Muaj Nyiaj Lawm Tsis Need Txiv Neej~03/13/2024~

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Story description: He supported and encouraged his wife to go to college so they can have a better life. But once she completed her education, she became a very evil different person.

[@PM-oe5mk]

If your wife continues down this path, then get a lawyer and divorce her, and fight for alimony as well as child support! She's not worth the headache and heartache with that crappy attitude of hers. She doesn't love anyone (you or the children) but herself! You have supported her financially throughout her higher education so you have merit in your claims. Also, the fact that she barely cared for the children gives you a good chance for custody. Let your lawyer fight for everything you are owed. If you don't fight, then you have no right to complain about the system. Your wife is not life smart at all even though she thinks she is because of her PhD. I hear too many stories with Hmong people earning their doctorates and developing this superiority complex. They misunderstand the fact that their degree is only good for a job and that it doesn't make them better than others nor does it automatically get them respect because respect is earned!

[@kuvxwb9466]

Your wife just never show her true self until she got her degree. Having a degree doesn’t make her smart. Neeg siab phem thiaj li coj li no. Doesn’t matter poj niam txiv neej li os. Thaum muaj nyiaj lawm ces muaj plhus. Stop wasting time and divorce her. Time is too precious to waste on someone who doesn’t respect you. I’m sure she has someone else.

[@aiinvestor3737]

Hope she comes to read these comments. First, $100,000 plus a year not lot of money. Second, the fact that you are still employed by others you are not rich. Third, high education not make you smarter it is only trained you in specific areas for the purpose of helping society. She is like my sister who shut door to all others thinking she is too good. Remember SteveJob last word about money. I value good health, love, experience more than money. Tus muaj tsis khav tus khav tsis muaj .

[@opopopop9509]

Poj niam kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse ces zoo li no

[@maithao1139]

Her ego went to her head after she got her PHD.... u supported the wrong woman. U carved the knife that will stab u.

[@Shoua608]

Not all women are like that.self and most of my circle of friends have higher education and make more money than our husbands. We don’t treat our husbands with disrespect. In fact, not a lot of people in town know we have college degrees. Having a PhD degree doesn’t mean she is smart.

[@nangkue8371]

I'm the educated one in our marriage, but I got my education with his support. In the beginning, it was hard for my husband to get use to my income, which often triple his full time income, but he eventually learn to benefit from my income. He now can afford his land with a second home built the way he wants. He has a boat, an RV, and drives the truck he wants. He has been partially retired for about 5 years now and spends his days watching our two grandbabies. I graduated with my degree over 25 years ago.

[@paxiong5522]

Not all educated hmong women is like this one in this story. Some of us do have a higher education and make double or triple what our husband make but we still respect our spouse. My husband also supported me to get all my degrees and when people ask me why I run everything by him, I remind them that he was my main supporter and the main reason why I am successful. The homes described in this story is on the smaller side of two stories, this wife need to be humble and realize that there are many other more successful people in this world who still are respectful towards family and friends.

[@Vangrsky]

Huh. My financial philosophy is totally different. If you can survive on one salary then I’d be banking that $100k a year for a few years and cash my house! Also, $100k is not even much now days.

[@beethao5362]

Majority of women will not respect you once they make more than you or are more educated. This is not a Hmong women thing, it's a modern feminist thing that applies to all race, not just Hmong. Learn from this lesson and make something of yourself instead so you have more options of potential wife open to you.

[@Love98fire]

Both of you have to find a balance between your relationship. I’m sure u both love each other that’s why you guys have not divorce yet. Both of you need to talk and come down to a compromise.

[@nasejyang6369]

It's not her degree that is the problem and it's not how much she makes that is the problem. The problem is her. This is who she is. Money revealed her true character. She just hid who she is when she didnt have education and made no money. Having money emboldened her to become her true self

[@Tsovtub1972]

I feel your pain. Money doesn't need a evil witch

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

I do agree with the kids part. I don’t understand Hmong people who don’t watch their kids during party

[@BossPolly]

I like this title

[@DailyBread2007]

A divorce lawyer will say what she has accumulated while you two were married is half of yours. Get that half and move on with your life brother. It’s been two years, she will not change. Don’t waste your time. The grass is not greener on the other side for her. She will learn it the hard way.

[@yengvue4849]

Me phooj ywg aw thiab ib tsoom txiv neej yawg kom nej nco qab ntsoov tias ib tug pojniam nplua nuj yeej tsis lam yuav lam los yuav ib tug txiv pluag li nawb. Ho nej saib seb ib tug txiv neej nplua nuj tab sis nws yeej kam los yuav ib tug pojniam pluag nawb tej zoo li no peb yeej ib txwm pom los lawm nawb.hnub twg yog ib tug pojniam es nej txhawb2 nws mus kawm tag qib siab nej tsis yeem cia siab hais tias thaum nej tus pojniam muaj kev txawj ntse lawm es nws yauv los khwv rau nej noj ib zaug kiag yog yus ua npau suav mas tseem yuav tseeb dua es tsis txhob lam cia siab rau koj tus poj niam ntse kiag od.

[@kouavang5928]

Ua daim Ntawv nrauj los Kim Kim, what a jerk. Divorce filing fees is under $300. This guy speaks and sounds like a complaining woman.

[@XMML33]

It’s a privilege to hear two very strange stories two nights in a row. Loving it!

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Your wife is what they call “Dumb, acting smart.” I make 100+/year, but I still respect my children, my husband, my families and my culture. I live in the suburbs, but every weekend, l go to support our families and Hmong community. My house is open to everyone. Be strong, so she doesn’t walk all over you. Money is not everything in life.

[@lor6760]

The heart of mankind is evil continually. No one will escape the judgment of God. Repent people Jesus loves you.

[@touyang3403]

TOS tsis need txiv, nyiaj Muas tau ntau tus qws txhob ne😂😂😂

[@yongher6178]

Vim yuav tau noov yas lawm thiaj tsis need txiv neej ne,😂

[@pangvang2304]

Nrog neb tu siab rau neb lub neej kawg os tus nus ...kuv tus txiv wb txom nyem heev vim kuv tus txiv muaj mob pab tsis Tau kuv tab sis wb nyob ua ke vim xav kom ua Tau ib pluag breakfast and dinner los peb cov niam txiv tub noj ua tham txog peb txoj kev ua peb ua dab tsi rau txhua2 hnub thov kom neb xav rau neb cov me nyuam rov tig los txo hwj chim mog.

[@chouxiong206]

Ho yo kawm txawj ntse tau PHD tiam sis siab me dhau ces tsis xam li os ntshe tsis muaj neeg yuav vam txog neb li lau

[@harryt1451]

When a person becomes wealthy or educated, it only amplifies what they already were. Example: when a good, caring person becomes wealthy, they become more good, more caring. When a selfish becomes wealthy, they become more selfish.

[@sandyvangyang110]

dear wifey, humble yourself :)

[@BLONGYANG-nw4oq]

Peb txiv neej txhob rua2 maj. Yog nws yeej kawm siab ua ntej lawm haj yam zoo tiam sis yog yus yuav tau lawm ua ntej yuav tso nws kawm yus yuav tsum kawm ua ntej thiaj tsi raug tso. Tsi yog txhua tus tiam sis ib txhia thaum nws kawm siab dua tus txiv ces nws tsi xav yuav yus. Hauj lwm los ib yam yog tus niam tau ntau dua mas feem coob yeej muaj teeb meem.

[@yajliabcuam5609]

Muaj nyiaj lawm tsis need txiv neej no tsis phim lawm yuav tsum hais tias nyuaj nyiaj lawm tsis yuav txiv tab sis hloov txiv txhua22hmo thiab hais tias 365 hnub 365 tus txiv yog leej twg zoo nraug ces tus ntawd tau ntau no mas thiaj phim koj zaj dab neeg no nawv

[@hlubyang4072]

Yog koj tu poj niam ntse xwb mas hais lus tsis nyuaj nawb....vim ntse hla hlo thiab kawm siab tshaj ntuj lawm ne...

[@hlubyang4072]

Koj tu poj niam ntse hla hlo lawm ces nyuaj lau....vim koj txhawb neeg yuam kev lawm ne....tab sis txhob tu siab koj hu koj txoj kev zoo rov qab hnub twg ces koj poj niam kawg khaub hlab vim koj yog tu txhawb khwv yug nws xwb....

[@NpisVwjNeejYias]

Txoj me kev ua pheej txhawb kom poj niam kawm ntawv kom siab, ua zoo Saib nawb.

[@user-su2rc6tx8j]

Ruam li koj cea noj quav xwb mas peb cov poj niam Hmoobs koj txhawb lawv ntse tshaj koj lawm lawv yeej yuav tsuj kom tau koj li ho nyiaj txiag puag tsis sov na

[@KMH0078]

Just because she has a PhD it doesn’t mean anything if she treats her husband like that. Coming from another Hmong woman your role is to love and honor your husband no matter what your degree is or how much smarter you are. I have a sister in law who also thinks the same way that she doesn’t need her husband because she makes more than him. What a shame :/

[@MaiYang-wx8cw]

Kuv nyiam koj hais dab neeg thaum lub sij hawj ua mov noj mas mloog tag 2 txoj thiaj ua tau tshais noj o niam neej vam😅😅😊😊❤

[@LeeXiong-eg8zw]

Poj niam li no better to leave, there’s other fish on the sea

[@colleenchan9872]

Poj siab phem tsis ris txiaj ntsim li ko lawb los tau mas! Nyob los nyuaj yus siab es ntxhob nkim lub neej sib laug li ko os ntxov mus ntxov zoo lwm hnub mam muaj tus los luam nws li nws ua rau koj mas! Cov pojniam zoo li ko nws yeej kawg yuav ib tug tshiab xwb yeej nyob tsis taus li os!😊

[@warlordswarriors4613]

Koj tus poj niam tsis need txiv neej hmoob li koj xwb os. Koj tus poj niam need txiv khej dub lawm os. 😅😂😅😂😅

[@MissPeachie]

If the roles were reversed, you would probably look down on her too. Nowadays it’s best to marry someone that is financially compatible with you. The one that makes more will tend to disrespect the other person. I am speaking from experience. My husband’s salary is 2x more than mines so he would say mean things to me too. If I make as much as him, I wouldn’t be with him.

[@pakouvang6639]

Some guys are controlling and behave like 1975 so can’t really take side until hearing from both sides. You have to understand her perspective too. She wants to break a change of the Hmong lifestyle. You must have said something hurtful for her to responded that to you “muaj nyiaj lawm tsis need txiv neej.” There’s a term out there said, “when men become rich, they look for a replacement. When women become rich, they don’t need a man.” Ntse siab phem is unacceptable but yuav tsum ntse siab zoo thiaj li yog. It will automatically attract others to rely in you, trust, honesty, loyalty, and respect you. Don’t lose it.

[@kellyxiong8739]

She got her "Pizza Hut Delivery" degree. 😂😂

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Your wife is too much, but as for kids I agreed. I loves kids and I do not mind kids, but those who do not teach their kids manners and how to respect other people's properties... its a NO for me. My kids knows that they can play with toys and whatever I buy for them, but just not destroyed my house and my items to make my house look nice. Why? Because everything is expensive to replace nowadays. As parents if we bring kids, please watch your own kids and discipline them right at home before going out. Because when another person do it, you as a parent would be butt hurt about it.

[@saykaomee]

If you're going to take your children to an event then you need to watch them.

[@pink-rose667]

When your kids grow older, they will leave your small town to go to college in the big city too. If all your want is kwv tij, soon all your kids will leave and your kwv tij will not care about you.

[@LillyRose09]

When your wife says that she doesn’t need a man, what she means is that she doesn’t need you since she doesn’t consider you at her level. I wouldn’t be so nonchalant about her comment cause I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before someone she considers her equal gives her some attention. Decide your future with her and either divorce for good or stick it out together. Leading separate lives merely delays the inevitable.

[@hmonggodmother7154]

Intelligent people don't show off just because they are educated or has a good job. Crazy lady lol. My brother has 2 doctoral PhD degrees in two different fields and his wife also has one as well. They live like us normal people n don't even bother to show off. They don't even reveal that they have those degrees either lol.

[@bradyoung1477]

Brother, I have the same problem. We still live together, but she has the attitude. The thing is that we have the same level of education, BS degree.

[@xaihlub34]

Txhob txwm tham hluas nkauj kom nws mob siab. 😆

[@cachevang6570]

Twb khav2 tias tau PhD ua cas tseem hais tias ua “open house” na. It’s call “house warming “.

[@Shoua608]

Ib xyoos tau $100 tawm txhiab xwb mus plhus npaum no. Get yourself a good divorce lawyer and file for divorce ask for alimony, child support, and half of her 401k or retirement. You’ve supported her through school so you’re entitled. She is not going to come after you. I’m sure she has someone else so you should make your move soon.

[@kouavang5928]

Good or bad, a man should never complain his wife to the world of KZbin. This guy is not a man, no wonder he is so far behind the wife.

[@MissPeachie]

She doesn’t need you because she has her toys and money. 😂😂😂

[@youwatchme3631]

Twb tsis hais pojniam kawm ntawv siab es saib tsis tau tus txiv . Ua haujlwm tau nyiaj ntau zog yus xwb twb saib tsis taus yus. To hmoob pheej tua2 pojniam

[@charlesher.9508]

Koj tus poj niam g yog kawm tau phd nws mus kawm tau kev siab phem los tsim tib neeg xwb. Yus kwv tij tuaj noj tuaj haus tej me nyuam tseem txhoj me ntsis los yuav tau txawj hais lus kom txhob mus tsuj yus tej khoom tseem ceeb xwb g yog yuav mus qw cem tej me nyuam cuag li ntawv muab ua tshaj dhau lm. Poj niam phem li no g tas yuav nyiaj yuav g tau kev ua zoo os.😂😂

[@npauhmoob4746]

YOG NIAMTXIV CES TSIS SIB CAIS NAWV. KOJ POJNIAM SIAB ME2 KAM TAU PHD DIAM CAS PHEM UA LUAJ. TEJ ZAUM NEB YUG LOS YUAM KEV UA HMOOB LAWM......KHAV QHOV TAU NYIAJ NTAU2 XWB.......PAB TU SIAB TIAMSIS TWB TSIS YOG TXOJ KEV TUAG, NYIAS MUS NYIAS KAVLIAM NAWV

[@EmvyGoodies]

After you supported her through college, and this is how she treats you? You deserve someone way better than her.

[@nuso2599]

She forgotten who supported her and put her through school and became conceited and disrespected her husband thinking she’s better then everyone but one day she will regret…love is above money and materialistic things.

[@maytongvang916]

It’s doesn’t if it the wife or husband that makes more… y’all need to learn how to love each but I guess the Hmong people have big heads when they make a lot of money. I make more than my husband but I don’t throw that in face.. sad that people do that

[@christinepacheemoua]

She's not gonna come back. She got her degree and money now and sadly that's all some women needs these days.

[@kevinher3546]

Ruam tsab ntse tsis paib tsb kish kaem tau degree los khwv noj khwv haus xwb tsis yog ntse kuv muaj high diploma xwb kuv twb khwv tau $130-140 in 6 months kuv twb tsis tau khav tias kuv muaj nyiaj thiab nim li ub li no cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os hmoob

[@meelauj2100]

Poj hmoob siab tsab ntse aw koj kawm tiav es Los ua zoo niam tsev ho Cas kawm tiav Los niam dev xwb na lo

[@HmongV]

Tus pojniam txawj ntse coj li koj tus xwb tsis ntshaw li os

[@kevinher3546]

Well said

[@Mloogzoo]

A doctoral degree = You are now God!😮 your wife should know what is wrong with your kid because she is now God. When you have a God degree, you can do whatever you want.

[@yingvang1276]

Willllllll, if money wasn't important to you, then why did you keep pushing to a higher degree? Reason was for financial purposes only right?

[@yunothoj]

The timeline & kids' age don't match up. Y would she say her kids are still maymay? If they moved away for 10 yrs & didn't have any kids during that time wouldn't their kids be teens or nearing teen age?

[@ElegantlyPrecious]

The fact that you ran back to your parents and didn’t officially divorce her shows that you know you’re partially in the wrong. I think your ego has something to do with this so called behavior which you claim she has against you. She’s asking your relatives to be more respectful and accountable and you’re offended because you don’t feel in control of her. Need to hear both sides of the story.

[@tiaxiong4805]

Divorce her it's her own fault

[@denali12023]

Very good 👍 👏 👌

[@youngwichai2169]

Tus poj niam xyob txhiaj zoo li ko muab pov khib nyiab mus. Poj niam muaj coob.

[@Llis3322]

25,000 Sq ft?? I think Mab meant 2,500... that is NOT a huge house at all . 25,000 square feet is more than a mansion which I'm sure her 100k salary won't qualify for. gotta be millionaire

[@casesvang1262]

Yog lawm lau

[@dannvang3212]

Koj tus niam tsev no. Nws ntse rov sabqwb. Tsis ntse rau sab hniav.

[@mhaiyaaj]

For 2 years now. Guaranteed you she has someone else. Get a divorce so you can move on.

[@maivang6987]

Tej tug poj niam kawm ntawv siab ces tsab ntse li ks mas laj2 ua tuag li os .ua li kos ces koj niag poj niam tseem yuav kom luag tuaj pab yus ua dab tsi naws . Yus siab me22 li kos tsis tas caw luaj li os..

[@hlubyang4072]

1 lo los ruam...2 lo los ruam..3 lo los ruam....koj ces yuav ruam ruam txog hnub plaub hau dawb lau

[@mhaiyaaj]

Dude, once a woman makes more money than you, it will go to her head. 98% of them. Make her support you and you go get your engineering degree. You be making $150k to $200k a year. It’s never too old to go back to school. Make sure you make more money than her

[@miabhlub63]

Just divorce her.

[@maichang7338]

Calm down she isn’t cheating on you. Siab ntev os. If a working mom can be a slave to her 1975 husband who only makes 5k more than her than your issue isn’t as big as what you make it. If she is as horrible as you complain you will not hesitate to divorce her.

[@darioxiong5821]

The problem is herself is the problem.

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Thaub, kav tsij tham hluas nkuaj yuav tus tshiab, foob kom nws them koj cov nqi thaum ub koj ua hauj lwn yug nws kawm ntawv es nws thiaj tag nws daim PHD

[@user-jx9nc8qd9v]

Sib nrauj zoo dua.

[@sunnygirl973]

Thaum ruam kojvtsis cuas ruam ne. Hmoob ces feem cooj txiv neej losbpoj niam, 90% kuv pom mas thaum kawm ntawv siab xwb mas nyiam khav khav theeb tag nrog. Kawm tiav tiam si siab phem ces ib hnub twg nws tej nyiaj yeej puag tsis son siab os. Lam nyob rau cov me nyuam kom txhob ua ntsuag xwb. Cias nws ua nws kev phem seb nws yuav mus txhog twg os.

[@Faifferz]

Your wife got too damn cocky. She should be supporting you through your school now. But she is right about a few things too. 1) Don’t chase your relatives, chase your jobs. 2) Hmong people do have too many parties. 3) Hmong parents who never watch their kids at parties ARE super annoying.

[@nickiengiayang]

lol phd making $100k… that’s nothing ! Student loans to add to it .

[@leejmuam1]

Kawm txawj kawm ntse ces cia yus kawm, don't be a fool, and hope that your spouse will kawm los pab koj.

[@LorXai]

Jeez just divorce and take half her money lol and put her azz on child support…..but be smart about it! Whats the point of your marriage anyways now

[@kouavang5928]

Pom cov niaj tij muaj menyuam coob coob as ham tsis txaus lub cev ua rau lub cev ntaj tsug sab sab, what the heck guy. Woman's body being damaged by child bearing is not about not having enough food. Also you sound so intelligent and smart to send your wife to college, why are you not smart enough to understand that education does change the person's perception and attitude. It's not that she is the problem, a doctor degree change her life so much. A doctor is a doctor, a professional. You were the one encouraged her to go school so that she can increase your financial income, why now thinking that living with relatives is now your priority? You were willing to move away from your parents and smart city to big city for your wife's education, why now wanting to move back to small city? You made your wife smart and ntse ntse, why now complaining that she is too smart and not honoring you as husband? You created her to be the strongest person, why are you not happy that you are now the weaker woman in the household? Lady, just accept that you are now a woman, not the man anymore. There's a consequence when you place someone in higher position. So don't complain too much. You cheated yourself.

[@kaitelecom4155]

Cas hmoob tus cwj pwm mus kev txawj ntseg los es tsis yog kawm muaj kev Txawj Ntseg ua neeg zoo hai lus txos hwj chim hwm sawv daws mus kawm kev txawj ntseg los khav theeb hais lus ntxeev txos tsis nco txiaj ntsig?

[@toosay200]

Lam yog Dr xwb tabsis Ruam li ruam ces yog koj niag pojniam phem ko. You deserve better. Fight for what's yours and she needs to pay up because nws khav los lus, "muaj nyiaj" dhuas lawm😂

[@chaituaher724]

Koj npwb hwv lawm os thaub aw. Yug xaav yuav kwv tij ho yuav tso quas puj moog kawm ntawv sab nawj, BA xwb ces enough lawm os.

[@leevue7803]

Cov maum dev lwj uas ruam ruam es koj muab pab thiab txawb nws paub tab khwv tau nyiaj ntau muaj plhus li no Tim Koj na poj niam ces kom nws ruam tshaj yus mas nws thiaj nyoo tus os Kuv twb Pom kiag kuv tus no twb ua hauj lwm rau tsev kawm ntawv es muaj ib tug phooj ywg nws khwv ua teb los yug nws tus poj niam kawm ntawv tag Dr ces cia li ua phem muab tus txiv nrauj pov tseg nkawm khub niam txiv no twb laus lawm twb że 50 xyoo lawm es tseem sib nrauj qhov tus niam hais tias tus txiv ruam dhau lawm

[@hmongremark2686]

Degree yog siv nrhiav hauj lwm thiab ua hauj lwm nkaus xwb. Besides nov rau cov muaj thiab tsis muaj nyob tib qho position xwb. Tsis lam seem ib tug ntxhais kawm tau txawj yuav tus tub tsis muaj kev kawm nyob ua neej kav ntev. Tsuas muaj tus tub kawm tau txawj thiaj hlub thiab yuav tus ntxhais tsis muaj kev kawm ua neej nyob mus ib sim xwb. Txhais meej ntxiv tias tub txawj tsis lam tau lam nrauj ntxhais tsis muaj kev txawj ntse.

[@IDFWY99]

Both of you have too big of an ego. She's trying to use her degree and income to control you and you're trying to use your manhood and sacrifice to control her. It's already a broken marriage just let each other go.

[@sadfoohours9883]

I think I would have more respect for you if you just divorce her, why are u hanging on? To what?? Go live your life. Don’t be dumb. Be free.

[@kuvxwb11]

Tau poj niam ntse. Poj niam khwv tau nyiaj ntau ces kawg nyob poj niam qab taib. Kuv yog koj cov relative ces kuv tsis tuaj koj lub tsev sim neej lawm.

[@visibopath1412]

Muab koj tus maum dev ko nrauj os, nws kawm txawj xwb nws lub hlwb xiam puas ua rwj tag lawm. Txhob nkim sibhawm rau tej tus pojniam zoo li koj tus ko cia hnub twg nws mob cancer thiab muaj mob es tus mob mam coj nws mus lim nws lub siab lub ntsws thiab ntshav seb nws puas txawj thim xav rau lwm tiam xwb. Kom koj tus maum dev tuaj hmloog tuaj read peb cov comments k.

[@tlee0909]

First off if you want to make money you have to go to a bigger city. There is no point in getting a degree to have a minimum wage job. Sorry but people need to respect other people’s property as well as the neighbors. You can’t have your children running wild people need to control their children

[@JayLor411]

Nej ntse dhau qhov ntse lawm dhau ntuj puag saum ub thiab ne? nyiaj txiag yog nej lub hom phiaj xwb tsis xav txog lwm yus tus poj niam thiaj fav siab...😮 😅

[@Llis3322]

You guys hosted a house warming yet you had the guests cook and prep??? how lame!!!