Sinovuyo Mondliwa | Finding Myself through Vulnerability

In this episode Mpoomy Sits down with founder of Love Kinks Sinovuyo Mondliwa in an in-depth conversation About her upbringing, learning to be vulnerable and her Take-over of the natural hair industry.

[@ChatswithNene]

Yey! Sinovuyo has so much presence. She's the kind of woman you'd want to listen to. Mpoomy selects the best guests I tell you 💕

[@tebogomolefe]

After listening to this conversation. I'm considering therapy ❤I need to be myself without feeling ashamed of expressing how I feel. I've become so hard.

[@amandasibanda246]

Same❤

[@athenkosilamani1105]

Me too

[@tebogomolefe]

@@amandasibanda246 ❤

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@@athenkosilamani1105 🌺

[@sibahlem2829]

You are in the right track sis. It's starts with acknowledgement. ❤

[@tigelechaboneka5777]

Mpoomy and her guests always make me want to be a great woman😭😭😭 all the time, I feel like there's more, I'm enough, I can do much... It's just hard to explain the feeling💯❤️

[@nmathidi1251]

Sino is so wise. You literally learn something new when she opens her mouth❤️

[@BukwaseMgidlana]

Sino has become so much softer. Going to a therapist has given her so much growth. I'm happy for her. Seeing healing is beautiful.

[@preciousmatshaya1383]

Her depth is relatable.... For one to be this deep requires a lot of time spent with self.

[@pearlmayindi6243]

"The best thing i ever bought myself this year is peace " that's powerful

[@busisiwemavuso2583]

Sino is so gorgeous 😍 what a compelling conversation. I love what she said about vulnerability and I'm convinced more than ever that I need therapy. I lost my mom a few years ago and I hardly talk about her because I'm scared of making people uncomfortable. Seeing Sino talk so freely about her mom, I wanna learn how to do the same

[@KashTau]

These two women will always be the catapult of young black KZbinrs who are gracefully successful and being unapologetically themselves.

[@denisesoxujwa1786]

You made me fall inlove with Sino so much... She's so self aware, she's so honest, she's open, she's so smart and wise and I feel like her voice and perspective is so necessary for this generation...

[@asandamagwede4361]

Amazing how I kept on imagining myself having coffee with Sino throughout this conversation 🙌🏾🙌🏾. She is so light and deep at the same time. Such a relatable person and I love her so much❤🥰🥰. Black women celebrating and uplifting each other🙌🏾🙌🏾love it

[@RichmondSajini]

"Your biggest success will come from putting together the puzzle of your life." - a word!

[@Baitsephejane]

Sinovuyo can clearly articulate herself, great interview 💕

[@kweenlue1709]

I'm so affirmed when I find people who actually admit to love having deep conversations. I've always been like this since i was young and I i always thought it's weird😂❤️

[@kiwigirl359]

I used to be like this so scared to mess up in relationships. Especially growing up in a single parent home, I always thought I wouldn't be able to find someone who truly loves me. But the moment I started being vulnerable I saw that I was worthy of love ,I'm in a great relationship and I'm so open with my partner and I allow myself to let him know how I feel if I'm not happy with a certain situation. And that works very well. So thank you so much Mpoomy ,it resonates with me❤❤❤

[@hlobsiledlamini6516]

I can relate..i was and still scared to make friends at age 40

[@iviweklaas9206]

Sino's explanation of the book, "What Happened To You" is so beautiful and accurate!

[@kwanelechili2639]

Sino is phenominal! The conversation about hair and identity is so deep. The connection to love kinks and corinthians 13 captures my heart and her heart towards serving black women is beyond me. Thank you for this conversation. What a brilliant mind!

[@luhle6607]

Pl

[@thandonm]

This lady has such a good voice. She speaks so well 😘

[@VivianKuvare11]

Her hairstyle ❤️

[@bahedilekeduetswe4922]

This conversation is so beautiful and soothing,I'm literally sweeping because this month is going to be 3 years since I've lost my mom and I have spent this three years being so cold and not letting myself be and not being vulnerable, hearing Sino talking about her mom just made me actually see my mother for how beautiful she was and I'm so happy that I'm allowing myself to feel those things even though it's not easy,it feels lighter

[@AyandaMakhanya]

Your biggest success will come from the puzzle of your life...shu!

[@sehlomengmokoena8657]

This conversation made me text my therapist and made me realize how much i need to talk to someone about my childhood trauma,and also my little sister

[@khwezimadlala]

I’ve cried so many times listening to this. I relate to Sino on such a deep deep level. What an incredible human being. Thank you for this, Mpoomy! ❤

[@Wholisticbohoo]

Same here 🥹

[@gracemokhele4896]

Mpoomy I love how you are a good listener, how you are attentive to someone's opinion. I love how you have Sino a chance to express herself. You are called to do this, I see it in your eyes and your smile, they're a reflection of how you feel inside about wisdom and wellness.

[@gracemokhele4896]

*gave*

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

I appreciate this so much 🤍🥺

[@ziphonogambula2972]

Mpoomy u are such a good listener, I love how much attention you pay to your guests... im om interview number 5....I have a lot of catching up to do😅😅

[@SineNkosi.]

I have followed Sino for some time now, such an inspirational and wise woman. Love her.♥️

[@Zeeiconoclastic]

I was listening to this episode last night and I can easily say it's my favourite episode thus far. Sino speaks so well and is so smart. I have shared this on my socials and I hope everyone watches this. She's an incredible woman. I love her confidence and she's made me consider therapy again. I love her pls. 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️. Well done for this Mpoomy. 🌸🌸🙏🏿

[@mpholehobo6417]

it's these type of conversations that make a young black woman's journey to self much easier💞

[@xoliswakonyane4454]

This was such a great conversation ladies. I started therapy about a week ago because you speak about it a lot in your segments. This conversation honestly hit home and I’m grateful to you Mpoomy for such a great impact you’ve had in my life 🌻💛

[@asandankosisphile1045]

I didn't want the interview to end. Thank you ladies

[@nolubabalomcengwa6935]

All the guests Mpoomy has invited this season have been great but this one!🥹 I resonate so much with Sino as far being deep and expressing herself from of a point of self-awareness birthed through healing🤍. It radiates through her when she speaks. What a beautiful soul❤️.

[@nosisandlovu801]

I love wisdom trajectory of the guests recently, for me it's moving from clips on Instagram to the podcast, now on KZbin. I connect, May God bless the guests in abundance and the wisdom and wellness team increase further.

[@bonenhlesishi690]

Listening to Sinovuyo's experience and snippets of her journey to vulnerability made me feel so seen. Hearing the joy/peace you're experiencing on the other side gave me so much hope. This was such an important conversation for me to listen to, thank you!

[@Fifi__s10]

“Your biggest success will come from the puzzle of your life” ✨💞 Love y’all 🫠

[@bernelee_van_rooy]

I've been thinking of therapy for the past weeks, don't know why, but after this. I'm definitely going..

[@bonolozono1597]

Lovely episode. There is so much that happens in our lives, a lot of pain that we end up not allowing ourselves to be soft and welcoming to any emotions. Thank you for reminding me that vulnerability is at my core and I should not work so hard to drift away from it. I truly loved this episode.

[@neomasenkane5267]

Beautiful. Lord knows how many times I’ve cried throughout the entire episode.

[@iloveliya7987]

I’m probably gonna watch this every single day . This was so triggering , yet so comforting and relatable . I honestly have no words man , thank you for this platform Mpoomy and thank you for sharing Sino ❤️.

[@paballopule9929]

I'm a fan of both of you, Sino from the hair journey I've walked with you from your content and Iove my hair because of your influence!Mpoomy from being intentional about every aspect of your life, I hate excercise but I'm intentional about moving my body and eating well and prioritizing my overall well-being! I love that you both don't just speak but you actively do what you speak about. What an overflow of wisdom and beauty 👏 😍

[@zona_davani]

“From my mom I got soft skills,” I want to be this for myself and my people. Acceptance, Reconciliation and Vulnerability are my highlights in this conversation. Sino you know my heart for you ❤

[@sibongilerachel5586]

Sino she's damn awesome. Can't get over this conversation 🔥😭 Mpoomy you are the best, thank you for selecting wonderful, phenomenal women☀️.

[@nattienoko6139]

This was such a beautiful conversation... I don't have the words yet to describe it but I'm moved. Thank you Sino and Mpoomy ❤️

[@lindiwembatha8989]

I love how I just saw myself in finding my vulnerability. I kept repeating this interview. Such incredible mental power and mental freedom I have learned. Thank you

[@AntonetteK1]

Sinovuyo has presence and grace and elegance and is an eloquent speaker. What a phenomenal woman. I enjoyed listening to this so much. Thanks for this amazing guest and great conversation Mpoomy.

[@kwanelechili2639]

Black girl magic in true essence, my future daughter can go online and watch women like you course through conversations about life in excellence, it makes me want to be more!

[@vuvumofficial]

Sino have come so far. I’m so proud of her and I love her spirit and how she’s been herself through out 😊

[@Efuru_lwazi]

This conversation very much needed, I listened on Spotify and I had to listen by myself and now I want to cry while watching 😭😭😭

[@ayandamokwana]

Oh my, Sino was so open and forthcoming it felt like getting a hug from a friend. Didn’t think I could love her more!

[@zamilenstudios]

Mpoomy keeps bringing the best 🙌🏻.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

Im glad, you are served :)

[@WELILENkambule]

This was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. This session really moved me and made me want to change my life for the better especially because im raising a girl child. Thank you for providing this Mpoomy, you're truly touching lives.

[@lauren_knight]

'' what in life feels the same everyday '', This conversation was so profound. Mpoomy thanks for this topic. And Sino. I follow her on Insta and she has such a beautiful smile.. Now after listening I connect even more. She is so self aware... 😍.

[@kekumangale242]

Hearing this conversation made me realize that I need therapy for my personal life experiences 😢undealt trauma that needs to be closed 😣beautiful conversations ladies ❤️💜

[@carolkufa744]

A lady once told me to always tell the truth to your child no matter how old. My husband and I left for a funeral and did not explain to my children why or where we were going. The lady we were travelling with said when you go back home apologise and tell them where you went and why. Children need the full circle like Sino said. Explain. Your child needs to understand. It completely made sense to me because growing up our parents never explained and this builds trauma.

[@lulufierce01]

Ive never experienced Sino like this in any interview. Thank you Mpoomy for this offering!

[@delphathoko6646]

Vulnerability give me what I seek the most in life which is being seen and heard.I LOVE THIS

[@phumezamotlhabane3977]

This❤️I listened on Spotify for the whole conversation and had to watch it again.. I can't even articulate it but I love you girls. Sino is soo profound and deep😇 and she explained "closing the circles" concept so well from Oprah's book. And surely affirmed that therapy is indeed something worth going for if you can afford. Thank you Mpums for your guests that you always host. I also love the topic of vulnerability, I am exploring that been listening to Brene Brown's podcast and I love how she tackles that topic. And you guys were on point.. I love you ladies. You are doing well❤️

[@iminathimonyai6757]

I loved everything about this.. I love how Sino expresses herself

[@khanyisagura4377]

I'm watching this again now. I have always loved Sino since I started following her on IG on 2020 on the advice of Mpoomy when she listed her as one of the natural hair influencers that were inspiring her natural hair journey. I always felt that I resonate with Sino a lot. I was so excited about her business from then and to see how she is still going, it's sooo wonderful to see!!

[@ayabulelamahleza]

What a compelling conversation. I’ve followed both your journeys from the beginning & to see where you are now is incredible. Sino is absolutely phenomenal & so wise.

[@lesediboane5313]

I love Sinovuyo, but a year ago I didn't understand this podcast episode so I left it at that. The other day I saw a snippet of brene brown's TED talk on vulnerability and it reminded me of this episode. Before coming to watch this again I journaled and that resulted in me writing about vulnerability then something changed in Me. I am so glad I went through that to understand vulnerability for myself. So this episode just sealed my understanding even better.

[@neliswajokweni5872]

Yes yes yes. I believe in vulnerability so much. You might not get the response you’d hoped for but it’s okay, it frees you!

[@asie_dudula]

Ohh Sino❤. Absolutely love her. Thanks for bringing her on sis Mpoomy

[@mbalizwane3701]

So much of good aura radiating from Sinovuyo, and the connection you two have. Loved this ❤

[@sinolwaziapril239]

Two of my favourite ladies... Sino is so amazing. I really enjoyed this conversation.

[@zanelemtshweni3749]

I absolutely enjoyed this. Thank you so much to you both ladies ❤️

[@lwazibellkhoza7678]

I cried cause I love both this women and just seeing them in one room and having such conversations I just couldn’t hold it in❤😢😊

[@raisingrainbow]

This conversation made me want stand up and go fetch my life. Truly wisdom and wellness

[@mbalimatsepe]

This is pure gold 🥺 thank you so much sino and mpumi for this conversation ❤️🙏🏿

[@sihlemotha1438]

This is so wholesome. You ladies are amazing. Thank you for this amazing conversation.

[@mologadihazellegodi8626]

Mpoomy and Sino, thank you so much for this conversation. Thank you 💛💛

[@BerniceMB]

half way through this conversion and already emotional. So many nuggets to take into consideration. thank you for bringing her❤

[@RemofilwekmNgcobo]

Aww getting to this now and listen!! I would relisten a hundred times. the topic of vulnerability, the mixed areas and oros analogy. Wow ne. Thank you for this Mpoomy le Sino! Also its you guys matching unintentional and looking sooo goood!

[@rejoicetinarwo3056]

I just love how Mpoomy manages to get more from the guest, every conversation is always enlightening ❤. Sino’s glow 😍😍😍

[@Lebogang_ct]

True about vulnerability. We must allow it to have a room. Even Ntokozo M said it there is so much out of vulnerability, so much of strength out of it. Oh thank you so much for the conversation Beautiful matching 🌻

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

thank you :) vulnerability seems to be a thing here.

[@azariahchampion1597]

@@MpoomyLedwaba what a deep conversation, Mpooomy Id really like to know how come u so open to the idea of connecting to the dead and yet you are a self proclaimed born again child of God? Its not the first time I hear u intertain this philosophy, U said u get the theory of it but do u know and understand that Father God forbids this practice in his word?

[@nondumiso2957]

Such a great conversation, I’m blown away. Sino you are amazing ❤ thank you Mpoomy ❤

[@zohramathebula4113]

Got so emotional. This conversation feels like a hug ❤️

[@mbalienhlemthembu6373]

OMG! Wow! This was amazing. It was so interesting hearing Sino’s mind and heart |❤️

[@melblose5244]

5 months later and it's only now that I'm listening. I definitely agree with the therapy aspect. I started therapy in January 2023. Therapy has made me realize how hard and bitter I am at 22 years of age. Therapy also made me realize that my relationship with my mom is not the greatest. I endured a lot of trauma that was inflicted upon me by my mom mainly through hurtful words, insults and neglect. Now that I'm older and she wants that friendship/sisterhood bestie aspect and I struggle to give her the best parts of me because when I was little she gave me the worst parts of her. I've never felt loved, appreciated or adored. Therapy made me realize I need to address my childhood traumas to her and make her understand events and things that hurt me the most even if I don't get an apology from it. Love the points Sino mentioned on vulnerability.

[@noniraseluma]

Yho I just got to learn Sino from so much more. The depth and authenticity in her is healing ♥️♥️ thank you Mpoomy sis 🌸

[@reitumetsetumza6072]

Geez why am I crying 😢, arg what a beautiful conversation ❤ love Sino, thanks Mrs Mom 🤭

[@BGladnessLekgoa]

I think this conversation touched parts of me that I never knew needs to be polished,I got emotional but I really loved it 🥰

[@ingridmahlobogoane1136]

This was so beautiful and relatable. So triggering as well. I think I've learnt more about myself through watching this. Love it. Thank you 😊

[@Xmahle_]

One of my favourite episodes! I So much reflection and goodness to take from this episode. I love Sino’s mind and heart so much , so so so beautiful 🥺🤍

[@tshegofatsokwenda8710]

OMG! I am in awe of Sino, I align with so many of the things she spoke about today and that was just beautiful. I feel so good after this video. Thank you Mpoomy for yet another beautiful and informative video, this was refreshing.

[@elanaywimmerth5084]

I love everything anbout this conversation, its like my world opened so much. Also, I love Sino so much and she is so well spoken. Thank you Mrs Mom for always giving us quality videos.,

[@kebohlale2101]

What a wonderful conversation 😊thank you both ladies for your content . 2 women I love in one video . Sino is such an inspiration, her story is amazing. May you ladies continue to soar and inspire 🎉

[@utakatjivena66]

I just love this so much...Sino you know your thing gal..Mpoomy love you gal...keep bring up those wonderful conversations 💖❤💕

[@abongilebuku8311]

I absolutely love her hair🥰🥰🥰, she's gorgeous

[@maropengmanthata9366]

Ohhh my gosh🙆🏾‍♀️. No words, absolutely no words... this was beautiful and triggering at the same time. Thank you ladies for this

[@Hellenm]

I totally enjoyed this conversation, I literally didn't want it to end. 😭🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@zimmim6738]

This conversation was flowing so nicely, so organic, so genuine, so relatable, so real❤️

[@leratomaseko9591]

WOW!!! I could listen to Sino all day. She really makes me wanna be a better version of myself. She's so inspirational. Love her!

[@Nicky_M]

What a great interview...learned so much

[@inky_3874]

Tears rolling down my face, I loved listening to the episode, well done ladies, Sino really touched my heart, she so real and so inspirational, and Mpumi you are always amazing, God bless you both abundantly 💐💐💐💐

[@unathigxobole8165]

I enjoyed this conversation soooo much, it has helped me with something I've been struggling with very deeply. Thank you Ladies ❤️❤️

[@setjekachueu6373]

Absolutely beautiful interview. Both of you are exceptional women and I pray God continues to bless your respective lives.

[@sengamai4983]

I listened to the podcast and now am here to watch my favourites 😍

[@melodygininda1839]

Am here for the second time . I needed this

[@shuliehasiciimbwe7540]

The combo we all needed!! Love❤

[@HopeMakola]

OMG I'm only 10min into this video and I'm already in LOVE, honestly Sino is by far hands down one of my favourite influencers and Mpoomy what can I say your truly living what Christ has called you to do. I love love your content💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@priscillarikhotso4018]

This was worth watching, so much knowledge.... Thanks for the insightful session.🙏🙏👏💯❤🌹