Mother forcibly encouraging depressed daughter.

Mother forcibly encouraging depressed daughter. | Social Experiment in Japan

Рет қаралды 102,065

Жыл бұрын

【Today’s Experiment】
A mother and her daughter were walking in a park.
The daughter is actually suffering from depression.
The mother is concerned about her daughter's depression and goes out with her, but the daughter complains that she wants to go home as soon as possible.
The mother, however, lacks understanding of depression and does not respect the daughter's wishes, saying, "She will get better if she gets some fresh air.
- What would you do?
English subtitled playlist
• What if an old lady pu...
#socialexperiment
#japanese
#JAPAN
#kindness
#RealLifeHeroes
#prank
#HeartbreakingMoments
#socialprank
Twitter： / not_alone_sns
Instagram： / not_alone_sns
Reddit： / notalone_jp
Facebook： / notalonejapan

Пікірлер: 107

@notalone_Japan Жыл бұрын

This channel will bring you social experiments in Tokyo. We look forward to hearing from you! English subtitled playlist kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJDWZHSanbySi5o

@emperorpalpatine8148 Жыл бұрын

Well, your channel name is NOT Alone (nobady is alone) right ? Hah that's only in japan but if it was in america no want give a F̷u̷c̷k̷ about you, see you beating up by people and people in america just watch and go, what a sad i remember in 2004 july 6 i was homeless in lost santos, the polise just kick me in the back and said GET OUT HERE!!! it was a really hard time and then in 2008 i start getting money alot of money and i spent that money go to japan i start getting jop in there and i start know some cartoon called anime and i was really surprised, japan people are very kind unlike america, and that one time that make me shock, i was though that restoren use credit card and suddenly that restoren is not using credit card i was really panic and suudenly random random japan girl apear and pay the money for me that make me shock, and one time i drop my wallet and my money inside there was have 5 000 yen and random guy give the wallet to me and i was though my wallet is already rob, what was i saying is. Is only in japan people are kind im not saying america is not have kind people but mostly are not kind but in japan is comman to see kind people right now im in japan i already stay like 5 year now So in japan is Not Alone (nobady is alone) In america you are Alone always be alone HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

@ChristainHandler Жыл бұрын

Amazing!!!

@user-mm9hw3nc7f 7 ай бұрын

マッサージ師の人お母さんのことも否定せずに誰も不快にならない対応しててほんま凄い

@user-zo8nx7wu3v 8 ай бұрын

この状況の何がタチ悪いかって親にとっては100%善意でやってることよな

@sa22cwert 7 ай бұрын

うつ病を患っている女の子が、理解のない母に怒られたら、みんなどんな反応するのかこの動画見たらこれはまだまだ優しい方だと思う。

@robot_022 7 ай бұрын

完全にうちの親だわ…「あなたのためにだから！一緒に頑張ろ！大したことないから！」が毎日の口癖

@K_Y_O_K_O.33 Жыл бұрын

同じ温度で同じ位置で居てくれる人がこうゆう時は本当に有難い。

@user-zf5su2gb4d Жыл бұрын

散々、頑張りすぎた結果が　鬱のような感じましす。これ以上頑張るにも頑張れない気がします。充分頑張ったのだから　もう無理を絶対しないで沢山休めるなら休んでほしい

@hina55824 6 ай бұрын

マッサージ師のお姉様素敵すぎる。こんな大人になりたいって心の底から思ったの初めてだ。

@janewow77 Жыл бұрын

What I like about this channel so far, they also interview the ones who help (ofc if the helpers want to). So we're not only seeing their good acts, we got to hear their thoughts of why they help, about the situation itself, their experience with it, etc. Some social experiment videos did this too but not much like this. This way, the helpers become the highlights as well (the act and thought), not just actors. Both actors and helpers shine in their own ways.

@user-nr9tu5ez3o 8 ай бұрын

「大丈夫？」鬱になったことあるけどその一言だけでとてもうれしいんだよ。誰かにそばに居てほしいんだよ、話を聞いてほしいんだよ。自分の気持ちを全部分かってくれてなくても。

@melodyofcarillon Жыл бұрын

The actress plays the role of the mother very well because that's probably the first reaction any parent would have if their son/ daughter were in that situation. Over optimistic behavior, trying to convince the child depression is just a thing that can be fought with exercise or other activities, the slight frustration mixed to desperation in her voice like she's realizing that none of the things she's doing for her daughter is working and she's running out of ideas to help her. This video made me think how terrifying must be for a parent not having any clue how to save their children from depression.

@nia2088 Жыл бұрын

ask professionals or do research. it's not that hard

@pperseis Жыл бұрын

@@nia2088 insanely insensitive

@AntoineM1312 Жыл бұрын

Honestly, I understand your point but exercise and stuff does help depression. I have schizoaffective disorder and before the psychosis, I struggled with depression my whole life. As an adult, I've built a routine on exercise, eating well, doing hobbies, and getting good sleep. I've gone 4 months without taking my medication and have been doing really well. It is possible to help mental illness with certain activities but I think you have to do it slowly and carefully so you adjust and don't exhaust yourself too fast. It took me a very long time to get to this point though so it's not a quick or easy process but it is possible.

@lgraceeee Жыл бұрын

@@nia2088😐

@alva--._..l-._.-l.._.-- Жыл бұрын

@@nia2088 If you say that, it's because you have no idea how hard it is! Educate yourself.

@elllllllle939 Жыл бұрын

I can’t get enough of this. Please keep up the good work! It’s always fascinating to see how soft-spoken Japanese people are. I like their grace

@yukoyamaguchi9834 8 ай бұрын

鬱の時に、「がんばろう～」とか「しっかり～」という言葉は返って鬱の人を苦しめるんです。昔の私が、そうだったから。「もう、いいんだよ」「がんばらなくていいんだよ」って言われた時にどれだけホッとしたか。娘さんを治そうとしているのはよくわかるんですが、この母親はその辺を全然、理解してない。

@user-dy3gq7jr2v Ай бұрын

よく立ち直れましたね゙！！

@user-dt6tt9er6k Ай бұрын

わかる。わたしも元気ないよ、元気出してよとか言われて出せるなら出してんだよ…て思った

@blueberry8337 Жыл бұрын

As someone who has suffered from anxiety and depression, I cannot avoid crying while I was watching this video. The fact that there are still people able to not just comfort, but to take their time to hear is really heartwarming 😭❤️. I feel kinda jealous, because I also wanted that, but no one was really able to help and understand me, even my own family, so I felt lonely in all that time until now. People who never suffered form that, won't understand how hard it is to deal with it alone. And even so, I'm doing my best to not giving up with my life

@bealife9812 Жыл бұрын

hope you recover from depression completely, try to embrace yourself and allow your tears to fall, talk to yourself as well, and meditate on what is left of your blessings and in the nature around you, will relieve you a lot

@blueberry8337 Жыл бұрын

@@bealife9812 thanks bro 🙌🏻

@casuals.3.19 8 ай бұрын

I tried to kill myself and my mom sent me to church.

@nekochan7535 7 ай бұрын

自分も発達障害の延長線上で統合失調症です。正直診断された時はこれからの人生どうなるんだろうと思ってずっと病んでたけど、正直自分の病気を受け入れて生きるしかないです。周りは甘えとか気の持ちようとか言われて本当に嫌だったけど母親だけは1番に理解してくれてほんとに助かりました。人が病気になった時に1番大切なのは相手の気持ちを汲み取って理解してあげることだと思ってます。

@NightlyDeveloper Жыл бұрын

鬱の時に親に全く同じ事された事ある

@user-tq4ut5zr9y 7 ай бұрын

感謝もしなさい。

@hazelmint6671 Жыл бұрын

For some reason as soon as I saw the title I imagined the mother 'encouraging' the daughter who has depression by saying 'Ah, such dark, dull weather and the perfect day to unalive yourself! 😃' 😂

@yuuunie098 7 ай бұрын

最初のマッサージ師の女性の優しさにこちらも涙が出てきました😢　人の優しさって本当に暖かいなぁ😢❤

@elllllllle939 Жыл бұрын

Depression is hard for the person who is suffering. It’s not easy for their family members too. Nowadays more people are aware of mental illness issues rather than take it as light as just having a bad mood like how people perceived it in the past. Please give them more understanding and patience.

@user-ys8qi9qg1l 8 ай бұрын

鬱になった事あるけど、本人が前をむくまで見守るのが１番の近道。長い人生において何年とかほんの少しの時間だから。ゆっくり休んでじっくり心の休憩させないとね。

@user-nq7bc3bf9p 10 ай бұрын

嫌だって言ってるのに無理矢理歩かせるなんてしかも病気なのに酷い😢胸が締め付けられるようで見ていて苦しかったです

@user-ne2su8yd2n Жыл бұрын

鬱を患ってる人にたいして気分転換に出かけようとか旅行行くとか絶対ダメだよね。あと、「頑張ろうとかこれからどうするの」とか禁句。

@user-bo4tn3ec9t 7 ай бұрын

自分のペースで、が一番大切だからお母さんは善意でやってるのがなんとも…

@speAaa Жыл бұрын

親は南国の人みたく陽気だから鬱とは無縁だろうけど娘からすればちょいしんどいよな鬱は当事者にしか分からん感覚があるから動画内で出てきたお二方みたいに親身に寄り添ってあげると気楽になれるんよね

@user-qu6pv2zm8y Жыл бұрын

鬱になったことがある自分、この母親の感じ見た瞬間「うわっ」ってなった

@Godjyukensei Жыл бұрын

分かる。善意かも知れないけど本人にとっては違うんだよね

@_priseha_go Жыл бұрын

それな頑張ったから、鬱になってしまったのにねまた頑張らせるとは。。。何もしないを、頑張るのも大事じゃないと人間どっかで壊れる

@_priseha_go Жыл бұрын

@@Godjyukensei それな

@user-vi6dx4sj2k Жыл бұрын

僕は鬱になったことが無いからあくまで想像でしか君の考えはわからないけれど，お母さんの立場でこの動画とこのコメントを見たときに何とも言えない心臓をグッと締め付けられるような気持ちになった

@user-ec8ek7kd1z Жыл бұрын

お母さんも必死ですよね😢大切なこどもが病んでいるのだから…

@Melissa-me8bs Жыл бұрын

So very nice to see people empathizing and trying to be helpful to someone being depressed. I wish that more people would be kind like this when encountering someone who's struggling. I love watching your channel, please keep up the great work!

@jelnar4905 10 ай бұрын

I suffer from depression and lethargy, I cry a lot before bed, seeing how this mother contributes made me cry. I wish I had a mother like her.

@user-ke9cg4nv5g Жыл бұрын

初めの女のコの親は　泣いてると思いました　優しいいい我が子になってると誇りに

@sa-lk7kh 7 ай бұрын

鬱とはちょっと違うけどパニック障害っていう病気になりました。なかなか難しい病気でなかなか治らなくて、日常生活も支障が出ます。渋滞が不安、高速道路やトンネルが通れない。電車、飛行機など逃げ場のない場所が、怖い。避けてしまう。そんな病気。親にはどれだけ話しても理解されない。自分がなったことない人には理解できないのは仕方ない、けれど、少しでも歩み寄ろうって気持ちを見せてほしい。それだけで俺は十分なんです。何かをしてくれるとか、明るく励ましてほしいんじゃなく、ただただ気持ちを寄り添ってほしいだけ。

@relaxinbali Жыл бұрын

もし実際にこういう母親が居たとしたら、声も無駄にデカイし、病気の子をケアしてる私偉いでしょ、見て見て！って自己アピールに見える。

@user-vw4qj9ug7b 11 ай бұрын

それは浅はかだし異常な見方だね。精神病のつらさなんて他人にわかるわけないし、お母さんもお母さんなりに一緒に付き添ってくれたり声をかけたり自分なりにできることをやっている。それなのに、自分の気持ちを察してそのときにあった対応を求めるのはおこがましい。

@HassNeesan 11 ай бұрын

I also experienced anxiety and depression when I was a child as a result of getting bullied and teased by my friends. Unfortunately, no one understands, but now I dare to go through it without anyone's help.. until now, I still feel the trauma little by little feeling alone. There are still more of them out there experiencing this and I hope they persevere in accepting the allegations no matter what. Please don't let yourself down because of this, I know my comments are just the same as people always said to give someone courage...that's the only way... I also feel depression and anxiety..I'm you I'm here I'm also suffering enough..the only thing we can do is to be strong...if I can do it,you can do it too. LIKE this if you read this.

@elijahmate9315 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes even a small amount is better then nothing some people u can’t force to be happy or to do a lot when they are depressed but just getting out of bed making food going downstairs that’s enough

@nonoka1126 8 ай бұрын

私も躁鬱病なんですけど…外に出たくても気持ち的に無理なのに…強制とかされたら…余計落ち込む😞

@benedickcruzat9554 Жыл бұрын

More content like these please. I'm a huge fan of yours. You deserve more subs. Keep uploading. :> Watching from Philippines.

@AbdulRehman-fd3nw Жыл бұрын

Nice lady very nice I wish that feelings like him come in us too ❤️❤️💕

@chocolanny 9 ай бұрын

I’m literally doing the same to my mom.. i spent two weeks in my bed and she walked in and sat at my desk telling me that she doesn’t know what to do. That she’s worried, my siblings too. I’m tired of being a nuisance and to make them sad. I can’t help being sad and tired all the time 😞 it’s been 6 years now.

@asedoproject 2 ай бұрын

Depression is a heavy burden, but dont let it win. Specially when it is wishpering you that you are a nuisance, a waste, unwhorthy, etc. Those are shitty lies. The fact someone is worried for you shows the huge worth you have as a person and you are loved. Depression lies to you too much and makes you wish to unalibe yours3lf, but in fact, what you really want is to change the life you are having now for a better one, but that little shit keeps draggin you and lying tomyou. Keep that in mind. I have multiple traumas that has caused me depression most of my lif3, i tryied to unalive myself twice in my twenties but once i recognised thise things i got the strenght to fight it back. Life is hard for everyone either you have depression or not, so i wont lie to you that is gonna be easier and happy ending, but its definitively better now than before. Here in this channel is a video whit a girl diving a better advice than me to a sick girl. I hope you can watch it.sorry for my english. Wish you the best.

@user-zo4dh5fh1r Жыл бұрын

鬱になったことのない奴に鬱の人間の気持ちは分からない俺の親もこんな感じやから

@rram992 11 ай бұрын

Even if this was “forcibly optimistic”, I wish I had this kind of comfort during times like this growing up. I’m not okay.

@user-gn6bz3gk2g 7 ай бұрын

この動画をみて、親も同じ事を言ってたなって思った、なった人にしかわからない辛さ、この病気になった悔しさ、周りは気持ちの問題だから頑張れとしか言わない。発症して６年以上なるがいまだに、親からの理解はない。

@habibabukasim2030 Жыл бұрын

Keep doing this and i subscribed minutes ago, i think this is the first time i see japan social experiment 🤙

@KanaTsukamoto Жыл бұрын

Im early while sobbing

@Han_914_miso_ 7 ай бұрын

鬱になったときに言われた。気持ちが弱いから、気の持ちよう、すぐ泣くなとかめちゃくちゃ言われたそれが、追い詰めることになる

@Dodogames20 Жыл бұрын

The best .. Please make more videos I hope this channel growing Fast ...

@schannel6794 7 ай бұрын

鬱の時って急かされるのが1番キツくて悪化する

@user-vb5io9sw8b 10 ай бұрын

わたしもうつになったことがあるのでよくわかります。頑張ろう！とか言われることがかなりふたんになるんですよね😭余計辛くなってしまう……頑張ってないって思えてしまうからこそ、辛いんですよねー😭外出たい時にでて、出たくない時はお家にいることもいいと思いました！

@user-fu2wo8sh1b 6 ай бұрын

コメントいれられるぐらいに回復されて何よりです。

@user-fu2wo8sh1b 6 ай бұрын

うつ状態を数回潜り抜けた双極性障害で通院治療中です。お母さん一生懸命なんだよ。すごくわかる。愛娘が大病なんだから必死だよ。だけど、思いだけが先に行ってしまって娘さん置いてけぼり。少し向いてるベクトルがずれちゃたかな。日に当たる。バナナを食べる。はもう少し先なんだよね。お母さんも一緒に通院してもらってはどうかな。きっと主治医からアドバイスもらえるでしょう。

@user-uq8sy6ge9t 6 ай бұрын

親は自分が亡くなったあとが心配なので…きっかけを与えるためにしてる親も優しい😢

@user-pw7gs6th2w 10 ай бұрын

鬱病の子に無理をさせてはいけませんよ。鬱病の患者に「頑張ろう」とは言っては逆効果なので。

@333tako999 7 ай бұрын

鬱だと診断され、医者から親にも一度鬱について話したいから来て貰ってと言われて伝えたけどふん、そんなもの　とこんな優しい手を差し伸べてくれる人が近くに居たなら… 私も辛い人、困ってる人に寄り添いたい

@trek0330 Ай бұрын

2年前から双極性障害を患ってまして、無理して仕事とかしてますが、鬱役の方の気持ちが十分わかる気がします頑張れと言われるよりも大丈夫の言葉が泣きたくなるほど嬉しいですあとバナナと豆乳摂取します

@rahuld2844 7 ай бұрын

The massage girl did everything she could ❤

@yunyun_mind 7 ай бұрын

周りから、動けば治る！動けば治る！って言われて頑張って悪化した時の辛さを思い出してしまった。

@user-ld1hw5of6c 5 ай бұрын

無理をさせるのはいかんが、母親を責める気持ちにもなれない。こういうタイプの母親は、善意でやっているから。確実に前向きに、娘のことを大事に思っているからこそ、こういった行動に出てしまっているんだと思う。

@beepboop4833 11 ай бұрын

女性はとても優しかった。🤗

@rae_xrae_x7077 Жыл бұрын

الامهات عظيمات كم من ام تعبت على أطفالها كم من ام سهرات كي تساعدنا عند مرضنا 💔☹️الجنة تحت أقدام الأمهات

@you_idiot000 Жыл бұрын

really like all these experiments I'm a fan of this KZbin channel from Indonesia 🇮🇩

@P1n0_xoxo 8 ай бұрын

友人が鬱になって亡くなりました｡なんて声をかけたらいいか分からなくて寄り添ってたつもりやったのに自分の力不足で亡くしてしまいました｡ほんとに辛かった｡もっと何かしてあげれたんじゃないかって後悔しかない｡

@naaa351 7 ай бұрын

抗鬱剤合わなくて地獄見てるんだけどこの動画泣いちゃった、こういう系の親御さんとか周りの人いると思うけど善意なのがまたキツいよな~~(^_^;)

@naaa351 7 ай бұрын

善意に応えられなくて頑張れない自分が無理この自己嫌悪、なるんよな寄り添うのが一番やね‥😢

@ri__mga 7 ай бұрын

良い世界だ

@user-gs4nh2xg8g 6 ай бұрын

泣いちゃった、

@Siba.love1979 5 ай бұрын

うわぁ　鬱だけじゃないけど頑張った結果で鬱になってるのに、頑張れが1番禁句なのに。　子供の気持ちが痛いほど分かる限界突破で頑張れって　どーしろと言うの私もメンタルやられて適応障害になって、2年間生きていたくなかった。　治らなくて、折れた心で病院探して軽度知的障害が分かってホッとした自分がいます。いまスーパー辞めて遊んで過ごしています。障害ありきの自分らしく生きたいから。実験で良かったけど　鬱や障害のこと　周りも正しく理解してほしい。

@user-tz9zy7xr3x 7 ай бұрын

「頑張れ」という言葉って、人によっては攻撃になってしまう事もあるからね。頑張るということは、ムリをするとも解釈できるから。　やはり言葉って難しいですね。

@monarch555 Жыл бұрын

Nice bro

@user-ri5op9zn4c 11 ай бұрын

すごい感動する動画がいっぱいあります。有難うございます。ただ日本語で略してほしいです。

@user-sz3qs3bz1r 10 ай бұрын

マジで吐きかけた…

@mimi34254 8 ай бұрын

私の時は誰も助けてくれなかったな

@kuri01234 7 ай бұрын

なかなか理解されるのが難しい病気だよね

@GTsuji Жыл бұрын

The translation isn’t that accurate. The mother was encouraging the daughter more than forcing her. These people were great to offer their help and sympathy.