दूसरा बेबी कब करना चाइये | When To Plan For Second Baby?

[@user-ly9xt9zm2u]

Mera beta abhi 12 year ka h... Or Meri beti abhi 2saal ki h... Bahot gap h.. Lakin muje jara bhi taklif nahi havi or muje Mera beta Deep bahot help karta h.. Wo usski sister ka bahot dhyan deta h... Or me bahot relax raheti hu... Or me join family me raheti hu.. To pata nahi chala k meri beti Hiya jaldi badi ho rahi h... Or gap iss liye h.. Ki hame nahi chayiye tha baby par... Priod problem ki vaje se baby kab raha pata nahi chala... But we r all very happy for God's lovely gift... My Hiya... Thank you

[@joemoljoy1787]

my baby is 1 year old and i am 7months pregnant ,thought of abortion but dropped the plan as its not our baby's mistake ,kindly pray for me and my baby

[@MomComIndia]

Definitely dear , you will do very well :)

[@babitarai4619]

Hi! Congratulations dear...Pls guide me how u r dealing with pregnancy and baby as your baby is so small..Pls need your guidance..Thanks

[@reshmasayed4901]

Ameen

[@fakhrulislamhaq]

Same here. I had my 1st baby and then when he was 9months old, my wife got pregnant again and we decided to take the baby. Alhamdulilah. But I think in today's time and age, 2 can be hands full

[@PriyankaVerma-py4hv]

Hlo apka first baby normal hua tha ya c-secktion

[@ArchanaSanjayGupta]

I blessed with my second baby when my first one was 2 year 3 month old. Now my elder one is almost 4 year old n younger one is 18 month old and they both love each other's company. We were very sure about 2 year gap between our kids and after seeing their bonding I always feel like we took the right decision.

[@avinabeer915]

Thanks dear for sharing because my situation is also same and I think one day will come when my both kids enjoy each other company.

[@natashaapoorva3269]

Hi Archana, how long did it take for elder one to adjust. Even im same situation. Elder ond loves the newborn but since he is fragile jyst turned 26 days we are careful how the elder one holds him. He is exvited as well. Let me know how long ur elder kid took to adjust in this situation

[@ArchanaSanjayGupta]

@@natashaapoorva3269 initial 4 month were little difficult because u need to constant supervise to them n I was hardly let my toddler to hold baby since my toddler was little too . After 6 month things were so easy because my younger one hardly feel bored . For him his big brother is an everything n he loves to follow him everywhere.

[@natashaapoorva3269]

@@ArchanaSanjayGupta thankyou archana. This gives me confidence that all will fall in place :)

[@irhasworld3340]

My baby boy is 8 months+ Ma Shaa ALLAH n my some relatives be like tumhri delivery tuh normal hui h jldi jldi baby krlo jtny krny hn vssy b normal delivery m kia problem hoti h.. Huhhh🙄🙄🤦‍♀️ means kuch b😑😏 ub unhony kon smjhae K breastfeeding b chlrh h plus baby n ghr smbhlnaw hr chz sath sath h so I need some time! But on the other hand your video is so informative Lots of Love From Pakistan❤ Stay Blessed dear 😇

[@jyotijulka5322]

I just delivered my first baby. Will think about 2nd baby atleast after 5 years. Cos every child needs their own time n space to grow.

[@bhavanasingh3922]

I have 7 years difference between my 2 children nd my elder daughter helps me very much in taking care of the second one...I enjoyed very much with my daughter...then when she started going to full time school I started feeling lonely ...then I went for second child... now enjoying with 11 months baby boy...but still I feel 5 yrs is ideal time max

[@ruchiraraut4415]

Nice Video Mansi.. I have two Son's elder one 6 year old n younger one 2 years old.. Things was very easy for me ... They easily accept each other.. As my experience 3 to 4 years gap is better for mother!

[@Himank2707]

Hi mansi nice topic In sep 2020 my second baby born and my first kid was 6yr old that time. Now I am not facing any problem because my first kid is quite mature so he is always ready to help me and sometime he make his baby brother sleep in jhula. So my experience is that this difference is good.

[@HopewithNidhi]

Nice video and voice...aap kaun sa mic use krte ho and kaha se purchase kiya....what amount ?? Pls.reply

[@sheetalthakkar5481]

It's very easy for me...Mera 2 year 3month Ka boy he...or baby girl bhi he 6 month ki...I handled both very carefully and easily...

[@iqrakashif7182]

Mam ap ne baby me gap k liye kya precaution use ki plzzz tell

[@preetijagtap3569]

You are awesome mam.....u always post videos which already i think of.....and your videos are very useful and helpful....You are doing a great job....Thank you so much.....

[@Kuchcreativesa]

Nice video.. Mere do baby hain.. Or unme 5.5 year difference hai. Bada beta apne sabhi kaam khud kar leta hai or apni choti sister ka bhi pura dhyan rakhta hai.. So I m totally satisfied with this age difference....

[@rbcollections]

Shi bola yr...hmne 5yrs ka gap diya tha..bad me itni medicine khai ab 9yr bad mujhe naturally twin hone wale hai...pray for my healthy babies🙏

[@poojapant1608]

Hi, मेरा नाम पूजा है, और मेरे दो kids हैं जिनमे करीब 8 साल का गैप है. Actually हमारी थोड़ी मेडिकल issues होने कारण पहला बेटा शादी के 5 साल बाद हुआ. उसके 2 साल बाद मे second issue चाहती थी but again medical issues होने के कारण तब नहीं हुआ. करीब 8 साल बाद बेटी हुई लेकिन underweight थी. जब बेटा हुआ था तब मेने अपना बहुत ध्यान रखा था उसके बावजूद भी मेने सोचा था कि जब सेकंड बेबी करूंगी तब अभी जो कमी रह गई है उसका ध्यान रखूंगी लेकिन unfortunately may be थोड़ी age बढ़ने के कारण कुछ complications हो गई थी जिस वजह से बेटी under weight पैदा हुई. और जैसा मेने सोचा था वैसा नहीं हो पाया जिसका एक कारण ऑफिस में काफी stress होना भी है, खुद के लिए rest करने का time नहीं मिलता था. रात को कुछ घंटे ही सो पाती थी वो भी टेंशन मे और कुछ complications के साथ. इसलिए मेरा मानना है कि आप का point of view बिल्कुल ठीक है. God bless you.

[@riddhishah5332]

In Today's time if you are living in a nuclear family for any reason, then a mother will definitely choose to have more gape in two babies , in that also it depends on how was the growth of the first baby...some babies develop as per their age appropriate milestone while others don't...for some parents ,their first child may be hyperactive...that they can't even think of another baby for few years even if they want to ....so there are so many reasons behind deciding this....and it ultimately depends on the couple who had to ultimately raise their kids....so I don't think there has to be a specific timeline....it all depends...on everyone's situations and their experiences on their first baby.

[@brijalsoni1088]

Thnx mansi for sharing m also 2nd time pregnant now or meri beti abhi 2 saal ki hone wali hai wo zyada understanding hai...so muje lagta hai k hmne ri8 time pe ri8 decision liya hai jinu ko ku6 bhi chahiye to wo khud bol sakti hai uske liye muje khana bhi alag nahi bnana padta hai hamare ghar me jo banta hai wo hi regular khati hai so mera zyada time jinu ke sath hi hota hai...kyuki muje pata hai ki 2nd baby ko time dena hai so Maine jinu ko pipi or potty ke liye bhi taiyar kiya hai so I think it's ri8 time...

[@harpreetkaur9480]

I have twins( girl and boy). So I think my family is complete😊😊

[@ShivaKumar-he9uc]

How to do for twince

[@Lifein.Pakistan]

Congrats.. it's too hard to handle twins..

[@dikshaprajapat2512]

Aap ke twins kitne month ke hai

[@jasvirsinghjasvir4580]

Fer ap mat dkho

[@bhagyashreeprabhakar6448]

Wow god bless

[@lifestyle_responsibilities]

hi mansi, I have recently delivered my 2nd baby last month. and age gap between them is only 16 months.. and my delivery is also c section. I am glad but feels alot weakness and I can't pay attention to my first child bcz that is also just a tofdler. so I will say that the age gap between the next child is must be at least 3 years. thanks . Rubina from Lahore ,Pakistan

[@nehasamreen3563]

Thank you

[@choudharymanisha635]

Ya I agree with you

[@2609nk]

You are bang on! I’ve 2 boys, older is Kabir ‘s age and younger one is 5 months old. Although I don’t regret my decision as it was a conscious choice yet if the first one is a little older, it makes things easier esp in nuclear setup. My older one is not school going yet... I tried starting him off when baby was 3 months old but couldn’t do it as his settling down at school was proving to b difficult & I couldn’t afford to b away from home everyday. If he had settled , managing 2 kids becomes less challenging. Now that he’s home all the time, he gets mischievous with his brother . I just cannot leave the two alone, always need someone to baby sit them or engage the older one some way . The other thing I noticed with my older one is that he observes baby being carried around so he also wants to b picked up from time to time. That said , readiness in all aspects is the key. There will b challenges along the way but if you get into it willingly, it makes it a lot easier. Good luck to you for the sec Nd time whenever that is :)

[@TJ-04]

I wanted to ask you the same question bt than thought whether you'd like to share your family planning or not but you shared...it was informative..thank you..:)

[@ravinaarora4358]

Very helpful video... Meri daughter 3 yrs nd 3 months ki ho gyi hai.. Mere hisab se mai abhi 3-4 yrs ka gap rkhungi 2nd baby k liye coz meri body abhi ready nh hai kyuki meri daughter bht sensitive hai uski care krne mein pura din nikl jata hai... Mere hisab se jb tk aap andr se ready nh ho tb tk baby nh krna chahie. Kyuki sbse jada ek maa ko dhyn rkhna pdta hai bche ka

[@divyapoojary6963]

I am 34 year old and I live abroad i have 2 kids a girl and a boy an they are 9 months apart. I feel in my case I thoroughly enjoy how they accompany each other and they play with each other

[@swagotbharadwaz1645]

Economy matters

[@nazneenbano191]

Meri ek beti h 4th years ki aur ab ek beta hua h jo ki 24days ka h to hume lgta h ki mere bachche ka gap achcha hai because meri beti ab sab samjhne lgi khud se bahut kuch apna kam bhi kr leti hai jb wo 3years ki thi to humne baby plan kiye ab jbki wo 4years ho gyi h to I think mera gap bilkul sahi h

[@nishusharma8851]

Hlw mam kese h ap 🙏mam m bhi second baby ke bare m soch rhi hu and mera beta bhi ab 3year ka ho gya h kya ye sahi time h second baby ke liy?? 🥰🙏

[@najiyabagwan6763]

Hiii meri b beti 3.5 ki hai muje ek beta chaiye beta ke liye kuch tips hoge toh plz batao

[@meenakirpekar1900]

Thanks mam for your guidance My baby is 2.5 yrs old and now I m pregnant but I was confused about 2nd baby. You made me positive about 2nd baby thanks

[@cadubai7087]

Mother's age is also one of the vital points to consider while planning the second one

[@staypainfreeandhealthy9585]

Agree

[@manrajmultani5731]

Agree👍

[@dwijatherisingstar9175]

my age is 35 n i have 6year old daughter....i am confused about second child what to do ...my daughter wants baby .

[@mohdmoin2243]

Meri Beti 9 months old hai and my 5 months pregnant aur mera C section hua tha Mujhe baby planning itni jaldi Nahin karni thi but Ho Gaya Aur Main joint family mein nahin rahti hun Main Apni 9 months old beti ko aur Khud Ko main Akeli sambhalti hun aur upar se ghar ke sare kam Jitna Maine first pregnancy mein apni care Kari Thi ab main vah care nahin kar pa rahi hun Khud ki please pray for my baby ki mera baby healthy Ho❤

[@nailaonlinestore8403]

Ameen

[@khushboorani3205]

Apne 5 mnth me conceive kr lia... Koi dikkt nh hui cesarean hua h apke.. mene apna baby kho dia mujhe bhi jldi conceive krna h.. plzz btaye

[@sanashaheenkhan2553]

Me c section me Mera baby ka heart beat fail gya , 10th of June 2024 ko , or Mera age b 35 hai ..sab doctor ki laparwahi,abhi me bed rest par hu because of operation, kya me baby plan wapas kar sakti ho.

[@user-cn6dz6dj6o]

​@@khushboorani3205sis apko second baby kia hua

[@Rabbi-d8n]

Apka sb thk rha na itne km gap me koi prblm to ni hui na

[@jayshreesoni8052]

Hii manu 😃 i am jayshree bhot dino bad comment kr rhi hu.. mera baby 3 sal se upr h.. or i am 4month pregnant😃😃 mtlb shi time b second baby k liye. Thank you manuuu for information video😘😘😘😘 ab sb moms ko pta hoga ki babys k bich kitna gep hona chahiye taki wo apni 2nd pregnancy ko b injoy kr ske🤗🤗

[@priyasahai5435]

Mujhe to pehli hi pregnency mein mere sasural walo ne itna tang kar diya ki main dusre bache ke bare mein bhi kbhi nhi sochungi jabki mera beta Hua h pehle

[@kimibhatt7068]

Priya Sahai -- same here :D

[@priyasahai5435]

@@kimibhatt7068 I think 100 mein se 60 girls ke sath yhi hota hoga

[@RahulParmar-ty5qr]

b

[@nilofersyed5425]

😂😂😂😂 sahi h girls , same 100%

[@nailaonlinestore8403]

Kia tng kia?

[@anupsidhu8074]

I'm just married and we are two siblings and our age gap is 6.8 as my mother got married at 20 and i was out when she was 21 and my bother was out when she was 27 and I always treat my brother like mom and he also calls me second mother.. hahaha and mom is healthy and happy and she knew that my brother have her mother for lifetime. (That's me😁and being and elder sister I'm responsible enough as, i still care for him and he is in college and i love our bond♥️

[@saritasharma-zv4jj]

Mera baby 15 months ka h aur mujhe bhi 2nd pregnancy k liye kaha ja rha h but main abhi sirf apne baby par hi dhyan dena chahti hu. Ye waqt wapas nhi ayega mai abhi ye time enjoy krna chahti hu. Mera bhi same view h jo apne bataya. Bahut se points achhi tarah samjha diye thank you.

[@rolimajohnsondsouza1181]

Nearly 5years gap is good in my own experience because elder one can care very well and love so much their siblings. my first baby boy is 5 years 10 month old second baby girl is just completed 5 month. Thank you.

[@mommyandthemadhouse7124]

Hi mansi! My 1st baby was 2yr 4 months when my 2nd baby came in this world. I was really worried about the first one bcz 2nd one wasnt planned. But my first baby understood is so well. I never thought he can be at home when i will be at hospital. Although its a lil challenging for me to divide my time properly as the second one need complete attention. Sometimes it leads to frustration But its still manageble. So i think 2 3 yr time is perfect. Now the 1st one started his skul n i can get plenty of time for me n the lil one... All the best to all the second time would be mommies .your hardwork really increase!! Enjoy motherhood

[@singvdkusum7781]

I have two children vd 4.6 Gap....my first baby boy of now 5 years is very independent n supportive..n my baby girl is 8 months.....n i,m happy vd my family planning...

[@sunehrasaiyad4117]

Hello I do have 2 daughters. Your opinion is as perfect as always.after 2 n half year dusra baby plan Karna perfect hota h. And obviously aap physically, mentally and financially bhi ready hone Chahiye. Mere dono baby me 5 sal Ka gap h lekin I think mere liye bilkul Shi rha kyunki meri elder daughter bahot mature ho gai thi dusre baby k time pe to usne na hi sirf khud ko aur apni choti behen ko sambhala bulki mujhe bhi kaafi support mila usse.aur ek important bat agar ek baby ho or uska development Jo hota h wo aur 2 babies ho unka development bahot fark padta h. .dusro k sath adjust Karna, share Karna, care Karna ye sab wo log Apne aap Sikh jate h.jo aage ki Zindagi me unke liye bahot acha h.

[@MomComIndia]

Very nicely said

[@Gingeryy96]

My daughter is 2.2yrs ..n v decided to not to have 2nd .. in my point of view quality is more important than quantity 🤓🤓

[@mrs.padmahoge7296]

Best video thanks to information

[@tfananna7981]

Well said👏

[@atharvathevlogingboy1800]

I used to feel the same till my son got 7 year old 😢 now all the time he complains only one thing why he doesn't have a sibling. I am confused now. Should i go for the second or not 😢

[@prernasahu5923]

Ur voice attitude n attention is so positive.

[@ashwiniajagekar4804]

Mam aapane sahi time pe ye video share kiya hai ab hamara bhi second baby ane vala hai aap ke es video se mere sare problem solved huye thank u

[@Tastyn-heathy]

I agree with your view.. but it would b better if there is atleast 3 or 4 years gap between two children..

[@varshaaparanji7475]

Hai,mam I just love the way u start the video.... N m very happy to see ur videos it helps me alot.... Mam can u pls make video on handling a Ziddi baby with depressed mother. Or with mood swings.....pls..... N how to bring up a positive attitude baby....

[@MomComIndia]

yes

[@varshaaparanji7475]

@@MomComIndia thank you 😍

[@shreyabiswas2145]

Hi dear Mansi di, I agreed with you.....I have a 16month old lovely daughter.... and I want to adopt my second baby....we will start the process when my daughter will complete 2.5 year.....It's my dream to have a baby who I created within me and have another one whom I dreamed to born from my heart.

[@supreetkaur4643]

I too think this...but then a lot of family pressure is there to bring second biological child than adoption

[@BeCreativeWithMe0503119]

Very important point.. Physical readiness

[@er.abhishek1108]

Mam, when you say 2 years difference , does it mean 2 years between birth of two babies or 2 years between pregnancy? Please tell me.

[@omarandowais8861]

My kids age difference is abt 1year 8 months btw both ..the main thing Is we can plan the second baby but while ur pregnancy u should try to make him a bit independent like potty training, adjusting among each other ,cleanliness ..stop breast feeding or bottle feeding if possible...good habits as much as possible so that he shd be prepared..and yaa being finan,financially strong is really important...as u can afford the needs of both of ur kids

[@nehagrover3960]

Mera beta 17 month ka hai... Or m 4th pregnant.... Mujhe 2nd baby jaldi hi chahiye tha.... But ye baby plan nahi tha mujhe 2.5 month bad pta chala sabne advice ki abortion ki but main apni galti ki punishment baby ko nhi dena chahti thi.... Jo hoga dekha jayega.... Plz pray for my baby

[@arpitakhan786]

Sab theek hoga don't worry...proud of u..waise bhi planning sab bahana hai jab upar vala ko dena hota hai tabhi hota hai....i support ur decision

[@nehagrover3960]

@@arpitakhan786 thanku dear

[@sajidabanu2918]

Good decision 😘

[@ManDeePKauR-ur3tj]

Aggar family me bche ki care krne k liye 3 se 4 member hai to after 2 year ok But agar only mother ne sb manage krna to atleast 4 year distance hona chaiye

[@chulbulidrishtisingh7276]

I think dusra baby tb krna chahiye jb hm phle baby ko Puri trh self depend bna ske..

[@akankshadwivedi8395]

Mere baby bhi 2,year and 3 month ka ho chuka h or m bhi pehle ek hi baby rakhna chati thi per family pressure ki 2,bacche hona bahut jaruri h to isliye Maine 9 kg wait loose kr liya h or folic acid tablet bhi start kr diya h mansi ji aapne ye video banker bahut help ki h thank you so much

[@firdousKhan-zx6fg]

Mera 1 beta h 2 year k upar h aur mujhe abhi dusre se pregnant hu aur 2 month start h mujhe aap ki video se bohat help milti h aur mere phele

[@komalkful]

My baby is 1 month old my age is 32 year i want to plan 2nd child what to do now plz advice

[@gaupan1]

I am reading this comment after 1 year. So what have you decided? Please explain your situation so I and other can learn. Nearby situation of yours.

[@CREATIVEMEHENDIWORLD]

Mera first baby 6 years ka hua h last month...and es month mujhe ek or baby boy hua h

[@RealityNewsNetwork]

अगर किसी का सर्जीकल डिलीवरी से बच्चा हुआ हो और इस दुनिया में नहीं रहा हो तो क्या करना चाहिए। खासकर जब सर्जरी के तीन महीने बाद ही गर्भ ठहर गया हो।

[@Dhamini5328]

Superb... mam ur method of explaining is very good

[@munmunsengupta8469]

Your video is very informative... You discuss every important part... Very nice... I think when people planning for their first baby they also think about the physical condition of mother financial part and emotional part... These things should be followed in case of first baby too... We followed them

[@mansijotwani8273]

I have a baby boy of 1yrs old his name Is also Kabir and my name is mansi what a coincidence and i also think same as you 2.5 to 3 yrs is right to plan second baby than also depends on financial condition, but Meri mumma kehti h har baby apni kismat ka sath le kr aata h 🤗

[@samarthaphotographypande8552]

Sach bat hai ji mere bhi financial conditions thik ni the lekin meri beti hui fir o breast feed nhi hui to humne use formula milk diya

[@NasimKhan-nv9ty]

right

[@rishabharya4092]

Jab mere beta 3+ ka tha tab meri 2nd delivery hone wali thi tab meri tummy ko dekh ke bolta mumma aap jada roti khati ho isliye aapki tummy bahut badi h par delivery ke kuch pehle humne usko bola ek chota babu aayega vo bola haa m khelugaa uske sath maine pucha aapko kya chayiye vo bola mujhe sister chahiye aur aisa hi hua

[@zunerashahbaz6740]

hhahahaa

[@singhmadhuri5410]

hii ..sab ki chhodiye aap bataiye aap kya sochti he second baby ke bare me kya aap chahti he ki kabir ke baad aapka bhi second baby hona chahiye ????? plz bataiye

[@aarifmakrani6281]

Please batay

[@lilansenapati2591]

Really mam helpful vedio...Main to relax hui hoon yeh vedio Dekh Kar & Thank u sooooo muchhhh

[@reenachikara3472]

mere twins baby hue h ek beti ek beta. m bahut khus hu.

[@meenakhan7702]

Sach me yar... Mera ek baby boy hai... Meko bhi twins baby chahiye...

[@divyeshkashyap1315]

Kya koi gaow ke baby ka video dekhna pasand karte hai dear friends agar ha to like kare

[@kiranpatil1410]

Meri beti ko 8 year chalu hai Par muze dusre baby ko karna hai Par bahut jyada delivery ka Mann me darr baitha hai Aisa sochti hu ki 1 hi baby bas ho gaya Or tayar nahi ho paa rahi Plz help me

[@adityarudach1647]

mera b yahi haal he 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Itsrabab1]

Hi mam. Mera baby 8 month ka.hogaya hy or mera 1st baby hy. Lkn me bht ziada weak hogyi hun.. Body me.pain b bht rehta hy. To.me.kese khud ko theek.kar sakti hun

[@harp6934]

Thank You! Answered all my questions very well :) Loved your video. Had all these thoughts in mind from a month.

[@HealthyIndianKitchen]

Very Good information ..So nice of u..Thx for sharing 👍👍

[@samsung-mh5dt]

second baby is not important...Its just a choice...moreover having single is literally perfect.

[@Radiant-Rudranshi]

Meri beti 7months ki h,1st baby h ye Meri. Baby operation SE hui taanke pak gye 1 month hospital me rhi. Ghar aayi tab b akeli thi koi sath nhi tha,bacha sambhalna b nhi aata tha mujhe but sab apne AAP Depression me chali gyi thi Mai us time bahut hi Jyada. we Financially to aaj b bahut weak hai hum log kyunki Mai job nhi KR rhi. Dusra bacha karna hi nhi chahti......Bas apni beti ki parwarish achhe SE kr lu yhi kaafi hai.

[@nitikasharma5172]

Same my case

[@nutandighe]

I feel if one can afford, instead of planning for second child.. adopt a girl child.

[@Priya-wz7mv]

Family kisi bhi tarah se supportable nhi hai or hum joined family hai Agar family sabhi tarahar se support karte hai to 2 and 3 years is right but family support na ho to 4 years sahi hoga. Mera first baby 4 and half years ka hai ab wo sab kuch sikh chuka hai or humne ab dusra baby plan kiya hai.

[@ainalattar7556]

Yes I think 3 se 3 n half yrs ki gap sahi hai... Jab mai pregnant thi tab meri first baby girl 2 n half yrs ki thi... N she was vry excited that will bring a new baby at home... She always wanted a baby boy n yes mujhe baby boy hi hua...

[@natashaapoorva3269]

My son is 2.3 years and i delivered baby boy 14 days back. I had made a routine for the 1st child making him slerp with mymom . Being with my mom most of the time. Having food independently and so on. But when the little one arrived he loves him but the way he express love we shpuld be careful during intial phase. He has feeling why he isnt allowed to sleep with me when little one sleep next to me. Which hurts me sometimes. If anyone needs to share some tips pls do

[@AnanyasSpace]

Natasha Apoorva Even I have gone through the same situation.. but in my case., my son aged 4.7 months when I delivered my daughter in the month of April.. He is much matured nd it helped me a lot

[@shailajamurali3702]

Hi dear when ur little one is sleeping u take care of elder one. Pamper him a lot

[@khadeejakubra7909]

Natasha Apoorva make ur second baby love ur lilone one..... tell him his ur brother he loves u and also when u get some tym do spnd tht tym with ur big son and tell him u lve her aloootttt.....thngs will be going to better hve positive attitude and stay strong

[@natashaapoorva3269]

Thankyou all for your reply. I do spent time with elder one. Pamper him a lot. Since im not taking adequate amount of rest its effecting my night routine with younger one and its leading me jnto some depression. Elder one always wanted to see younger one and we do make him interact with younger one but within us we are scared if he woukd hurt or not. Always we do keep eyes. I hope things will fall in place soon:)

[@angelkhan3426]

mam mera beta c section hua tha plz y btaiye ki mujhe 4 sal K gap chajiye m Kay kru kya best rhega copper t injection tablet plz suggest

[@angelkhan3426]

plz answer mam

[@chaitalidesai1080]

Mere 1 beta hai 5+ yr ka hai or abhi beti huyi wo 3 mnth ki hai so 5 yrs gap is good mereko aesa lagta hai

[@shikhasachbhardwaj505]

hello mommy's kya aap log b apna experience de skti h 1 hi baby rkhna h ya 2 mera abi 1 hi h

[@dikshakadu8114]

Apke hairs bhot achee hai and healthy b kuch tips dijiye na

[@khadeejakubra7909]

hey guyzz.... as most of u know i hve 2 kids..... a baby girl who is 2yrs and 2mths old and second baby boy who is 5 mnths old..... so they are only 22 mnths apart..... if i share my motherhood journey... it has lots of ups and downs... kab muje pata chalta k i am pregnt i was very scared k how im going to manage to small kids tht too alone. . meri puri second me i took maxium care of my daughter and mine too.... pregnancy k lst mahiNo me jab apne mumma k Ghar aaye to i spnd alll the tym with my girl as i know k second baby hone pe my bushra k sath tym spnd nahi karpaogi..... when i delived my boy she was only 22mnths old...... first 2 mnths were mosssttttt tough period... Kyun ki my bzy thi mere boy ko ya to kabhi feed karwane me ya kabhi usko sulane me to basiclly bushra a samjh rahi thi k mere mumma muje tym nahi deyrahi hai. . which hurted me a lott..... bt i tried to be strong k jab bhi muje thoda tym milta i use to spnd it with my girl..... jis me kahi na kahi i feel my back is hurting a lott...... bt thngs got muchhh better when bushra turned 2 yrs.... suddenly i dnt know what happend to her she became vry understanding and good girl .... mai hamesha ek positive way k mumma lves u aloootttt and he is ur brother he too loves u aloootttt ..... nw everything is fyn and 'well settled' as bushra never try to hurt is brother as she know k he loves her ..... meri nuclear family hai jab Ghar pe sirf mai aur bacche rehte hai even washroom jan bhi my suchti hu k doo chote baccho ko akele chod gai to it is not safe. to mai pyaar se bushra ko samjhate ho k ur big sister plz dnt touch ur brother and be gentle ill b back in 2 mints.... 10 out of 9 tyms shes a good girl bt that 1 tym she use behaves like most noughtest girl.... so all i wanna say is if u hve a strong support systm and a 'positive attitude' u cn handle every situation.....😊

[@khadeejakubra7909]

and nw im vry happy tht i hve a sweet happy family..... i think hamara gap bhi crt hi tha

[@nooreharam9574]

ALLAH Pak hamesha Khush o abad rakhy Ameen

[@nooreharam9574]

Mera beta b 22 months Ka tha jb meri beti hui But Ahmed abhi nhi abeeha ko hit krta h kbhi bite kr dyta hai Or boht zidi b hai

[@isaMusa2023]

Mera c section hua h abi first baby h jo k almost 3 months ka h ....me tu bht busy rhti hon osk sth . pora pora din or koi kam nhi krti bs baby ki care krti hn . mjy back pain b rhta h bht

[@FawadKhan-br4nx]

Very nice video uploaded by u.. we have 2 kids one boy and one girl... 1 yr 11 months gap between them ... My wife faces lots of problems handling them... My son took many months to adjust with his little sis ... I think one should plan 2nd baby after 3_4 yrs ... Chhote bachho me ye baat ajati h k mujhe ab kam pyar mil rha h dusre k ane se aur wo chhote wale ko marta h ladta h jhagarta h... To haan 1st one jab thoda samajhdar hojaye tb dusri planning karni chahiye...

[@MomComIndia]

Good logic and I agree, but at the same time all babies are different

[@FawadKhan-br4nx]

@@MomComIndia true

[@Mango_cat28]

Di apne sahi kha k second baby ko bahut intention ki jrurt hoti h,jb dusra baby hota h.meri beti akele m jakr roti thi.k mma abchote baby ko hi pyar krti h.bahut mushkil se smbhala h di mene 2 bacho ko .joint family honey k baad bhi.

[@priyasahai5435]

Joint family bas naam ki hi h aajkal . Beti ki maa hi fir bhi kaam aati h bhot

[@varshagaur9279]

I like your video because you are taking practical things that age gap should not be more than 5yrs. Now a days it is trend to give long gap but I'm mother of 2.5 yr and expecting second and we will have when our first one Will turn 3.. I agree with you that after 2year child become independent. Thanks

[@shaikroohi8361]

Hii mam....nice video ...very informative Loved the way u covered pregnancy period and journey of a baby in a simple nd sweet way.... makes easy to understand ...thanks

[@csaily]

My first baby girl is 6 yrs n second baby boy is now around 1 year..n we decided to have second baby when my daughter demanded for sibling (otherwise we wished to have single child) n she is totally enjoying his company.I think 3 yrs is bit early time as they can tell their needs but they need more of Mumma's attention.5 yrs gap is perfect as first child becomes totally independent n responsible too.I m totally satisfied with my children's age gap.I also passionately enjoyed every bit of my second pregnancy.

[@prernasahu5923]

I see for dis kind of answer. . Thax a lot . . U dont know u have removed my major tension. .

[@csaily]

Happy to read same thoughts...but I spoke my experience..😊

[@gauripm]

Lovely! I have same situation.. we took 2nd baby's decision because of my daughter ... She is now 5yrs old n asks for a her own gharme rehnwwala bhai/behen hahaha

[@prernasahu5923]

It sounds so positive

[@alyaanfaisal7567]

I also think so..

[@singermousvlogs7218]

Meri baby(girl) sare 3 saal ki hain aur meri abhi 1st month pregnancy chal rahi hain its ok ??

[@poonamraghuwanshi3129]

Yes it's ok

[@onlineacademy1827]

Kash AAP ye vedio phlay banaya hota mujhe kisi ne samjhya nahi Mera baby 13 month ka tha or mujhe aik beti paida ho gai is wje see meray phlay baby pe boht asar para or wo kafi kafi weak h or Meri age 22 h mTlb thora wait karna chahye jaisa me mam ne bola 3 Sall ka waqfa zarori h warna sab garbar ho jata h

[@gloriasharma1339]

Mansi g mere do beti h.or dono main 5 year ka gap h. Or main bhut kush hu. Ache se samahal pati hu or bdi beti study in 2nd class or bhut samagdar or helpful h

[@MG-vs5wv]

Mam I lost my baby girl in June 2022 😢😢😢😭😩😭 after c section 😭😭 itz my first baby 😩😩😩 when I'll try to next baby anyone please guide me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jeeyajack1208]

Same sis mere wife ka b 2 month baby lost hogaya hai

[@MG-vs5wv]

@@jeeyajack1208 wt hpp to yr baby

[@jeeyajack1208]

@@MG-vs5wv night me 3 bajhe ulthi kar liya aur ulthi chathi pe hi thi andar nai aaye aur baher nahi gaye 😔

[@shaikhhina2066]

@@jeeyajack1208 plz yaha pr pochne ke bataye Dr se salah le.......

[@sinusenofficial3344]

​@@jeeyajack1208please aapane dobara conceive Kiya Mera bhi yahi same mere sath bhi hua please reply

[@namratarajput1208]

Hello ma'am My baby is 2.5 and he is so energetic I think he needs my attention more..bcoz second baby k bad hamara dhyan divert ho hi jata h..now a days kids are born talented so I think first baby should get enough time and concentration then one get enough understanding then can think about next one👍👍

[@madhurimhaske7204]

Hello.. Please make a video for why to have a second baby?

[@madhurimhaske7204]

Thank u..My baby age is same as Kabir.. 21st Feb 2017...Now we are planning for 2nd baby. But I am confused for why to have a second baby. And again I'll have to give 2 yrs for the baby. But my hubby says In long term it will benefit. I love all your videos and your perspective. Please make a video so that I'll be pleased with the decision.

[@shalinibhadauria6763]

Mera 8 months ka beta.. Mai to ABI bhot ghabrai Hui hu k 2nd nhi krna.. kyuki SB kuch akele Kiya h Maine.. c section huaa Mera but no rest no sleep no help...

[@archittiwari21]

Same here

[@SunitaSingh-nl9ke]

Same here

[@jamylock]

Same here

[@madihanaz1345]

Same here

[@lalitaraikwar1356]

Same her

[@poojasoni-yt6ng]

Mujhe bhi lgta hai 3 saal ka gape acha hai kyuki phla bacha school jane lgta hai, or second baby ko ghar par dhyn rkhna easy ho jata hai

[@keertihiremath8606]

Baby ku Johnson soap, powder, lotion is best or Himalaya products is best

[@deepikasahu9064]

Mostly I prefer himalaya

[@bharat2918]

I too prefer Himalaya all the products.

[@SanjayRajput-qc8vm]

Baby ek se jyaada hone chaahiye taaki unhe bhi kuch riste mile Varna vo akele rah jayege

[@arjunsinghthapa1487]

Mere 2 bache hai 4 sal ka gap best hai according my experience

[@syedan5223]

Meri sister ki triplets baby girls 13months ki thi or uska ek baby boy bh hogya ..

[@parijain6744]

Hello mam .....meri ek baby girl hai Jo ABI 22months ki hai or meri ek choti baby b hai Jo aaj hi 10 days ki hui hai ......mujhe b thodi problem hui thi bt ab okay for me nd for my husband also .....yes offcourse jaldi concieve krne pehle Bache me bht changes aane lagte hai ..... Mere sath b yahi problem hua h ....ABI vo itni choti hai ki Mai na khud ko sambhal pa rahi hu na hi choti wali baby ko sambhal pa rhi hu .......and Pura din itni frustrate rehti hu ki sara frustration badi beti pe Nikal jata.....vo h b thodi shararti ......Mai sab chiz bht ache se manage Karna chahti hu bt last me ThAk jati hu Thanks to my husband vo mujhe bohot support karte hai ....

[@prahladsingh3533]

Thanks mam apki video se muje bhut help milti h ese hi baby care ki video dalte rhiye

[@BeautyHouseByKajal]

Mera baby 5 year ka hai toh kya ab chance lena thik hai ?

[@tanuagarwal9833]

5 saal ki ho gayi thi FIR main chance liya beta Hua bahut accha Aj wo 6 month ka ho gaya hai jab tak Pehla bachha 5 saal ka Na Ho Jab tak bachcha nahi karna chahi

[@rubalpigeonfarm6673]

Right👍🏻

[@gazalashaikh7132]

Rry 👍

[@vinaykumarherbalifenutriti9123]

Right but plan kaise kare ki next beby after 5year ke baad ho

[@gafurbagwan3204]

Mam my 1 st child 3 years ka hai or 2 nd 1 year 4 mnt ka hai....par mam my firt child s dadi pass rehta he ..kuch badme effect to nahi karega na Plz mam ans me

[@kiranshinde6469]

Thank you mam bohothi kam ki jankari dene ke liy. Meri 9 many ki baby he or muze apni family ko samjana muskil tha ki aabhe me 2nd chance nahi lena chahati , .aapka ye video muze bohot hi kam aayega.

[@pallavimahajan8674]

mam aap sare experience jaise share krti h... Vaise hi apne second baby ki planning or puri journey share krna plz... Love u kabbu 😍

[@ssharma6114]

Gud to hear this finally.. otherwise bde log says are krlo, pal to jaenge hi😂 as if they r not kids but some wild plants😏