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[@sidrahh28]

questions asked: 1. Their faith and values? How much do they prioritise their prayers or any question you’d like 2.Finances How will you manage your finances and how much does he/she expect you to work 3. Personal affairs Don’t mention the past. Ask if they’re ready to commit to this. 4.Children 5. Residential problems

[@aleena7521]

You actually fulfil your sister responsibilities with us and it’s honestly amazing to get advice from a sister like you

[@azka.yasirr]

You are the nicest 🫶🏼

[@hectorgue8938]

0:32: 💍 Importance of discussing key marriage topics before tying the knot. 3:15: 💑 Importance of discussing personal beliefs and practices before marriage. 6:11: 💍 Essential considerations before marriage for financial responsibility and personal growth. 9:15: 💍 Importance of commitment in relationships and avoiding digging into past for a strong bond. 12:27: ⚖ Importance of sharing household responsibilities in marriage for creating ease and support. 15:39: 💑 Discussing future plans before marriage is crucial for a successful relationship. 18:29: 💑 Importance of communication and compromise in relationships before marriage. Recap by Tammy AI

[@azqaimran1571]

omg dress code thing was one of the first things in my mind to ask cuz I want my man to encourage me wearing modest, not someone who thinks it's being too backward or something along those lines ygm.

[@waqtekkhazaana.]

Same Mawlid pak is most imp ! And very close to heart ❤ Jazakallah sister ❤

[@affys_world]

Yess I also asked these type of questions to my fiance And I realized that we both have the same thinking alhumdulillah☺️ Supportive husband is the biggest blessing of Allah SWT I think if you both on the same page then life becomes more easier lighter and brighter❤️

[@azka.yasirr]

I AGREEE 🤍🤍🤍

[@do.your.research]

Good to know the woman is not obliged to take care of her in-laws. It comes naturally and it's normal, but there are men who DEMAND that as if it was your duty as a woman.

[@h_lieh]

Assalam Alaikum! Thanks for the video. This is the older sister's advice that so many of us need. I think it's also important to clarify their definition and understanding of the hijab. Unfortunately, many people in the South Asian culture view it as something to be worn outside in front of strangers when it should also be worn in front of cousins. This can lead to disputes and unnecessary misunderstandings (speaking from personal experience). I also found it interesting how my opinion on milad is quite the opposite actually as I cannot marry someone who participates in it. This is a bidah (innovation) that is mainly found in the South Asian region. The sahabas loved the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) a lot and there is no authentic hadith to show them performing milaad. The Prophet (SAW) gave us very clear ways of showing our love for him such as reciting durood, following the Quran and Sunnah, etc and anything that is not found in the Sunnah is an innovation. I respect your decision but I think it is important as Muslims to guide each other. I would advise you to watch Dr Israr Ahmed's take on this and also Mufti Menk's. JazakAllah for the video❤

[@anncabras3961]

Waaleikum salam, I wholeheartedly agree with both of your points❤

[@abudanyaalabumousa1552]

The most important point to look at when getting married after the point of religious faith and reputation is to look FIRST for the suiting father/mother for future children. When someone is in your eyes a good father/mother and everything else is fine or okay go for it. Don't chase a hard to find fairy tale prince/princess.

[@zaynab_____chaudry]

May Allah SWT bless everyone with a good spouse Amen ❤️

[@azka.yasirr]

Aamen 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@Hannah-sg4sr]

I like the way you did your hijab this style looks so pretty on you Azka

[@EverythingEverything0]

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[@itssmomina]

May Allah make it easy for everyone Amen❤

[@ARxmz]

JZK sister Aameen. Please make dua for us too that we only find the right person and Allah blesses us all Aameen

[@simraarfi3021]

It's really helpful 💛 جزاكلله خير

[@Rajaas_Reading_Corner]

Mashallah, you bring up very good points. They are essential and fair expectations to discuss.💜

[@nadira1972]

Such an informative video Azka aapi! Many people often feel hesitant to ask some questions and suffer later just because it wasn’t discussed in the first place. May Allah(swt) you with more guidance and wisdom🤍

[@hasansyed692]

mashaAllah tabaarakAllah 2:28 appreciate the courage to say that despite ppl and haters online who may not agree w it

[@faizameah4362]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6CmaauuprJloqc mawlid is a bid’ah. the companions of RasulAllah ‎ﷺ never celebrated it in the Prophet’s ‎ﷺ lifetime or after his death. so how can we come 1000 years later and say that this is “mustahab” when it’s actually an innovation?

[@Kaltunhashi]

Haqq

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

Facts

[@hayazd9743]

This video is 10/10.👌just want to add one more topic which is ' BOUNDARIES ' like both of them know what are the boundaries of the other person which they can't compromise on, which sister azka also talks about in this video. AGAIN YOU ARE THE BEST, GIRLLLL💖 MAY ALLAH BLESS U 💓.

[@azka.yasirr]

thank you my lovely!!! 🫶🏼 such a nice comment!

[@Rugiatu-kanu]

thanks sis it's very helpful ❤️❤️

[@azqaimran1571]

subhan Allah barakallahu feekum such a beneficial video lots of love may Allah SWT Make you both amongst His most beloved slaves

[@ayeshamaqbool9691]

Thank you for the video ! I was afraid it’ll take some time but it came out so fast !! Loved your advices. ❤

[@azka.yasirr]

no problem! I am glad it’s been helpful 🤍

[@shaikhanam9505]

Jazakallah hu khair..

[@samairaahmed4200]

Masha'allah sister this a great video with many essential points. I would also recommend meeting the person few times in order to get more jist of their behaviour and how they are with their families. Also parents/guardians need to investigate and do their research on the guy and their family so they can be more assured. One another valid point to check the social media of the guy. Is he following sinful things, what type of friends and social life he has. E.g going out too much, partying shisha. I hope this helps everyone here insha'allah

[@azka.yasirr]

some good points 👏🏽

[@zaynab_____chaudry]

May Allah SWT bless you for always sharing good topics with us Amen ❤️

[@azka.yasirr]

I try! Aamen 🫶🏼

[@safiahmunawar4432]

OMG i got scared when yasir spoke 😀😀because i was really paying attention what u were saying.😅

[@khadijaaithmid5536]

Thank u Azka :) greetings from Morocco

[@gmsayed9]

You re such a cutie xx 😘 lots of duas for ya ukhti ❤

[@aleenaabid5666]

Such a helpful video. Thank you 😊

[@azka.yasirr]

You are most welcome 🫶🏼

[@keivanf6157]

Sorry mawlid is bid’ah

[@mohammedislam413]

You have considered some great points as a point of discussion before going for a marriage. However, points such as career and goals, we should not have our independent preferences rather we should prefer deen over duniyah. Sometimes in life we may make bad decisions because we are not the best planners! Also I think you are sharing your preferences at times also (with all due respect it is only my thoughts based on your video). But thanks for the insightful ones.

[@mansuramohd.9770]

Ameen ya rab ❤️

[@WahidYuhana]

Walaikum assalam warahmatullah Masha Allah ✌️

[@arhanshorts_3448.]

Great video sister

[@umaibak2296]

I think it is also very important to discuss the topic of polygamy. If you are not ok with it, please discuss it before marriage and also mention it in your nikah contract.

[@afreenshk]

What does it mean?

[@umaibak2296]

@@afreenshk Polygamy is permissible in Islam. But many women are not ok with their husband taking a second wife. If you are not comfortable with it, discuss it with your potential partner. You can also put a condition in your nikah contract that if your husband take a second wife without your permission, then you can ask for divorce and he should give it to you. If you are ok with it, then there is no problem. But if you are not, then mention it earlier.

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

Allah made polygamy halal. No one can make haram what Allah made halal

[@mar1achaudhry43]

Thanks ❤️

[@ruheekhan6456]

Thank you for this I just saw this video and I have subscribed

[@azka.yasirr]

welcome to the fam 💕

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

Mawlid is a bidah

[@zaynab_____chaudry]

Such a informative vlog ❤️

[@azka.yasirr]

Thank you!!

[@samankhan2954]

How can I say that I don't have a syster ....I have my Azka appi 🥺💖Allahumma barik ✨

[@azka.yasirr]

😢♥️♥️♥️

[@fa2ma2]

thank youu

[@SamiaZaheen]

There are tonnes of guidelines for career advancement, beauty , health and other daily life skills but I had no knowledge regarding preparation for married life. Thank you for educating me❤️❤️

[@junedahmed7153]

i had rather say for personal affairs(work) that focus on rights , the rights of women in islam which includes right to work) and grow up men whats wrong wid u u aint giving rights to ur wifes.u would not be happy then . " LIVE WITH YOUR WIFE ON ACCEPTABLE TERMS". refrernece holy book quran and yes MARRY SOMEONEWHO ADDS VALUE TO YOUR LIFE AND CONTINUE YOUR LEGACY (that u had built up) ask allah to never make your spouses be a test to you , the world is already enuff of it, though we ask allah to never expose us to tests anywhere

[@daadir3042]

One day i will marry a good girl in sha Allah. I will ask Allah to give me a good girl.

[@RoseGoldFemininity]

🎉🎉🎉

[@user-fg3lq6dd6w]

❤❤

[@ZoyaGaming-um9uk]

Assalamualaikum Please reply me I had a doubt My parents want to send my pics without hijab Which I'm not want to share with any boys For rishete so want can I do They are forcing me to not to wear hijab 🧕 Alhamdulillah I am hijabi , With hijab also may parents took pics but the in this generation thought what could I tell they don't want my pic with hijab And allow to take pic but to show to girls only now what to do Please reply This is raised a big issue to me

[@AzkaShaikh-yr4ew]

Sister try to make them understand with a good clear conversation with peaceful mind Hope you get a good partner inshallah 💖💖💖

[@waqtekkhazaana.]

❤❤❤❤

[@mayg7415]

Q1: I am looking for a virgin, because I am also one, and I want someone who shares my values.

[@iNikkah]

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[@848545f]

im 27 years old i never had a girlfriend before i never kissed a girl and im a virgin. i never smoked cigarettes shisha or drunk alcohol and im proud of my self. But thats why my future wife has to be a virgin too BUT if i wasnt my virgin my self i shouldnt and couldnt expect a virgin wife too

[@toobaali8763]

thank you, in shaa Allah it will help me in future. if you don't mind can you share your pov on milaad as you said you have studied it in deep and very well, i have done it too but what if i can get some knowledge from you (you can also share the link of website from which you have study). Moreover Allah knows the best.

[@azka.yasirr]

Jazakillah my lovely! As I mentioned in the video I am honestly not here to discuss this further but arguments Shykh Tahir Ul Qadri gives have touched my heart the most! I am linking one of his videos but he has published a lot of videos and books on this with references from ahadiths and Quran! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXSxamyjn6xnaLM Ps: I have taken the course in a centre from someone who has spent their entire life learning and teaching Islam comprehensively. I have not studied though a website as I believe knowledge online is incomplete and without context/background.

[@toobaali8763]

@@azka.yasirr Jazakillah khayran, i understand you.May Allah bless you and full fill your wishes by making them good for you. Remember me in your dua'a, i badly want to do such course too.

[@user-vx9fh1zj5d]

My First question, did you have a bf

[@waqtekkhazaana.]

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[@auraezahra]

I'm 20 (pakistani) and my mom is starting to look for rishtas for me and I just want to curl up in a ball and stop existing i'm so scared

[@TheFajarSunrise]

In sha Allah it all goes well for you, remember the decision is yours in the end so make sure you are happy, (I’m a yr younger than u)

[@subhams159]

My question will be -do you have any bf and you are not happy with your family decision LoL This is modern generation and this is the most Important question need to be asked!!

[@azka.yasirr]

this is against Islam but everyone has their choice to make :)

[@ahmadsheikh7396]

Api ap urdu ma nahi bata sakti meri english weak ha

[@besmela2462]

Thank you for this video but in minute 2:30 I have to note something. sister if you follow the Sunnah you should not celebrate mawlid. It is a bidaa,innovation Please take this advise serious and research about it

[@GoalEternity78]

i'm seening this video on1.5x speed with so much focus and then ur husband interrupted hey meri shirt pehnihai , Iwas literall y sacred and saw my behind whose there and then found is ur husband , bhai sambhal ke abhi heart attack aane hi wala tah😅 , by the way so much love from India to you guys

[@greenland4475]

Can you share where did you study about mawlid evidence?

[@liby254]

she has no evidence. Its an innovation and a misguidance in the religion.

[@abbas.1909]

We also celebrate mawlid 😍 الحمدللہ I found your channel, I'm looking for a pious wife, how to find ? 😅

[@azka.yasirr]

Alhumdulillah! Be pious yourself and Allah will grant you a pious partner, inshaAllah ✨

[@mahbubahmed7]

I don't see how a wife who is more focused on her career and working outside the home benefits her husband when it is forbidden in Islam for a husband to take anything from his wife's earnings.

[@greengrapes5182]

She can share her income if she wants

[@mahbubahmed7]

@@greengrapes5182 "if she wants". Only men with no brain cells will fall for it

[@dia6027]

Fake accent exists!!!

[@sarahkamal7713]

Pure bakwaas.

[@lubnakhan1716]

Assalam o Alaikum Azka Ma'am! kindly view my message in DM & email