Muscles: Women Explain Why They're Attractive

Women like muscles. Women are attracted to men with big muscles. If a man wants female attention, he should bulk up. Street interviews of women explaining why muscles are attractive.
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[@Enimal_]

-he needs to be tall , muscular , good teeth , cute eyes , sense of humor .... Her : a bag of potatoes

[@RealAlphaMale69]

lmao

[@nos4a2_]

I am missing cute eyes and sense of humor

[@nos4a2_]

@@lilpp4791 seems like we have a troll over here ))))

[@nos4a2_]

@@Microphunktv-jb3kj well umm i live in a house :))))

[@crownglory5688]

Also needs to be over 6 foot, preferably 6'5. But don't you dare commenting on a woman's weight.

[@lathancram5184]

There should be two requirements for when you guys go around asking these questions: 1.) The women should be at least semi-attractive. 2.) The women should be alone so her answers aren’t inspired by her giggly girlfriends.

[@paulmunro3175]

Awfully picky for those genetically born for the back bench.

[@lesbean538]

Nah, regular looking chicks are better. They what most of us deal with anyway lol

[@Broxine]

anon - haha truth in that

[@skatevidcentral]

@Mike You got strange taste, both were below average and ugly in my opinion

[@gmcg852]

Noted 👍

[@Grandmaster_Sub-Zero]

As a man, when you stop caring about what women want, you will be truly be free.

[@karamzidan9860]

Sir , I'm gonna shake your hand , you're a Gotdam good citizen Sir .

[@istoppedcaring6209]

as a man, when you start caring about your own health and body, you wil be happy seriously, being fat is being miserable

[@josefranrojas821]

@@istoppedcaring6209 You're so right!

[@NookTommy]

Thank you sir. Your words truly inspires me.

[@cyrusol]

OP, you phrased this badly imo. If what you want is women, perhaps a great selection even, then it is transitively important to be aware of what women want and deliver it. The problems only begin when you prioritise someone else's wishes over your own. When you are in someone else's frame.

[@Amonny]

Meanwhile on the other side: cellulite galore, missing teeth, fake face...

[@TheTariqibnziyad]

aahahahahahahahha

[@clmk28]

hahahahaha the truth is brutal

[@davefromthepast]

Absolutely on point bro👍.

[@rouskeycarpel1436]

Amonny None of these girls were fat though.

[@Martin_Hermann]

those painted eyebrows look hideous

[@marcelmuller3807]

I see a trend nowadays. More and more men are going to the gym and getting fit and becomes a standard while women just stay lazy, getting chubby, etc. . I’m not saying all women but there is quite a bunch.

[@dr.winstonsmith]

Marcel Müller Men are held to a standard, but women feel it’s misogyny if held to a standard. It’s a crazy world now.

[@Adrian101882]

Marcel Müller depends where you look, and how many of those same guys will stick to their routines a full year beyond now?

[@bbbbbbb51]

@@Adrian101882 why would they? Building the body you want is the hard part, but keeping it is easier. Most men don't have a hard time maintaining their goals besides gym-heads who's goals are higher than most.

[@Adrian101882]

Brandon Johnson maybe that's been your experience, but I've witnessed different with far too many falling off the band wagon because keeping up with both the workouts and the restrictive diet was too much, or the more classic case of "yes! Got the girl, so now I can ease up (or drop) this working out bullshit! #winning" came to be

[@thc7865]

We man are waking up from these joneses on putting hoes on a pedestal make men great again

[@alyailithyia]

A lot of these women who demand muscular men are not attractive or in shape themselves which is quite hypocritical in my opinion. Sure, I prefer strong/muscular men, that is one of the reasons why my boyfriend stood out. At the same time, I go to the gym everyday with him and can confidently say we are a looks-match. Don't demand something you can't fulfill yourself is the main point.

[@jadenk1409]

This is why I usually pick up girl I met in gym lol. Like if both party is in good shape it's mutually good imo

[@starkiller258]

@NorCal Rider yes women like strong men. I of all people should know. I remember when I was 16 and I took off my top after playing football and all the girls were trying to feel me up. Now I am 37 and still in shape. ☺Winning!

[@richardcopersroommate8928]

Luna Carminis all women feel entitled to a chad , a 5/10 girl gets enough attention to think she’s a hottie but it’s not always the case. Male s higher sex drive + hypergamy = dating game that significantly favors women . But it’s same thing with almost all mammals , it’s how nature intended it to be .

[@alyailithyia]

@@richardcopersroommate8928 You know I have been listening to redpill videos for quite a while now and I have learned more about my fellow sex from men than I ever thought I would. I think the awareness I have gained has led me to improve my own relationship with my partner and also view men as a whole much differently and respect them more. At the same time, I can look back and say I have mad a few mistakes growing up and I view women (collectively) in a different manner now that I know more about female nature and the male perspective on life and dating. It is very eye-opening indeed and I think more women should view this content in order to understand their male counterparts and the biases favoring women in today's society. Most men are undervalued and unappreciated and I have hope that this can change in the future.

[@seandaly5960]

@@alyailithyia I agree it would beneficial for all parties to gain this information. However in my opinion most ladies do not care too for reasons already stated. And why would they? When holding the ultimate trump card they would foolish not to play it. Men have been forced to learn this stuff out of necessity.

[@therambler3713]

Most of these women spend zero time in the gym and yet they demand a man that spends more time in the gym😂😂😂. I don't want a muscular woman but I certainly want a fit woman.

[@platinumorange1034]

Spend more time in the gym she'll tell you ,you don't spend time with me

[@ninepuchar1]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bladezero6125]

The Rambler The worst part is when they’ll complain about him being in the gym for hours or getting insecure about other women. They want that guy but they don’t realize or don’t want to deal with the things that come with him.

[@platinumorange1034]

@@bladezero6125 true

[@lesbean538]

They're allowed to have preferences, just like everyone else.

[@stewiezjonder3924]

None of these females is even 7/10. But that's UK's reality.

[@poiu77]

Agree 100 I as an Englishman prefer European girls

[@ikuma8291]

@Emad Ahmed not for long

[@Adrian-zu6tm]

@Emad Ahmed brexit

[@poiu77]

@@miguelpereira9859 you are not mistaken I was in Portugal 3 weeks ago the girls where lovely and gave you the time of day

[@agentsmith9858]

It's the same in german speaking countries, it's not different, the 80/20 rule is here the standard too... Natural selection at it's finest...

[@sikguitarist]

I like how these girls say when they see a muscular guy they think: "oh he takes care of himself and cares about his health" but if a man says he wants a woman who takes care of herself and her health: "wHy dO mEn oNlY cArE aBoUt LoOkS?! sToP fAt ShAmInG uS!"

[@wesleycristman3278]

sikguitarist Women = Grown Children 👶

[@Alex-lk7qy]

I'm sure a lot of men got butt hurt by this too though lol

[@zimbabwe-wz5iw]

I don't think that statement is very true. Personally I have seldom met women (in real life, not far left internet femminazis and that ilk) think that a man liking a women to be fit is unreasonable. I would suggest you get out more. But i do understand your sentiment.

[@zeon_trl1326]

sikguitarist it’s because they wanna get away with it and manipulate so they don’t have to work with it, don’t let them deceive or convince you just keep your beliefs strong take care of yourself and you’ll find a good person

[@KillerLettuce]

It depends on context and how you're saying it. Nothing is so black and white.

[@mattzx003]

2:30 _"Skinny guys are easy to break"_ Honey, I don't care how skinny they are, look at your arms, you're not "breaking" anyone

[@itsspoodini]

I guess she's into jiu jitsu 🤣

[@thereisnopandemic]

@@itsspoodini her jujitsu won’t help her. A 8 years old kid that has a black belt will not beat a 35 year old man regardless of jujitsu training.

[@DamaniJones]

Makes no sense to ask them while they’re in their Validation Chamber/Tribe Circle...

[@kimjunoon8369]

Exactly my thoughts.

[@joebermuda6452]

Validation chamber!!!!!!! Lmaooo I love that

[@APsupportsTerrorism]

There's no point asking any questions if you want truth... witnessing the Validation Chamber (brilliant sir!) is amusing and interesting for its own sake.

[@jakemocci3953]

And is it really that hard to find white women in England?

[@alucardnolifeking789]

@@jakemocci3953 Do you have a problem with race?

[@21vicroy58]

Build muscle, make them thirsty for something they can never get. xD

[@ottovuorio382]

My man! :D

[@IsaiahHollins]

Lol but feel entitled to have a muscular man while they r average or overweight

[@ottovuorio382]

@@IsaiahHollins All the worse. :D

[@crownglory5688]

Disregarding is the best feeling.

[@friedboys5907]

exactly man,build muscles and keep them to yourself

[@Kevin3dp]

short version: Athletic build wins

[@Nepthu]

Even men are impressed by other men with athletic physiques. It's a no brainer.

[@Spungebobonicerocks]

Definitely. I had a phase where I was really strong. Like, bodybuilders getting out of my way strong. And then after it I was just athletic.. It was way better athletic with women

[@jjsx5347]

@@Spungebobonicerocks yeah right I bet Jay Cutler was intimidated by your very shadow

[@fergoka]

Studies suggest otherwise. They show that women prefer the ,,strongest'' builds. Now they may also be considered athletic but you get my point.

[@deanomarino31]

It's basic primitive biology. Muscular men show: Strength = ability to protect Fitness = healthy (good genes = reproduction & live longer = long term utilty & stamina = Good sex) Basically it's good masculinity on display Women like to be held by a strong man because it makes her safe She also looks for hard muscles as just being large is not enough, she likes to feel high muscle density.

[@MediumRareOpinions]

Dont forget the mental characteristics too. It shows discipline and dedication to diet and excercise, nobody got ripped by accident. The kind of person with that sort of mental discipline is less likely to have impulsive behavior and be more mentally stable in life generally.

[@deanomarino31]

@@MediumRareOpinions Excellent point

[@lol69203]

Not necessarily a sign of discipline. Could also just be obsessive or compulsive bhavior, and I'd argue it doesn't take much discipline for those that fall under the previous two stated things or even for those that simply enjoy it. I think the discipline is found in those who dislike or even hate it, yet managed to do it anyway. And those are far less.

[@MediumRareOpinions]

@@lol69203 Those without discipline generally get poor results.They can obsess and compulsively go to the gym but its doubtful they would see good results as they won't know or understand when to stop *overtraining* The discipline I speak of not only gets you to the gym but gets you out of the gym before you damage yourself. Well unless you're going to include steroid users who dont need the recovery time of a natural lifter. I will concede that gym going is correlated with excessive narcissism so it's fair to say body builder types are prone to poor mental health too.

[@haimelik12345]

@Chidori457 heyo

[@osse1n]

The important point here is that if a dude is muscular it's even more crucial that his physical strength matches with his mental strength because women will test to see what's behind that hard body - insecurity or someone who really believes in taking care of himself.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

Sir, if it were only about "taking care of oneself" we wouldnt need all those guys explaining the painfully honest Statement about Sexual Evolution and Sexual selection of men.

[@tarkamlokar9709]

People who have great physiques must also have significant mental strength. It takes years of discipline and development both mentally and obviously physically. You have to test the boundaries of what you're capable of many times and become familiar with failure and humility.

[@MrPolar04]

@@tarkamlokar9709 Yes and no. Some people have great genetics and can achive amazing body without hard work and dedication but in some cases it is true that somebody who has a good physique cannot be as stupid..

[@alexforce9]

For everyone who says "Hurr durr those women are not even attractive". - Relax. Attractive or not - women are women. What a 5 wants is what a 10 wants. So this is educational no matter what.

[@aratay3117]

They don't know what they want

[@evothal6903]

Cant argue with that it is educational,but imo setting something as a standart while you can not give it in return is bullshit (Not talking about material things).You cannot be a 300 pounds landwhale and you could change that,but demand that people accept you as you are,and have a standart for a someone with athletic build etc.

[@alexforce9]

@@evothal6903 They dont set it up as a standart - their biology does. Im not sure whats the problem here. Do we want women to be HONEST about what they like or not? Their demand to be accepted as they are is not the topic of the video.

[@nadacolic7775]

FINALLY

[@nadacolic7775]

@@aratay3117 oh really? And you're a girl?

[@alexisxander817]

things i hate: 1. farts, 2. a bunch of giggly girls trying to look cool

[@rokok4856]

😂😂😂

[@asdasf6581]

They kinda same things.

[@alexisxander817]

@@asdasf6581 exactly, my point!

[@skykhan2632]

Farts are funny, but I agree with number 2.

[@bradturner7678]

If they ate beans youd be having a horrible time.

[@ahoosifoou4211]

Hmm ive noticed this happen. I was a skinny mofo during 18-20yrs, two years later I bulked up. Next thing you know I am getting stared at in public.

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

Congrats

[@soprano3612]

same bro, the attention you get is crazy

[@c.m.m6668]

💪🏽💪🏽😤

[@amgrs1329]

By other guys

[@drschwandi3687]

Really? I noticed no difference at all.

[@mike-0451]

Finally something I can actually change about myself.

[@ThePsychicFish]

That's the attitude bro

[@mike-0451]

@S Bradley I'm already ripped but i'm 5'5

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

@pokezee king-wolf ; wow, cool idea, man. Lets do so :-) yes, allthough we are small, we still can win, man!

[@kickster4u]

Lmao

[@casper34xv19]

Mace Windu don’t let the height get you down bro with a good routine you can get ripped smaller guys tend to build muscle faster

[@doriangrey4647]

I started working out 7 years ago to get girls. I can say I look really lean and muscular for 3 years but that didn't helped me drastically with females, maybe a little. Most of the girls don't even noticed I work out until I take off my shirt. So in my experience key factors are confidance, good mental health and some goal in life like work or studies ect. (and this is of huge importance, you mustn't be willing to give up or postpone your goal for a girl. You need to have that calm vibe around you...

[@nadacolic7775]

Exactly. ☺️ That's so true. I don't usually loks at guys without shirts, but if I do, it's usually the guys who take care of their bodies and that motivates me to start working out too

[@xilliaz]

I've been in shape most my life, at my peak fitness levels I was 6'4 and about 225 pounds so nothing crazy but, was told by one of the women I was really into that muscles were gross. She dated a power lifter a year later.

[@anothercat1300]

Muscles are gross? Muscles have been around longer than humans. How can they be gross? 😂

[@Lutscherstange1]

From the camera shots: I would apprechiate not the suuuuper close up from a girls face. Maybe give some room to the backround so it is a little more natural. Like if you would be in a conversation and not so super close on the face. Thanks for filming :)

[@SirViving]

Yeah...their fake looks (aka cosmetics) put me off

[@JULIANKGLASSER]

Haha 😂 What's up with the super close ups to the face??? Great video though !

[@R.James.]

I know right. As if he intended to make you scream and jump out of your seat seeing that face from so close on your screen. Luckily the girl wasn't a monster like those blackas in the video.

[@KJV7154]

@@R.James. You don't have to be afraid to call Black people what you really want to say. Just say what you want to say instead of Blackas. Why are you afraid?

[@Kikomando]

@@R.James. you had us in the first half ngl

[@tofu585]

he didnt film it i dont think

[@thatkingk.roolmain842]

Yeah I was laughing cuz of thay

[@cplucci2212]

Whats wrong with this comment section? Literally every comment I see shows resentfulness and hatred towards women that are just answering questions. I enjoy this channel's informative videos, but this crybabies are ruining the experience. This is not your territory, go back to your incel forums.

[@Woestheboss]

I really like the question turned around about muscular women. The women were all flabbergasted. Suddenly it's the media and the subconscious...

[@casper34xv19]

Body builder type girls can be off putting for many men I like a girl with lean muscles and strong characteristics sure a girl who isn’t a workout warrior can be good but it isn’t the same I wanna be healthy so I’d rather have a girl who’s the same

[@hengistcz1940]

@@casper34xv19 In other words: They are sexy, if they dont look like men with boobs.

[@paccawacca4069]

its because muscles are masculine and women wiht big muscles look like transgenders

[@themachismomatrix5236]

Spoiler alert: Women do not know what they want, they live in a moment and they are capricious.

[@Thisshitcrazybruh]

This is truth.

[@yessir1814]

Facts, don't let a deer teach you how to hunt.

[@ChaplainJoshua]

No ask fish for fishing tips 🎣

[@kevincampos3797]

Still their primal instincts are underneath that bullshit

[@paprikaman1124]

women are weird

[@Hegericc]

That dude's body is pretty damn achievable tbh. Interesting insight that you don't need to be on the juice to have an attractive body

[@DominiqueWilliams-ue3rx]

He was skinny to me

[@itsspoodini]

Well the women that got asked were like 3 on the scale lol

[@RyuMasterEX]

What percent of males have that body and better?

[@Hegericc]

@@RyuMasterEX Probably less than half and out of choice, which does not make it not achievable

[@thegiftedteacher]

@@Hegericc Less than half...lol. Less than 2% have that body. Probably even lower than that. Only 14% of U.S. people have a gym membership. And only half of those even go twice per week. The level of dietary and fitness dedication it takes to get that body is intense. Needless to say, it takes a bit more than going to the gym twice per week.

[@Babeman12]

As well as protection it's also an indicator of status. The strongest would beat out the competition. Today we have many ways to show status to women but prehistorically it would be through physical dominance over other men.

[@888records]

I hate when people answer “I am for personality” on this question. You can care about personality but still have a preference...

[@lol69203]

That's not true though. Most people actually prefer appearance. Attractiveness is the single most domineering and important thing people look for, as primal as it is.

[@Phoenix-Brah]

Smooth cop out

[@dedwendell]

Attractiveness is 100% of what matters because people won't even consider your personality if you don't meet their looks standard.

[@zeon_trl1326]

Wendy Scott for the most part but you can given enough time trust me (;

[@Lucy-nw4im]

Yeah but if they did then all the comments would be ranging over how ‘GiRlS oNlY gO fOr LoOkS’ so they don’t

[@JJ-si4qh]

Whenever they think of "muscular", they are thinking of steroid guys. I think nearly everyone is attracted to natural muscularity.

[@MrPolar04]

That is what I was thinking

[@alexjulius69]

Yes, steroided physiques are ugly

[@adflix424]

No we don't think of steroid guys. Natural is always better

[@alexjulius69]

@@adflix424 Exactly

[@lolo-om9rs]

Every one is on steroids now

[@richvail7551]

Women have no idea how many versions of the female form most guys find attractive. As one comedian accurately said “ Once you’ve seen one woman naked ............................ you want to see the rest of them naked.” 😂😂😂

[@cyrusprime7037]

Rich Vail very true words of wisdom

[@richvail7551]

Matthew Morton You might see men as having more reasonable standards but are we actually not just as guilty as women. Women are looking for a specific person because nature tells them they need a protector and a provider, culture is showing them that a certain toxic individual is going too accomplish these needs. We as men are instinctually looking for a healthy woman to stick our dick into. Culture is showing us that the trophy is our best bet. I think our instincts which trump social conditioning doesn’t care about those high standards but are more likely to make sure others don’t find out should we stray a bit further away from the trophy acceptance standards lol. Women instincts aren’t as strong for sex so I think this is why societal standards have a bigger impact on them. Just my thoughts on the matter.

[@isin5246]

@@richvail7551 interesting take

[@tvbuu]

hahahhaahaha

[@terraflow__bryanburdo4547]

There are two categories of women: those that have seen me with my shirt off and those that have not. The former are the bearers of dreamy, goofy grins. Women are as reactive to men's physiques as men are to women's curves. I will say that some women react negatively to my muscles as it they immediately understand that it puts me out of their class in terms of dating.

[@azorahai5158]

musclkes are worthless without height face and frame . keep coping

[@miguelpereira9859]

@@azorahai5158 Not exactly

[@yomumma7803]

@@azorahai5158 salty af

[@jotarothanos9862]

@@azorahai5158 lmao it’s okay man

[@milkyym8891]

@@azorahai5158 looking at your recent comments in other videos bud shows you mad mad. Go to the gym

[@serMaellegant]

Guys, I just had a conversation with a guy at work today who got really upset for inviting him to go to the gym with me and saying that he shouldn't make excuses to not workout. He told me that women really want "Dad Bods" and actually went around with a picture of a bodybuilder asking if women found it attractive, they said no of course as it was an extreme body builder. I don't understand some guys.

[@tarkamlokar9709]

What? I thought you could only have a dad bod or an extreme bodybuilding physique. Are you telling me that there's something between?

[@kurtoskalacs9116]

Very muscular aka Mr Olympia musculature... that's what 90% of women think of when they say big muscles but you would need to juice hard and have god tier genetics to get there lol. And when they look at a normal built guy they say he ain't lifting enough but that's just how most natty guys look.

[@yason5553]

Kurtos Kalacs yeah thats true i think generally people dont know what it takes to look like the guys on the olympia stage.

[@kurtoskalacs9116]

@@yason5553 same people that don't believe that PEDs are extremely prelevant in all sports.

[@miguelpereira9859]

Not true. Women like Mr Olympia as objects but not as relationship material

[@trolletroller5909]

They then say they don't like muscular guys they imagine 2018 mister olympia. When they say they like most of an average guy they imagine 1971 mister olympia.

[@fuzzylogiceire]

A swimmers physique is the most attractive to a wide variety of women. Thinking you need a Mr Olympia physique is overcompensating to a delusional level.

[@TheSimonG]

There is not one girl in that video that is attractive. I don't think my taste is different from most men. Alexander started with a great series a few years ago, that had attractive women in Australia. Men want to know the thoughts of women with a high SMV. Its an insight into hypergamy how women don't know that what they say and do are different. In the survey with photos, when choosing the women choose strong body guys, when asked what they want in the interview regarding body profile, thay have no idea what they want or what to say. It was a clever idea to present a real topless guy to the girls at the beginning, very clear.

[@TheSimonG]

@Malcolm M You've answered your own question "women usually think the same. Attractive women would want the same 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲" This is why I said "Men want to know the thoughts of women with a high SMV"

[@TheSimonG]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 There are 10 women in the video and you say 2 are attractive but not gorgeous. I personally dont think those 2 were attractive, they are plastered in make up and those were false painted eyebrows. Attractive women don't need make up to be attractive Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are entitled to your view but youre saying that only 20% of the girls were slightly above average, I assume you would call them 7/10. What number would you attribute to the other 80%- Look at the early videos over 2 years ago in Australia with really SMV women

[@TheSimonG]

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[@TheSimonG]

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[@gofishglobal7919]

The women here are answering the questions in a healthy and normal way. Men would respond the same way if asked about beautiful healthy women.

[@anderskjr7169]

Not many English women left in England it seems..

[@sageywavey]

Anders Kjær Failed society

[@slylockfox85]

Maybe all the white girls were too stuck up to be interviewed. Based on YT channels that I have watched, the non-white girls are usually more easy going.

[@thatoneguy9028]

Damn this comment section is pretty sad. It's quite apparent many of you never felt the touch of a woman

[@weementaldavy5987]

Most of these girls need to embrace the opportunity getting of with any guy , even if it was Quasimodo .

[@kevincampos3797]

😂

[@MohamedMohamed-by5iy]

Men lift weights to get stronger💪🏻 Simps lift weights to get women's attention👎🏻

[@oflionandmen]

First these chics were NOT attractive. But let me say this. I've been attending the classes (instructor led) at the gym which are 95% women taking them (not zumba etc) these are cardio/weight very high impacting classes. I'm 2yrs in since I started, I've lost 25lbs. I'm tall (6'4) and now I'm about 225-230lbs. Not overly muscular but fit/tone. Women show a LOT of attention, regardless of being married or not. But most married women who workout often their husband does not. Guys, women are not complicated, regardless of height be fit, dress with clothes that display your fitness level (women hate baggy clothes) and be confident (make eye contact until she breaks it). Never compliment or validate a woman they will always seek it from you because every other man gives it freely. If they did a video for men our attraction level starts with a VERY low body count women. Stay up! Stay blessed! #YOUFIRST

[@james_games9684]

im 300lbs 30% bodyfat but im far stronger than most athletes so it should have been worded as athletic looking not " strong "

[@zeon_trl1326]

James Moore thy don’t know sht

[@GionKonrad]

To be honest, this gives me some motivation.

[@marekspot9314]

We may be too salty in the comment section. Their looks aside, these girls were trying to be honest. For that I´m thankful to them. Nobody is perfect but everyone can be source of wisdom. Don´t forget the lesson for the static - do your part of the work for yourself (not because of external motivation) and then you can "demand" the same from the other side. Gl to all :)

[@jamesmichaels3848]

To the part about muscular women: Most people think that a woman who lifts weights is going to end up super masculine, when in reality it usually just leads to a flatter stomach, less flabby arms, and a bigger butt. The very manly looking women are usually taking something unscrupulous to allow them to be able to gain enough muscle to look that way.

[@sindelscat9336]

Actually women who do lots of heavy lifting generally get bigger arms, women who work on their core a lot, generally get abs, women who work on their thighs a lot generally get bigger legs, of course they may not be as big as those type of body builders, but still pretty big.

[@axl4021]

@@sindelscat9336 of course women who lift will get bigger muscles all around their bodies, but the ceiling for how much muscle a woman can put on in the upper body is quite limited and take quite a long time to reach (unless on steroids). Women just dont have the test levels, nor the androgen receptor density to get that big, lower body however is another story.

[@sindelscat9336]

@@axl4021 it depends on the diets they choose, in order to help get bigger muscles you have to lower your calorie deficit, which helps a lot for both men and women if they want to get bigger muscles.

[@jkinvsb1314]

The only thing that i can learn as a man is to become a chad like guy (of course you cannot change your height, general appearence etc. cause genetics obviously play a major role) but you can go to the gym every fricking day (or somewhere else) and work your a** off, become athletic, adopt a healthy lifestyle (Greg Doucette is about 5 feet 6 so this is normally a big disadvantage but he is jacked af and you should also try to reach your own fitness goals - you do not have to look like a prof. bodybuilder, but set a goal and try to attain it. A nice side effect will be that you will feel automatically better due to higher testosterone levels etc. and you can be proud of yourself). You can also improve in many other fields such as education or job/ income. However, when u finally are able to successfully participate in the dating market you should never forget how badly they treated you before. This will be really hard because once they are nice to you you will forget all the bad stuff that happened to you; all the anger and hate vanishes suddenly; this is the biggest problem IMO and it is the reason why so many men find themselves trapped one day). IMO the only rational thing to do is to treat them as badly as they treated you in the past. I would not reccommend searching for a high quality woman as Alexander does out of two reasons 1. She wouldn't have given you a chance when you were a nobody (and therefore i think that the idea of a high qual. woman is an illusion); 2. Even if you find such a high quality woman, she will lose here beauty anyways and you won't be attracted to her anymore. You have to dump them after a while like Leonardo does it. It is immoral but way better than living with a woman you do not adore anymore.

[@dans1454]

The worse you treat them, the more they like you

[@Narbros]

When i stopped paying attention to girls they all swarm me now. "Why isnt he looking at me like all the other guys at work do, why is he so focused on work?" Let me go talk to him and laugh at everything he says even though its not funny 😂

[@kevincampos3797]

Now imagine doing that being shreded

[@papigringo5692]

English women be like: "Pawt de hawt baww haww dawt te bah straw"

[@tat00k.o39]

Are you english man? I find the british/posh accent extremely attractive on girls. But I get how it can get annoying if you hear it all the time

[@papigringo5692]

@@tat00k.o39 Sometimes it just seems a bit exaggerated. But I'm sure they might say the same about my American accent. Not trying to hate on anyone, but sometimes I can't resist poking fun a little bit.

[@papigringo5692]

@@tat00k.o39 Sometimes it just seems a bit exaggerated. But I'm sure they might say the same about my American accent. Not trying to hate on anyone, but sometimes I can't resist poking fun a little bit.

[@clarkkent6035]

5x5 Heavy compound lifts boys

[@swagsukeuchiha7599]

Ti achieve that physique?

[@drschwandi3687]

Great starting point but remember that a simple routine won't work forever.

[@gtrrohit5078]

@@drschwandi3687 yeah should definetely vary it cant stick to one simple routine for too long.

[@hahaumad]

Do you reallly need science to prove women like muscles 😂. The majority of girls like muscles

[@Adrian101882]

hahaumad haven't you heard? "Dad-bods" are like tOtALLy in now, so slow down on those 5 workouts a week to about 2 or so, start packing in those carbs and spend more time with her binging Netflix, and you'll be the hottest guy in any given room by the end of the year!

[@greernelson2101]

Adrian1018 women do not like dad bods. They just say that so they feel okay about being out of shape themselves. I am a woman btw

[@greernelson2101]

AkiRa22084 if you say so lol

[@Adrian101882]

AkiRa22084 thank you for beating me to that lol

[@greernelson2101]

Adrian1018 i get sarcasm, I promise. But I did just read that women supposedly really do like dad bodies. I’m dipping out, pretty sure I’ve exceeded the age limit for KZbin commenting anyway

[@pxrxy]

I hate the myth about muscular guys not wanting to eat, when I started lifting I ate twice as much as I did before, sometimes I worry I'm not eating enough. A muscular guy needs the calories to maintain the physique, muscles don't just materialize like the hulk, they just don't want to get addicted to fattening crap. BTW Are you in Manchester mate?

[@yark618]

That study would only apply to something like tinder as in the real world there are way more variables at play

[@dbstewart86]

The problem with this is since many women don't set foot in a gym or pursue building muscle, they have little to no idea of what these different sizes are relatively. To a lot of women, someone like Zac Efron is skinny (6 solid months of training while gaining next to no fat); Chris Evans is average/natural (1-1.5 solid years of training with very little fat gain); Chris Hemsworth(Thor)/Henry Cavill(Superman)/Michael B. Jordan(Killmonger) is perfect/slightly big (1.5-2 solid years of training with very little fat gain). Dwayne Johnson is good to borderline too big (a literal lifetime of training). The reason for this, near as I can tell, is because they're only doing it relative to guys that exercise and guys they're attracted to, not the entire population.

[@tarkamlokar9709]

Were the time spans you were listing the time it took these actors to build the kind of body that they had or the time it would take for an ordinary person of even a gifted person to get these results? I can tell you that you're not going to look like chris evens or chris hermsworth in 18 months of training. That's more like 5 years+ of training consistently with a continuous focus on progressive overload.

[@marcusplenty1153]

@@tarkamlokar9709 Not naturally anyway

[@guntertorfs6486]

@@tarkamlokar9709 Indeed. Steroids galore in Hollywood. It's the town of make believe after all.

[@victorherron8960]

I feel like a lot of these people in the comments don’t realize it’s a preference not a requirement, they would like a muscular guy but it doesn’t mean it’s needed

[@DarkoFitCoach]

Interesting how cellulite ridden obese unhealthy whales like a tall healthy fit man.

[@victorherron8960]

Well yes regardless of your own looks people would prefer an attractive person keyword prefer not require.

[@L3ZC]

It's a bit of common sense, women don't want to have a relationship with a weak man, it's instinctive and also guy should be fit and strong not only for aesthetics but for confidence and daily use

[@L3ZC]

@Ears Like a Hawk I see this every time too, but I see a lot of these girls cheating on their boyfriends with ripped guys, my best friend ex tried to hook up with me when I started lifting and got some nice newb gains and the things I did was tell my friend

[@DareToBeDeviant]

There's nothing wrong with a toned female. It means she takes care of herself ~ eats better, hits the gym and goes the distance as opposed to sitting around gorging snack cakes while watching daytime TV, blowing up like a balloon. The same applies to males.

[@FrankCENA]

Muscles makes men look more masculine that's why girls like them. Big muscles on women make girls look masculine which doesn't attract most guys cuz men want their girl to look more feminine I guess...

[@rondonnis6588]

god to work that out you must be a genius leave the intelligent comments to intelligent people which your muscles dont help with.

[@FrankCENA]

@@rondonnis6588 not genius, experienced. I'm sure would love to hear your input on the topic lol

[@unpopularopinion149]

Y’all should ask attractive women these questions. Although it’s mostly correct, try and ask 7, 8, 9’s not 3-5 range.

[@terraflow__bryanburdo4547]

I believe the applicable British term is: "minger".

[@JohnSmith-rk7zy]

Munter also

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Not all women want what they are attracted to. Crazy I know.

[@miguelpereira9859]

I think that's more of a human thing than a female thing. We barely know what we want and we lie to ourselves often

[@zeon_trl1326]

Miguel Pereira yea it isn’t very simple

[@jrechill1176]

"I prefer a *normal* guy" What do you mean, buff people are normal #bufflivesmatter

[@ArshdeepSingh-oc1oo]

overqualified

[@dans1454]

When they say somewhere in the middle, they mean the middle in between lean and Markus Ruhl

[@ElijahPerrin80]

I work hard to keep my weight high and fat low with cardio and weight training, I believe in the mind body connection and the importance of having a strong body or the mind will falter, sugar I would say is the biggest variable in most diets and something that should be phased out in favor of vegetable based carbs with limited protein and moderate size with fat intake. When I was still kissing frogs and searching for someone to join my life I found my personal preferences went to women who worked out and kept fit and flexible, this mostly was because being 350lbs I tend to be more forceful and my muscles are more abrupt instead of fine muscle movements, I don't realize it but I am rough and firm and this often is not welcome with some women but experience tends to help. Now in my 40s I find work and hobbies to fill my days along with exercise and nutrition. No drama needed.

[@theneverending9319]

This is the result of women getting enormous amounts of attention online just existing.

[@zeuso.1947]

I love the look of women with muscles and lean, as long as it's natural, without taking male hormones.

[@incognegro2315]

ALL MEN SHOULD WORKOUT! MEN AND WOMEN EQUALLY RESPECT A STRONG MAN! There’s an intimidation factor behind LOOKING MASCULINE. ESPECIALLY TO BE BLACK AND MASCULINE! Since I didn’t have my father in my life I picked up on what I believed masculine traits would be. The first was always be involved in my kids life. The second is being a man of my word. The last one was LOOKING LIKE A MAN! We live in a very visual society. People treat you with more respect when you take care of your body. Won’t nobody take you serious until you take YOURSELF serious! You only have ONE BODY, why not make yourself look your best?! Don’t do it for women, do it because you have to face yourself in that mirror. Why wouldn’t you want a reflection of strength 👑

[@d9nx239]

"if you want to win over some beautiful women in England" ROFL! sure.

[@snakesocks]

The sentiment expressed by the girl at 4:45 is the ridiculous “The media tells us what to find attractive!” Argument. It is so clearly the case that the media follows our instincts as opposed to vice-versa.

[@cyrusol]

It's just yet another of their instincts to evade any accountability whatsoever.

[@thewanderer5137]

in some ways it's correct for small things like hair for e.g the beetle's hair used to be the hot thing, so most men would have big thick hair and now it's short on the sides long on top.

[@cyrusol]

@@thewanderer5137 Buzz cut variations have been hot for 200 years despite the Beetles. What never changed is that the ideal shape for men still is the typical Spartan warrior. It was like that in the bronze age and is like that today. And there is little to no variation. Biology is the reason. For the same reason men like the kind of women that they like. Few divergence here and there but nothing groundbreaking. The media simply represent what the majority of the people favor.

[@thewanderer5137]

@@cyrusol yeah the basics main things have never really changed. But a lot of things like clothing and hair styles can be influenced, usually by a popular figures, for e.g lots of girls wanted hair like Rachel's in freinds in the 90s, why because it would make them more desirable to men. And you had the spikey hair phase for men in the early 2000s because a lot of rock/punk rock stars had that style, and again guys would copy it because girls liked it. Don't get me wrong though it's just small things, for e.g the media are trying to push fat people as glamorous and sexy and yet almost no one agrees at all with that because we are honestly repulsed by it biologicaly.

[@gedbookings2328]

Yea I’ve always disliked that argument.

[@sammylane21]

Lean or big muscles don't always mean a healthy person. You'd be surprised how small body builders have health issues.

[@AwestaKhalid]

2:05 Idk what it is but I just love her vibe /demeanor / way of talking

[@becomeaudible1]

Please explain to me why Groucho Marx eyebrows are in right now? They look HIDEOUS!!

[@simplyrise5217]

@Steven G 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@scycosnake3964]

When they say too big, they mean like Markus Ruhl lmao. You usually cant get too big naturally as long as you are lean

[@killthemall55]

Why so much hate in the comments? They are not judging nor are they saying what men should be or should not be. they are just saying what their female natural instinct making them like or prefer. You dont have to be handsome to naturally gravitate towards women with wide hips, thin waste and big breast right? Its all hard coded within us.

[@guntertorfs6486]

Indeed. If a man likes ( the majority do ) curvy women , he should speak up more. Gives a nice counterweight to all those loudmouth guys who say they like skinny women , shaming normal girls into believing they have to be overly thin to be attractive.Women have to look healthy and fresh to be attractive , not necessarily thin as a rake.

[@Agislife1960]

When girls are young and have the option, they'll always procreate with a physically strong guy, regardless of his IQ, when they get older, resources become more important

[@johniewalker4356]

Are you implying that being in shape means you have lower IQ?

[@Agislife1960]

@@johniewalker4356 I'm saying IQ is not a factor for most young girls in regards to procreation

[@MrFuchew]

just like men want a natural beauty women want a natural athlete. The steroid monster get no love. You need that I don't even try and I'm a college athlete body

[@TheCallmom]

I dont know why exactly but I find physically strong women attractive.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

Please dont take it as an offense but it could mean you have above average feminine tendencies

[@tarkamlokar9709]

@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 I like physically and mentally strong women. It could be because I have feminine tendencies. It could also be because I don't want my partner to be a weakling but instead someone I feel admiration and pride towards.

[@mosedavid1]

Eyebrows on that molato, brilliant!

[@SevenDeMagnus]

Hi. This is the most attractive women but one of the rarest: The Proverbs 31 women, submissive but assertive (meaning diplomatic and doesnt' get her way through anger nor other negative tactics), beautiful of course and holy. I'm ok with muscular woman, or just right, skinny (my least favorite unless she's willing to eat healthier), athletic, fitness model proportions may be the best but plus size is ok to- it's probably more of the coolness of the girl and beautiful no matter what size she is. God bless, Proverbs 31

[@brittanysmith3716]

Wow, they were so detailed. I’ve always just liked muscular men cause they look sexy and they also look like they can protect me.

[@tarkamlokar9709]

Is it feeling protected that really matters? Because the police is there to protect people if they are in danger and people are rarely in physical danger anyway so having a personal bodyguard should hardly be necessary.

[@brittanysmith3716]

Jens Olesen Yeah, it’s not a huge necessity now a days. But it’d still be in the back of my mind though. Naturally I’d want a man who could protect me. Someone I can feel safe with. If a burglar came into my home and saw me, my husband would help me a lot faster than a cop would ya know?

[@tarkamlokar9709]

@@brittanysmith3716 What makes me think that it's more about feeling safe rather than being safe is that it's rather unlikely to be in physical danger from other people in the western world and that if it was a practical matter more people would carry self defence weapons and especially have a gun in their home. The attraction towards height and size came from a multitude of reasons including being protected. We evolved to be inclined to be attracted to what was practical. That means that today even though most men don't want to have children with every women they have sex with they're still the most attracted to women who are the most fertile with the best genes who are the best at giving birth to and nurturing children. If you don't want to have children with that women it completely defeats the purpose. Similarly women evolved to like height and size in men for practical reasons. It's hardly necessary anymore to be protected by your mate so that's why I'm thinking that it's feeling protected that matters like for men it's feeling attracted to the women that matters, not whether or not she is fertile and can make healthy babies.

[@ProtoIndoEuropean88]

Funny that many women claim that muscles don't matter and they rather date a skinny dude I've seen tons of women who prefer lean or chubby guys. I'm muscular athletic build myself, showed a bicep to this girl on Omegle, she asked to see my face, after she saw my big forehead which is essentially the only negative thing in my face, she immediately said "not good enough" and skipped

[@hyperhektor7733]

dude you really ram the camera in their faces ! xD ( i can tell from the degree of the fisheye effect)

[@1stRedCommander]

they say that but when theres a guy whos got nice muscles they melt.

[@maurokoller3910]

Could you link the studies if you utilize them? :)

[@contentwasteland9096]

So 15-year-old girls like muscles on guys because it makes them feel safe and protected. Truly mind-blowing stuff...

[@cyrusol]

You need to bleach your eyes if believe they were 15.

[@contentwasteland9096]

@@cyrusol Replace "15" with "young" then, my point still stands that this video is hardly shattering world views for either gender.

[@sikguitarist]

To sum up the interviewed women in the video: Women: "I like a man who's strong but not too strong but if he gets "fat" from bulking up he can't be too fat but if he decides to go lean he can't be too "lean"."

[@johannwilder1437]

sikguitarist...”and I want him to put effort into looking good, but it should just come naturally and he shouldn’t care too much....and he needs to be very sensitive to his feelings, but he should be emotionally strong and not get sad when things get tough...” Blah Blah...it’s one contradiction after another with them.

[@lucasfabisiak9586]

One of the girls said, in response to the question ‘why do women like men with big muscles?’-“because it looks nice, doesn’t it?” From an evolutionary point of view, she has it backwards: it looks nice because they like muscular men.

[@slide6314]

it's always the ugliest ones with the highest expectations tbh

[@veggie_vlad]

This was shot in Leeds, wasn't it?

[@phantomsbullet2960]

Link to the studies would be nice

[@reaper9557]

We are all kings muscle size doesn't matter

[@R.James.]

2:00 more zoom-in please. I couldn't see her the booger in her nose

[@Adrian101882]

O Balls agree. I was interested in checking to see if she had strep throat

[@rippedraccoon2544]

They keep talking about normal size But what exactly is normal size

[@matane2465]

Don't need to be in shape if you're rich. Only thing they like more then muscle is money.

[@miguelpereira9859]

Then they like your money and not you.

[@jacekszkutnik6294]

bullshit

[@wizman144]

I deadlift 500 lbs, squat 400, bench 300, push press 220 and can walk with 755 lbs on my back. Im not lean so I dont think girls know how strong I am.

[@adflix424]

Walk with 755 lbs on your back? 🤣🤣

[@wizman144]

Its called a yoke walk. Im up to 800 lbs now

[@Rock-iw7ov]

Im handsome, muscular and healthy.... But I'm also 5'5 -_-

[@kartikeyajp8294]

I am with you man , 5'5 only. 55Kg :) don't lose hope. Keep building yourself.

[@Rock-iw7ov]

@@kartikeyajp8294 Thank you :) I haven't given up yet

[@JandraSrikerJayShabazZz]

"Put him in a headlock." I chuckled lol

[@StyzeSoulmaker]

I'm off to the gym

[@OnFight1997]

I swear my hand is a 10/10 compared to some of these girls, and it doesn't have any demands.

[@martinohlson6027]

It´s kinda interesting that we now live in an internet age, where even the most atrociously looking girl expect to land a perfect 10 man in every sense. It´s funny, because that guy won´t even look at them in real life. Guys on social media, Tinder etc gives even below average women unneccessary attention and validation. This is the problem.

[@jacobharris1846]

No matter how muscly a woman is, unless she's a pro fighter, she's not taking me down or head locking or threatening me. I love women with a strong physique. Not juicing strong but just survival strong. I'll never be scared of a woman being able to best me. It's just so unlikely. If your gf is stronger than you, you should exercise.