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@rsmrychacon13 Жыл бұрын
Love to see her growth and own up to her mistakes and make changes she needed to make bc not many influencers do. This podcast made me change my perspective about Cindy, wishing her all the best and success in her future, I’m all here for it! ❤
@haliear01 Жыл бұрын
This girl literally spoke my whole life to the exact point with the relationships, the kids, the dad, the mom everything! Crazy to think that some people deal with the same exact thing & we sometimes feel like we’re the only ones getting dragged through life…. Either way God bless 🙏
@karinadominguez255511 ай бұрын
I related
@yesenialeon4037 Жыл бұрын
Low key, I got teary eyed a lot. I’m so sorry you don’t have a relationship with your parents. My parents and my entire family are close and I can’t see myself without them ❤
@nikkihernandez7676 Жыл бұрын
Same 😢
@redjem8810 Жыл бұрын
Although that might be the case for some, consider yourself so lucky & blessed! and I love to hear others so close to their family, because it just reminds me that just because my famiy (toxic) is this way it doesnt mean I cant build a loving family of my own. Because some families are literally out here tryna sabotage and create conflict out of jealousy of their own children. Its sad.
@AMAvila-ur9fe Жыл бұрын
After watching this whole interview I have to say this really changed my mind about mustbecindy she is really humble thank you for sharing this
@roxanaespinosa9672 Жыл бұрын
As a baby momma she’s so mature not all woman wants peace when it comes to co parent
@LaMeraVane Жыл бұрын
Yesss it’s so rare unfortunately but that’s how I am with my baby daddy as well.
@katgigixo Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast ! Omg I didn’t know much about mustbecindy but this made me see her in a different light ! I love her ❤ you can hear the hurt in her voice of all she went through 😭
@user-vs4qm1ys9o Жыл бұрын
Take a shot every time she says “at the end of the day” 😂😂
@koartehz Жыл бұрын
And “obviamente” 😂
@jennifergamboa6150 Жыл бұрын
at the end of the day, we would all be drunk. 😂
@ariesshine1857 Жыл бұрын
I k r 😂🙄
@spookysally9 Жыл бұрын
Or how Alan fucks up every spanish word he says lol
@marinelg25 Жыл бұрын
Ughh I wanted to listen but that sentence would trigger me. She’s nice but needs to change her wording.
@leslyegonzalez8788 Жыл бұрын
We love you Cindy! Thank you for being vulnerable on this podcast but also for always staying true to yourself 🤍
@Ruthnunez1412 Жыл бұрын
I loved this podcast! I always see her on all social media but didn’t know who she really was. Now I’m on my way to follow her ❤
@mimisss9273 Жыл бұрын
Same!!
@LaJefa691 Жыл бұрын
She’s still nobody always trying to sell you something that is literal crap 🤦🏻♀️
@user-od5ni8zd5j Жыл бұрын
@@LaJefa691that’s her job! Hello!!
@redjem8810 Жыл бұрын
Really liked this podcast, I watched mostly due to the title and hearing her story of cutting off her parents. Narcissistic family relationships are real, not all mothers or father's are created equal. More info needs to be put out there to spot these toxic relationships. Just because their "our mother" doesnt make it okay. Lot of self healing and blessings to you all who relate.
@BarblinaCT30 Жыл бұрын
Such a good episode, Cindy is so genuine! Love her 🤍
@ariesshine1857 Жыл бұрын
Genuine ? She's a racist & sensitive bully on her fb page
@ginamariecruz5069 Жыл бұрын
This is probably the BEST interview thus far. So down to earth ❤
@jocelyncruz8031 Жыл бұрын
Wow I’ll be honest this is the first time I hear about Cindy , but Damm her relationship with her parents is so so similar to my situation with my parents 🥺 My mom has always been such a toxic mother , she’s been a provider which i will always be grateful for but as mother , man , she’s never been the type to ever be happy , like genuine happy for her kids , me and my siblings are older now and each one of us have our own lives , for the grace of god we are not super well off but we are all good , financially compared how we where growing up and our mom has never told us that she’s proud of us , that she loves us , pretty much just calls us when she needs money , and when ever we tell her we can’t or no , we are those worse kids to her , be littles us in social media , says that she don’t have kids , and just bashes us all the time . Last year she was diagnosed with HIV and for that time we thought she wasent going to make it because of how I’ll she got . For a couple months all my siblings and her where the closest we have ever been , but guess what it’s been almost a year since she got diagnosed and she is still the same toxic person . She doesn’t care about having a good relationship with her daughters knowing now that her time is limited , she still says things that mentally hurts us and like Cindy said that shit puts such a load on you mentally that at the end of the day you just want to just say fuck it , you want to have a good relationship with someone who doesn’t care how they are making you feel , they are kicking you down while you already down and worse just draining you in every way possible . At this point my siblings and I are done trying and tying to have a relationship with our mom as sad as it sounds but we have to be realistic she is going to die being the same toxic person she has always been , all we can do is break that cycle and take care of our mental health.
@jessicamora7585 Жыл бұрын
Coming from someone that knows nothing about mustbecindy and seeing how her name is usually in some drama, i actually kinda like her she seems humble and a good mom and super pretty 😇
@Dellalove71811 ай бұрын
I haven’t really watched mustbecindy like that but watching this really makes me admire her. I relate to her so much from distancing my self to my parents, teen pregnancy and she is super down to earth.
@JenniferRodriguez-ik7om Жыл бұрын
Definitely will start following her on social media now that you introduced me to her ❤
@yvettep6841 Жыл бұрын
Watching this makes me admire Cindy even more she's such a strong person with beautiful heart ❤
@Girl6ta Жыл бұрын
So proud of her and her grace, unmatched!!! Loved that she shared this and was so open. ❤
@AshleySantiago-lv7es10 ай бұрын
I just started following her on tik tok today and I seen her little snippet of this episode and I’m not even half way through and I’m teary eyed at how her manager already knew she was gonna make it this far 🥹🥹 hearing stories like this give me hope ❤
@yourlucidnightmare72132 ай бұрын
Awe such a touching story with her being a racist :(
@kayshlabrignoni5431 Жыл бұрын
Cindy you are so humble and very inspirational. I always love watching your video, you are an amazing mom! We love you ❤
@jessicaguzman6655 Жыл бұрын
I love must be Cindy as a mature mother! it just shows how happy she is.
@pattyluna6701 Жыл бұрын
I did not know Cindy until the recent Rockem event in Houston. What a beautiful person inside & out. Now i can binge watch all her videos!!💕 Alan, you always give me the chills when you say things that everyone can relate to.🥰
@monicaarzola7471 Жыл бұрын
Omggg this hit home! Being a single mom of 2 this makes me look at things so much different. Wow Cindy you’re so humble and inspirational you are such a beautiful person🫶🏼💕
@lllxoxo Жыл бұрын
I have a toxic/manipulative mom who does very similar things that your mom also does. Those who do not have a toxic parent, will never understand. Yeah, it’s our mom, and that’s what makes it not okay. They are our moms and it’s not okay for them to continue with these toxic patterns. As a mom I also am setting down my boundaries and distancing from my mom. Seriously, the best podcast ❤️
@Miss_Alena. Жыл бұрын
What minute does she talk about her mom? I have a mom like that who I currently don't have a relationship with
@joana2331 Жыл бұрын
X2
@AustimADHDAdvocate Жыл бұрын
Same here 😪
@BrendaG18 Жыл бұрын
Your mental health is more Important. Keep your boundaries up! And always put yourself first.
@redjem8810 Жыл бұрын
@@Miss_Alena. this is a toxic relationship unfortunately that some mothers have with their daughters. Most of the time it is due to Narcissism. I just learned this from my experiences with my mother and reading up on these traits and childhoods. Its traumatizing. Having No Contact, is the one solution to get out of the drama.
@mayramendoza5778 Жыл бұрын
I love her I follow her for a while now and after all the chismes and hate and people wanting to bring her down she still stands strong and keeps going.❤ and she deserves the same as other influencers she has been threw so much.
@fabiolaperez5715 Жыл бұрын
Love Cindy , wish I could give that girl a big hug .. she deserves all the happiness 💕
@karinamartinez1081 Жыл бұрын
Idk why but i can connect so much with everything she is saying family wise♥️ love you mustbe♥️
@Kristenlmonarrez Жыл бұрын
Love this!!! Cindy you’re a boss babe!! Congratulations on all your success 🎉❤
@nathanfuentes4563 Жыл бұрын
she’s so real i’m definitely a new fan now lol I LOVE U ALAN U REALLY KNOW HOW TO INTERVIEW SO WELL !!!! ALSO U LOOL BOMB
@Rosie-ro8qg Жыл бұрын
I love Cindy so much! She really is a kind soul
@mariaortiz5733 Жыл бұрын
I completely cut ties with my mother. It’s been 3 yrs of peace but unfortunate that it feels like I have no mother like she’s actually unalive. I was going through postpartum depression after giving birth and she came from another state to help. Me of course being grateful but she just rubbed it in my face that I SHOULD give her money buy her things buy her a house retire her, which I wish I could but I can’t even do that for myself yet. It’s sad a parent rubs in your face that you owe them because they brought you to this world and raised you. I just know I will never rub something like that to my child because I chose to keep the child in my belly for 9month and I chose to raise this child. My child is not obligated to owe me anything.
@joana2331 Жыл бұрын
Your not alone I have 6yrs
@estefanihernandez4848 Жыл бұрын
ALAN! You took the constructive criticism from the last podcast!! Yay! Ya se que te gusta hablar but Im glad you’re letting your guest finish their sentences and not jumping in and interrupting!! Thank you for that!!🫶🏼🫶🏼
@melissamartinez5451 Жыл бұрын
I love these because I’ve seen her all over social media but never really watched her & I love her more cause of this episode!🥺
@jocelyngaribay4372 Жыл бұрын
This podcast is everything ! I love how Cindy always puts her babies first so beautiful 😍
@krystaljazz6341 Жыл бұрын
Puts her babies first!??😂 She has had so many different men around them
@SereneEdenasmr Жыл бұрын
@@krystaljazz6341shit happens. If a relationship is toxic why would she stay? You sound bitter and your exactly the people she is talking about lol
@Sweetieee Жыл бұрын
Is no one gonna talk about how he was 18 & she was 14, even if she lied about being 15 she was still underage😕
@jissellerivas5280 Жыл бұрын
Totally cringed at that.
@char707 Жыл бұрын
Cindy is such a beautiful person inside and out 😭♥️
@yourlucidnightmare72132 ай бұрын
Uhh...did you hear that she is racist? Also beautiful people inside and out don't have large self portraits of themselves in their home. That's some narcissitic cr*p
@elizabethmasushita936 Жыл бұрын
Mi. 35:24 i 1000% relate to her! When my mom was going thru anxiety/panic attacks i was always there to comfort her & let her know everything was going to be ok but than i got anxiety from seeing her and i felt completely alone because she wasn’t there for me like how i was instead of helping me she would call me una exagerada or just putting me down! Later on the road she got anxiety again and this time i didn’t pay no attention to her whatsoever because at the end of the day i was there for her & everyone else BUT no one was there for me when i needed them 😢
@BksSweetdimples Жыл бұрын
So good!!!!!!!!! Started watching for over 2 years now she will go far because shes not full of shit. She keeps it real and all products she promotes are great. Never ever disappointed. Congrats to the both of you!
@arleneparra5834 Жыл бұрын
Great interview 👍 been watching her for the past 6 years. She has grown so much and 😢has taken alot from haters😢 she is so resilient. God bless you and your family ❤🙏🙌
@gabzpulido8262 Жыл бұрын
IDC what anyone says .. I literally love must be Cindy I think she’s the most Transparent influencer and she’s humble ❤ if you’ve been around long enough you know . !
@yourlucidnightmare72132 ай бұрын
Sh*t she loves being racist that's for sure. At least you're honest. Two peas in the same pod hun
@celiamendoza5102 Жыл бұрын
Loved this podcast Must Be Cindy is amazing prayers
@user-ft2jo3xk1v Жыл бұрын
It makes me sad when she talks about the moment she didn’t have food to feed her kids and she took them to her moms that she didn’t feel comfortable going to her baby daddies to feed them :/ like that’s so sad that she felt it was all on her and couldn’t count on them.. at least that’s what it sounds like :( she’s really strong
@catherinemedina5307 Жыл бұрын
Shes such a inspiration to all !!
@ariesshine1857 Жыл бұрын
No ma'am not all , please speak for yourself ,,
@Rolothecholo Жыл бұрын
Alan🤩 I love how you’ve kept all that unnecessary weight off , you look snatched foo! Keep on looking GREAT & for anyone struggling with their weight ; you got this 👍🏼I was big 1/2 of my life … I’ve always been 4’11 but the biggest I’ve been is 250lbs 😮I’m 37 now and living a healthy lifestyle (97 lbs (still 4’11)😊🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🇲🇽💪🏼
@lissetmorales1046 Жыл бұрын
her nose is cute wth !! people are weird ! you are a bad ass mom cindy give props how much you have succeed👏🏻❤ you are a boss!
@amberschannel6351 Жыл бұрын
Omg her story is similar to mine I feel everything she’s saying ❤ I have 3 also was a teen mom but I am blessed to have my beautiful children!❤❤❤
@flourishingwithaleo1365 Жыл бұрын
Girl you just earned a new subscriber 😘 thank you for being raw and honest
@yarihernandez_ Жыл бұрын
Alan saying “2001” instead of 2021 is me 🤣🤣
@vero7689m Жыл бұрын
Was looking in the comments I was like what did he said 😂😂
@lavidadelayaya4785 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this podcast! You can tell she’s soo mature🤍
@morisgarciaw Жыл бұрын
This interview is so good. I love Mustbecindy. 🙂 i like Brandon for her they're both goofy and funny and fun 👏🏼
@tatianaquesadaaddress2499 Жыл бұрын
God bless you cindy your a strong woman and you got this I was 15 too with my son now I’m 46 and I feel my best life is now ❤
@cesiilunaj. Жыл бұрын
I loved her story time! ❤ Go Cindy! Just bc you have the same blood doesn’t mean you have to have a relationship with them you can love them from a distance ❤ peace is always first & god knows how our hearts are deep down when it comes to the love we have for them ❤ 😢 Sadly parents can sometimes be too toxic
@vivianachavez4688 Жыл бұрын
Wow I’ve never actually watched her but she seems like a bad ass mom I’m subscribing now ❤ Alan good job love the show!! 😊
@jessicaguzman6655 Жыл бұрын
So I remember judging Cindy for not talking to her mom even as a supporter. I got a signed box with her makeup brush collab that she did last year. I never buy influencers' merch or anything. Anyways, I went and saw the drama her mom caused, it was obvious that her mom wanted the attention. It really reminded me of my mom. We are very similar in age. Well, this year even living on my mom's property I pulled away from my mom. I feel like I reflected back and was like okay I get Cindy and why she cut her own mom off. I just want peace after going through so much darkness.
@zule113 Жыл бұрын
Why hasn’t alan hit 1 million yet 🥺🎂🫶🥳
@GinasKitchen-lr7yp Жыл бұрын
Your a great mom girl I swear you protect your baby girl get your $$$ girl u are so humble thank you Alan for bringing bringing her
@rossyruiz-felix4385 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Cindy! ❤ Literally GOD doesn't give you anything you can't handle and look at you and everything you have overcome and what you have grown into. #MOOSEBEE4LYFE
@disneyplusfashion9189 Жыл бұрын
I agree so much with Cindy my daughters Dad and I we are technically best friends and we split up when she was 4 she’s now 12 and we have birthdays and holidays together it’s not about the adults but the kids❤ Love this episode
@clairesantos-gonzalez2822 Жыл бұрын
Love you Cindy!! 🩷 May God keep blessing you always babe!! 🫶🏻✨ Keep shinning this world needs your light! ✨✨✨✨
@llesiniajimenez1383 Жыл бұрын
Ugh I loved this one !!! I admire Cindy fore being such a hustler !!!!💕
@user-yk4vf2ni2r11 ай бұрын
Proud of Cindy for telling her story
@AllergicToNonsense Жыл бұрын
This was an Awesome Awesome interview Alannized 👏🏻…….. your questions were on POINT 👍🏼…. We really got to see the real MUSTBECINDY here 💛 ( She’s always been Real ) but for her to open up and talk about private issues in her life makes you understand her and many others. I can honestly say, her better Version is NOW ! Good for you @MustbeCindy échale ganas y pa delante. God Bless You moving forward. Texas Girl 🌵 🤠
@Kellykellzxoxo10 ай бұрын
I love that she lives her truth! Idc what anyone has to say about her.
@Lizz1xo Жыл бұрын
I CAN HELLA RELATE WITH THE WHOLE PARENTS PART 😢😢😢💔💔💔 ITS SAID THAT ITS MORE PEACEFUL AWAY FROM THEM BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU WISH THEY WERE JUST THERE💯 BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM BUT UGHHH I FEEL YOU 💯 CINDY‼️‼️‼️‼️
@ashleyyymartinez3419 Жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that noticed that he said 2001 instead of 2021 ? But I love this for the both of y’all 🥰
@PatriciaRamirez-ht2kj Жыл бұрын
One of your best episode......very well put together.....and much love to cindy!!!! Love me some mosbe!!!!
@nursemnm Жыл бұрын
Awww her nose is cute! God couldn’t decide if he wanted her to have your nose or her dads so he gave her both. Gives her character ❤
@melsalcaraz Жыл бұрын
I have been watching you since middle school and watching you grow into a beautiful person and having your own family I’m so happy for you 🤍🤍
@paolaherrera119 Жыл бұрын
I’m not gonna lie before I was upset at something Cindy said in the past but she has changed and has proved herself. That stalker girl did not have to do all of that and that is so hurtful. Cindy is so mature
@lisetsalazar5109 Жыл бұрын
What did she say? What was she talking about?
@yourlucidnightmare72132 ай бұрын
Idk but I don't like racists
@elisworld191 Жыл бұрын
I Lovee Cindy been following her from the very beginning ❤️she deserves all the success
@cindyrocha3234 Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how my life has been so similar to Cindy’s ❤ love you girl y que mi Dios Padre te Bendiga siempre 🥹
@taniaramirez5396 Жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful I got to meet this beautiful soul I literally have been watching her since before she blew up when she got her own first place working at the bank the early morning get ready with me we live u mustbee
@MizzEnerG Жыл бұрын
Good interview Alan! Cindy is such a good role model to all girls and some girls need to remember we are all humans and not perfect. Much love Alan & Cindy!
@nursemnm Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching Cindy since before MustbeCindy. She use to go live in a makeup group, just hanging out eating her Cheetos and lime juice in the kitchen. Her apartment days. The Olivia days IYKYK
@itseliromero1395 Жыл бұрын
Glam & gossip days!
@HarborareaWilmas Жыл бұрын
Yes with the roaches on the kitchen 😂😭🫠
@nursemnm Жыл бұрын
@@itseliromero1395 yup
@nursemnm Жыл бұрын
@@HarborareaWilmas that’s it
@iambethvee Жыл бұрын
I didn’t really know about her besides the chisme that had popped up on my fyp on her mom and the racist comments she did. She genuinely seems like a great person. She definitely gained a follower 🖤
@isabellacapetillo618 Жыл бұрын
I loved loved how Mustbecindy is so humble like she went through lots of stuff through her life pero mírala nomás ahora toda una mamá de 2 buen luchona pero solo ella sabe lo que pasó para que ella sea lo que es en la vida she’s so humble like omgoood I love her please bring her again .. osea her vibe is so chill pero también tiene sus ratos de craziness but she being so humble .. that makes her unique because not everyone is humble porque se les olvida de donde vienen y así .. pero seeing Mustbecindy being humble and she being her own self is a beautiful person ❤️❤️ her and Kati bond is so beautiful like they literally best friends nd i love that because not everyone gets to experience that .. but I just love Mustbecindy seeing go live alone or go live with her beautiful daughter 💗💗 ALAN BRING MUSTBECINDY SOON !! this has been one of my favorite podcast ever !! I luv it !! 💗💗👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
@laurenalyssatovar4285 Жыл бұрын
Such an amazing episode! 🥰🤍 Love you Mosbee, thank you for always being so real and staying true to yourself ✨🩷👑🐝 Keep shining baby girl! Love you and your beautiful little family so very much! 🤍
@myaavila8148 Жыл бұрын
This podcast really got to me today with Cindy! It’s crazy I was thinking and saying why me why is this happening to me with a toxic parent crazy to know I’m not the only one…
@yadiraaorozco Жыл бұрын
Loved this podcast!! Cindy you are one strong momma 💖
@myrna1498 Жыл бұрын
Awww she has such a good heart ❤️
@lil.shawttyyy3 Жыл бұрын
I love her way of thinking💯🫶🏻
@jessm319 Жыл бұрын
I had to go back to make sure he said 2001 not 2021 😂
@jcream737 Жыл бұрын
wowwww 😻 i always knew of Cindy but this interview really changed my perspective on how her personality truly is 🩷 and shes beautiful, a true inspiration 🫶🏼✨
@lexytapia9810 Жыл бұрын
Love this podcast ❤Cindy love her she’s amazing mom and love her personality and everything else 💗
@TheAnayafamily Жыл бұрын
I love this podcast so much🔥 ❤🎉
@Stepphhy Жыл бұрын
AHHHH NOT YOU MAD AT PANCHO PANCHEETO 🤣🤣
@FaviolaSerrano Жыл бұрын
Much love & support guys !! 💕
@jacquelinesanchez9363 Жыл бұрын
I started following @mustbecindy after her drama with pica pica , I totally liked how transparent and real she is 👏 💜
@Psychocindee Жыл бұрын
I can say that as a viewer of MustbeCindy I can say she’s been the same person since day one. Obviously more mature now and more self aware. Good for her. Cus I was a witness of her being bully and attack and it was ridiculous.
@shadyshadow5765 Жыл бұрын
31:09 😢😭😭 that’s when I busted out crying bc I feel that
@Latina.glamour Жыл бұрын
Best podcast I’ve watched from Alannized so far just WOW ! ❤
@carolinacruz5475 Жыл бұрын
You’re amazing Queen ❤ We love you
@Ckarina07 Жыл бұрын
21:12 I agree 100% with Cindy. At the end of the day it’s always for the kids!
@mariachavez3077 Жыл бұрын
❤ enjoyed this episode ! I love me some Mustbecindy 🥰🙏🏻 bendiciones
@lupehernandez7956 Жыл бұрын
I love mustbecindy shes so real and I love her mindset ❤❤ love you queen!
@541Beautylious Жыл бұрын
AND TO THOSE ADULTS THAT BULLY CHILDREN. YOU ALL ARE COWARDS. LEAVE CHILDREN ALONE.
@jaquiesoto3794 Жыл бұрын
she so beautiful, and inspiring 💜✨
@Schmuckfoo Жыл бұрын
Such a great insight into the coparenting relationship.
@xoxamxo Жыл бұрын
Loved this 🫶🏽💓
@erlindafreeman123 Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you mija may God keep blessing you and your family mija love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉congratulations ❤