Muslim Doctor "I Never Want To Get Married"

[@MahdiTidjani]

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[@marcelolb1221]

@@alghurraba Why does his view matter to u so much?

[@jamesrobbins2833]

Great video brother. A correction brother there is no ideology of marriage being half of deen not in the kitaab and not in the sunnah. Please revise as needed. And Allah knows best.

[@theamericanenglishtutor1500]

I am in my mid-40s single and childless divorced I did not ask for the divorce my EX did. But I put my trust in Allah, not in a husband for better or worse Allah is my provider, ladder, my house, and the only one who understands me.

[@afxquest6167]

To achieve peace and happiness it’s through allah no doubt about that

[@Samson-f5l]

Their is no ALLAH only Islam is three in one RELIGION WITH ALLAH and Mohammed and SHAITAN all in one Mohammed loved polygamy

[@catpuccino6186]

If she doesn't want to get married & she knows it then it's better for her to stay alone than ruining another person's life .

[@prontocreative2374]

But thats problem, how would you know if you dont know if marriage isnt for you unless your married or been married? ..... never thought id like peanut butter and Jam until ive tried it .

[@AM-bm9rs]

@@prontocreative2374 Thats like saying you dont know if ur gay until uve tried it

[@benlife5944]

i agree with you , and in islam dont have people who dont want to get married or have kids this is sunna of the prophet, we're not monks

[@georgeaskeladd742]

@@prontocreative2374 and what if you find out that marriage isn't good for you after all? Just divorce and leave your ex partner heartbroken?

[@EughhBrothereughh]

How r you so male to say shes gonna ruin it lmao. Yall r jokes

[@hmm5505]

If a woman doesn't want to marry then don't force her to marry because if she is forced she'll be worst as a wife (most probably)

[@ramlawarsame2952]

Or you will be worst as husband by forcing her 🤡

[@aminuaidara8601]

That's not the point 😢😢😢😢😢

[@saras.1912]

I simply believe she's been honest, she said that she spent a lot of time studying so it's not necessary hypergamy. She just needs to discover to understand what she's looking for as a full person now.

[@alizcool1]

Is she an angel that she never felt desire for a in intimate partner until the age of 29? Lol in fact she's been lying to herself not being honest

[@banksoor]

@@alizcool1 facts

[@nabildk6954]

@@alizcool1 she could be honest but she is a rare person and we should focuse on the bigger picture

[@RadhikaPatel-wn8px]

​@@alizcool1 don't need to be an angel for that. There are people that feel like that. Not everyone is the same.

[@alizcool1]

@@RadhikaPatel-wn8px lol stop it please it's human nature. Anyways a womans jannah is through her husband remember that.

[@aneesahkhan8791]

Hes got a problem with women being educated but when his wife is in hospital he'd want a female nurse to look after her 😂

[@noone-re3zp]

💯💯💯💯

[@redpanther9380]

Yes so what? Men can have references too

[@ikr2377]

I was married at young age it was an arranged marriage he left me after his mom died .I was his mom's carer and he had no further need for me after she died . I personally felt used and am happy being single. It's sad that men leave women like this

[@ikr2377]

​@@ummsumayyah1096 the thing is that this guy wants young women that they can manipulate and use like how I was . But educated women can't be used . This is what he is propagating

[@soomi.]

I am so sorry. But wow, for you to take care of an older woman who isn’t even related to you & you’re absolutely not obligated to do so. May Allah SWT bless you. Let me tell you something, I don’t know any woman who hasn’t taken care of an older person for the sake of Allah SWT without being blessed in some other way. It sounds like you’re still young! May Allah SWT bless you more and more and more!!! Just keep a good intention and do every thing for the sake of Allah SWT, you’ve got this!!! S

[@Jubby1]

@@ikr2377 Breaks me to hear these sad stories. It’s tough. May Allah heal u sister

[@ExposingHindutva101]

Peace be upon you sister سلام May Allah swt have mercy on you & us all.. I feel extremely sorry for that, but you should not generalize all for that particulars... It's doesn't mean all Muslim men use & leave their wives... May Allah swt guide us all, keep us blessed in this world & hereafter... Aameen

[@ikr2377]

@@ExposingHindutva101 I haven't generalised I just gave my version of events. Every coin has two sides

[@najashitv6460]

I really don't think she just doesn't want marriage. I think she doesn't want the version of marriage she's seen in her community. Our experiences shape us and if her experience around marriage has been negative that will form her opinion. I hope she doesn't let her bad experiences permanently sour her mindset towards marriage

[@muradshawar]

your not thinking straight she grew up with 2 stable parents how do you think she was able to become doctor in first place . The truth is that the west poison these womens brains.

[@MariaSanchez-kg2fl]

Yeah she so pretty. Very youthful looking still. If I was her I would marry in next 3 months. I’m sure she will have lots of suitors. And she need try have kids. Because kids make things funner and you will need their help.

[@muradshawar]

@@MariaSanchez-kg2fl That’s exactly what I’m saying

[@Simon-xh4hr]

@Maria Sanchez I agree that delaying marriage to become a doctor isn't an issue. However, after focusing only on your career, age can become a barrier.

[@MariaSanchez-kg2fl]

@@Simon-xh4hr yes it takes along time to be a doctor then you have to work to pay off that debt. It’s crazy!!!

[@mariams7386]

As long as you dont engage in zina its fine and halal for women to never get married especially if she doesn't want any intimacy with a man. And if her life doesn't depend on marriage she has absolutely no obligation to be married. you also want younger women (besides physical reasons) because they are easily manipulated not more reasonable.

[@farhhana9336]

Yes our religion is simple, but people still argue about others feeling ... I dont get it. Is someone else life ours ? 😅 Ya Rabbi

[@Flower.dough5734]

“Lonely women need company from other lonely women. Miserable women want other women to be miserable like them”

[@marcelolb1221]

Yeah dont fall for her trap. Dont let her take u with her!

[@Flower.dough5734]

@@marcelolb1221 May Allah protect us women Ameen from the feminist agenda Ameen

[@marcelolb1221]

@@Flower.dough5734 ameen. Dont wait for marriage, find a righteous husband and make salaat istighara and inshaAllaah, you will be the opposite of miserable, unlike these muslim feminists miskeen..

[@dcjkl8088]

Misery loves company 🙂

[@marcelolb1221]

@@IipriincessiI When u take Taylor Swift as your rolemodel instead of Quran and Sunnah this is the result..

[@Flower.dough5734]

I know a mother. She doesn’t know how to read or write . Her sons are martial arts champions. Her husband is a martial arts black coach. She just simply cooks and cleans. Her education is up to maximum grade 6. She raised 3 strong sons and her family is happy

[@hibatuadam2777]

Maashallah. This is a woman worth celebrating.

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

@K. Kong Yes brother, I agree! THAT’S what a truly strong woman is, Masha Allah. May Allah have mercy on her and her family, ameen.

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

Which martial art?

[@schatje18]

And there are plenty of educated women who raise happy families too. I don’t like how this comment insinuates that the less educated a woman is the happier the family, or that the reason her family is happy is because they do martial arts- that hasn’t even got anything to do with her lack of education? What a baffling comment.

[@Flower.dough5734]

@@schatje18 all the “educated” women in modern society are miserable and they don’t even raise their children because majority of the time they are outside their homes intermixing in a haram workplace

[@basedmuslim9645]

Let’s Check on her 5 years from now

[@basedmuslim9645]

@@ishowsucks7425 yup…. Unfortunately

[@kurdish_e_l]

@@ishowsucks7425 you can’t just assume such a thing about her

[@jawwad1189]

Where are all the good men? 🤣😂

[@degamed9804]

She’ll probably be married to a doctor. As she is training to be a psychiatrist her work life balance will be a better than other specialties, therefore she’ll have time to be a wife and a mother. Majority of doctors marry each other.

[@basedmuslim9645]

@K. Kong it’s sad the path they are going down especially Somalis and Ethiopians they are masculine as hell

[@treasuresoffaith_zehrarisale]

It is wrong to say that her being a doctor only benefits her. Firstly, everything depends on intention. If her intention is pure, if she studied for the sake of Allah, there is nothing wrong with it (in fact it is praiseworthy). As for the man, would he not want the females in his family to go to female doctors (as opposed to male doctors)? If so, then he needs to show support. This isn't just about her, it's about benefitting society. As for experience, Khadija (ra) was much older than the Prophet (saw). She was anything but young and inexperienced. But she was the favorite wife of the Prophet (saw). It is not your level of education (whether high or low) or age (whether young or old) that determines the kind of spouse you will become. It is your level of imaan.

[@md.shahadathossain8880]

We are not prophet and they aren't khadija

[@treasuresoffaith_zehrarisale]

@@md.shahadathossain8880 Doesn't The Prophet (as) say the best of you is the best of you to his family? The best people are those of taqwa and imaan and the Prophet (as) tells us they are the best ones to their families (regardless of education, age, etc)

[@lhommemystere3938]

@@treasuresoffaith_zehrarisale Don't you ever compare our noble mother Khadija may Allah be pleased with her with this garbage fake veiled moutabarija woman. Ever ever. Khadija was the best because she was a true wife caring and always supporting our noble prophet, regardless of her age and her wealth. She was never ever (while they were before the revelation which is absolutely magnificent) in direct contact with men and she believed in him instantly, she never ever raised her voice on him. By Allah you can be just like the prophet in behavior, you will still get trouble with 99% women of nowadays.

[@treasuresoffaith_zehrarisale]

@L'homme mystère Where exactly did I compare the current women to Khadija ra ? All I'm saying is that she is a role model for us and she did have experience/wealth. What does this tell us? Having wealth/experience/age is not in itself something evil or wrong as the video seems to claim.

[@Yaheleven]

@@lhommemystere3938 What a strange comment. The whole point of following the sunnah is emulation of the prophet (saw) and his wives. Please stop calling another Muslim names and repent

[@Simplyjustme9]

Alhumdulillah for my husband. My husband works outside whilst I take care of both our kids to cooking & cleaning which I don’t mind there’s days when I can’t be asked & my husband will help me or just cook or order something from outside. Life is never easy but two heads need to work together if they want to be successful in life &give a better future for their kids .

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

Yes you're blessed

[@akhalil3482]

mashallah sister!

[@TheMrpalid]

Women like this should be jumping at the opportunity if a guy comes along who will split bills and home responsibilities with them, especially if he’s also a doctor. Sadly, many entitled muslim feminists are doctors. 1. Traditional women want a man to provide for them. 2. Feminists want absolute equality. 3. Muslim feminists want both.

[@tbouni]

Well you also have the muslim feminist. “It is your duty to provide financially” and “we split the home duties 50/50”. Thats just another level.

[@mose4319]

dont be stupid bro, this sister will definitely get proposals regardless of her ideologies because shes attractive. Its just how the world is, especially in the west.

[@jahanghir528]

Men on her level, can EASILY pull more feminine and traditional women. Why would they want her? She clearly values her career over a relationship.

[@jahanghir528]

@@mose4319 no she won't, because the guys on her level will see what she is like and go for another girl. She will have to settle for someone less than her.

[@mose4319]

@@jahanghir528 even some guys on her level would try but if they have more options then they might just leave her. What about the men below her level, the simps. All am saying is that a lot of people in this dunya get away with a lot of things. Especially unfair, unjust and evil people. The only time theyre accounted for their behaviours is on judgement day. Just reality

[@capkinlevo]

Why is it weird when someone doesn't want get married? It's sunna not obligatory. If the person himself can control his whole life then i see not problem if someone doesn't want get married.

[@adnanakbar6243]

What does it mean to complete half your deen………!!!!! The prophet said whoever doesn’t get married isn’t from us….careers come and go but the happiness from having kids lost people work to support the family if you don’t have that as a motivation than something else must be getting you out of bed which is your desires.

[@capkinlevo]

@@adnanakbar6243 thats true what the prophet said. But it doesn't meant that if someone not marry is a non muslim or a sin. It means not following his sunna. There are also a lot of people who doesn't have interest for intimacy or they dant want take responsebility for children. Nobody can force someone to marry. It's our choice. If a muslim not marry in this world then he can in sha allah marry in paradise.

[@mathisnotforthefaintofheart]

@@adnanakbar6243 Marriage is not for everyone...let's just accept that. That is why you see so much misery in marriages. If you leave a fard deliberately, it puts you outside the realm of Islam. If you leave a Sunnah, it is a sin but it does NOT put you outside the fold of Islam, and that is a very big difference. There is a reason why fard things are fard and Sunna things are Sunna. And if we dare to exchange one for another, that in itself is a sin. Nobody can forced into a marriage against anyone's will.

[@animalheart398]

I no longer am sure if I want children because they will also suffer in this world like get ill and 1 day die. I would rather have them in jannah. And also its weird that I would have a person growing in me as though I am their controller just because a man and woman did a physical act. Allah should create children in jannah..

[@eLion27]

Does this person want to have sex with someone besides themselves? Therein lies just one of the problems that I can point out. 👉

[@theamericanenglishtutor1500]

Muslim men marry none Muslim women nowadays, men have a lot of women to choose from. I am going, to be honest, I've seen a lot of broken marriages in my lifetime and also coming out of one myself, gives me the thought that I am not good enough to be a wife. My EX once told me before he announced our divorce that I made him a bad person and I did not know what I did to make him say that. I did not work or have any friends, I was boring that's what I thought. So the thought of being this person who can make another Muslim feel bad or bored, I thought to myself. Why just give them peace and not get married for I may bring that on another soul. Don't be too hard on Muslim women, for we feel like an outcast and to be replaced with a none Muslim woman makes us crawl even more into a corner.

[@lujainot5495]

Also converts to islam are mainly women so this increases men’s options

[@theamericanenglishtutor1500]

@@lujainot5495 Yeah, I say go for it. I'm not interested anyways 😅

[@lujainot5495]

@@theamericanenglishtutor1500 i am a woman i just mentioned that to say that men are not interested in us born muslim anyway so why is mahdi blaming the woman, he himself is half white, men always talk about how young women have a hoard of men waiting to marry them which is false men want white women only , men marry all kinds of races and compare us to them , muslim men treat non muslim women better

[@theamericanenglishtutor1500]

@@lujainot5495 So true, astukferllah sometimes I think how much easier it would be if Muslim women could marry non-Muslim men, it would have been a game changer.

[@ExposingHindutva101]

Peace be upon you sister.. سلام May Allah swt have mercy on you & us all.... By the way how many muslim men marry non muslim women ❓ You can't generalize all for certain non - practicing dudes.. It doesn't work... May Allah guide us all.. Aameen

[@naimhussain606]

While I completely agree with what you said here, I'm grappling with the following: if sisters don't train medically who will our wives visit when they need to? I can't even imagine letting my wife see a male doctor when she has to be physically assessed. I hope you got my point. Would appreciate a response.

[@rohanchowdhury3424]

You realize women take up 76% of the healthcare industry. You’ll basically always find a woman for your wives or female relatives

[@_nabong3146]

I loved your video, and as a muslim sister i do understand the points you made. However, i feel as though her having un-realistic man standards and her career may not be the reasons for her not getting married. I'm a 16 year old girl, who has pretty bad anxiety. From the Somali community i come from, i never grew up seeing happy, loving nor lasting marriages. To be plain honest, it scared me really badly, that my husband could potentially start treating me differently when i age, when by body changes or just straight out falls out of love with me. My whole life, i tried to protect myself from any situation where I could potential loose control of myself, my emotions, or be in a place where i can't just leave like marriage. I really grew up loving the idea of love, such as the beautiful love stories of our beloved prophet and his wives, but with social media and people having so much accesses to girls and unrealistic standards, I truly became afraid of it. The funny thing is i was always the person that would read love novels and become obsessed with the idea of love and having someone that would love you unconditional till we return to our creator. But, maybe my trust issues are just getting the best of me, but i told myself i wasn't going to get married nor have kids because of how scary it is being in charge of a family and making all the decisions. Maybe someone can relate lol.

[@theamericanenglishtutor1500]

I 1000s times can relate to what you just said. Guys like him keep telling us women to get married at 18 or 20, I am so afraid of marriage that at this point being a cat lady doesn't seem all that bad.

[@_nabong3146]

@@theamericanenglishtutor1500 hey, I'm so happy to hear someone can relate!! I love cats so I am really considering it too. But inshallah we'll get over the fear of marriage. Its really scary to be venerable when you don't know how someone could potentially treat you.

[@ExposingHindutva101]

Peace be upon you sister... سلام May Allah swt grant you a pious, loving & caring spouse.... You should come out of your anxiety, emotions & personal experiences... You have some negative experiences that doesn't mean loveing , caring & committed relationships doesn't exist or everyone is just getting divorced out of nowhere for no reasons... There's an is epidemic of lonely miserable people in social media because only lonely people have much time to spent on social media with their unrealistic hedonistic desires... Not a happily married couple spent 12×7 into social media... We all should spent most of our times with our family & friends not on the factory of anxiety & depression which is social media... May Allah grant us guidance, bless us in this world & hereafter.. Aameen

[@fateessearchformeaning7824]

I relate with you so much coming from a desi conservative Pakistani family

[@mohamedabdulle7936]

I'm from somlia my parents they're married over 30 years it can happen.

[@purplebear445]

marriage is not half our deen !! Can people stop throwing this around without understanding the meaning!! The phrase "half our deen" is just a rough translation of the arabic language that correlates to the same as "our other half" in the english language. It makes absolutly no sense that not marrying somone could mean we are only half a muslim. This is a matter for the Quran to clarify such a strong claim yet the quran doesnt say this!! We are full muslims without needing to be married . And if it was the case well what about those who couldnt get married?? That means theyre only half a muslim???

[@Asad-zeetwo5241]

Salam, Akhi I hope your future videos have better audio. My volume is on full, and usually, half the volume is sufficient!.

[@dunyatrip]

There are people who dont want to get or be in marraige, Period. Marriage is not for everyone! That doesnt mean if someone doesnt want to get married that theres something wrong with them or its not normal. What do you say about Qadar what if it was written for them to not get married, Nowadays people educate criticise others without even the concept of understanding this matter. The truth of the matter we dont know our future and it was already decree to us we always lead to the choices of what was destined for us. Dont complicate life so much! 🙄

[@dunyatrip]

@K. Kong eh i dont think so you have not met yet those kind you are just speaking from your own perspective 🙄

[@dunyatrip]

@K. Kong explain qadar? You cant make comments about people life just mind your own business your own life you are not responsible for their own happiness and life. And you said they are having struggles in finding potential partner what do you know? it could be in their faith already also all that is happening in our lives is already written good or bad all the path and choices you make in life so stop bothering about other people life mind your own 🤭

[@hussamhussain6243]

@@dunyatrip Getting married isn't like winning a boxing title or creating a multibillion dollar organisation. You choose to train or work on your business but theres no guarantee that your'e gonna be champ or own a multi billion dollar business because it isn't in your destiny. Not the same with marriage, maybe it isn't in your destiny to be married with a top 1% male but you can still choose to get married just like you can still choose to box at a lower level or choose to run your own company, albeit with a significantly smaller market cap. The problem is that although petrol prices, energy prices, rental costs, food costs etc are all massively inflated, nothing today is perhaps more inflated than the average westeners ego.

[@IipriincessiI]

@K. Kong You’re wrong. I have no desire to marry.

[@dunyatrip]

@K. Kong hahahaha ambitious im already married sorry 🤭🤣

[@Nadia-co1gk]

Its normal, not weird, professional women have brains and will not be submissive to any husband. Get over yourself, You are so wrong. Sour grapes...absolutely not. 😂😂 Cheers to all the strong independent women out there. 🥂

[@JonJones1776]

That’s why they will be alone forever 🤡😂

[@deckhead33]

All these pathetic men here are so triggered, it’s hilarious. Good luck on any of them getting married to any girl let alone a smart, educated one! 😅

[@deckhead33]

@@JonJones1776you’ll be and cry about it but they won’t cry.

[@Unknownmf595]

@@JonJones1776 I mean at least they ain’t gunna clean and feed 24/7

[@Ahmedahmed-tu8zn]

We don't need to marry this kind of women. So called empowerment.

[@drmaazsadiq]

I've said before: Through my 12 years of being around doctors and dentists, I've yet to meet a female dr/dentist who doesn't have some degree of mental health damage

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

Exactly! Either female doctors should have reduced working hours (to reduce mental stress) or ban them from medicine altogether (with the exception of OB/GYN or women-only clinics)

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

Medicine is not a profession for entitled drama queens who think they’re always the victim, nuff said

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

In fact, maybe you’ll agree, or maybe you won’t, but imo we need separate medical schools for male and female students. Many epidemiological differences have been seen in men vs women, so their risk factors for certain diseases are not the same. After all, Allah does say in the Quran, “…and the male is not like the female” (Al-Imran 3:36)

[@drmaazsadiq]

@@fardeenmahmud8866 very interesting points. One thing I'd say is yes you get the occasional drama queen etc but it's not even that. It's simply the fact that to go through medical school successfully you are genuinely going to be exposed to a certain amount of psychological trauma associated with stress, exams, horrific visuals/cases/patients and on and on.

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

I have a question, brother.

[@bramzamouri7799]

The real women died two generations ago

[@sh-tz2xs]

@@youtubeuser2579 on no look at the incel guys who follow an abusive father and a husband sure buddy he definitely "fulfilled his duties" lol delusional and u wonder why people leave islam or Muslim women being scared of marriage

[@naveedrehman2987]

Here here

[@maryam_4437]

the real men died 14 centuries ago...

[@zainabk2866]

ok. Go back to war and be a real man

[@deckhead33]

Real men never existed and still don’t.

[@ikr2377]

The truth is that those of us who did marry as girls we never were treated right with respect nor did we get anything traditional from our families because we don't have a high education

[@NazZarah]

Mahdi uses predatory language in this video. He mentions “young” girls numerous times and emphasises how younger girls with no education are more valuable. Men beware, he is only saying this as younger girls are easier to manipulate as they don’t have much life experience and are not strong enough to tell friends and family about their abuse. However, younger women with no education or minimal education are less likely to raise good educated children, furthermore they will be unable to converse with logically, unable to decompartmentalise, and their inability to commit and be disciplined with education is reflective of their inability to commit to a man and a relationship. The only reason why mandi promotes this idea of marrying a young and dumb girl is because he thinks they’re more likely to be submissive, feminine and traditional, completely forgetting the fact that they are only like that because they spend their whole life focusing on attracting men instead of focusing on investing in themselves and educating which will make them high value women in the future. Akhi’s ask yourself, would you rather want a woman who’s devoted herself to her educating throughout her youth or a woman who devoted herself to attracted men throughout her youth. A woman who spent time on her education is less likely to want attention of other men, more likely to stay loyal and disciplined to you as she was loyal to herself and her education, Shes more likely be able to hold intellectual conversations with you and your family members and will raise more educated children. However, an uneducated woman will be bitter at the fact she didn’t invest in her life, she will hold regrets about being uneducated and will ultimately blame you and your successful career for not allowing her to pursue any sort of education or career. She will also be to dumb to have any discipline or commitment (the same way she couldn’t commit to her education) so she will probably use her femininity for attention elsewhere. She will probably be terrible at communicating with you so will probably resort to violence when trying to communicate with you. Trust me lads. Educated women are better for you and your children. Treat an educated women right with respect and loyalty and she will be reveal her feminine and submissive side speciallly for you.

[@aatamf8156]

Nothing but facts you’re the only one with common sense in this comment section

[@aishabrown2014]

@The Dark King Kong without education? So, who will be the midwife's? and the doctors performing C sections on women? Only Men? Who will study early childhood development and teach babies and children, maths, English, and science, so they grow up to be smart and educated? Only Men? Who will teach? and teach other women about Islam and how to read and write Arabic and multiple languages? Only Men?

[@lujainot5495]

@The Dark King Kong no this is not true , simply going to college doesn’t make women dominant if she is already raised to be feminine

[@deckhead33]

Don’t be scared of educated women. Just get to know them and realise they don’t bite. If a rapport is established and feelings develop, you will both make necessary compromises.

[@bramkayser445]

Guys why don't you listen to some quran. You are to focused on women!

[@deckhead33]

I think they’ve been watching too many Andrew Tate videos.

[@osmans1694]

Fertility rate in Muslim countries also massively dropping.

[@mariecurie7755]

Isn't that good for the rapid population growth. It's this drastic population growth which result in higher demand for even basic needs. It's better to have lesser quantity of people having high quality of life than vise versa.

[@livinia296]

It was prophesied by prophet Mohammed pbuh. Towards the end of time. Women will stop giving birth.

[@fortnajt]

​@@mariecurie7755 development and innovation happens only because of neccesity. And if there are less people in the future then so the need for innovation and. Therefore the human civ will stagnate. In 2050 more people will be older than young and that will take the toll in it self because older people will require support almost like minors. The weight will fall on the few adults who would already be overwelmed

[@bushdid-dg1cg]

People think doctors are the top 2%. The reality is that most are in the bottom 50% at marriageable ages (25-35) - 6 figure debts and only a 5 figure income during residency and any subsequent fellowships. By the time most doctors are out of debt they will be in their mid-30s. In terms of lifestyle, they have some of the worst schedules of any profession.

[@jahanghir528]

Agreed - doctors work ridiculous hours and horrible shift patterns. Why would any man want a woman like that?

[@jahanghir528]

@MKAY agree I work in banking as a financial adviser - I'm in my late 20s and currently earn just over 6 figures a year.

[@bigdaddy7729]

Well yu become doctor cause of respect , alpha responsibility , and lots and lots of opportunity to help others and get reward from Allah

[@Marwadear512]

They can also work PT in their own practice, so set hours, and make very good money.

[@jahanghir528]

@@bigdaddy7729 for a man that is desirable, however for a woman it's not desirable.

[@IipriincessiI]

Not every woman is willing to spend the rest of their lives serving a man and being controlled by him and have no life outside of that. What does she get out of the marriage besides children? She will be doing all the hard labour at home in terms of catering to the man and her children. What does she get in return? It says a lot about women that they have stated that they LOVE going to work because they consider it as a BREAK. Women consider things like going to work, having a shower as a break from the very tiring job of endless chores, childcare. This shows how the wifes job is a 1000% harden than the mans. The fact that she wants to go to work to get a break from the endless work at home.

[@millionfish]

Why do you assume marriage is only about serving the man? Both the man and the woman have responsibilities in marriage, correct? So why are women crying when a man does no such thing when he has to provide, protect, take on stress (suicide rate is high amongst men), go the masjid in the dark and bad weather, etc? So women would rather go to work to serve their non-Muslim male boss and still end up even more tired (menstrual cycles, long work days) than serve their creator? Not only that, do these women care about Zina, pornography, lesbianism being rampant out there and them being at risk of falling into these things?

[@aatamf8156]

Exactly these men in the comment section just see wives as slaves and are threatened when woman are educated because it harder to manipulate them

[@md.shahadathossain8880]

@@aatamf8156 we don't give a **** about it....to be honest.....we are just less self centered... Less individualist.....we care about our family, society and community

[@emilygutierrez4930]

16:50 "Miserable women want company Miserable women want other women to be miserable with them". Audubillah 😰 , not trying to end up like that , May Allah safeguard us Ameen

[@saras.1912]

Do you know how many miserable married women are there?

[@aaAa-bp1yd]

There are more miserable married women because marriage is pushed down their throats by men like this guy and women like you. Shit on feminism all you want, but feminism is one of the reasons you’re even allowed to get out of your home lol gtfo

[@SunFlower-vg7et]

50% of marriages end in divorce. Clearly married women aren’t happy

[@theskinheaven918]

Ameen

[@Flower.dough5734]

Marry women from back home at this point. Ones that grew up in a small are. Almost every woman here is like this woman

[@jamesawesome5872]

@Sara ansari I agree a traditional feminin Muslimah.

[@IipriincessiI]

Yes youre right, you’ll get a slave that you can use and abuse as you please :)

[@IipriincessiI]

How is she wrong? Is marriage not more beneficial for men than women? Ur just mad that theyre waking up to the injustice of it all. Life gets better for a man after marriage. They get a cook and cleaner that they can be intimate with. Women get to be a slave and be ordered around by a man that they dont even need. Except to have children (If they want kids) Women can provide for themselves these days? Why get married and have to ‘obey’ a man? And not everyone wants kids. Its not like you men would even care for the kids. You just throw money her way and expect her to do everything. You act like a 9-5 is the hardest thing in the world. Women can go it east and then they come home and do everything as well. Youre all a bunch of useless babies

[@aatamf8156]

Marry them for back home because they are less educated and easier to manipulate 🤪

[@livinia296]

Really! You ain't seen nothing yet!😂 The stories i could tell you about girls back home! Shocking!! Be grateful to girls in the west!

[@SativaSeanLasVegas]

It's fascinating. I met an older woman yesterday, and all she talked about was her job, how many employees she had, how much money she made, etc....it seems that when women "arrive' and they get lonely, they then lead with their wallets. The future will be a good time for Male "Kept" men that can stomach older women in exchange for an easy life - Of course, I pay for myself 200% but this will be this Doctors future when she's older, and has to find a beta nurse (male) or a lower status Men to have company- Ideally, this should not be a problem but unlike Men, ..women don't "enjoy" supporting the other person, they tolerate it. Which leads them right back to me and rejection.

[@nuhmanhanif288]

@@alghurraba but why you have so much hatred towards men.

[@nuhmanhanif288]

@@alghurraba but sorry sister there are many men who love women but women are not like that but im not hating im saying the truth.

[@nuhmanhanif288]

@@alghurraba and sister i dont have any hatred but women too make men do wrong. For example there are many muslim women who make men to reduce the beard. I think you should advise them too.

[@nuhmanhanif288]

@@alghurraba and there are people like ismail menk who make men to quack what their wife says are you ok with that. First oppose these type of people then come to this people. Its my request first oppose them.

[@nuhmanhanif288]

@@alghurraba sister advise goes both ways. Not just to one gender. Yes there are mistakes in both but in reality see men can be punished easily.

[@keycard6828]

Lol the Prophet says: "Marriage is my precept and my practice(Sunnah). Those who do not follow my practice are NOT of ME. and the famous saying : The married person has half her/his deen completed....................... Also ''Muslim''Dr: I think we put way to much pressure, stress and VALUE on marriage!??! WHO is this woman? Would a believing person even dare to say something like this I wonder?!

[@ahmedalmahdi9254]

Terminally single career women who seethe at the thought of being passed over by a well established man marrying a meek, feminine, traditional woman. Many such cases!

[@RAMONA3118]

Why you are so angry at women who are not interested in marrying you. 😂 Maybe later she move to a developed country and blend with other cultures changing her mind.

[@moonwalkerr87]

Get married! The only way to stay chaste! Very few manage to stay away from haram. The only way to interact with the opposite gender is through nikah. All other options are haram, that means looking, touching, chating etc.

[@moonwalkerr87]

@Unknown Alien True. At least Islam made nikah easy. We made it difficult upon ourselves.

[@IipriincessiI]

Its always men that say this because they cant control themselves. Hence the ‘4 wives’ being allowed. Marriage is necessary for men. Most women dont care about that stuff except to have kids

[@Therebelliousprince001]

@Unknown Alien Forget about zina, Akhi. Many today are committing homosexuality. 🤢

[@thehourglassfan3515]

@@moonwalkerr87 Marriage is a lot more than just these things.

[@moonwalkerr87]

@@thehourglassfan3515 Chastity is priority number one in Islam. Not my opinion.

[@FatimaZohora-oo6kd]

if someone doesn't want to get married or have kids only because they don't want to commit adultery or sexuality. Would that be permissible?

[@thehourglassfan3515]

So, what? It’s her choice. Just let her be.

[@dronestrikejr]

Thats fine with me, brothers let these women go their own way, and we too shall go out own way

[@CubedNightShot9777]

Mahdi I would be interested to watch a video where you go into detail about your current training (combat sports, weightlifting etc) and your history with it (when you started and what you learnt along the way etc)

[@CatGuy969]

I agree i definitelly need AND want that

[@missa7777]

I really like this video and I like that Mahdi is encouraging young marriages as our deen states. We need more sisters speaking well about marriage and how it does bring happiness. Yes its hard but it deffo fullfilling.

[@Therebelliousprince001]

We definitely do. Well said.

[@user-du2tz3pi8m]

But why lie

[@SOMBYZ]

Wallahi this video is a GEM. I Wish this blew up on social media

[@mohsenakhtar7868]

It was narrated from Aishah that: the Messenger of Allah said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.” These educated women aren't of value or special, they just live for themselves and a selfish idealogy. May Allah guide them. Sunan Ibn Majah 1846 In-book reference : Book 9, Hadith 2 English translation : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846

[@Muslim-87]

This sister is a victim of the independent feminist women narrative sad state of affairs

[@deckhead33]

She’s an adult who can decide what she wants for herself and you might be surprised, it’s not up to you to decide for her.

[@Amal_3000]

The amount of predatory language used by this man is astonishing. How many times u said younger women honestly the only reason u emphasize on younger women and the less aexperience a woman has is so that it can work for men like you who are looking to misuse and take advantage of said younger women. Authubillah Allah will hold you accountable. Do better.

[@millionfish]

Congratulations, you've fallen for the brainwashing by the feminists and liberals who automatically paint men who don't want to marry 30-35 year olds as "predators". And yeah, younger women are less combative and not set in their ways like older women are. You're damn right they are better for marriage.

[@seanskywalka5172]

STFU lol "predatory language"? Can you debate you baby? Lol

[@deckhead33]

Very uncomfortable to watch.

[@a7mad9999999]

Never get married? Hello darkness my oldfriend

[@a7mad9999999]

@@IipriincessiI this isn't the reason why 90% of divorce is initiated by women. its because of women themselves and their irrational decisions. this is why in Islam a women cannot divorce her husband for no reason or stupid reasons. Islam protects the husband. in the west, a women will have evil plans to bait successful rich guys, make them sign 50% of their property and then 2 weeks later divorce him. this is worse than abuse.

[@a7mad9999999]

@@IipriincessiI if you have this mentality about men then you should never get married IMO, no husband would tolerate you thinking like this. you gonna rot in a nursing home.

[@hamdiguled5472]

IF YOUR NOT BRINGING VALUE TO ME THEN WHY SHOULD I GIVE MYSELF TO YOU?

[@nedjme1325]

Ok fine 5 years from now we don't wanna hear your crying how misreble you are

[@roosworld4910]

This lady will find love in a doctor who shares her passion for the profession and feels positive about life.

[@bigdaddy7729]

What pisses me off , women like that make these stupid videos and put it online and end up corrupting other young sisters

[@Godzilla-ct2pp]

Just like what Mahdi is doing right?

[@asiyaasaeed8437]

What hating on her omg it is her choice

[@bigdaddy7729]

@@asiyaasaeed8437 it’s all good, but why is she advertising it like she is making a great choice ? We both know deep inside her she is not happy with her choice so she is like trying to justify and advertise her behavior , she ain’t even convince herself of her own choice 100%

[@asiyaasaeed8437]

maybe the advertising part is unnecessary but whether she is happy or not with her choice you can not know it and it is her life.

[@georgeaskeladd742]

Who says what we're doing is corrupting and what you're doing is not corrupting? I want girls to have a choice over their own lives. Isn't that a good thing?

[@TheOrganics01]

Because she's smart . No stupid man wants a smart woman. That's the truth

[@johnnyk2929]

Nah its not that. I would want a smart women but I don’t want a women who has an ego and have masculine attributes that can’t even make time for their kids.

[@apexpredator2118]

We need to discuss this more as a community. I'm a doctor as well, and more than half of the med students these days are women. Present day academics and jobs favour women over men. Men are good at business but not everyone can be the top 10%. Women have to be educated more about the fact that as long as the man is of good character and trying his best, she should be able to respect him and consider marriage. Otherwise this phenomenon of single successful women is going to become of epic proportions.

[@paikuhansensei815]

Yes I saw a documentary how the education system favors girls over boys. Little boys way of thinking have a different nature than little girls.... It's all set up from the governments to make women succeed academically to enter all segments of the job market so this way the traditional family is completely destroyed.

[@millionfish]

The lifestyle of a doctor isn't conducive to a healthy marriage. Long hours, on call, too tired to have intimacy or take care of the home. Hypergamy is real. Women will never settle for a less educated or accomplished man, especially feminists and liberals.

[@apexpredator2118]

@@youtubeuser2579 Hypergamy is much more than just 'earns more than me'. It's generally about 'he's better than me'. The criteria is sometimes different for different women. Some women will easily marry a highly respected scholar who doesn't earn much (whereas some women won't). Some will marry a guy who they know is smart and has potential over a guy who is already successful but also has a lot of women in his life. If you convince women that a man's character, his control over his own emotions, judgement etc are better than her own, a woman of similar status may still be happy with him.

[@paikuhansensei815]

@@apexpredator2118 exactly well explained, hypergamy includes value in the level of attractiveness, a guy who is good looking, tall, with muscles even being not rich will grant him a great repertoire of women to choose from. Hypergamy includes looks, status, knowledge, resources and more things depending on the women.

[@apexpredator2118]

@@youtubeuser2579 Look at examples in real life, not just theoretical definitions. There is variation in women's preferences as well. If someone values money, she will marry a rich guy. If someone values social status, she'll marry a famous guy. In the East, respect was often seen more important than money and many women marry just for the status.

[@smilodon92]

She's coping. Give her a few years, she'll get bored of the single childless life, and if a suitable man comes her way, she'll be wishing and desiring to marry him.

[@vost2916]

Everybody copes.

[@IipriincessiI]

Why would she need a man though? Shes already providing. And no, not everyone wants snot nosed kids. And dont say she’ll be lonely when shes elderly because that’ll happen with kids as well. They move out and start their own lives and visit maybe once or twice a year

[@md.shahadathossain8880]

@@IipriincessiI what a dumb comment!

[@deckhead33]

Not true. I’ve seen anecdotally some of these women don’t settle even in their late 40’s and eventually find a perfect husband. For a woman, finding a man is the easiest thing but a decent man, it’s much harder.

[@500gsma3]

alhamdulillah, some dude is saved from living with her.

[@Therebelliousprince001]

😂

[@bagzhansadvakassov1093]

Ahahaha

[@maryam_4437]

and she is safe from men, everyone is wininig

[@aishabrown2014]

@@maryam_4437 🤣🤣🤣

[@therepublic7708]

@@maryam_4437 when she is unmarried in her late 40s she will be suffering from depression.

[@lossforwords888]

So what are you saying? Don't educate women?

[@mohsenakhtar7868]

Never believe a woman who says she's happy and single in her 40s, its a lie and a path of misery, they recruiting for others to be miserable, trust me its a fact. Misery loves company, they don't wanna be alone and want company of miserable lonely women who are either divorced, single and childless or never married at all and never experienced the best life ever which is to be married and Men make that happiness and know how. Marriage is not only a obligation in Islam, its what makes you a muslim and a believer.

[@deckhead33]

Marriage is not an obligation as many people don’t want to marry. Look it up.

[@bellak2140]

How do you know what others feel? And what about all the women who are unhappily married? Does that mean no woman is happy in marriage? Same logic. And what about all the people who have PTSD and can't handle marriage? Marriage is highly recommended in Islam in general but not an obligation. Ibn Taymiyyah never married. Would you tell your daughter who has PTSD to enter into a marriage without being able to live a normal married life? Will you also inform the suitor of that before hand so that it doesn't come as a suprise?

[@Theshowoffcollector]

Does she expect us to care that she doesn’t want to get married? We can just go home and find an obedient and feminine girl who will cook you nice traditional dishes

[@Theshowoffcollector]

@Adam exactly

[@sarahosman9030]

@@youtubeuser2579 single mothers and women over 30 get married a lot more than young men are getting married nowadays. Don’t let this echo chamber of red pill blind you. I know a sister who got a proposal 6 weeks after her divorce. She refused because she had not emotionally recovered from her divorce.

[@sarahosman9030]

Well she posted the video to her audience who asked. Ask Mahdi why you need to know, he brought it to you.

[@7LamarOdom]

@@alghurraba it's amusing how you are a major detractor of this channel and yet you are here. You are a closet fan, just come out and say it already.

[@sarahosman9030]

@K. Kong it’s got nothing to do with population. It’s about money, you said village which is correct even in my country a man with little money can get married in the villages. A little money is a lot. However in the big cites I would say they are even worse than the west, the things the family demand their daughters.

[@szsz8177]

I'm 21years old and nobody in my environment tells me to 'not get married.' Contrary, everyone is constantly talking about it. My grandmy since i was little and my friends are constantly complaining about 'them not getting married yet' but i'm just not 'that much' into it. When i see my environment, there is nobody that I look up to. Many women are getting married because they're hopeless and scared they won't find anybody else and lower their standards and accept inacceptable things just because there is this 'pressure' of getting married because otherwise you'll be seen as 'a failure'. Others get married because they want kids but none of them is actually REALLY happy. And about 'lowering standards', the minimum basics is 'too much asked for' these days for a man and that's sad. Man up I would say. That's the reason why woman are beging masculine. because masculinity is needed. But when a man doesn't take that role on him, a woman will take that on her. and then men will complain about her being 'too masculine'. Also, it's false to suppose that every woman lies when she says that she is happy with a childless, unmarried life. If you don't do anything with your life and you're just waiting for time to pass on the couch then YES it's boring and YES you will be depressed. but there are so many things to do to have a dynamic, social, enriching life without 'a family' people don't know about or just forget. Having a family doesn't even mean: 'not being lonely'. You can have a family and not be taken care of, be forgotten. You can have family and still feel bored or unhappy. Happiness is within yourself and not in what you have accomplish or 'create' or 'have'. It's different for everybody. What makes ME happy is not what another person needs to be happy. I also don't want to have kids so I was happy you spoke directly to woman like me by saying: what is the point of not having kids with who you can share things with. Why making human beings while you can share your money with people who are already on earth and having a hard time and can use this money usefully? It's not that you don't have kids you can't use your money to help others. that's wrong.

[@Abids]

I personally know some sisters age above 32 waiting for a superman, my friend is single 33 years of age looking for a wife, and we approached a sister age 43 single, she mentioned that the guy is too short 🤯, I was like get bloody married. Most of these sisters I know are degree holders, doing professional jobs and are kind of independent, they are in their comfort zones, they think they have already made a lot of sacrifices, and studies, jobs etc and I don't think they will ever get settled

[@bigdaddy7729]

Logic is never woman’s strong suit , they got the degree , but they are still idiots and can’t see the big picture , now we see why prophet Mohammed forbid woman to be a leader and imam , feminist easily answered all my questions

[@cooljool1]

married to their jobs

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

How tall was she compared to him?

[@bash10101]

Those same sisters will regret when they reach 50 and have no children or partner to take care of them, loneliness would result in them being depressed, at that point it would be too late and nothing is worse than the pain of regret whilst knowing that you can't do anything about it at that stage.

[@Abids]

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 my friend is 5, 9 and she was definitely shorter than him

[@EsamAshur]

How about you leave her alone and you keep your opinions to yourself! Her life choices and decisions are non of your business!

[@deckhead33]

At last a man with some sense clap 👏🏼

[@rafaqatzaman7487]

Beautifully explained brother. I totally agree with all your points. It's so sad to see such educated sisters being conditioned by Western culture and for being deluded about the reality of life and marriage and long term happiness.

[@khadsykoo2528]

I can't believe I'm writing this comment but I actually agree with Mahdi on this. I don't agree with his other opinions but this one is accurate. I understand why the sister doesn't want to get married. There are a lot of weird men out there. But if you do your homework, research put your trust in Allah and make Dua I think you could find someone. Especially if you have a supportive family. Don't know this sisters situation but there doesn't seem to be any apparent reason for her to struggle getting married apart from mindset. I used to have this mind set of never getting married until I did meet someone unfortunately his Mum despised me for no good reason. But In Sha Allah I do hope one day I can get married.

[@karenbrouard697]

I work in health care and nearly all the female doctors I know are also married with children and great careers

[@snakejuce]

"And I'm very happy wanting to die alone, I already have 2 cats, life is great....oops gotta go, the litter box needs cleaning".

[@sh-tz2xs]

I mean having cats is not worse than living with an incel like u or mahdi or any of his boyfriends in the comments lol u wanna treat like a maid, sex slave, baby making machine, servant for the in laws , be*t her every time she says something, ab*se her verbally and physically well she knows her worth meanwhile incels are crying that how come Muslim women are no longer want to live with an ab*sive incel like me 😩

[@maryam_4437]

sounds like a happy, stressfree life !

[@snakejuce]

@@maryam_4437 Perfect, I hope you attain it sister.

[@deckhead33]

Sounds ideal. Blissful even as no stress.

[@deckhead33]

@@maryam_4437i think deep down everyone wants this but they’re not strong enough to admit it.

[@okmo7828]

The thing is though that it’s very hard to find a man that will want to provide without help from his wife in these times

[@kindbeast6974]

Not really

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

That's because that's the norm that they've been conditioned to accept. Wasn't it women who wanted in to the workforce?

[@unknownunknown6101]

That's absolute B.S.

[@unknownunknown6101]

@K. Kong You'd have your wife out there working just so you can go on more trips? You'd allow her to free mix with men allow her to take on stress for such materialistic reasons Where's your gheerah over your wife?

[@Therebelliousprince001]

Inshaallah you will find a traditional muslim man who will...

[@hafsaabdurrahman6022]

'Misery needs company ' FACTS!! I've seen a rise on 'sisters only holiday/ retreat' ...I find this so disturbing subhanAllah

[@nahidnoor6421]

29 is young by current standards tbh . Education and experience count for a lot . I think as a life coach / psychiatrist , she has probably come across so many toxic relationships and has analysed human behaviour so much that she sees more deficiency rather than positivity in men . It is true that younger women are more impressionable and adaptable! The older we get , the more established and inflexible we become in our thinking . Compromising becomes increasingly difficult

[@artair70]

Is it? I wouldn't say so.

[@UAM-]

29 with that attitude is very bad

[@HasanKhannn]

biological clock is ticking

[@islamicreminders3090]

29 is young ? 😂

[@StevenMiller]

Those Muslim women who can't even put on a khimar to cover her hair have instantly told you she's a jaahil in all aspects of life just visually.

[@StevenMiller]

@@alghurraba Lower my gaze on a male Muslim KZbinr Mahdi Tidjani video *that I've already clicked on*. My sister, no offence, are you....slow?

[@StevenMiller]

@@alghurraba Are you a stupid person? I am subscribed and watch a MALE MUSLIM KZbinR MAHDI TIDJANI. Should I avoid every video of his that contains a small thumbnail of a video with a female in terrible khimar and deny myself the benefits from my subscription. Why are you subscribed to him hmm? He destroyed your pathetic female Tik Tok female doctor talking to all the non-mahram men of the world which is completely haram for a female. Do you not enjoy Mahdi Tidjani then? I am utterly confused as to why you're even watching this video?!?

[@chillinlikeavillain5005]

@@IipriincessiI 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maryam_4437]

backbiting is haram you know that right ?

[@thehourglassfan3515]

@@StevenMiller Yeah, lower your gaze.

[@FarhatKCh]

Only rich and safe countries can afford feminism.

[@AK-bk8rt]

She knows she's pretty and knows that one day a guy will come for her so she ain't short of any departments!

[@politicallyincorrect4126]

Yeah but beauty declines with age she’s still relatively young but once she hits 40 it’s a wrap

[@Filming-and-Stuff]

Here is something I’ve observed: spinsters take out their misery at work through passive aggressive behaviour and micromanaging staff members. And then they go online and claim they’re ‘happy!’ 😂

[@Filming-and-Stuff]

Btw, this ‘doctor’ is a therapist…I came across her Instagram posts last year and found them to be misguided and delusional. Virtually everything is interpreted as ‘abuse’ and ‘trauma!’ 🙄

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

@@Filming-and-Stuff Wait you mean she’s not actually a medical doctor?

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

@@Filming-and-Stuff Damn, female therapists are probably even worse lol! To them, everything is abuse and trauma as you mentioned about her. Wallah brother, you could inhale oxygen and exhale CO2, and that lady will interpret that as toxic masculinity.

[@d.bcooper2271]

@@fardeenmahmud8866 A chiropractor maybe

[@Filming-and-Stuff]

@@fardeenmahmud8866 she has a PhD 😂

[@hssadat1]

Islam already promotes equitable gender roles: the man strives and provides, the woman nests and cultivates home life. Feminism promotes equality where we do everything 50-50. Some people are confused about the difference between equity and equality

[@equityjustice2695]

Facts

[@thew1ldone889]

Neither equity or equality are natural, and neither can be achieved in a natural setting. The genders are different, so are the "rac3s", so are different ethnicities, etc... Even different siblings are born with different genetics to the same two parents.

[@fardeenmahmud8866]

My great aunt, who is Chief of OB/GYN in her hospital AND got married before 20: “Am I a joke to you?”

[@Ballu12345]

Men and women together makes the world running

[@ruhelproduction5360]

Mahdi is so underrated. He is a master on this field. If anyone wants to save our society then I urge you to share his videos on your WhatsApp status, fb etc

[@adyk6604]

Love every bit from 16:00 timestamp and onwards. Worth gold words…❤

[@sohaibmahagri5037]

😂 😂 😂 😂 "It's weird it's not normal " It's true

[@Noah-il6qn]

Let’s be real, you you wouldn’t care if she was unattractive or dark skinned. There’s no lack of single women, why do you worry about her choosing not to get married and being happy with her choice. I don’t know why would you want every unmarried Muslim to be at a state of misery. She’s not going to influence anyone to stay unmarried either. you can’t take away someone’s sexual and emotional needs with a TikTok. This is just attacking for the sake of attacking.

[@abdullahsiddiqui5278]

AsSalam Aalykum Mahdi. Allah SWT has blessed her with intellect and drive that not many people (men and women) possess. Should she just disregard her gifts for the sake of getting married?

[@abdullahsiddiqui5278]

@Owais Razzak AsSalam Aalykum. May Allah SWT make matters easy for all of us.

[@deckhead33]

@@owaisrazzak9839you might find this shocking, but some men and women prefer a life of solitude. There’s more to life than marriage, sex and kids.

[@nabilsaadi8704]

it annoyed me as hell when I watched it in tiktok

[@apexpredator2118]

She looks like she's in the first year of psychiatry residency, around 27 years of age. Quite busy and still getting enough social interaction and attention. After passing out and beginning the monotony of life, she will feel the need. But it may be a little late by then.

[@Diesjjj]

And here am I, a 35 year old and want to get married but get rejected all the time. The recent one was just a couple of days ago. It feels like torture…. heading to depression….. But khair in shaa Allah.

[@aveshdiamond6763]

Do not loose hope perhaps Allah has saved you from abusive relationship or a marriage that is will fall too shortly that ruin your future life have hope bro/sis and try different sites ,meet different organisations,try all methods TRY inshallah all you need is one man/woman.

[@MAbuRowais]

Misery is knocking on the door.

[@MAbuRowais]

@Unknown Alien It won’t work forever, though. But we’re very used to people living a dream, only waking up when it’s too late. The sad thing is that this a loop. She is just repeating the cycle others went through instead of learning from their faults.

[@MAbuRowais]

@@IipriincessiI She thinks she doesn’t need a man. Her biology and psychology are working against. And she eventually will want to have kids. I hope though it wouldn’t be too late. And let’s be honest.. If every woman thinks that way, we as human would have been extinct already. And yes, if she doesn’t have kids she’ll die lonely. And those who have kids but died lonely, what do you think they’ve done wrong?! How much energy do you think they’ve put into raising their children. Most people put their kids in front of the TV as soon as they get annoyed. They are doing that instead of taking on the responsibility of parents and teaching their children properly how to behave and how to do stuff etc. those whose children move out and never or almost never visit their parents, I bet their parents did not do a very good job. And when she gets old, she should be surrounded with many grandchildren that is. And as Muslims we have to especially care for teaching our children good manners and how to be a good Muslim. But reading the kind of comments you’re posting, I kinda have an idea where you’re coming from. Let me say you this: The way of thinking you have and your approach of self realization is in fact nothing else than selfishness and egocentric. You need society. Yet you’re refusing to give something back. Society won’t be suffering from you. But you’ll be suffering once society ditches you away because your connection to society is limited to a capitalistic favor you’re offering which is temporary. As soon as you’re not able to provide this favor anymore, the only thing that should’ve been left is your offspring which connects you to society. Bear that in mind. I advise you to stop wasting your time online and think about what you really want.

[@deckhead33]

@@MAbuRowaislah blah blah. Another arrogant man who thinks he knows what’s right for all women.

[@daudalvi]

I absolutely agree with her, if she doesn't want to get married then she shouldn't, otherwise she would ruin another innocent man's life

[@moritz1483]

bro spitting facts after facts. Couldn‘t agree more

[@blackhand8264]

I only want to be with women who are truly loyol enough if i suffer they suffer with me if im dying they want to die with me

[@millionfish]

It's sad to say, but women who have this kind of mindset (only career, money) fall into Zina and other haram. If a single woman is constantly free mixing with her non-Muslim colleagues and getting to know them for 8-12 hours a day, it's not a surprise when said colleagues (they have no Islamic boundaries) will work game on these Muslim women, tell them whatever they want to hear, and the next thing you know, she's fallen into Zina, married a non-practising Muslim, or even apostated.

[@saihinadir]

That is very accurate. I am a muslim man, and whenever I spend 8 hours a day with my collegues at work ( who are non-muslims and with lots of women around), I see a lot of "games" taking place and promiscuity is always present, making it very hard to not surrender to your desires. Fortunately I found a little group of muslim friends who always set my mind straight by reiterating the importance of avoiding fahisha. I imagine for a muslim woman it would be much worse.

[@Trilliman707]

@@saihinadir that's why it's best to get married than college

[@saihinadir]

@@Trilliman707 I can't disagree with you. A lot of the "oldschool" or "old fashioned" practices in my family and tribe that I used to be very critical of back then seem to make more sense as time goes by.

[@deckhead33]

It’s not up to you to judge her or any other person. I’m sure you’re hiding some skeletons in your closet, if someone was to really dig.

[@deckhead33]

@@Trilliman707with that mentality, why even come to the west? You have so many opportunities here yet you might as well live back home

[@ThespianJ]

Another study conducted by the Pew Research Center found that women with higher levels of education were more likely to be married than those with less education. It is important to note that societal stereotypes and biases can play a role in the perception that highly successful women are more likely to be single.Jan 27, 2023

[@matikhorasani3842]

Make sure your wife is not friends with these type of women. They'll ruin your relationship by keep on hinting divorce to her. Single women can't handle happy married women no matter how good of a friend you might think they are to you.

[@Yaheleven]

You should be the last person to shame a lady about her decision of not marrying. Didn’t all three of your wives divorce you ?

[@dyates12]

I’ve been noticing this phenomenon among muslimahs. I was hoping I was just the only one but apparently this is more widespread that I thought.

[@kathydeschene4649]

Don't ever let anyone tell you that staying at home is more important than earning a living for yourself....it is a more difficult road than staying home, but the truth is whoever earns the income has the power. This is the truth

[@seangaw6429]

Talk to this woman in 10 yrs and watch the regrets by then her egg will no longer be fertile. A woman by nature wants to raise their kids. It's a fulfillment that's makes her feel like she has accomplished and found happiness.

[@d.bcooper2271]

What about the fulfilment in serving cooperations earning six figures 🤔

[@IipriincessiI]

Nahh, money over snot nosed kids any day. They’ll grow to be little shits when they turn into teenagers and then disappear and leave you to start their own families.

[@asiyaasaeed8437]

I disagree and if she is happy being single let her be. dont hate on her she is not harming you besides not every woman will be a mother .some don't want it and that is ok .lets stop this idea of forcing people to be mothers, you think it is an easy thing to do .you need to be mentally, emotionally, financially and physically able to be a mother.

[@seangaw6429]

@@asiyaasaeed8437 well many women have come forward crying on tiktok about why they didn't settle down with a good man. So good luck on being single!

[@Jay_490]

Not every woman wants kids there are plenty of divorced men w kids who look for this type of woman. I would rather be a step mom than carry myself and ruin my looks & deteriorate my health.

[@NovaSky986]

How can you know a woman when your not a woman. Stop criticising the sister.

[@nedjme1325]

Men understand women Women don't Thats it wr don't make the rules we report them

[@NovaSky986]

@@nedjme1325 report what?

[@Nevebrownie]

@@nedjme1325Most idiotic comment in the world.

[@earthwarden8548]

We live in era of heightened feminism where women largely exceed men in higher education (by 20%,) and largely occupy easier and safer jobs compared to men (Hazardous occupations: Firefighting 99%, male Logging 98% male, Trucking (heavy) 98% male, Construction 98% male, Coal mining 97% male. Safe occupations: Secretary 99% female, Receptionist 97% female). Yet women with these liberal and modern paths of life are still the highest demographic of depressed group of people (women ages 40 to 59 have the highest rate of depression (12.3 percent) of any group based on age and gender in the U.S., according to the report from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention). Does this not show that this new idea of feminism/liberalism is ironically not liberating women but in fact causing them harm and a poor quality of life? The more women who move away from traditional roles and run towards these feminist/liberal ideals such as chasing a career and trying to be equal to men, the more unhappy they become. Its because they are running from the truth and what is naturally better for them. 48% of women did not want to go back to work after Covid lockdown (september 2020, 865,000 women left their jobs, which is a drastic difference from the 216,000 men who also left their jobs, according to a National Women's Law Center analysis) which proved how happier they were compared to men at staying at home. They just needed to remove themselves for a short time, away from that feminist propaganda of playing a man's role and just like that, their natural inclination was to stay at home. Another problem they suffer from by following feminism and chasing careers is the potential to attract the best suited husband. A chart of SMV (sexual marketplace value) clearly shows that a woman's SMV rises from the age of 16 rapidly to its peak at the age of 23/24. At the mid/late 20s it rapidly decreases just as it increased and by the time she hits 30 her value is a 4/10 compared to a 10/10 in her early 20's. A man's SMV is low during a woman's peak but it is at its highest after the woman's decline rapidly increasing post 30 at hitting its peak mid 30's and dropping at a slower rate than a woman's decline. This is why we often here the cliche "where have all the good men gone" from women on the decline. In their 20's they arrogantly claim "I dont need a man". In their 30's they frustratingly ask "Where have all the good men gone?". In their 40's they desperately say "I need a man". In their 50's they hopelessly cry out "any man will do". We see this problematic pattern over and over but nobody has the guts to tell women they are following a wrong way of life and nobody has the guts or done the research to critique feminism, an ideology from the devil that seeks to cause trials and tribulations upon Earth.

[@mariecurie7755]

Obviously this is mostly because female population is greater than males population. So by default some females will have to provide for themselves.

[@earthwarden8548]

@@mariecurie7755 that is a red herring. I can prove to you that historically since 2nd wave feminism women have been less happy since entering the work force. It has nothing to do with population but everything to do with innate natural biological tendencies. The 2nd point of women having to work to support themselves is also a false statement and red herring. In the west women can still not work yet receive government support if the common readily option of remaining with her parents is not available. The most dependant women in the world are in poor countries as they receive no governmental aid and poor familie often find difficulty in continuing the support of their children who are adults. Yet they are the most traditional and being traditional means submissive, respectful, loyal and not promiscuous and dutiful hence their chances of finding a provider in a husband is much much higher compared to the arrogant women of the west who disrespect men, sleep around in the name of "sexual liberation" and display masculine traits by following the feminist agenda, thinking ascertaining things they desire in men (career, money, status) will qualify them for better suitors which is not the case as a rich man will always chose youth and beauty over the highest level of socioeconomic credentials in an older woman. To summarise women chose to work not out of necessity but out of choice and that choice is heavily, arguably solely influenced by feminism.

[@earthwarden8548]

Plenty of retarded feminists out there that only listen to lectures where the sell out sheikh is talking in favour of women and misinterpretating Islam to fit the narrative of their liberal and feminist masters. They dare not mention the hadith that warn women of disobeying the husband, not fulfilling the true criteria of hijab, not mixing with non mahrams. The hadith on the level of servitude she must give to the husband to such an extent she would be made to prostrate to her husband if it was allowed. They dare not mention the reason for most women being admitted to the fire is because of their ingratitude to their spouse. They dare not mention that the wives of the sahabas would not call their husbands by their name but by "seyad (master)". Sheikhs like Mufti Menk and Nouman Ali are the go to scholars for femislimahs to refer back to and seek knowledge from. They dare not seek the full comprehensive knowledge of roles, responsibilities and duties when it comes marriages. Just like kafir feminists they only want equality where it suits them. They want equality when it comes to earning money but not when it comes to doing the hours and riskier tasks. These femislimahs want their husbands to be simps, dayooths and slaves essentially. Feminism is female narcissism.

[@yusufabdulsalam]

Hey Mahdi, the red flag landing page isn't available anymore.

[@ziadshams5220]

bro i never saw somebody think the way you think its making me have tears of joy and I feel that I am not all alone in this world

[@alimamulma3sum14]

Ohhh we're actually dying for her😢

[@georgeaskeladd742]

I feel so so sorry for masculine and freedom loving girls growing up in a muslim household. Imagine being forced into something you don't want to do while your brothers can live your dreams. Horrible. Let women speak and have a choice