Mother Mother // Heart Heavy

Enjoy your meal
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Lyrics
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When I see lovers in the park
Making a start
Making their little love spark
I don't get heart heavy
Heart heavy
Heart heavy
When I see lovers in the rain
Under the same umbrella
In a picture frame
I don't get heart heavy
Heart heavy
Heart heavy
'Cause there's a man and a woman next door
And they don't make no love they just go to war
Yeah yeah
When I see lovers on the street
With their hands in their hands
And a synched heartbeat
I don't wish that were me
That were me
That were me
When I see two young pops
Sitting in a malt shop
Drinking out of one cup
With two straws and one lung
I don't get thirsty
Get thirsty
Not getting thirsty
'Cause there's a man and a woman next door
And they don't make no love they just go to war
And there's a man and a woman outside
And they don't breathe the air
They're just breathing fire
And a man and a woman upstairs
And he just pulls his teeth
While she pulls her hair
And it's the love inside the treasury tape
And I know I don't wanna make the same mistake
As the man and the woman next door
'Cause they don't make no love they just go to war
Don't sink
Not heavy
Don't sink because my heart's not heavy
Don't sink
Not heavy
Don't sink because my heart's not heavy
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[@catie5403]

Scouring KZbin for songs with aro/ace themes and I really like that this one doesn't depict love as inherently good OR inherently evil. It's important to realize that just because something is right for someone else doesn't mean it's right for you. By trying to shove yourself into a box that fits someone else's idea of happiness, you'll only cause more pain for yourself and the people around you. There's no need to mourn the absence of something if you know it won't make you happy

[@dooooooook3610]

if you haven’t heard it already Alone and Sublime is a good one by this same artist with similar themes

[@lovelyyolk9066]

I would say that love is inherently good in the world, not romantic love of course. But if everyone loved each other, things would be perfect, even hate can be good too.

[@eggrrrrrr]

You've probably found more songs already but they have a few more that speak to me as an aroace as well, like "the knack", "love and truth", "let's fall in love", "far in time" and "o my heart"

[@infamousdweeb3004]

🐕‍🦺

[@Corrupt.Image618]

I would also recommend love to death by mother mother. I know it’s been along but I hope you still like this artist

[@mxrx.d920]

I’m really scared of relationships bc my parents just showed me how to not have a good one

[@spacedut245]

I feel you man, but the best way to getting over that fear is doing it with someone and making sure not to make the mistakes your parents made ^^

[@mxrx.d920]

@@spacedut245 oh thank you for your kind words but in reality every relationship no matter if it’s platonic or romantically didn’t work out and hurt me so I just take that as a sign and stay by myself

[@spacedut245]

@@mxrx.d920 I hope the best for you, also have a good day/night

[@mxrx.d920]

@@spacedut245 thank you..I hope the best for you too

[@sunnytember4774]

It seems your parents weren't truly in love, i mean ive never dated so i cant give good advice, but dont make the same mistakes they did, keep your head up and move forward, not looking behind at the things slowing you down

[@willowmae7035]

I think this song is about not idealizing or romanticizing the idea of being in a relationship. It's easy to dwell on being lonely and single but being in love can't "cure" our problems. Relationships won't fill the void in our mental health. Someone can be in a relationship that looks lovely on the outside but things are toxic behind closed doors.

[@rawrxd2200]

literally gives you second thoughts about ever getting into a relationship

[@latiie]

As everybody should.

[@Levitski_Dean]

Me with 23 years never been in a relationship: '▪︎'

[@pulgapedorraa]

Mother Mother is the only band in the world that writes songs that absolutely speak to me

[@dottore7117]

SAME SAME

[@ryojoelofficial]

Fr

[@amandahallwood9636]

Same

[@Verygoodbadthing]

Real

[@________________________9784]

fr

[@rosiemcquail]

aromantic anthem

[@Ghosting.Iguess]

why did this just remind me of my parents relationship before they broke up ? i've never remembered them being together before ... oh god it was so toxic im so glad they didn't stay with each other

[@blissfuldirtbag2279]

I can't tell if it's a saxophone at the end but It warms my heart :3

[@thenavajoknoww]

Yeah right! I think Jeremy did that part, I'm not sure

[@capu2415]

sounds more like a trumpet

[@blissfuldirtbag2279]

@@capu2415 you're right, there is so much brass happening you can barely hear the saxophone

[@snakewithapen5489]

Aro or Ace club where you at? 👀

[@erensgotaces]

Aces here :)

[@zemblanityy3250]

Aro ace here! 🖤

[@friendly_lefty]

Ace here!

[@missflower6142]

Here! 😘💜💟🏳️‍🌈 1:55 pm 2/19/2021

[@ClumsyKlutzyAce]

Here and especially on Valentine’s Day

[@aaikimm]

0:55 i like how "hands in their hands" sounds like "with their hands inside" from little pistol lol

[@shyrr]

Ngl, that's exactly what i thought too

[@dottore7117]

I NOTICED THAT TOO

[@gg.nothere]

OMG YOU’RE RIGHTTTTT

[@Meleedroit]

Ngl I wish this got insanely popular instead of hayloft.

[@Sun_thebugcl0wn]

This song makes me comfortable Ngl, despite everyone Saying that they remind them of there parents, the part of the man and woman next door remind of my Past relation that really broke but along this song show me that I should never look into the past again and keep on looking for somebody else

[@spacedut245]

Thanks for the meal

[@No-if6mz]

Yo cuando comida 😳😳😳😳😳😳

[@spacedut245]

@@No-if6mz estoy usando el traductor de Google para esto, por lo que puede que no se traduzca bien, pero la descripcion dice "disfruta tu comida."

[@axolotlinabucket1287]

@@spacedut245 from English to spanish and i got the auto translate to arabic suprisingly it wasn't lost in the translation

[@catbiscuit6107]

Personally, I think this song is about the fear of committed relationships. Once you enter a romantic relationship with someone, you'll fall out of love with them, become 'heavy' and 'sink'. As a result, the person doesn't want a romantic relationship because they fear it ending badly. In my opinion, i think the song has more to do with a fear of commitment than aromanticism or asexuality. However, I completely understand why this song might be relatable to an aro/ace individual.

[@alannawatson1997]

Someone explain why this song isnt on spotify!??!?!

[@magyeet728]

its unreleased

[@ALLTHEDRUGSFORCREATIVITY]

It is in some regions :’/

[@axxless_]

I don't know, (SORRY I'M 5 MONTHS LATE) had it all isn't on Spotify either.

[@danielleupton158]

Its a unreleased song from them ♡

[@meylind3430]

Probs unreleased in ur region

[@MagolorTheEpicGamer]

I NEED THIS ON SPOTIFY PLEASEEEEEE :(

[@akaza0001]

‘Heavy-he’ *michael Jackson has entered the chat*

[@gage3180]

Me after seeing the relationships my family have been in:

[@corazondemelon7308]

Love the Jazz apsect

[@aloe-vera7182]

literally got goosebumps fron this tf it's so good

[@tacolo]

i love the clang in the background at 1:48

[@________________________9784]

my aromantic ass Is blessed

[@rawchickencomicdubs438]

I’m a lesbian I just like this song

[@axolotlinabucket1287]

*I'm trans and i just love this song* (yes it does'nt have to do anything with the song, but _by god_ the song slaps too the point of outing myself to the internet)

[@Ray-dl4rx]

Ufff bendición pa mis oídos 🛐✨ Como amo a Mother Mother Recuerdo cuando me la pase escuchando esto todo el dia el 14 de febrero XD

[@biyoo123]

Amo tu canal ❤️

[@aspiringxfires]

i need them to release this yesterday

[@user-apru16]

1:17 literally all relationships in attack on titan.....

[@Ray-dl4rx]

Si es cierto

[@axolotlinabucket1287]

every where i look i see "attack on titan" im starting to think its a code for humen trafficing and not a popular japanese cartoon/comic about white people killing humen eating naked gaints.

[@asmravenx]

the ending sounds like the end of wisdom, or at least it reminded me of that song

[@JahmereNatham]

Yea

[@aggelosm67]

happy Valentine's day

[@SkyTuAmor]

♥ me like the heart heavy ♥

[@biyoo123]

Me encanta tu traducción ❤️❤️

[@DanielCreativo]

why this song is unreleased :-;

[@chaos5545]

listening to this while your sister and brother-in-law are being gross is just amazing

[@biyoo123]

Gracias por crear ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕🥺

[@biyoo123]

Excelente contenido de mother mother 🥺🥺

[@eternity5328]

I don’t want relationship bc my parents showed me not to have one

[@mykalacarter2789]

I fuck with this I g so hard

[@oatstealer5075]

this whole song is about a guy coping about being an incel

[@gummywormm]

it's about not wanting to be in a relationship

[@ilovelouie2010]

Incorrect! A incel is someone who is INvoluntarily Celibate, this song says that there are just no feelings there.