Marriage Be Hard Podcast | Warryn & Erica Campbell

[@IheartMayMay]

I love to flirt with my husband. When he says do you want to eat somewhere, I say are you asking me out on a date? He smiles and says of course. Married 24 years. Just one example but the point is it takes both parties to get what you want out of marriage. 💍

[@realtalk8813]

Aw thats really sweet 🤍💕

[@yolandalcheek462]

❤️

[@mamakarin8592]

I love that!💜

[@nunyabusiness3516]

Exactly!! People underestimate how important it is to still flirt with your partner. I have been married 20 years still flirt with mine.

[@ladyt4062]

Exactly, after 32 years of Holy Matrimony this is TRUE!!

[@meekaa2812]

These relationship conversations are Melissa’s Zone of Genius !! This is were you excel & We love to see it!! Side note: the audio/microphones needs adjustment, the volume has to be on high to hear specially the Kirk & Tami episode.

[@antoineerikascott5022]

Kirk just whispers ALL the time! 😂

[@lisacox3750]

I can hear just fine. I just notice certain individuals talk low in general. I noticed that with Cam (Lauren and Cam). But that's just how he talks. Everyone else sounded fine. I just think they have to ask certain people to speak up.

[@RoseStarr]

I know this gone be good just from Kev's interview with Erica on Ask A and his interview with Warren on Coming to the Stage!

[@ImaniSMH9009]

Exactly. Period lol

[@sistersinthenameofchristin8463]

Yes! They interview well

[@msnoel10]

And was!

[@PinkLotusLex]

Will be married 10 yrs this year and wish we had married friends that we could have these type of fun convos with…. Or married friends period. 😢 Loved this episode! The stories are hilarious 😂

[@shevaunbryant8554]

Where do you live? We’ve been married 3 years and have a handful of cool married friends

[@mamakarin8592]

Definately try to find some married couples to hang out with!

[@MrsMarlene09]

Same here!!! We are on year 8 and we have no married friends either..

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Alex H…Wow! I can relate to your statement 💯!!! It’s hard for us to find happy married couples that we can connect with & share adult conversations. I hope you guys can find that married couple or couples that you can connect with.

[@brittanysherida]

I’ll be married soon and I’m soooo glad I came across this page. Thank y’all for this.

[@ARaebow]

God bless your union 💜

[@dcubit]

As a single woman, these conversations are so helpful!

[@melissastone6971]

Genesis start with a marriage and revelation end with a marriage. Marriage is important to God.

[@sistersinthenameofchristin8463]

Warren said he ain’t pastor today 🤣🤣🤣

[@nicolesims6131]

The past 2 days I've been going back and forth between the audio book(currently on chapter 9) and these episodes...Love Love Love it all cause chile "Marriage Be Hard" Bless yall for this platform!!❤

[@Jessica__Jani]

At first I was sad watching this like “I wish I would have found my spouse years in HS.” But then I realized it doesn’t matter the journey you take whether by yourself or with another person because the underlining theme was ‘finding yourself’. You can do that with someone or without. So that shed some good insight or what those relationships are like. Great conversation you guys!

[@AlliNW0nderland.]

Yes!!! The touch sometimes is the sorry in that moment and we will most definitely discuss at a later moment ❤️❤️

[@BeesOnMars]

I got the book and audiobook. Hearing Kev and Liss read their own words was the perfect touch!

[@BeesOnMars]

@@missrose9795 I was so excited and I was soaking in every word. They did such a good job!!

[@veewee3706]

This was the conversation we needed in the early years of our marriage. Thank God we made it through all of the storming and norming of it all. 😊 👍🏾 ❤

[@mimi_j]

46:34 ooof I love this!! These conversations are sooo helpful and listening to ppl that share the same faith but aren’t stiff about it, aww man ya don’t understand how refreshing this is💕 in Jesus name we’re welcoming our first one in May 🙏🏽🙏🏽💕keep us in prayers pls

[@natashacoleman8357]

Wow great conversation. The Campbell’s were so relatable.

[@tiamaria44]

DOWN to earth and candid convos is what we need.

[@missdennis6744]

Enjoying this marriage be hard series, I’ve been learning so much, thank you Melissa 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@cj10109]

Thank you for making these videos. Hearing these couples be real about their relationship is inspiring 💜

[@bridgetp3989]

You guys have did it again! Great interview!!!!! Also love the DAILY release! ❤

[@Mindfreegardener]

This was so refreshing and authentic ❤️

[@iamladyblack1188]

I would love to see the extended version cause I can tell they had to cut out some of the conversation for time. They kept trying to end but just like good friends it’s so hard to stop a good conversation.

[@kamikoils9336]

This was sooooooo good!!! I laughed so much and so many things resonated with me, my spirit and my marriage!!!

[@whitneysimon6828]

This is my new favoritetest one. Every new podcast I hear I feel like it's my new favorite. I can't pick. I'm just so mad I'm so late to the party😂

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

I luv Melissa’s mindset during these couple conversations. She seems to hit every nail on the head so eloquently. She has a nice speaking voice and her delivery is relatable. Kev does a great job as well. Bless their friendship & their marriage🫶🏽❣️Luv’d Erica & Warren’s transparency & fun throwback family stories❣️I wish my husband and myself had positive married couples to converse with. God willing, I spoke this into existence 🙏🏾.

[@rsievers85]

We had a videogames issue too in our 1-2yr in. I was prego with our first born and tired from work and hes playing games with 3 other guys. I let him live but now its time for bed and i gotta get up at 5am for work.. now its like 2am!!! And im still hearing the game, the pushing of buttons and trash talk. My prego self got up threw his pillow at him and was like " sleep with your boyfriend then" 😆 needless to say almost 16 yrs in, we dont have late night video game issues anymore lol

[@jenvaldeus]

This conservation is really necessary for us to adhere to

[@dawnaporter9932]

Loveeee this segment please keep it going. Y’all have a gift of communication for sure especially relationships

[@ambermccutchen8451]

I like how Kevin and Melissa have these marriage couples who talked about their experience in marriage and ups and downs sincerely yours Mrs Amber Mccutchen

[@iriscostner9204]

I am really enjoying this marriage Bihar conversations. In the portion toward the end where they discussed college for their children. I would agree that it is our goal to help launch our children. I believe sending your child to college enables you to be more ready to launch them when they graduate. I think it’s God’s little gift to the parent to be ready for the next chapter. Enjoy the journey.

[@taramari5063]

THIS WAS GREAT!!!! Loved every bit of this episode!

[@michelleknight61]

This conversation is sooo relatable 🙏🏾😂

[@kindredsurvivors8138]

I have watched this an unhealthy amount of times!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@learngrowgo890]

Absolutely excellent and authentic conversation!!!

[@selfembracelife]

Apologies be hard… I disagree. Acknowledge your faults; don’t just hold me in bed. Yes we are staying married and in our family we have to be representatives of maturity for our children. Gifts are good. Food is amazing. I want adult communication in this marriage. Choices 💕

[@mrsbook5206]

I loved every minute of this!! 💜💜

[@rettawilliamson5441]

Took me a while to get here too but thank God for revelation! @ 56:11--👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿a perfect illustration on how to have mature and healthy conversations that will prevent allowing your angry words projected on someone else to injure, cause pain and destroy your relationship...only problem is all involved have to understand this and continually put it into practice. "Words cut deep & you cant take it back."

[@angelapleasants7406]

"I had to take her off my potters wheel" THIS!!!

[@LorenaHarper]

Just finished the series. This is my favorite episode ❤🙌🏽

[@tenyathomas6065]

I thoroughly enjoyed this interview/conversation! ❤

[@Sharie.]

I don’t understand why women don’t apologize??? I don’t get it … Pride is sinful. My mother didn’t apologize. But because of that I make sure I apologize when I’m wrong. Kevin’s wife (Melissa) wasn’t being accountable.

[@LoveMarshat]

I’m loving every interview!! ❤️

[@niqueybangz]

Can we keep these coming?! Yes we’re ordering the book, y’all gon be NY best sellers fasho!! But please!! We can ppl be these conversations as often as y’all willing to put them out! 🙏🏾🥰💕

[@taylormade4u]

College is not for all people and so when you learn your child you learn that and you can still “steer them in the way they should go” even if they go to a trade school, go directly to work or choose something else. I had to understand that lesson even with my own “now grown children” that college is not for everyone. There’s plenty of people with college degrees not doing anything with that degree and making minimum wage because they still don’t have a clear direction on where they should be in life. Don’t get me wrong, college is GREAT! But I wish some folks would stop “pressuring” people that college is the “only” way to be well educated, knowledgeable, have structure, etc. It’s not.

[@bravemac8612]

I def agree with Melissa on not making Isaiah go to school because Erica talked about the scripture about raising up a child in the way they should go but the context of that is talking about a relationship with God not college or their gifts. I understand what Erica was trying to say but unfortunately that isn't the context of that verse. Melissa has the right idea for sure but also pray for them that God would lead them(children, and Kev and Melissa) to show them where God wants them to go!

[@4rmbwithluv]

She used the contex correctly. Train up a child in the way that they should go means with God and life. Which means as a parent you have to have discernment on the person that God wants your child to be and train them up according to who God shows you they are. Contex is correct

[@bravemac8612]

@@4rmbwithluv You are absolutely correct in what you say I should’ve been more clear I realise sometimes we need to be a little bit more clear when we are writing things LOL what I meant was I kept hearing Erica talk about how she wanted this for her daughter and she wanted this and she was living through her daughter so when I hear that scripture in light of that, then it’s out of context. but as far as discerning where your daughter should go and training her up in that sense yes I agree that would be in context but in hearing the interview I didn’t hear that unfortunately. I heard Erica repeatedly say she wanted this for her daughter and she was vicariously living through her daughter.

[@robynhudson4200]

​@@bravemac8612 I agree with you!

[@msmichelles]

I love Erica and Warryn. I feel they should have guest talk a little more. Not a lot of questions ask to the guest. Erica had to jump in to add their stories or advice.

[@newszn_]

Love this series! Thank yall for this public good 💜

[@alexj1897]

Good stuff. Thank you, guys. 👍🏾

[@danielledoublette6213]

I cried when that sweet girl went to college 😢 I’m so emotional lol

[@JoyisHere22]

This was so funny thank you hahahaha

[@twylals78]

This was awesome! I ❤️ it

[@lb1798]

Everything is not war...love it❤️❤️❤️😊

[@lauratellez1520]

SOOO GOOD!! Great conversation !

[@tishataray]

Love this real view of marriage...gr8 couples

[@kdrickSportzHustLE]

dope segment

[@meekyw.4010]

Good interview. I just wished they would've touched on past infidelity.

[@derrickgildon2352]

I slap phones too, we love ya ladies!

[@herlifeonpurpose]

This was sooooo good

[@tammyg8659]

Not the foot touch lol

[@phebetaylor4488]

I am LISS!!! 😂 😂 😂

[@te_nia1283]

Loved it!!!!❤

[@Master_Ses]

Love Erica. She's a real one.

[@consuelo14]

uber eats and all these things that the lord has made lmao,,,,,,,,oooo lovin with yo fist up thats me allday.

[@ev3goddess]

Marriages or lawful unions marytrships can alwaysz use consoling & guidance from other likeness partners ummhumm thats where wiii cant peace out our family morals & values if wiii need holyspirioted graces in our lives

[@christthelord91]

Man, now I miss Christa!!!! 😭😭😭

[@phebetaylor4488]

This is definitely my life! Folks just pull up!

[@katrisalarry38]

Good good!

[@CurlsofaCPA]

Dang, I am Erica lol

[@vashandawingo7695]

Who is it who is it who is it who is it

[@kingdombeauty9174]

❤❤❤❤

[@fayerwashington51]

Religion is real; ain't it!

[@Olivia-qg2qh]

I’m the youngest & I remember my parents complaining about my older siblings never calling when they went off to college so when I went I called them 5-7 times a week legit all 4 years 😅😅

[@sadinaoutlaw4725]

A

[@Khadijah_time]

Awwwww, such a sweetheart you are for that. I absolutely love to hear it. Your parents are blessed to have you. 😍

[@elnoawilson101]

Awe.

[@niqueybangz]

Can we keep these coming?! Yes we’re ordering the book, y’all gon be NY best sellers fasho!! But please!! We can ppl be these conversations as often as y’all willing to put them out! 🙏🏾🥰💕

[@lovelybrowngirls1673]

"Your children are birthed through you not to you." That really spoke to me; I've had many questions lately about idolizing my children; that segment helped a lot.

[@ladyt4062]

@D Banner Heaven will be on earth when Jesus returns. John 3:13 ( no man has seen heaven) Children are a blessing on earth, they definitely teach us love and humility.

[@latoyajohnson8128]

That is good knowledge

[@brandyadeokun9712]

Yes, it definitely has helped me know how to pray for mine, now that are young adults

[@MsTaeFaith]

I love how each marriage is so different but they all seem to truly love one another and put the work in to make the marriages great. ❤❤

[@n.e.w.skincare]

I would tell my younger married self to set boundaries and speak on things when they happen.

[@CherieButler]

These conversations are everything!!! They are about relationships of all kinds be hard. I love it. I'm getting my copy of the book and marriage has never even appealed to me.

[@mscalihybrid1]

This was an awesome podcast. Thanks Kevin and Melissa for providing such magnificent content.

[@twinmamacooks2469]

The foot touch is a thing ‼️❤️ lol 😂

[@jtawiah]

Gurl. I just starting watching these and Melissa you are absolutely called to this work. I have been wanting some uncut, real life conversations about marriage because NOBODY tells you what’s real, no one is transparent and vulnerable, everybody claiming to be out here living their best life 😂 Thank you for this platform which brings about transparency in a loving and thoughtful manner. This is more than a book, the podcast needs to keep going and then after that, we need the MBH annual retreat/conferences, and then after that we need the docu-series which can be a follow up to Black Love and then we need the scripted series and movie. There I said it!! This stuff is good, I’m telling you. I’ve been Married 8 years, got three kids and am in my early 40s and ain’t nothing but truth coming through those podcast mics. It’s blessing my soul with every episode. Keep pushing and giving us this content, the culture neeeeeeeeeeeds it!

[@SweetTeaDarling]

😂🤣😂🤣😂Ooooweee I hollered about them ‘Illegal House Prayers’ 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣. Waaaaaaaaaaaayyy too relatable 😅😅! Warren: “My 17th birthday turned into an illegal house prayer”. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 But on a serious note! 😮 Those House House prayers 🙏🏾 tho 😅! **clears throat - for an off key rendition of “Thank you Lord For all you’ve done for me”😅**

[@morgannixon1867]

This is so random, but Erica and Krista have the same face!

[@dawnfoster1071]

This series is great. Everyone is dropping gems.

[@antoinycemathis]

Got my book the other day!! I'm so EXCITED!!! I pre-ordered in March, so it was a pleasant surprise to receive in the mail!!

[@deb1920]

There's such a thing as apology languages. Everybody doesn't have to be the same. Why does there have to be only right way of doing thing with billions of people on this planet? That's billions of personalities.

[@antoinycemathis]

LOOOOOOVVVEE Erica's perspective on college being essential for the growth and development of our children (even when we know they're going to pursue fields in entertainment, ministry, etc. where they don't necessarily need college or that academic experience)!!

[@queennyla1]

They are PASTORS! I love it. Erica gon bring that thing back to the GOOD BOOK! I love it.

[@Wellmama30]

I subscribed at 59 minutes into this podcast, I love this so relatable.

[@anishnewton100]

Erica seems a bit like a Bible thumper. This interview was good though and I love everything the Frederick's are a part of and I'm happy to see them shine a light on black, Christian, love.

[@ccmediamogul8673]

Love love love these segments!! Just made one year of marriage this year and hearing this wisdom from legends is so refreshing that we’re on the right track!

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

Congrats on your new marriage! You’re still in the honeymoon phase. I wish you many blessings and happiness for many years of marriage.

[@msnoel10]

This was soooo good! I especially loved the part about blending their families because THAT be hard too.

[@antoinycemathis]

I think "#GOALS" is a compliment and something that can be looked up to! I think the sentiment is good and honest, but it may be something that needs more conversation around it!!

[@zuri4life]

I hear you but if the person receiving it doesn't see it that way, it won't be received as one. Intention vs impact

[@aliciacheekphd]

The intent is good and of course it’s meant as a compliment but it’s too much pressure. We’re all just flawed individuals. Also people only show us what they want us to see. We can be calling a couple “goals” because of pretty pictures and good acting, but behind closed doors, they’re struggling.

[@sharioden5853]

Volume better on this video thx guys

[@michelleknight61]

🙌🏾🥳

[@peepieicu]

Yesss!! Tammy and Kirk, I have to squint my eyes tight, turn everything off and lean in

[@Touchingtheworld513]

I literally can’t stop watching these and I have a healthy marriage. This is so good.

[@maryluvsmusic9298]

I agree 💯❣️

[@cwin721]

Im with Warryn on the being early and planning. This was a good conversation

[@Ty1on3twelve]

This is hilarious. I love this conversation. Y'all got me dying laughing. I appreciate all y'all.

[@tswanigan69]

Loved every min. of this conversation!

[@JustMe_Toni]

Right! Although I’m not married, I still don’t need the words “I’m sorry” or “I apologize” for the sentiments to be relayed.

[@lisha458]

I am soooo loving these conversations Kev and Liss!!!!!🥰🥰

[@legal_beagle5294]

How in THE world have I missed five months of this wonderful, hilariously funny, candid, authentic work!??? Well, I tell you what....I ain't missing nothing elsee!! I love it! Love it! L-O-V-E Ittttt!!!!

[@unconditional_positive_regard]

This was dope!!!!! Great conversation!