More like her--Miranda Lambert (Lyrics)

[@eflemingmiller]

For people listening to this song, remember you should never change yourself so a boyfriend or husband stays, you need to get out there and find someone who loves you for you.

[@torilowry9698]

This song is so beautiful, and I love the message behind it: Don't compromise yourself to please someone you love. This is wonderful........

[@fckthepatriarchy7694]

You know you’re heartbroken when you return to this song after so many years 😭💜

[@xxxJensTheNamexxx]

Wow I can't believe all of the sad comments. My heart goes out to you all. But please don't forget, you're a woman, you were born strong. If a man can't recognize how much you love him, how much you'd do for him....then you're better without him. Simple but hard at the same time. It's okay to be hurt, it's okay to be heart broken. Just don't forget to pick yourself up!

[@addieerin8814]

He broke my heart tonight. Now I'm crying listening to this. Us women have to stick together 👑💪

[@kayleesears6434]

Addie's World LISTEN aid he hurt you that’s gods way of saying you don’t need him so I’m here to tell u FUCK HIM, okay you don’t need a man the right one will come along trust me cause the minute you stall giving to shits about men a good one will come I know from experience

[@alexismcnabb8062]

never liked him anyways😂

[@addieerin8814]

@@kayleesears6434 Hahahah😂😂 this helped me soo much and mad me laugh my ass off 😂😂💞

[@ashleesellars8270]

Remember you're a bad bitch😉💖

[@addieerin8814]

@@ashleesellars8270 Awww! Thank you! You a bad bitch to! ❤❤

[@lyricmoore2720]

this song is savage af but low key you can hear the heartbrokeness

[@oliviasherburn2741]

"you don't look much like a man from where I'm at" AMEN! Real men don't do this. Love the song though!

[@courtneythomas1436]

When you feel like you're never enough and feel like crying all the time because you want to be more like her. But you have to put on a brave face and act like nothing bothers you about where he is. Every relationship I've been in, they always leave me for someone else. When will I be enough and not have to compare myself to someone else?

[@toriguffey2159]

You should never compare yourself to someone else or feel like you are not enough. You just need to be the best you that you can be. You are enough and you will be enough for the right person. Just focus on you and let them find you.

[@denicebly685]

I was never gonnna be enough so I’d rather be miserable alone than live in that again!!

[@brookeedens951]

Who’s listening in 2019🔥❤️💔

[@EverythingArtemis]

2020??

[@brookeedens951]

Eri Chan absolutely!!

[@rachelelizabeth5983]

2020

[@lucynewmexico6814]

2020

[@lucynewmexico6814]

Great song

[@aimeeyocum4703]

Girls, I gotta say this cuz I been there too. You can't always blame the other girl because men lie. They tell woman they're single, when they aren't. On the other hand if the other girl knows that was your man and SHE went after him. Only bad karma on her. Hold your heads up ...if he cheated on you. He will cheat on her. When you stop caring, that's when they come back crawling...men want what they can't have. Then when he does come back. Tell him to get lost!!! By then you may have the man God picked just for you.

[@leeannemiller7671]

I can't say how much that helps me. I was with this guy for almost 3 years. We had everything planned out. Then he met someone else. He slowly stopped talking to me all together and before I knew it she was wearing his clothes to school. They're together now. I was so angry at her for the longest time. I thought she was the reason he left me, that she made him leave. But one day I realized that if he wanted to be with me/loved me like he said he did then he would have stayed. I wish I would have realized that sooner honestly. Holdin on is harder than letting go sometimes.

[@aimeeyocum4703]

Hi LeeAnn, you sound like a really good hearted person and smart. I'm glad that helped you. One day someone will be so amazed by you and things will fall into place. Keep doing what you're doing and have confidence in who you are. Karma is on your side! And ya holding on can be harder than letting go. When you see the two of them, hold your head high, confidence in yourself can be so sexy, and trust me sooner or later, he'll be cheating on her, if he hasn't already. I'm proud of you, cuz we girls gotta stick together. One day she will be the unhappy one. Go girl. I'm here for you.

[@alexandriabaisden1241]

shit, the bitch knew that he was taken. she lied until she got him, because I had all of the proof.., :(

[@av3r3st24]

The other girl isn't to wholy blame but she does have to be blamed for a part of it.

[@lexilou2832]

Aimee Yocum Amen!!

[@Maddygrl1]

I went to her concert a week ago and I saw Miranda Lambert,Eric Church,and Josh Kelley.It was awesome I remember putting my rock on sign up all night!!

[@graciebeth3011]

I love the soft side of her. It is beautiful.

[@KatieKoala13]

GOSH WHY DO HER SONGS ALWAYS MAKE ME CRY?

[@laciegrant5752]

Don't ever let any guy ever take you for granted and don't ever let them lie to you be strong and bold cause we are more than just dirt

[@ashtonlee4949]

Lacie Grant same goes for women to many hoes nowadays

[@B0ST0N09]

hey dont think like that, dont ever wish you were someone else. its hard right now bc u love him, but someday someones gonna come along & love u for being exactly who you are and not anyone else. dont ever change yourself for someone you think you love, time has a crazy way of changing perspective on alot of things

[@mackiediddle]

No words can describe how this song connects with me.... but I've gone through these comments and I am seriously taken aback by how deceiving life really can be. but i live by these words "When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal." You WILL find the right one for you. :)

[@savannahgarcia2599]

4 years in our relationship, I thought I was the only girl but I wasn't. I did felt so stupid for not realizing. Now I hear that him and the other girl have a baby girl. They're getting married. Those were our plans. I rather be single than to wake up next to failure in my bed....

[@MommaDanny]

Savannah Garcia girl i totally know the feeling. the guy in the picture with me left me for a chick hw met one Craigslist. now as soon as she comes he is planning on doing our plans with her. but i promise. it does get better. after he told me to gtfo i found the love of my life and now in a month we getting married and planning on moving soon. so in the end he got the wrong end of the deal because he left me for a "girl" and i found a man who is willing to do anything to make me smile. so i guess he lost the best thing he had. it does get better. God has a plan for everyone. even if he has to shut doors that opened before they should have.

[@kmdg1000]

Lundt Life it does get betterm and I'm so glad I still believed in true love because now I met someone new and we just got married and we'll be planning our family soon. i hope things are good for you and be strong, it's worth it❤

[@taylorstanton8151]

Savannah Garcia o monsoon

[@angieobe313]

More women need that motto. God bless you and your future girl

[@ceceiliacheyne7021]

May be a late reply, but you deserve better and I hope you're blessed with the best.

[@bonniedrotar8058]

I am the best at pretending to be strong.....I got divorced after 23 years and I don't miss him but I miss that feeling....now I feel all alone

[@rosefisherful]

Please don't think like that! beauty is sooooooooooo much deeper than an outward appearance. I know you've probably heard this a million times but its true. Anyone who loves you only for how you look doesn't deserve to be in your life anyway! You are an amazing person. Dare I say a gem! So embrace the person you were made to be and that is what is truly attractive to other people wether they admit it or not!

[@user-vk7oj2qj5i]

Broken hearted...All i can do is compare myself to her. It hurts more because i lost my love but I also lost my best friend

[@leahscroggins12]

Samantha Hill me too I feel your pain

[@destinyauthement8580]

Samantha Hill I feel the same way...

[@susanrice3108]

I've been searching for a country song to describe these exact feelings, but I could never find one for the longest time. It's amazing how I stumbled upon this song. Thank-you Miranda for creating a song with those feelings of every girls worst nightmare.

[@alexbrown4747]

This song makes me think of my mommy. Her and my dad are divorced because when they got married my dad cheated on her and she found out. Then he said he was stupid and would never do it again. He did it 2 more times. The last time my mom had just had me and came home to him and his gf on the couch. She is now my step mom. And my mom was telling herself that she wasnt good enough, and she needed to change. I my eyes she is perfect.

[@rascaleilson5643]

Thats pretty cool you should tell your mom she's perfect to you. It'll make her feel good.

[@jasmynwhite8790]

God bless you

[@theking0444]

Do you remember writing this comment??

[@meghancooke9739]

I'm so sorry for your mom. Nobody deserves that. Take her to supper and tell her she's perfect :)

[@godbless9012]

Did you tell your mom. As a mom I'd love to hear that

[@willieboy3011]

Just when I thought good ole Country Music was gone, here comes a good ole Country song. Dang, that girl can sing.

[@kaylynrobbins3327]

I wish I could be her she has everything I ever wanted......you

[@WasTodayAFairytale]

You sorta just... Described the current situation.... Hats off to you.

[@trishataylor2837]

This is my all time FAVORITE song by Miranda! You can really hear all her country "licks" with so much passion for what she's saying. It is so appropriate for her break up with Blake My prayer from the very beginning of their break up would be for them to get back together and mend what ever wrongs the both of them had. For me they will always be together. Love ya Miranda and God bless you! ♥

[@Inky_Al]

This is the good side of youtube :) ppl coming togather with stories and not fightng :D

[@esttahenson8125]

Haha I absolutely love this song I can actually say I replayed this song over a 100 times today and its just so crazy how much a song can relate to what your going through or just feeling in general but all I have to say its for all the girls out there you are beautiful in your own way don't let anyone try to change you and dont Chase a guy who doesn't want you its not worth it I promise you that it will get better and you will find someone that loves all of you so stay positive and stay beautiful 💙💜💙💜

[@nicolethompson719]

Oh man this song kinda reminds me of my grandmother i honestly wish i could've been a strong woman like her i miss her so much i wish she was here to give me some good advice i love you grandma R.i.p.

[@leandraaag177]

Never thought I would relate to a song like this . I should have never let him lie 😔

[@chancebullard9973]

I had my babygirl 4 months ago and this song is straight magic. She stops freaking out right when she hears it. She falls right asleep when i put it on. Its amazing.

[@madisonbackues4081]

2019 anyone or is it just me

[@madisonbarnwell2828]

2020!!!

[@dkay9729]

Still carries the same meaning in 2020~the scars are still fresh. 💔😢

[@gennasigwerth7412]

Why do we put ourselves through this?

[@sunniilovee2768]

Beautiful song. Shows how much people can suck sometimes.

[@sabrinazapata2023]

2019 and its still my favorite 😍🙈🙈

[@miaaa375]

NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANY GUY FIND SOMEONE WHO ACCEPTS YOU FOR YOU. there is someone out there for all of you i promise

[@yvonne420ful]

how could someone dislike this song?

[@zigzag1502]

my name is Miranda too and i love to sing and hope one day to be as good as Miranda Lambert! (:

[@shantelthomas8251]

IM FEELING LIKE THIS ALL OVER AGAIN THIS HURTFUL PAIN NEVER EVER GOES AWAY

[@unnamedwriter]

shantel thomas Believe in love, scorned pain can drain your heart till you feel nothing!!! Hang in there hoss, love is every face you see. It's up to you, finding that feeling with another face... Best wishes

[@loristarkey8010]

21 yrs together, and who knew that you would fall out of love with me for someone you work with. I hope you two live a happy life together, but when you realize the grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence, don't come crawling back to me, because I won't be waiting for you or your lies!

[@cliffdarnell9581]

my heart goes out to u. I've been w my husband 28 yrs--- hard years, which has made us stronger somewhat.. stay strong n know things happen for a reason

[@lorrlecarrolli9029]

I'm ready for a box set of her music,maybe next year i can give myself the ultimate gift of this country girl's collection

[@alrf21612]

At times i think i should of been more like her, but who wants to be labeled a home wrecker? Definitely not me. Sucks.

[@wilpri]

The cheater wrecks the home, not the third party.

[@DaSweetTallCree]

You shouldnt wish to be more like her, because you know somewhere that a guy will someday love everything about you. Be proud of who you are!

[@britneytaft5925]

this is from the mistress' point of view. please dont always blame the other girl. i was the other girl but i was lied to and didnt know the truth about their relationship.

[@amandabuckingham4635]

Same being the other girl I didn’t know either but had babies and all. The girl just found out everything I know she doesn’t blame me bc he I guess was always leaving her. It’s a lot

[@theprettyrecklesshalestorm4259]

I was the other girl before. I hit the roof when I found out he was lying and fucked us both over.

[@bbbyhf]

I was the other girl for 6 years, and he proposed to me. Little did I know, he already had a wife and 3 kids.

[@Mmiisthenickname]

I saw Mirianda in concert in Houston and this is one of the songs she sang and she sand it so beautifully....:)

[@dreamingheart1967]

I wish i was more like her i wish i had what you wanted. You said you loved me. Then it all went down hill.

[@Mr2Rex]

This is awesome and this gal can really sing she is beautiful and talented.

[@msannaofwales]

Oh how many optimistic girls can relate to this. We love without holding back... We give them access to hearts for them to later break it into pieces. They're all the same I guess

[@ilovensn4ever1]

God makes all things happen for a reason , we will all understand one day

[@rachna7120]

my favorite line-i should have held onto my pride I shoud've have never let you lie..I guess I should've been more like her

[@blairheart8179]

this song helped me so much, 've always been strong and aware of the guys that are no good, but their was that one that says all the right things and u jst let your guard down, but that was when he left for the girl he left to be with me. yea it bothered me but it gave me a chance to rlly think about everything and now i dont make those mistakes. and i found some1 new, he was always there with me but i never saw it until my ex opened my eyes to wat i was missing. im happy tht girl took him away.

[@Jordylovesyou1]

Hunn, You're perfect for who you really and truly are. Cheer up!! :))

[@johnpuleo8]

Great song

[@melodyvaughn9959]

I should've been just like her. You told me you would love me forever and always. You broke your promise of never hurting me. I trusted you. You told me you were tired of seeing me hurt and that you wanted to fix it. All you did was break me even more. I cry myself to sleep! I hope your happy, you really brought me down. I'll never be who I once was thanks to you. Rumors were said about me and you didn't do a dang thing, the next day you dumped me! That killed me.

[@zaybugchristenbury2674]

Melody Vaughn I was madly in love with a guy that did the same thing to me rumors started and instead of asking me about it he dropped me off at my mom's while he was at work we had this really nice date planned out he promised me he would pick me up right after work so we could go back to his place and get ready for our date.... Well I ended up falling back to sleep (he dropped me off at my mom's at 5:30 am) and when I woke up he wrote this long message about how he cavant trust me and how we just don't belong together he changed my life I was finally happy until that day but I got over him and moved on I see him once and awhile with his new girlfriend and I sit back and laugh now because I know how his new girlfriend is...... they won't last she's gonna do the same thing to him that he did to me and I won't be there for him to run back to.... I moved on I have a family now..... I told myself I couldn't keep doing that..... we was on our 4th try in the matter of 6 months.......but then I thought I was pregnant I was scared he told me he wasn't raising another baby so I need to find some other way to care for that baby (thankfully I wasn't pregnant) but I now have a baby girl who is almost 1 and I'm in a almost 2 year relationship with her father I've liked him for almost 5 years but never got with him till August 24, 2015 and our beautiful baby girl was born July 7, 2016...... It gets easier I promise hold your head high

[@zachtrav]

it took me a long time ladies but I finally...finally understand...He's your problem now sweetie!! yes this has made me happy!!

[@macailabell5639]

honestly me and my friend can sing this really good we are singing it for our school talent show ;)

[@wilpri]

well

[@lindamoore3109]

been trying to find a song that goes with the way i feel right now... when your first love has another first love... and possibly a child with that person. and here you are trying your best to make them happy but knowing deep in your heart no one can compare to the first love....

[@jole4261]

I normally don't listen to this genre of music but damn.. I can relate to this so much 😔 I guess I should've been more like her..

[@nicoledalfonso7728]

She don’t have much too say when she gets mad u had it all so true

[@kayleesears6434]

GIRLS LISTEN, if you got dumped or cheated on or your guy don’t love you just know I love you and so does god u are strong and ur gonna get through this I know from experience I wish I had someone to tell me like im gonna tell u if the guy doesn’t care and u do stoping giving a shit and caring and he will come crawling and following u around like a puppy dog so Lady’s we are strong and we can get through this

[@XxMentalcasesXx]

omg this song makes me cry x its really sad

[@sc1026angel]

you know what sucks...when he told you that he loved you and then changed his mind...told you he never really loved you...and then starts talking to a girl that you thought was just his friend....yea...that hurts bad.

[@BETHANY13able]

This song is amazing. I love Miranda Lambert in general, her songs inspire me. I ain't this song all the time, I love singing. Her songs inspire me.

[@wyattpowell6719]

im a guy lol i like lamberts voice and power she puts in her music i want to share my heart break this girl i worked with was cute and i was interested in her and she was with me too so i thought.. so a week or 2 went by and i finally asked her out she said yes. well that friday night i was all dressed up and came over to pick her up some guy was there with her and i walk up as they were kissing and she looked at me and said why the hell you here. like whats that supposed to mean i hate my life i alway am the good guy that gets fucked over😢 and to all the women on here whos man has fucked them over keep breathing their is nothing that makes me sicker than a man that lies steals and treats a woman like garbage when all you seem like good hearted and well adviced people

[@nevaehstripes6475]

That's horrible! 😕 you're worth so much more than that, she doesn't deserve anyone to be honest. A liar that's what she is. I wish you the best tho :)

[@wyattpowell6719]

+NevaehStripes Thank you i appreciate it and over my days of not replying finally found someone thats like me and she said i was so perfect and said she would never leave me she went out and fucked 2 guys and still came back and said she loved me for once i felt love and it did me wrong im just not to be with anyone😢. and i asked her like so you never felt anything you said you felt about me she said not really... and she is a sex addict and tried to use me but i gathered up my pride and walked aways but idk whos out there that likes country music and is perfect for me tho

[@nevaehstripes6475]

+Wyatt Powell there will be someone, the last couple months I've felt like I'm losing my boyfriend. I've been with him almost 2 years. We are still young, grade 12s in high school. And everything was perfect. The last few months it's seemed we argue over the stupidest stuff. A lot of the time the last month or so I've fell asleep in tears cause I don't know what to do anymore. I'm scared I'm pushing him away even though I know I'm not. There will be someone to you. Might not even be this year, or next year. But there will be someone who is perfect for you, and maybe they will even love country music more then you ☺️

[@wyattpowell6719]

+NevaehStripes awe thanks alot good to know someone can give me the strength to stand

[@nevaehstripes6475]

+Wyatt Powell your welcome 😊

[@sexylexhacker]

I went to miranda lamberts concert and she sat down on the stage and sang this song :)

[@samanthawojciechowski2767]

stay strong everybody. it gets better, i promise.

[@khfan4life365]

To all those hurting girls, you'll find someone who treasures you for who you are! He will love you for who you are, not what you wear or what happens (like pregnancy or something like that)! Just keep your chin up and keep fighting!

[@jamieparkin4331]

I miss him 😪 and not bc he is just boy he was so nice and we were both happy with each other but he took my happiness with him and my heart so his gone😪😪😪😢😥😰😥

[@veronicatucker4969]

I absolutely love this song😍😘

[@maryspradlin3757]

this is my song, it tells the story of the hell i went through with my exs

[@sharontomlinson1585]

2020 or just me love this song

[@ashleygonzales8145]

192 people who thumbs down, was "her"

[@caitlinaustin109]

LOL

[@amydobbins9865]

Caitlin Austin GDuadyydqyddr

[@karladrake2460]

Ashley Gonzales 517 now

[@erikagarcialeon4324]

559 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@gracehenderson3331]

644 now

[@ItsJocelynBaby1995]

Well another song describing my situation;;awesome.

[@isabellagray6341]

my first love left me for my best friend I guess I should've been more like her💔

[@contractwolf6669]

Hell No, there ain't nothing wrong with you, some people are just untrustworthy, you are perfect the way you are,don't let anyone including yourself say otherwise

[@olgreg94]

I had the exact same thing happen to me, I ended up meeting my husband of 8 years about a year later. And that best friend got dumped and experienced the same heartbreak. Lost her innocence. And she begged me for forgiveness years later. & I did forgive her, but I still wanted nothing to do with her after I forgave her.

[@gatchawebb_2315]

My mom used to sing this to me when I was a little girl.. it was are bonding time.. since I didnt live with her she took every chance she could to sing with me .

[@cheyandtaybffl]

"When i was really drunk and mad at you, i slept with another girl." I guess i should have been more like her.

[@marleyjett3035]

My ex did the same only difference is he got her pregnant

[@ericelmer5212]

Sheer beautiful. Pure heart break. Real life hurts so bad

[@beckagoatee4937]

I may be with him but I'll always love u

[@ashtonlee4949]

Becka Goatee 😂

[@TarynGames14]

This song means alot to me. My boyfriend recently broke up with me for his ex girlfriend. The one he really loves.

[@lauraminchew9310]

Its been a year since I walked away and out of 4 years he wanted his ex but every time he swore nope no way in hell....Well He's married to her now. But I'm better off.

[@dellaadams2887]

Laura Minchew gosh I feel like that would happen to me

[@calli910]

she has the best voice ever

[@JasmineClarkLoneLunarBear]

When he leaves for his ex

[@jillianparks1561]

Jasmine Clark exactly what just happened to me

[@carleyscott4134]

I guess I should have been more like her

[@faithonfire2422]

Especially when shes a god awful person smh 😖

[@taylorstanton8151]

Jasmine Clark aka

[@taylorstanton8151]

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[@NightfallOtaku]

i've replayed this song so many times.. I'm sorry to my boyfriend.. He realized he deserved better.. I hope he gets it.. I should've been what he wanted.. I should've been more like her..

[@theking0444]

Anyone listening in 2019

[@skybreezey]

Just saw her at the Houston Rodeo and she was AMAZING.

[@loingirl231]

I feel like this everyday, I am so in love with this one guy. And he cheated on me with her then I was stupid enought to take him back and now he is doing it again. It is horrible

[@laurynfergi8781]

Amanda Stacy Has hope all is weel

[@jessicajones8106]

this is an amazing song hope them boys that done all of us girls wrong regrets what they have done!

[@ashleystadlman2371]

Literally love going to these songs just to hear how people have it worse than I do 😅

[@brittanysauls9309]

Me and my friend Broke are doing this song for our talent show! Wish us luck!

[@brittneyreid8697]

good luck

[@brittanysauls9309]

Brittney Reid Thanks

[@brittneyreid8697]

hey did ya'll win?

[@brittanysauls9309]

Brittney Reid We placed fourth sorry for not responding for a while.!

[@Valerieapplebee]

"She can't love you like I want too." ~ Taylor Swift --I wish he realized this : /

[@PartyTimePink]

love is real. I dont care what anyone says. love is the only real thing in this world. without it, we'd all be nothing. i've never been more in love in my whole life than I am now. I wont let anyone tell me what i feel is a lie.

[@carmenm.478]

She can have him and who said he won't cheat on her. He did it to me after 14 years. I'm the better person always and I wish him the best in helll!!

[@autumnmorris4564]

Miranda Lambert is one of my favorite singers(:

[@chelbyharrington1309]

i guess i know i should've been more like her.. all he did was talk about her.. all he did was cheat on me with her.. so congrats Jessi hope you're happy with him.. you both just tore my apart..

[@georgeprice5629]

Beautiful song

[@countrybeauty2921]

When he leaves you for the same girl he said you’d never have to worry about because she is he’s best friend and nothing more....

[@SavvDaniiLovesYuh]

I can relate....

[@countrybeauty2921]

@@SavvDaniiLovesYuh it’s hell that’s for sure

[@SavannahBananaLOL]

stilll listening to this song in 2012? like a boss. ;)

[@hannahhayes2172]

I forgave them on the outside, but it still kills me and she knew BC she was my sister..

[@kaytenutt9614]

How did you get over it? Did you?

[@kaylallewellyn]

This is the perfect song for me right now.