and took it out on us. I’m 32 and I still deal with that trauma. I have an 8 year old son and I have NEVER put my hands on him, I don’t even yell at him. There are other ways to correct children. Those push-ups are no joke. RIP SHALOM 🌹👑❤️, may your spirit LIVE!!! Wow 😞

[@joyceg7859]

She probably was thinking about how much money it would cost to replace the iPad and went into a rage. Omgggg.

[@Dataisthetruth]

Imagine offing your child over an iPad. How evil can you be?

[@RoyaltyAC]

I have never and will never lay hands on my daughters. I get comments all the time about how well-behaved our oldest daughter is (the youngest is still a baby), even from her pediatrician. I wholeheartedly believe that when you beat your kids, you’re teaching them how to react when they’re angry or creating a cycle of how others should treat them.

[@jlovesj3335]

same! I don't put hands on my baby

[@beebeetee2926]

I agree 💯.....that control issue is something serious.

[@dragosanders4234]

Some of these parents don't know restraint like yes you can discipline your kids but not do it excessively where it bruises your kids or kills them

[@SublimeThinker]

Beating a child for 2 hours 😡, this woman was taking her frustration out on them. Someone heard them screaming and ignored them 🥺

[@Kikibeeee]

Over an iPad… that poor child 😔

[@EarthAngel8989]

This is an absolute tragedy... but it's so much more deeper than an iPad 😞

[@lumbeemamacimaglia9850]

May she rest in peace , my heart goes out to the sister and family. I hope she receives help bc if these situations are hard for adults to deal with just imagine it for a child. My opinion when it comes to expensive things , like the money was already spent. When my daughter was 3 she was obsessed with play sets like kitchens or big doll houses etc... So that Christmas I got her a big doll house with all the accessories. She literally played with maybe two weeks. And it just sat and collected dust. Yea I was like dang I spent all this money, but that was my choice to buy it and I learned from it. That wasn't her fault. Now she's 9 and she loves art and so all she ever wants is new canvases,paint , brushes etc. We are much stronger than children and can not address them like adults. Alot of us need a constant reality check when it comes with dealing with emotions it's a day to day thing . Now it gets hard sometimes with the back talk and attitudes and acting out. But these babies are so smart and they understand alot more than we give them credit for. My suggestion is using active listening and actually listen to your child yes you pay bills you do everything you are supposed to as a parent and adult, but they are kids and it is never their fault or responsibility to put up with our actions and emotions. Material things are replaceable, kids are not.

[@6Loretta]

I completely agree with you dang this is honestly so sad can you imagine over a bloodclaat iPad🤦🏽‍♀️may she Rest In Peace🕊

[@angel-ke9vs]

Beating kids just teaches them that beating people up is a completely acceptable way to resolve conflict. And that is just not true. It's an undisciplined way to discipline children.

[@Bnny123]

This is so heartbreaking and really sad omg 😭💔 Corporate punishment is not the answer to good parenting.

[@darkwriter_xx94]

My dad beat me and my siblings as discipline and from the outside looking in, it “worked”. College educated kids that have never been in trouble. However, I literally have panic attacks to this day if my dad raises his voice, even if it isn’t toward me. And the things we were beaten about like slamming doors or being too loud, I still panic when they happen as an adult. If a door slams near me, for a split second my heart races as if I was child again. Currently working on it in therapy. I think a lot of “I turned out ok” ppl need to look internally at the ways it may have affected them in ways they don’t even realize.

[@aris1562]

It’s sad. Something that I saw after living in NYC for 10 years now is that we don’t care about anyone I have witnessed abused on the trains even in my apt building and my mom keeps reminding me not to say or do anything mostly because the police will question you as the witness. And in other countries people support each other and we don’t stay there back where I am from if we saw abuse we will jump and help the victims here in NYC people are afraid of every and it’s sad honest specially now with this homeless people attacking people on trains now maybe you should do a video about how we can act in case of any of this happens and also how is best to talk to children

[@icequeen6110]

Good message. I pray God's peace over that family.

[@koaafaith8635]

i get it was lost and a parent would be upset but to sit a beat them is completely inexcusable. Truly makes me so sad.

[@letrice2892]

a social worker in the building hearing the mother yelling at the kids but questions if she should report it ...well you're a mandated court reporter soooo I'm guessing yes to report it smh...

[@Eribella955]

Over an iPad really?! RIP lil one 🙏🏽 💔

[@bcwils801]

Growing up with narcissistic parents, I always accepted their rage as an effect of the stress induced on them by poverty. It took a lot of therapy to realize it was just toxic power politics from superficial, unfulfilled adults. It's definitely a psychological flaw to allow your inability to discipline your children to lead to anger. Most parents don't even resort to this treatment last option either, it's their primary strategy of authority. Some people are just comfortable with beating their kids and don't realize their anger is impulsivity that they never learned to control in their childhoods. And it leads to tragedies like these, and so many other horror stories that never (luckily*) gain attention, that people carry along with them in their memory. RIP to this poor girl; I'm praying for her sister.

[@mushratrana347]

This is so ridiculous n sad to me🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@niabelizaire3596]

Some of these parents are sickening 😤 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@schoolgyaru]

You seem like a pretty responsible, respectful, and kind person. If you've never gotten whooped before then how did your parents parent you and handle you if you've did anything bad? (Genuine question so I could know how to parent kids if I end up having any of my own)

[@nileciaable]

Communication.

[@pfb74]

@@nileciaable thank you

[@TheeMademoiselle]

My parents literally just spoke to me or if it was severe yelled at me but I almost never got into real trouble.

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

So sad, yet brainless people are out here advocating for women to have kids they don't even want. 😔Poor baby, this is tragic.

[@thugginwithnes]

This ma mama right here. She is so disruptive and abusive. Beat tf out me, I've died several times y'all.

[@Tosin226]

I used to think that I was okay with being beaten as a child. I now realize that I'm not and I'd never want to inflict upon someone else the pain that was inflicted on me.

[@michulafrance117]

I dated this guy who has a lot cousins by a very abusive mother. Plus she kept having children and wasn’t able to take care of all of them, especially her special needs daughter so the grandma took care of her. She had about 6 kids oldest is 25 and the youngest is 5. She would neglect all those kids. I was cooking for them doing the youngest one hair because he had an Afro and no one would do it so it would get matted and loc up. One day she just dropped her kids at her moms and left without a word to Arizona. The kids were still in school and she just left them in a different area in Chicago so they couldn’t go to school. It was November and she didn’t come back until late summer. She also had the link card and was getting over 800$ monthly for all her children and wasn’t spending that on them at all. I came out of pocket to make sure they were fed. They were all skinny and malnourished… My ex called DCFS on her for a week and let them know that he was their older cousin and they STILL didn’t help those kids. The 3rd oldest girl complained to me about how this grown man that bums at their house comes into her room at random times at night just staring at her…. Nothing changed…. That same girl became social media famous a few years later and when I was last there the whole family was shaming her, guilting her to pay the bills at her moms place in Arizona but she lived in Chicago. She was sending 500$ monthly… it was so sick…. DCFS don’t care about these kids nor do they help out…. It’s so disgusting what happens to these children and no one cares.

[@malikadiamond]

They be saying I'll bring you in and take you out !

[@dani.1170]

Thank you. Thank you for saying all of this, thank you so much. I remember getting beat by my dad for not being able to count to 1,000 when I was maybe 10. I remember horrific things from when I was younger simply because they traumatized me.