My 91-Year-Old Grandfather Enters Nursing Home | Breakfast in the Garden | Japan, Vlog

Hi, I am Kuro.
In this KZbin channel, I will show you how my family lives, focusing on my mother and grandparents.
We live in Hokkaido, Japan.
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*This video has been translated into over 70 languages.
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▼ Chapter
0:00 Opening
0:13 About my grandpa
1:32 Breakfast in the garden
4:25 My grandpa enters the nursing home
5:15 Flowers in the park
6:52 Have tea at grandparents house
7:44 Ending
▼ Shooting equipment
Camera: SONY α7 III ILCE-7M3, DJI Mavic Air 2
Microphone: SONY ECM-B10
Lens: TAMRON 28-75mm F/2.8 Di III RXD
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[@amadeowolfl6943]

私の父は95歳。 母が亡くなってから雪国で一人暮らし。 ５年目です。 一緒に暮らそうといくら説得しても、 私の住む都会はむりだといいます。 三度の食事も自分で作り、車の運転もし、畑もし、 雪降ろしもします。 先日、わらび採ってきたからと宅急便が。 涙がこぼれました。 私は夫の両親と私の母の病気や介護で長年苦労しましたが、 今、一番楽をさせてもらってます。

[@fgm819]

もし私が歳を取って認知症になっても、こんなふうに感謝ができたらいいな…

[@venea1000]

Your grandfather is a superstar! My dad had dementia.... it's a horrible thing. But the people we love are still in there. Your grandfather is so gentle. To have so much love around him really means he has given a lot of love and a lot of himself to everyone. What a giant!

[@airportnurse3380]

Such a beautiful video Kuro! I'm a nurse who works with dementia patients, so I know it was probably a very hard decision for your family. Thanks for sharing your corner of the world with us!

[@youk2545]

認知症が進んでも感謝の言葉を忘れないお祖父様、素敵ですね。今、その言葉を忘れている人は多いです。歳をとっても人の気質は変わらないとはその通り。自分自身、大切な事をいつまでも忘れないようにしたいです。

[@hana.the.writer5074]

I seen it in my late Aunt.. after I visited her before the last time I was going to see her alive as I got up to leave I noticed her following me.. I thought she may have thought she came with me and that now we were leaving so I told her it was ok, she could stay but she surprised me by telling me, “I must see you to the door!”. She was known as a person of great hospitality and that one thing was miraculously embedded in her regardless. I respected her and appreciated it for her as she wished me luck and well-being. She’s had a housekeeper at home for more than 20 years.. after my Aunt who survived by her son and his family who lived with her departed us the housekeeper could not stay said, “it is too much to bear. I cannot stay in the house.”. And she left returning back to her country.

[@user-wz3ci3dh6m]

あたたかいご家族ですね 私は介護施設で働いています 大変な時代を生き抜いてこられた方たち 尊敬の気持ちと終の住処を少しでも楽しく過ごしていただきたいと日々奮闘中です すべてのお年寄りが幸せに過ごせますように😊

[@user-zo1ko4lp8m]

Поймала себя на том, что с замиранием смотрела. Сколько уважения и любви вы вложили к старости человека вообще. Благодарю вас и вашу семью!

[@user-cr4zn9bw6d]

ステキなご家族でいつも心があたたかくなります。感謝ってこの世で一番かけがえがないものですね。

[@user-tr9fg9bm9y]

長生きしてください、お祖父さん。

[@user-ll7oz2kv2n]

올 영상은 가슴 저리네요 요양 시설에 들어가시는 할아버님과 잘 다녀오시라는 인사를 하러온 아이들과 대비되어 자연의 이치가 새삼스레 크게 와닿았습니다 살아있다면 누구나 겪을일 할아버님은 따뜻한 가족의 배려와 사랑이있어 분명 맘 든든하고 행복하실거라 생각 됩니다 아름다운 영상 감사합니다.~~^^

[@tecco3665]

ある日突然、私の前に映像として理想だった暮らしが現れました🌲 庭へ続くキッチンのドアからの陽射しに釘付けになった日から、ずっと拝見しています☀️🌻 何十年と重ねられたお二人の時間や丁寧な暮らしが受け継がれているのが、全てから伝わっています✨ 家族の自然な継ながりってこうなんだろうなと、いつも目頭が熱くなります✨ 幸せがいつまでも続きますように…✨

[@user-nv3kr9hl4e]

가족들의 일상들이 참 아름답고 좋습니다. 특히나 할아버지 할머니의 삶은 참 귀하고 소중합니다. 부모를 모시는 어머니의 모습도 아름답고 좋군요. 각박한 세상에서 아름답고 멋진 모습을 담아 영상으로 옮겨주셔서 잘보고 있습니다.

[@baomori4101]

My tears couldn't stop coming down when I was watching😢. Your family is so caring and close. This is what brings the family together. Thank you for sharing this with us🙏.

[@telchung4199]

Same here 😢

[@SrinivasanR-nd1uy]

Saw this video now and liked it very much first time tears came to my eyes i have watched almost 1lakh videos but none touched my heart thanks God bless you all

[@TuckerSP2011]

When you all closed that door and left, I'm sure your grandmother was enveloped in sadness and loss. It's just what I felt. I hope she and grandpa will be ok. 😢 I was able to get an aide to come live in the house with my parents because my father had a stroke and my mother is 90. He had been in a nursing home for a few months while I applied for a government program to allow this. I think he is far happier at home than in a nursing home.

[@arlene1212]

I understand what everyone is going through, we had to put my dad in a nursing home (he was 96). I couldn't care for him anymore, he lived alone. He was on kidney dialysis 3 days a week starting falling etc. It's a hard decision but better for everyone. I visited him everyday (thank goodness it was close). ❤

[@alexandrawilliams7529]

Such a difficult decision. With love to you all.

[@user-rg1lk3iz6i]

kuroさんの優しい、愛がいっぱいの動画を観る事ができました❤ 誰もが年老いて行きますが、お祖父様の様でありたいです。 ちょっと、寂しくて悲しいけれど、何だかとっても心❤️が温かくなりました。

[@MsGabinha]

I know it's hard ( my father is 88) but family love heals and comforts....thanks for share with us!!! 🥰💕💞

[@hannylibrata7236]

family is everything

[@user-sw5ng4sy4d]

Kuroさん、男性なんですね。ずーっと女性だと思ってました。(最近知りました)😅カメラが好きだからなのでしょうか画像が素敵です。きょうの動画癒されて涙が…私も北海道出身で今は東京です。 北海道の暮らし振りなど懐かしく観てます。

[@tokotoko6179]

「慈しみ」という言葉がピッタリな時間。感謝の言葉を忘れない、長年紡いできたお人柄が伝わってくる動画でした。おじいさまが心穏やかに過ごせますように🌸いつも素敵な動画、ありがとうございます😊

[@ginger1900]

Ciao sono le h 19.00 in Italia. Mi avete proprio commosso con questo video. Io ho 72 anni. E condivido i vostri sentimenti per la famiglia. Purtroppo io sono rimasta vedova da pochi mesi. Non potrò arrivare alla vecchiaia insieme a mio marito. I tuoi nonni sono meravigliosi e voi siete una bella famiglia. Grazie per i video mi date speranza. ❤❤

[@user-xc4gx9ze6n]

歳を重ねると　心が透明になっていく　と聞いた事があります。　　　　そうなりたいです。

[@mikedilaw3682]

Respect and admiration for your beautiful family , the flowers Ezo engosaku are very attractive ! Thank you for sharing this Great video !🙏❤💐

[@user-th1bs3rf8l]

누구에게나 공평한 "늙어감 " 여러가지를 생각케 합니다. 부디 할아버님 다시 집으로 돌아 오셔서 할머니와 남은 여생을 사실 수 있기를요 🙏

[@konstancja1406]

Wszystkiego dobrego dla Twojego dziadka i Twojej babci. Widać że są bardzo sympatycznymi i rodzinnym ludźmi .

[@annsh9235]

Спасибо за то, что поделились таким трогательным видео. Это очень отзывается в моём сердце, я понимаю, что я многое не сделала для моего любимого дедушки вовремя 😔 У вас чудесные родные и так прекрасно, что сейчас есть возможность запечатлеть каждый момент жизни ❤

[@user-eg1yu1dt2l]

Пусть у дедушки все будет хорошо и он сможет вернуться домой , всем здоровья !!!💖💖💖

[@valeriebingham1483]

Japan is a calming country and it helps to calm my stress due to living in a big city, big cities are pollution. I wish I can live in Japan and live a happy life. Treasure your grandparents and do not live in the big cities stay away from them, Hugs from New York City.

[@ko-kaku7968]

嫌な話や場面ばかり重なりこんな幸せな時間の過ごし方があるんだ✨と涙が出ました。

[@karmakauffman7445]

Such a beautiful video, both sad to have Grandpa leave his house, but also sweet in how much he is loved by his family! I hope I am filled with love and gratitude when I am old. I hope Grandpa will be happy in elder care and that he will be able to come back home. ❤

[@oksanashchenkh2547]

Such a nice video! It’s a little bit frustrating due to your grandpa’s leaving home 🏡. At those moments you always think how short a human’s life is, how fast it passes by…. ( I’ve just remembered my dad and wept a little ) But you gave us a beautiful hope with fantastic spring flowers (in your tough climate) and cute kids who visit the old! ❤❤❤ So heartwarming!!! A link of generations! 😊😊😊It really makes things more optimistic!

[@ricardor1963]

Quando comecei a ver o vídeo me deu um aperto no ❤ Posso dizer que chorei.E muito triste a velhice,mas quem tem uma família linda,doce e unida consegue abrandar os ❤❤❤.Um grande beijinho para todos e muita coragem e força . Parabéns por serem assim. A vida é assim Nascemos, crescemos e vamos para o sítio que Deus quer! muito amor e carinho para sua avó e mãe.Obrigada KURO ! VIRGÍNIA RODRIGUES. PORTUGAL

[@user-nt4pl3vk6n]

以前、お二人のランチだったか、その時の美しさといったら、なんと語彙をつくしてもいいあらわせません。いつも、感謝お言葉を述べられていらっしゃるとのこと、感動いたしました、なかなかいらしゃいませんよ。 皆様でよくはなしあって、ベストであること、 素晴らしいご判断だと思いました。おじい様が穏やかで明るい日々をすごされますことを願っています。

[@suu-kanda]

曾孫さんのさよなら👋👋👋が温かみのあるものでジーンとしました。お祖母様はお寂しいでしょうね！

[@Cloudwhitec]

Hope grandpa settles in well and make new friends. Do pop by more often to see ur granny then, m sure she will enjoy ur companionship. Once again, love the way u shoot and curate ur video.

[@komattana-0711]

素晴らしいご家族。おじいさまも素敵な方ですね。動画から優しい時間が流れているのを感じます。いつも素敵な動画を拝見させて頂いて、私の日々の彩りになっています。

[@takosh1982]

はじめまして。最近は北国の暮らしを視聴しながら心穏やかに床に着くのが日課です。私も北海道出身です。６年前高齢の両親（当時父８８、母８３）を関東へ連れて来ました。高齢者二人の雪国の生活は冬が過酷で雪かきに難儀しました。関東に連れてきてからは毎年春には桜の木の下で写真を撮っていたことを思い出しました。いつも素敵な動画をありがとうござします。字幕が読みやすく助かります。皆様健やかに。

[@linellemercado4796]

This had me in tears. I hope to have your grandfather’s spirit once I reach old age. Thank you for sharing!

[@veroniquedominguez4491]

Bonjour Kuro, courage pour votre grand père qui a alzeirmer. Heureusement toute votre famille s'en occupe bien. 👍❤️Bon week-end à tous 😘

[@user-rw5lc9zr3i]

Спасибо за такое трогательное видео...Здоровая всей вашей семье!

[@Julia_Omsk55]

Спасибо за душевное видео. Грустно... Но это жизнь. Пусть у вашей семьи будет всё хорошо! 🌼🍀🌼🍀🌼🍀🌼

[@Iraiksa]

Храни Бог Вашу семью!Спасибо за такое личное,тёплое и нежное видео.

[@rociofreire580]

You have a beautiful family ❤😊

[@darinaivanova6637]

Много мило и трогателно, това е живота! Вие сте прекрасно семейство.

[@IM6AM]

Thank you for sharing with us your beautiful and loving family!

[@lizzatbeket2072]

Мне немного грустно! Так трогательно, что Ваш дедушка благодарит за все. Желаю Вашей семье мира и счастья❤

[@annaflasarova5307]

Zdravim Kuro. Děkuji, že díky vám můžu sledovat pestrost kultury vaší nádherné země. Přeji hodně štěstí vaší rodině.Anna z České republiky 🇨🇿. Chápu, že jste smutní, že musel jít dědeček do pečovatelského domů,ale udělali jste to nejlepší co jste mohli.❤ Vím o čem píši.Starám se o lidi se stařeckou demencí. Hodně štěstí a sil.

[@rosannashe6313]

I really enjoy your beautiful videos. Im so happy I found this channel

[@noemirivera3596]

You’re a very loving family. So your grandparents are going to be ok. God bless you all.❤️🙏🏻

[@elenaiogi2574]

Espero que tu abuelo este feliz en el hogar de ancianos y no se encuentre solo.😢

[@isabelasensioandres]

Very important video and truly emotive. Thank you so much for sharing with that neutral vision.. It is difficult but we need to attend and understand all positions, each time has its own handicap. It is not an easy moment, but you all will be okay. Gratitude. You are very unique and sincere 🙏 Hugs to your mother and grandma'

[@maggielaperla9725]

No es fácil dejar ir a los que amamos , pero también veamos su bien aún con dolor por la lejanía , bienestar y paz para tu abuelo y familia ,sean felices por favor saludos🇲🇽

[@taratolmach]

Грустное, но теплое и душевное видео. У вас крепкие семейные узы.

[@gulyagulya1158]

Какие вы молодцы заботитесь о дедушке и бабушке, успехов вам всем!!!

[@italianlifestyle7911]

Splendid scenery.. hopefully I'll get to be old and live in such a picturesque place🌄

[@user-gp4sf5ir3q]

Здравствуйте Куро! … Как трогательно и нежно ! Спасибо, что показываете и рассказываете ! Ваша семья и традиции это такой пример , что хочется чтобы у нас так было!

[@MR-gl9nj]

I congratulate you for your warm and kind family❤❤

[@Ane-kh3yp]

What a thoughtful and very loving video. Thank you for sharing.

[@user-sb5oh6dt6k]

Здоровья вам, мира в душе и благополучия во всём! Дедушка замечательный!

[@Mamo-rv6gf]

Quanta tenerezza in questo video, mi sono commossa, che bello vedere una famiglia così unita ed amorevole❤

[@jessywilliam8117]

A poignant episode. Your grandfather is blessed to have a loving family. Best wishes from Malaysia 🇲🇾

[@marilira3748]

Muchas gracias Kuro por compartirnos este momento tan íntimo de tu familia;deseo pronto regrese tu abuelo a casa ❤

[@user-vn8to8ix8p]

우리는 오래동안 익숙한 공간, 물건, 사람들과 언젠가는 이별을 합니다, 마음이 아프지만 받아들여야 하지요 가족들의 결정을 존중하고 할머니와 할아버지께 위로를 전합니다

[@julianaramirez987]

Blessings to your beautiful family😍

[@mcfarley6528]

Very loving family. I know this was a tough decision. Glad you live close so can visit often.

[@jennil7797]

This is a difficult time for a family. It happened to us last December when my mother was admitted to a care home after two months in hospital. She was already one hundred years old and, try as we might, we could not save her from repeatedly falling. She has settled in to her new home now and enjoys being with her new friends. Wishing your family, and your Grandfather in particular, peace and hapiness.

[@christinechu6306]

溫馨又感人的影片，謝謝你！ Best regards to your grandpa & grandma😊

[@emiemii7683]

Yaşlı’larımız başımızın tacı ❤️🇹🇷

[@mariagabrielarochaanguiano637]

Espero que tus abuelitos estén bien y que pronto vuelvan a reunirse

[@user-mr4hz1sx7i]

어제부터 구독후 올리신 영상을 하루만에 다 보았습니다 아득한 그리움과 더불어 부러움도 듭니다 할아버님께서 빨리 건강해지시길 바랍니다 훗카이도의 설국 구경도 영상으로나마 실컷 하게 해주셔서 감사합니다 ^^ 가보고싶어지는군요 훗카이도..^^

[@fairmelody2626]

涙が出ました 素敵なおじいちゃま 私の母も認知症でした やはり施設にお世話になり とても親切にして頂き いつもニコニコ人気者だと 教えて頂きました 気質は変わらないと私も思いました 素敵なおじいちゃま　おばあちゃま どうか長生きなさって下さい

[@brianduffy1338]

So touching. Life and the passing of time - heartbreaking and loving and beautiful.

[@asmaafaouzi7526]

A lot of love for you and for your grand parents and for all nice family from Casablanca ❤❤❤❤

[@user-yg9lg5gd1y]

Нам до такого уровня, как до Луны по-пластунски... Хоть посмотреть на счастливую жизнь обычных людей....

[@sumaiyaislam5975]

omg im crying, this was so sweet seeing the love you have for each other in your family. The captions were beautiful. Hope everyone can continue to live happy and well. Thank you for sharing

[@user-rs5ue1rf2i]

영상속 당신의 가족은 긴듯 짧은듯한 인생앞에 감사하는 겸손한 마음을 갖게 만듭니다 어느 민족 어느 나라이든지 우리모두 같은 인생의 길을 걷는 순례자인것 같습니다. 고맙습니다

[@soopjak2022]

가족이 다 함께 살아 가는 축복이 있어 감사 드립니다. 할아머지도 건강한 모습으로 자주 뵐 쉬 있기를 기원 합니다. 아름다운 곳에서 아름다운 가족의 삶을 응원 합니다... 모두 건강하세요🌼🌼🌸🌸👍👍

[@esmeraldastanzione6799]

Un abbraccio Alla nonna e la bellissima famiglia 🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬

[@mariellapellizzari8613]

È così bello vedere tanta serenità e amore in un mondo che sembra aver perso tutti i valori. Grazie 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@sherrymiller4069]

My heart goes out to you and your family.

[@user-im9ru1gy3k]

이번 동영상은 너무 슬프다. 나이가 들어 건강하게 살다가 죽는것이 참으로 복이로구나. 저렇게 생이별은 너무 슬프다.

[@user-zv4kr5lx2p]

할아버지가 건강이 회복되어 갸족들과 다시 함께 지낼수 있기를 기원합니다

[@alohaleiyoshida2508]

I am watching from America in Portland Oregon…thank you for sharing…you have an beautiful family.

[@xiomaraodreman5078]

Saludos Kuro 🙏.. "familias cariñosas" ..e allí el pilar de una familia bien constituida!!.. donde los avatares de la vida no la pueden hacer derribar, sino todo lo contrario se Fortalece🌹.. Lindo video, muy conmovedor, pero esperanzador!

[@sawsanal-rawas4224]

أنها الحياة شكرًا لكل عائلتك تنقل لنا الحب و الترابط الاجتماعي الرائع لديكم مع التمنيات بالنجاح والتوفيق 🙏🏻

[@mailap5064]

Kuro, è incredibile la delicatezza con cui hai raccontato l'entrata in casa di riposo di tuo nonno. 🥰

[@Lucianacv1]

Que triste! Mas é o melhor a se fazer, ele estará bem cuidado, isso q importa é vocês estarão sempre presentes!

[@liksaliksa4640]

Здоровья им обоим. Деду найти там новых друзей, новые занятия, оздоровиться и вернуться домой! А бабушке не расслабляться! Она еще не все сфотографировала и нам не показала! Нам срочно необходимы сезонные выставки!

[@pascalepedron4645]

Magnifique vidéo Salutation à votre famille

[@annepicaud3556]

les enfants sont là, et la vie continue, comme un fleuve. C'est très beau, merci de nous partager ces moments de façon si pudique .❤

[@user-qx9yc5vl7f]

いつも一緒にいた家族が、家から離れるのはとても寂しいことでもありますね。私の母は、一か月の多くをショートステイで過ごしています。いつかは施設に入ることになると思います。父は95歳ですが、まだまだ体も頭もしっかりしているので、余計に寂しく感じる様です。私たちに「迷惑をかけるね」といいますが、私たち子ども三人は近くで暮らしていないので、日ごろ一人で暮らしています。私も高齢者になりましたが、父のことを思うと胸がいたくなります。この動画を見せていただいて、愛情に包まれているご家族で、とても温かく感じます。おばあ様も皆さんに守られて安心なことと思います。

[@raqueldecamargo425]

What loved family! ❤

[@ov2179]

Спасибо ,даже через экран чувствуется большая ваша любовь к дедушке и бабушке 💖

[@katerinan4048]

Почему-то видео из другой страны умиляет. А своих сограждан осуждают за то, что отдают больных стариков в дом престарелых..не всегда у семьи есть возможность бросить работу и находиться неотлучно при больном человеке

[@ov2179]

@@katerinan4048 я думаю это потому что если отдать стариков в дом престарелых в нашей стране это значит сразу на гибель ..никто ими заниматься нестанет,по 6 коек и более в одной комнате ,скудное питание, плохое медобслуживание и ожидание смерти ,вот удел брошенных стариков у нас в стране...и даже в таких интернатах не хватает мест...

[@user-ir2lr1sp6q]

​@@ov2179всё абсолютно не так, по крайней мере в тех домах, где мне приходилось бывать. Всё там было на высоте, но вы правы: лучше ухаживать за своими стариками дома, так как и они ухаживали за вами, когда вы были крошечными, немощными, и зависящими от других. Они ведь вас не бросили из-за того, что было трудно - не отдали вас даже в самый лучший детский дом.

[@agglaqivanova2727]

Благодаря ви,че споделите раздялата с дядо ви. Деменцията изисква да има винаги човек с дядо и да няма остри предмети. Поздрави от България Европа град Пловдив 🎉❤

[@zan1158]

Sweet. Tender. Beautiful. Universal for families in every nation, reminding us that we are all caring and united.

[@user-wl2co5ml8e]

할아버지가 건강하시기를 기원합니다

[@reginamariafrancafernandes8882]

I feel very sorry for you all, but mostly for your grandfather! Because I think no one would like to leave his house and his beloved ones, to stay in a clinic for the elderly. I understand that this it is very hard for the whole family, mainly for some of them, to take care of the old parents and granfparents. My father is 96 year old and I am 66. I am a neurologist and university professor in Brazil. My personal and professional lives have been very affected for taking care of my father, whose demential process is going faster in the past year. However, I do not have the courage to send him to a nursing home, unless he gets just restricted to a bed, dependent to specialized nurses to move around in bed, not able to eat by normal oral via, and completely unconscious of whom we are. So far, if we sent him to a nursing home, ee would take out from him all his referential points of life and love that he has at his home, during his very last moments in life. Anyway, good luck for you all in this hard decision. This video is pretty, delicate and also very sad! Namastê! 😢🙏🌷

[@lizen5240]

Beaucoup d’amour et de respect dans ta famille Kuro. Merci pour ta vidéo très touchante ❤🙏