Self hate is one of the ugliest things on Earth...
@kevinforeman4485 Жыл бұрын
Especially if someone jealous of you talks you into it.
@JG_SmileSOBright Жыл бұрын
I'm curious as to what you found to be self-hate in this video?
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@belindaasante7123 Жыл бұрын
Right
@ramsesstafford4640 Жыл бұрын
Please clarify what you mean, because there isn't anything self hateful about being classy.
@namuffy Жыл бұрын
That Audrey Smaltz sure loves Caucasian features. She talks so adoringly about white features and with disdain for black features. It's unbelievable how some black people can hate themselves.
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@julep05 Жыл бұрын
U don’t think that was sarcasm? 😂 That was how I read it.
@patriciadavis5939 Жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me. Sheesh
@whisper2284 Жыл бұрын
Could’ve been sarcasm but if it was she didn’t pull it off well.
@MrSilus2000 Жыл бұрын
You have hate for yourself too. That’s why little words can shake you to your core. But most ppl are so used to pointing fingers they’ve all but hid from themselves. Ppl like you are the most lost of all
@micjarrell Жыл бұрын
Black features are God given and Beautiful. It’s so sad that people actually don’t see that it’s created gracefully by God
@LisePlansandJournals Жыл бұрын
Which black features are those?
@Jryder933 Жыл бұрын
@@LisePlansandJournals All beautiful black features!!
@sweetpea74127 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful, round, and soft features. I love it. ❤️
@LadyOO Жыл бұрын
@@LisePlansandJournals the true blacks aka dark nearly black skin ppl.
@phillipmarlowe05253 ай бұрын
Then why the obsession with fake weaves, to look white ( blonde ones included) fake eyelashes that can sweep floors fake nails like eagle claws? Not many blacks carry themselves with dignity and class. Mostly trashy. BW say don’t sexualize them Yet they are the ones who go around half naked and twerk on social media. Black female rappers rapping about sex and one nerve using the p word.
@MiamiPush2theLimit3 жыл бұрын
Mary Wilson truly had natural God-given beauty 😍
@TahariBlue3 жыл бұрын
GORGEOUS EARTHY BEAUTY!!!!
@mcclendonreport Жыл бұрын
Mary was beyond gorgeous!
@forensicaccountant259 Жыл бұрын
You have not lied.
@brucescott4261 Жыл бұрын
@MiamiPush2theLimit ...Tell me about it!!!
@claudepraytor8101 Жыл бұрын
Yes,yes,yes Mary Wilson was a natural beauty.
@nativenuyorker88783 жыл бұрын
Ms. Powell would have a heart attack if she saw Cardi B and Meghan’s performance.😂🤣
@MiamiPush2theLimit3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad she’s no longer here to have to see that trash.
@mcclendonreport Жыл бұрын
@kirbykipling9515 Ms. Powell probably would have cared less about the Kardashians, if we're being honest.
@clarisafarley8194 Жыл бұрын
Oh God yes lol
@benjamintaylor4402 Жыл бұрын
Pure trash, both of them.
@benjamintaylor4402 Жыл бұрын
Ms Powell was a gem!
@benjamintaylor4402 Жыл бұрын
Mary still looked beautiful.
@benjamintaylor4402 Жыл бұрын
The self-hate that Audrey Smaltz, a black woman, was spewing about black people's facial features is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard. I am glad she is not around us.
@derakc.2783 Жыл бұрын
she was joking
@mzcool71 Жыл бұрын
Your absolutely correct.
@alee111 Жыл бұрын
@@derakc.2783a nasty ugly joke.
@MK-hh1vo Жыл бұрын
@@derakc.2783She was serious.
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mx82907 жыл бұрын
News flash: The 'African' nose comes in many shapes and sizes, including narrow... Another news flash: The 'Caucasian' nose also comes in many shapes and sizes... Don't believe me? ... Look at old White southern movies from the US and White movies from the U.K.... Also, research the different African tribes. Peace w/ a smile
@nativenuyorker88783 жыл бұрын
It was a cringe worthy, ignorant, colorist, self-hating comment😞
@naemarley79512 жыл бұрын
Thanks 💯
@dejstoney Жыл бұрын
They don’t want to hear anything intelligent. Just stereotypes.
@joltjolt5060 Жыл бұрын
Yes I know, I'm white and in my family we have a huge range of noses from wide to hawk looking lol. Some of us have booty, some don't. We all just need to love ourselves.
@Leatherbro7 ай бұрын
The broad nose is designed for greater oxygen uptake. Thick lips are for kissing. Enough said!!!
@mzcool71 Жыл бұрын
Damn the self hate is real .
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Yep 💯💯💯
@reefreef18663 ай бұрын
They taught us to hate Africa and anything associated with Africa or being African, including ourselves.
@nraffen3 ай бұрын
That's what oppression does to people, make them question their worth, beauty, value. Thank God for the Black is Beautiful movement.
@DetroitLives3139 жыл бұрын
Mary Wilson is super gorgeous! Wow!
@TahariBlue7 жыл бұрын
She is FLAWLESS!!!!
@hthtv34407 жыл бұрын
I met her...sang with her. She's a gem, insight, out.
@DetroitLives3137 жыл бұрын
She is a friend of mind. Beautiful inside and out.
@rondmc444 жыл бұрын
Mary and especially Florence was more attractive than D.R. .....
@rozchristopherson6483 ай бұрын
That's why Tom Jones had a long affair with her.
@cocobronze7587 Жыл бұрын
I have black features and I'm a commercial model I'm also short I love being black we are unique people
@bellejones8565 Жыл бұрын
Sadly, we’ve been fooled to not love our natural African beauty. However, you have white women injecting lips and butts to look like us.
@theharshtruth8563 Жыл бұрын
You mean like how BW wear blonde wigs and bleach their skin to be like white women? Yeah.. you forgot about that part didn't ya? LOL
@philtoner2621 Жыл бұрын
But they don't want your sheep's wool head texture hair 😅🤣😂
@bellejones8565 Жыл бұрын
@@philtoner2621 My self-worth or beauty is not based on your perception of me. This is exactly my point. From your comment, you assume that I care if you like the texture of my hair. I love the texture of my hair, and that’s what matters. God doesn’t make mistakes. I love all of my melanated self.
@dejstoney Жыл бұрын
@@philtoner2621I’m glad they don’t cuz they will never be unique like us. That’s why they go bald trying to get braids like us. Limp thin ass hair. Our hair grows to the sun.
@johnfulton4061 Жыл бұрын
@@philtoner2621 think again I see some of them have found a product that makes their hair look kind of kinky when they have the dreadlocks they will steal anything we have
@colstonlchinese Жыл бұрын
Record companies need to bring etiquette consultants back.
@oliviapearson7856 Жыл бұрын
Did you hear that woman say she wasn’t ugly like a black woman?? And sadly a bunch of self hating black people on here don’t see the problem.
@jazshas Жыл бұрын
Most definitely.
@hereef1 Жыл бұрын
That ship sailed and it’s not coming back.
@ShevetteJackson Жыл бұрын
Yes😊
@thetruthhurts9296 Жыл бұрын
@@oliviapearson7856 Did you pay attention or didn't have enough comprehension skills to know she was talking about how the industry viewed black people at the time. Being elegant and professional has nothing to do with "self-hating". That you have a problem with but - no problem with Kweens with septum rings piercing your lips/nose - being masculine - Chain smoker - tattoos - brightly colored hair - long nails - everything she wears is revealing Being combative and never Fit, feminine, and always the need to be right.
@TheSkyhazFallen13 жыл бұрын
I watched a video here on yt about a week ago where a latin man was discusing racial identity re his race, he surmised that we are all imitation white people. It resonated w/ me even though it wasn't directed @ blk ppl. Watching this vid. all I heard was- "she had an incredible nose, marvelous! aquiline & white.- not wiDDE & negro.The hypocricy in our culture about being black & proud sickens me, 2b black with a white mind leads to the schizophrenic state that we collectivly suffer from today.
@storiking6503 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@xman9190 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It's refreshing to know that at some of us get it.
@belafonte5519 Жыл бұрын
Who is we 😂 I never suffered or teased anyone for being black. Speak for yourself I loved John Amos, Charles Dutton, James Brown, Malcolm Shabazz, Miles Davis etc Yall have self hate not me
@belafonte5519 Жыл бұрын
@@KOALA876 So you want the sunny days and no rain The entire industry is jagged but men have it better? Women can stop singing acting performing and get married and we never hear from them again Men have to keep creating providing and evolving or else Focus on yourself and your choices because men do not have it easier
@5x7m Жыл бұрын
@@belafonte5519so it's okay that "women are never seen or heard from again"????
@greenbyrd3665 Жыл бұрын
The woman who speaks so gleefully about how "white" Ms. Powell looked is disturbing. What the hell?
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Still_I_Ride Жыл бұрын
I was like Dafuq??
@daharris41 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂so much self hatred for that woman.
@MrSilus2000 Жыл бұрын
Everything you see openly expressed on their face still exists today it’s just no longer at the surface. If you didn’t neglect yourself you would see you have the same problems as everyone else
@greenbyrd3665 Жыл бұрын
@@MrSilus2000 Are you referring to unconscious bias? Yes, that is a problem for many people. However, you are truly reaching when you assume a person you have never met suffers from this issue. I have never, nor will I ever say or think that a person is beautiful because he/she looks "white". The woman featured in the story is simply beautiful, in any color.
@sondrajean955 Жыл бұрын
Sears had a 'Charm School' on Saturdays. I loved it! It wouldn't hurt modern women to have some class.
@TyraHigh Жыл бұрын
Modern women dont have the time to play dress up to impress people who dont pay your bills.
@theharshtruth8563 Жыл бұрын
@@TyraHigh That's why modern women are failing and dying alone. And rightfully so. No man in his right mind wants a rebellious female jezebel.
@Meds1000MD Жыл бұрын
@@TyraHigh😂😂😂
@willia3r Жыл бұрын
@@TyraHigh they got time for hot girl summers though.🤷🏾♂️ What people find important they will make the time for it.
@dejstoney Жыл бұрын
@@willia3revery generation is fighting white capitalism through black survival in some way. We’re just finally starting to see the world for what it is. Not what it could be. Get over yourself.
@ezpic2 Жыл бұрын
RIP Helen Williams July 2023
@lyndamartinez22575 жыл бұрын
Sam Cooke instinctively performed with the utmost class,yet he was the absolute most soulful of all. And remains as such to the present day1
@frlango6082 Жыл бұрын
That s half the story
@freddy8479 Жыл бұрын
INDEED AND AGREED ABOUT SAM!!!!!!💯
@ramsesstafford4640 Жыл бұрын
Right Sam was always classy but when he performed in front of a black audience he would really get gritty with it because he knew that's what his people liked going back to his Soul Stirrers days and when he would perform in front of a mostly white audience he would dial back the grittiness/soul yet always classy on stage.
@KamalasNotLikeUs Жыл бұрын
How would you know? Barrio finishing school? 🙄
@iwhippedcreamcode4642 Жыл бұрын
Didn't His Secret White Girlfriend Shoot him?
@septiawoman29114 жыл бұрын
RIP, Ms. Maxine Powell. I am glad that you are getting your just due. You taught many of the Motown artists well.
@beverlyhoward3512 Жыл бұрын
Yes she did , 🎩 off to u , what a magnificent teacher u were, u are so much needed in todays time , u wouldn’t know where to start, these women have NONE they are lost!
@everythingiseverything6826 Жыл бұрын
@@beverlyhoward3512 Both sides need EXTREME assistance! It's sad how we allow outsiders to frame our mind when the majority of us know we can do and present ourselves so much better. So many do anything for the money. I guess that's what happens when talentless people get pushed to the front while truly gifted people who don't go for the BS get pushed to the basement. 😕😵💫😵💫😵💫
@cah8124 Жыл бұрын
This is why Florence Ballard was pushed to the back. Thick and soulful.
@LwNightTrain Жыл бұрын
She was not the only one put in the back ground for being a West African looking woman. What about Kim Weston?....Mr.Gordy had some colored man ideas too.
@LwNightTrain Жыл бұрын
Ms Ballard most likely would not sleep with you know who...so she was axed.
@Leatherbro7 ай бұрын
Florence Ballard was a woman who stood up for her principles, and she was not interested in the "circus antics" that a certain individual tried to play with her RIP FLORENCE.
@carlamanley73307 ай бұрын
@user-kr3ye9hl5e Florence Ballard doesn't look West African at all. Maybe a little thick, but light skinned. Also a very pretty lady.
@chrystal04117 ай бұрын
Florence Ballard sure didn't have that typical West African look, mainly because of her complexion and hair texture. Her nickname was "blondie" to those closest to her. Kim Weston is a dark skinned woman, and a beautiful one at that. Florence Ballard was beautiful. Both could sanggg! 🕊
@rhoneawilliams5019 Жыл бұрын
That Audrey Smaltz woman sounds so ridiculous and so outside of her mind praising the white nose and the aquiline features, I just burst into laughter. 😂😂 Just outrageous!
@johnfulton4061 Жыл бұрын
I have to wonder if she was talking about her own personal standard of beauty or the standard that the white establishment held up to be marketable which was a black woman with white features
@Jstar697 Жыл бұрын
She was a disgrace
@linusthexy6245 Жыл бұрын
She was being sarcastic.
@lorenzacoleman92103 ай бұрын
@@linusthexy6245 No she wasn't. She meant every word she said. You can tell by her expressions and the look on her face that she was saying what she felt about the love for white features and the hatred for black features. She just didn't think she was going to get criticism for it. Apparently she was living in a time where she felt free to say what she said. But the fact of the matter is this woman loves everything about white features and hates everything about the beautiful black features that a lot of women and men have. Whoever this woman is or wherever she is, I understand she's still alive, I hope she's watching this and is embarrassed by her remarks. If not, she's a heartless b****.
@seldenkid488 жыл бұрын
So I am to believe there were no dark and lovely women.....plain ole racism
@theharshtruth8563 Жыл бұрын
nah... just envy on your part.
@tonyrussi77773 жыл бұрын
quit it!None of us kids that loved Mary Wells cared less about her bottom.SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL & ROCKED OUT!!
@SwitchinLanez720 Жыл бұрын
To say one day, u will perform in front of kings and queens when u are the kings and queens. Now that's crazy
@MiamiPush2theLimit3 жыл бұрын
“I didn’t do anything for Stevie. He was always beautiful.” Yasss! He was a beautiful, talented baby!
@TheFunkyJawa Жыл бұрын
People in the 60s/70s were slimmer anyways. People used to get down more too. All this weird processed food and laziness gone made everyone fat.
@inmyownwords9798 Жыл бұрын
Right
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯 hell even in the 90s and early 2000s people were still fine and fit.
@roxannewatson4785 Жыл бұрын
🙄
@strausd02 Жыл бұрын
Honey! Speak for yourself! Everyone is not fat. The majority of the people in the world are not fat. The majority or either obese 13% and overweight 39%. This equals 52% are either obese or overweight.
@carolynnewsome7547 Жыл бұрын
Best comment
@2011TDG4 жыл бұрын
This is so embarrassing why was being white or looking white beautiful. Sad world.
@edwardcapobianco2975 Жыл бұрын
Because generally speaking they are better looking, that's why.
@adrienpressey7439 Жыл бұрын
@@edwardcapobianco2975THE LIES YOU TELL. THEIR FEATURES DONT SCREAM BEAUTY AT ALL. NOW IF YOURE SAYING MAINSTREAM STANDARDS. I WILL AGREE, BUT THEY ARE NOT OVERALL THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.
@edwardcapobianco2975 Жыл бұрын
@@adrienpressey7439 what I'm saying is this... Halle berry Vanessa williams,diahann carol are all very beautiful women but they are exceptionally beautiful. More black women resemble Shirley Hemphill than they do Diana Ross. There are plenty of fat ugly white women too but not as many as there are black ones.
@richardwilliams4976 Жыл бұрын
@@edwardcapobianco2975What the hell are you talking about! Black is more beautiful. We're the Original people. Even when black folks are old, their skin is still beautiful and smooth. Whites start wrinkling up in their 20's and 30's. 😉💯👍🏾
@Zaradikaresells Жыл бұрын
@@edwardcapobianco2975lol don’t make me laugh…they made plastic surgeons rich. And stay in the sun to get darker…and needed wigs and perfume long before we got a hold of them. So get it straight
@yardleyj9391 Жыл бұрын
Bring back etiquette classes ; badly needed in 2023.
@helenhamilton95614 ай бұрын
Music Industry doesn't want couth and self esteem in their artists. Early to their graves, or to jail. Profit, Profit, for the Overseers.
@reefreef18663 ай бұрын
@@helenhamilton9561 INDEED!!!!
@forensicaccountant259 Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Powell also told biographer David Ritz that Marvin didn't need direction, as he clearly had received it from home. That's a preacher's kid for you.
@freddy8479 Жыл бұрын
VERY TRAGICALLY!!!
@johnfulton4061 Жыл бұрын
Are you kidding the preacher's kids are the worst they just present a good front like the preacher
@forensicaccountant259 Жыл бұрын
@@johnfulton4061 Thank you for sharing your personal experience.
@LwNightTrain Жыл бұрын
That same Gay preacher killed Marvin too...
@johnfulton4061 Жыл бұрын
@@LwNightTrain was Marvin's father really gay?
@BobKnight-mm2ze3 ай бұрын
Those etiquette classes and tips were hilarious. But it worked! It worked.
@blackapples4744 Жыл бұрын
For women….. Mrs. Powell may be knowledgeable about proper etiquette however, I disagree with her advice on how to get inside of a car. I believe it’s easier to turn your backside towards the seat, sit down, turn your back to the seat-back while lifting your legs turning in the car. Then, adjust your clothes for comfort.🌱
@cccalll2 жыл бұрын
So Helen Williams was the real Mahogany😮that Diana Ross portrayed in the movie without the extra cinematic drama to sell the movie!
@aintnoway3467 Жыл бұрын
Pretty much
@kendrakay6725 Жыл бұрын
Uhh.....Nope. I've never heard anything about Helen Williams being as wild or self-destructive as the character Mahogany.
@cccalll Жыл бұрын
@@kendrakay6725 Ummm yep, that wild self destructive stuff is called Hollywood script writing for dramatic purposes of making money! 🎤 drop.
@kendrakay6725 Жыл бұрын
Okay, I think I may have over-complicated my earlier reply, along with being a little abrupt. My apologies. Let me start over. I guess what I'm getting at is that your original statement that Helen Williams was the real Mahogany sort of implies that the fictional character of Tracy Chambers, portrayed by Diana Ross in the movie, was inspired by Helen Williams' life. At least, that's how I interpreted what you wrote. Is that what you meant? If so, I'm just saying that I don't see any significant parallels between the two, other than they're both black women....the real person being somewhat of a trailblazing model and the character, a fashion designer/model. Now, If you're referring to their darker (mahogany) skin tone, you could just as easily substitute Naomi Sims as being "the real Mahogany". @@cccalll
@nerodiamante9441 Жыл бұрын
I actually took mahogany to be a representation of Diana's life.
@iluvmyboba Жыл бұрын
Etiquette is so very necessary, where they go wrong is this depiction of perfection. Especially with women in the entertainment industry. You must be this weight, this shape, this complexion, with hair flowing down your back. That mindset has destroyed the self-esteem of millions of women throughout the world. Not to mention that it is a totally unachievable goal. And so many women have resorted to drastic measures to achieve someone else's image of beauty. It's a never ending merry-go-round if you let it consume you.
@peanutbutterandjelly5066 Жыл бұрын
I agree. And unfortunately, it's the majority that owns media. And it's the majority that gets to decide and PROMOTE/MARKET what is considered most preferable in a woman's body type, height, skin color, hair texture and length, and facial features that is then promoted to the WORLD as the standard of beauty.
@you_can_call_me_T Жыл бұрын
Can we still blame the industry though? I mean, that was the problem for years but there's a lot more awareness now. We had a whole movement for natural hair but black women reverted with a vengeance. In the early 2000s, we started getting back to embracing our own hair and features, giving up relaxers and embracing our bodies. But now, 20 years later, black women skip the relaxer and go straight for long, silky, fake hair. Most young black women don't even KNOW how to manage their own hair. Edges all eaten up from wigs and such. The beauty and entertainment industries have been called out for their bs, so at this point it comes down to choices and what we're teaching our daughters. I had a daddy who told me I was beautiful and a mother who taught me how to care for myself. So nothing I see in a magazine is going to damage my self esteem.
@iluvmyboba Жыл бұрын
@@you_can_call_me_T That's wonderful that you have parents who encourage your self-esteem. It's so necessary in the upbringing of a child. One thing that I've noticed throughout my life is the world has a problem with people just being themselves. They are ALWAYS trying to sell us something. Get a bigger house, get an extravagant vehicle, do this to your hair, skin, feet, teeth, eyes, mouth, etc... The mission is to look around you and be displeased and look in the mirror and be disgusted. Fall victim to the mentality that whoever you are and whatever you have is simply not enough. And believe that just so you can fatten someone else's pocket.
@tonymcneil978 Жыл бұрын
Ms. Maxine is greatly needed by artists today....
@medusabrown420 Жыл бұрын
We can see she's missed!
@everythingiseverything6826 Жыл бұрын
The Employers of the artists today don't want a Ms. Maxine Powell. If they did, they'd keep them on the payroll and on top of the budget. There's an agenda to promote what's being put in front of us today.
@theodoremcclendon84688 жыл бұрын
I have no problem with the Motown charm school idea. It was necessary, not to be white, but to be classy.
@MechanicalTrader7 жыл бұрын
Amazing that lots of Americans and Brits spent money buying MOTOWN records ... Diana Ross is singly the most popular female vocalist (by sales of records) than any female that has sold records ...on earth.... Obviously, all white people that bought Diana Ross records are racist..err...race had nothing to do with it; she made terrific music that people of all races, and nations enjoyed by buying her records and attending her concerts! Proof that race has NOTHING to do with MOTOWN, it was about fantastic song writing and performing and stage/pr presence.
@ccth224 жыл бұрын
Very true
@dddddadadad17963 жыл бұрын
HALLELUJAH!!!!! Say it again please!!!!
@beatricebarfield46223 жыл бұрын
@@ccth22 😀😀😀
@nyotauhura56462 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Had nothing to do with white. Classy, black sophisticated ladies and gentlemen! We need that today. I was born a little too late.
@chinayoung3499 Жыл бұрын
So true look a Babe Ruth there are many Caucasian people with big noses
@ChinedaLewis Жыл бұрын
Uh! Haven't you read where Ty Cobb didn't want to room with that "nigger" from Baltimore during the summer or minor leagues? It's been suggested that Babe Ruth was actually Black.
@willia3r Жыл бұрын
Typically Greeks, Mediterranean folks, and Eastern Europeans have this characteristic.
@woodsd4 Жыл бұрын
Oh how we go way out of our way to please the Devils...🙄
@diamondjack-cooper5322 Жыл бұрын
TRUE,AMEN! But for that time period we did what was needed to be done so that we could go on to achieve more!
@jdfodio Жыл бұрын
Ms. Powell taught them all of that but never corrected Diana's hunched shoulders while singing???
@JSOMERSETJSOMERSET8 жыл бұрын
just saw Lena Horne in that 1930,s movie everybody was light skinned..how embarrassing
@thyslop1737 Жыл бұрын
It was not genius. It was understated elegance. Any woman of any color who carries herself with class and elegance immediately stands out and commands attention.
@zrocks20017 жыл бұрын
my dads sisters went to finishing schools in the 50s very classy ladies but they get ratchet when drunk at family gatherings all kids need to go to charm school
@ablackman114 жыл бұрын
Amazing People!!! I am overwhelmed! Helen William (the black model) brought me here. A lot of things I dont know! I thought motown just got these stars. A lot of training and work went into everything - WOW! They make it look all easy! Its a true craft. Not everybody has poise... LOL They were taught how to get in and out of a limo, when they didnt even have a car.... Gem!
@Tamereanbee13 жыл бұрын
Maxine Powell = diva!! I'm not even mad at her!! George Clinton will ALWAYS keep it Funky!!!
@Themaddprof Жыл бұрын
Clickbait title. This has nothing to do with "Body Shaming." It would, however, be interesting to see what Miss Powell would think of twerking if she were alive.
@lorenzacoleman92103 ай бұрын
Some years ago I was working for boys group home in Tulsa, Oklahoma. This group home consisted of boys between the ages of 6 to 18. One day I rented a CD called "Girl Groups". This c. D primarily spoke about the girl groups in America that were famous from the '50s to the early '70s. They spoke about groups such as The marvelettes, Martha and the vandellas, The ronettes, The Andrews sisters, etc. And of course they talked about the Supremes. In fact, the Supremes were saved for the last part. Mary Wilson was the one who was a spokesperson for the CD. It talked mainly about the original Supremes, Florence, Mary, and Diane. To my surprise, the boys were extremely mesmerized by the CD, especially The Supremes. We showed me that excitement around the Supremes was no fluke. These three were women really has something special every one of them. But far watching one of the boys explained that girl right there is the prettiest one of them all pointing to Florence Ballard. All the other boys agreed with him. Thumbs down 100%. Reese told me that Florence of all the other girls has something very special. The sad part about it is that she didn't have very Berry Gordy in her camp as Diana Ross did. Which meant whatever she had that was special, whatever talent she had, and whatever the rest of us saw in Florence. He was going to make sure that he didn't shine above. Diana Ross. Now keep in mind this young man had no prejudices nor any reason to choose Florence out of the group three. He saw what many of us saw that time. A young lady with so much beauty and potential. But no one could help but notice her. If Florence lived in today's time just imagine with the right guidance and the right show of love and support what she could be. Yes Florence, we still hear your symphony. Rest in peace Queen.
@lorenzacoleman92103 ай бұрын
Yes
@yardleyj9391 Жыл бұрын
Her lips are full and her nose is not aquiline, not alkaline, like you said. She's a beautiful black woman, period.
@strausd02 Жыл бұрын
She was not a black woman! She was an American of African and European Ancestry. Look at this woman. You don't see black!
@yardleyj9391 Жыл бұрын
@@strausd02 Do you know about the one drop rule? But anyway, in Sub Saharan Africa people come in every shade and Black African have features that span the whole gamut. For example, despite the fact that they live in the Kalahari desert, the Bush people are all "high yellow". The nilotic people are ebony dark with straight noses... Africa is the genesis therefore the entire human race is represented in Black people.
@thezu9250 Жыл бұрын
@@strausd02 Literally, all those features you can find in east Africa.
@strausd02 Жыл бұрын
@thezu9250 all these features you can find in most of the world. However, they told us their Ethnicity...
@colinchampollion4420 Жыл бұрын
I am a White Mexican and have Scandinavian f a cial features
@nyimabakare94129 жыл бұрын
I love Motown music. I really wish Sam Cooke was not murdered; what SAR records could have have been...
@JA2NJ9 жыл бұрын
+Renaissence Leeks Finessing got him killed
@hollidayevery8 жыл бұрын
Renaissence Leeks TRUE! Sam was about to turn it out!
@freddy8479 Жыл бұрын
He would have given BG AND MOTOWN "HEADACHES AND ANEURYSMS.... RESCUED AND REVIVED CAREERS, particularly "DISCARDED/DISRESPECTED MOTOWN ARTISTS"...... Particularly I believe Florence Ballard as A SOLO ARTIST. Along with: Jackie Wilson and "An Adult Sounding Frankie Lymon" Sam would have introduced them to THE VALUE OF OWNERSHIP.
@freddy8479 Жыл бұрын
@@JA2NJ By "A CONNIVING, CROOKED @$$ SMALL 🤠", ALLEN KLEIN.
@ccth2213 жыл бұрын
Mary wilson was fine!
@stage76 жыл бұрын
ccth22 ABSOLUTELY, UNDENIABLE!
@babak64093 жыл бұрын
Tru dat an 4evah
@ebony742 Жыл бұрын
I’m down for etiquette classes, great song writers, and groomed images, but KEEP EM BLACK!
@chantals44 Жыл бұрын
That lady( I dear assert her to a lady, its the respect for my elders in me) has so much self hate it’s astoundingly amazing that she could live with her self.
@DCGuy1997 Жыл бұрын
We need more Ms. Powell's in the world.
@JG_SmileSOBright Жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯
@divinewilliams30557 ай бұрын
helen williams was nothing short of breathtaking, such a beautiful woman
@fashart Жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Though the title is somewhat misleading. Nowhere in the video is anyone “body shaming” Black bodies or, any bodies. It’s about Beauty Standards, manners and acceptable behavior of the day. I work in the Fashion Industry and I think that Ms. Powell’s expertise is MUCH NEEDED with today’s entertainers and models!
@xman9190 Жыл бұрын
If it's not clear to you from the video that whiteness is considered the standard of beauty, then I don't know why you watched.
@michaelmaps2004 Жыл бұрын
@@xman9190lol some people will never get it. These people literally had to shrink themselves in order to appease the dominant class
@belafonte5519 Жыл бұрын
Victim mindset and intersectionality
@FleurRebelle Жыл бұрын
@@belafonte5519truth hurts whether u like it or not…not sorry
@belafonte5519 Жыл бұрын
@@FleurRebelle k
@aliciadavis487 Жыл бұрын
I feel elegant just listening to Mrs. Powell. The Supremes look classy as heck!
@stevenquinn46417 жыл бұрын
The Supremes and Motown changed our culture and influenced the planet The charm school type of grooming is just what was done to create nn image that would be embraced by the wider culture He ran Motown as an assembly line This is business as usual He wanted to create a polished finished product In the old Hollywood studio system the big stars were raw kids many from poor backgrounds The studio gave them new names bios They were taught to walk talk everything Motown wasn't doing anything wrong it was the creation of the best finished product It's about creating stars It's done every day People want to project their best image
@diepiriye7 жыл бұрын
What you say is true but ignores the fact that the motivation was not universal appeal, but to attract wider/white audiences in a legally segregated culture! You can be as color blind as you like, they could not afford that luxury.
@longbranch11207 Жыл бұрын
So what’s wrong with that ? I see nothing wrong with that and I wish they would go back to these days. Todays artists are so trashy
@xman9190 Жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207 You see nothing wrong with that? Did you see Michael Jackson when he died? Learning behavior is one thing, but mutilating one's physical self (and one's mind) is not a good thing.
@thetruthhurts9296 Жыл бұрын
@@diepiriyeAnd what you say is true but it was a universal appeal to attract a wider audience to purchase more records and be more successful. You can be as clueless as you want but its a business. 95% business and 5% show. The reason why Diana Ross, Smokey Robinson can play the Casinos and Vegas today was because of the ground that was laid back for them. That was the era of Jim Crow and segregation and racism. It's easy to talk Sh*t in this day and age when you can go to any hotel that you want. Back then they didn't have that luxury.
@KamalasNotLikeUs Жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207Today’s “artists” were manufactured in white laboratories.
@brownstar5432 Жыл бұрын
Imagine being told that what you look like naturally was not acceptable, was not enough. Now imagine those same folks who told you these things imitating and capitalizing off of those same features they deemed unacceptable.....que the Kardashians.
@SWDetboy7 жыл бұрын
MARY WILSON!!
@guygrip21207 жыл бұрын
I COULD LISTEN TWO MISS POWELL ALL DAY. SO MUCH ANY RACE CAN LEARN FROM HER. IF WORLD WAS MORE CHARM SCHOOLS LIFE WOULD HAVE CLASS
@neilforbes4167 жыл бұрын
To: dative/accusative - to the end of the hall, to be what you want to be. Too: quantitive/inclusive - This is too much!, Can I come too? Two: 2, Numeral spelled as word, more than 1(one).
@stage76 жыл бұрын
guy grip Let me tell you! At A special Mary Wilson media event featuring the Original Vandellas at the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, which was beautiful in itself, I Got a miraculous opportunity to actually sit at the Feet of Mrs. Powell and talk with her for some time and GLEAN from her God Given spirit of unmatched WISDOM and quickly became aware that there is NO ONE IN THIS WORLD that canNOT benefit from THIS woman's Divine Treasure! She taught Me a LIFETIME IN just the moments conversing with her. She LOVED me, (THANK GOD), and loved my style and demeanor, and even took my number before we all went off too Fat Fish Tuesday's restaurant to eat, including The Vandellas, whom I day with, and Mary Wilson! I will FOREVER Treasure THAT NIGHT!
@diepiriye12 жыл бұрын
When Black Became Beautiful I got in in a local library and have not been able to find it online. Please look for it, however, since it's very good and well made mini-series. It's from BBC, but uses mostly examples from American popular culture (perhaps since our Blacks are more visible, and that is in itself an interesting quandary to consider----the platform that America gives 13% of it's population)
@oliviapearson7856 Жыл бұрын
The saddest part of this( next to that woman saying black features are ugly and not classy) is the comment section of self hate.
@bettystalling3435 Жыл бұрын
My mouth dropped listening to her describe beauty. She was so excited talking about the white features of the nose, lips, etc. That was soooo sad to me, what was she really saying about the black race? Blacks cannot be beautiful without white features?🫤
@carlie471 Жыл бұрын
I hate the title. Black is and was always beautiful. Not all Black people hate their features.
@beelagriff10 жыл бұрын
I just ran across this video again. I so want to see the whole things can you upload more clips please when your not so busy
@LadyDuchess3 жыл бұрын
I understand what Motown was trying to do but it was too much. Berry seemed obsessed with projecting this image that was palatable to whites so much so that the personalities of some of the artists was lost and they seemed phony & contrived. I think that’s why Stax was so refreshing to a lot of folks. Their artists felt like real people and not just dressed up, smiling mannequins.
@lulumyataza78943 жыл бұрын
Hip hop, with all its flaws, was the most effective tool in improving race relations amongst a younger generation of Gen X, Millenials and Gen Z'ers by making white folk meet black folk half way culturally. Beyonce's first big movie role was as Foxxy Cleopatra in Austin Powers which is based of 2 female superheroes in the blaxploitation genre That movie made $296 million! That's more than the Wiz or even the Preacher's wife which was the black version of the Bishop's wife. It wouldn't have happened if black folk in entertainment kept using Berry Gordy's assimilationist model to reach people.
@LadyDuchess3 жыл бұрын
But why should Black people have to meet folks halfway or assimilate (basically water down and/or stifle their true selves & talents) just so others feel more comfortable? Either like the music or don’t. I’m not jumping through hoops and changing my whole personality just to try and ease someone else’s prejudices so they can feel like I’m not a threat or I’m one of “the good ones.” Nah, f that! Like I said, I understand what Berry was trying to do (sell records to _everyone_ and not just Blacks) and I understand it was a different time but it still irks me that the “crossover” (assimilation) became more important than just putting out great music and letting artists be themselves. 🤷🏾♀️
@MiamiPush2theLimit3 жыл бұрын
@@LadyDuchess The most important thing to Berry Gordy was making money. He didn’t give a damn about artistic integrity or creativity. Marvin Gaye and Stevie Wonder had to fight him to release their most significant works. Imagine limiting two geniuses like that. And the fact that he fought the Jacksons and wouldn’t let them have creative freedom either. Can you imagine being so selfish and losing Michael Jackson as a solo artist? Berry had very limited vision if you think about it. That to me proves that Berry definitely could not have made Motown successful by himself. He was extremely lucky. His family, especially his sisters, and the genius artists, made the biggest contributions to Motown’s success. He didn’t even come up with the charm school idea. That was his sister’s idea. Maxine Powell deserves a lot more credit than she was given.
@frlango6082 Жыл бұрын
What sorta amuses me is that those svengali managers slavedrivers were ready to exploit ANYONE and everyone. Blacks, whites, green purple and pink. And today…it is children, children artists and audiences who are being totally perversely endoctrinated. And sadly…no new Gil Scott Heron or new Prince in sight…damn
@frlango6082 Жыл бұрын
We’ve all been WaltDizneyed For far too long
@freddy8479 Жыл бұрын
There should be A LIMITED SERIES about "MS. MAXINE" I feel that my "#1 LADY, TONI BRAXTON" would be A PERFECT FIT to portray her.
@FMHammyJ8 жыл бұрын
we need another Maxine Powell for today's young whites and blacks.....Motown has always been my favourite music.....and as a white boy watching on Ed Sullivan.......I never saw colour......I just saw talent, coolness, and class......As the good lady said: Thats not money, that's something that's taught......Currently, I can say Donald Trump is a perfect example......raised in money, but not taught much class.
@roxannewatson4785 Жыл бұрын
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@PDMarcano Жыл бұрын
I was fortunate to have met Mrs. Powell several times during my years with Mary Wilson. Mary told me that story about Mrs. Powell getting in the car the wrong way. We would joke with each other if one of us was caught slipping! "What would Mrs. Powell think!" 😅
@mx82907 жыл бұрын
This documentary's content and title are confusing; I didn't see a connection within the first few minutes, then I FF'd and still didn't see a connection... Being taught proper etiquette has nothing to do w/ the title (or being body shamed)... New's flash: Not all African ppl have big black butts; therefore, not all Blacks have them. Peace w/ a smile
@tipp8076 Жыл бұрын
Fast forward and women wear bonnets outside and rap about brown booty holes. Crazy how drastically times have changed 😮
@josephedric40817 ай бұрын
Bonnets? Those are damn bags.
@caramelrhapsodyjesseslife8 жыл бұрын
I think this video needs to be relabeled. Where's the "shame" in class?
@hovac19879 жыл бұрын
I love this clip; where can we find the full documentary
@diepiriye9 жыл бұрын
+Nicole Mckinley BBC. it's online.
@hovac19879 жыл бұрын
+Dr. Kuku I'm having trouble finding it; can you send me the link ?
@Dezzy7model8 жыл бұрын
+Dr. Kuku I went to BBC i dint find it...pls help us out by just posting the link...
@BlackCinemaClub6 жыл бұрын
Great post. Where can the entire documentary be found please.
@frlango6082 Жыл бұрын
@@BlackCinemaClub BBC archives. Channel4 also a good one. That is when UK TV was exceptional. I want to see THE SCREAMIN JAY HAWKINS english documentary from way back but i only saw it once on the box
@Myhandle718 Жыл бұрын
Black female celebrities need this training again. Not for white approval but for themselves
@shante70sb Жыл бұрын
YES they do? BAD! Because we have a bunch of low class women nowadays in the music industry. They need to have media training and etiquette classes for these artists nowadays. They need to go back to that.
@phillipmarlowe05253 ай бұрын
Look how black women looked like in the 40s- 60s. Way more feminine and classy. Gail Fisher, Phyllis Hyman are two examples. I seen photos of black women in the 1940s and they were way way thinner and more classy and feminine.
@SweetUareDesi3 ай бұрын
Shut up
@dranchd65713 ай бұрын
No matter how they look they are not destr0ying communities. Compare BM today to those in the 40's.
@phillipmarlowe05253 ай бұрын
Blacks in general ARE destroying communities.
@kekelah7857 Жыл бұрын
We need a Mrs Powell in the industry now ❤❤❤
@DFerrante-nz6sk3 ай бұрын
Race,money has nothing to do with class.The way you conduct your self is everything,it speaks about your upbringing.
@Steadno13 жыл бұрын
much respect to her!
@theronedawson32367 ай бұрын
Looking at Mary Wilson I can see Kelly Rowland playing Mary Wilson life.
@tydeshawn125 Жыл бұрын
East African Eritrean and Ethiopian women have those features in mass
@mauricesantinomf Жыл бұрын
they're the same ones to call them mixed to feel good about their features
@MrsCottonCurls13 жыл бұрын
I'd like to see the full documentary.
@UncleDuTheWatchman7 ай бұрын
I don't know how Ms. Powell got dragged into this but Ms Powell did NOT preach self hate. She preached etiquette. And she never told anybody that their bodies were unacceptable or ugly or any of that. She never said Big Butts were wrong. SHE said stop getting onstage or going places LEADING with your butt. She was against intentionally showcasing body parts. She felt that mystery was more intriguing than being vulgar. Just because you have physical features does not mean you have to exploit them...That would be like me purposely not wearing draws when I have on dress pants and somebody says "Man you should anchor that thing because it's all over the place when you walk" and me saying "Don't body shame me because I got good genes below the belt." Or "Well it ain't my fault I'm a Black Man and this comes with the territory so to tell me not to flaunt my Bird is telling me to deny my Blackness". Do either of those statements make good sense? No. There is a time and place for everything and that's all Ms. Powell taught.
@thetruthhurts9296 Жыл бұрын
Ms Maxine Powell was the truth and in the Motown Biographies from various artists, she is the one that gave the Motown acts REFINEMENT. Good matters are one thing but she taught them how to properly carry themselves. All the Motown acts benefited from this. This is why acts could play the Top clubs and Casinos and get top dollar. Whereas everyone else was restricted to the chitlin circuit. We have seen where things have taken us. The cussing, tattoo tramp stamps, wanting to fight at the drop of a hat. Drinking, smoking. Not able to properly communicate. Angry tones in people's voices. Realize all of that was back there in the 60's as well.
@757177 ай бұрын
Your comment is well stated and sadly, very true. Class and etiquette is taught, it's not something you're born with. The speech, mentality, appearance, and performance of these class-less role models, shamelessly, have and is tainting the minds of past, present, and future young and impressionable generations.
@vintagechild4418 Жыл бұрын
We have always taken what is available and made it great! This was common practice for some of us. I am finding the narrative describing our community to be tainted with brainwashing ideas of inferiority, which was not true. Given the chance we are elegant in our own way.
@carolynnewsome7547 Жыл бұрын
Great comment
@LadyCeCeFromThaDirty Жыл бұрын
I’m so gladdddd this ever is over ugh them people really had to live their lives trying to be white.
@shante70sb Жыл бұрын
What you talking about? Black people still live their lives trying to appeal to white people & trying to be white even still to this day. Let's not act ALOT changed because it hasn't. Not much.
@hawashiIbadyah Жыл бұрын
Pure genius to please devils.
@you_can_call_me_T Жыл бұрын
Omg y'all Audrey was being sarcastic 🤦🏽♀️ The number of people who don't seem to have caught that is bothersome lol.
@oliviapearson78563 ай бұрын
She was dead serious. She said a black girl was beautiful because she looked like a white girl dipped in chocolate.
@tysonb3568 Жыл бұрын
Damn, Mary Wells was gorgeous til the day she died…. :) Blk people age gracefully if we look after ourselves.
@jamesaguilera53477 ай бұрын
Yes Mary Wilson was a very beautiful and classy lady!! I’m glad I got to meet her and see her perform in Las Vegas and Los Angeles several times before her untimely passing.
@newbengraham4775 Жыл бұрын
meanwhile motown was pit of vipers.
@kentGrey Жыл бұрын
1:39. I remember in the community that I grew up in there was a black woman who looked very much like her. I remember a white woman out at a store saw her. Didn't know her by name only her face. Approached her and exclaimed. "I was just asking my friend the other day what happened to that "BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN" that... yada yada yada. The black woman was gracious at the complement, but even I as a child around 12 was given pause. The white woman was literally saying that black women aren't inherently beautiful and that only a black woman with white features could be deemed so. "This bitter earth... what fruit it bares!"
@Keepdapocket Жыл бұрын
Same thing happening today. My mother’s side is light skinned and light eyes with good hair. My father’s side is darker skinned. I came out 6’3, light skinned and green eyes with extremely “good” hair. This was in the 80’s when I was a teenager, when the supposed “light skin is in” era. I actually hated my skin color. I hated being called “pretty boy” by the blacks, and “you don’t seem black” by the whites. Fast forward to what I call the thug era, my prime years of early 20’s in the mid 90’s. Things reversed. Blacks didn’t think I was black enough, and whites looked at me as a militant black dude because I would often tell whites “I’m what you hate: a black man who is a lawyer, educated, and don’t deal with your foolishness” Fast forward to present day. My wife of 24 years is brown skin. Our two children are brown, but both have green eyes and curly hair. When they were younger they went through the same damn thing with our people. It’s a damn shame!!!
@MsBaztastic Жыл бұрын
Of all the ladies in HR, I quickly identified the one who had ballet training. She moved with grace and elegance in regular tasks. I asked her, and she was surprised but confirmed my suspicion. Note: I have never been trained to dance or anything like it and I was just visiting HR and didn't work at all in that building. There are men who carry themselves in a similar fashion and even when they are old, they can hold your attention and admiration before you even know why you like them. Motown was teaching them to not be common.
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
What is "common"? Who sets the standards? Are you referring to putting on "fronts" for the dominant society? It's "common" knowledge that Motown artists and every other artist back in that day were promiscuous and adulterous with many other negative behaviors. That's the issue with a Europeanized society.
@diepiriye13 жыл бұрын
@TeenageWildlife YOU GOT IT! And there has always been that sort of divide between those who wanted to please the white folks and those who understood the healing power of Soul! Notice Aretha was never at Motown, either. Think she could have screamed and hollered like that under Gordy's direction? Even Michael Jackson had to eventually leave, and Marivn and Stevie had to negotiate heavy for any artistic freedom, at which point we got What's Goin' On, and Stevie's host of critiques!
@frlango6082 Жыл бұрын
Sly Stone with his band was his own man. He redined the role of female musicians being hopefully “equals” to men. But let us hear Wilson laugh and tell the tale of her fantastic band.
@DEKMAN99 Жыл бұрын
Aretha Franklin was somewhat overrated.
@belafonte5519 Жыл бұрын
@@DEKMAN99😂 you don’t say 🫡
@shaani7978 Жыл бұрын
@@DEKMAN99How so?
@carlie471 Жыл бұрын
@@DEKMAN99 Said no one. Especially the white people that attempt to mimic Aretha
@californiagirl1579 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Maxine powell❤I love you forever you definitely inspire this black woman today
@crit122713 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. LOL I learned how to get into a limo the right way. I love it. I would love to see more.
@melvinastewart37237 ай бұрын
I’m 67 years old when I was a kid charm schools were popular. They should have charm schools today. Some of these young folks could use come classes.
@Shawntraci Жыл бұрын
Some of them seemed to want to get to the other side sooo bad! Who does everyone mimic now? Why would I want to be anyone other than who I am?
@kyraocity6 жыл бұрын
From part 1 of a f 3-part BBC 2 documentary: When Black Became Beautiful
@beelagriff11 жыл бұрын
Thats a good question lol I think so. If not you might have to break into two parts but i think you can upload the whole thing
@mareerogers364 Жыл бұрын
They sounded so brainwashed back then😢 The damage continues. Reparations NOW!
@CardioNome Жыл бұрын
No reparations. Get a job. NOW!
@nathanmedina28093 ай бұрын
As if today isn’t brainwashing too with all the ass in your face…..just saying.
@nathanmedina28093 ай бұрын
Back then you were brainwashed to not like your figures and act in a certain way. Today we are brainwashed to degrade ourselves with the in your face technique. It’s all the same at the end of the day lol
@beelagriff11 жыл бұрын
Hey I do not mean to be a bother but did you ever get this documentary again? I am so anxious for it?
@billhughes87263 ай бұрын
That made absolutely no sense.
@seldenkid488 жыл бұрын
Mary you are forever my love
@MarcKlark Жыл бұрын
Where is the whole video 📷📸
@roxannewatson4785 Жыл бұрын
Its always about race. And, All you have to do is look at Berry's personal life to understand what he was about.